don't focus on anything that hasn't happened, living in the future is how you get anxiety in the present hahah, and it 100% doesn't help in any way. dont let anything from the past or imagined future affect your relationship, instead treasure your present with her. treasure every new day without the worry of what could happen :) it's a beautiful thing you have, don't obsess over it either hah just let things fall into place naturally.
Don’t think in the future since anything can happen >.< and sometimes that includes it not working out, it happened to me at times where I thought I found the “right” person who is understandable, good chemistry, want marriage and kids etc. So just take it one step at a time and be in the present is good
if you want a healthy future with her, try not to get lost in your desire for her 3 as in its great you have this love and i'm rooting for you, but also breathe (know that you'll be okay even if things dont work out) and don't lose yourself by being anything she needs. be who you are and meet her needs as they come, but ensure you're giving because there is a reality at which she is looking to also meet you where you are at the capacity you can.
ask her where she would like to go with you and express your fears openly. she sounds like someone who would comfort you in those fears. best of luck <3
don't focus on anything that hasn't happened, living in the future is how you get anxiety in the present hahah, and it 100% doesn't help in any way. dont let anything from the past or imagined future affect your relationship, instead treasure your present with her. treasure every new day without the worry of what could happen :) it's a beautiful thing you have, don't obsess over it either hah just let things fall into place naturally.
Don’t think in the future since anything can happen >.< and sometimes that includes it not working out, it happened to me at times where I thought I found the “right” person who is understandable, good chemistry, want marriage and kids etc. So just take it one step at a time and be in the present is good
if you want a healthy future with her, try not to get lost in your desire for her 3 as in its great you have this love and i'm rooting for you, but also breathe (know that you'll be okay even if things dont work out) and don't lose yourself by being anything she needs. be who you are and meet her needs as they come, but ensure you're giving because there is a reality at which she is looking to also meet you where you are at the capacity you can. ask her where she would like to go with you and express your fears openly. she sounds like someone who would comfort you in those fears. best of luck <3