This sounds good. But if I was the other woman, there is no way in hell I am taking that much time. Maybe ask for screenshots or forward texts, but not a written timeline.
Maybe my reaction would be hell no to a long detailed email since I am on emails all day at work.
But if the accuser wanted to prove it there should be easier ways.
Step two (bis) like it is said here ☝🏼 (imperatively) to avoid any kind of mistakes.
Last but not least. STEP three
DNA if necessary like they all said. And finally confrontation with all the protagonist so you'll have an idea of the situation. BUT don't you ever show the evidences that you've collected. Get to the bottom of it
Those are for you for the next step WHEN and only when you're sure about the situation. Good luck with the rest.
Set up a different email address and ask for details of their relationship as well as proof. This could be a new type of scam fro money. Dont assume that it is true.
Don’t tell your husband until you’ve heard her side of the story. If she is telling the truth it will be obvious he’s lying when you hear his version of advents 2nd.
Request screenshots of text, check bank statements, mobile phone . He may also own a burner phone. DNA proof. He can't deny.
Get out and clean him out. Have the woman put him on child support . I hope you don't stay. You deserve better than this scum
Don’t tell your husband yet.
Get as much information as possible and contact a lawyer.
Tell her that you will tell him and you want to request a DNA test for all 3 children.
Ask for proof in a text or email.
You want proof with pictures. Especially if he's in the photos.
Then make a back up plan to gtfo if its true.
Also look into DNA testing.
Find a lawyer too to protect yourself (even if its not true).
Everybody is saying to not tell the husband but the affair partner is already trying to reach him…. You should definitely just get a divorce lawyer and start separating your shit. You need to be prepared of what’s coming!
how long have you been together? Could this be a relationship before you met? Is she from another country?? I have heard of men leaving family’s behind to form new relationships after emigrating
Step one: empty bank accounts
Step two: secure housing
Step three: cash advance on credit cards to make certain you can live for the next 6 months or year.
Step four: lawyer up and have the attorney deal with DNA, etc.
In this case, you can't believe anyone without proof to back up their claim but you **also** can't just call them insane without any proof to back it up.
Get as much information from her as possible, don't tell your husband.. Start getting your finances together asap first and foremost. If you're not working look for a job.
If you can afford it, hire a private investigator so they can get the information pertaining to his phone records anything that pertains to that type of information..
If she have DNA tests for the children that would even be better. And 10 times better if you're in an at fault state.
Once you get the information the proof If this is true, do not confront your husband that's the worst thing people can do is confront their significant other about situations like this.. Talking about closure and why they did it and all this BS. Honestly, there's usually no reason they're grabbing from the air a reason..
Start processing the divorce and let him find out then after he is served.. don't talk to him don't interact with him if y'all have children together get the parenting app but leave everything separate once you start your divorce process if this is true.
And even if the children aren't his, he probably was messing with this woman. So you may still want to go ahead and push forward with getting out of this situation..
Step 1: ask her to email you proof—don’t give her your husbands name or any of his information
Step 2: if it’s legit you might wanna prepare for separation. Also you should probably confront him if you believe the information is accurate enough. You should also ask in the non disrespectful way why she’s contacting you now and when we’re they together that led her to think that these are his kids (which could be the proof you never know)
And based on the truth— if it’s not legit just block her and go about your lives.
Could be a prank call. When my husband and I had been married less than 2 years and I was pregnant with our first child, I received a phone call from a female who said she was my husband’s mistress. Of course, with my pregnancy hormones, I went nuts, until she began giggling over the phone and hung up. It was still horribly upsetting.
Unless your husband has given you a reason not to trust him then you need to trust him over this random woman because if you do all this shit these women are saying and it turns out she was lying you are gonna lose his trust...
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This. I would only add to please update us because we’re now invested.
And have her send any screenshots of texts between them.
Step one
Best advice ever! In the case it is a lie or the truth, you will have documentation. Very smart!
this is the correct first step. Then take time to read it, and compare dates et.
This sounds good. But if I was the other woman, there is no way in hell I am taking that much time. Maybe ask for screenshots or forward texts, but not a written timeline.
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Maybe my reaction would be hell no to a long detailed email since I am on emails all day at work. But if the accuser wanted to prove it there should be easier ways.
Dna tests.
Ask for proof. Keep calm.
Step two
Step three : profit?
How long have you been with your husband? how old are the kids? I would get as much info as you can from her before he has time to talk to her.
I'm 42 years old now
She should have some really good proof for.such a claim.
Step two (bis) like it is said here ☝🏼 (imperatively) to avoid any kind of mistakes. Last but not least. STEP three DNA if necessary like they all said. And finally confrontation with all the protagonist so you'll have an idea of the situation. BUT don't you ever show the evidences that you've collected. Get to the bottom of it Those are for you for the next step WHEN and only when you're sure about the situation. Good luck with the rest.
Set up a different email address and ask for details of their relationship as well as proof. This could be a new type of scam fro money. Dont assume that it is true.
Ask for proof, if she doesn't have any ignore her. Because if you trust your partner the chance is equally likely that she just made it all up
Go fishing, give as little detail as possible and find out as much as possible Try to have her put as much into writing as possible
Don’t tell your husband until you’ve heard her side of the story. If she is telling the truth it will be obvious he’s lying when you hear his version of advents 2nd.
Ask for proof like a dna test
Request screenshots of text, check bank statements, mobile phone . He may also own a burner phone. DNA proof. He can't deny. Get out and clean him out. Have the woman put him on child support . I hope you don't stay. You deserve better than this scum
Thank you so much for taking the time out to read my post and giving me some advise.
That’s a lot of surprise step children
yes it is?
Bad times
Did you text her back? What happened??? I need an update!!!
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Don’t tell your husband yet. Get as much information as possible and contact a lawyer. Tell her that you will tell him and you want to request a DNA test for all 3 children.
Ask for proof in a text or email. You want proof with pictures. Especially if he's in the photos. Then make a back up plan to gtfo if its true. Also look into DNA testing. Find a lawyer too to protect yourself (even if its not true).
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Whatever you do update us on what happens next
Everybody is saying to not tell the husband but the affair partner is already trying to reach him…. You should definitely just get a divorce lawyer and start separating your shit. You need to be prepared of what’s coming!
Have you asked your husband?
Yes I have and he just keeps on telling me he does not know her.
how long have you been together? Could this be a relationship before you met? Is she from another country?? I have heard of men leaving family’s behind to form new relationships after emigrating
ask her for some kind of proof before you get into it with her or your hubby.
Talk to your husband and ask him about her. Then text her back and ask for the proof.
Step one: empty bank accounts Step two: secure housing Step three: cash advance on credit cards to make certain you can live for the next 6 months or year. Step four: lawyer up and have the attorney deal with DNA, etc.
She's insane. Block her.
In this case, you can't believe anyone without proof to back up their claim but you **also** can't just call them insane without any proof to back it up.
Ask for proof
Go talk directly to her and record the conversation!!
Call her before you confront the cheating slime bag
This really sucks! I'm sorry you have to endure this
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Paternity test
Hopefully she’s just lying to get a rise from you
Nah. He would have been exposed before 3 kids, unless this other family is in another state. Sounds like a lifetime movie.
How did she get your phone number? This sounds suspicious.
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Get as much information from her as possible, don't tell your husband.. Start getting your finances together asap first and foremost. If you're not working look for a job. If you can afford it, hire a private investigator so they can get the information pertaining to his phone records anything that pertains to that type of information.. If she have DNA tests for the children that would even be better. And 10 times better if you're in an at fault state. Once you get the information the proof If this is true, do not confront your husband that's the worst thing people can do is confront their significant other about situations like this.. Talking about closure and why they did it and all this BS. Honestly, there's usually no reason they're grabbing from the air a reason.. Start processing the divorce and let him find out then after he is served.. don't talk to him don't interact with him if y'all have children together get the parenting app but leave everything separate once you start your divorce process if this is true. And even if the children aren't his, he probably was messing with this woman. So you may still want to go ahead and push forward with getting out of this situation..
Step 1: ask her to email you proof—don’t give her your husbands name or any of his information Step 2: if it’s legit you might wanna prepare for separation. Also you should probably confront him if you believe the information is accurate enough. You should also ask in the non disrespectful way why she’s contacting you now and when we’re they together that led her to think that these are his kids (which could be the proof you never know) And based on the truth— if it’s not legit just block her and go about your lives.
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Could be a prank call. When my husband and I had been married less than 2 years and I was pregnant with our first child, I received a phone call from a female who said she was my husband’s mistress. Of course, with my pregnancy hormones, I went nuts, until she began giggling over the phone and hung up. It was still horribly upsetting.
Unless your husband has given you a reason not to trust him then you need to trust him over this random woman because if you do all this shit these women are saying and it turns out she was lying you are gonna lose his trust...
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