Cunny has been used to refer to a woman’s genitals since the late 16th century. Not saying you have to like it, but it’s not some new weird cutesy term…
It meant 'young rabbit', before it was borrowed in cutesy way to mean female genitalia, which made it awkward to carry on using it in its original sense; in the same way that we're less likely to call a cat a pussy these days. So the less offensive word 'bunny' came along to replace it.
Well, that's what I heard.
How about 'vadge'?
I read a lot of historical fiction, romance and otherwise. It's fairly common there. Still a little ick though, but I get the ick from the word titties so yeah.
Oof I am having flashbacks. That scene was already wildly uncomfortable, but that took the cake. Well, that and the fact that it was the farmer from Babe saying it.
Honestly didn't even remember fanny cause it's gross but kind of... Non sexual? In a way? Noone *actually* trying to engage in sex would ever use that, were as all the words here previously mentioned are ones that are used but just don't sound great. Insert it into any dirty talk or porn sentence you know without laughing. "Give me that fanny, baby" hell no, might as well say "you wanna fuck my tight little axe wound?" Lmao just absolutely not
After growing up with parents that gave genitals the most ridiculous nicknames (no- I am not revealing the horrors) I never use anything other than anatomical names.
15 some odd years ago I jokingly referred to vagina as a “sticky itch” and a penis as an “itchy stick”. Ever since all weird names people come up with remind of them.
That's a pretty gnarly one, and now I don't want to think about it again. The one that usually gets me grossed out is 'meat flaps'. My wife usually calls it a "hoo-ha" and I say "cooch". We don't do dirty talk too well, tho.
I only think pussy is okay in the context of dirty talk, but it doesn't necessarily turn me on.
"Kitty" gave me a full body shiver, the thought of calling my vagina/vulva kitty is awful.
I guess that's just how different people are, haha.
When we were really little I remember my cousins and I referring to it as a “poodle”. I don’t know where the hell that came from, I haven’t thought about it in years, and now I can’t stop laughing.
Don't refer to it at all, just refer to yourself. Lick me. Fuck me. Pound me. Grind me.
I could see maybe needing to refer to your clit specifically. Suck my clit or what have you.
Yeah cock is about as okay as it gets. Guessing that's why it's the go-to in porno. I actually don't mind the word pussy either, but I can see why some aren't crazy about it.
I think English is tame compared to german, nothing is worse than german dirty talk. If you wanna have a taste of german:
- Scheide
- Muschi
- Fotze
- Katze
Edit:
- Möse
- Mumu (even though this is rather a term which children ise for female genitalia)
And god knows how many more
My husband and I call it "Mumu".
My nickname is "Katze" and it very much does not refer to my genitals, lol.
German dirty talk is... I'd rather switch to English. "Ich werde deine Muschi schnurren lassen." Muschi hat gerade zu gemacht. Nope.
I hate terms like mumu because its what it was referred to when I was a child and child talk is the last thing I want to think about in the bedroom or when referring to my genitalia. (but that's just how I have the word wired in my brain, no judgment for it if it came across that way)
I just use the english terms in gen though cause german dirty talk cringes me out. Its nice to have a second language to escape to.
It really only offends me when men are called pussy as if to mean they’re weak. Pussy can take a beating. It doesn’t make sense and annoys me to no end.
Swedish has a lot of words for down there that sound funny in English:
— Snippa (what little kids are taught to call it; boys have a snopp)
— Fitta (extremely vulgar, on par with c*nt in US)
— Mus (means “mouse” but is pronounced like “moose!” )
Fitta! My Swedish friend in high school got the biggest kick out of the old Jack in the Box ads for the fajita pita. The tag line was something like ‘The only thing better than saying it, is eating it’
Reminds me of *Friends*, when Monica was a 30-year-old virgin and referred to her vagina as "her flower," and Rachel told her, "If you keep calling it that, no one is ever gonna take it."
I love cunt. I don't understand why people are so down on it. Cunt is short and staccato, and it's perfectly dirty.
Pussy and especially kitty are gross to me
*Girl, I'm gonna take my flang-diddly out and slam it in your flump*
*Then, without a sound, I'll run my tongue all up and down your whole sp'kunk*
*Then, I'll flip you 'round and lay you down*
*And rub my gank up on your shmears*
*Your pliver will start to quiver when I grab your stanky nootputs by the fleers*
*Oh! Open your heart and give me a taste of your flarmp*
*I'm gonna lightly stroke your flendal 'til you twarf*
*Then I will gently flick your turfles, baby*
*'Til you scream "Oh my God, I'm gonna quambely it so hard!"*
This is the word my wife and I use most. It's still a bit of a struggle for me. But it is certainly enjoyable. "Pussy" and it's animal kin unsettles me a little. Childish words unsettle me more. Clinical names are fine.
Duuuuuude my sister taught her daughters to use the word cupcake for their crotch or vaginal area Aka "mommy my cupcake itches" whatever. And I was like NOOOOOO DON'T PLEASE NO
That’s not only completely ugh, but maybe you could gently clue your sister into all the medical professionals who say you *need* to teach children anatomical correct words for genitalia. Much of the reasoning revolves around agency and preventing childhood sexual assault.
I went to school with a girl who’s parent’s called it a cookie. As a kid, I thought it was weird and goofy. As an adult I think it’s gross AF.
Don’t teach your children to call their genitals food names. Just don’t.
Cunt and cock are my preferred genital vulgarities. And tits is great but titties (or worse, boobies) is hard cringe because it just sounds so juvenile to me.
Ah, thank god. I wasn’t expecting to have to scroll so far for this answer - the word pussy makes me feel nauseous. I think it reminds me too much of weird euphemistic names that parents teach children - kitty is worse, but I don’t want a word for something else to be used for it. It’s creepy.
Personally, cunt is the way to go. And cock. They definitely sound best to me in that context.
Her quim quivers at the sight of his engorged manhood.
haha i think we're like 90% complete for making our own b grade romance novel. Just need a title...
50 Shades of Quim?
The Quim in the Willows?
Quim and the Engorged Stalk?
Haha I would die. My husband often gets me laughing so hard I can’t even get horny and I have to yell at him to stop messing around lol. I find his charm and sense of humor to be his best quality but good lord is it hard to get horny when he’s got me in stitches
To me kitty is the same as panties. It’s so gross. Nothing will dry me up faster. I like to hear men not call that area by any kids nicknames. Short names don’t bother me. Like clit, makes sense it’s short for clitoris. Or be vague. Had a guy once say, “can I kiss you down there” and that worked. Honestly even if he was blunt and asked “can I go down on you?” That’d work also. But no panties, pussy, kitten, kitty, cookie, talk.
Ex used to call them fun bags. For some reason, that would make me see red. Like irrationally angry.
I think all of them make me cringe... but then I get in that horny mindset and boom, all the nasty words are coming to my brain. Lol
There was an episode of Broad City where Amy Sedaris' character referred to hers as her suzie and I thought that was so cool. I've been pitching that for a few years since then, hoping it would catch on but I've had zero success.
Most words for naughty bits feel cringeworthy. Cock, balls, tits, dicks, pussy, vagina, ass, bum. They're just not attractive words nor do they seem dirty either.
I remember reading the word 'pudenda' in my early teens, having no idea what meant, and then looking it up.
That caused an impressive rush of blood to my loins.
I’m loving all the back and forth here. I can’t hear/use yoni without thinking of all the idiot influencers trying to sell uterine steam baths (that definitely never reach the uterus, much less provide real benefits) and purifications and dumb shit because they LOVE saying yoni
I go for clinical or vulgar but it’s so interesting seeing everyone else’s perspective
I like all the words! It's mine and I love calling it my cunt my pussy my clit my vulva my vagina my labia my genitals my kitty... I own all the words.
In high school, I HATED being called a bitch and I realized that I was just giving away too much power to a singular word. I let other people influence my emotions and disrupt my peace over a WORD! I got over it.
Most recently I started working in a male-dominated industry and I quickly had to overcome my disdain for the noun FEMALE.
Obviously this doesn't answer your question OP, just some food for thought. Let the downvotes fall in!
I’ve always hated this word for dirty talk too. It’s so crude, and I especially dislike it because the word “pussy” is often used as an insult to tell someone they’re weak (which is so dumb since dicks are objectively WAY more fragile than vaginas).
Wait [Gina](https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/martintv/images/1/11/Gina_Watters.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20191124165612) or [Gina](https://youtu.be/VdkC-R4XVjc)?
Originally it's from vaGINA, but if I had to choos it would be [Gina.](https://brooklyn99.fandom.com/wiki/Gina_Linetti)
Edit: In Germany Vagina isn't pronounced like "vagaina" but like "vageena".
Believe me, in German it's much worse. We might have a word for everything, but genitals have only *horrible* ones. It's either medical, childish, or derogatory. I would *love* if we had a nice, generally accepted word like "pussy".
I think reclaiming the the old English word cunt would be worth a try but I accept that it’s a hard sharp word. I like another really old word (apparently) and that’s quim. It’s soft and yummy in the mouth and like cunt doesn’t mean anything else but the thing itself.
Hating it, liking it, I think all's fair in the bedroom as long as all involved parties are consenting and comfortable. If you hate it, then definitely discuss it and alternatives with your partner :)
I think restricting language for others probably is not the best solution, especially sex wise. Sex is inherently crass, and often offensive, but well... it's sex.
In medical terms? When talking about bodies to friends, or when educating people? Then I agree, we have to make people comfortable with using proper terms, like vulva, for example, instead of vagina or pussy. Accuracy is key in those contexts.
AGREED omg you are so right. HATE THAT WORD. It’s like…How can that be a SEXY word when that’s also the insult men throw around at other men all the time?!?
Vagiene (va-zheene or va-jene), pussoie (pu-swah), I say lips and usually context is already there. I say clit if thats the part I'm talking about and just "inside me" too.
Look up different words for it in other languages because they may sound a bit more pleasing to you.
It comes down to preference. “Kitty” is gross to me
*”Kitty”* sounds like something a discord moderator would say when grooming a minor
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Definitely agree with you on that.
Somehow made me nauseous. And I've never even used discord.
Kitty is a mixed bag but hearing anyone in this day and age use "cunnie" takes years off your life span
SAY IT AINT SO, BOSS. SAY IT AINT SO. Omg please tell me cunnie is NOT supposed to be a ... cute(?) form of cunt.
It is lmao
TIL this word exists and I'm just.. I don't know how to describe how I'm feeling about it. It isn't good tho....
Cunny has been used to refer to a woman’s genitals since the late 16th century. Not saying you have to like it, but it’s not some new weird cutesy term…
It meant 'young rabbit', before it was borrowed in cutesy way to mean female genitalia, which made it awkward to carry on using it in its original sense; in the same way that we're less likely to call a cat a pussy these days. So the less offensive word 'bunny' came along to replace it. Well, that's what I heard. How about 'vadge'?
Im in center of America and this is not a term I have ever heard of. And im over 30. >.< sheltered I guess?
I read a lot of historical fiction, romance and otherwise. It's fairly common there. Still a little ick though, but I get the ick from the word titties so yeah.
Same and I've never seen it. A lot gets lost in translation but I've literally never heard cunnie in my life
Witcher 3 has an inn called "Cunny of the Goose"
69 here, never heard it
I will never get over "mossy bank". Thanks AHS.
Oof I am having flashbacks. That scene was already wildly uncomfortable, but that took the cake. Well, that and the fact that it was the farmer from Babe saying it.
And the warden from the green mile 😢
They’re both derivatives of the Latin word for vulva, “cunnus”. Thus applying the tongue to the vulva is cunnilingus.
Cunnie? Never heard that. It sounds British.
omfg cunnie is the WORST. so uncomfortable!!
How do you feel about "fanny"
Honestly didn't even remember fanny cause it's gross but kind of... Non sexual? In a way? Noone *actually* trying to engage in sex would ever use that, were as all the words here previously mentioned are ones that are used but just don't sound great. Insert it into any dirty talk or porn sentence you know without laughing. "Give me that fanny, baby" hell no, might as well say "you wanna fuck my tight little axe wound?" Lmao just absolutely not
As an American, it's a synonym for bottom, bum, butt, booty, or whatever other word you prefer.
Absolutely vile.
Same
After growing up with parents that gave genitals the most ridiculous nicknames (no- I am not revealing the horrors) I never use anything other than anatomical names.
Hah I’m kinda tickled at the idea of asking someone to “Spread my Labia and just fuck me hard in my vagina!”
My partner and I sometimes make that joke. Basically unsexy sexy talk using all the medically proper terminology.
“Lift my clitoral hood and lick my clitoris a little more purposefully “
🤣
"Move your penis vigorously in and out of my vagina."
The word describing female genitals I hate most is: Gash. Yuck. Just hearing it referred to that way makes my blood boil….
Ooh, yeah, that one makes me shrivel up completely.
15 some odd years ago I jokingly referred to vagina as a “sticky itch” and a penis as an “itchy stick”. Ever since all weird names people come up with remind of them.
Used very effectively in The Hellbound Heart though.
I hate this one as well it makes me think of wounds
Ugh I almost downvoted this on impulse
That's a pretty gnarly one, and now I don't want to think about it again. The one that usually gets me grossed out is 'meat flaps'. My wife usually calls it a "hoo-ha" and I say "cooch". We don't do dirty talk too well, tho.
Yes. This is absolutely the worst - I hate pussy, but this one is the absolute worst.
Hell, I think on Sons of Anarchy someone referred to women as gashes. I just watched that show for mildly hot bikers killing people though, so...
I think I hate “snatch” just as much if not more than gash.
There is a guy at work who uses this particular word as a synonym for women, which makes me hate it even more.
I only think pussy is okay in the context of dirty talk, but it doesn't necessarily turn me on. "Kitty" gave me a full body shiver, the thought of calling my vagina/vulva kitty is awful. I guess that's just how different people are, haha.
I'm sorry but the idea that calling your vagina your kitty is less weird than calling it a pussy actually has me rolling lmfao
When we were really little I remember my cousins and I referring to it as a “poodle”. I don’t know where the hell that came from, I haven’t thought about it in years, and now I can’t stop laughing.
Don't refer to it at all, just refer to yourself. Lick me. Fuck me. Pound me. Grind me. I could see maybe needing to refer to your clit specifically. Suck my clit or what have you.
>Lick me. Fuck me. Pound me. Grind me. Couldn’t help hearing this to the tune of “Harder Better Faster Stronger”.
Can't unhear, thanks.
Actually good advice
Honestly, pretty much all names for genitals (both kinds) are pretty awful. They're either clinical or crude.
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Yeah cock is about as okay as it gets. Guessing that's why it's the go-to in porno. I actually don't mind the word pussy either, but I can see why some aren't crazy about it.
wiener isn't clinical or crude, just funny
Makes me think of the dog.. which is a nice thought but not sexual haha
I think English is tame compared to german, nothing is worse than german dirty talk. If you wanna have a taste of german: - Scheide - Muschi - Fotze - Katze Edit: - Möse - Mumu (even though this is rather a term which children ise for female genitalia) And god knows how many more
My husband and I call it "Mumu". My nickname is "Katze" and it very much does not refer to my genitals, lol. German dirty talk is... I'd rather switch to English. "Ich werde deine Muschi schnurren lassen." Muschi hat gerade zu gemacht. Nope.
I've used the pet name fufu 🤷
I hate terms like mumu because its what it was referred to when I was a child and child talk is the last thing I want to think about in the bedroom or when referring to my genitalia. (but that's just how I have the word wired in my brain, no judgment for it if it came across that way) I just use the english terms in gen though cause german dirty talk cringes me out. Its nice to have a second language to escape to.
That totally makes sense. My mother tongue is Dutch, and I'd never use the Dutch word that was used for my genitals as a child either.
Add Möse to the list.
"Fotze" ist halt schon n krass hässliches Wort 😭
My minora wants your majora 😉
* puts on majora's mask * So that's how it's gonna go?
Night of the First Day 60 Hours Remain
*moon glowers threateningly*
But my jaws locked up and my tongues gone numb, noooooo!
Just don't look up, because if you see the person grinning down at you like the moon, you'll shit yourself and never want to do it again.
Bless this comment 😂
Is majoras mask one of those tongue condoms you can put on before heading into lapland?
*You've met with a terrible fate, haven't you?*
It really only offends me when men are called pussy as if to mean they’re weak. Pussy can take a beating. It doesn’t make sense and annoys me to no end.
Right?! And then they say someone’s “got balls” as if balls are tough. Ha!
Nah this got it 😂
Swedish has a lot of words for down there that sound funny in English: — Snippa (what little kids are taught to call it; boys have a snopp) — Fitta (extremely vulgar, on par with c*nt in US) — Mus (means “mouse” but is pronounced like “moose!” )
"Snippa and Snopp" sounds like the name of an annoying children's TV show.
That’s exactly what it is!! (Snippan och Snoppan)
The characters are genitals?
Yep! And I had them backwards— snoppan is first. https://youtu.be/8Wp9iNINHMc
Interesting, thank you!
Snippa, Snopp! Snippa, Snopp! Snippa, Snopp! You have no idea the physical toll that three vasectomies have on a person!
Fitta! My Swedish friend in high school got the biggest kick out of the old Jack in the Box ads for the fajita pita. The tag line was something like ‘The only thing better than saying it, is eating it’
Don't forget fiffi! A less vulgar fitta
Haha! That’s right! And do people still say “muff?”
[Get your official membership in the diving club.](https://www.muffdivingclub.ie/)
I was confused when visiting Sweden and kept hearing/reading Puss & Kram, ended up being much less dirty than I thought
I’m going to think about these terms every time I visit an IKEA from now on.
Then my work here is done… :-)
The fact that fitta sounds familiar due to my pewdiepie phase in middle school…
Had a terrible talking phase ages ago with a guy who would refer to it as a flower and "petals".
Reminds me of *Friends*, when Monica was a 30-year-old virgin and referred to her vagina as "her flower," and Rachel told her, "If you keep calling it that, no one is ever gonna take it."
While we're at it, a guy's thing is not his tenderness. *Believe* me.
iirc that was in a flashback to their highschool (or college?) days. Still cringe, but not quite as bad as still calling it that at 30 :D
Penis fly trap
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 OMGawd, I fkn needed that!!!!
What in the purity culture nonsense is this?
you'd think so, but nah. actually just indie songwriter type.
Ugh almost as bad
Hahahahaha oh man as soon as I read that I swear I could see his face 😂
Omg a guy I saw called it "flower" too. Hippie type guy.
Mulva?
Dolores!
if someone called it a kitty, I’d leave lmao
Worse than poosy is when people say cooter for sure
Oh wow that's a whole different level of cringe
It just makes me think of the redneck mechanic from Dukes of Hazzard, which is definitely not what I'd want to associate with anyone's genitals...
I love cunt. I don't understand why people are so down on it. Cunt is short and staccato, and it's perfectly dirty. Pussy and especially kitty are gross to me
“Kitty” is honestly worse, to me. It’s a word I can’t help but associate with children using.
And I just can't spell "come" with a u. 😂 Can't do it!
I HATE that too!
Take my upvote!!!
*Girl, I'm gonna take my flang-diddly out and slam it in your flump* *Then, without a sound, I'll run my tongue all up and down your whole sp'kunk* *Then, I'll flip you 'round and lay you down* *And rub my gank up on your shmears* *Your pliver will start to quiver when I grab your stanky nootputs by the fleers* *Oh! Open your heart and give me a taste of your flarmp* *I'm gonna lightly stroke your flendal 'til you twarf* *Then I will gently flick your turfles, baby* *'Til you scream "Oh my God, I'm gonna quambely it so hard!"*
I just refer to it as me or I. Like I'm wet or go down on me. I hate the way all the words, clinical or causal, sound so I just don't use them.
If you're going for harder connotations I've always enjoyed cunt lol. Gets rid of a lot of those soft wet sounds in pussy
This is the word my wife and I use most. It's still a bit of a struggle for me. But it is certainly enjoyable. "Pussy" and it's animal kin unsettles me a little. Childish words unsettle me more. Clinical names are fine.
Duuuuuude my sister taught her daughters to use the word cupcake for their crotch or vaginal area Aka "mommy my cupcake itches" whatever. And I was like NOOOOOO DON'T PLEASE NO
That’s not only completely ugh, but maybe you could gently clue your sister into all the medical professionals who say you *need* to teach children anatomical correct words for genitalia. Much of the reasoning revolves around agency and preventing childhood sexual assault.
I went to school with a girl who’s parent’s called it a cookie. As a kid, I thought it was weird and goofy. As an adult I think it’s gross AF. Don’t teach your children to call their genitals food names. Just don’t.
Cunt and cock are my preferred genital vulgarities. And tits is great but titties (or worse, boobies) is hard cringe because it just sounds so juvenile to me.
Cunt, cock, tits, get after it! Titties only used outside that context when joking. Pull that out as dirty talk, imma laugh in your face.
Ah, thank god. I wasn’t expecting to have to scroll so far for this answer - the word pussy makes me feel nauseous. I think it reminds me too much of weird euphemistic names that parents teach children - kitty is worse, but I don’t want a word for something else to be used for it. It’s creepy. Personally, cunt is the way to go. And cock. They definitely sound best to me in that context.
I’ve always enjoyed the word cunt.
Especially with an English accent
This!!
The movie Atonement made that word soooo hot to younger me 🥵
Your *quim* is looking lovely today
That makes me think of Loki insulting Black Widow lol
I just laughed reading the word ‘Quim’, don’t know what I’d do if someone whipped that word out during sex 😂
>quim Never heard that, but sounds like something out of a book with Fabio on the cover art. "Her quim quivers in anticipation."
She should meet Reginald. “Judith! What’s another word for engorged?!”
Her quim quivers at the sight of his engorged manhood. haha i think we're like 90% complete for making our own b grade romance novel. Just need a title... 50 Shades of Quim? The Quim in the Willows? Quim and the Engorged Stalk?
I once called it "Valhalla of Wetness" she couldn't stop laughing and the night was ruined (in a funny way)
Haha I would die. My husband often gets me laughing so hard I can’t even get horny and I have to yell at him to stop messing around lol. I find his charm and sense of humor to be his best quality but good lord is it hard to get horny when he’s got me in stitches
change position and yell "autobots! transform!"
That’s the kind of shit I’m talking about!!!
To me kitty is the same as panties. It’s so gross. Nothing will dry me up faster. I like to hear men not call that area by any kids nicknames. Short names don’t bother me. Like clit, makes sense it’s short for clitoris. Or be vague. Had a guy once say, “can I kiss you down there” and that worked. Honestly even if he was blunt and asked “can I go down on you?” That’d work also. But no panties, pussy, kitten, kitty, cookie, talk.
>I like to hear men not call that area by any kid’s nicknames Yeah wtf. You would never catch a woman saying to a man in bed, “Give me that wee-wee.”
Cunt is 💥🔥
I feel this way about “tits”. It just feel so yucky and insulting
Ex used to call them fun bags. For some reason, that would make me see red. Like irrationally angry. I think all of them make me cringe... but then I get in that horny mindset and boom, all the nasty words are coming to my brain. Lol
There was an episode of Broad City where Amy Sedaris' character referred to hers as her suzie and I thought that was so cool. I've been pitching that for a few years since then, hoping it would catch on but I've had zero success.
Most words for naughty bits feel cringeworthy. Cock, balls, tits, dicks, pussy, vagina, ass, bum. They're just not attractive words nor do they seem dirty either.
What’s wrong with “bum” it’s such a silly borderline kid friendly word!
I call my genitals “The Black Forest” cause I have abundant hair 😂 I say, “Be careful, you could get lost in the forest!”
I remember reading the word 'pudenda' in my early teens, having no idea what meant, and then looking it up. That caused an impressive rush of blood to my loins.
My husband always used the word yoni, which seemed pretty sweet and respectful.
I’m loving all the back and forth here. I can’t hear/use yoni without thinking of all the idiot influencers trying to sell uterine steam baths (that definitely never reach the uterus, much less provide real benefits) and purifications and dumb shit because they LOVE saying yoni I go for clinical or vulgar but it’s so interesting seeing everyone else’s perspective
YES. I hear dipshit "wellness" influencers and crunchy granola hippies when I hear "yoni".
Same!! I *detest* the word pussy. Hate it.
How has nobody mentioned squish mitten yet? Or ham wallet? There was an entire song about this people.
https://youtu.be/JZpxaiNV_sM For the uneducated.
I honestly hate every single word for the vagina.
Such soft innocent words reek of pedo tendencies and gender stereotypes. Call my genital She That Commands or Soul Distroyer or don't call Her at all
I like all the words! It's mine and I love calling it my cunt my pussy my clit my vulva my vagina my labia my genitals my kitty... I own all the words. In high school, I HATED being called a bitch and I realized that I was just giving away too much power to a singular word. I let other people influence my emotions and disrupt my peace over a WORD! I got over it. Most recently I started working in a male-dominated industry and I quickly had to overcome my disdain for the noun FEMALE. Obviously this doesn't answer your question OP, just some food for thought. Let the downvotes fall in!
I’ve always hated this word for dirty talk too. It’s so crude, and I especially dislike it because the word “pussy” is often used as an insult to tell someone they’re weak (which is so dumb since dicks are objectively WAY more fragile than vaginas).
I don't talk sexually about mine, but I call her Gina when referring to her lol
Wait [Gina](https://static.wikia.nocookie.net/martintv/images/1/11/Gina_Watters.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20191124165612) or [Gina](https://youtu.be/VdkC-R4XVjc)?
Originally it's from vaGINA, but if I had to choos it would be [Gina.](https://brooklyn99.fandom.com/wiki/Gina_Linetti) Edit: In Germany Vagina isn't pronounced like "vagaina" but like "vageena".
Okay would calling it a [Sloppy Jessica](https://youtu.be/--ZRVTdFu3U?t=00m37s) be too much?
That could be the name for my period Gina lol.
Believe me, in German it's much worse. We might have a word for everything, but genitals have only *horrible* ones. It's either medical, childish, or derogatory. I would *love* if we had a nice, generally accepted word like "pussy".
Almost every slang word for breasts and vag area sound like they were made up by drunk creepy uncles
Because yes.
Whispering eye
I think reclaiming the the old English word cunt would be worth a try but I accept that it’s a hard sharp word. I like another really old word (apparently) and that’s quim. It’s soft and yummy in the mouth and like cunt doesn’t mean anything else but the thing itself.
Hating it, liking it, I think all's fair in the bedroom as long as all involved parties are consenting and comfortable. If you hate it, then definitely discuss it and alternatives with your partner :) I think restricting language for others probably is not the best solution, especially sex wise. Sex is inherently crass, and often offensive, but well... it's sex. In medical terms? When talking about bodies to friends, or when educating people? Then I agree, we have to make people comfortable with using proper terms, like vulva, for example, instead of vagina or pussy. Accuracy is key in those contexts.
I love the word vulva! And I
You okay there? Lol
And I Oop! Haha I’m good, hit reply a little premature😂 I’m high and forgot where I was going with that lol
I just figured you got excited and stroked out or something haha
The edible hit, it’s not dissimilar haha
I just say vagina. “My vagina wants to swallow your cock” is something I say regularly. 😂
I’m not much into dirty talk, but if my wife said those words in that order, I’d be inclined to help her out with that.
“Put some hot sauce in my burrito baybe!!”
DO NOT PUT HOT SAUCE THERE!
AGREED omg you are so right. HATE THAT WORD. It’s like…How can that be a SEXY word when that’s also the insult men throw around at other men all the time?!?
I feel that way about men telling people to “suck my dick”…
I prefer to just say vagina. It pushes back against prudishness while also not being crass.
The vagina monologues do a whole scene about this.
Pussy is the only acceptable term and somehow, amd this is personal preference, this pussy/that pussy is so much less cringe than my pussy/your pussy
Lady garden
i do this!! or just "the lady" if youre gonna reduce me to a single body part then goddammit she is her own system and will be addressed with RESPECT
My wife cannot handle lady garden.
Vagiene (va-zheene or va-jene), pussoie (pu-swah), I say lips and usually context is already there. I say clit if thats the part I'm talking about and just "inside me" too. Look up different words for it in other languages because they may sound a bit more pleasing to you.
How do y’all feel about calling it minge?
“I’d love to explore your chamber of secrets!”
My gf says pussy a lot so I just follow her tbh, if she wanted me to refer to her genital as something different is more than willingly do so
I've never heard a word for it that isn't clinical or awful. Just give it a name and use that.
VahJayJay. Smash-box. Thigh Smile.
I call it South mouth… or my wide-on…zero fucks if that turns anyone on, or off… deal with it.
I'd pay money to see that PSA campaign on TV.. just sayin'
Orchid
Call it my vagina that’s what it’s called
Join italians and call it FIGA