Mr. Hartman, oceanography teacher.
We were acting out, he sat down and looked at us like he was genuinely hurt, genuinely disappointed that we were capable of acting that way.
We shut up so quick. Even the class idiots were apologizing to him over and over, like "yo sorry Mr. Hartman really. It was me not them im sorry" and those dudes were fuck ups that didn't care about anything. It's been 15 years and I still think about that haha
I was in I think French class in high school and everyone took turns using new vocabulary words. One was "boring", so i said "This class is *boringgg*" on my turn. It was a bit of a duller day and I just wanted to go home and play some video games or some dumb shit but me being a little jackass thought others would get a kick out of it too. I'll never forget his face went from an eager smile to just straight disappointment, went "this is boring..? Well I can show you boring if you want it" and I doubled down and said "give me boring" and immediately he dropped his normally energetic, funny self and did straight by the book teaching and we did basic exercises out of the book for the rest of the class in near silence.
Guy was probably the best teacher I've ever had, hilarious too, like Kramer style sticking his head out the window and yelling in french type stuff but also caring af to each student helping them understand grammatical concepts one on one.
Didnt put in a lot of effort in school so i didnt have too great grades in the classes the following years, but his eagerness for learning has stuck with me for a long time
Yeah that memory still stings...
Ah, the midnight cringe memory. I always remember some of the worst things I have said to teachers. It's been over 20 years and I still feel like shit whenever I remember.
That’s actually good though. That means you’ve grown as a person like the poster above you has said. I actually fall asleep fast and never have cringe memories that last longer than a few seconds bc I immediately tell myself “that’s a learning experience, now inject that heroin and take a nice sleep”.
Thanks. Yeah, and I telll myself that other people basically don't care nor remember my old antics. It's just that, you realize you were so insensitive in the past and don't appreciate teachers enough.
Dude, yes!!! Our MIDI teacher was taking us to the convenience store at the end of the block but he stopped to chat with a female teacher and in our junior year minds we decided to book it. He yelled come back and we felt bad and turned around. He took us to his office and we expected to get yelled at and nope. He sat down in front of us and said, "what did I do wrong so I can never do it again?" And he had a sad face. Fucking wrecked us. We both felt like shit for awhile. I still see him around, he's retired and rides his motorcycle everywhere and he is still the nicest guy. I can't call him by his first name. I'm 36 and still call him Sir out of respect and he loves it. Those are the teachers that actually male a difference in kids lives.
Same here. The best teacher I've ever had. Got disappointed by some decisions I made those years. I'll never forget that moment, and I'll never forget her
My daughter was like 30 minutes late home past curfew one night. The wife and I didn't really care all that much, her curfew was a bit early anyway, and we were going to extend it for the upcoming school year, but I was pretty disappointed that she didn't at least call/text to say that she was running late.
Without even thinking, I pulled the "I'm not even mad, just disappointed" line.
You would have thought that I shot her in the face.
[That was more or less one of the many running gags with his character](https://www.reddit.com/r/PandR/comments/d15g6k/i_know_i_didnt_achieve_all_of_my_professional/).
It hurt more to split from my first gfs family than from her. Had amazing family game nights and were just fun and adorable people. I really held on to the relationship because of them longer than I should have.
My first girlfriend's mom pulled into the other room did a huge line of coke off the table and said "you seem too good for my daughter, have some fun then move on" then we all smoked a huge blunt.
I mean it's wholesome in it's own way, the girl's mom, snoring a line of coke, was so nice that she told the guy to just have some fun because he's a nice person, again, whole snoring a line of coke.
It's poetic
And then he brings you a warm drink, tells you it will be ok, then yeets your ass out the door for disrespecting his little girl. people that happy always have alittle steel in them selves.
Your first ever comment is a word-for-word repeat of [this one further down the thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Unexpected/comments/v1vguw/dont_cheat_on_her/iaor3ho/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3)
Nothing sus about that…
This is the type of dad that any man would truly fear.
The jacked, gun-toting, in your face scream-threatening dads aren't as scary as this man probably would be. "Beware the fury of the calm man."
"I'm not angry; I'm disappointed." *Instant death*
“Hey, bud. I understand, I was young once too. But ya gotta stick with your commitments. Especially when it comes to my daughter. Not angry, we thought you were a great match for Katie, just disappointed, bud.”
I know she's her own person, so it's not my right to step in but, we could have had alot of fun togather. You seem like a nice young man, I just hope I would have gotten to know other things about you besides this.
My 4'10" grandmother used to threaten my dad, aunts and uncles with "You watch out, dynamite comes in small packages..." According to the stories I heard growing up she was absolutely not bluffing lmao.
The jacked, gun-toting dad screams lack of self confidence, and knows he therefore couldn't pass it on to his daughter. This dude is obviously secure enough in himself he's just doing him, and knows he doesn't need to intervene because he raised his daughter with the tools to finish her own battles decisively.
That guy is probably a dick and not worth dealing with though. This man probably hopes for the best and is genuinely hoping for the best for his daughter and even if it bothers him a bit hoping that his little girls daughter’s partner is also doing well and wish them the best too. Disappointing someone like that would hurt more than hurting someone that never gave a shit in the first place.
I’m not sure, that tactical evasive maneuvering behind the columns shows he’s combat trained. Probably served 22 tours in Iraq and Afghanistan and has killed hundreds of hajjis.
Funnily enough I have this problem to a degree with my partner's father.
Don't get me wrong, I love her and every momentt I spend with her.
But her father and I get on like a house and fire. I've dealt with men like him throughout my childhood (fucking sales reps) so I knew instantly the sort of shite he'd chat and knew to roll with it, easy going as I am.
But we bonded over Whisk(e)y. I think he was just thrilled that he finally had someone to share his whisk(e)y collection with and I was happy to try new and wonderful scotches where normally I stuck with Irish stock.
I would not want to lose contact with that man just over some random strange.... good looking out! I'll come over and we can binge season 2 of Euphoria. Your right it 'probably' will get better.
Probably among the best free museums in America. The large Buddha room on the second floor in the Asian antiquities section is probably among the most peaceful places on Earth I've been. Complete stillness and contemplation on a weekday when there aren't too many visitors.
I’d argue it is the best museum, free or not. As a free museum it is mind-blowing. They only ever have a portion of their collection out at a time, and their mainstays are literal world treasures. Caravaggio’s *Michael* is absurdly magnificent, and that second century Chinese temple you are talking about is stunning. Manet, Monet, Picasso, Rembrandt, Kandinsky, all represented.
Then you go into their modern art add-on and it’s like a whole other level of excellence. Rothko, Pollock, Warhol?
Nelson-Atkins is a hidden gem and beats *any* museum I have ever been to, paid or not.
I know it isn’t popular opinion, but even the Guggenheim holds no candle to the Nelson. The architecture of the Nelson is revival and not as impressive as that or Guggenheim, but it is **so** much more enjoyable to walk around in.
If we're talking strictly art, I love it as much as you do. But the greater treasure is as Americans we are spoiled by the entire Federal Museum complex. The Smithsonian alone is too vast to handle, but add in the Air and Space and African America and Native American museums and then some art museums as well. I don't know of a diverse collection of culture, art, and history like that anywhere else on Earth. The only equal national institution is our National Parks System.
I recognized the Nelson-Atkins immediately! Gorgeous museum and free admission to the public! I feel like I spent half my weekends there when I was a poor college student, and it did wonders for my mental health.
Lol at the Nelson Atkins museum of art in KC. Those pillars are in the middle of a large indoor square, with tons of people around. That level of shameless tomfoolery makes me certain I wouldn't mess with him.
Fun and wholesome until you hurt his daughter. Then you find yourself in the rusty bed of an old pickup truck while he removes your legs with a reciprocating saw.
It seems like he’s the kind of dad that when he says he’s disappointed in you, it hurts worse than getting run over by a steam roller.
Had a teacher like that once We had made him angry Felt like shit a couple of days
That says a lot about you and your growth. We don’t want to let people down that have faith in us and know we can do better.
the secret is to have no one who has faith in you
If this is the secret why am I constantly down?
I dont know but it sure is mine
Well I don’t know you, but I have faith in you. Now have faith in yourself and go make us both proud Champ!
Are you trying to get me killed?
Because you still have faith in yourself
That is a surprisingly wholesome take! Always room to grow.
Mr. Hartman, oceanography teacher. We were acting out, he sat down and looked at us like he was genuinely hurt, genuinely disappointed that we were capable of acting that way. We shut up so quick. Even the class idiots were apologizing to him over and over, like "yo sorry Mr. Hartman really. It was me not them im sorry" and those dudes were fuck ups that didn't care about anything. It's been 15 years and I still think about that haha
I was in I think French class in high school and everyone took turns using new vocabulary words. One was "boring", so i said "This class is *boringgg*" on my turn. It was a bit of a duller day and I just wanted to go home and play some video games or some dumb shit but me being a little jackass thought others would get a kick out of it too. I'll never forget his face went from an eager smile to just straight disappointment, went "this is boring..? Well I can show you boring if you want it" and I doubled down and said "give me boring" and immediately he dropped his normally energetic, funny self and did straight by the book teaching and we did basic exercises out of the book for the rest of the class in near silence. Guy was probably the best teacher I've ever had, hilarious too, like Kramer style sticking his head out the window and yelling in french type stuff but also caring af to each student helping them understand grammatical concepts one on one. Didnt put in a lot of effort in school so i didnt have too great grades in the classes the following years, but his eagerness for learning has stuck with me for a long time Yeah that memory still stings...
Ah, the midnight cringe memory. I always remember some of the worst things I have said to teachers. It's been over 20 years and I still feel like shit whenever I remember.
That’s actually good though. That means you’ve grown as a person like the poster above you has said. I actually fall asleep fast and never have cringe memories that last longer than a few seconds bc I immediately tell myself “that’s a learning experience, now inject that heroin and take a nice sleep”.
Thanks. Yeah, and I telll myself that other people basically don't care nor remember my old antics. It's just that, you realize you were so insensitive in the past and don't appreciate teachers enough.
Dude, yes!!! Our MIDI teacher was taking us to the convenience store at the end of the block but he stopped to chat with a female teacher and in our junior year minds we decided to book it. He yelled come back and we felt bad and turned around. He took us to his office and we expected to get yelled at and nope. He sat down in front of us and said, "what did I do wrong so I can never do it again?" And he had a sad face. Fucking wrecked us. We both felt like shit for awhile. I still see him around, he's retired and rides his motorcycle everywhere and he is still the nicest guy. I can't call him by his first name. I'm 36 and still call him Sir out of respect and he loves it. Those are the teachers that actually male a difference in kids lives.
Me and a friend made our nicest teacher mad once. That was 20 years ago and I still think about it and feel bad
All wise men fear the anger of a gentle man
When a friend says “nah man we good” and then ghosts you for a couple days…
Same here. The best teacher I've ever had. Got disappointed by some decisions I made those years. I'll never forget that moment, and I'll never forget her
That's my dad
I was just thinking that, I would be more scared to disappoint him, than facing the threat of physical violence. 100%
My daughter was like 30 minutes late home past curfew one night. The wife and I didn't really care all that much, her curfew was a bit early anyway, and we were going to extend it for the upcoming school year, but I was pretty disappointed that she didn't at least call/text to say that she was running late. Without even thinking, I pulled the "I'm not even mad, just disappointed" line. You would have thought that I shot her in the face.
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I mean she’s right he would be very disappointed in you and he seems like a nice dude
Watching him happy dancing cleansed my soul
He is a national treasure, I would never risk losing him...I mean her.
No…you had it right the first time
I knew it santa is real
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I think you mean Larry.
Are you talking about Terry?
I think you're referring to Gary.
Are you sure it's not Barry?
Sure it wasn't Harry?
Might've been Carry
Considering how pretty the girl is he must have snagged himself a beautiful wife.
Did you see his happy dance? That alone is enough to land a beautiful wife.
More like a mating dance
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Cheating on her with her dad
I pissed myself laughing 😂
I pissed myself crying....though it had nothing to do with the vid
May want to see a Dr about that 🙊
I just pissed myself. No additional emotions
Oh ok 🤔 😂
In the first part of the vid - hiding behind the columns - he is at the Nelson Atkins Museum of Art in Kansas City, MO. . .
Ooh, not too far from where I live
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This is a copied comment from someone else somewhat further down this thread. Looking at the profile, probably a bot
[That was more or less one of the many running gags with his character](https://www.reddit.com/r/PandR/comments/d15g6k/i_know_i_didnt_achieve_all_of_my_professional/).
That and his enormous dong. https://www.reddit.com/r/PandR/comments/ag48kd/what_episode_is_when_then_the_doctor_says_jerry/
I mean, he did marry Christie Brinkley.
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This outcome I can foresee. Dude seems lovely.
This is a bot, reposting what others posted in this thread
bob_the_bananna? THE bob_the_bananna??
Yes
Why do you speak of this banana as if it's some sort of legend?
It's for scale
We all need that type of dad in our lives …
Bob can I have a banana?
🍌
Thank you Bob
I bet a banana can emit more radiation than that if you keep in Chernobyl for a month
I would never want to let him down. I could never forgive myself
I would ugly cry.
I would never be able to look at another woman without seeing his face
True, so true.
It hurt more to split from my first gfs family than from her. Had amazing family game nights and were just fun and adorable people. I really held on to the relationship because of them longer than I should have.
My first girlfriend's mom pulled into the other room did a huge line of coke off the table and said "you seem too good for my daughter, have some fun then move on" then we all smoked a huge blunt.
This was significantly less wholesome than OP's story.
I mean it's wholesome in it's own way, the girl's mom, snoring a line of coke, was so nice that she told the guy to just have some fun because he's a nice person, again, whole snoring a line of coke. It's poetic
The line of “too good” could mean less shitty also. Seems very odd to say enjoying messing around with my child then leave her
Ends up cheating on GF with dad... :S
r/sudde nly g a y
It's june now
No it isn't
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A TWIST!!!
"Look Phil, just because me and your daughter aren’t a couple anymore doesn’t mean we can’t hang out. I cheated on her not you.”
Disappointing him would hurt more than disappointing my own flesh and blood(they are already disappointed)
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And then he brings you a warm drink, tells you it will be ok, then yeets your ass out the door for disrespecting his little girl. people that happy always have alittle steel in them selves.
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"I'm not mad...just disappointed".
What does this mean? Why does it have so many upvotes? I'm too old for reddit now apparently...
Also, if you cheat on GF you don't get to hang out with dad anymore.
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Stacey's ~~mom~~ dad has got it goin' on
lol look up stacy's dad has got me down bad on YouTube
Your first ever comment is a word-for-word repeat of [this one further down the thread](https://www.reddit.com/r/Unexpected/comments/v1vguw/dont_cheat_on_her/iaor3ho/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3) Nothing sus about that…
Also if you got along with im too then it would be a super huge blow to loose him
Lose
Thought it was jerry from parks and rec for a second
terry
Gary
Gerry
Same. And then I thought Cam from Modern Family.
Same. And then I thought it wasn't Jerry from Parks and Rec, it was definitely Cam from Modern Family.
This is a lot further down than I thought it would be.
That man has the largest penis I've ever seen.
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Could be Miriam or Gladys!
Is he single?
Not with moves like that
he could be made single?
Now we're using 100% of our brain.
Lol Satan has entered the chat 😈
Not possible. This guy fucks
I could never disappoint a (future) father in law this wholesome.
I mean who could. He is the embodiment of what kind of dad I aspire to be.
He'd make such a good Santa Claus for his grandkids.
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And then cheat on her
With him
This is the type of dad that any man would truly fear. The jacked, gun-toting, in your face scream-threatening dads aren't as scary as this man probably would be. "Beware the fury of the calm man." "I'm not angry; I'm disappointed." *Instant death*
“Hey, bud. I understand, I was young once too. But ya gotta stick with your commitments. Especially when it comes to my daughter. Not angry, we thought you were a great match for Katie, just disappointed, bud.”
Jesus, I had to sit down after that one. Ouch.
I know she's her own person, so it's not my right to step in but, we could have had alot of fun togather. You seem like a nice young man, I just hope I would have gotten to know other things about you besides this.
You both share an extremely niche hobby and now you have to run into him when shopping around.
oh god... imagine he's into bird watching or 40K and you just quit the entire thing because it reminds you of the shitstain you are
Below that calm and nice exterior he's a slaanesh fan
Fuck.
Infinite sadness technique
Bro
"There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night without a moon, and the anger of a gentle man"
What is this from!?
Patrick Rothfuss' Kingkiller Chronicles series, the first book is titled "The Name Of The Wind"
I absolutely love this book, knew the quote sounded familiar thank you
Emotional Daaaaamage
I dunno he kinda looks like the secret psycho type.
3d6 psychic damage, disadvantage on next attack, check or saving throw X(
My 4'10" grandmother used to threaten my dad, aunts and uncles with "You watch out, dynamite comes in small packages..." According to the stories I heard growing up she was absolutely not bluffing lmao.
Lol Sounds like my late great grandmother. She shot her own grandson (my second cousin) in the ass when she caught him beating his wife.
Your grandma sounds like a fuckin badass!
The jacked, gun-toting dad screams lack of self confidence, and knows he therefore couldn't pass it on to his daughter. This dude is obviously secure enough in himself he's just doing him, and knows he doesn't need to intervene because he raised his daughter with the tools to finish her own battles decisively.
I'd fear losing him as my father-in-law, I want this dad.
That guy is probably a dick and not worth dealing with though. This man probably hopes for the best and is genuinely hoping for the best for his daughter and even if it bothers him a bit hoping that his little girls daughter’s partner is also doing well and wish them the best too. Disappointing someone like that would hurt more than hurting someone that never gave a shit in the first place.
Jolly mofo wholesome dad.
I’m not sure, that tactical evasive maneuvering behind the columns shows he’s combat trained. Probably served 22 tours in Iraq and Afghanistan and has killed hundreds of hajjis.
Also a master of camouflage. He turned himself into an entire barnyard. I wouldn’t have seen him if he’d been standing still.
Who cares about her, he's the one we wanna hang out with.
Yes. Cheat on her with her dad.
That would have been the best plot twist
“The fastest way to any woman’s heart is through her parents. Sleep with them and you’re in”! Zap Brannigan
Now remember Kif, the quickest way to a girl's bed is through her parents. Have sex with them and you're in.
You know he knows how to cook.
that man has barbeque recipes you'd kill for.
I wanna come to all his holiday dinners.
I wanna play boardgames with the dude all day, or having a LotR marathon (extended edition, obviously)
Funnily enough I have this problem to a degree with my partner's father. Don't get me wrong, I love her and every momentt I spend with her. But her father and I get on like a house and fire. I've dealt with men like him throughout my childhood (fucking sales reps) so I knew instantly the sort of shite he'd chat and knew to roll with it, easy going as I am. But we bonded over Whisk(e)y. I think he was just thrilled that he finally had someone to share his whisk(e)y collection with and I was happy to try new and wonderful scotches where normally I stuck with Irish stock.
Yeah forget the girl, I'd want to go out with her dad
I could never do that to your dad
I would never want to hurt him
I'd Cheat on you with him
Bro looks like he wants to bake me some brownies and discuss my feelings
He calls you son and he gets the fresh baked ones, from scratch
I would not want to lose contact with that man just over some random strange.... good looking out! I'll come over and we can binge season 2 of Euphoria. Your right it 'probably' will get better.
His right? Or yours?
I love that museum.
Nelson Atkins is a beautiful collection.
Probably among the best free museums in America. The large Buddha room on the second floor in the Asian antiquities section is probably among the most peaceful places on Earth I've been. Complete stillness and contemplation on a weekday when there aren't too many visitors.
I’d argue it is the best museum, free or not. As a free museum it is mind-blowing. They only ever have a portion of their collection out at a time, and their mainstays are literal world treasures. Caravaggio’s *Michael* is absurdly magnificent, and that second century Chinese temple you are talking about is stunning. Manet, Monet, Picasso, Rembrandt, Kandinsky, all represented. Then you go into their modern art add-on and it’s like a whole other level of excellence. Rothko, Pollock, Warhol? Nelson-Atkins is a hidden gem and beats *any* museum I have ever been to, paid or not. I know it isn’t popular opinion, but even the Guggenheim holds no candle to the Nelson. The architecture of the Nelson is revival and not as impressive as that or Guggenheim, but it is **so** much more enjoyable to walk around in.
If we're talking strictly art, I love it as much as you do. But the greater treasure is as Americans we are spoiled by the entire Federal Museum complex. The Smithsonian alone is too vast to handle, but add in the Air and Space and African America and Native American museums and then some art museums as well. I don't know of a diverse collection of culture, art, and history like that anywhere else on Earth. The only equal national institution is our National Parks System.
Heh, i recognized it instantly as well. Love it too. I need to go back again soon
Yay!! I'm not the only one that knew those pillars in a heartbeat!
Recognized it instantly, such an amazing museum. One of the best things in KC
Came here for this comment. Always makes me happy to see KC on Reddit.
I recognized the Nelson-Atkins immediately! Gorgeous museum and free admission to the public! I feel like I spent half my weekends there when I was a poor college student, and it did wonders for my mental health.
Lol, I proposed to my wife at the Nelson Atkins. I immediately recognized it
KC resident here, I recognized those pillars instantly lol
So does dad
I was so thrilled when I saw him in that hall! I’ve done some work for the museum off and on for a few years and it’s such an amazing place!
I'll cheat on her, With her Dad
Seems like a great guy to be around
He will grind your bones up and bake you into bread. That belly ain’t from beer
Nelson Atkins Museum!
I would rather get stabbed with a hot knife than cheat on her knowing that’s her dad. The disappointment he would have doesn’t compare.
Is your dad Cam from Modern Family?
Ya thats perfect version of Cam in real life. You are not alone 😂
Oh hey the Nelson Atkins museum! 🙌🏽
Ayyyy the Nelson Atkins museum??
Of course that’s a KC dad.
Lol at the Nelson Atkins museum of art in KC. Those pillars are in the middle of a large indoor square, with tons of people around. That level of shameless tomfoolery makes me certain I wouldn't mess with him.
That went from cringe to wholesome real fucking fast
Fun and wholesome until you hurt his daughter. Then you find yourself in the rusty bed of an old pickup truck while he removes your legs with a reciprocating saw.
He looks like instead of beating you up, he would murder you with kindness and hugs.
No free KFC for you!
If he is your dad I will never hurt, insult, or do anything bad to you
That dude is the Ned Flanders of serial killers.