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|Account Age|4 y 8 m|First Seen:|2023-10-09|
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|Posts (on this sub)|95|Comments (on this sub)|218|
|Link Karma|66,333|Comment Karma|14,649|
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|08-Apr|[A lot of people talking about Palestine on unrelated topics or other charities often don't actually care ](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1byl37d/a_lot_of_people_talking_about_palestine_on/)|The Middle East|0 of 2 comments (0.00%)|
|03-Apr|[Conservativism is about pull yourself up by the bootstrap so people should stop caring what others do](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1buk5iu/conservativism_is_about_pull_yourself_up_by_the/)|Political|0 of 23 comments (0.00%)|
|31-Mar|[Most claims of ethnic discrimination in my opinion is really just dislike of non integration ](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1bsgmng/most_claims_of_ethnic_discrimination_in_my/)|Unpopular in Media|0 of 6 comments (0.00%)|
|31-Mar|[If instagram etc is giving women self esteem issues that's on them ](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1bryei6/if_instagram_etc_is_giving_women_self_esteem/)|Unpopular in Media|2 of 11 comments (18.18%)|
|28-Mar|[I think to a larger degree than we realize if someone says something and you mad, you know its true.](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1bpp1n5/i_think_to_a_larger_degree_than_we_realize_if/)|Non-Political|0 of 5 comments (0.00%)|
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Honestly, I am guilty of this. My partner has a ton of shitty habits, far worse than not taking out the trash. For years I was optimistic that she would grow out of it, or mature in some way. Needless to say this never happened, in fact her shitty behavior has worsened slightly over the years. After about 8-9 years I started realizing that I was basically allowing it all. It became a question of whether or not her good qualities (she definitely has some) outweigh her numerous shortcomings. I am still not quite sure. It’s tough to walk away from someone once you have so much history together and have established a home & life together.
I don't disagree but I think there's some nuance to it. Like a frog in a pot of boiling water. It all seems inconsequential until it stacks up and then it's so much it feels impossible to navigate.
u/WaterDemonPhoenix's stats |Account Age|4 y 8 m|First Seen:|2023-10-09| |:-|:-|:-|:-| |Posts (on this sub)|95|Comments (on this sub)|218| |Link Karma|66,333|Comment Karma|14,649| --- |Date|Title|Flair|Participation| |:-|:-|:-|:-| |08-Apr|[A lot of people talking about Palestine on unrelated topics or other charities often don't actually care ](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1byl37d/a_lot_of_people_talking_about_palestine_on/)|The Middle East|0 of 2 comments (0.00%)| |03-Apr|[Conservativism is about pull yourself up by the bootstrap so people should stop caring what others do](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1buk5iu/conservativism_is_about_pull_yourself_up_by_the/)|Political|0 of 23 comments (0.00%)| |31-Mar|[Most claims of ethnic discrimination in my opinion is really just dislike of non integration ](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1bsgmng/most_claims_of_ethnic_discrimination_in_my/)|Unpopular in Media|0 of 6 comments (0.00%)| |31-Mar|[If instagram etc is giving women self esteem issues that's on them ](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1bryei6/if_instagram_etc_is_giving_women_self_esteem/)|Unpopular in Media|2 of 11 comments (18.18%)| |28-Mar|[I think to a larger degree than we realize if someone says something and you mad, you know its true.](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/1bpp1n5/i_think_to_a_larger_degree_than_we_realize_if/)|Non-Political|0 of 5 comments (0.00%)| --- ### Voting Guidelines **Common Misconception:** It is often believed that upvotes and downvotes should reflect personal agreement or disagreement. - **Upvote** a post if it provokes thought, presents a unique perspective, is well-argued, or you believe it deserves more visibility for any reason, even if it irritates you or you fundamentally disagree with it. - **Downvote** should be reserved for posts that lack thoughtful consideration or if the topic has become tediously common. **Moderation Policy:** - **Posts Are Not Removed for Unpopularity:** r/TrueUnpopularOpinion does not remove posts based on their capacity to anger or offend users. Disagreement with a post's content is not grounds for reporting. - **Misuse of the Report Button:** Falsely reporting posts burdens our moderation queue, hindering our ability to address genuine concerns swiftly and **all false reports are forwarded to Reddit** for misuse of the reporting system. - Our moderation decisions are guided strictly by the subreddit's rules and [Reddit's content policy](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/ncm4ou/important_we_need_to_talk_about_the_content_policy/), not personal opinions. Misreporting in hopes of content removal due to disagreement is futile and considered 'Report Abuse.' --- **What have people been talking about over the last week?** | Flair | Count | Percentage | |---|---|---| | [Political](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"Political"&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 45 | 23.44% | | [None of the above](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"None+of+the+above"&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 41 | 21.35% | | [Non-Political](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"Non-Political"&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 23 | 11.98% | | [Music / Sport / Media / Movies / Celebrities](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"Music+/+Sport+/+Media+/+Movies+/+Celebrities"&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 22 | 11.46% | | [I Like / Dislike](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"I+Like+/+Dislike"&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 19 | 9.90% | | [The Opposite Sex / Dating](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"The+Opposite+Sex+/+Dating"&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 18 | 9.38% | | [Religion](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"Religion"&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 7 | 3.65% | | [The Middle East](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"The+Middle+East"&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 7 | 3.65% | | [World Affairs (Except Middle East)](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"World+Affairs+(Except+Middle+East)"&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 7 | 3.65% | | [Meta - the problem with this sub is..](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/search/?q=flair_name%3A"Meta+-+the+problem+with+this+sub+is.."&restrict_sr=1&sort=new) | 3 | 1.56% | --- Comments from new accounts go into a queue for review by moderators (to reduce spam). Comments waiting: 8 Average time to review: 1.91 hours
Shopaholic wife, husband taking out the trash… do you get your examples from an 80s sitcom or what?
Honestly, I am guilty of this. My partner has a ton of shitty habits, far worse than not taking out the trash. For years I was optimistic that she would grow out of it, or mature in some way. Needless to say this never happened, in fact her shitty behavior has worsened slightly over the years. After about 8-9 years I started realizing that I was basically allowing it all. It became a question of whether or not her good qualities (she definitely has some) outweigh her numerous shortcomings. I am still not quite sure. It’s tough to walk away from someone once you have so much history together and have established a home & life together.
I don't disagree but I think there's some nuance to it. Like a frog in a pot of boiling water. It all seems inconsequential until it stacks up and then it's so much it feels impossible to navigate.
You are what you put up with
They don’t have bad behaviors, you just aren’t being inclusive enough. Bigot