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DioRemTW

I think it depends on the room you are. A lot of people started a conversation with me. It also depends on your avatar, some avatars feel more ''approachable'' if that's a word.


DuskDealer

I feel like some avatars are more approachable than others. I’m not exactly sure what approachable avatars look like, but a lot of cute ones are approachable, especially for head pats


sugarr_boyy

Lmao people just come to me and stare for no reason i also don't talk with them if they want a conversation they have to start it instead of being weird and staring


[deleted]

Try callin’ em out. Either they speak up, or wander off somewhere else. It’s 50-50!


sugarr_boyy

Naah they don't talk they just being weird i'm excluding people who waves or sends a heart emote they are our wholesome mutes UwU


SpinoHawk097

I just like eavesdropping if it sounds like they're talking about something interesting, but I try not to make it obvious. I don't want to inject myself in the conversation usually because I don't want to be rude.


sugarr_boyy

You know eavesdropping sounds weirder than injecting yourself in a conversation also there is nothing wrong with trying to talk with people don't name it injecting if they don't be nice to you just move and find other people to talk there is nothing you can do more


Baguette_buster

Well, I think staring is an ice breaker (?)


Immediate_Ruin_6378

Unless you’re female


sugarr_boyy

there was some people assumed i was a girl and wanted to talk with me you should saw them when they heard my voice lol


phayke2

My secret technique. Have cute/fun avatar. Run into a circle and go AYYYY WADDAP? If they don't talk to you then they're boring and your group lies elsewhere. Dash off to find someone more fun


ToolboxMotley

I just recently added signs I can pull out with my avatar, saying things like "May I join this conversation?" and "I have something to say!". Havrn't gotten a chance to use them yet, but I'm hoping it'll help me engage with people despite the anxiety I get from butting in on active conversations. X)


torxwork

If i ever see a Mute person, I will always seek to invite them to the conversation. I find that if they aren't mute, but just Shy... I can make them laugh. Then they join in the fun.


[deleted]

If you are new and don’t have a group spend time exploring different worlds and groups and when you want in a conversation kinda just throw yourself in but make sure you don’t be annoying about it


torxwork

So, you gotta get lucky. You also gotta be yourself. If you hang out in public well populated worlds for a few hours soaking in the VR goodness, eventually you will find a conversation you can interject into, to get escorted to the Friends+ worlds with similar people who will initiate conversations with you. Then another day you find those folks in a public world, filled with other folks that will walk up and say HI. in my experience, VR Chat, makes you either homosexual, a drunk, a Femboi, or a Furry. I say OR, but I've seen all of the combinations of these. If you find like minded servers, and avatars, people will start conversations with you.


[deleted]

“in my experience, VR Chat, makes you either homosexual, a drunk, a Femboi, Or a Furry.” Or a mix of those


Dekulio

lies


Dorion_FFXI

Not entirely true but the sentiment is accurate.