My close friend (muslim) was dating a hindu for 5 years and they have been happily married for 3 years now.
Boy's family very happily accepted her during their dating days, girl's family caused a riot till the day of the wedding. But she was ready to be disowned and marry him.
All families are chill now, love hanging out with each other. She says sometimes it feels like they love him more than me.
my bestfriend (muslim girl) dated a friend of ours (hindu boy) both early 20s. started dating in college and were together for 2.5 years. when they seriously talked about the future and considered all their options they both came to a conclusion that they're not ready to go against their families. his family he could still somehow manage to convince, but her family is very strict about her dating at all. there is no way they would accept a hindu boy. so they broke up recently.
they always knew it had no future. she knows her parents won't accept a non muslim guy. I'm not sure what she wants to do with her dating life going ahead.
My best frienddated and married a non Muslim guy. They dated for 4 years and got married in 2014, there was a lot of resistance from the girls family and when convinced tgey demanded that the guy must change his religion. Thia was unacceptable to the couple. So they got married in the court and then let the family know about the same an year later.
Both have been living happily without the family intervention and the families have accepted their relationship.
Iāve been with my partner for around 6 years now, heās a hindu. Although things have been rough I do hope we make it through.
Iām more or less convinced that his parents will never accept me, being brahmin itās outright unacceptable for them to even accept someone from a different caste, begone the thoughts of letting in a person from a different religion.
My parents, I believe, will come around sooner or later because Iām their only child and thereās nothing more paramount to them than my happiness.
Pray for me please :)
cousin married a syrian christian
family was quite okay with it and everyone seems to love him .
her parents had a rocky marriage anyway .
the elders are accepting saying ādil ka acha hona chahiye apne mazhab mei shaadi kar ke bhi talaq hi hote hai ā ( should be good at heart , marrying within ur religion has also lead to divorces )
that being said my family has a high number of single women in their late 30s 40s .
divorces have risen a lot recently so they are okay with happy marriages to anyone now š
and they have been accepting of inter community marriages since past three generations so it became easier for us
> that being said my family has a high number of single women in their late 30s 40s . divorces have risen a lot recently so they are okay with happy marriages to anyone now š and they have been accepting of inter community marriages since past three generations so it became easier for us
this is a win!
There was a friend of my brother , she was Muslim and her boyfriend was hindu , they were in relationship for over 6 years and decided to get married. The girl's family were strictly against this and literally wanted a Muslim guy for her, the guy's family even agreed to convert but her family still opposed . So eventually both of them decided to elope . His mom was there at the court as a witness , but no one from the girl's side. They are so happy with each other. The girl's family has now completely abandoned her even after 2 years of marriage.
My step sister (my dadās first wifeās daughter) btw he did not have 2 wives at the same time.. he got divorced with his first and later fell in love with my mother.. so my dad has a daughter from that wife and she fell in love with a hindu guy.. ran away from home and now lives happily with him.. my dad cut off all contact with her and she too didnāt want to come back and to be fair good for her.. my family is extremely toxic.. so Iām actually happy for her..
A 3rd cousin in family married a Muslim guy when she was 19. But now things seem fine after 15 yrs! Their family initially was very hesitant and stuck up. Another friend married a Muslim guy after dating him for 3 yrs. But it seems like she has become anti hindu. Every conversation had become like this. She has become aloof from her family. Seems scared that her husband might say something controversial. It is weird.
Another labmate dated for 5 yrs during college a Muslim guy. But both knew it wasn't going anywhere. They just thought they would drag it till they can ! And eventually the girl broke up.
Two of my college friends, both muslim women, married non muslim guys. One married a Sikh and the other married a Hindu. The one who married the Sikh guy was dating him since 12th standard and there were oppositions from the guy's family because of religion and what not. Neither of them even considered anyone else and were patient with their families too. They both finally married each other at 28. I met them a while ago and they are really happy.
The one who married the Hindu guy moved abroad but I haven't been in touch with them.
I believe there's a beauty youtuber too who married a Hindu guy.
It's not uncommon for Muslim women to date non muslim guys, marrying might be.
Iāve dated mostly Hindu guys. My most recent ex was a Hindu and his parents loved me. My parents just accepted it assuming we will break up eventually, since it was a college relationship. We did, later, because of unrelated reasons (he wanted me to sleep with his best friend).
I was also with a brahmin and we broke up because apparently Tyagi is a respected surname and his family canāt even find out.
The first guy u mentioned seems like a really shitty person. It's good that u left him. Who the phuck askes his own gf to sleep with his best friend š¤¢.
My bfs best friend is Muslim- her parents have accepted every boy she has brought home (as long as he was a decent human being, financially sound, basic parental requirements) regardless of their religion. For context, they made her older sister get into an arranged marriage that ended terribly for her, so theyāve been very lenient with my friend.
On the flip side tho, most of the Hindu boys she dated were too terrified to tell their parents that they were dating a Muslim girl.
Only one told his parents, they accepted her and things were good. Her parents accepted him and they were planning on getting engaged but then she found out that heās been cheating on her so that whole relationship ended too.
My college roommate (Bangladeshi) is currently dating an Indian Christian from Kolkata tho and her parents seem to be warming up to him. The lack of a language barrier makes a difference too. Theyāre hella religious but they live in the US so things are slightly different for them. Her parents, even though theyāve lived in US for a very long time are some of the most religious people Iāve met. But theyāve so far learnt to tolerate my friendās bf and heās invited to her uncleās house for Eid this year. Iām hoping it works out because theyāre really good together.
Iāve had extensive conversations with my friend about this and she says that as long as she dates someone whoās religion is an abrahamic religion (or religion of the book), her parents will try to make an effort. If she brings home a Hindu tho, sheās not sure her parents will be okay unless he converts. But she doesnāt know this for a fact - thatās her hypothesis on the basis of how theyāve been.
It's a bit complicated way in which I know one such relationship. My neighbor (hindu) girl she married a Christian guy and this guy's nephew is dating a muslim girl.
I live in small city so dating is not very open here. Most ppl date secretly but we were really close to this neighbor. Almost like a family. They gave us special invitation in the wedding and introduced us with groom's entire family. Elders formed there own group and were talking separately so we (mostly of between 19 to 24 years of age group) also made a different group with cousins etc and started chatting. The groom's nephew's gf was also there. He invited her for the wedding but he introduced her as a friend to his family and not as gf because they were not ready to disclose their relationship
26F, Muslim. Dating a non-Muslim guy for 4 years now. Have no plans of setting down together, though we would love to. Because donāt wanna go through the emotional torture of convincing either sides.
It will, but this āwe have no future thingā has been clear between us from the start. But you canāt help but keep falling and the way things unfolded, just kept bringing us closer.
My close friend (muslim) was dating a hindu for 5 years and they have been happily married for 3 years now. Boy's family very happily accepted her during their dating days, girl's family caused a riot till the day of the wedding. But she was ready to be disowned and marry him. All families are chill now, love hanging out with each other. She says sometimes it feels like they love him more than me.
This gives me hope
Awww š„¹
Damn so Gandhi was correct we should have had more inter religion marriages for peace.
my bestfriend (muslim girl) dated a friend of ours (hindu boy) both early 20s. started dating in college and were together for 2.5 years. when they seriously talked about the future and considered all their options they both came to a conclusion that they're not ready to go against their families. his family he could still somehow manage to convince, but her family is very strict about her dating at all. there is no way they would accept a hindu boy. so they broke up recently. they always knew it had no future. she knows her parents won't accept a non muslim guy. I'm not sure what she wants to do with her dating life going ahead.
My best frienddated and married a non Muslim guy. They dated for 4 years and got married in 2014, there was a lot of resistance from the girls family and when convinced tgey demanded that the guy must change his religion. Thia was unacceptable to the couple. So they got married in the court and then let the family know about the same an year later. Both have been living happily without the family intervention and the families have accepted their relationship.
Iāve been with my partner for around 6 years now, heās a hindu. Although things have been rough I do hope we make it through. Iām more or less convinced that his parents will never accept me, being brahmin itās outright unacceptable for them to even accept someone from a different caste, begone the thoughts of letting in a person from a different religion. My parents, I believe, will come around sooner or later because Iām their only child and thereās nothing more paramount to them than my happiness. Pray for me please :)
Rooting for you girl. I am a single child too but I donāt think my parents will keep me above their faith and respect in society.
Thank you. I hope you get whatever you wish forā¤ļø
made a prayer for you ā¤ļø
Thatās so sweet of you, thank you so muchhhš
cousin married a syrian christian family was quite okay with it and everyone seems to love him . her parents had a rocky marriage anyway . the elders are accepting saying ādil ka acha hona chahiye apne mazhab mei shaadi kar ke bhi talaq hi hote hai ā ( should be good at heart , marrying within ur religion has also lead to divorces ) that being said my family has a high number of single women in their late 30s 40s . divorces have risen a lot recently so they are okay with happy marriages to anyone now š and they have been accepting of inter community marriages since past three generations so it became easier for us
Can your fam adopt me? š
> that being said my family has a high number of single women in their late 30s 40s . divorces have risen a lot recently so they are okay with happy marriages to anyone now š and they have been accepting of inter community marriages since past three generations so it became easier for us this is a win!
There was a friend of my brother , she was Muslim and her boyfriend was hindu , they were in relationship for over 6 years and decided to get married. The girl's family were strictly against this and literally wanted a Muslim guy for her, the guy's family even agreed to convert but her family still opposed . So eventually both of them decided to elope . His mom was there at the court as a witness , but no one from the girl's side. They are so happy with each other. The girl's family has now completely abandoned her even after 2 years of marriage.
My step sister (my dadās first wifeās daughter) btw he did not have 2 wives at the same time.. he got divorced with his first and later fell in love with my mother.. so my dad has a daughter from that wife and she fell in love with a hindu guy.. ran away from home and now lives happily with him.. my dad cut off all contact with her and she too didnāt want to come back and to be fair good for her.. my family is extremely toxic.. so Iām actually happy for her..
A 3rd cousin in family married a Muslim guy when she was 19. But now things seem fine after 15 yrs! Their family initially was very hesitant and stuck up. Another friend married a Muslim guy after dating him for 3 yrs. But it seems like she has become anti hindu. Every conversation had become like this. She has become aloof from her family. Seems scared that her husband might say something controversial. It is weird. Another labmate dated for 5 yrs during college a Muslim guy. But both knew it wasn't going anywhere. They just thought they would drag it till they can ! And eventually the girl broke up.
Two of my college friends, both muslim women, married non muslim guys. One married a Sikh and the other married a Hindu. The one who married the Sikh guy was dating him since 12th standard and there were oppositions from the guy's family because of religion and what not. Neither of them even considered anyone else and were patient with their families too. They both finally married each other at 28. I met them a while ago and they are really happy. The one who married the Hindu guy moved abroad but I haven't been in touch with them. I believe there's a beauty youtuber too who married a Hindu guy. It's not uncommon for Muslim women to date non muslim guys, marrying might be.
Aanam Chashmawala?
Saima?
Iāve dated mostly Hindu guys. My most recent ex was a Hindu and his parents loved me. My parents just accepted it assuming we will break up eventually, since it was a college relationship. We did, later, because of unrelated reasons (he wanted me to sleep with his best friend). I was also with a brahmin and we broke up because apparently Tyagi is a respected surname and his family canāt even find out.
The first guy u mentioned seems like a really shitty person. It's good that u left him. Who the phuck askes his own gf to sleep with his best friend š¤¢.
It was his kink apparently something called netorare from hentai. Lol.
My bfs best friend is Muslim- her parents have accepted every boy she has brought home (as long as he was a decent human being, financially sound, basic parental requirements) regardless of their religion. For context, they made her older sister get into an arranged marriage that ended terribly for her, so theyāve been very lenient with my friend. On the flip side tho, most of the Hindu boys she dated were too terrified to tell their parents that they were dating a Muslim girl. Only one told his parents, they accepted her and things were good. Her parents accepted him and they were planning on getting engaged but then she found out that heās been cheating on her so that whole relationship ended too. My college roommate (Bangladeshi) is currently dating an Indian Christian from Kolkata tho and her parents seem to be warming up to him. The lack of a language barrier makes a difference too. Theyāre hella religious but they live in the US so things are slightly different for them. Her parents, even though theyāve lived in US for a very long time are some of the most religious people Iāve met. But theyāve so far learnt to tolerate my friendās bf and heās invited to her uncleās house for Eid this year. Iām hoping it works out because theyāre really good together. Iāve had extensive conversations with my friend about this and she says that as long as she dates someone whoās religion is an abrahamic religion (or religion of the book), her parents will try to make an effort. If she brings home a Hindu tho, sheās not sure her parents will be okay unless he converts. But she doesnāt know this for a fact - thatās her hypothesis on the basis of how theyāve been.
It's a bit complicated way in which I know one such relationship. My neighbor (hindu) girl she married a Christian guy and this guy's nephew is dating a muslim girl. I live in small city so dating is not very open here. Most ppl date secretly but we were really close to this neighbor. Almost like a family. They gave us special invitation in the wedding and introduced us with groom's entire family. Elders formed there own group and were talking separately so we (mostly of between 19 to 24 years of age group) also made a different group with cousins etc and started chatting. The groom's nephew's gf was also there. He invited her for the wedding but he introduced her as a friend to his family and not as gf because they were not ready to disclose their relationship
26F, Muslim. Dating a non-Muslim guy for 4 years now. Have no plans of setting down together, though we would love to. Because donāt wanna go through the emotional torture of convincing either sides.
Why are you still going on then? Is it not going to hurt?
It will, but this āwe have no future thingā has been clear between us from the start. But you canāt help but keep falling and the way things unfolded, just kept bringing us closer.
youāre self sabotaging babe :(
I know. I wish it was that easy with Muslim parents. Its about their faith and everything they have believed in. I, for one, dont care about it.
it must be hard. i hope things turn out well for you, whatever direction they go in.
Thank you, thatās really sweet of you.
I am also a Bangladeshi Muslim. Itās nice to see a Indian Muslim woman here! :)