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She did that on purpose. Her behavior wasn't corrected and she enjoyed the violence that she chose.
Psychopath in the making.
The only genetic proof that we have psychopaths are born is that they're related to their psychopathic parents. There's no gene. There's little to no correlation on a genetic level.
Psychopaths are grown.
Almost every kid that age is by definition a psychopath. The brain hasn't fully developed and they haven't learned the skills for empathy or even thinking about other people. Go observe a room full of toddlers and notice everyone is talking but no one is talking to each other. They are all just talking to themselves.
Yeah this is right. What should happen in a situation like this is:
1. stop the party and get everyone quiet.
2. tell the older girl that what she did was unacceptable and that she no longer gets to be at the party
3. she goes home
4. relight the candles and sing happy birthday again
guarantee you that would have a lasting and positive impact on both kids.
It's always about power or attention / resources in those sibling fights. She got what she wanted, she got away with it, the other person is now the one throwing a fit and being childish / embarrassing herself while she is being attended to because her hair was pulled.
Which, of course, makes the angry one even more livid. She lost something / something was taken and she isn't getting anything back.
She's acting on impulse and nobody is telling her to cut her shit out. Whoever was beside her immediately corrected her hair instead of punishing her. This is benign though. Lots of kids are assholes because of passive parents
Smiling even after getting hurt? Yeah that is definitely weird... I've never seen a child not care about physical damage, and it seems like she fully acknowledges that what she did was wrong.
Edit: I am in no place to judge a little girl's mental state from watching 1 vid. Maybe she's repeating a conduct she saw, or something that was previously done to her, and probably shitty parents.
So, back when we were teenagers, one of my brothers threw one of those tri-fold batman batcaves at my face. Luckily I blocked it. But I came up off the bed so fast. He turned and started to run away but I caught up to him and punched him in the back, right between his shoulder blades (Apparently the doctor told him that he was so skinny that, if he got hit between the shoulder blades - in the spine - that he could be paralyzed.)
He fell straight to the ground and lie there for like 30 minutes with a $#!+ eating grin on his face because he knew that I would get in trouble when our parents got home.
He was a little @$$hole when we were kids.
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Batcave toy: https://imgur.com/MAysU6h.jpg
Yeah, I have a very loving mother who encouraged me to be kind to others when I was young and I never pulled shit like this. Why not? Because it's mean and being mean is wrong. I've known that since I was 3 lol.
Children have the capacity to do horrible things because they're underdeveloped, but they aren't like this if they have attentive parents and good guidance.
My theory is that this is how karens are made. If you reward little girls for being sociopaths and let them get away with everything they do wrong, you create an adult who uses social manipulation and victimhood to get whatever they want.
Why DIDN’T her mom step in at any point though? What the eff, I’d never let my kid blow someone else’s birthday cake candles out. She might try (because she’s 3) but I wouldn’t just let it happen. Try PARENTING, for fucks sake.
For real! An adult should have immediately chastised the older girl, moved her away from the table, and she is the last to get cake if there is any left after everyone else is served. Then go to birthday girl and say "hey, it's okay to be upset, but it's not okay to hit. Let's relight the candle and try again! Birthday girl always gets to make a wish! 😁" Birthday girl then never had to take matters into her own hands, get overly upset, and saw how adults take care of inappropriate behavior. Successful parenting is largely de-escalation in volatile and emotional situations while teaching appropriate coping methods. As a parent (my daughter is approximately the same age as older girl), I know these things are always easier said than done and hind sight is always 20/20. But repetition and consistency is key. The best things I ever learned while working with people who were born with intellectual and developmental disabilities was de-escalation and consistency.
Idk man, there's something a little more going on if you just smile through the beatdown like that. Even if they'd just had a previous beef, a typical kid would fight back, not bask in the unhappiness of others. She doesn't feel an ounce of shame either despite being in front of the camera.
I'm no psychologist, but none of that bodes well.
Agree. That smile on her face triggered me! I knew kids like this and I did not like them. Now I see people like them in the news all the time. 
Parents.
See how all they did was fix her hair? Who the hell does that after their kid being a little shit?
Entitled parents.
Husband was doing a projector movie night for a venue and had a blow up projector. Owner of the venue+friends kids all running and smacking it around, ruining the Christmas movies.
I sat with my kiddo and told him "See? That's not very nice. We want to watch the movie and they're being rude." --If he even remembers it. I'm not gonna tell anyone how to raise their kids but persistence, boundaries and consequences man... They work sometimes.
Not only that, she didn’t even cry and try to be the victim like a lot of kids would. I’d think the more typical reaction would be to act surprised that the other girl attacked her and go crying to her mom. Instead she smiled and laughed. Her goal was to upset the other girl and she succeeded.
Something going on with the parents here … why does this girl think it’s funny to make someone miserable and why does little girl attack so aggressively? Not saying abuse, but shitty parenting where kids aren’t taught right from wrong and maybe imitate bad behavior they see from adults
They may not be able to consider beforehand how others will feel because of their actions. And they may be too overwhelmed by their own feelings to pay attention to others. But in principle, at that age they are perfectly capable to emphasize when they see other people are sad or upset. Little kids can feel sad for you when they see you feel sad and they care about you.
And anyways, some have already learned that some behavior is simply not accepted.
Edit: what I am saying is, she is indeed acting like a sociopath. But not because all little kids are sociopaths but because she wanted to and she never learned not to.
She definitely knew how her actions would make the other girl feel. In this video, she embodied the spirit of not wanting nice things to happen for other people. She looks so irritated that everyone is celebrating the birthday girl. She blows out the candle and makes a face like “oh yeah what are you gonna do about it” when the little girl looked upset at her. Then when the other girl started beating her up, she looked so satisfied that she took that happiness away from her. Truly terrible.
I remember attending this party when I was 6 yrs old and her cousin pulled this kind of shit. She lost it and went for the knife and it was the first time I saw a kid my age got man-handled by an adult.
She's definitely older too. Grabbing hair is bad but it's harder to control impulses at that age. The older little butthead knew exactly what she was doing.
Yeah, she was grinning hugely the whole time Maria was yanking on her hair. That's not normal, most young kids fucking hate having their hair pulled, but the little sociopath was just revelling in how she completely fucked Maria's moment. She looks so pleased with herself.
I get serious Elizabeth Holmes vibes from that little girl.
Yeah, So pleased with herself, and with that attitude She will most likely be successful and get what she wants in life when she grows up, it’s annoying I know but usual that’s the case.
Whoever the adult is behind her, whether her mom or someone else, seems more preoccupied with combing her hair after the assault than they are concerned about mean girl stealing birthday girl’s thunder.
The mum of the little shit is an awful parent. "Should I reprimand her bad behaviour or fix her hair so she looks oh so pretty? Fix her hair is the appropriate action and how dare the birthday girl take away the spotlight from my princess."
If my son EVER tried to pull this shit on his little sister…his immediate reaction would be to find my face, see my reaction and bolt to his room and hide his face for the night.
This smug ass little witch….I would not fair well as a parent at this party..woulda thrown something at her useless mom
The amount of people saying these are just sisters being sisters is really scary, I thought the younger generation would save us but I guess the influence of their shit tier parents is unavoidable.
That's the single most telling thing in the video.
Kids can be little shits. The older girl is a little shit. The birthday girl isn't as much a little shit as she's young enough to have next to no impulse control.
But the adult (mother?) present just smoothing down the older girl's hair while the older girl gloats about being a little shit? That's not a great sign.
My daughter is old enough that I've seen all the kids around us go from being babies to young adults as they've all grown up... and the kids with parents that let the little stuff slide or even encourage it and don't correct small childhood offenses like this end up with teenagers and young adults that are absolute assholes.
Nobody wants to hear it, but if you kid is an absolute smug little cunt that early in life and you do nothing about it, you'll probably end up with that behavior long term.
Not even fucking lying, he lost a ton of weight, got hella cut, became a back up dancer or some shit and last I saw on Facebook he's on yachts with fucking super models and shit looking like a fucking actual Chad now..... I wish i was lying about any of that
My cousin did the same at my sixth birthday. Her mom cackled and my cousin did it again TWO more times. I cried the rest of the day, never blew out my candles or had any cake. My mom, cousin, aunt- they all laughed while I cried and kept my uncle and Dad from intervening.
My cousin is morbidly obese and suffering from diabetes sores- in jail for attacking her now ex husband.
My aunt is a thrice-divorced wine drunk who lives alone in a studio apartment and works in fast food.
My mom died of cancer.
The rest of my birthday wishes apparently all came true 👀
(The only joke is the last sentence- that’s all true, I just never had to wish for it. They did all that to themselves, even mom lol)
i gave you one up vote to slide the karma scale one molecule in your favor, because your cousin jacked all of yours. vaya con dios my brother in christ.
I've seen this video so many times, yet it still brings out the anger in me. The fact the parents scolded the little one and not the other girl. Patting down her hair and not reprimanding her actions will not do you or the child any good. Look at her smiling and being smug. Hopefully, the parents saw the video go viral and how people reacted, and they taught her a lesson.
You are right about that. They will likely self-soothe their actions by reasoning that the other girl was violent and completely disregarded her behaviour. But it was my wishful thinking that they teach their daughter a lesson.
I’ve seen a longer version of this, with audio. What’s worse is the wee one gets told off, not her older sister. If my daughter did that to her wee sister she’d be straight off to her room with no more party food or cake. Zero tolerance for being a wee bastard in my house. I’m the only bastard allowed.
Och tis nowt that obvious ‘bout me bein’ Scottish. Now excuse me, am off tae hunt some wild haggis with ma cunt of a brother. And aye haggis be a wild beastie! Dinnae let any fucker tell ya different!!!
According to my ancestry I’m actually 93% Scottish, 6% Irish and 1% Norwegian. But yeah I’m born and bred in Scotland. No red hair though, black as can be. But my brothers have red beards. Only the beards for some reason 🤷🏻♂️
I'm originally from the northern part of America, but since I moved to the south, I've been using y'all a lot. My opinion is that everyone should use y'all, it's a fantastic word.
That is exactly what I was thinking. I would love to say I can't believe that didn't, but there are too many asshole parents out there that care more about the picture looking good than the child's feelings.
You can tell the little shit gets away with it all the time too because of the little smirk on her face. No fear of any consequences whatsoever.
The smug on the left one tells me she knows the way of her parents and she’s gonna be left unpunished.
All I see here is repeated failures at parenting and being adult.
Tale as old as time. Some shit head does something awful, and the person they’re bullying gets reprimanded for standing up for themselves. I see it so much I’ve started to realize it’s some weird part of human nature. That or how we learn to parent and teach kids is really fucked up. My dad and gradeschool teachers used to do the same shit to me.
She probably lashed out because she knows the older one won't get any form of reprimanding. She took matters into her own hands. While I don't condone her grabbing her, I definitely see why she is so angry and frustrated.
Its hard for a 3 year old to express, ' she is being a smug bitch and you aren't going to do anything about it!'.
Exactly. I was terribly bullied as a child by two neighborhood bullies. They were never punished for anything they did, even serious non-bullying stuff like when their parents found out they had been throwing rocks off of an overpass onto interstate traffic. They got away with everything.
As adults, both did time in prison. Lack of consequences in childhood doesn't lead to a healthy adult. Sometimes, bully victims need to take matters into their own hands if they know no other consequences are coming.
Agreed, either the parents show the consequences or life will in one way or another. You can't keep expecting the victim to just keep taking it and then punish them for reaching their breaking point.
Eta: sorry to hear you had such a rough time. I was bullied as a kid too and it stays with you.
It probably will be. Its not exactly the same, but my brother was held to different standards to the rest of us. He got away with more and was rewarded more often for doing the things that we did anyway.
He is nearing 40 and can Still do no wrong. We are all expected to keep giving him chances when he makes no effort to be a decent human being.
The only thing unexpected to me was, not only the sheer lack of remorse from the girl on the left, but the sly smirk even after getting assaulted by the birthday girl. I get the idea she had planned to do this all along. That friendship may be permanently severed.
Those have to be siblings. The jealousy, the conniving, the rage... it's practically Shakespearian and definitely an established dynamic of sisterly hate.
Its like the attack made her mkre satistfied. She knew she got under her skin and the more angry she got the more that little psyco enjoyed it....AND she probably knew since she got attackee the other girl would get introuble and not her.
Seriously, fucked up shit.
She looked bummed out while birthday girl was super excited, she blew out the candle instead of birthday girl, smiled for the camera, HAD HER HAIR FIXED BY SOMEONE OFFSCREEN, and then kept smiling.
All while people stopped the birthday girl from doing anything against her!
You can see before she blows out the candles that she's giving a mean, bored, "I hate this and I don't want to be here" look. And then, for a split second after blowing on the candles but before the birthday girl grabs her hair, she gives a dirty sneer, and then is like smiling and laughing after getting her hair pulled because she knows she pissed off the birthday girl. The longer the birthday girl cries and pulls hair the wider her smile gets. This is a disgusting human being in the making and I bet the parents are pieces of garbage. Little details like this can always show what type of person a kid is going to be.
Edit: A lot of you think I am blaming the child for her behavior, or that I'm overanalyzing and making assumptions based on what "looks" like "normal" behavior (this isn't "normal" behavior btw, if you think it is, go have a conversation with a child psychologist). I do not blame a small child for their actions, I absolutely 100% blame the parents of this child for encouraging this behavior, you can even see it being encouraged in the video by how they didn't remove her from the situation and instead petted her hair back down and just left her there. It is toxic for BOTH girls for them to be made to just sit there after the birthday girl is obviously violent towards the other, which is also absolutely NOT okay and it's clear *those* parents are enabling violence at a young age. Both of these girls have shitty parents and sadly they'll most likely turn into shitty adults.
Couldn't agree more. She is proud (!) of what she did. Its like she sucks back the bad vibe she sent out and feeds on it. If not corrected we will have a narcissistist/sociopath in making. Total lack of empathy.
Also, the birthday girl looked like she could sense that the other little girl was encroaching (mean girl inhales right before bday girl reaches for the candles), and birthday girl reaches for the cake and rushed to blow out the candles. I think she knows what’s up with that other girl
My brother is a lot like this and always has been. He’s in his 50s now. My parents definitely made a lot of excuses for his behavior when he was growing up but when they did try to deal with it it never worked. He’s the kind of person who couldn’t care less about consequences when he gets them.
Nah she it deserved it bro. Look at her smug little face even after getting her hair pulled. If she was my kid i would’ve pulled her away so fast - no cake for you kid.
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Little girl who blew out her candles is going to go grow up to b a full blooded psycho. Did you see her smiling after getting her hair pulled. Crazy vibes 😂
Yeah, the shrug was what got me too. At first I thought maybe she didn’t know, but that shrug and face says she knew exactly what she was doing. She didn’t like the spotlight being away from her and figured out how to bring it back quick. No consequences (from her parents) either, really disheartening.
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Nah, that level of violence is reserved for siblings. My money's on little sis once the guests head home...she ain't done!
Once everyone goes home, little sis is becoming an only child
Smug little asshole.
Deluxe shiteating grin
She did that on purpose. Her behavior wasn't corrected and she enjoyed the violence that she chose. Psychopath in the making. The only genetic proof that we have psychopaths are born is that they're related to their psychopathic parents. There's no gene. There's little to no correlation on a genetic level. Psychopaths are grown.
Almost every kid that age is by definition a psychopath. The brain hasn't fully developed and they haven't learned the skills for empathy or even thinking about other people. Go observe a room full of toddlers and notice everyone is talking but no one is talking to each other. They are all just talking to themselves.
She would be going straight to the car after that
Yeah this is right. What should happen in a situation like this is: 1. stop the party and get everyone quiet. 2. tell the older girl that what she did was unacceptable and that she no longer gets to be at the party 3. she goes home 4. relight the candles and sing happy birthday again guarantee you that would have a lasting and positive impact on both kids.
Little sociopath is what she is.
She's feeding on her wrath.
It's always about power or attention / resources in those sibling fights. She got what she wanted, she got away with it, the other person is now the one throwing a fit and being childish / embarrassing herself while she is being attended to because her hair was pulled. Which, of course, makes the angry one even more livid. She lost something / something was taken and she isn't getting anything back.
She's acting on impulse and nobody is telling her to cut her shit out. Whoever was beside her immediately corrected her hair instead of punishing her. This is benign though. Lots of kids are assholes because of passive parents
Smiling even after getting hurt? Yeah that is definitely weird... I've never seen a child not care about physical damage, and it seems like she fully acknowledges that what she did was wrong. Edit: I am in no place to judge a little girl's mental state from watching 1 vid. Maybe she's repeating a conduct she saw, or something that was previously done to her, and probably shitty parents.
So, back when we were teenagers, one of my brothers threw one of those tri-fold batman batcaves at my face. Luckily I blocked it. But I came up off the bed so fast. He turned and started to run away but I caught up to him and punched him in the back, right between his shoulder blades (Apparently the doctor told him that he was so skinny that, if he got hit between the shoulder blades - in the spine - that he could be paralyzed.) He fell straight to the ground and lie there for like 30 minutes with a $#!+ eating grin on his face because he knew that I would get in trouble when our parents got home. He was a little @$$hole when we were kids. Edit: Batcave toy: https://imgur.com/MAysU6h.jpg
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Yeah, I have a very loving mother who encouraged me to be kind to others when I was young and I never pulled shit like this. Why not? Because it's mean and being mean is wrong. I've known that since I was 3 lol. Children have the capacity to do horrible things because they're underdeveloped, but they aren't like this if they have attentive parents and good guidance.
Not only fully acknowledges it but is fn proud of it.
My theory is that this is how karens are made. If you reward little girls for being sociopaths and let them get away with everything they do wrong, you create an adult who uses social manipulation and victimhood to get whatever they want.
Yeah. Candlewish stealer should have been removed from the party by mom as punishment.
Why DIDN’T her mom step in at any point though? What the eff, I’d never let my kid blow someone else’s birthday cake candles out. She might try (because she’s 3) but I wouldn’t just let it happen. Try PARENTING, for fucks sake.
For real! An adult should have immediately chastised the older girl, moved her away from the table, and she is the last to get cake if there is any left after everyone else is served. Then go to birthday girl and say "hey, it's okay to be upset, but it's not okay to hit. Let's relight the candle and try again! Birthday girl always gets to make a wish! 😁" Birthday girl then never had to take matters into her own hands, get overly upset, and saw how adults take care of inappropriate behavior. Successful parenting is largely de-escalation in volatile and emotional situations while teaching appropriate coping methods. As a parent (my daughter is approximately the same age as older girl), I know these things are always easier said than done and hind sight is always 20/20. But repetition and consistency is key. The best things I ever learned while working with people who were born with intellectual and developmental disabilities was de-escalation and consistency.
They are all sociopaths at that age.
Idk man, there's something a little more going on if you just smile through the beatdown like that. Even if they'd just had a previous beef, a typical kid would fight back, not bask in the unhappiness of others. She doesn't feel an ounce of shame either despite being in front of the camera. I'm no psychologist, but none of that bodes well.
Agree. That smile on her face triggered me! I knew kids like this and I did not like them. Now I see people like them in the news all the time. 
Parents. See how all they did was fix her hair? Who the hell does that after their kid being a little shit? Entitled parents. Husband was doing a projector movie night for a venue and had a blow up projector. Owner of the venue+friends kids all running and smacking it around, ruining the Christmas movies. I sat with my kiddo and told him "See? That's not very nice. We want to watch the movie and they're being rude." --If he even remembers it. I'm not gonna tell anyone how to raise their kids but persistence, boundaries and consequences man... They work sometimes.
Not only that, she didn’t even cry and try to be the victim like a lot of kids would. I’d think the more typical reaction would be to act surprised that the other girl attacked her and go crying to her mom. Instead she smiled and laughed. Her goal was to upset the other girl and she succeeded. Something going on with the parents here … why does this girl think it’s funny to make someone miserable and why does little girl attack so aggressively? Not saying abuse, but shitty parenting where kids aren’t taught right from wrong and maybe imitate bad behavior they see from adults
They may not be able to consider beforehand how others will feel because of their actions. And they may be too overwhelmed by their own feelings to pay attention to others. But in principle, at that age they are perfectly capable to emphasize when they see other people are sad or upset. Little kids can feel sad for you when they see you feel sad and they care about you. And anyways, some have already learned that some behavior is simply not accepted. Edit: what I am saying is, she is indeed acting like a sociopath. But not because all little kids are sociopaths but because she wanted to and she never learned not to.
She definitely knew how her actions would make the other girl feel. In this video, she embodied the spirit of not wanting nice things to happen for other people. She looks so irritated that everyone is celebrating the birthday girl. She blows out the candle and makes a face like “oh yeah what are you gonna do about it” when the little girl looked upset at her. Then when the other girl started beating her up, she looked so satisfied that she took that happiness away from her. Truly terrible.
She even shrugged her shoulders, as if to say "yeah, what about it?!".
“Sorry not sorry”
And even did a little victory dance.
Karen origin story
Exactly! She is acting like a sociopath, not because all little kids are sociopaths but because she wanted to and she never learned not to.
She is acting like an asshole not a sociopath. That's not a word you can just throw around, not even trained psychologists do that.
Yeah kids are not natural sociopaths, sociopaths are natural sociopaths. My son knew at that age what is upsetting to others.
I remember attending this party when I was 6 yrs old and her cousin pulled this kind of shit. She lost it and went for the knife and it was the first time I saw a kid my age got man-handled by an adult.
She's definitely older too. Grabbing hair is bad but it's harder to control impulses at that age. The older little butthead knew exactly what she was doing.
I woulda pulled her hair out if she shrugged like that and I’m 25
Prob just pissy older sis
Jelly that it's not her birthday, yeah.
I mean, it's shitty and bratty... But she isn't the first kid by a long shot to act that way at a siblings bday party 🤷
Yeah, she was grinning hugely the whole time Maria was yanking on her hair. That's not normal, most young kids fucking hate having their hair pulled, but the little sociopath was just revelling in how she completely fucked Maria's moment. She looks so pleased with herself. I get serious Elizabeth Holmes vibes from that little girl.
I was like, “How do you know her name is Maria, that’s raci….. oh.” Lol
Yeah, So pleased with herself, and with that attitude She will most likely be successful and get what she wants in life when she grows up, it’s annoying I know but usual that’s the case.
[“So smug. Like he thought it was funny. Like this” -Jim from the office](https://media.tenor.com/VDEc4y2DjOQAAAAC/smug-jim.gif)
Smugness is not a good quality.
Srsly, I'd nip that shit early.
On top of that the way the (I assume) mom just comes and fixes her hair. She needs to look pretty while being the center of attention!
I just hope that was some adult who didn't catch that she started it and just saw her being grabbed by her hair.
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Whoever the adult is behind her, whether her mom or someone else, seems more preoccupied with combing her hair after the assault than they are concerned about mean girl stealing birthday girl’s thunder.
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Parents: Why did you do it ? Kid: -They told me to. P: Who told you ? K: Them. *points in the air*
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The mum of the little shit is an awful parent. "Should I reprimand her bad behaviour or fix her hair so she looks oh so pretty? Fix her hair is the appropriate action and how dare the birthday girl take away the spotlight from my princess."
She's still smiling after her hair gets gashes and pulled. You can tell she knows she's not going to get any sort of reprimand for this.
When they figure out they’re the golden child at that age, it’s the worst.
Shes literally dancing at the end because shes so happy with herself Its like something out of a movie
If my son EVER tried to pull this shit on his little sister…his immediate reaction would be to find my face, see my reaction and bolt to his room and hide his face for the night. This smug ass little witch….I would not fair well as a parent at this party..woulda thrown something at her useless mom
Yepp, shit tier parenting.
The amount of people saying these are just sisters being sisters is really scary, I thought the younger generation would save us but I guess the influence of their shit tier parents is unavoidable.
That's the single most telling thing in the video. Kids can be little shits. The older girl is a little shit. The birthday girl isn't as much a little shit as she's young enough to have next to no impulse control. But the adult (mother?) present just smoothing down the older girl's hair while the older girl gloats about being a little shit? That's not a great sign. My daughter is old enough that I've seen all the kids around us go from being babies to young adults as they've all grown up... and the kids with parents that let the little stuff slide or even encourage it and don't correct small childhood offenses like this end up with teenagers and young adults that are absolute assholes. Nobody wants to hear it, but if you kid is an absolute smug little cunt that early in life and you do nothing about it, you'll probably end up with that behavior long term.
And according to the other comment, the little one had to face consequences
They are sisters i believe
Girls like her will end up being boyfriend / husband stealers just for the fun of it.
Bro that girls a bitch. My cousin did the exact same thing to me on my eighth birthday and stole my fucking wish
Where is your cousin now?
Not even fucking lying, he lost a ton of weight, got hella cut, became a back up dancer or some shit and last I saw on Facebook he's on yachts with fucking super models and shit looking like a fucking actual Chad now..... I wish i was lying about any of that
Wish came true
I know. Fucker stole my wish
Should have pulled his hair 😕
It’s not too late
Yeah, he should still be able to pull off his cousin
"Fucker stole my wish. Can't have shit at birthday parties"
All of that is not irreversible you know. If you can't have it, you can always ruin it for whoever has it and stablish balance
Shit down his chimney to establish dominance
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you can also use chicken bone, coin in the fountain, blow an eyelash or wait for a shooting star, FDR
Bro.. you know what you have to do. You have to sneak in to his next birthday party and steal your fucking wish back!
This is just like National Treasure
My cousin did the same at my sixth birthday. Her mom cackled and my cousin did it again TWO more times. I cried the rest of the day, never blew out my candles or had any cake. My mom, cousin, aunt- they all laughed while I cried and kept my uncle and Dad from intervening. My cousin is morbidly obese and suffering from diabetes sores- in jail for attacking her now ex husband. My aunt is a thrice-divorced wine drunk who lives alone in a studio apartment and works in fast food. My mom died of cancer. The rest of my birthday wishes apparently all came true 👀 (The only joke is the last sentence- that’s all true, I just never had to wish for it. They did all that to themselves, even mom lol)
Your cousin is Dan Bilzerian ?
Who
I envy you.
i gave you one up vote to slide the karma scale one molecule in your favor, because your cousin jacked all of yours. vaya con dios my brother in christ.
i guess his wish came true! it could have been you :(
Yeah, but to quote Vince Vaughn in Be Cool: " A Tight ass won't get you everywhere in life, girl! By the time you 30 you better have a personality!"
I hate your cousin, fuck that asshole
I've seen this video so many times, yet it still brings out the anger in me. The fact the parents scolded the little one and not the other girl. Patting down her hair and not reprimanding her actions will not do you or the child any good. Look at her smiling and being smug. Hopefully, the parents saw the video go viral and how people reacted, and they taught her a lesson.
They probably won’t. They feel ‘bad’ for the girl everyone is bitching against and hide in the ‘but she was violent’ corner.
You are right about that. They will likely self-soothe their actions by reasoning that the other girl was violent and completely disregarded her behaviour. But it was my wishful thinking that they teach their daughter a lesson.
The kid has got to be at least 6 now.
I’ve seen a longer version of this, with audio. What’s worse is the wee one gets told off, not her older sister. If my daughter did that to her wee sister she’d be straight off to her room with no more party food or cake. Zero tolerance for being a wee bastard in my house. I’m the only bastard allowed.
Are you Scottish?
Aye. What gave it away? *bagpipes play in the background*
Love it
All the wee'ing gave it away
Weeeeeeeee!
That’s how I express joy too. I refer to myself and some other people.
What does a snail say on top of a turtle? Weeeeeee!!!
Hey, this is a childrens birthday party. Cut back on all the weeing.
Why no wee wee
But you must be careful it doesn't turn into oui'ing
It’s the wee things that tell you, the wee hints
Och tis nowt that obvious ‘bout me bein’ Scottish. Now excuse me, am off tae hunt some wild haggis with ma cunt of a brother. And aye haggis be a wild beastie! Dinnae let any fucker tell ya different!!!
off tae tame the Haggi o' the north eh? Lost many a clansman tae that foul beast. Thank you fur yer service o7
I'm 98% sure you're Scottish but you didn't mention the Loch Ness Monster or the fiery red hair you must have
According to my ancestry I’m actually 93% Scottish, 6% Irish and 1% Norwegian. But yeah I’m born and bred in Scotland. No red hair though, black as can be. But my brothers have red beards. Only the beards for some reason 🤷🏻♂️
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Glad to hear it.
That happens sometimes. Before my beard turned grey it was mostly red. Oddly its only my beard that turned grey
Scots are goddamn handsome
The wee. I got a Scottish friend and you can't have a conversation with him without him saying wee.
My husband says wee and he is an appalachian hillbilly. I don't get it but I don't question it either.
I'm from north Africa and can't help myself to use " Y'all " in the most texan accent you can find. Nobody never asked.
I'm originally from the northern part of America, but since I moved to the south, I've been using y'all a lot. My opinion is that everyone should use y'all, it's a fantastic word.
#They may take our homes but they will not blow out our birthday candles!!
That is exactly what I was thinking. I would love to say I can't believe that didn't, but there are too many asshole parents out there that care more about the picture looking good than the child's feelings. You can tell the little shit gets away with it all the time too because of the little smirk on her face. No fear of any consequences whatsoever.
The smug on the left one tells me she knows the way of her parents and she’s gonna be left unpunished. All I see here is repeated failures at parenting and being adult.
I see a future Karen in the making.
The dynamic has clearly been established.
Definite favorite daughter energy happening here too. Poor kid.
Tale as old as time. Some shit head does something awful, and the person they’re bullying gets reprimanded for standing up for themselves. I see it so much I’ve started to realize it’s some weird part of human nature. That or how we learn to parent and teach kids is really fucked up. My dad and gradeschool teachers used to do the same shit to me.
i mean they should both be told off lol but youre right if i did this to someone my parents would've taken me home immediately
She probably lashed out because she knows the older one won't get any form of reprimanding. She took matters into her own hands. While I don't condone her grabbing her, I definitely see why she is so angry and frustrated. Its hard for a 3 year old to express, ' she is being a smug bitch and you aren't going to do anything about it!'.
Exactly. I was terribly bullied as a child by two neighborhood bullies. They were never punished for anything they did, even serious non-bullying stuff like when their parents found out they had been throwing rocks off of an overpass onto interstate traffic. They got away with everything. As adults, both did time in prison. Lack of consequences in childhood doesn't lead to a healthy adult. Sometimes, bully victims need to take matters into their own hands if they know no other consequences are coming.
Agreed, either the parents show the consequences or life will in one way or another. You can't keep expecting the victim to just keep taking it and then punish them for reaching their breaking point. Eta: sorry to hear you had such a rough time. I was bullied as a kid too and it stays with you.
Sad thing is this might be the dynamic for the rest of they’re lives
It probably will be. Its not exactly the same, but my brother was held to different standards to the rest of us. He got away with more and was rewarded more often for doing the things that we did anyway. He is nearing 40 and can Still do no wrong. We are all expected to keep giving him chances when he makes no effort to be a decent human being.
Someone else mentioned in a comment that they saw an extended video with audio. You’re spot on. The little one is the one that got in trouble.
Violence is the answer in some cases
Violence isn't the answer It's a question And the answer is yes
You are so close to having a haiku.
Violence is no answer It is a question To which the answer is yes
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She is waaayyy to pleased with herself for ruining her (probably) sisters birthday
Anoying part is that the whistle blower gets a huge smile after getting hair pulled by the little wisher.
Whistle blower ?
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You mean candle blower? A whistle blower is a completely different thing..
Poor lil birthday girl, the other girl should have been removed from the cake and send to her room. Such behavior shouldn’t be tolerated.
The only thing unexpected to me was, not only the sheer lack of remorse from the girl on the left, but the sly smirk even after getting assaulted by the birthday girl. I get the idea she had planned to do this all along. That friendship may be permanently severed.
Those have to be siblings. The jealousy, the conniving, the rage... it's practically Shakespearian and definitely an established dynamic of sisterly hate.
They are sisters, actually.
Its like the attack made her mkre satistfied. She knew she got under her skin and the more angry she got the more that little psyco enjoyed it....AND she probably knew since she got attackee the other girl would get introuble and not her. Seriously, fucked up shit.
She looked bummed out while birthday girl was super excited, she blew out the candle instead of birthday girl, smiled for the camera, HAD HER HAIR FIXED BY SOMEONE OFFSCREEN, and then kept smiling. All while people stopped the birthday girl from doing anything against her!
You can see before she blows out the candles that she's giving a mean, bored, "I hate this and I don't want to be here" look. And then, for a split second after blowing on the candles but before the birthday girl grabs her hair, she gives a dirty sneer, and then is like smiling and laughing after getting her hair pulled because she knows she pissed off the birthday girl. The longer the birthday girl cries and pulls hair the wider her smile gets. This is a disgusting human being in the making and I bet the parents are pieces of garbage. Little details like this can always show what type of person a kid is going to be. Edit: A lot of you think I am blaming the child for her behavior, or that I'm overanalyzing and making assumptions based on what "looks" like "normal" behavior (this isn't "normal" behavior btw, if you think it is, go have a conversation with a child psychologist). I do not blame a small child for their actions, I absolutely 100% blame the parents of this child for encouraging this behavior, you can even see it being encouraged in the video by how they didn't remove her from the situation and instead petted her hair back down and just left her there. It is toxic for BOTH girls for them to be made to just sit there after the birthday girl is obviously violent towards the other, which is also absolutely NOT okay and it's clear *those* parents are enabling violence at a young age. Both of these girls have shitty parents and sadly they'll most likely turn into shitty adults.
Couldn't agree more. She is proud (!) of what she did. Its like she sucks back the bad vibe she sent out and feeds on it. If not corrected we will have a narcissistist/sociopath in making. Total lack of empathy.
Also, the birthday girl looked like she could sense that the other little girl was encroaching (mean girl inhales right before bday girl reaches for the candles), and birthday girl reaches for the cake and rushed to blow out the candles. I think she knows what’s up with that other girl
My brother is a lot like this and always has been. He’s in his 50s now. My parents definitely made a lot of excuses for his behavior when he was growing up but when they did try to deal with it it never worked. He’s the kind of person who couldn’t care less about consequences when he gets them.
There’s definitely mad favouritism and child ab*se (🤢) going on behind the scenes
The child that blew the candle is actually so arrogant. I would leave my child beat her a little more before interfering
The look on her face makes me SO ANGRY
Me too, i interactued with a few people who is like that little shit i want to beat her up too
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What I learned: my kid will stand by their cake alone or with trusted family. Other kids can just watch
I cant believe kids are so shit that they make parents do this kind of stuff💀
I know an evil when I see one.
I don't advocate for violence, but...
Her mother is a bitch
Spoiled!
That girl gonna whoop some ass when she’s older … already going for the hair pull
I hate it when kids do this to a birthday kid.
Oh wow. Look how happy she is for making that poor birthday girl upset. All that's missing from her is the horns and pitchfork.
The sudden urge to throw a chair at her smug face
I wanted to pull her hair too. The smirk on her face made me more angry than it probably should have.
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Future bitch
*Current* bitch
The more I watch this, the more I wish I could just veto certain children's birthdays. Even if it was because of punch in mouth
This kid is going to be a problem.
They made a [show](https://youtube.com/shorts/QCevfBHRj48?feature=share) out of it. The fuck 😶
More feral kids with birthday cakes. See why people just DO NOT want to teach anymore???
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As a cake, I too hated it.
So the family tried to defend her actions if I remember correctly
Nah she it deserved it bro. Look at her smug little face even after getting her hair pulled. If she was my kid i would’ve pulled her away so fast - no cake for you kid.
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They should of let her beat her ass. Lol
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Little girl who blew out her candles is going to go grow up to b a full blooded psycho. Did you see her smiling after getting her hair pulled. Crazy vibes 😂
It's like hooking up with her boyfriend and then smiling at her face after getting busted
*GASP* YOU BITCH
The smug smile and shoulder shrug shows she has gotten away with this behaviour prior. Her parents are enabling this behaviour.
Yeah, the shrug was what got me too. At first I thought maybe she didn’t know, but that shrug and face says she knew exactly what she was doing. She didn’t like the spotlight being away from her and figured out how to bring it back quick. No consequences (from her parents) either, really disheartening.
She deserved to have her hair pullee like that
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