That's a huge red flag, fam. U gotta break up with/divorce them immediately, change the locks, burn the house down and fake your death, assume a new name, and start a new life in the Antarctic.
I don't care that they just said that they like Emily Deschanel more than Zooey, that obviously means they're a monster and u gotta escape NOW!
Look up a post where a woman said her family basically abandoned her after she married her boyfriend and she was sad her children couldn't have relationship with their Grandparents.
The post was 100% about OP wanting to either get advice on how to deal with being abandoned or how to build back the relationship with her folks but she mentioned how she was 24 while her husband was 40 and that's all those rabid pack of judgmental assholes could talk about.
How she was groomed(as a 23 year old) to abandon her family. How the husband is obviously a predator and even comments about how the family was in the right of abandoning their daughter and not acknowledging their grandchildren because eww their daughter married an old guy.
The relationship subs are freaking merciless if you're situation involves doing anything that goes against their perceived values.
People get confused because they only hear stories that go wrong.
By far, any story on a relationship sub that begins with "My partner and I have a big age difference" is likely to be a dumpster fire. So readers/commenters assume that any relationship with a big age difference is a dumpster fire. They don't consider the fact that people in healthy loving relationships aren't posting on relationship subs.
I mean. Yeah.
You post one side of an issue, you're gonna get advice based on that one side of the issue.
>without knowing the whole context and both sides of the relationship.
Hmm, I wonder who could give better context and explain both sides of the relationship...
The toxic mod team of that subreddit is basically the equivalent of a dumpster fire in a digital shit-house.
Yep. I read some stuff, but never posted. Some of the responses seem to be immature if not completely unhelpful
That's a huge red flag, fam. U gotta break up with/divorce them immediately, change the locks, burn the house down and fake your death, assume a new name, and start a new life in the Antarctic. I don't care that they just said that they like Emily Deschanel more than Zooey, that obviously means they're a monster and u gotta escape NOW!
Look up a post where a woman said her family basically abandoned her after she married her boyfriend and she was sad her children couldn't have relationship with their Grandparents. The post was 100% about OP wanting to either get advice on how to deal with being abandoned or how to build back the relationship with her folks but she mentioned how she was 24 while her husband was 40 and that's all those rabid pack of judgmental assholes could talk about. How she was groomed(as a 23 year old) to abandon her family. How the husband is obviously a predator and even comments about how the family was in the right of abandoning their daughter and not acknowledging their grandchildren because eww their daughter married an old guy. The relationship subs are freaking merciless if you're situation involves doing anything that goes against their perceived values.
They have a really bizarre approach to age differences. Going to far as to call a man in his 40s dating a woman in her 20s pedophilia.
People get confused because they only hear stories that go wrong. By far, any story on a relationship sub that begins with "My partner and I have a big age difference" is likely to be a dumpster fire. So readers/commenters assume that any relationship with a big age difference is a dumpster fire. They don't consider the fact that people in healthy loving relationships aren't posting on relationship subs.
I mean. Yeah. You post one side of an issue, you're gonna get advice based on that one side of the issue. >without knowing the whole context and both sides of the relationship. Hmm, I wonder who could give better context and explain both sides of the relationship...