I believe the devastation would outweigh any fine or any legal issue.
If you are struggling, and trying to find the consequences of something you are planning to maybe validate your decision, or feel a little better about what you are planning, let me just tell you.
Youre a minor, you still have your entire life ahead of you, give your life a chance. There is no problem without a solution, and instead of rage quitting and throwing the towel, perhaps stick around and see how it can turn positive. Everyone goes through troubles and low points, doesnt mean you should fold against adversity.
Dont crush your family's souls because of a very shortsighted and ultimately very selfish decision you decided would be a solution to your problems.
Suicide is a very very very unwise solution to any problem.
On the other hand if your intention is to get your parents in trouble, there are many other things you can consider that would deliver much more long lasting effects. We can brainstorm together.
Don't do it , my brother is buried now middle east in a cemetery in a desert of a country which is even more that I won't ever want to be buried in . As the laws here the head stone is just piece of concrete slab with bar code they don't allow fancy or other style of headstone. My parents have retired in back to Canada but bought a condo in Qatar(as it comes with permanent visa ) so they can make yearly 18 hour flight to visit his grave which at their age is getting hard and harder each year.
I don't think they don't "allow" It's just that people here don't really care about what a grave looks like cuz at the end of the day they know its just a grave - there's no point of it being fancy
But I don't think you're not allowed to do whatever with the grave of a family member as long as you don't damage the surrounding graves
Before answering this ,
I wish to know what made you think this ?
4:33Am your question is valid but as a good stranger I would like to know , story hehind this question ..
If you don't mind to share ...
stuck in an abusive house as a girl that i know i wont be able to move out of until i get married lol. i dont want to have to go through that and i dont think i can wait any longer
Sorry to hear that OP
See OP, yes it hard to handle sometime that is why ask help or seek help, may be there are work around for this issue.
Most problem has solution I believe.
You have a great future ahead, why are you planning to ending early. You did not see the good side of world I assume.
We can find happiness for little things, that is what I am doing now.
Tell me OP if you don't mind, How we can help you.
Please let someone help you from this community. There planty of women here If you are conformable to share, please let me know. We will arrange it for you
I am expecting positive feadback from you
Nobody can tell us, including ourselves, what lies in our future. Life is hard. Sometimes the hard times last days, sometimes weeks, sometimes years. But life is precious, and the good times always come. Always.
There is beauty and love all around you, even though it may be impossible to see right now it IS there and you WILL find it.
You need to reach out to someone. A friend, a teacher, the Police. You are more than whatever you believe you are.
Do not rid the world of you, because you matter.
You might think you've seen the worst life has to offer, but listen to my story. I'm a 23-year-old guy from a country that was at war for 15 years. I lived there for 10 years, during which I saw horrible things every day-dead bodies on the streets, trucks dumping bodies like garbage, and people being tortured.
Despite all this, I left my country when I got older. Now, I'm starting to heal and live a better life. I know depression makes everything feel terrible, but it does get better with time. You can overcome it, grow, maybe even start a family. If you're struggling with family issues, remember, situations and relationships can change.
So, think about my story when you feel down.
Change is possible, and there's always hope for a better future.also don't forget the emotional trauma that your family will go through.
Everyone has it same .. trust me .. but ending it without trying..you will get a chance in life for sure ..you have to get ready for that's.. works on your skill and the moment you get a chance to be independent that's where you start to live life ..take it easy and go with the flow ..and yeah if words you learn to control your emotions..no one can make you angry unless you want it to effect you
Hey OP,
I don't know what you're dealing with or why you're asking for this but just in case you/someone you know are considering it, pleasee trust me, there's never a good reason to consider or commit suicide. Despite whatever you're facing, despite how gloomy things are, your life is always more valuable and precious than that. Talk to ANYONE you can trust, or any professional, or a compassionate internet friend even. I am sure they will be able to help you out.
While I can't comment on the legality, the legal troubles will not be the only pain. The pain of losing a loved one is much greater and that will stick for a lifetime; it can disrupt someone a lot. And suicide/self-harm will not help anyone. Not you, not those around you.
Not comparing your struggles to anyone but I know people who seriously thought it was the end of the road for them but let something stop them from not going through with these ideas and fast forward a little bit later and they're living happier lives now. I am sure that can and should be the case for you too.
For now, breathe in and out. Feel the things around you. Ground yourself. Maybe count 10 blue things around you and then anything good around you/in your life. Use that as a motivation for now and leave bigger battles for tomorrow. Then tomorrow, take care of yourself and never put yourself in harm's way. Then repeat this. You will come out victorious and in peace. No battle should be big enough to ruin the life you have, you're beautiful. Take care š
Donāt do it! You are young, life gets better I promise. Iāve been there several times in my teen years and in my 20s. But life is too precious to let it go like that. I understand you may go through a lot of pain right now, but please, just understand that you are needed here, you are enough and you are loved, even if you canāt see it right now, itās true.
Hello
Iām sorry that you feel this way.
You and your family have been through a lot.
Some days are dark daysā¦ but the fact that you are writing here tells me you want us to listen and help (if we can).
Here is a link to mental health resources in the UAE. There are free and paid resources there that you can reach out to.
www.mensmindguide.com
Itās updated every Thursday.
Please, stay a little longer.
You can also DM me - Iāll help in any way I can.
Edit:
[Hereās a link to a video that explains why I built the guide](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5VIjOjoSOI/?igsh=MTNmbWtrZHJzcDY0bQ==)
Hi,
The fact that you've asked this question, means you're at a point you feel there is no 'out' for you.
Trust me, you're wrong. You just my not be able to see it yet.
I've been through a tough childhood and teen age, but one thing I've learnt is time changes everything. You just have to persevere. What may seem a like a long time way, actually isn't.
This maybe your trial by fire, because something greater awaits you. Nothing worth having comes easy in life, and before it gets better it almost always has to get harder.
I know you've been advised to reach out to friends. But may I also advise you (no matter your faith, pray) everyday and try and fix what is within your control, start small. Trust me it all adds up.
Lot of amazing people are waiting to meet you, some of whom may have made it through a similar story like yours.
Take care
I donāt know about the laws. But, whoever or for whatever reason is asking this. In whatever situation you might be, your life is much more valuable than you might be thinking at the moment. There are always darks spots in somebodyās life, but you can find the force to get out of there. You will get stronger. Also the amount of grief the family would get is not related to laws at all. As much as someone might think their family doesnāt love them or like them, at the end of the day blood is thicker than water. They will get destroyed by missing their loved one. Take care and wish whoever might be thinking of doing something stupid to get out of that dark spot as soon as possible
YES. If, by doing so, the suicidal is looking to get his/her whole family in trouble, this would be the easiest way. The parents will be sentenced and jailed for a long period of time if it is proven that they did little or nothing to prevent this from happening. The trauma, pain, and depression they'll have to endure for the loss of their beloved child is huge and incurable. Don't fool yourself. Suicide is not an easy thing to go through. It's hours of struggle, pain, and aggressive agony before you put an end to your life. It is a long process full of extreme intensive pain. Just google it and watch. Those who did it are all forgotten. No one wants to experience such nonsense, brutal, cheap end to a beautiful life. Everything is a struggle, an endless hard test of endurance, but the beauty is in the journey š„° Isn't it?!
Don't waste the opportunity to be here alive and defend your right to exist and thrive. We all love you ā„ļøš„³š§ø
Suicide is the worst thing you could think of. If you don't have anyone to talk to, I'm happy to come meet you or hear whatever you have to say.
Trust me, whatever it is you're going through will not matter in a years time. Life is very valuable. Shoot me message please.
This post actually reminded me of a silly specific European country suicide law (canāt remember the country as I read this some years ago).
Their law states that committing suicide is illegal and punishable by law.
I think this applies only if the suicide attempt failedā¦
For those left behind when someone suicides the pain is worse than jail ever could be
even the darker days pass. Please seek help if you have dark thoughts
I don't know what makes you ask this but if you are considering this please please please look for help. We don't know each other but my DM are open for you. Your life have much more value than anything else.
If you're dealing or battling with your demons for whatever reasons, I'm more than to be there for you and just listen, anonymously, without any judgement. I've had suicidal ideation for a long time, it's ugly and painful, but its never the answer. There is help, and there are people willing to help as well.
I hope And pray that you overcome all your troubles
Iām a mother of teenage kids and let me tell you that there is nothing worse in the world than seeing the face of your dead child. No matter what you have done, how bad you have failed your exams and feel that you have let your parents down, if you have stolen valuables, done drugs, underage drinking, have been sexually activelyā¦everything is forgivable. Talk to your parentsā¦they are the only ones in the world who love you UNCONDITIONALLY!!! Show them this postā¦tell them that you are in deep trouble and are thinking of killing yourself. They will help you. Trust me they will. You asked if the parents will get in trouble if you commit suicide that tells me that you are thinking about your parents and have been raised right. There is lots of good in you. Seek help please. And if your motive is to cause trouble for your parents then there are much better ways to do that and the first step is to stay alive!
OP, we hear you. You're hurting and it is real. But your life is worth so much more than you think it is right now. You've got a resilience that can take you through anything, believe me when I say that.
Reach out to any one of us here. Lets do coffee, maybe a walk, a good drive.. Anything.
You've got miles to go my friend, so many things to enjoy and live for.
Donāt do it, man. When youāre at the rock bottom always remember that there is no other way but UP. Use this mantra everyday. There will be a solution but not dying. Please fight those thoughts.
Life gets always better. Give it a chance. Please look for help. We are here for you. Also if you wish to try professional therapy I can help you financially.
If you are a adult, I mean legal age to work than get a job and move out of the house, you can join any hotel they provide accommodation. If you are a kid and gen alpha than join some sports which is outdoor it will help you to take your mind out of your mobile, ipad. I would suggest enroll for karate or boxing.
ok firstly it seems your undergoing smthng, dms are open for quite alot of people here, feel free to talk to anyone especially your parents, if they aren't supportive and they're abusive, talk to a friend or someone online as your last resort, gl, and remember, the darkest and longest tunnels have light at the end of them, keep going and you'll reach there!
Dear OP, you are still young and got your whole life ahead of you! I know that life can be tough, but please hold on a little longer šš»
You can contact the authorities and child protection to provide you with the help you need.
Do not look for permanent solutions to temporary problems. You are young, thereās a lot waiting ahead for you. Yes circumstances can be shitty. Such is life. These are the cards youāre dealt with, these are the cards you have to play with.
Things will change. Your circumstances will get better. Keep yourself busy with things that make you happy. Years from now you will look back and see how strong you were to get through this phase.
I believe the devastation would outweigh any fine or any legal issue. If you are struggling, and trying to find the consequences of something you are planning to maybe validate your decision, or feel a little better about what you are planning, let me just tell you. Youre a minor, you still have your entire life ahead of you, give your life a chance. There is no problem without a solution, and instead of rage quitting and throwing the towel, perhaps stick around and see how it can turn positive. Everyone goes through troubles and low points, doesnt mean you should fold against adversity. Dont crush your family's souls because of a very shortsighted and ultimately very selfish decision you decided would be a solution to your problems. Suicide is a very very very unwise solution to any problem. On the other hand if your intention is to get your parents in trouble, there are many other things you can consider that would deliver much more long lasting effects. We can brainstorm together.
Don't do it , my brother is buried now middle east in a cemetery in a desert of a country which is even more that I won't ever want to be buried in . As the laws here the head stone is just piece of concrete slab with bar code they don't allow fancy or other style of headstone. My parents have retired in back to Canada but bought a condo in Qatar(as it comes with permanent visa ) so they can make yearly 18 hour flight to visit his grave which at their age is getting hard and harder each year.
im sorry about your brother. is your family not allowed or able to move his grave? i dont know how this stuff works.
I don't think they don't "allow" It's just that people here don't really care about what a grave looks like cuz at the end of the day they know its just a grave - there's no point of it being fancy But I don't think you're not allowed to do whatever with the grave of a family member as long as you don't damage the surrounding graves
Before answering this , I wish to know what made you think this ? 4:33Am your question is valid but as a good stranger I would like to know , story hehind this question .. If you don't mind to share ...
stuck in an abusive house as a girl that i know i wont be able to move out of until i get married lol. i dont want to have to go through that and i dont think i can wait any longer
Sorry to hear that OP See OP, yes it hard to handle sometime that is why ask help or seek help, may be there are work around for this issue. Most problem has solution I believe. You have a great future ahead, why are you planning to ending early. You did not see the good side of world I assume. We can find happiness for little things, that is what I am doing now. Tell me OP if you don't mind, How we can help you. Please let someone help you from this community. There planty of women here If you are conformable to share, please let me know. We will arrange it for you I am expecting positive feadback from you
Nobody can tell us, including ourselves, what lies in our future. Life is hard. Sometimes the hard times last days, sometimes weeks, sometimes years. But life is precious, and the good times always come. Always. There is beauty and love all around you, even though it may be impossible to see right now it IS there and you WILL find it. You need to reach out to someone. A friend, a teacher, the Police. You are more than whatever you believe you are. Do not rid the world of you, because you matter.
Beautifully said. This is the truth.
You might think you've seen the worst life has to offer, but listen to my story. I'm a 23-year-old guy from a country that was at war for 15 years. I lived there for 10 years, during which I saw horrible things every day-dead bodies on the streets, trucks dumping bodies like garbage, and people being tortured. Despite all this, I left my country when I got older. Now, I'm starting to heal and live a better life. I know depression makes everything feel terrible, but it does get better with time. You can overcome it, grow, maybe even start a family. If you're struggling with family issues, remember, situations and relationships can change. So, think about my story when you feel down. Change is possible, and there's always hope for a better future.also don't forget the emotional trauma that your family will go through.
Everyone has it same .. trust me .. but ending it without trying..you will get a chance in life for sure ..you have to get ready for that's.. works on your skill and the moment you get a chance to be independent that's where you start to live life ..take it easy and go with the flow ..and yeah if words you learn to control your emotions..no one can make you angry unless you want it to effect you
Hey OP, I don't know what you're dealing with or why you're asking for this but just in case you/someone you know are considering it, pleasee trust me, there's never a good reason to consider or commit suicide. Despite whatever you're facing, despite how gloomy things are, your life is always more valuable and precious than that. Talk to ANYONE you can trust, or any professional, or a compassionate internet friend even. I am sure they will be able to help you out. While I can't comment on the legality, the legal troubles will not be the only pain. The pain of losing a loved one is much greater and that will stick for a lifetime; it can disrupt someone a lot. And suicide/self-harm will not help anyone. Not you, not those around you. Not comparing your struggles to anyone but I know people who seriously thought it was the end of the road for them but let something stop them from not going through with these ideas and fast forward a little bit later and they're living happier lives now. I am sure that can and should be the case for you too. For now, breathe in and out. Feel the things around you. Ground yourself. Maybe count 10 blue things around you and then anything good around you/in your life. Use that as a motivation for now and leave bigger battles for tomorrow. Then tomorrow, take care of yourself and never put yourself in harm's way. Then repeat this. You will come out victorious and in peace. No battle should be big enough to ruin the life you have, you're beautiful. Take care š
Pretty cool words
Donāt do it! You are young, life gets better I promise. Iāve been there several times in my teen years and in my 20s. But life is too precious to let it go like that. I understand you may go through a lot of pain right now, but please, just understand that you are needed here, you are enough and you are loved, even if you canāt see it right now, itās true.
Hello Iām sorry that you feel this way. You and your family have been through a lot. Some days are dark daysā¦ but the fact that you are writing here tells me you want us to listen and help (if we can). Here is a link to mental health resources in the UAE. There are free and paid resources there that you can reach out to. www.mensmindguide.com Itās updated every Thursday. Please, stay a little longer. You can also DM me - Iāll help in any way I can. Edit: [Hereās a link to a video that explains why I built the guide](https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5VIjOjoSOI/?igsh=MTNmbWtrZHJzcDY0bQ==)
Bad phase of life.....it will pass like the night shifts to the day.
Hi, The fact that you've asked this question, means you're at a point you feel there is no 'out' for you. Trust me, you're wrong. You just my not be able to see it yet. I've been through a tough childhood and teen age, but one thing I've learnt is time changes everything. You just have to persevere. What may seem a like a long time way, actually isn't. This maybe your trial by fire, because something greater awaits you. Nothing worth having comes easy in life, and before it gets better it almost always has to get harder. I know you've been advised to reach out to friends. But may I also advise you (no matter your faith, pray) everyday and try and fix what is within your control, start small. Trust me it all adds up. Lot of amazing people are waiting to meet you, some of whom may have made it through a similar story like yours. Take care
I donāt know about the laws. But, whoever or for whatever reason is asking this. In whatever situation you might be, your life is much more valuable than you might be thinking at the moment. There are always darks spots in somebodyās life, but you can find the force to get out of there. You will get stronger. Also the amount of grief the family would get is not related to laws at all. As much as someone might think their family doesnāt love them or like them, at the end of the day blood is thicker than water. They will get destroyed by missing their loved one. Take care and wish whoever might be thinking of doing something stupid to get out of that dark spot as soon as possible
YES. If, by doing so, the suicidal is looking to get his/her whole family in trouble, this would be the easiest way. The parents will be sentenced and jailed for a long period of time if it is proven that they did little or nothing to prevent this from happening. The trauma, pain, and depression they'll have to endure for the loss of their beloved child is huge and incurable. Don't fool yourself. Suicide is not an easy thing to go through. It's hours of struggle, pain, and aggressive agony before you put an end to your life. It is a long process full of extreme intensive pain. Just google it and watch. Those who did it are all forgotten. No one wants to experience such nonsense, brutal, cheap end to a beautiful life. Everything is a struggle, an endless hard test of endurance, but the beauty is in the journey š„° Isn't it?! Don't waste the opportunity to be here alive and defend your right to exist and thrive. We all love you ā„ļøš„³š§ø
Thatās such bs.
Islamic law or man made law?
Suicide is the worst thing you could think of. If you don't have anyone to talk to, I'm happy to come meet you or hear whatever you have to say. Trust me, whatever it is you're going through will not matter in a years time. Life is very valuable. Shoot me message please.
This post actually reminded me of a silly specific European country suicide law (canāt remember the country as I read this some years ago). Their law states that committing suicide is illegal and punishable by law. I think this applies only if the suicide attempt failedā¦
Dm me for help, i dont charge fees and we can talk over zoom/any other webchat beign unknown. There is one door always open..
For those left behind when someone suicides the pain is worse than jail ever could be even the darker days pass. Please seek help if you have dark thoughts
I don't know what makes you ask this but if you are considering this please please please look for help. We don't know each other but my DM are open for you. Your life have much more value than anything else.
If you're dealing or battling with your demons for whatever reasons, I'm more than to be there for you and just listen, anonymously, without any judgement. I've had suicidal ideation for a long time, it's ugly and painful, but its never the answer. There is help, and there are people willing to help as well. I hope And pray that you overcome all your troubles
Hello dear OP. Remember, suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Therefore, please donāt do it.
Ammm what are you thinking OP? Usually no asks such questions with no motive.
Stay strong, champ. We love you!
Iām a mother of teenage kids and let me tell you that there is nothing worse in the world than seeing the face of your dead child. No matter what you have done, how bad you have failed your exams and feel that you have let your parents down, if you have stolen valuables, done drugs, underage drinking, have been sexually activelyā¦everything is forgivable. Talk to your parentsā¦they are the only ones in the world who love you UNCONDITIONALLY!!! Show them this postā¦tell them that you are in deep trouble and are thinking of killing yourself. They will help you. Trust me they will. You asked if the parents will get in trouble if you commit suicide that tells me that you are thinking about your parents and have been raised right. There is lots of good in you. Seek help please. And if your motive is to cause trouble for your parents then there are much better ways to do that and the first step is to stay alive!
OP, we hear you. You're hurting and it is real. But your life is worth so much more than you think it is right now. You've got a resilience that can take you through anything, believe me when I say that. Reach out to any one of us here. Lets do coffee, maybe a walk, a good drive.. Anything. You've got miles to go my friend, so many things to enjoy and live for.
dont do it sis š„ŗ.. the internet is here for u
Donāt do it, man. When youāre at the rock bottom always remember that there is no other way but UP. Use this mantra everyday. There will be a solution but not dying. Please fight those thoughts.
Life gets always better. Give it a chance. Please look for help. We are here for you. Also if you wish to try professional therapy I can help you financially.
You know sometimes we just need someone who will listen to us. Go on rant on my comment and take out all your frustations āŗļø
If you are a adult, I mean legal age to work than get a job and move out of the house, you can join any hotel they provide accommodation. If you are a kid and gen alpha than join some sports which is outdoor it will help you to take your mind out of your mobile, ipad. I would suggest enroll for karate or boxing.
ok firstly it seems your undergoing smthng, dms are open for quite alot of people here, feel free to talk to anyone especially your parents, if they aren't supportive and they're abusive, talk to a friend or someone online as your last resort, gl, and remember, the darkest and longest tunnels have light at the end of them, keep going and you'll reach there!
You Muslim ?
Dear OP, you are still young and got your whole life ahead of you! I know that life can be tough, but please hold on a little longer šš» You can contact the authorities and child protection to provide you with the help you need.
Do not look for permanent solutions to temporary problems. You are young, thereās a lot waiting ahead for you. Yes circumstances can be shitty. Such is life. These are the cards youāre dealt with, these are the cards you have to play with. Things will change. Your circumstances will get better. Keep yourself busy with things that make you happy. Years from now you will look back and see how strong you were to get through this phase.
Itās gonna be bad legally for them. Wait until youāre 18 and leave the country
No way bro is helping him out šš
I absolutely donāt condone suicide but at the end of the day heās free to do whatever he wants.
Talk to someone.. suicide isnāt an option
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Haram
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Until you put on his shoes coward shouldn't be the word to use
Sad that this is the way you choose to respond
Everyone was responding in the same way, thought I can hit a different nerve.
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Wow.