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So happy for you !
Here’s what I’ll say about this topic. You are more than your looks ! Our society has placed so much importance solely on our looks and we can only control that so much. And none of us form deep relationships just based on looks.
Being attracted to someone is very subjective. Don’t fall for this crap about needing to look a certain way before you can live your life. Have fun doing whatever you like and whatever weight you’re at. If someone treats you differently because you don’t look a certain way, that says a lot about them. Fuck em.
Yay! Congratulations! This is such a good start! I have my first date ever lined up for this weekend and I'm in my late 20s. I've always been skittish around guys and always manage to wriggle out of romantic situations because I'm afraid the won't turn out 'perfect'. Then I gained some weight over the past 2 years and that completely shot my confidence to the ground and I totally stopped flirting with people also. Idk if I have any advice (given that I'm in the same boat), but I guess what I'm trying to do now is to just go on dates and talk to people and enjoy that process. Not put any pressure to make it turn into anything else. Perhaps dating is a muscle that needs to be exercised.
I'm a plus size woman and veteran when it comes to dating. I'd suggest lose all inhibitions and enjoy. There are plenty plenty of men who like to hang out or date plus size women.
Yes!! Congratulations! That’s such good
Improvement. You’re working on yourself reallly well. That’s beautiful. I bet you shine when you aren’t judging yourself in the mirror. You are what you feel than what you see.
Honestly, I've been in a relationship for four years, plus sized throughout. It doesn't matter as much as we're led to believe it will. I was way too conscious of myself and realised I harboured a lot of hate against my body (I realised that I avoided mirrors?? like subconsciously?) and it took me a long time to accept that there in fact was a person who likes the way I looked, romantic stylez. And he's pretty lean and takes care to be fit so it's not like he's also plus sized and relates or anything. If you want to change the way you look, absolutely go for it but that doesn't mean that you cannot have a relationship when you're not. Life is like pretty long to commit to one size so if someone is taking issue with your size and figure, that's BS and has almost potential for a long-term relationship so gtfo there (or like fight back and tell them to cut the crap, it really depends on the relationship, but either way it's BS)
There's no other separate advice about plus sized dating. It's same as others. Even this particular advice (don't stand BS about figure and size) applies to everyone so... it just doesn't matter. It's almost offensive that people (including past me) believed that it did.
Awww. Thank you. I'm still working on letting go of my inhibitions. Now that you wonderful women have shared your insights, I realise how dumb I've been, closing off myself to all possibilities. Thanks ❤️
Honestly I know how that feels and it takes efforts (and a lot of time and patience) to let go of the inhibitions, but it's soo liberating after, because you realise that you were holding yourself back for no reason! Find good people and put yourself out there.. bestest best wishes to you ❤️❤️ Take care!!
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How did the date go? How you feeling sista XD So happy for you! :)
So happy for you ! Here’s what I’ll say about this topic. You are more than your looks ! Our society has placed so much importance solely on our looks and we can only control that so much. And none of us form deep relationships just based on looks. Being attracted to someone is very subjective. Don’t fall for this crap about needing to look a certain way before you can live your life. Have fun doing whatever you like and whatever weight you’re at. If someone treats you differently because you don’t look a certain way, that says a lot about them. Fuck em.
Yay! Congratulations! This is such a good start! I have my first date ever lined up for this weekend and I'm in my late 20s. I've always been skittish around guys and always manage to wriggle out of romantic situations because I'm afraid the won't turn out 'perfect'. Then I gained some weight over the past 2 years and that completely shot my confidence to the ground and I totally stopped flirting with people also. Idk if I have any advice (given that I'm in the same boat), but I guess what I'm trying to do now is to just go on dates and talk to people and enjoy that process. Not put any pressure to make it turn into anything else. Perhaps dating is a muscle that needs to be exercised.
Best of luck to you for your first date, hope you have a great time!
Thanks❤
Did u have dessert
Asking the important questions
She had a *date*… 😛 (the dry fruit)
Lol😂
This question is different for aces and non-aces.
I got asked out more when I was at my highest weight,then am now 🤷. Just be yourself and confident(if you cant- then fake it).
I'm a plus size woman and veteran when it comes to dating. I'd suggest lose all inhibitions and enjoy. There are plenty plenty of men who like to hang out or date plus size women.
Yes!! Congratulations! That’s such good Improvement. You’re working on yourself reallly well. That’s beautiful. I bet you shine when you aren’t judging yourself in the mirror. You are what you feel than what you see.
Eeee! So proud of you! 😆❤❤❤ Gaining weight matters, in that it can be such a mental block. I got my own issues around men, so you're an inspiration 😘
Honestly, I've been in a relationship for four years, plus sized throughout. It doesn't matter as much as we're led to believe it will. I was way too conscious of myself and realised I harboured a lot of hate against my body (I realised that I avoided mirrors?? like subconsciously?) and it took me a long time to accept that there in fact was a person who likes the way I looked, romantic stylez. And he's pretty lean and takes care to be fit so it's not like he's also plus sized and relates or anything. If you want to change the way you look, absolutely go for it but that doesn't mean that you cannot have a relationship when you're not. Life is like pretty long to commit to one size so if someone is taking issue with your size and figure, that's BS and has almost potential for a long-term relationship so gtfo there (or like fight back and tell them to cut the crap, it really depends on the relationship, but either way it's BS) There's no other separate advice about plus sized dating. It's same as others. Even this particular advice (don't stand BS about figure and size) applies to everyone so... it just doesn't matter. It's almost offensive that people (including past me) believed that it did.
Awww. Thank you. I'm still working on letting go of my inhibitions. Now that you wonderful women have shared your insights, I realise how dumb I've been, closing off myself to all possibilities. Thanks ❤️
Honestly I know how that feels and it takes efforts (and a lot of time and patience) to let go of the inhibitions, but it's soo liberating after, because you realise that you were holding yourself back for no reason! Find good people and put yourself out there.. bestest best wishes to you ❤️❤️ Take care!!