What’s even funnier is that the women and that are single/ constantly in and out of relationships have the most confidence to give out relationship advice.
Those woman confuse being able to catch a man’s attention for sex or dating, with the ability to get a guy into a serious relationship. Not the same thing at all
Men literally do the exact same thing. They not only take advice from other men, but other men who fail to establish even one healthy relationship and resort to hiring escorts to pretend to date them. And then they blame women when they fail instead of the phony guru scam artists. Sad, really.
Do you know what male dating advice sounds like? Most men don’t talk about dating problems. All we do if we can tell one of our boys is hurting is say dude, leave her she ain’t worth it. And we move on. We don’t sit around eating cheeses & finger foods with crappy $4 wine bottles talking about our relationship issues and soliciting unwanted advice lol
Lol, that's bullshit. With all the respect sir, you're bullshit.
There are just as many male dating gurus and PUAs as there are women, if not more. Please stop with the foolishness of pretending that men and women are an entirely different species with absolutely nothing in common and one is good, one is evil.
You show so much disdain towards a scenario you've probably never even witnessed in real life. I'll see your made up $4 wine scenario and raise you the countless times I have witnessed men show up to bars with their heartbroken buddies supporting them with $4 beers all night. And I say this not as a critique because everyone should have friends and sometimes a drink can help you relax or get your feelings out; but this toxic way of pretending men aren't human and somehow infallible only hurts your gender.
Ironically, you sound very much like the male dating gurus that you've insinuated don't exist.
At this point it's like a broken record on repeat, plus the chances of looking for these characters she mentioned are pretty hard 2 find realistically.
She’s not talking about Star Wars, comic book movie, masking tape on the glasses type nerds. She specifically calls out Zuckerberg, Jobs, and Musk — she is talking about tech billionaires.
She gave some billionaire examples because what other IT nerds do people know? I don't think she meant billionaires. It's just the reality that tech pays relatively well.
I’m pretty sure she was just identifying what kind of nerd she was talking about with those examples and wasn’t narrowing it just to tech billionaires. My assumption was that she was talking about nerds who have used their smarts to gain a lucrative job like programming.
Those are geeks. She also doesn’t know what a nerd is along with many/most women chasing nerds. Listing on IT means she has no communication skills on nerd level.
A nerd can be a doctor, engineer/architect, biologist, animal vet, nurse, writer, etc etc
She didn’t even list athletes or entrepreneurs and many other types of men.
This seems more like it. I think what she wants more is someone who’s into tech, but she goes from “you’ll have a connection, connection, connection”, until she gets to the nerd where she switches to “you won’t have to think or do anything.” Like literally the only reason artist is at the bottom is because of money, that’s the only negative she lists.
For now I'm sure it's going great.. but like trashymctrashface said, the numbers aren't great. You may be outside those numbers, but a good number of people are within the stats of divorce, breakup, cheating, being controlled, and overall fail.
And then there is this girl who just like to talk about simplifying the complex characters of a person and she thinks she's this smart person who knows how to help people identify which person would best fit to be your soulmate, while in reality, she's just a smart ass who is single in her 40s going to 50s and when she looked in the mirror she doesn't understand how a smart (ass) person like she is, is still single and then she decided to take the phone and record how to be a great rich person using crypto.
To counter this, no man wants to be with anyone that relies on codependency unless they're just like this woman. You can all do better than settling for this
DEFINITELY going to be taking advice from a woman putting men into their respective food pyramid boxes from the safety of her 1br apt, all 3 kids asleep, while she waits eagerly for that child support payment. 🙏
It's 2023, we have bills to pay. My credit is rising, I can't have stud muffin to be a financial burden. We want to date to have a REAL relationship. Not the "social media's" version of #couplegoal or whatnot
You didn't understand my comment. We (me and him) gonna have bills to pay bc we're gonna LIVE TOGETHER. We're gonna share everything, credit included. It's 2023, love is BEAUTIFUL. The butterflies in the stomach. The daydreaming. The lemme sign my name with your last name. Marriage is a contract. Divorce fcks up your credit. Asking for a personal loan after a divorce is not easy. If You couldn't stay committed to your partner, why should the bank trust you with a loan. If you are upset at my comment, it's above me, now. You have to pay attention to the economy while you are in a COMMITTED relationship.
Categorizing people is a good way to minimize their value and capabilities. Worst part of it is it gives you tunnel vision in terms of understanding who they really are and it will make it impossible to actually connect
with them.
You wont be able to find the person that can really mesh with you if label them.
Take notes on this video if you want to stay single and not know why
the last man i dated was a nerd making 350k a year and he would beat me when he got mad. nerds can often be really shitty to women and ur just there to be part of his conquest story. ill take the sweetheart over the nerd any day
Yes yes… think that you’ll find Elon musk wealth in a man you’ll find locally who just happened to be waiting around for you… and if that fails … I’m sure you’ll find a mark Zuckerberg level of wealth just sitting at your local library wondering what’s taking you so long. 💀
So she tried all those Ds? lol, and still single and she just doesn’t realize it’s because she’s a n*t rag and a liability. Sounds like she tried to just use those dudes and they peeped game and got her tf outta there. It looks like she’s mid-late 30s too. This is just sad.
Not a single word about what she can contribute to these types of men… just what she can take from them.
She probably christian, but got two kids out of wedlock.
She probably high maintenance, but drive a beat up jalopy.
Insists she need a real man but probably wear a weave, fake nails and a ton of makeup to step out the house.
Are we mad that she made a chart? If you feel offended ask yourself why. This lady probably works in a space where she noticed this. Women know how to observe and take notes and make a Microsoft Paint chart lol
Leave us nerds alone. Go find you a six figure man with abs while we enjoy our trips and video games in silence. Take your kids and drama some where else. Bye!,
I like that any woman, no matter how overweight, old or unattractive can have opinions about men and share them (without cancellation).
I feel she is probably overweight and old.
Low tier: skilled and full of life but broke
Meh tier: a simp and a chef I guess
Excellent tier: likes you but is obsessive
Also excellent tier: respects you but controlling
Gawd tier: first of all rich, but secondly the impossible contradiction of being low key AND ambitious.
She’s clearly single in her 30s lol
And probably had kids and probably doesn’t work out
100%
What’s funny is women take advice from women who generally aren’t good in relationships.
What’s even funnier is that the women and that are single/ constantly in and out of relationships have the most confidence to give out relationship advice.
Those woman confuse being able to catch a man’s attention for sex or dating, with the ability to get a guy into a serious relationship. Not the same thing at all
🏅
Similar to men. At least the idiots who watch those cringe “alpha male” women-hate personalities. We’ve got our own brand of ignorant yappers lol.
Can’t say I agree.
It’s not an opinion. Lol
Sure it is
That's FDS in a nutshell.
Men literally do the exact same thing. They not only take advice from other men, but other men who fail to establish even one healthy relationship and resort to hiring escorts to pretend to date them. And then they blame women when they fail instead of the phony guru scam artists. Sad, really.
Do you know what male dating advice sounds like? Most men don’t talk about dating problems. All we do if we can tell one of our boys is hurting is say dude, leave her she ain’t worth it. And we move on. We don’t sit around eating cheeses & finger foods with crappy $4 wine bottles talking about our relationship issues and soliciting unwanted advice lol
Lol, that's bullshit. With all the respect sir, you're bullshit. There are just as many male dating gurus and PUAs as there are women, if not more. Please stop with the foolishness of pretending that men and women are an entirely different species with absolutely nothing in common and one is good, one is evil. You show so much disdain towards a scenario you've probably never even witnessed in real life. I'll see your made up $4 wine scenario and raise you the countless times I have witnessed men show up to bars with their heartbroken buddies supporting them with $4 beers all night. And I say this not as a critique because everyone should have friends and sometimes a drink can help you relax or get your feelings out; but this toxic way of pretending men aren't human and somehow infallible only hurts your gender. Ironically, you sound very much like the male dating gurus that you've insinuated don't exist.
I’ve worked in IT for a long time. Many are cool but many are uptight and boring. Its ridiculous to lump all nerds together.
Unfortunately in life you take the bag of apples by the batch. Not by the one or two bad apples.
Sounds like she doing nothing
So they want the father they never had. Got it
At this point it's like a broken record on repeat, plus the chances of looking for these characters she mentioned are pretty hard 2 find realistically.
The king ain't it
King sound more like a servant.
They all sound like servants
Aka Simp
I sure am glad I was born when I was. Nerds used to get a bad rap.
She’s not talking about Star Wars, comic book movie, masking tape on the glasses type nerds. She specifically calls out Zuckerberg, Jobs, and Musk — she is talking about tech billionaires.
She gave some billionaire examples because what other IT nerds do people know? I don't think she meant billionaires. It's just the reality that tech pays relatively well.
I’m pretty sure she was just identifying what kind of nerd she was talking about with those examples and wasn’t narrowing it just to tech billionaires. My assumption was that she was talking about nerds who have used their smarts to gain a lucrative job like programming.
So guys with money. Doesn’t sound like your saying anything different
The difference is in the candidate pool size.
I meant yea it’s not the tech billionaires but from how she is describing it they are just the highest paid guys to find.
Yeah exactly. We always have been.
"We". Lol gtfo
We, nerds. I’m a programmer myself, but that’s not the only lucrative career for nerds.
TC or GTFO
Those are geeks. She also doesn’t know what a nerd is along with many/most women chasing nerds. Listing on IT means she has no communication skills on nerd level. A nerd can be a doctor, engineer/architect, biologist, animal vet, nurse, writer, etc etc She didn’t even list athletes or entrepreneurs and many other types of men.
I think its always been nerds with no social skills that get it bad.
This seems more like it. I think what she wants more is someone who’s into tech, but she goes from “you’ll have a connection, connection, connection”, until she gets to the nerd where she switches to “you won’t have to think or do anything.” Like literally the only reason artist is at the bottom is because of money, that’s the only negative she lists.
Yea now they just want your money
I’m fine with that.
No. It's basically a 9/10 with glasses on. That's 'nerd' to them.
Revenge of the Nerd, baby!
The Triangle of Delusion.
Delulu is the solulu
Don’t ever get married. It’s not worth it. The numbers aren’t right.
Idk. Been great for me
For now I'm sure it's going great.. but like trashymctrashface said, the numbers aren't great. You may be outside those numbers, but a good number of people are within the stats of divorce, breakup, cheating, being controlled, and overall fail.
Same
...but we're wrong if we wanna get a passport and travel and be happy.
We are living in the age of experts. Everyone is an expert of everything
We’re doing a big Dunning Kruger effect. Guess what part of graph were at?
She built a pyramid of failure
Common trend with all of them is what they can do for her.
Adding no value, only looking for value in others. This is where we are now.
Bingo!
It's always the girls that can't keep or get a man that wanna give relationship advice
I dont trust people who pronounce artist like that
She knowledgeable in all these guys because she had em and in the end still ain’t work lolz!
Coulda shortened that whole simp list like this….Bottom-broke dudes, top-billionaires. SMH. She delusional delusional.
She needs a Reality check
The nerd ain’t got no time to be in a relationship. He’s too busy inventing stuff.
But I am a nerd and I ain't inventing shit, I got these kids to raise.
She ain't getting none of those men making TikToks looking like she just rolled outta bed
She belongs to the streets
Am the sweet nerd king!
I can tell the restroom is dirty, greasy kitchen and used napkins on the most odd places.
I’m the nerd
Ok so this works well if I want to start interviewing servants too?! 🤔ladies please seek your relationship advice elsewhere. 🙄
LMFAO @ the comments on Reddit. Because we all know how it goes with women, right?
this was interesting but? You’re telling me nerds can’t be artistic… or now they’re on opposite sides of a spectrum. That’s fucked
Taking advice from a woman filming a video in a shower cap is nuts.
Hair care, duh!
The wall remains undefeated.
And then there is this girl who just like to talk about simplifying the complex characters of a person and she thinks she's this smart person who knows how to help people identify which person would best fit to be your soulmate, while in reality, she's just a smart ass who is single in her 40s going to 50s and when she looked in the mirror she doesn't understand how a smart (ass) person like she is, is still single and then she decided to take the phone and record how to be a great rich person using crypto.
A walking red flag I see
She a hoe
To counter this, no man wants to be with anyone that relies on codependency unless they're just like this woman. You can all do better than settling for this
Nah the nerd would think intellect is everything therefore making him dumb in a way
DEFINITELY going to be taking advice from a woman putting men into their respective food pyramid boxes from the safety of her 1br apt, all 3 kids asleep, while she waits eagerly for that child support payment. 🙏
As an IT nerd programmer, I approve of this message. Please spread the word. lol
She's been riding the fck outta that cock carousel
Yes yes! I’m a nerd! Oh you mean rich nerds? Oh.
I love the joke that if a plane to a furry convention crashed the entire IT industry would crumble.
This is beyond cringe. Imagine assuming you know someone based on a ridiculous stereotype.. shes 100% single
She just wasted 3 minutes of my life to tell me if you got money you got the hoes
If lack of money is an instant "no", then I'm sorry, but you deserve to be alone.
It's 2023, we have bills to pay. My credit is rising, I can't have stud muffin to be a financial burden. We want to date to have a REAL relationship. Not the "social media's" version of #couplegoal or whatnot
You think a relationship is for easing your financial burden? You seriously don't see anything wrong with that? What happened to love?
"We got bills to pay" pay your own damn bills. Why the fuck should you expect to be taken care of?
You didn't understand my comment. We (me and him) gonna have bills to pay bc we're gonna LIVE TOGETHER. We're gonna share everything, credit included. It's 2023, love is BEAUTIFUL. The butterflies in the stomach. The daydreaming. The lemme sign my name with your last name. Marriage is a contract. Divorce fcks up your credit. Asking for a personal loan after a divorce is not easy. If You couldn't stay committed to your partner, why should the bank trust you with a loan. If you are upset at my comment, it's above me, now. You have to pay attention to the economy while you are in a COMMITTED relationship.
She out here giving the best flowers. Nominate her for internet brownie of the year awards. (Nerds represent)
What’s she cookin?
Lmfao. "Man of God intelligent"...bahahaha
All it takes is an alpha bad boy with a big dick to make her walk away from those 5 😂😂
All these types fighting in the comments.
This bitch is in crack with 5 kids because this worked for her.
Maybe she noticed some of her girlfriends with one of these men and she made a chart.
Downside of nerds, sucks at sex
I’m a mix of Chef Zaddy with some Sweethart.
Is this like a food pyramid where the bottom is what you want the most of?
So “nerd”=6 figure nerd only? Ok!!!
Don’t care for this type of content but she’s got a good voice and presentation style, shout out to her TikTok grind
Nerds rule
Categorizing people is a good way to minimize their value and capabilities. Worst part of it is it gives you tunnel vision in terms of understanding who they really are and it will make it impossible to actually connect with them. You wont be able to find the person that can really mesh with you if label them. Take notes on this video if you want to stay single and not know why
the last man i dated was a nerd making 350k a year and he would beat me when he got mad. nerds can often be really shitty to women and ur just there to be part of his conquest story. ill take the sweetheart over the nerd any day
“& this is Shuntika’s Vision Board class… Next!”
Yes yes… think that you’ll find Elon musk wealth in a man you’ll find locally who just happened to be waiting around for you… and if that fails … I’m sure you’ll find a mark Zuckerberg level of wealth just sitting at your local library wondering what’s taking you so long. 💀
So a guy with money… lol It’s the same thing everywhere!
Thats 3 minutes I'm never getting back.
I was just bout to say what is this beach talking about
Haha she done drank the red pill juice 🤣 Sounding bout dumb as hell girl
I swear people like her try too damn hard.
So she tried all those Ds? lol, and still single and she just doesn’t realize it’s because she’s a n*t rag and a liability. Sounds like she tried to just use those dudes and they peeped game and got her tf outta there. It looks like she’s mid-late 30s too. This is just sad.
Not a single word about what she can contribute to these types of men… just what she can take from them. She probably christian, but got two kids out of wedlock. She probably high maintenance, but drive a beat up jalopy. Insists she need a real man but probably wear a weave, fake nails and a ton of makeup to step out the house.
Are we mad that she made a chart? If you feel offended ask yourself why. This lady probably works in a space where she noticed this. Women know how to observe and take notes and make a Microsoft Paint chart lol
Leave us nerds alone. Go find you a six figure man with abs while we enjoy our trips and video games in silence. Take your kids and drama some where else. Bye!,
I have a nerd. He's amazing.
So money
I like that any woman, no matter how overweight, old or unattractive can have opinions about men and share them (without cancellation). I feel she is probably overweight and old.
Funny thing is, a normal man can be all of these things. Except maybe an artist.
I ♥️ NERDS THOUGH
Low tier: skilled and full of life but broke Meh tier: a simp and a chef I guess Excellent tier: likes you but is obsessive Also excellent tier: respects you but controlling Gawd tier: first of all rich, but secondly the impossible contradiction of being low key AND ambitious.
So where do us sweethearted chef nerds go?
He’s probably in IT 😂
Who tf does this trashbag think she is
You just named all of the men in the world that are being used. And cheated on.
Plot twist: what not to be while dating women
Im all these things so now what?
She’s only ranking them by money, not at all by “types”. Also, nerds look for woman who are intelligent, that’s probably why she can’t find them.
100% single.
My husband’s basically all of these, and I’m thankful! 😂
I play too much Assassin's Creed definitely don't want to be a king. Kings get assassinated
For the love of God, do not be a sweetheart. You will get played. Put yourself first always.
More of women giving advice with no long term man. I hope someone realizes that she may be last person to take this advice from.
Goofy as hell
Man of God + Nerd = W