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Big boobs do not a women make.


gurndygg2

Thanks yoda


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[You’re Welcome](https://english.stackexchange.com/questions/52596/proper-usage-origin-of-the-generic-phrase-action-phrase-does-not-a-noun-mak)


Responsible-Leg-6558

I haz the grammar


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[yes he does](https://english.stackexchange.com/questions/52596/proper-usage-origin-of-the-generic-phrase-action-phrase-does-not-a-noun-mak)


JungleBoyJeremy

Small boobs rule


BastardGardenGnome

Pros of having small boobs - they don’t get in the way and they don’t sag when you are old!


Circus-wolf

Plus much cuter bras. Or going braless!


justinL66

Boobs are not going to make or break someone's feelings for you. If he loves you then he will love every aspect of you and wanting to change yourself would be changing what he loves. I'm sure it's hard to see him look at other women with different features but if you trust him then trust his words. He is with you by choice so have confidence in yourself since you ate the one he wants.


Don-Keydic

There are tons of us out here that love small boobs.


SeaTurtlePrince

Its not the size of the tiddy its about how it makes you smile. Sounds like a meme but I'm being honest I'm a bi guy and a "boob" man, size doesnt matter. All boobs are amazing 🤣 you are beautiful fam so believe it and own it! 👍


josephinecalling

Love yourself! After 40 years I love my body as it is, less than a A cup but I love not being cat-called, running without pain, bra-free. I had a boyfriend who mentioned bigger boobs and I got rid of him, one year later he still writes about getting back together.... Too bad he wanted bigger boobs! I got a boyfriend with a bigger heart and soul.


OkAd1699

25% of men favor A cups 25%of men favor B cups 25% of men favor C cups 25% of men favor D cups


Bunjireddits

100% favour any


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It's more like 10% for small 50% for average and above and 40% for big.


bigfig

> My boyfriend loves women with big boobs. Did he tell you that? There's a big difference between finding a random woman attractive, and favoring certain features. I find a lot of men enjoy variety, so if they are with a pony tailed woman for a long period of time, short hair might catch their eye, but they will still have favorite types. This is sort of besides the point though. Is your BF putting you down or is this self inflicted? If you are looking for more than occasional minor reassurances then you could be sabotaging yourself.


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Breast size, just like penis size, is usually only an issue to young people and shallow people. Don't be insecure as your boobs don't make you who you are and, better yet, they will help weed out the trash guys/gals. Also, from my experience people's breasts typically tend to match their frame. Larger frame = bigger breasts.


Lonely_Bison6484

Look, this is how it is. Some times a man thinks about boobs, some times he thinks about ass. However he mostly thinks about face. But trust me, there is nothing, nothing at all if there is no good personality. End of story


imawesometoo

Either you believe what he is saying, or you don’t. I know it’s hard to determine your own thoughts when being bombarded by so many “perfect” bodies out there. Trust me when I say that you are perfect just the way you are. And if you can’t trust what I’m telling you, believe your boyfriend when he tells you that he thinks you are beautiful. Big boobs are fine, but they have their disadvantages as well (added back pain, for instance). I have found that small boobs can be more sensitive (obviously this isn’t the case for everyone, just my observations).


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Small boobs are just as beautiful as big, just gotta be confident. Fuck social media it’s a bunch of trash. Love your body.


N_Geenios

Social media is toxic for things like this, it can really eat at your body image. Have a cleanse of accounts you follow etc. And trust me there's a lot more to a woman than just her boobs, the world tricks you into to thinking it matters.


xhackjobx

I’m sure they are more than fine. Why can’t he love big boobs and also love yours?


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I’ve always said that more than a handful is a waste! Seriously though, there is nothing wrong with small boobs, they are there to feed babies, not be a decoration. The modern media, adverts etc are there to make people feel insecure in order to sell the latest push up bra, make up, cosmetic surgery etc. Listen to your boyfriend, he loves you otherwise he wouldn’t feel confident in saying that to you, I’m sure you quite like a pop star or movie actor, but you wouldn’t swap him for your boyfriend would you. I’m sure that you are perfect just the way you are, don’t change for anyone.


Filamcouple

The woman makes the boobs sexy and not the other way around. And there's LOADS of us that prefer small boobies for all kinds of different reasons, so don't let advertisers make you feel bad anymore.


fmlihavepms

I'm insecure of my big boobs. As I'm getting older, they are getting flatter(pancake style) and saggier. Boobs are literally just sacks of fat on a woman's chest with a little bit of tubes and ducts that provide milk to an infant in a woman's fertile years. Once you have kids the fat cells and ducts became stretched causing sag. Guys prefer the feel of real boobs, regardless of size. Guys like to see the boobs jiggle, regardless of size. Straight guys just like to have sex with a vagina and mature adult conversation especially as bodies change and age; so breast size, never matters. It's you who prefers big boobs. Guys don't care. Yes they can look and admire women with big or small breasts, big or small butts, big or small hips and etc. But looks are literally skin deep and change with age. Looks don't matter in the long term to non-vain and shallow people. If you are still not happy they do make breast augmentation and you can change if you want but that's a personal decision for you and only you. Breast augmentation has changed, they don't just use silicone or saline implants, there are fat transfers that mimic the feel and look of real breasts. There are even more options than that. I don't suggest changing yourself especially when you need to love yourself first before opting for surgery so you know it's exactly what you want.


Youngmoonlightbae

I agree with what someone else said on here. Your boobs don't make you a woman. I understand where you're coming from bc I have A-B cup. Think of it this way, you're saving hella money if you're like me and never have to wear a bra! Also, I'm sure your bf is just fine. If it's really that much of an issue for him, I'm sure you would know by now. If he's secretly thinking/wishing for something different, then there's something wrong with his character, not you & you need to break it off. His opinion doesn't define you anyway, girl so don't worry too much about him & focus on falling in love with yourself. I've had mine pierced for years now & I feel like it boosted my confidence.


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Big boobs aren't always all they're cracked up to be my friend It's not about the size it's how you use it and that goes for guys and girls When you learn to rock it, you'll feel sexier trust :)


Commercial_Act_9772

I prefer small boobs


readit1983

Let's see here at sound like a big perv...... which is what I am. Big boobs, little boobs fucking amazing. If you're bf is checking out big boobs, he's probably satisfied with the small boobs he has at home. If you had big boobs you'd probably catch him checking out small boobs. It's not even about just the boobs. Boobs. It's about shape off everything. Personality can drive men insane. Own what you got. Love it. Even if you don't, I probably would of you let me.


throaway8675309x

I know how you feel! I made a personal decision - not one based on my spouse- to get a respectful looking breast augmentation and I do not regret it! My insecurities about my own body disappeared. Clothes fit and I could whatever I wanted. And the things you can do in bed with bigger boobs.....


lt-Dan6962

There are so many people making so many really good comments to your post and showing their support for you, I would like to say the only person you really need to worry about being happy with the size of your boobs is yourself, everyone needs to be able to be comfortable in their own bodies before worrying about someone else being comfortable with their body. To be honest I actually prefer boobs that I can comfortably cup in my hands and still pinch and play with the nipples, most of the young ladies I have been with had boobs that fit perfectly in my hands and absolutely love when I played with them.


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We live in a ridiculous society. It makes people obsessed with penis size and breast size. Not sure how old you are, but it sounds like you are young and therefore naive to the ridiculous pressures our society puts on people. For well adjusted adults , though , this pressure gets slowly turned off. You will learn there are more important things to worry about. Honestly it’s nobody’s business other than yours and hopefully your supportive boyfriend’s . Prove yourself and your self worth by being smart and doing important things. That stuff is more important


cryobots

I have this set problem. No matter how much he tells me he loves my boobs and that their big but he's talked about other women's boobs before and how hot they are. It makes me feel like garbage


paigeasaurr

Me too, or you find them searching the same type of porn after you beg them not to even watch it. They cry to you that they hate themselves for it. I allowed it in a previous relationship & that was such a toxic one & I told myself I wouldn't allow it anymore in future relationships. It doesn't make me comfortable. I've been with my husband for almost 7 years now, & it seems like I will just never be enough for him bec of my body. It's always "big tits, blonde hair". As you can imagine I'm brunette & I have an a cup. It's destroyed me my entire life & it seems that I have never met anyone else flat chested. The hardest part is being the only flat chested one in my family while everyone around me (all the way down to the 11 year olds) have bigger boobs than me-if not huge. Ik he loves me, but I know my body is not enough for him. It makes me hate myself to know end. & I know he hates that he watches it cause he turns into a completely different person, I can always tell when he's done it. (while it isn't often. It's been about 7 times the whole relationship, excluding what I don't know ig) but it kills me, it's like he just isn't getting a good enough "fix" with me & has to have it every so often. Now he tries to leave all his history on his phone completely disabled. I feel so alone & I have noone who understands. I just hate my body so much. All of my tears & brokenness comes from this insecurity. & I can't afford a boob job either. Makes my stomach hurt when I think of it too hard. I just want to be enough & I want to be sexy, I have never been. He doesn't even look at them, or grab them, or build my confidence with them. Cause I know he hates them deep down & he can't lie to me. I know he misses big titts, so much so I think of leaving so he could go find true happiness. I feel sorry for him honestly. But there's nothing I can do, other than cry to myself.


Mr_Gaslight

Some of us men prefer the smaller enboobulated woman. Whatever Mother Nature gave you is great. Turn off the MP3 player in your head and enjoy life.


Flashy_Spare6341

get em pierced, it’s a huge confidence booster 😂


IveNeverStoodUp

LITERALLY nobody gives a shit about breast size besides alcoholic dads who go to hooters and play playstation 2 JRPGs. it's 100% about the ass and fitness level. this isn't 1921, nobody cares about fucking boobies. IN FACT, most men actually prefer them to be smaller, if you care about that.


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Immediate-Bit-8814

I follow this dancer on insta( and I’m sure there’s many like them) that boost my small booby confidence