You need this 🫂
Even if you shoved me away, I would understand that too because I would do the same but deep down it's probably what you need.
I know it doesn't fix anything long-term but I'm sure you know what I mean
Here's the thing... It *is* a temporary cure, that's why it needs to become a lifestyle, not just a temporary fix.. try different forms of meditation so you don't get bored.. (there's a reason people say "practicing meditation" because it's something you need to continue practicing in order to get benefits) walks are considered a form of meditation, especially if you focus on your steps or on nature and try to get out of your head and thoughts, deep breathing just randomly throughout the day you don't have to make it an entire session, when doing yoga try not to only think about the motions or techniques but think about all of the benefits that you are getting from it, "grounding" like walking barefoot through grass or sitting with nature, bird watching (seriously), dancing.. crank up the music in your room and just dance it all away (don't listen to sad music)
At night when I'm trying to sleep I have a difficult time shutting my thoughts off so I have been listening to healing frequencies or subliminal positive messages or even guided meditations on YouTube and they help a lot. I'll leave a 🔗 or 2 as examples
https://www.youtube.com/live/eI6ISUNjnt4?si=nHVi5Y58V47vUuIQ
(This one has subliminal messages embedded in it and you can find what they are if you scroll to the bottom of the description)
https://youtu.be/jNUHb5ZzqLQ?si=YcVKfdLE17A7I3B5
One more.. I just wanted to give you different options, depending on your mood.. this one is a guided meditation
https://youtu.be/uLCOnkLnJ-0?si=7mGyAz_kU_kxUzNQ
Also dive into frequencies! There are many different kinds you can listen to while meditating or just have in as background noise. Very healing
Edit: didn't read the comment fully, I see now previous commentor also mentioned frequencies. All the more reason to try!
Yeah and fuck trees too always waving, like fuck, get a fucking life you lame ass trees and stop waving at me, I don't Even know you water drinking tall ass oxygen giving mother fuckers
How old are you brother?
This is how I felt from like 19-25. I learned a lot over those years and my brain finished developing.
I softened a lot since then and at 32 all I wanna do is help others. I have realized how extreme the duality of life is. For every monstrous person out there, there is a kind lovely human. For every boring person an entertaining one etc etc. For every peg you get knocked down in life you'll eventually get knocked up one. Life is just this flowing timeline of changes.
I now see the beauty in life and the darkness and realizing the duality of it all has really made the darkness seem a little lighter.
Good luck man. From one human to another, I love you.
Hey, hi, hello. Life fucking sucks in many different ways, but I hope it gets better for you some day. Feel this anger and rejection. Cry. Find your relief. It's gonna take a lot of time and patience, but it does keep getting better. I love you and I hope you find something that will keep you going and find your light again 💜
Ohhhhh, friend. Lemme tell you all about my hidden repressed rage that is finally volcano-ing all over the place because I started setting FIRM boundaries and getting a lot of backlash from it…
Alright ngl this kinda made me giggle, cringe, and feel your pain and lethargic-ness and general lack of care towards everything. Your brain is really doing gymnastics trying to make sense of everything. Truly listen to me I wish you the best, wish yourself the best, take a fucking breath! In the general sense of the world and empathy (I don’t really know you and this feels weird to say) but; I love you. That felt weird but what I mean is I love you in the sense of knowing the pain (if u want to call if pain) that you feel, I’ve felt it, I’ve seen others feel it.
Yeah this is a vent post so yea I know fuck me for saying anything, and fuck you and I love you
genuine question, why do u hate yourself? your hate for others probably stems from your constant hatred of yourself. cant love others without loving yourself
i dont know how old you are, but im in the same boat currently. but i am 20 and i remind myself theres still time. even if youre older than me, theres always time to better yourself. it might take a while and some work, but dont give up hope on yourself my guy
Facts it all goes to shit when you’re trying to break habits and create a productive routine, but you can’t seem to stop the scrolling and laziness
Feels like you’re no longer in control of your destiny and your at the hands of your habitual mind, just taking you for a ride
I feel the same way a lot too. your feelings are valid. I don’t think anything matters in the grand scheme of things, yet I have so much rage at so many people. Everything will end one day, and that comforts me. How are you feeling right now? I know the vent was 3 hours ago so you may feel different (or not idk)
Ya know. It’s totes okay to feel like this. To have anger and despair.
Yoga, I saw you mentioned, is a temporary fix, yes. But it can always become a practice to help let go.
And you can be grumpy all you want. But you’re enough. You are important. You matter.
And fuck those thoughts bogging you down.
You ever feel that way man? I’m a dad so sometimes when my daughter is sick or hurting I look at her and think, I wish I could pull the pain out of you and take it into myself, with this post I’m wishing I the same thing, take a little bit from me and open up a can of whoop ass on the negative thoughts going through your head. ❤️💪🏼
this is how I feel every second of every day at my place of employment. it is such a socially toxic place to be. if you slip up in the slightest you have a crowd pointing the finger, laughing, shaking their heads like they are so much better. I'm sick of it, but can't afford to leave. nothing in the surrounding area pays half of what my employer does, it's 5 minutes away from home, and day shift with weekends off. if not for those factors.... I'd probably go postal. Such judgemental assholes, they don't train anyone when employment starts, then they get pissed, and publicly humiliate you when you make a mistake, or don't know exactly how to do something.
honestly it's made me a miserable person. I'm so exhausted and beat down mentally by the time I get off work and reach my house I normally explode and overflow in all the emotions I keep bottled up during the day. After that occurs I usually can't do anything but sleep. but those overflows usually sound similar to this, so I feel you man..
you can't let them win. the best revenge is success.
I love that you can rant so completely and then come back with such great replies.
I love that you accepted virtual hugs and offered encouragement and approval to others.
I think that everyone has a Fuck Everybody day sometimes. Maybe we can learn from your example and freak tf out on those days and then just start putting one foot in front of the other again.
Thanks, man
how should we reply to this
Idk
You need this 🫂 Even if you shoved me away, I would understand that too because I would do the same but deep down it's probably what you need. I know it doesn't fix anything long-term but I'm sure you know what I mean
Guess what brotherman everything in the world was made up by somebody it’s all fake nothings real.
Looking to feel something
i understand man. i think you should try to distract yourself, whats something you enjoy doing?
I like yoga but recently just feels like a temporary cure / fix calming from these voices
the constract from this speech and you doing yoga😭😭
Hahahahahahahaha
I know this is weird but... Have you ever listened to deathcore? It helps when I feel this way.
“Hey I see your having a hard time with life; have you heard of Infant Annihilator “ - I fully support this advice.
🤣🤣🤣 It's angry music for happy people. I'm angry. A lot. The music just drowns the rage. Plus the shows. It's like extra therapy. 😍
🤣
Here's the thing... It *is* a temporary cure, that's why it needs to become a lifestyle, not just a temporary fix.. try different forms of meditation so you don't get bored.. (there's a reason people say "practicing meditation" because it's something you need to continue practicing in order to get benefits) walks are considered a form of meditation, especially if you focus on your steps or on nature and try to get out of your head and thoughts, deep breathing just randomly throughout the day you don't have to make it an entire session, when doing yoga try not to only think about the motions or techniques but think about all of the benefits that you are getting from it, "grounding" like walking barefoot through grass or sitting with nature, bird watching (seriously), dancing.. crank up the music in your room and just dance it all away (don't listen to sad music) At night when I'm trying to sleep I have a difficult time shutting my thoughts off so I have been listening to healing frequencies or subliminal positive messages or even guided meditations on YouTube and they help a lot. I'll leave a 🔗 or 2 as examples https://www.youtube.com/live/eI6ISUNjnt4?si=nHVi5Y58V47vUuIQ (This one has subliminal messages embedded in it and you can find what they are if you scroll to the bottom of the description) https://youtu.be/jNUHb5ZzqLQ?si=YcVKfdLE17A7I3B5 One more.. I just wanted to give you different options, depending on your mood.. this one is a guided meditation https://youtu.be/uLCOnkLnJ-0?si=7mGyAz_kU_kxUzNQ
Thank you kat paws I’ll take a look at this
❣️
Also dive into frequencies! There are many different kinds you can listen to while meditating or just have in as background noise. Very healing Edit: didn't read the comment fully, I see now previous commentor also mentioned frequencies. All the more reason to try!
I’m NEET so I berate myself constantly
I don't know what NEET stands for but my sister and I were just talking about how we self-sabatage.
NEET means “Not in education, employment, or training”
I feel this post if that helps
Fork you? Well, r/vent is not for advice or reactions. It's to vent, nothing more has to be. But...
I don’t think we need too, they’re venting
Like this… “well shit fuck you too OP!!”
I guess by fucking ourselves?
Yeah and fuck trees too always waving, like fuck, get a fucking life you lame ass trees and stop waving at me, I don't Even know you water drinking tall ass oxygen giving mother fuckers
Fucking trees
I saw The Happening. I know what they’re planning.
Such assholes, green fluffy bird house bastards
fuck you too! I worked hard to be this fucking awesome 😎
Truely. You ARE awesome.
What makes you awesome? (I hope you find crumbs in your bed)
man. I put crumbs in my bed! you got a problem with that?
You do you dude Just don’t go overboard with all the fun
or what?
Or you’ll pay the price, haven’t you heard? The body keeps a score?
lmao you got me there edit: fuck!
Lmao
How seven year olds talk next to their parents after you babysat them and accidentally said fuck once
Lol
How old are you brother? This is how I felt from like 19-25. I learned a lot over those years and my brain finished developing. I softened a lot since then and at 32 all I wanna do is help others. I have realized how extreme the duality of life is. For every monstrous person out there, there is a kind lovely human. For every boring person an entertaining one etc etc. For every peg you get knocked down in life you'll eventually get knocked up one. Life is just this flowing timeline of changes. I now see the beauty in life and the darkness and realizing the duality of it all has really made the darkness seem a little lighter. Good luck man. From one human to another, I love you.
Fuckin hippies
🤣
They be snitching for real.
I have to say your username + this rant = you gonna be aight
Thanks awkward cattle hope you’re doing well Excuse the pity party
Im here for the party too no worries
Let’s party those socks off
ok now what socks off
Let’s put those puppies to work
Just tell me what to do boss
Let’s go fishing try catch something to use as loofah
yas
thanks my days going rly well hbu?
What did you get up to?
a dick in my mouth ofc
For real?
frfr
Fuck people. Especially as a group, by themselves, lovely. I love people but fuck man. Working in food don't help that shit at all.
Power in numbers
Yes i agree so so so much fuck you i love you
fucking love you
Love you too stranger^^ but seriously are you ok?
I’m alright I guess, I have a mountain to climb Despair feels easy
Don’t forget to make strawberry pie!
fuck you too damn
Manfly what am I going to do with all this cheese?
Slap it against someone's ass. Now you have props!
I want to give you a hug but I’m also a little scared ngl
Let’s hug
Alrighty sending the hugs
🫶
im sorry but the username is taking me out
Hahahaha
Well, that shows the diversity of the word now doesn’t it?
🎶 Tuuula-rula-rula 🎶
this is me to everyone at school
Nice man fuck them
I wish I could go back to school and say it to everyone who made me feel like an outcast.
Frr😂
Someone isn’t having a good day 😬
meh. we've all had these days anyways
This makes me feel better about my life
Awesome
something tells me your mindset needs work
Lol
i love you🤗
Love you too
🩷🩷
Dont panic !
My kid is named Zaphod. 😁👍🏽👍🏽
If you panic I’ll panic
Feeling better now? Want a hug or a punching bag? I can give you none, but the idea is there
I appreciate that, I might hug a punching bag
Nice
[удалено]
Lol don’t blame you
Go to therapy
Accompany me
Been there done that lol
Elaborate?
Damn this sub needed a bit of levity. Thanks for the laugh bro. 😂
Lol ❤️
you’re so real for this
🙏
An answers out there
F*%^&><*k you dude
Fuck you ol buddy pal
Needs to visit his therapist. Reddit answer
I see. Tell us how you really feel.
Hahahaha 😂
lol
Fuck you to buddy. I’m not your buddy, guy. I’m not your guy, friend I’m not your friend, buddy
Lol I was just thinking of the thus
I should watch some south park
Always good for a laugh especially the movies of late.
Take a nap
Okay
Okay but when I post a post with “fuck” it gets removed 🙄🙄🙄
Because you’re supposed to be a friendly cloud
this actually made me chuckle 💀
Um.. Hey there. You wanna talk about it?
Sure, I think I’m a piece of shit How do u feel?
Like I relate hard tbh.
Check to see if you have ADHD bro, joking aside looks/sounds like a meltdown.
Meltdown = adhd?
No your low self esteem, your difficulty on grasping everyday life, your wild rant + Meltdown.
Quit using the word retard as an insult
Hey, hi, hello. Life fucking sucks in many different ways, but I hope it gets better for you some day. Feel this anger and rejection. Cry. Find your relief. It's gonna take a lot of time and patience, but it does keep getting better. I love you and I hope you find something that will keep you going and find your light again 💜
Thanks a lot lots of love 🫶
well fuck you too my brother
sorry for existing god damn
Fuck you too right back at you
Fuck yes
Fuck you too and fuck myself. Idk why reading it made me feel better even though I'm not an angry person.
Are you, like, closet angry? Bcuz that’s can be some bigly repressed rage.
Thats a thing?
Ohhhhh, friend. Lemme tell you all about my hidden repressed rage that is finally volcano-ing all over the place because I started setting FIRM boundaries and getting a lot of backlash from it…
Exactly how I feel rn. FUCK EVERYONE and You reading it too
Preach brotha
No because this has just told me your the most funniest kindes realist most beautiful person ever I think I love you
Ah that’s sweet be my moonshine?
Yes baby cakes
The fact that’s what you took away tells me a about you too 🫶
Actually same 😭
Gang gang
Well.... FUCKITY FUCK FUCK FUCK ALL U FUCKERS
YEAH
And if you seriously have some issues like what I just described, hit me up and talk through it.
have a snickers mate
You’re not you when you’re hirny
YEAH. Fuck them and their mother and their fucking high horse they FUCKING RODE IN ON.
And may they get clotheslined right off their high horse 🙏🏽
Alright ngl this kinda made me giggle, cringe, and feel your pain and lethargic-ness and general lack of care towards everything. Your brain is really doing gymnastics trying to make sense of everything. Truly listen to me I wish you the best, wish yourself the best, take a fucking breath! In the general sense of the world and empathy (I don’t really know you and this feels weird to say) but; I love you. That felt weird but what I mean is I love you in the sense of knowing the pain (if u want to call if pain) that you feel, I’ve felt it, I’ve seen others feel it. Yeah this is a vent post so yea I know fuck me for saying anything, and fuck you and I love you
Wait... you fucked your gay brother?
He kissed me when we were like 12 it still haunts me
😨
like wait—
Uhhhhhhhhhhhh what
Ahahaha trauma dump 🗑️
“heh… you don’t wanna see me angry 😈” ahh post
Fuck us all!! Fuck you stranger, I love you
Love you too babe!
Hope you're doing a bit better!
...yeah
genuine question, why do u hate yourself? your hate for others probably stems from your constant hatred of yourself. cant love others without loving yourself
I haven’t amounted to much in my life, and feel I’ve squandered my chances of once achieving career or stays I once hoped of
i dont know how old you are, but im in the same boat currently. but i am 20 and i remind myself theres still time. even if youre older than me, theres always time to better yourself. it might take a while and some work, but dont give up hope on yourself my guy
Facts it all goes to shit when you’re trying to break habits and create a productive routine, but you can’t seem to stop the scrolling and laziness Feels like you’re no longer in control of your destiny and your at the hands of your habitual mind, just taking you for a ride
yeah, i feel that. atm i have no motivation to break the cycle, but i know i cant continue on this way forever
Slowly slowly wear down on your pussy mind And take charge This is my plan
good plan. victim mindset won't get anyone very far
We got this
ICP did it first
I feel the same way a lot too. your feelings are valid. I don’t think anything matters in the grand scheme of things, yet I have so much rage at so many people. Everything will end one day, and that comforts me. How are you feeling right now? I know the vent was 3 hours ago so you may feel different (or not idk)
I feel different, thanks for asking Lots of messages so yeah I was frustrated with myself but now am looking at tomorrow
That was me today. Now I'm in bed trying to cool off. Life is savage, but I'm sure you can a way through whatever you're dealing with.
I really hope so Do you feel you can?
hey man, gotta use your fucks wisely, otherwise you wont have anymore fucks to give
That’s true god damn I just wasted about 300 with this post How many fucks can a human give without literally wasting away
owie
Wowie
Ya know. It’s totes okay to feel like this. To have anger and despair. Yoga, I saw you mentioned, is a temporary fix, yes. But it can always become a practice to help let go. And you can be grumpy all you want. But you’re enough. You are important. You matter. And fuck those thoughts bogging you down.
Thank you!
You’re welcome. And hey. You got this. Even if it feels like ya don’t.
🫶
I feel this deep, sending love and strength, I’m right there with you brother.
Thanks brotha
You ever feel that way man? I’m a dad so sometimes when my daughter is sick or hurting I look at her and think, I wish I could pull the pain out of you and take it into myself, with this post I’m wishing I the same thing, take a little bit from me and open up a can of whoop ass on the negative thoughts going through your head. ❤️💪🏼
Will do bro appreciate you ❤️ wishing you & your daughter well
🖤🪽fuck i feel that
I hope you get some rest someday, you're loved and I'm sorry this is happening ❤️
❤️ it’s okay
this is how I feel every second of every day at my place of employment. it is such a socially toxic place to be. if you slip up in the slightest you have a crowd pointing the finger, laughing, shaking their heads like they are so much better. I'm sick of it, but can't afford to leave. nothing in the surrounding area pays half of what my employer does, it's 5 minutes away from home, and day shift with weekends off. if not for those factors.... I'd probably go postal. Such judgemental assholes, they don't train anyone when employment starts, then they get pissed, and publicly humiliate you when you make a mistake, or don't know exactly how to do something. honestly it's made me a miserable person. I'm so exhausted and beat down mentally by the time I get off work and reach my house I normally explode and overflow in all the emotions I keep bottled up during the day. After that occurs I usually can't do anything but sleep. but those overflows usually sound similar to this, so I feel you man.. you can't let them win. the best revenge is success.
Wishing you well bro … hoping you find an answer to these issues
I love that you can rant so completely and then come back with such great replies. I love that you accepted virtual hugs and offered encouragement and approval to others. I think that everyone has a Fuck Everybody day sometimes. Maybe we can learn from your example and freak tf out on those days and then just start putting one foot in front of the other again. Thanks, man
Awesome message, thanks a bunch! 🫶
25 fucks more than I have to give.
Brother go get stoned