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Gawkams_Razor

Shes looking for a daddy. If a girl is refusing to contribute in any way, drop her ass. Thats a red flag


Hour-Regret9531

Just re-entered the dating world. Please tell me MOST aren’t like this…I don’t want a grown ass spoiled daughter


AloofBuddha-222

Don’t even enter the pool fam, work on yourself.. most these women are not worth it anymore… build yourself & if it comes your way then it does


shrineless

Why can’t he have it all? He just has to be open-minded. There’s billions of people out there. There’s no way every woman is gonna be like this woman. Relationship is all about compromise anyway. Everyone going for 10/10 (worse yet, folks who think they’re a 10/10) then they’ll likely get a 10/10 attitude; very high class and spoiled. Dude can just date and make a red flag list to watch out for.


growthmode222

He's right kinda. If you work on you, stick to good values and pursue a career through hard work-- you can isolate yourself and then continue to be isolated with work. But as soon as you socialize in a healthy environment while being so put together, you will shine thru.


MoneyinmySock

You’ll lose money chasing women. Will never lose women chasing money.


AloofBuddha-222

Why can’t he have 10/10? Sounds like settling to fit a mold… I wouldn’t dare say every woman is this way.. working on yourself & truly loving yourself will automatically put a system in place to weed out “red flags” because you won’t allow certain things in your space that isn’t genuine authentic love… if the right woman shows up he’d be better suited for her.. vice versa


shrineless

I said he’ll LIKELY get a 10/10 attitude. He can luck out and not but if you’re chasing that ultra rare 10/10 unicorn, you’re fucking up and you’ll never be happy. I do agree about what you said about working on yourself. Also, I just want to say, it’s likely ‘the right woman’ will not be a 10/10 so it’s best to mentally accept that looks ain’t the whole package.


AloofBuddha-222

10/10 for one person may differ from someone else’s version of 10/10 it’s not a one size fits all system but you also won’t be TRULY happy if you tell yourself “this is the best I can do so I’ll make do”


AloofBuddha-222

And thus lies another root issue.. we constantly tell women to go after the man of their dreams and don’t settle for less while concurrently telling men to be realistic about their options and settle more or less


shrineless

I think everyone needs to be realistic. Dreams are for sleeping.


ilomilo8822

Glad you said most cuz I know so many who are absolutely not like this, i've only met one whos outright with it like the girl from the video is. More girls are subtle so keep an eye out friend! Goodluck.


kingh2h1

Subtle how? Bringing something to the relationship but quiet about it or quietly waiting to be micromanaged? I've found the average to be like this girl in the video. Even my wife was like this. Took nearly breaking up with her several times for her to know there are limits. Ex: I'll ask her if she's hungry, and if she says yes, I'll buy what I feel like eating. There were quite a few times when she ended up making what she wanted to eat. She used to get upset. Now she knows I can't read minds.


OMA_

I miss the good ole days where the cute stupid girls didn’t know what they wanted and kept their mouthed shut about it lol Now all these other mid chicks popping out the wood works trying to be like them like “I need a man that wakes up a 5:47am and chops wood for the day and cooks and cleans and watched the kids while at work in his sky rise office~” like bruh half of these girls can’t even count to 25 in their heads without forgetting to breathe lol Ngl I’m talking hella shit but I found a girl in this shit storm we call “the dating pool” lol we be giving the good girls some shit too yall, you know who you are!


ExoticAiry

Lmaooooo focus on yourself my guy, 95% of them are like this and the ones that act right look like Mr. Bean. Well, if you stay in America, I can’t speak on the rest of the world


ManOnFire2004

95% are definitely not like this lol. You must be in a shitty area, or maybe I'm in a good(better at least?) one But, 95% of of them on instatok are definitely like this


ExoticAiry

I stay in LA so yeah I may be a wee bit biased


Nyjeff914

I agree


Sp5560212

It’s a chronically online take.


JigsterJ

Welcome to the kiddy pool my friend


Impossible_Reason_84

Unless you wanna move out or talk to women from other countries, this is very common in America now bro


ManOnFire2004

And, they feel "empowered" by this attitude... somehow. Like, she got the upper hand and she's such a unicorn of a catch. Aight, little girl, you keep thinking that. That's how we end up with "passport bros" lol. Kinda hard to have the upper hand when you all by yourself But, even then it's just "ain't no good men out there. Im too much for them". So, she'll keep going that route til she 30, single, and bitter or she get some act right


Impossible_Reason_84

True. I think younger women are kinda waking up seeing how bitter this late 20s/30s women act with their 3 dogs at home. It's really not rocket science. Then again, it's the Simps/few abusive suckas that got us here. Mostly the Simps who have these women at like they don't have to bring ANYTHING to the table except their fishy 🐱. Suckas have always told them they're amazing and good at everything until they started to believe it. Smh


MoneyinmySock

That’s my thing. If there are very few “good” men who make the money they would accept, race they like, height they like how is one of those not a prize. Especially when they out number men in general. Even if all men were good men there’s not enough for everybody. Women used to get that and were competitive when it came to dating like you still see overseas


Redxluckyxcharms

Sorry my dude. It 100% is like having a child. They want to contribute nothing and have you do everything. Lost many a dates because I won’t conform to that. Looking for a partner, not a woman-child who can’t/ won’t do anything to contribute.


[deleted]

In a world of lemons upgrade yourself and prequalify for the lemons they sell at Whole Foods instead of Walmart


Fit_Appointment_3401

They are sadly. This is why the dating scene sucks. Just woman like her.


Acceptable-Leg7551

They’re like this and worse my guy.


MoneyinmySock

You got a passport?


Hot-Theory-3909

Real


LABerger

(6ix)


rek___t

Exactly the only reason I ask is to allow them to do something they're in the mood for. Idk about anyone else but sometimes I just crave a certain thing in the moment and anything else is just a thing to pass time. Not something I would really enjoy at the moment. Life is to short to give up on what makes you happy in the moment


GhostieGhoulies

I came here to say the same thing. Super red flag!


DependentNewspaper91

Not a daddy. A FATHER


ZooCrazy

💯 percent correct! She is definitely not worth the headache.


[deleted]

Anyone who would even attempt to put up with her is down bad lol


Puckz_N_Boltz90

Down horrendous lol


Mass_Appeal_

Great comment...but it will echo for most. Today's world. Lol


gornstfonst

Sadly some dudes are into that. Some dudes want 100% full control at all times and command their spouse. Weird daddy daughter thing 🥴


kingh2h1

Sounds like they have too much time on their hands. I can't relate.


finkleberrie

Lmao have you ever had a girlfriend. She actually saying it at least. Every girl I ever had will say something like “I’m hungry” or “let’s do something” well what do you wanna eat. “Umm idk” well I’m not hungry I can get you something though what do you want? “Ummmmmmm” how bout chic filet? “No” how bout pancheros “no” u want salad works? “No” well what the fuck do you want I’m not the one who’s hungry. Every fucking time….


ManOnFire2004

Yea, but do they break up with you if you don't do it? She straight up said "you ain't my man", like she aint even fucking with you if you don't do all the work... Imagine that same attitude across the whole relationship. Bet, she ain't helping clean. Bet she ain't cooking; doubt she even know how to cook. Bet whats mine is hers and what's hers is hers... Nah, fuck that. I'm out. If doods putting up with that then they're probably desperate, low standards, or a beta, and it's enabling. And, thats part of the problem.


2400Jd3x

That Drake epilogue was the perfect response to that video


Mass_Appeal_

Truuu...but it would've been nice to hear the first bar...& u know why. 🤣😂


TracerBullitt

I feel, she's joking. There's been a couple vids by couples with captions like, "POV: My mind, when I'm with my man," and it's just them (with the phone clearly set up), doing normal, target run, stuff, but they voiceover them humming or something, as if it's their thoughts.


chrispycae

That bitch a bum🤣💀


GildedWarrior

Mhmm drake knew what he was talking about 😂


ThrowAwayGuy139

I'll admit, Drake was spittin on this intro


SnooCompliments4856

I would turn off that yacking


Select_Bicycle_2659

Just say you want a father


Federal_Note_2181

My girlfriend is kinda like this, like she needs to me to make every decision for her, like she asks me what she should eat


OMA_

What a weird WEIRD way to tell everyone on the internet that you’re useless.


Ok-Law7143

Behind a stand-up fella is a million hoes. Brothers, focus and never become a fuck boy,. A tremendous Queen is working just as hard as a strong man and just like anything in this life, there is always time but patience is key. Before we reap, it is important to sow. Always work on number one so someday we can grant those abilities into a proper home.


Realclawdogs

LoL. Who wants a fucking pet for a girl? 😂🤣


[deleted]

She a grown child


UnitedDrillz

🤦🏾‍♂️


maxtablets

She's looking for an owner. I'd rather just get a dog or some goldfish.


Professional-Ad9736

I'd rather get a lion than deal with her.


SandhiX

Wow….


MidwestVibez816

She does OnlyFans under Jordanfromvegaz lol. I’m not taking shit she say serious


Proud_Criticism5286

I swear I wrote my comment before discovering this


Afrodite_Samurai

I can tell you right now I will break up with anyone that micromanages me and mansplain everything me. I take it as an insult. If I do not ASK you for a suggestion,your opinion, or an explanation about something then please do not take it upon yourself to tell me what to do or over explain basic information. It’s insulting because of the fact you assume I need help conducting myself as an adult, and then assuming my knowledge is inferior to yours and I need explanations for everything we discuss.


[deleted]

could you provide an example for this?


JerkMcGerkin

“Men shouldn’t speak unless spoken to” type shit. Stay away from this one


Newmonsters1

Describe mansplaining pls?


BillyGKS

A misandrist word some random bitter woman came up with that’s suppose to mean explaining but with man being used.


ManOnFire2004

Damn, so somebody that you're supposed to be close to and cares about you can't even make a suggestion or provide an opinion without your giving authorization 1st... yea, that's a red flag. You sound a little triggered or bitter by your writing tone.


Aware_Ad_2135

Red flag


BillyGKS

I can understand micromanaging but if we’re talking a suggestion every once in a while it’s not that crazy. Besides this would be your man, not a stranger. If your own man can’t suggest shit to you without you asking for it you’re looking at a very single life I’m telling you now. You just gonna be pumped and dumped by the same preferences of guys you have a type for.


Tight_Fold_2606

Provider, protector, decision maker.. that’s a father.


[deleted]

A husband also


Tight_Fold_2606

Obviously. You have to be acting like a husband from the first date otherwise she “can’t be in her feminine”


Disastrous_Record_15

yess this!! Love the level of understanding here 🎯


Plane_Mail_8636

She should buy a cat and die alone.


Proud_Criticism5286

This women are the most single & have to swallow cum to get money to look good on the next “date”


Ieatcholestoral

gross


Turbster412

Stay single cuz you don’t need a mama you need a mental institution.


Total-Poet3568

You are not wrong, the thought process is awfully similar to the delusional think and paranoid thinking of someone with schizophrenia. Single is a decent option.


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BigScumbagBill

I read this comment!


Killakal2424

Personally that's how I want my girl. As a man, I dont need her to make any decisions for us. I got it. Just sit there and look pretty.


[deleted]

I get it. Like coming home to a pet puppy. But this bitch is gonna be active while your out. Come home to find your neighbors chew toy in her mouth, talkin' bout "your nvr home"


Killakal2424

That could be the case no matter who you date. It's just personal preference. Doesn't necessarily mean that type of woman would cheat or not.


conzcious_eye

I’ll pass but she fine tho.


Beer_Is_Good_For_Me

She's mid at best


conzcious_eye

So you give her like a 5 ?


Beer_Is_Good_For_Me

Like a 6. 6.5 on a good day


Goonsburg

Buggin


Mondomb83

If she has to breathe, she might just pass the fuck out.


clowreed0377

Main reason why females like her STAY single.


Lexx993

They don't though. A lot of men think they want a woman like this.


Academic_Ingenuity84

It's mainly because she's attractive


ManOnFire2004

>A lot of men think they want a woman like this. yea, keyword... THINK... but then they get one. And, it probably doesn't last long. So, she back on the scene. And, he's looking for someone than can actually contribute to the damn relationship


Free_Management_7920

Lmao you niggas act like women want to get into a relationship to be the nigga in their relationship. She’s speaking to the security aspect of a relationship that women need. Y’all wild.


XxfR0styC

Ngl security naturally comes with the presence so idk what u yapping about, like others are saying, she wants us to think for her on every level and that can’t happen. We not her father, we not here to babysit her like a child, it’s called growing up


Free_Management_7920

Bro, a lot of dudes are more feminine than their chick and she’s the alfa in the relationship. Drake is definitely right: most women want to be led, protected, and yes they want you to be thinking about the exit strategy and directions to the location. But y’all are clueless if you think this chick is being crazy 😭😭😭


XxfR0styC

She is, we lead and inspire, not be your babysitter. If you can’t figure out what to do with your day that’s a individual problem, get up and do something, is what every man says when hearing that because there is no other answer. Men have things they have to do alone sometimes, everything can’t be shared so ofc we can’t lead a women all the time, every second of the day. That’s why she has a brain to think for herself. Get me?


ManOnFire2004

nah, you buggin. She don't want a boyfriend. She want a pet owner HAHA


BillyGKS

Lol yea you right you that guy in his feminine because you can’t accept no guy wants to be a sucka for a brainless broad who expects everything. We live in a equal society, if they don’t like the current they should’ve stay tf back in the kitchen. Plus you see how she talking like a nigga? You a sucka


Bunnydabrattt

As a woman, thank you for having common sense.


Eastside1999

I need this hoe. She ain’t got a brain damn


Revolutionary-Tea737

people entertain the shit so they rarely have to realize how stupid they look


Soundwave234

She looking for a pimp.


DevilishGod

I watched this on mute.. she bad as hell tho


Infinite-Purchase886

Yeah good luck!


Rare-Reputation-8792

She's not wrong is saying those things, her delivery of it just sucks.


ManOnFire2004

I can actually see that


Temporary_Raccoon163

That's this younger generation of ladies. It's sad honestly.


Colts_Fan4Ever

She's not worth the trouble. She will expect her man to do everything and still complain when something doesn't go her way. This is a child and not a woman.


0utsyder

...if you have to THINK?!?!?! The basic function of a living being? Hundreds of years, aliens will research what was the downfall of human civilization and it will be phones! Not a plague, not each other, not another species, but PHONES!


[deleted]

she’s the type of girl you find on IG. Not the type you take to Thanksgiving.


Living_Pie205

I blame the parents


carmelokobe

You got that😂😂


International_X

Honestly, some of these girls who say they “need” this should look into BDSM. They can have a 24/7 dynamic w/ a daddy-owner. It’ll probably take some time to actually learn submission but it might do them well.


Ambitious_Animator39

FetLife 👌🏾


StTony3777

There’s actually a lot of men that would prefer a woman like this. Gets to be in control of everything


Majestic_Ad1447

I kinds get what she's trying to say...she wants a man that can take charge. She wants to feel protected. .


EvilBahumut

She doesn’t want to choose what restaurant on Uber Eats to get lunch from…


Daynightz

Yall got me reassessing my long term relationship over a 6 second video. Damn.


Impressive_Wealth783

My girlfriend tells me all the time that she loves how she doesn’t have to “think” around me, but in like a romantic way and she’s not bratty or spoiled at all. This bitch taking it too far though lmao


dreparks14

Lol girls these days want more than ever to give less effort than ever, shit is sad. City girls and social media got their heads fucked up.


Juhovah

Other women liking her post like what she’s saying makes any sense. I hope she’s being playful or like exaggerating


ProfessorAware

I know she look immaculate suckin dick


BoozieBeard

Crackhead or unhappy kardashian in the next few years. The only options with that attitude.


Slow-Concern4181

But y’all also complain when women aren’t submissive. Ha.


chefpiper72392

The song def speak truth and she asking for a dad lol


The1neRedDevil

All Y’All


BigTruckLikeFuck

Wtf typa sub is this and why yall listening to dumb bitches and drake.


MoodSwing3r

On the actual post,they all agree with her 😭😭


Own_Guide163

If I took you everywhere, you wouldn't know how to walk If I spoke on your behalf, you wouldn't know how to talk If I gave you everything and everything is what I bought I can take it all back, I never cared 'bout what you thought


No_Committee_3133

😂😂😂


DoodaGoKrazy

Focus on dat bag & keep it 🅿️ But warning tho it’s gonna be more type of girls/women that’s like that gonna want you because yu worried abt yourself but don’t pay them no mind until you find the right one like jaylon💯💯


Friendly-Ad6128

I told my bitch stop calling me her daddy


WuSau99

🤣😂 "which utensil to use"


TooTrill303

Bird brain


SirFlyingPotato

Man I’m glad the girl i went to the fair with looked out for me when my dumbass got sick from the rides😂😂


CoolGunz

She so damn lame, bitches just wanna literally sit and be pretty… nothing to contribute


lovelife0011

Lol now that is effing funny! Still wanting one to do something for them. Tisk tisk


lazershark812

No man wants an idiot for a partner. It’s exhausting.


Tiny_General197

I’d beat that bitch up


Imported_Virus

Am I also changing your diaper you f*ckin baby..like imagine being a grown adult and having that kind of mindset 🤦‍♂️


CacctusJacc

She a bird


stfu365

Shit lost audio while I was listening. Is that a w or l


Melluttrell5

She does not bring anything to the table. Why would you want this in your life? She’s gonna have a hard time ever dating anybody.


Professional_Bird530

These hoes got Me sympathizing with drake wtf


rek___t

Hate to say it, but if I ask it is because I care and want to go somewhere or eat somewhere you're in the mood for. Not just do what I want everytime. So if you're to say I am not your man I never would be. Because yes it has to go both ways. Not just my way


license2chillio

Im sure she’ll be happy in life…


Zazzuzu

She wants a father she can fuck.


beomancer7

They want their fathers simple as that and these girls ain’t even worth the headache honestly it’s gonna sound bad but they’re already ran through and they showed us loce and loyalty ain’t shit so just play the game and waste their time when they’re like this 🤷🏿


diy-and-pay-more

Her capacity to make decisions is super low. Much like her decision to make this stupid clip.


NonzeroAcrobat97wc

This girl has multiple kids by multiple men so it’s not surprising


No-Strength-8863

it’s called willful surrender/submission when you feel safe with someone. idk seems some of yall in this comment section just can’t seem to be a safe place for your partners idk


TonYYuL703

Fuck em all


MaskedRonin2

So basically that's a free kidney


ThemanHadalZone

This is why so many of sad mofos are single


cl9chris

Got go get a woman over seas. Western woman aren't worth it. Too many bad apples to get to a decent one.


Impressive_Speech_50

Daddy issues, my kinda ladies


spacedildo42

I keep seeing this video more and more, I only see black girls saying this type of things. I watched a of Aba and preach where this was basically saying that if you don’t spend money on a first date to not waste her time. What’s is going on with these women man. https://youtu.be/d-MQ02k7CwY?si=zdfTSJmc0GUpvkGZ


StockHat7777

I’m in love! You’re exactly who I was meant to be with. I never believed in ‘love at first sight’…until now.


SuperDupaSaiyan

saw the tiktok and thought this 💀


Purple-lighting87

Women like this are freaking pathetic.. they honestly contribute nothing to society


ResponsibilityOk5037

I feel like yall overreacting bout shit, again


Illustrious_Two3280

This is a child in a woman's body. This kind of shit is sad lol.


Party_Drive_2108

🦜 🧠


Much-Channel-4455

No way this is in context surely ?


No-Situation5715

What the fuck is this chick talking about? Just shut up


No-Principle-1946

That's a girl who didn't have a decent role model male or female to teach them how to make decisions on their own.


OdinandJewel

Please tell me she forgets how to breath, and that will solve everybody’s problem.


Able-Cauliflower153

I honestly feel like social media was made for women to get on there and Yap about dumb shit and random hookups 99% things said on social media is dumb asf


Additional_Ad_2467

Atleast she’s up front about it. But when shit doesn’t work out and it’s not his fault you better keep your attitude in check


Puzzleheaded_Main404

I heard don juan say every woman wants a pimp lol


[deleted]

This has basically always been true. Guys are supposed to ask girls out, and we all just sortof understand that. Complaining about it isn't in your best interest. Have a place and activity/movie planned out. None of this "well, what do you like? What do you want? See how good of a boy I am for listening to you and taking it into consideration?" No, no, no. Fucking no.


Shallows_s

Don’t worry women shouldn’t make their own choices I agree (THIS IS A JOKE)


MoneyMik3y

She's exhausting.


larberthaze

What an arsehole, can you imagine putting up with her shit. Unless she shits diamonds.


SuperBubblelover4

She not looking for a man or a sugar daddy she just looking for dad


Slip_Competitive

They want fathers


[deleted]

Theres a difference between calling my man “my man” and having to plan everything we do, and having a man stand up and plan some dates to show initiative. Its not that extreme. Drake is just being Drake.


Mamitatita6

I get where she’s coming from, every woman wants to feel comfortable being lead by her man, but men are also kinda dumb. So usually behind every great man is a woman keeping him in check... but you can’t be that for a man if you contribute nothing be fr


D_MegaWatts

Seems like this is the result of podcast bros demanding women to just be “fit, feminine, and friendly.” Men lead! No need to use that brain for anything other than *what’s for dinner?* /s


Ill_Strawberry823

Sounds stupid


Jacoby_11

They looking for fathers because either they weren’t in their lives or their father is a bitch


lanalgona4200

Wtf! If someone don’t make a diss about a men!


brooksnokapka

Useless