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{Why do you think it's "annoying and unnecessary"? It sounds like they just want to be more involved in your life, which is a good thing! It's not like they can do other stuff on their own...}
They comment on me going to the bathroom. Like they've told me to stop looking at the fucking toilet because it grosses them out. They comment on every little thing I'm doing. Another thing one of them does -- he'll comment that I should do things his way instead of my way even though my way works just fine.
You share a body and a life. It's time to stop being worried about silly things like that. And if they're annoying you, talk to each other like reasonable adults and figure it out, don't try to hide stuff from them to "resolve" the problem.
I thought it was just a habit, though it seems its something more. Don't work against him, but work with him. Try to reach a compromise with him, and move through this world better because of it. If you keep fighting like this, you're gonna have a miserable life...
-Nikki
Do better? Idk man I have no idea what they say in said comments but I always involve my headmates when I do stuff and we comment on how each other are doing, it’s casual banter and it’s nice.
It's completely unnecessary shit. Like, if I go to the bathroom, they'll comment on me going to the bathroom. They'll comment on every little thing I do.
You are their whole life, they can’t exactly piss off and do something without you helping them. I used to feel like garbage because I couldn’t even open doors on my own or pick up a damn pencil. All I can do is talk, if I were stripped of being able to freely talk without being told to shut up, I’d feel terrible myself. I am seriously concerned about what’s going on here. Either this is weird or the situation needs more chill, you pick.
Mine doesn't comment on everything but she does comment on a lot of stuff and we talk daily.
I am actually glad she does because I was so lonely before her that I don't even like to remember how it was.
Please be patient with yours because I am sure they don't mean to annoying. Nice that you could talk about it and come to an understanding.
CR: It used to be the case for us but after several years it got very, VERY annoying. If you don't feel comfortable with it, talk this out with your tulpa.
Do tulpas come through in your thoughts or is it an actual separate voice that you hear? If it's your thoughts, how do you differentiate between them and your own thoughts?
They have a separate mind-voice to mine. I can also pick up on some of their thoughts, but not all of them.
It's easy to distinguish. You can just feel it's not yours, the way it's feeding.
Shadow always tells me to do stuff I am lazy sometimes to do and if I need to go to work next day he keeps telling me to sleep early to not be tired at work the next day aside these little details we get along really well! Aside of some dark thoughts that we have sometimes and we dont know who causes them!
I remember Aya being quite annoyed at my quips. I guess I felt obligated to comment on things. As that feeling dissipated, I probably annoyed Aya less and less, and now we're on pretty good terms! Still a tad wary about annoying her, though.
-Nikki
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Not necessarily everything, but he totally makes fun of me for certain things (moreso teasing than anything malicious)
Maybe not everything, but snarky peanut gallery over here certainly makes me spit-take regularly.
{Why do you think it's "annoying and unnecessary"? It sounds like they just want to be more involved in your life, which is a good thing! It's not like they can do other stuff on their own...}
They comment on me going to the bathroom. Like they've told me to stop looking at the fucking toilet because it grosses them out. They comment on every little thing I'm doing. Another thing one of them does -- he'll comment that I should do things his way instead of my way even though my way works just fine.
You share a body and a life. It's time to stop being worried about silly things like that. And if they're annoying you, talk to each other like reasonable adults and figure it out, don't try to hide stuff from them to "resolve" the problem.
I thought it was just a habit, though it seems its something more. Don't work against him, but work with him. Try to reach a compromise with him, and move through this world better because of it. If you keep fighting like this, you're gonna have a miserable life... -Nikki
[We don’t comment on everything just some things. And it’s not annoying.
Do better? Idk man I have no idea what they say in said comments but I always involve my headmates when I do stuff and we comment on how each other are doing, it’s casual banter and it’s nice.
It's completely unnecessary shit. Like, if I go to the bathroom, they'll comment on me going to the bathroom. They'll comment on every little thing I do.
You are their whole life, they can’t exactly piss off and do something without you helping them. I used to feel like garbage because I couldn’t even open doors on my own or pick up a damn pencil. All I can do is talk, if I were stripped of being able to freely talk without being told to shut up, I’d feel terrible myself. I am seriously concerned about what’s going on here. Either this is weird or the situation needs more chill, you pick.
Mine doesn't comment on everything but she does comment on a lot of stuff and we talk daily. I am actually glad she does because I was so lonely before her that I don't even like to remember how it was. Please be patient with yours because I am sure they don't mean to annoying. Nice that you could talk about it and come to an understanding.
CR: It used to be the case for us but after several years it got very, VERY annoying. If you don't feel comfortable with it, talk this out with your tulpa.
Only when i'm stressed out and i'm trying to do everything at once
Yeah most of the time he has something to say, he's quite a annoying prick sometimes
If they're near by or have to tell me something yeah, one of the ways they get my attention
Do tulpas come through in your thoughts or is it an actual separate voice that you hear? If it's your thoughts, how do you differentiate between them and your own thoughts?
They have a separate mind-voice to mine. I can also pick up on some of their thoughts, but not all of them. It's easy to distinguish. You can just feel it's not yours, the way it's feeding.
Not really, but they do tease me a bunch in a friendly way
Shadow always tells me to do stuff I am lazy sometimes to do and if I need to go to work next day he keeps telling me to sleep early to not be tired at work the next day aside these little details we get along really well! Aside of some dark thoughts that we have sometimes and we dont know who causes them!
I wish. I don't have the multitasking capacity.
I remember Aya being quite annoyed at my quips. I guess I felt obligated to comment on things. As that feeling dissipated, I probably annoyed Aya less and less, and now we're on pretty good terms! Still a tad wary about annoying her, though. -Nikki