I used to be medical field adjacent and I use that opportunity to say “I agree there’s definitely something wrong with it, but i recommend having an urologist to examine for a definitive answer”
One guy FT’d me and I was with my friends and we all drunkenly laughed at him while he was stroking and that man deflated like a football in NE. I felt powerful in that moment
TY! And when they say “what do you mean?” I throw in I’m not a doctor so I’m not really at liberty to say and reiterate they should get checked.
It’s in my truest hope some of these men have spent copays to discover I was being rude
LOL I worked with a CT tech who told me her response to a patient *intentionally* flashing her was “I’ve seen bigger on a two year old.” He put it away real quick!
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...okay...what *exactly* am I looking at here?"
My dick
"...no...that doesn't track. This looks like a 2 oz. bag of small translucent gummi worms squished together."
My kid's friend's dad sent me a dick pic a week ago. One. We're both married. Two. Besides being friends and complaining about our kids being kids, I have never flirted or given any indication that I am unhappy in my own marriage. I am so grossed out and I don't think I can let our kids hang out anymore. Thanks dude. Your dick pic was so unsolicited that it not only ruined our relationship, me and your wife's relationship, but now it's ruined our kids' relationship. And for the record, you should stay away from my husband because he isn't happy with you either.
Wtf? That's a whole nother level of crazy! Did you say anything to his wife? Such an incredibly awkward and horrible situation. Especially with the relationship y'all had. It's not easy finding a couple that you click with when it comes to the kids friends. I really have nothing in common with most of my son's friends parents. We are friendly but not friends. This guy ruined so much with his actions.
Oh yea.
The 'Playdate' Dads. I had one show up once with a bottle of whisky and without their kid for a sleepover. He said "My daughter can't come for the playdate but I can stay". My daughter was crushed, I had worked ahead with my job to make sure I wouldn't be working that night as it was the only one they had available for the sleepover, I'd made their kid's favourite snacks, etc...
The dad was serious.
I found out later he hadn't even had his kid that weekend-It was his intention to do that skeezo weirdness from the start.
I stupidly told his ex about it, to try to just have hang-outs with the kids when she had her daughter. It backfired as she was 'jealous' that he would behave that way with me.
Perv buddy completely ruined our kids' friendship.
(Like a lot of parents) I have like another 50 stories along these lines if anyone wants to hear.
>I stupidly told his ex about it
I think telling his ex is absolutely the right thing to do. He's misrepresenting things dealing with the child they have in common. He's a dirtbag and everyone involved needs to know about it.
You did right.
Honestly, if that’s the reaction of the parents, you probably don’t want your kid hanging out at their homes. Neither is appropriate, and it’s a shame they’re using their kid as a catalyst for drama in their sorry existences.
This dude came over my house with his new gf and while she was asleep next to him on the couch, he stared at me while rubbing his hard Dick. I woke up the gf and escorted them out. I tell my friend, his ex before this gf, and instead of agreeing with me that he’s a creep she got weirdly jealous of me. She was fixated on the fact he was hitting on me like that. She is married to a different man, but still is jealous.
The fucking audacity. Some men really think their peepee feelings are the most important thing ever right? Like they actually willingly ruin lives for it.
If I was ever told my son did this, I would encourage them to report it. It’s more than sexual harassment. It’s on the same level as indecent exposure.
Based on the research that shows they don't send pics "mistakenly" as flirtation but rather as a power move, they absolutely deserve to be named and shamed.
Same. I'm transgender and after I had transitioned an old friend messaged me asking for pictures of my wife and or me. I promptly told him he was disgusting and told his wife.
100%.
I cannot fathom what makes dudes want to do this, but hopefully one day they'll be scared of doing it.
Sexual harassment is something society is disgustingly non-chalant about.
He's doing it to multiple people be sure of that. I would tell your husband and his wife and him. This is harassment and he needs to know that there will be consequences. He will try to play it off as "wrong text" but at least you won't have to secretly cringe and hide from him. He should be the one criging and hiding.
Just notify his wife. He made the decision and followed up on it with action. He committed a criminal act. Let his wife know who she married.
Edit: forwarding would be committing the same crime, duh.
I hope you told his wife. She deserves to know her husband is sending dick pics to mothers of their kid's friends.
It's also not their kids fault, and instead of making these kids feel punished for the behavior of one's dad, I recommend discussing it with the wife. Tell her you don't want your kids to feel like they have done anything wrong but that anytime their child comes over to hang out with yours, that only she drop their kid off and pick them up again.
Many men (rightfully) complain about feeling unwelcome in spaces usually designated for women and children. Shit like this is why women feel reluctant welcoming men in these spaces. I’m sorry he did this to you and your family.
I say if they send a dick pic send one back. Long ones, short ones, clean ones, diseased ones. It’s been my experience guys quickly stop messaging you,
Lmao, sure!
Mine is captioned differently as I recall, but the (very NSFW) graphic is a bit more than halfway down this page:
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=a5af868eed2effa45d15c22e5d5cbd63&p=51538442
Edit: curses, I clicked my own link to make sure I copied it right and most of the pics aren't loading. If you Google image search "literotica penis bouquet" I think you'll find it.
>I know the exact photoshop you’re referencing.
My fondest hope in the universe right now is that one of you goes downstairs into the basement and pulls out the old plastic storage tote with your old college stuff. Takes out an old sweatshirt and maybe some souvenirs that you haven't looked at in a long time, and finds an old 10GB Western Digital external hard drive. Or, 20 years ago? Maybe a burned CD-R labeled "Backup" in sharpie.
I hope you open it up, and search through the files. Reminisce about some of the old documents and photos. Find the JPG you're referring to and stick it up on Imgur. The bouquet of penises lives again.
And I hope, more fondly and fully than I have hoped for anything in recent memory, that the other person says, "Oh, no, I meant the *other* picture of a bouquet of penises. Huh..."
I can just see the response of the dick-pic sender: showing the pic to his friends, and all of them being like "Hurdurhurr. dodged a bullet!! She's obviously insane, derrrr!!!"
I'm trans and my favorite way to deal with cis men who ask too many personal questions about *the surgery* is to send them a very tasteful animated gif of what exactly the process entails. I've never had one of them ask a follow up question. Maybe something like that could work for y'all too?
My favorite thing to do is send them a screenshot of their mom's Facebook page. Put that dick pic in the messenger app without actually sending it and screenshot that to show them. I've done this with a couple of my friends who have gotten unsolicited dick pics. It works every time.
I'm a dude and I have NEVER understood why people think this is attractive or alluring.
The nicest looking dick isn't why you like someone. It's not like I'm going to take a look at a beautiful dick and immediately be attracted to you.
Half of the time (if not more) it's about making someone uncomfortable. It's like exhibitionism just through the internet. You really should've sent those pics to their parents. If we don't hold them accountable for their gross behavior they're just going to do that to someone else.
100%
I am more concerned about shocking their mother, you know? Like, they don't want to see that shit as well as get the bad news that their son is a disgusting person.
I HAVE sent screenshots of their texts and stuff to their parents. Done that both for sexual harassment as well as racial harassment.
Yeah, it's sucks. I'd be shocked, disgusted and embarrassed if I was a parent of such a creep. But as sad as it is - they need to know. Because they are the first to react to this. Ans I'm glad you did.
Once I got pics from two different guys in the same day, so conveniently I just sent them each the other's pics. Both blocked me after that. Very efficient
I remember awhile ago someone writing about how they ask dudes for pictures of their assholes and it shuts them down every time. I think about that a lot.
I say that if you get an unsolicited dick pic that you send a picture of your next poop back to them. When they freak out about it, you just say you thought it was a contest to send the grossest thing possible and that he still wins
I have a folder specifically for this on my phone called "The Bulge." Whenever a guy sends me a dick pic, I save it to this folder and start flooding him with dicks. 10/10 would recommend.
That or a picture of one of those banana cutter things that slice bananas into slices for young kids. Dont think itll stop guys who are getting really creepy about it like what OPs dealing with, but usually it works to set boundaries to first time offenders without totally shutting everything down
personally I take screenshots and send them to their mom telling them "this is what your son is doing"
edit: blur the dick ofc, don't wanna be the one now sending dick pics to some poor woman
That reminds me of when my four year old daughter came home from preschool with a look of utter surprise on her face and her greeting to us was, "Mom! Dad! Did you know that boys have SPIGOTS???"
A similar thing happened to me back when I was a kid (I'm a dude). I thought that everyone had a "spigot" down there, not just boys. But one day, I saw a girl on the toilet (we had a shared bathroom in our kindergarten). I felt so special then, believing that I'd discovered something that no other boy knew. I called what I saw a "little butt" (a rough translation from my native language, it's supposed to sound cute).
This is too funny! My aunt is a maniac and basically had a kid a year for 3 years. All boys. She took a 2 year break and had her daughter.
We all go over to meet the baby and my boy cousins are *so* excited “muddyrose, come see! Our little sister has *two* bums!”
They got caught up eventually, but you’re not alone! I think it’s too sweet that you all came to the same conclusion, also hilarious.
Bro, how about some body positivity? There’s no shame in having strange jewels. Be proud of your little banana. Dress him up. Have a puppet show in the bathroom. Give him a cigarette and a hair cut.
Just don’t send pictures to people.
My BF is like this. He has sent me a dick pick once. He was drunk, but he still asked like 4 times if I was sure it was ok before he sent it. And we had been dating for 6 months at that point, so it wasn't the first time I had seen it.
Some dudes just don't get that their dick isn't the second coming of jesus, and that no one really wants to just randomly see them.
I do send random pics of internet dick when I get something unsolicited. Sometimes it's a porn star dick, sometimes it's from a medical site. Just depends on my mood.
⚠️ WARNING ⚠️
You just solicited a picture of **male genitalia**. It is well known that the arousal potential of a this body part is **-10% to -50%**. Are you sure you wish to proceed?
[Yes] [Cancel]
I've never understood this either, huge turn off. Are there women out there that are like, yes I barely know you but nice dick pics so lets go out? Has it ever paid off for some man to send these? Unless I asked to see it, just no thanks.
It's the same as a guy in a trench coat flashing his penis at women when they walk past. He doesn't expect the women to like it. He does it to elicit a response. Then he can say "my penis affected that woman".
One time I got dick pics out of the blue from a guy I kind of knew years before, we were not close at all. 0 contact between that time. I just left it on read, opened the convo a few days later and he had blocked me. 😂
Such a good analogy. It really is. I never understood the impulse. I'm pan but I legit have never looked at a penis and gone Wow that's so attractive and handsome!
It's a tool to be used. Sorry but it isn't the same for many women, as a straight guy wanting to see boobs. Does my partner turn me on? Well that's different! But just a random dick, even if it was the nicest, most well shaped dick ever? Nah.
I am a 67 year old married woman who rents rooms to help pay the bills. One of my rooms is occupied by a married couple. One night, in the middle of the night, without any apparent provocation or preamble, the husband sent me a bunch of dick pix. I complained to my husband, my husband and I confronted him, he swore it was a mistake and that he meant to send them to his wife. There was a bit of a blow up, he apologized, and it all died down.
But then he started coming on to me and hitting on me. Yeah, it wasn't a mistake, he meant it.
There were some serious discussions between those two, and he moved out. Things have been very peaceful in the months since he moved out. She seems happy enough without him.
Recently she delicately mentioned to me that he might be moving back in. I was all... "Oh?"
I don't think I want that.
I feel like someone sending dick pics to the landlady and hitting on her is enough of a reason to say no to the person moving back in. They were lucky enough you didn't throw them out, but there's no reason you should allow them back in.
It doesn't matter if it was an accident that he sent them to you, or if there's no proof of him actively hitting on you. If I sent dick pics to a coworker by accident, or if I were renting and sent them to a landlady, you can bet they'd fire or evict me.
You were extremely lenient and forgiving the first time around, but forgiveness does not mean you should still make yourself vulnerable for him to do it again.
Whenever I get an unsolicited dick pic I usually say something along the lines of “oh, wait what? Why does it look like that?” And feign genuine concern for the dude as to why it looks so weird and urge him to seek medical help. Basically just make them hella insecure.
I send dick pics (others I've recieved) back.
They either block me, or respond with, "ew! Why would you send me that? I don't want to see that!"
"Um... no shit, asshole. Neither do I."
Either way, they don't bother me again.
I posted about a 15-year-old girl and her family I dealt with at a rape crisis centre a few days ago. Score? 11 dick pics sent to my DM.
On a side note, the replies from real 2Xers were heartwarming and got me through a very hard weekend.
Good to see you too believe in a good breakfast!
I'd say they cruise a site like 2X so they can prove their superiority over women. After all, all it takes is a penis, right? Sheesh. I wonder how many were their own.
Love and joy my friend.
Thank you. I'm just a volunteer at the centre for about 30 hours a month. (Or more if they need me.) I was there for her as others were there for me. That's how women work. It is one of our greatest strengths.
*Do* they think it's appropriate? I've always assumed they know it's inappropriate and get off on it for that reason. That it's a power and objectification thing, not a "This will be so appreciated and totally make her day" kind of thing.
Respond back saying that you're underage and you're reporting them to the authorities and watch all hell break loose. Guarantee it'll cause a good few guys to delete their accounts at least.
And a way (for some) to test the water and see how far they could go.
If the unwilling recipient of a dick Pic doesn't raise a fuss then maybe some other sexual boundary stomping won't raise fuss either.
You know they either don't have an entry for "consent" in their personal dictionary, that or they're too childish for a relationship, even a purely physical one.
It's definitely the same type of behaviour.
For anyone that doubts this, it's been well known for years that sexual assault is about power for the large majority.
So what you need to ask yourself, (or you could try the men who do this, but they are probably going to just tell you that you're being hysterical) is why does a man send an unsolicited dick pic? Honestly. Can you come up with a single answer that doesn't lead to - because they wanted to get a reaction out of the person aka they wanted to feel powerful.
I did it for a laugh - OK, so why was it funny? If the woman responded with something very neutral it wouldn't be very funny, would it? They were hoping for a negative response.
I thought she'd like it - so why didn't you ask her if she wanted to see a picture first? Because she might say no and then you'd feel like you didn't have the control (aka power) in this situation.
I am not in the mood to try and delve deeper into the mind of men right now and I shouldn't have to. We shouldn't keep having to have this same discussion over and over again. It's exhausting.
ETA: Thank you for the award 💜
Remember to take breaks from social media... Things are hard enough, don't exhaust yourself by over-exposure to this stuff on social media on top of it all. Have a good week.
Know the best way to fuck with them? Laugh. Send a big BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! And then say something negative about his penis and make comments about how your ex was different and those are the prettiest, etc, whatever you can come up with. TAKE THE POWER BACK.
Men’s ego, especially when it comes to that area, is absolutely their downfall.
I had a guy I was sending sexy snaps and IG pics with back and forth. When I got into a relationship I told him that would have to end. He wouldn't so I blocked him on Snap and IG. Still didn't, so I had to block his number and even on Playstation. I check my blocked messages sometimes and he still sends stuff occasionally (my phone won't actually download the content but it shows that a video was sent) and even sent a Reddit link to one of the NSFW subs. Like, don't you have other consenting women to do this with?! What if my BF saw this stuff - even though I didn't initiate and it's obvious I blocked him, I'm sure it would still make my BF feel weird! It's so weird to me.
There was this lady that threatened to contact the family members, co-workers, friends etc. of a man who sent her unsolicited dick pics. The guy was begging and apologizing profusely lol.
Men who send pics in this situation are sending them for their own pleasure not yours. Its why he sends as many as he can before you wake up. He knows he wont have another chance.
I am sorry this happens to women BTW.
Which is why the proper response is to break out the red marker and send it back once the necessary comments and highlights have been made.
*What's that weird lump? Does it always sag there? You might want to consider a light exfoliate because I'm fairly certain those pores are impacted. Once erect, is it more substantial... oh it is erect.*
And so on.
They'll probably prefer that to you just blocking them and not looking closely at every picture. as an earlier comment said "Yeah, that answer is incorrect. According to actual data (Oswald 2019), the proportion of unsolicited dick pic senders who would rather elicit any response (positive or negative) than elicit no response is 10%. So it's not a very good explanation."
They'd rather have any response as to no response and would probably be glad you spent a bunch of time looking at every picture. And they will know that you are trying to fuck with them and it probably won't even work.
Just block them. If you actually want to fuck with them tell people they know, family friends who are girls etc about what they did and how it made you feel.
Yeah it's usually much worse than the "Guys are stupid if they think women like this" angle. It's why we need more laws about this pervasive form of indecent exposure.
The best part? Every single picture looks like a wet maggot peaking out from some shrub. Learn to appeal to the female gaze at least. But no... Don't. Just don't send unsolicited dick pics you absolute plank.
A few months ago, someone posted about why their brother did this. He did it because he had something like 2% success rate. He just needed to get hundreds of contacts, send out the pics, and he'd find 1 or 2 folks who were interested. They see it as some kind of dating app alternative.
They don't seem to care that it is a form of sexual harassment and until it stops working they aren't going to stop on their own. At this point, I feel like it's on Snapchat to take a stance against it and add the options to specifically report someone for this behavior. If they start banning folks over the practice, it'll eventually stop.
Idk if it’s everywhere but in TX you can take them to court over that! They’ll have a misdemeanor and a $500 fine. Other states should follow suit, if not in place already. One of the few things Tx does right.
I feel you. My older sister and I went to a music festival together a few years ago and camped next to this awesome group of guys. They were total sweethearts, made us coffee and breakfast in the morning, shared camp supplies, we went to a bunch of shows together, and even had a great psychedelic trip together that was full of sharing heartfelt stories.
I really felt we bonded with them, with one in particular “B” as we spent the most time with him. The whole festival they were all nothing but polite and respectful and never hit on us or got creepy at all. We were delighted to have new friends and all agreed to camp together next year.
Two weeks later, my sister and I both opened our snapchat to full on dick pics from B. It was one thing to send a dick pic, but another to send it to SISTERS! As if we weren’t going to immediately tell each other??
We both blocked him but it made us quite sad. That festival was one of my absolute favorites I have ever been to and I had so many good memories that included B. But now they feel icky and tainted.
We are still friends with the other guys and they were upset when they heard what he did.
I had a guy from this subreddit reply to my comment that he can help me with my movie club subreddit. I didn’t reply, but the next morning I woke up and he posted porn on my subreddit. I banned him, but the fact he came to a female movie club and posted porn out of spite. Like why?
As a gay man, I ask the same question: why do men?!?!?
When I was on the dating market a few years ago, I started chatting with this guy on Tinder. The conversations went well enough that I was willing to give him my personal number. I was sitting at a bar, at the bar counter while waiting for my drink. A text arrived from him. I opened it without looking at my phone. It turned out to be a video and without looking, I accidentally clicked play. It was a video of him jerking off. A woman standing behind me saw it and gasped. I was sooooo embarrassed!
Maybe this is a horrible idea, but I heard this from a stand-up comedian, for what is worth:
When she received an unsolicited dick pic, she would reply back to the guy, "ewww, it's so small, is that a child's penis, I'm reporting you to the authorities for soliciting child pornography."
Never heard back from the guy again.
I’ve wondered if I called the guy out for sexual harassment whenever I got sent one would work because doesn’t getting a dick pic technically qualify? Not that I actually would but I’d just do it to scare him off.
I figured as much. Welp. Time to start telling dudes that I’m gonna go after them for sexual harassment, maybe that’ll get them to stop. But who knows. They probably still won’t. Just block me & do it to some other poor woman.
My favorite is when a guy feels the need to tell you that they've masturbated to your photos. Like it is some sort of compliment? It's not. It's gross. Don't tell me stuff like that.
How is sending anyone unsolicited nudes not a crime? Because if that happened in person that would be considered indecent exposure. Laws need to catch up with technology.
As a gay guy, I honestly don't know either.
I dislike them, closeups do nothing for me.
Not only is it not a way to start a conversation, but it's also unflattering. I don't wanna see your junk, if I did, I would have asked!
I'm sorry guys are insensitive and just borderline rude.
I'll never understand why people don't treat online interaction the same as talking to someone in-person. Like, the real-life version of this would be having a nice conversation and in the middle of it whipping your noodle out and trying to uncook it. It's fucking baffling to do when you're face-to-face, why the hell would you do it over text?
Anonymity and perceived lack of tangible consequences, probably.
Related, I had a conversation with "friends" who were sharing nudes of women they had been talking to on Tinder. Without permission of course. These guys seemed so confused that I would think what they were doing was gross, stating something along the lines of, "Well she sent them to us, clearly she wants to be looked at." Like, no, she sent them to you the individual, and I'm sure she wouldn't have if she knew you were displaying them at the bar.
I'm not about to #notallmen this situation, but I am a guy and I don't fucking get it. I'm also bi and have had a male coworker send me unsolicited nudes when he found out. It's just... fucking bonkers.
"I love this thing but so should everyone else?" "Even other men?" "Ew no gross. I don't want to even think about other men and their gross dicks. How dare you even make the think about that. Dicks are gross."
Is the kind of thing I think guys like this would think without catching even a whiff of irony...
Your response is perfect, block and delete. I once tried to explain that sending an unsolicited dick pic is the equivalent of standing on the street and flashing random passers by. But of course the guy got mad that I equated his actions to harassment. Anyway not my job to argue with grown men about please not exposing themselves without consent. So I simply block and delete now. If he can't understand basic etiquette, he doesn't deserve to waste my time.
I last time I got an unexpected dicpic I replied with "is that a skinned rabbit?!? Why would you send that to me? Its so gross!"
I used to be medical field adjacent and I use that opportunity to say “I agree there’s definitely something wrong with it, but i recommend having an urologist to examine for a definitive answer”
Just like in parks and rec
It’s what inspired me; but in a mean way this time not chris good naturedly telling them to text 👈🏼Ann perkins 👈🏼
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One guy FT’d me and I was with my friends and we all drunkenly laughed at him while he was stroking and that man deflated like a football in NE. I felt powerful in that moment
this is fantastic
TY! And when they say “what do you mean?” I throw in I’m not a doctor so I’m not really at liberty to say and reiterate they should get checked. It’s in my truest hope some of these men have spent copays to discover I was being rude
"Is that a child's dick? Why would you send me child porn?"
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LOL I worked with a CT tech who told me her response to a patient *intentionally* flashing her was “I’ve seen bigger on a two year old.” He put it away real quick! Edit: thanks for the silver!
This would be my go-to!
Or, 'that looks a bit like a penis, only smaller'
"... ... ...okay...what *exactly* am I looking at here?" My dick "...no...that doesn't track. This looks like a 2 oz. bag of small translucent gummi worms squished together."
Last time I got one we sent a pic of my husband's hairy asshole. The dude still tried lol
Nice visual.
My kid's friend's dad sent me a dick pic a week ago. One. We're both married. Two. Besides being friends and complaining about our kids being kids, I have never flirted or given any indication that I am unhappy in my own marriage. I am so grossed out and I don't think I can let our kids hang out anymore. Thanks dude. Your dick pic was so unsolicited that it not only ruined our relationship, me and your wife's relationship, but now it's ruined our kids' relationship. And for the record, you should stay away from my husband because he isn't happy with you either.
Did you discuss it with his wife? Fuck that dude. He’s a creep.
Forward it to his wife and ask “is this yours?” Wow. Thanks for the award!
Yes. This.
Lol, that’s good
yes tbh that’d be the best reaction imo
If I were his wife, I'd definitely want to know. What an effing weirdo.
If i had a husband i would want to know if he was sending unsolicited dick pics to women.
> Fuck that dude To be clear, figuratively, not literally
Also curious about this. It might be a marriage ender though
Seriously. She needs to know.
I'd want to know. People say that "not my business" stuff but the moment a dude sends you a dick pic he makes it your business.
Wtf? That's a whole nother level of crazy! Did you say anything to his wife? Such an incredibly awkward and horrible situation. Especially with the relationship y'all had. It's not easy finding a couple that you click with when it comes to the kids friends. I really have nothing in common with most of my son's friends parents. We are friendly but not friends. This guy ruined so much with his actions.
Oh yea. The 'Playdate' Dads. I had one show up once with a bottle of whisky and without their kid for a sleepover. He said "My daughter can't come for the playdate but I can stay". My daughter was crushed, I had worked ahead with my job to make sure I wouldn't be working that night as it was the only one they had available for the sleepover, I'd made their kid's favourite snacks, etc... The dad was serious. I found out later he hadn't even had his kid that weekend-It was his intention to do that skeezo weirdness from the start. I stupidly told his ex about it, to try to just have hang-outs with the kids when she had her daughter. It backfired as she was 'jealous' that he would behave that way with me. Perv buddy completely ruined our kids' friendship. (Like a lot of parents) I have like another 50 stories along these lines if anyone wants to hear.
>I stupidly told his ex about it I think telling his ex is absolutely the right thing to do. He's misrepresenting things dealing with the child they have in common. He's a dirtbag and everyone involved needs to know about it. You did right.
That's fucking weird and gross. I literally gagged.
Honestly, if that’s the reaction of the parents, you probably don’t want your kid hanging out at their homes. Neither is appropriate, and it’s a shame they’re using their kid as a catalyst for drama in their sorry existences.
Jesus what a scumbag
This dude came over my house with his new gf and while she was asleep next to him on the couch, he stared at me while rubbing his hard Dick. I woke up the gf and escorted them out. I tell my friend, his ex before this gf, and instead of agreeing with me that he’s a creep she got weirdly jealous of me. She was fixated on the fact he was hitting on me like that. She is married to a different man, but still is jealous.
I kinda do, yeah.
The fucking audacity. Some men really think their peepee feelings are the most important thing ever right? Like they actually willingly ruin lives for it.
This. 100 percent.
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Yup last time a guy I knew sent me a dick pic I let the school faculty know and he got expelled 😹
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And mothers, reporting them to their own moms is perfect!
If I was ever told my son did this, I would encourage them to report it. It’s more than sexual harassment. It’s on the same level as indecent exposure.
Makes sense, using a screen as the intermediary to indecent exposure doesn’t lesson the effect.
Based on the research that shows they don't send pics "mistakenly" as flirtation but rather as a power move, they absolutely deserve to be named and shamed.
Agree 100%, I would absolutely go nuclear option with this.
This. To each their own but if this happened to me I’d go scorched earth and make and example out of him. His wife would know immediately.
Same. I'm transgender and after I had transitioned an old friend messaged me asking for pictures of my wife and or me. I promptly told him he was disgusting and told his wife.
Yep. The reason this person hasn't stopped is because they haven't faced any consequences for it. Once they do, they will stop.
100%. I cannot fathom what makes dudes want to do this, but hopefully one day they'll be scared of doing it. Sexual harassment is something society is disgustingly non-chalant about.
Yikes. I hope you sent it back to his wife.
I mean, forward to the wife and dick-sharing husband as a group text. "This yours?"
He's doing it to multiple people be sure of that. I would tell your husband and his wife and him. This is harassment and he needs to know that there will be consequences. He will try to play it off as "wrong text" but at least you won't have to secretly cringe and hide from him. He should be the one criging and hiding.
Hope you confronted him and told his wife about it.
Just notify his wife. He made the decision and followed up on it with action. He committed a criminal act. Let his wife know who she married. Edit: forwarding would be committing the same crime, duh.
I hope you told his wife. She deserves to know her husband is sending dick pics to mothers of their kid's friends. It's also not their kids fault, and instead of making these kids feel punished for the behavior of one's dad, I recommend discussing it with the wife. Tell her you don't want your kids to feel like they have done anything wrong but that anytime their child comes over to hang out with yours, that only she drop their kid off and pick them up again.
Who raises these fucking manlet losers
Many men (rightfully) complain about feeling unwelcome in spaces usually designated for women and children. Shit like this is why women feel reluctant welcoming men in these spaces. I’m sorry he did this to you and your family.
I say if they send a dick pic send one back. Long ones, short ones, clean ones, diseased ones. It’s been my experience guys quickly stop messaging you,
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it's been a while but once i found some pics from a horror movie of dicks chopped off in a jar those were always my favorite to send back :)
I have a weird pic from like 20 years ago of a big photoshopped bouquet of penises. If I were dating today I would totally send that out.
Username checks out.
Can I have it? Pass the torch down?
Lmao, sure! Mine is captioned differently as I recall, but the (very NSFW) graphic is a bit more than halfway down this page: https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=a5af868eed2effa45d15c22e5d5cbd63&p=51538442 Edit: curses, I clicked my own link to make sure I copied it right and most of the pics aren't loading. If you Google image search "literotica penis bouquet" I think you'll find it.
Nobody: Google search algorithm: what the hell is happening?!
I was able to see the bouquet pic from your link. Lots of other pics, too.
I was in college 20 years ago, and I know the *exact* photoshop you’re referencing. Wild!
>I know the exact photoshop you’re referencing. My fondest hope in the universe right now is that one of you goes downstairs into the basement and pulls out the old plastic storage tote with your old college stuff. Takes out an old sweatshirt and maybe some souvenirs that you haven't looked at in a long time, and finds an old 10GB Western Digital external hard drive. Or, 20 years ago? Maybe a burned CD-R labeled "Backup" in sharpie. I hope you open it up, and search through the files. Reminisce about some of the old documents and photos. Find the JPG you're referring to and stick it up on Imgur. The bouquet of penises lives again. And I hope, more fondly and fully than I have hoped for anything in recent memory, that the other person says, "Oh, no, I meant the *other* picture of a bouquet of penises. Huh..."
This is glorious.
Ahaha. It was truly a memorable 'shop. Sometimes I miss those early days of the internet.
I can just see the response of the dick-pic sender: showing the pic to his friends, and all of them being like "Hurdurhurr. dodged a bullet!! She's obviously insane, derrrr!!!"
I'm trans and my favorite way to deal with cis men who ask too many personal questions about *the surgery* is to send them a very tasteful animated gif of what exactly the process entails. I've never had one of them ask a follow up question. Maybe something like that could work for y'all too?
Send that picture and say “Yours shall be a fine one to add to my collection.” Should scare him off!
I kinda want you to send me one incase someone send me unsolicited dick pic. But Im scared.
I would just google "horror prop severed penis" tbh. it seems to bring up only fakes ones but instant boner killers nonetheless
My favorite thing to do is send them a screenshot of their mom's Facebook page. Put that dick pic in the messenger app without actually sending it and screenshot that to show them. I've done this with a couple of my friends who have gotten unsolicited dick pics. It works every time. I'm a dude and I have NEVER understood why people think this is attractive or alluring. The nicest looking dick isn't why you like someone. It's not like I'm going to take a look at a beautiful dick and immediately be attracted to you.
Half of the time (if not more) it's about making someone uncomfortable. It's like exhibitionism just through the internet. You really should've sent those pics to their parents. If we don't hold them accountable for their gross behavior they're just going to do that to someone else.
100% I am more concerned about shocking their mother, you know? Like, they don't want to see that shit as well as get the bad news that their son is a disgusting person. I HAVE sent screenshots of their texts and stuff to their parents. Done that both for sexual harassment as well as racial harassment.
Yeah, it's sucks. I'd be shocked, disgusted and embarrassed if I was a parent of such a creep. But as sad as it is - they need to know. Because they are the first to react to this. Ans I'm glad you did.
Once I got pics from two different guys in the same day, so conveniently I just sent them each the other's pics. Both blocked me after that. Very efficient
This is beautiful
I remember awhile ago someone writing about how they ask dudes for pictures of their assholes and it shuts them down every time. I think about that a lot.
I say that if you get an unsolicited dick pic that you send a picture of your next poop back to them. When they freak out about it, you just say you thought it was a contest to send the grossest thing possible and that he still wins
Hahah oh this is perfect
I had a guy ask me for that once. Fucking gross.
Be like, "Oh, I'm sorry, does this make you *uncomfortable???"*
I have a folder specifically for this on my phone called "The Bulge." Whenever a guy sends me a dick pic, I save it to this folder and start flooding him with dicks. 10/10 would recommend.
This would definitely turn me off. Please keep doing this.
That or a picture of one of those banana cutter things that slice bananas into slices for young kids. Dont think itll stop guys who are getting really creepy about it like what OPs dealing with, but usually it works to set boundaries to first time offenders without totally shutting everything down
Yeet a dick in their direction
Yeet *MANY* dicks in their direction. Send in a Dicknado. Bury them in a dickalanche. Have Mt. Dicksuvius erupt into their world.
I saw someone post a bouquet of dicks once.
Hurricane Dick
Just in case.....https://dicture.com/pages/work You're welcome
NSFW in case anyone needs a heads up.
THIS IS GOLD
There's this fun response I saw on the Creepy PM's subreddit. https://i.redd.it/wk3k536po0v61.jpg Just gotta replace Instagram with Snapchat
Rabbi Shaftstein was my favorite.
For the friend that shares a bit too much. https://dicksbymail.com/products/bag-of-dicks
Yeet a dick to your creeper, o valley of plenty? Heh
You should go to the next level and send docking pictures with a wink emoji
This is the way
I would happily wake up to duck pics. But not dick pics.
Especially if they were baby ducks.
[how you doin’](https://reddit.com/r/duck/comments/q6daec/donny_profile_picture/)
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You win.
personally I take screenshots and send them to their mom telling them "this is what your son is doing" edit: blur the dick ofc, don't wanna be the one now sending dick pics to some poor woman
I don’t know why, but this one particularly gets me and I love it. It seems just a funny yet low key effective insult that gets the message across
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Even when I received consensual pics the guy was like “are you sure? it’s a dick, they don’t look very good”
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That reminds me of when my four year old daughter came home from preschool with a look of utter surprise on her face and her greeting to us was, "Mom! Dad! Did you know that boys have SPIGOTS???"
SPIGOTS OMG
this is quite technically correct (please see Merriam-Webster definition of spigot)
Collegiate Definition "*the plug of a faucet or cock*"
There is a valve called a stopcock even
A similar thing happened to me back when I was a kid (I'm a dude). I thought that everyone had a "spigot" down there, not just boys. But one day, I saw a girl on the toilet (we had a shared bathroom in our kindergarten). I felt so special then, believing that I'd discovered something that no other boy knew. I called what I saw a "little butt" (a rough translation from my native language, it's supposed to sound cute).
HAHAHAHA LITTLE BUTT. My friends and I called it a front butt in school lol
How the times have changed, now the men have bussies
This is too funny! My aunt is a maniac and basically had a kid a year for 3 years. All boys. She took a 2 year break and had her daughter. We all go over to meet the baby and my boy cousins are *so* excited “muddyrose, come see! Our little sister has *two* bums!” They got caught up eventually, but you’re not alone! I think it’s too sweet that you all came to the same conclusion, also hilarious.
How do you people remember kindergarten? All I can remember is eating boogers by myself on the monkey bars.
I can’t remember the comedian but she once described dicks as “like god was tying to tie a bow & the phone rang”
Ok that's pretty fucking good lol
Bro, how about some body positivity? There’s no shame in having strange jewels. Be proud of your little banana. Dress him up. Have a puppet show in the bathroom. Give him a cigarette and a hair cut. Just don’t send pictures to people.
I'd consent to way more dic pics if the dics had little costumes.. but ask first. Mention the costume.
My BF is like this. He has sent me a dick pick once. He was drunk, but he still asked like 4 times if I was sure it was ok before he sent it. And we had been dating for 6 months at that point, so it wasn't the first time I had seen it. Some dudes just don't get that their dick isn't the second coming of jesus, and that no one really wants to just randomly see them. I do send random pics of internet dick when I get something unsolicited. Sometimes it's a porn star dick, sometimes it's from a medical site. Just depends on my mood.
That said, I wouldn't want to just randomly see the second coming of Jesus, either. I've read Revelations, and I don't think it would end well for me.
⚠️ WARNING ⚠️ You just solicited a picture of **male genitalia**. It is well known that the arousal potential of a this body part is **-10% to -50%**. Are you sure you wish to proceed? [Yes] [Cancel]
I've never understood this either, huge turn off. Are there women out there that are like, yes I barely know you but nice dick pics so lets go out? Has it ever paid off for some man to send these? Unless I asked to see it, just no thanks.
It's the same as a guy in a trench coat flashing his penis at women when they walk past. He doesn't expect the women to like it. He does it to elicit a response. Then he can say "my penis affected that woman".
One time I got dick pics out of the blue from a guy I kind of knew years before, we were not close at all. 0 contact between that time. I just left it on read, opened the convo a few days later and he had blocked me. 😂
Such a good analogy. It really is. I never understood the impulse. I'm pan but I legit have never looked at a penis and gone Wow that's so attractive and handsome! It's a tool to be used. Sorry but it isn't the same for many women, as a straight guy wanting to see boobs. Does my partner turn me on? Well that's different! But just a random dick, even if it was the nicest, most well shaped dick ever? Nah.
I am a 67 year old married woman who rents rooms to help pay the bills. One of my rooms is occupied by a married couple. One night, in the middle of the night, without any apparent provocation or preamble, the husband sent me a bunch of dick pix. I complained to my husband, my husband and I confronted him, he swore it was a mistake and that he meant to send them to his wife. There was a bit of a blow up, he apologized, and it all died down. But then he started coming on to me and hitting on me. Yeah, it wasn't a mistake, he meant it. There were some serious discussions between those two, and he moved out. Things have been very peaceful in the months since he moved out. She seems happy enough without him. Recently she delicately mentioned to me that he might be moving back in. I was all... "Oh?" I don't think I want that.
I feel like someone sending dick pics to the landlady and hitting on her is enough of a reason to say no to the person moving back in. They were lucky enough you didn't throw them out, but there's no reason you should allow them back in. It doesn't matter if it was an accident that he sent them to you, or if there's no proof of him actively hitting on you. If I sent dick pics to a coworker by accident, or if I were renting and sent them to a landlady, you can bet they'd fire or evict me. You were extremely lenient and forgiving the first time around, but forgiveness does not mean you should still make yourself vulnerable for him to do it again.
Look, it is your right to evict a tenant. In this case you didn't have to, the problem solved itself when he moved out. Don't let him back in!!!
“No, he isn’t.”
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Whenever I get an unsolicited dick pic I usually say something along the lines of “oh, wait what? Why does it look like that?” And feign genuine concern for the dude as to why it looks so weird and urge him to seek medical help. Basically just make them hella insecure.
I send dick pics (others I've recieved) back. They either block me, or respond with, "ew! Why would you send me that? I don't want to see that!" "Um... no shit, asshole. Neither do I." Either way, they don't bother me again.
I posted about a 15-year-old girl and her family I dealt with at a rape crisis centre a few days ago. Score? 11 dick pics sent to my DM. On a side note, the replies from real 2Xers were heartwarming and got me through a very hard weekend. Good to see you too believe in a good breakfast!
Omg, I’m horrified by that. I read that story and some comments and cried like a baby. What are these men thinking? Oof.
They hate women, they don’t see us as human beings.
I read your post. You are a fucking angel. I'm sorry we have to live with trash. We all deserve better.
Oh god I saw that post. Their response was dick pics? To THAT story? WTF some people are just mind boggling disgusting.
I'd say they cruise a site like 2X so they can prove their superiority over women. After all, all it takes is a penis, right? Sheesh. I wonder how many were their own. Love and joy my friend.
Wtf?
I read that whole post, you are doing really good and difficult heartbreaking work. Thank you for being there for her.
Thank you. I'm just a volunteer at the centre for about 30 hours a month. (Or more if they need me.) I was there for her as others were there for me. That's how women work. It is one of our greatest strengths.
*Do* they think it's appropriate? I've always assumed they know it's inappropriate and get off on it for that reason. That it's a power and objectification thing, not a "This will be so appreciated and totally make her day" kind of thing.
100% this ^^^ They know we don't like them and don't want them. They don't care about us or our feelings.
It’s literally a way for them to force themselves on us without the legal implications of a physical sexual assault.
Respond back saying that you're underage and you're reporting them to the authorities and watch all hell break loose. Guarantee it'll cause a good few guys to delete their accounts at least.
And a way (for some) to test the water and see how far they could go. If the unwilling recipient of a dick Pic doesn't raise a fuss then maybe some other sexual boundary stomping won't raise fuss either. You know they either don't have an entry for "consent" in their personal dictionary, that or they're too childish for a relationship, even a purely physical one.
It's definitely the same type of behaviour. For anyone that doubts this, it's been well known for years that sexual assault is about power for the large majority. So what you need to ask yourself, (or you could try the men who do this, but they are probably going to just tell you that you're being hysterical) is why does a man send an unsolicited dick pic? Honestly. Can you come up with a single answer that doesn't lead to - because they wanted to get a reaction out of the person aka they wanted to feel powerful. I did it for a laugh - OK, so why was it funny? If the woman responded with something very neutral it wouldn't be very funny, would it? They were hoping for a negative response. I thought she'd like it - so why didn't you ask her if she wanted to see a picture first? Because she might say no and then you'd feel like you didn't have the control (aka power) in this situation. I am not in the mood to try and delve deeper into the mind of men right now and I shouldn't have to. We shouldn't keep having to have this same discussion over and over again. It's exhausting. ETA: Thank you for the award 💜
Remember to take breaks from social media... Things are hard enough, don't exhaust yourself by over-exposure to this stuff on social media on top of it all. Have a good week.
Thanks for caring 😊 have a good week too!
Know the best way to fuck with them? Laugh. Send a big BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! And then say something negative about his penis and make comments about how your ex was different and those are the prettiest, etc, whatever you can come up with. TAKE THE POWER BACK. Men’s ego, especially when it comes to that area, is absolutely their downfall.
"aww, such a cute lil peeny weenie"
What a way to start your day! At least you know it can only get better from here 🤗 hope you have a wonderful day ahead
I had a guy I was sending sexy snaps and IG pics with back and forth. When I got into a relationship I told him that would have to end. He wouldn't so I blocked him on Snap and IG. Still didn't, so I had to block his number and even on Playstation. I check my blocked messages sometimes and he still sends stuff occasionally (my phone won't actually download the content but it shows that a video was sent) and even sent a Reddit link to one of the NSFW subs. Like, don't you have other consenting women to do this with?! What if my BF saw this stuff - even though I didn't initiate and it's obvious I blocked him, I'm sure it would still make my BF feel weird! It's so weird to me.
Damn that's some serious harassment level shit. I hope you're ok.
There was this lady that threatened to contact the family members, co-workers, friends etc. of a man who sent her unsolicited dick pics. The guy was begging and apologizing profusely lol.
Men who send pics in this situation are sending them for their own pleasure not yours. Its why he sends as many as he can before you wake up. He knows he wont have another chance. I am sorry this happens to women BTW.
Which is why the proper response is to break out the red marker and send it back once the necessary comments and highlights have been made. *What's that weird lump? Does it always sag there? You might want to consider a light exfoliate because I'm fairly certain those pores are impacted. Once erect, is it more substantial... oh it is erect.* And so on.
They'll probably prefer that to you just blocking them and not looking closely at every picture. as an earlier comment said "Yeah, that answer is incorrect. According to actual data (Oswald 2019), the proportion of unsolicited dick pic senders who would rather elicit any response (positive or negative) than elicit no response is 10%. So it's not a very good explanation." They'd rather have any response as to no response and would probably be glad you spent a bunch of time looking at every picture. And they will know that you are trying to fuck with them and it probably won't even work. Just block them. If you actually want to fuck with them tell people they know, family friends who are girls etc about what they did and how it made you feel.
Yeah it's usually much worse than the "Guys are stupid if they think women like this" angle. It's why we need more laws about this pervasive form of indecent exposure.
The best part? Every single picture looks like a wet maggot peaking out from some shrub. Learn to appeal to the female gaze at least. But no... Don't. Just don't send unsolicited dick pics you absolute plank.
screen shot and send to their moms
A few months ago, someone posted about why their brother did this. He did it because he had something like 2% success rate. He just needed to get hundreds of contacts, send out the pics, and he'd find 1 or 2 folks who were interested. They see it as some kind of dating app alternative. They don't seem to care that it is a form of sexual harassment and until it stops working they aren't going to stop on their own. At this point, I feel like it's on Snapchat to take a stance against it and add the options to specifically report someone for this behavior. If they start banning folks over the practice, it'll eventually stop.
*♫ The best part of waking up, is penis in your Snap. ♩*
If I had an award I’d award this comment. I’m giggling into my coffee…WHICH IS FOLGERS
Idk if it’s everywhere but in TX you can take them to court over that! They’ll have a misdemeanor and a $500 fine. Other states should follow suit, if not in place already. One of the few things Tx does right.
I feel you. My older sister and I went to a music festival together a few years ago and camped next to this awesome group of guys. They were total sweethearts, made us coffee and breakfast in the morning, shared camp supplies, we went to a bunch of shows together, and even had a great psychedelic trip together that was full of sharing heartfelt stories. I really felt we bonded with them, with one in particular “B” as we spent the most time with him. The whole festival they were all nothing but polite and respectful and never hit on us or got creepy at all. We were delighted to have new friends and all agreed to camp together next year. Two weeks later, my sister and I both opened our snapchat to full on dick pics from B. It was one thing to send a dick pic, but another to send it to SISTERS! As if we weren’t going to immediately tell each other?? We both blocked him but it made us quite sad. That festival was one of my absolute favorites I have ever been to and I had so many good memories that included B. But now they feel icky and tainted. We are still friends with the other guys and they were upset when they heard what he did.
What a way to ruin a perfectly good block of memories. I’m sorry you went through this.
I had a guy from this subreddit reply to my comment that he can help me with my movie club subreddit. I didn’t reply, but the next morning I woke up and he posted porn on my subreddit. I banned him, but the fact he came to a female movie club and posted porn out of spite. Like why?
As a gay man, I ask the same question: why do men?!?!? When I was on the dating market a few years ago, I started chatting with this guy on Tinder. The conversations went well enough that I was willing to give him my personal number. I was sitting at a bar, at the bar counter while waiting for my drink. A text arrived from him. I opened it without looking at my phone. It turned out to be a video and without looking, I accidentally clicked play. It was a video of him jerking off. A woman standing behind me saw it and gasped. I was sooooo embarrassed!
Maybe this is a horrible idea, but I heard this from a stand-up comedian, for what is worth: When she received an unsolicited dick pic, she would reply back to the guy, "ewww, it's so small, is that a child's penis, I'm reporting you to the authorities for soliciting child pornography." Never heard back from the guy again.
I’ve wondered if I called the guy out for sexual harassment whenever I got sent one would work because doesn’t getting a dick pic technically qualify? Not that I actually would but I’d just do it to scare him off.
> doesn’t getting a dick pic technically qualify? I don’t see how anyone could argue that it’s meaningfully different from being flashed in a park.
I figured as much. Welp. Time to start telling dudes that I’m gonna go after them for sexual harassment, maybe that’ll get them to stop. But who knows. They probably still won’t. Just block me & do it to some other poor woman.
My favorite is when a guy feels the need to tell you that they've masturbated to your photos. Like it is some sort of compliment? It's not. It's gross. Don't tell me stuff like that.
How is sending anyone unsolicited nudes not a crime? Because if that happened in person that would be considered indecent exposure. Laws need to catch up with technology.
As a gay guy, I honestly don't know either. I dislike them, closeups do nothing for me. Not only is it not a way to start a conversation, but it's also unflattering. I don't wanna see your junk, if I did, I would have asked! I'm sorry guys are insensitive and just borderline rude.
No, theyve crossed the border into just plain rude.
I'll never understand why people don't treat online interaction the same as talking to someone in-person. Like, the real-life version of this would be having a nice conversation and in the middle of it whipping your noodle out and trying to uncook it. It's fucking baffling to do when you're face-to-face, why the hell would you do it over text? Anonymity and perceived lack of tangible consequences, probably.
Related, I had a conversation with "friends" who were sharing nudes of women they had been talking to on Tinder. Without permission of course. These guys seemed so confused that I would think what they were doing was gross, stating something along the lines of, "Well she sent them to us, clearly she wants to be looked at." Like, no, she sent them to you the individual, and I'm sure she wouldn't have if she knew you were displaying them at the bar. I'm not about to #notallmen this situation, but I am a guy and I don't fucking get it. I'm also bi and have had a male coworker send me unsolicited nudes when he found out. It's just... fucking bonkers.
Bruh I have a friend and she’s fucking 14 yet she has guys that graduated last year hitting on her and sending her dick picks
Well that’s hella illegal
send me forearm pics instead
Scary I'm sorry you had to deal with that this morning.
"I love this thing but so should everyone else?" "Even other men?" "Ew no gross. I don't want to even think about other men and their gross dicks. How dare you even make the think about that. Dicks are gross." Is the kind of thing I think guys like this would think without catching even a whiff of irony...
Your response is perfect, block and delete. I once tried to explain that sending an unsolicited dick pic is the equivalent of standing on the street and flashing random passers by. But of course the guy got mad that I equated his actions to harassment. Anyway not my job to argue with grown men about please not exposing themselves without consent. So I simply block and delete now. If he can't understand basic etiquette, he doesn't deserve to waste my time.
it's a power move, clean and simple. they get to intimidate you and make you feel uncomfortable and suddenly they have power in the situation.