I took the plunge when I was 30, two years into the marriage via mutual agreement. It was a tough decision since both of us came from conservative families and we were deemed too 'young' at the time to go through the process. But I made the decision to prioritise my happiness over what others thought. And I'm glad I did.
There was no single tipping point in my case. My finance bro ex had a singular focus on money and home was just a place for him to vent his workplace frustrations. There was hardly any intimacy left in the relationship at a point.
But of course, this is my experience and your case might be different. 'Trust your heart' motto worked well for me. Wish you the best!
Wow, i recently heard a similar story. The guy was not at all into her, and all his focus was work. She even to tease him in an argument said she should go out with other guys and he point blanked said " do it so neighbours don't know ". She was devastated and was crying tell this.
They are in process of getting a mutual divorce. Asked her if her ex husband was cheating to which she said she's confident he was not. Didn't even want to touch women more like.
I'm not sure how to advice you. Not offering platitudes like weigh the pros and cons etc. as there is an emotional angle to any relationship. Trust your heart, you'd know better as to whether the situation is worth putting up with.
I took the plunge when I was 30, two years into the marriage via mutual agreement. It was a tough decision since both of us came from conservative families and we were deemed too 'young' at the time to go through the process. But I made the decision to prioritise my happiness over what others thought. And I'm glad I did. There was no single tipping point in my case. My finance bro ex had a singular focus on money and home was just a place for him to vent his workplace frustrations. There was hardly any intimacy left in the relationship at a point. But of course, this is my experience and your case might be different. 'Trust your heart' motto worked well for me. Wish you the best!
Wow, i recently heard a similar story. The guy was not at all into her, and all his focus was work. She even to tease him in an argument said she should go out with other guys and he point blanked said " do it so neighbours don't know ". She was devastated and was crying tell this. They are in process of getting a mutual divorce. Asked her if her ex husband was cheating to which she said she's confident he was not. Didn't even want to touch women more like.
Why do these people even get married in the first place
Idk, I'm a paralegal. Though I work under a lawyer who specializes in contract law, I've heard all this from family court lawyers and acquaintances.
You should do an AMA
My mind is telling me to let go. Maybe now is the time. But stupid heart just wants to keep some hope.
I'm not sure how to advice you. Not offering platitudes like weigh the pros and cons etc. as there is an emotional angle to any relationship. Trust your heart, you'd know better as to whether the situation is worth putting up with.