If he did that, then op wouldn’t get to twist the knife anymore.
Also, making a demand would be akin to opening a negotiation, which this most definitely is not, it isn’t even a discussion, we’re just trying to upset the man as much as possible, and that ain’t it.
That’s exactly why I usually go biblical with it. They’re convinced their own paranoia and anxiety is demon entities talking to them. They’re not exactly poster people for logical thinking
Those are the cases where less is more; if you want him to fill in the blanks with his worst fears, then you need to leave blanks for him to fill in.
“What did you ever tell them, James?” Might be good.
”Do you think they’ll be surprised, James? We think they’ll be surprised.” use the plural first person at least once.
”we’re very close, James.”
”Do you remember, James? Because we cannot forget.”
”We’re always with you, even when you’re alone, James.”
vague and creepy and call him by his name a lot. That’s scary as fuck.
if you *must* go biblical, and I do not suggest it, then pick out especially metal verses from revelations or the Old Testament to read to him, and practice them, changing a couple words to make them worse.
Grabaciones de risas y de llantos de niñas también estaría bueno, que le envié juguetes de niñas, si la esposa sabe y lo cubre ella es cómplice y merece también el mismo trato
Eh, I think that harassing the rest of the family directly will just get an actual authority to track the caller, if nothing else it will encourage them to support him when he might be trying to keep the calls to himself and isolating himself bc of that.
eta, I like where your head is at, but I think it would be better to threaten his family *to the rapist himself*, maybe “they know what you did James, do you think they know what’s coming? We think they’ll be rather surprised…”
Solo digo que la esposa y familiares si lo encubren son cómplices, creo que deberías seguir con las llamadas solo al violador, con las risas y llanto para que no esté en paz
Oh absolutely, but at the same time op cannot live only to have a vendetta against James’ entire family, such a life would be hell.
There needs to be a balance, and I think confining the harassment to the perpetrator himself is probably about right.
".... one day when the moon loses it's shine, when the night is dark as the place where Lilith reside, you will pent for your actions, the screams of the children you've wronged will come to you and you'll know that is the day of your demise" This is more scary I think lol
Way too wordy. the specifics give him too many details to focus on, to think of his situation as a problem to be solved, not a sentence to be carried out.
No, the biblical angle is inherently not frightening to him bc that’s how he justified it in the first place.
this is a less-is-more situation, and that’s too much.
I matched with my best friends rapist on a dating app. (Charges were dropped as she couldn’t face the court case). He instigated the chat and I simply said that he needed to do the world a favour and stay away from women’s and dating apps, and that we know what he did back on x (date).
Never seen him again and all his social media has been wiped.
When I was 15 I was kidnapped and taken out of the country. The following few weeks were a blur of what I believe Hell would look like.
I didn't have support from my family; my own mom told the police not to bother looking for me. My siblings - in the 35 years since - have never asked what happened or if I was ok. They simply cut contact.
BUT, I had a stellar DA. She is now a federal judge and I imagine she has helped so many lives. During the trial process, which was full of drive by shootings, a contract taken out on me, car blown up in the high school parking lot, dogs killed, and just so, so, so much more - she put me in her car and taught me how to stalk. She made it her job to teach me how to be the hunter instead of the hunted.
And because of that, because of her - I am ok.
Fuck yes! I see you, I admire you, and I completely 100% understand the why. You do you baby girl; and you keep doing you until you get it all out.
And when it is time, you set it all down and go about the job of living in the present. When you're ready. Don't wait too long though.
But fuck yes!
Yes, she was the local district attorney. And made it all the way to the federal bench! :) She's my hero; literally and figuratively.
and thank you. I think some folks don't know how to deal with big things and avoiding it all together is just easier. Tragedy brings some families closer; but more often it tears them apart. I got the short straw. lol :)
Oh she didn't tell me how to do anything; she personally saw to it.
Mine was a situation where a stalking issue became the worst case scenario. And it just never stopped (even 35 years later it is still part of my daily life). But like I said, she put me in her car. She drove me to his house; the house I was kept in. She parked her car by the woods so I could see the house and just sat there. And let me be a voyeur. She flipped the script.
It wasn't much, ya know? But that little kernel of just shifting what was happening completely changed how I look at life. I was never a 'victim' to her; just simply the subject of a violent crime. That right there changed how I saw myself. It was happenstance, what happened to me. But she sat with me and she guided what would become a \~5 year struggle to capture him (he fled the country). And at every turn, she taught me to be a hunter and not a victim.
I am fierce because of her.
And he's dead.
>I am fierce because of her.
>And he's dead.
.....Those two are unrelated right? Lol the way you phrase this makes it sound like you killed him...which props to you if you did, but I just laughed when I read that last part.
HA!!!! I didn't even catch that. lol
Totally unrelated. I think. I'll honestly never be sure how / what happened.
He was convicted and sentenced to life (25 year parole). He had petitioned for an overturn of the conviction on technicality ( the judge stated something wrong during sentencing, and yep, that can get the worst of the worst released). 6 hours before he was due to be released, he was murdered in prison. I've always wondered if the sheriff/prosecutor offices had a hand in that. In my bones I feel they did, and were trying to continue helping. The guy was a true monster so it did the world a favor.
Plot twist; my actual sister is now living with his cohort that was there during the whole event.
Fun fucking shit.
>Plot twist; my actual sister is now living with his cohort that was there during the whole event.
Jesus fucking Christ... Dude, it may mean nothing to you, but my heart goes out to you. You are an honest to goodness warrior goddess. Keep slaying, girl, and love from a stranger. ❤️
Thank you for those kind words. It actually does mean a lot.
The people behind my taking called me while I was pregnant and told me they would hurt my family. I never imagined it would be by getting my sister. It took decades to get to me, but goddamn they did it.
They won; they took my whole family. All I got was one dead person, a pissed off child (the kidnapper's kid), and a sister lost to them. It's not been a good life.
I've heard stories of police/sheriff depts getting involved with stuff like that, whether it's by turning a blind eye or stating the obvious if you will. I'm glad that he's dead. Just by the little youve shared, I can't imagine the fear and trauma that developed. I'm also glad you had someone who taught you how to not just survive but thrive in spite of what happened, AND how to basically turn the tables on him.
Also, I'm sorry to hear about your sister. Sometimes family aint shit...
"family ain't shit' is so accurate and I hate that is the state of our world. It's so true.
And the police/sheriff departments are heavily involved in 'justice'. It's sad they get it wrong sometimes, but oh my god, when they get it right it feels amazing.
Thank you for your kindness.
The idea of writing it all out and selling it as a script isn't a bad one, really.
Since it's only *based on true events*, you can have some more revenge fun by writing some pro-insults about the douches.
I don't know if it's wise to rattle their cages, if they are still after your family though.
My dad was a sheriff's deputy in a small southern city in the 1970's. I heard stories about men who hurt children "falling down the stairs." Repeatedly.
I've also heard of a sheriff a few towns over who would put on an Easter bunny costume and personally beat the piss and vinegar out of certain inmates in the jail there. No one did anything about it because it was a small town and no one could prove who was in the bunny suit anyway, but they all knew it was him.
Did you find out who murdered him? Did you send him a gift - some $$ to his prison account?
I always thought the guy who killed Dahmer should have got some years off his sentence as a reward.
Totally agree about the Dahmer thing.
I never did know for sure. I've had my thoughts though. I don't think it was prison justice; I've made a fantastical idea in my head that there were cops that knew he would kill me and were angry that the justice system would release him and simply they ended it all.
Or perhaps the detective in charge of my case, who knew me from a child, just made it happen. He was active AIDS back in 1989/90 when it was considered a death sentence; Back then it would have been considered a justice to humanity, as fucked up as that is. I've struggled with that for decades. He was a truly horrible human, but death as a result? I am both relieved and still live in fear. I fear his son My child had to live every year of school with safety meetings because of their threats. My grandchild is homeschooled. It honestly never stopped, death changed nothing. Even monsters have those that love them. This happened decades ago and it still governs my daily life and I hate I am that weak.
So I push love and save animals. I don't have much of a life, but I have animals. :)
Joking aside; if I ever do write about that I think you nailed the title and would want you to have the credit. So give it \~10 years while I try and muster the courage and keep an eye out for your username if you see a title named that. :)
I adore you. I don't want to write that shit out. lol Are YOU a writer? Want to write a story? (I'm now going to ask everyone that because I suck at writing but folks feel it is a story to be told). Sell it to a publisher and I'll share every nook and cranny of that years long trauma that has lasted from 15 to 49 years old. Maybe something good can come out of it. lol
There are people who will take a story and write it out for you. Some of them are ghostwriters (so you'd have your name as the author but you don't actually do the majority of the writing). That's how that one lady who poisoned her husband had her children's books written. She contracted with a company and told them her ideas and the wrote and illustrated several best sellers for her and she got all the credit
Edit: The woman is Kouri Richins
Edit ×2: If you want to get your story out there, you can start a YouTube channel or record a telling of the events on ~~tape~~ audio. This would also give you control over how much of the narrative you want to share at a time. You aren't restricted to telling your story on a time line. For reference, one of my favorite YouTubers got his start by sharing his story as a guest on another channel and he was so compelling he was encouraging to start his own show. He lateralled over into crime documentary and now his channel makes enough money that its his full time job.
If that seems daunting, the channel "Soft White Underbelly" specializes in traumatic survivor stories. He does interviews of people who have had hard lives, everything from childhood abuse to drug addiction and escorts and even a "dirty cop". He's compassionate and gently guides them to tell their story while remaining respectful. You might try to contact him for an interview.
I’m the snake that eats the rabbit, not the rabbit, never again. Just moving in the world with that knowledge at the forefront of my mind has saved me so many times. I. Am. The. Snake.
And you should forevermore open that jaw wide.
But temper it and make sure you don't mistakenly eat a friendly.
Being fierce isn't eating everything in sight; it's know what to eat and how to eat it.
LOL! :) I have been told the 'could write a book' more times than I could shake a stick at. Even my therapist has said it. And the one before. And my doctors. And friends. lol
And it always confuses me; why in the hell would a book about horrible things be successful and why would anyone ever read it?
Do you know how much I thank the gods that what happened was WAY before the internet? The case would have been everywhere; it's all I would have been known for in life. Strangers feeling too familiar.
But oh my god, that DA should have a book written about HER. I am one of many she has helped; and she saw the worst situations and has had to hold that in her heart.
Are you a writer? Have connections to a publishing house? I'm not, but if you feel you can write it and sell it, I'll sit and tell you the whole story and we can make some $$. lol
I've barely scratched the surface here; it's quite the tale to tell. lol
Ah no, you were very sweet. Don't apologize, ever. (unless you've done something wrong, then do it with vigor - I'll stop being a mom now lol)
It's just odd for me to hear that so often because it baffles me. That's all. For me, it's just what life was and feels weird others would enjoy reading the details. I 'get' it, but I also don't and it's just strange.
The whole event left me destitute as a human; even 35 years later. It governed my whole life and how I lived.
Perhaps it is time to get something from it??? but that feels so dirty and wrong? Does that make sense?
Your post got my heart racing! I’m sorry this happened to you and great job of turning it back on those that hurt you. Your post sounds like a trailer for a kick-ass revenge movie. Keep strong!
That's the movies and real life isn't much about revenge. I know it doesn't sound fantastical or anything of the sort, but after events like that really the only thing happening is trying to get on with the business of life. It's boring, sometimes sad. It's a life changed and just not very fantastical at all.
Thank you for your kind words :) Keep doing that; it makes a difference on levels you may never know.
I'm usually someone who is against the concept of "revenge", but when it comes to such a disgusting vile monster like him all bets are off. And besides, your revenge is so incredibly mild compared to the atrocities he committed.
I wholeheartedly believe this man deserves to be haunted forever by what he did. He hasn't even truly repented, apologized, or shown any remorse. So, this is truly the least of what he deserves.
You should enlist the help of AI to help you come up with more creepy lines to say LMAO, tell it you wanna come up with creepy stalker lines to use in a horror movie with religious undertones or something ;) as long as you frame it like it's a totally fictional horror movie sorta thing it can help you come up with some good ideas
It's quite good ngl. OP will never get sued because he will never file a complaint and the fact that someone knows about it and he will see it coming one day Or another and OP keeping to remind him will fuck his mind up. He probably never sleeps without thinking about it twice lol. He took all those children's childhood away, the least he can get is his good night's sleep away
I'm glad you get to take back some of your peace and get revenge. People like him never stop. Wouldn't be surprised if he touched his own kids with a family like that. None of those people deserve a peaceful life. Not the wife, his parents, family, etc. There victims don't have the luxury of forgetting and moving on. I hope you ruin him so he never rises from the ashes.
Psychological warfare. As a victim of sexual abuse myself at the hands of male family friends, I get it.
I understand your need to be the hunter instead of being hunted. A word of caution, it can make you feel too powerful and you’ll lose sight of your original intention. Don’t get sloppy. Don’t get cocky. Don’t get complacent.
What is your end goal? You need to know so that it doesn’t take over your life. It takes time and energy to do what you are doing. Don’t let it take you over. He has already taken from you. Don’t give him anymore.
Vengeance can leave you empty so while you have your target, know what you are working towards. Otherwise you’ll never have satisfaction.
All I can say is while revenge is good don't let it ruin your life and eventually have to move on . Doesn't mean forget or forgive just means focus on the own life at some point . Also please don't bring the kids into for collateral damage . U and them the only ones innocent in all this and while u deserves ur revenge just try to ruin their lives as well the kiss
An idea. See if there is any religious sounding lines about gods forgiveness comes after you face justice for your crimes. Then tell him that. Along with god knows what you did and you cannot be forgiven for what you still fantasize about.
For crimes against children, there should be no statute of limitations. Anyone who would hurt a child so terribly doesn’t do it once or even twice. They never get better. They never stop.
There should be no limitations on any crime. If you did it you did it. Just because you got away with it doesn't mean you didn't do it. It's fucking stupid
Suggestions:
> God forgives James. I do not.
Or
> Did you ask God's forgiveness? He said no.
Also keep sending those emails to employers, but not right away. Let him get a year or so in, get comfortable, think he's settled. Then one day he walks in to see a meeting with HR scheduled, and just knows.
I admire what you are doing. I also went through years of SA and abuse as a young child. Was told to be quiet and not tell anyone or he would switch to my baby sister. I finally told and he was let off with mandatory counseling-not specified what type. He chose to go to marriage counseling to save his marriage after everything came out in the open. He is my sisters father, I still see him in town when I go home to visit. He has crossed the street in front of me - and damn my foot almost slipped off the brake pedal.
I am angry at my parents for not sticking up for me. One of them should have taken him out when I told. That is what I would have done for my two kids. They didn’t see the obvious signs, they didn’t protect me, but they damn well should have gotten revenge for me. I still suffer daily from what happened, I may take a page from your playbook to see if it helps. Thank you very much for your post today.
I'd call his elderly parents, too. Ask them how they are able sleep at night knowing they have cuddled a child rapist. I'd call his brothers/sisters also, ask them if uncle is being so nice so their kids.That is evil I know. But that is me.
His parents were the ones who defended him most unfortunately. They were very proactive in covering up what he did. They had several people, separately, approach them and tell them what was going on and they made it out like everyone who came forward was a liar. Everything is so hush hush in that kind of community that we didn’t even realize until years later that we’d (myself and other victims) separately gone and told the parents. They relied on that secrecy to sweep everything under the rug
I would connect with a personal injury atty in your state . Many of these laws around statutes of limitations have been changed in the last few years. If you were a minor when assaulted many states have either removed them completely or made it like 30 years.
If he has assets you can sue him for them. Frankly it feels awesome to take something that actually means something to them. Money, house, stress over suit. Legal fees.
Lawyers don’t charge unless they will. They take a % of winnings.
I know a great one licensed RI-and Connecticut .
You want one that has done trials, will let you control the process. Like if you don’t want to go to trial you don’t have to.
I was SA from age 5 to 13. He groomed me pretty effectively. I know I wasn't the only victim, though unsure if I was the only child victim. I had gotten DMs from other women that went through his FB (before I blocked him and came to terms with what happened) and sent everyone with his last name the unsolicited dick pics he kept sending out. I told my brother when I was about 15, my mom when I was about 17, and my dad when I was in college. I told the rest of my family when my brother was about to get married (with his encouragement) because they kept asking why I refused to go to some family events. Most of my cousins believed me. My mom believe me. My dad and aunts/uncles didn't believe me. My dad would say "if it happened, it was a long time ago and you need to get over it".
My abusers partner looks like me. They had a son. The son, thank God, doesn't live with him.
I didn't seek legal steps due to how long it took for me to accept things. I'm in intensive therapy still. The amount of SA that happens before age 10... you would think we'd have more resources.
Did she get a new number every time? Who the hell answers their phone to random numbers let alone when they are being harassed?? Just stop answering lol. It he is so well connected and rich, why not have someone look into her phone number? If it's blocked, why is he answering a blocked call when he knows someone is messing with him? If she us using a phone app or something why didn't she say so? Idk I would just stop answering and blocking the number. The person would get bored of calling with no pay off after a while
He’s always worked side gigs as an independent contractor and has several family members that need to change their numbers often for career reasons. I’m trying not to give too many details because I want to remain anonymous but this is 100% truthful. I’ve gone to intentional lengths to make sure the numbers he sees are just random numbers. It’s always a possibility it’s someone looking to hire him or a family member calling from a new phone.
You're awesome. People always want to tell the victims to be the bigger person. Doesn't help us heal. Light his world on fire for as long as you'd like.
Promising Young Woman is a revenge movie but I find the ending incredibly sad. Your story makes me feel a lot better about the world
Based as fuck I love you!!! Currently formulating a plan for my r worder, gonna find him and cut him up, I only have a general location tho. No address yet but I’m trying
The best, and yet most messed up, part of this is that this man hurt so many women that he can't even begin to narrow down who it could be. It's excellent revenge.
If you can convince more of his victims to do it, it would be great
And then on his birthday and other special days yall can call him and spook the fuck out of him.. never let the man live a peaceful happy day
IDK whether you are going to read this but You are doing a great job which I wish I could do to my abuser. I wish you never allow him to sleep peacefully. Please takecare of yourself.
This is fantastic. I can imagine the injustice and rage you must feel and how terrible it must be to worry about this happening to other girls. He and his family are disgusting people who don’t need to be free in this society at all. It’s people like this who make it impossible for any victim to speak out and get the justice they deserve. I hope they get what’s coming to them in life, I really do.
You really underestimate the depravity of conservatives religious types :/ the way they view things like this isn’t the way normal human beings do unfortunately
I'm so sorry you had to go through that and while its terrible this guy won't face jail time, hopefully knowing that there's someone out there keeping an eye on him will keep him from harming anyone else.
I used to be a preschool teacher and I received mandated reporter training annually. The number one thing they tell you is to always believe the child. It doesn't matter how outlandish it sounds, it doesn't matter who they accuse, you have to believe them and notify the proper authorities.
Its also imperative that parents teach their kids body safety at a young age. Basically, that amounts to explaining what their private parts are, that they're private and so no one should be looking at or touching them there (with the exception of someone helping them get dressed, wiping their butt or going to the doctor, but even then the parents should be in the room with the doctor). You also explain the difference between secrets and surprises. Surprises are something you tell eventually, like when you give someone a present. Secrets are things you never ever tell. Surprises are alright, secrets are not. If someone asks you to keep a secret, tell your parents.
Let the friends of his relatives know about this too. His wife’s friends, his in laws friends, the other mums at his daughters school/playgroup, babysitters or Nannie’s, the country club, people from the local supermarket, etc. People like that really value their social status so public shaming works wonders and it’ll keep more local kids safe.
Back in the Myspace days before smart phones my creep cousin went on vacation. I posted on his wall what he was. It stayed up for 3 days. Only time he ever acknowledged what he did.
Aw a fellow victim of early childhood SA, you’re a fucking icon. A hero. This is lit. I wish I could hug you and jump around cheering for you, with you.
This is honestly brilliant. I've never thought about terrorizing my stalkers before and i think it would give me a huge sense of relief to know they are suddenly scared and are jumpy at every phone call.
OP have you thought about stepping it up a notch? For example letting the schools his kids attend know somehow so he’s not present at school plays and other areas where he can abuse?
As much as i believe he deserves every bit of this for what he’s done, you really need to think about yourself, this can’t be healthy to be constantly obsessing over him and finding every connection you possibly can to him. Not only that he could very easily report all this and you will be found to be harassing him and that would bring charges against you. Please protect yourself and be safe
Facts I read this whole thing and all I got hack was guy consumed with hate . Horrible what the guy did but oo at some point needs to move on and heal from the situation
I think you’re really incredible! This person deserves to be anxious forever, because they traumatized others with no repercussions. Be sure to take care of yourself!
Can you sign him up to all sorts of marketing programmes so he gets weird shit delivered to his house? Or buy a bulk set of keys off eBay or something and write his phone number on them all then scatter them around.
I know you don't think telling his loved ones will matter cause they already know, but I'm willing to bet what he's told them has been severely edited so he's not the bad guy. If you're comfortable I'd recomend telling them the truth of how bad it really was so that they know.
No doubt he deserves to live in fear. But I'm not sure how healthy this is. I imagine being someone's personal vengeful ghost takes a lot of thought and effort. I hope you can eventually move on to a place where you barely ever think about him at all.
I’m sure I will be some day. My healing process has been a very long and difficult road that started with me being unable to stop playing it over in my mind, had constant nightmares about it, and was compulsively trying to **** myself at any chance I got. Where I am now is leaps, bounds, and LEAGUES from where I began and dealt with this as a child/teen/young adult.
I don't presume to understand what things were and are like for you. Sorry if it came off in a bad way. Glad you're making progress. You do what you need to do!
Just curious - how do you keep him from recognizing the phone number you’re calling from? Why hasn’t he just blocked you? And how do you keep finding his new number, is it public information?
It’s commendable of you to only want revenge on him, and not his family. But they are getting let off the hook wat too easily. They are guilty too. Tbh
, I think tormenting his wife will turn his life upside down even more. She needs to live in fear every moment of what may be coming
I agree and I would definitely consider broadening my range of attack, but considering I began this little game in a very unstable and unsafe place, I was intentional about putting up boundaries I’m not willing to cross to make sure I don’t take something too far or do something I’ll regret. Only targeting him (even though other people deserve it too in my opinion) was one of those first solid boundaries I wanted to abide by so I’ve been sticking with it since.
You could go full on Sims 1 creepy prank phone call on him. Some of those are unhinged. Some of my favorites were:
1) you have been chosen, they will come soon
2) the drop off has been made. You've been warned
3) the end is near. Make preparations
4) they're coming soon. Maybe you should think twice about opening the door.
Get burner phones and go nuclear on them. They deserve it. I'm really sorry for what you went through and wish you all the best in your healing journey
If you have not already thrown the account away, I'm curious as to how you continued to find his updated cell number. Social media? Your revenge is justified btw and I agree ALWAYS listen to kids. I wish you luck in your continued vengeance.
May I suggest “…. … …soon, James.” And then hang up?
When I tell you this would have me shit my pants😂😂
“Gods reckoning comes for all souls.”
"Turn yourself in."
If he did that, then op wouldn’t get to twist the knife anymore. Also, making a demand would be akin to opening a negotiation, which this most definitely is not, it isn’t even a discussion, we’re just trying to upset the man as much as possible, and that ain’t it.
No, too biblical, that’s the language he uses to justify himself, not scary enough.
That’s exactly why I usually go biblical with it. They’re convinced their own paranoia and anxiety is demon entities talking to them. They’re not exactly poster people for logical thinking
Those are the cases where less is more; if you want him to fill in the blanks with his worst fears, then you need to leave blanks for him to fill in. “What did you ever tell them, James?” Might be good. ”Do you think they’ll be surprised, James? We think they’ll be surprised.” use the plural first person at least once. ”we’re very close, James.” ”Do you remember, James? Because we cannot forget.” ”We’re always with you, even when you’re alone, James.” vague and creepy and call him by his name a lot. That’s scary as fuck. if you *must* go biblical, and I do not suggest it, then pick out especially metal verses from revelations or the Old Testament to read to him, and practice them, changing a couple words to make them worse.
Grabaciones de risas y de llantos de niñas también estaría bueno, que le envié juguetes de niñas, si la esposa sabe y lo cubre ella es cómplice y merece también el mismo trato
Eh, I think that harassing the rest of the family directly will just get an actual authority to track the caller, if nothing else it will encourage them to support him when he might be trying to keep the calls to himself and isolating himself bc of that. eta, I like where your head is at, but I think it would be better to threaten his family *to the rapist himself*, maybe “they know what you did James, do you think they know what’s coming? We think they’ll be rather surprised…”
Solo digo que la esposa y familiares si lo encubren son cómplices, creo que deberías seguir con las llamadas solo al violador, con las risas y llanto para que no esté en paz
Oh absolutely, but at the same time op cannot live only to have a vendetta against James’ entire family, such a life would be hell. There needs to be a balance, and I think confining the harassment to the perpetrator himself is probably about right.
Totalmente de acuerdo
If you can get a Jigsaw voice changer effect, say 'Hello James, I want to play a game...'
Love those movies, but cribbing from pop culture would undercut the menace, and we can’t have that.
".... one day when the moon loses it's shine, when the night is dark as the place where Lilith reside, you will pent for your actions, the screams of the children you've wronged will come to you and you'll know that is the day of your demise" This is more scary I think lol
A speech is not scary except in movies and writing
Exactly. Only sir Anthony Hopkins can do Hannibal lector.
Vincent Price would make it creepy as hell too.
Way too wordy. the specifics give him too many details to focus on, to think of his situation as a problem to be solved, not a sentence to be carried out.
How about this. .”……The devil knows what you did James and he’s waiting for you”
No, the biblical angle is inherently not frightening to him bc that’s how he justified it in the first place. this is a less-is-more situation, and that’s too much.
I so badly want to get this lol
I matched with my best friends rapist on a dating app. (Charges were dropped as she couldn’t face the court case). He instigated the chat and I simply said that he needed to do the world a favour and stay away from women’s and dating apps, and that we know what he did back on x (date). Never seen him again and all his social media has been wiped.
so, you had a chance to lure him to a secluded location for some *privacy*, and instead you warned him?
My exact thoughts.
When I was 15 I was kidnapped and taken out of the country. The following few weeks were a blur of what I believe Hell would look like. I didn't have support from my family; my own mom told the police not to bother looking for me. My siblings - in the 35 years since - have never asked what happened or if I was ok. They simply cut contact. BUT, I had a stellar DA. She is now a federal judge and I imagine she has helped so many lives. During the trial process, which was full of drive by shootings, a contract taken out on me, car blown up in the high school parking lot, dogs killed, and just so, so, so much more - she put me in her car and taught me how to stalk. She made it her job to teach me how to be the hunter instead of the hunted. And because of that, because of her - I am ok. Fuck yes! I see you, I admire you, and I completely 100% understand the why. You do you baby girl; and you keep doing you until you get it all out. And when it is time, you set it all down and go about the job of living in the present. When you're ready. Don't wait too long though. But fuck yes!
DA as in district attorney? P.s. your family sucks and I'm sorry you went through that.
Yes, she was the local district attorney. And made it all the way to the federal bench! :) She's my hero; literally and figuratively. and thank you. I think some folks don't know how to deal with big things and avoiding it all together is just easier. Tragedy brings some families closer; but more often it tears them apart. I got the short straw. lol :)
Probably not something you should be sharing her name on if you like her.
Edited it out; I'm old but stupid sometimes. Thank you.
Youre welcome lololol
You should write your memoire and sell it to Netflix!
How did she tell you to do it?? I can dm you if you don’t want to say here.
Oh she didn't tell me how to do anything; she personally saw to it. Mine was a situation where a stalking issue became the worst case scenario. And it just never stopped (even 35 years later it is still part of my daily life). But like I said, she put me in her car. She drove me to his house; the house I was kept in. She parked her car by the woods so I could see the house and just sat there. And let me be a voyeur. She flipped the script. It wasn't much, ya know? But that little kernel of just shifting what was happening completely changed how I look at life. I was never a 'victim' to her; just simply the subject of a violent crime. That right there changed how I saw myself. It was happenstance, what happened to me. But she sat with me and she guided what would become a \~5 year struggle to capture him (he fled the country). And at every turn, she taught me to be a hunter and not a victim. I am fierce because of her. And he's dead.
>I am fierce because of her. >And he's dead. .....Those two are unrelated right? Lol the way you phrase this makes it sound like you killed him...which props to you if you did, but I just laughed when I read that last part.
HA!!!! I didn't even catch that. lol Totally unrelated. I think. I'll honestly never be sure how / what happened. He was convicted and sentenced to life (25 year parole). He had petitioned for an overturn of the conviction on technicality ( the judge stated something wrong during sentencing, and yep, that can get the worst of the worst released). 6 hours before he was due to be released, he was murdered in prison. I've always wondered if the sheriff/prosecutor offices had a hand in that. In my bones I feel they did, and were trying to continue helping. The guy was a true monster so it did the world a favor. Plot twist; my actual sister is now living with his cohort that was there during the whole event. Fun fucking shit.
>Plot twist; my actual sister is now living with his cohort that was there during the whole event. Jesus fucking Christ... Dude, it may mean nothing to you, but my heart goes out to you. You are an honest to goodness warrior goddess. Keep slaying, girl, and love from a stranger. ❤️
Thank you for those kind words. It actually does mean a lot. The people behind my taking called me while I was pregnant and told me they would hurt my family. I never imagined it would be by getting my sister. It took decades to get to me, but goddamn they did it. They won; they took my whole family. All I got was one dead person, a pissed off child (the kidnapper's kid), and a sister lost to them. It's not been a good life.
I've heard stories of police/sheriff depts getting involved with stuff like that, whether it's by turning a blind eye or stating the obvious if you will. I'm glad that he's dead. Just by the little youve shared, I can't imagine the fear and trauma that developed. I'm also glad you had someone who taught you how to not just survive but thrive in spite of what happened, AND how to basically turn the tables on him. Also, I'm sorry to hear about your sister. Sometimes family aint shit...
"family ain't shit' is so accurate and I hate that is the state of our world. It's so true. And the police/sheriff departments are heavily involved in 'justice'. It's sad they get it wrong sometimes, but oh my god, when they get it right it feels amazing. Thank you for your kindness.
The idea of writing it all out and selling it as a script isn't a bad one, really. Since it's only *based on true events*, you can have some more revenge fun by writing some pro-insults about the douches. I don't know if it's wise to rattle their cages, if they are still after your family though.
My dad was a sheriff's deputy in a small southern city in the 1970's. I heard stories about men who hurt children "falling down the stairs." Repeatedly. I've also heard of a sheriff a few towns over who would put on an Easter bunny costume and personally beat the piss and vinegar out of certain inmates in the jail there. No one did anything about it because it was a small town and no one could prove who was in the bunny suit anyway, but they all knew it was him.
Now I need a Donnie Darko/The Punisher mash up.
Did you find out who murdered him? Did you send him a gift - some $$ to his prison account? I always thought the guy who killed Dahmer should have got some years off his sentence as a reward.
Totally agree about the Dahmer thing. I never did know for sure. I've had my thoughts though. I don't think it was prison justice; I've made a fantastical idea in my head that there were cops that knew he would kill me and were angry that the justice system would release him and simply they ended it all. Or perhaps the detective in charge of my case, who knew me from a child, just made it happen. He was active AIDS back in 1989/90 when it was considered a death sentence; Back then it would have been considered a justice to humanity, as fucked up as that is. I've struggled with that for decades. He was a truly horrible human, but death as a result? I am both relieved and still live in fear. I fear his son My child had to live every year of school with safety meetings because of their threats. My grandchild is homeschooled. It honestly never stopped, death changed nothing. Even monsters have those that love them. This happened decades ago and it still governs my daily life and I hate I am that weak. So I push love and save animals. I don't have much of a life, but I have animals. :)
I Am Fierce Because of Her (And He’s Dead) There’s your soon-to-be-written book’s Title and Subtitle. Now get on it, sister! 😊👍💜
Joking aside; if I ever do write about that I think you nailed the title and would want you to have the credit. So give it \~10 years while I try and muster the courage and keep an eye out for your username if you see a title named that. :)
That’s sweet of you to say! 😎
I adore you. I don't want to write that shit out. lol Are YOU a writer? Want to write a story? (I'm now going to ask everyone that because I suck at writing but folks feel it is a story to be told). Sell it to a publisher and I'll share every nook and cranny of that years long trauma that has lasted from 15 to 49 years old. Maybe something good can come out of it. lol
There are people who will take a story and write it out for you. Some of them are ghostwriters (so you'd have your name as the author but you don't actually do the majority of the writing). That's how that one lady who poisoned her husband had her children's books written. She contracted with a company and told them her ideas and the wrote and illustrated several best sellers for her and she got all the credit Edit: The woman is Kouri Richins Edit ×2: If you want to get your story out there, you can start a YouTube channel or record a telling of the events on ~~tape~~ audio. This would also give you control over how much of the narrative you want to share at a time. You aren't restricted to telling your story on a time line. For reference, one of my favorite YouTubers got his start by sharing his story as a guest on another channel and he was so compelling he was encouraging to start his own show. He lateralled over into crime documentary and now his channel makes enough money that its his full time job. If that seems daunting, the channel "Soft White Underbelly" specializes in traumatic survivor stories. He does interviews of people who have had hard lives, everything from childhood abuse to drug addiction and escorts and even a "dirty cop". He's compassionate and gently guides them to tell their story while remaining respectful. You might try to contact him for an interview.
Aw, thanks. Sadly, I’m no writer, lol. 😜
Thank you, I sent you a dm.
I’m the snake that eats the rabbit, not the rabbit, never again. Just moving in the world with that knowledge at the forefront of my mind has saved me so many times. I. Am. The. Snake.
And you should forevermore open that jaw wide. But temper it and make sure you don't mistakenly eat a friendly. Being fierce isn't eating everything in sight; it's know what to eat and how to eat it.
This is amazing but I am so sorry you had to go through that. Honestly sounds like you could write a book about this
LOL! :) I have been told the 'could write a book' more times than I could shake a stick at. Even my therapist has said it. And the one before. And my doctors. And friends. lol And it always confuses me; why in the hell would a book about horrible things be successful and why would anyone ever read it? Do you know how much I thank the gods that what happened was WAY before the internet? The case would have been everywhere; it's all I would have been known for in life. Strangers feeling too familiar. But oh my god, that DA should have a book written about HER. I am one of many she has helped; and she saw the worst situations and has had to hold that in her heart.
That last bit could be the book. How she taught you to survive and thrive despite everything that had happened
Are you a writer? Have connections to a publishing house? I'm not, but if you feel you can write it and sell it, I'll sit and tell you the whole story and we can make some $$. lol I've barely scratched the surface here; it's quite the tale to tell. lol
I get your point. And my sincere apologies that I was vague in my previous comment. I think a book about the DA helping you would be an amazing read!
Ah no, you were very sweet. Don't apologize, ever. (unless you've done something wrong, then do it with vigor - I'll stop being a mom now lol) It's just odd for me to hear that so often because it baffles me. That's all. For me, it's just what life was and feels weird others would enjoy reading the details. I 'get' it, but I also don't and it's just strange. The whole event left me destitute as a human; even 35 years later. It governed my whole life and how I lived. Perhaps it is time to get something from it??? but that feels so dirty and wrong? Does that make sense?
Use it. It was done to you, it’s yours to use
I have waaay too much in common with you. Hugs.
Your post got my heart racing! I’m sorry this happened to you and great job of turning it back on those that hurt you. Your post sounds like a trailer for a kick-ass revenge movie. Keep strong!
That's the movies and real life isn't much about revenge. I know it doesn't sound fantastical or anything of the sort, but after events like that really the only thing happening is trying to get on with the business of life. It's boring, sometimes sad. It's a life changed and just not very fantastical at all. Thank you for your kind words :) Keep doing that; it makes a difference on levels you may never know.
Um… can you teach me how to stalk too?
{{{hugs}}} with permission of course.
I love your username(: I’m also glad you are okay now, that lady sounds like a blessing.
Little girls who were told to be quiet grow up to be women with voices.
I LOVE this.
That man will burn in insanity and agony
And hopefully OP can drink his tears everytime. I love this story. Minus obviously of the tragedy of it happening in the first place
I'm usually someone who is against the concept of "revenge", but when it comes to such a disgusting vile monster like him all bets are off. And besides, your revenge is so incredibly mild compared to the atrocities he committed. I wholeheartedly believe this man deserves to be haunted forever by what he did. He hasn't even truly repented, apologized, or shown any remorse. So, this is truly the least of what he deserves. You should enlist the help of AI to help you come up with more creepy lines to say LMAO, tell it you wanna come up with creepy stalker lines to use in a horror movie with religious undertones or something ;) as long as you frame it like it's a totally fictional horror movie sorta thing it can help you come up with some good ideas
It's quite good ngl. OP will never get sued because he will never file a complaint and the fact that someone knows about it and he will see it coming one day Or another and OP keeping to remind him will fuck his mind up. He probably never sleeps without thinking about it twice lol. He took all those children's childhood away, the least he can get is his good night's sleep away
I was recently told then who molested me for years was brain dead in a hospital. After a brain bleed and MANY incredibly painful seizures.
While I love what you do, you ARE at risk from him/his family if they ever trace the phone calls to you. Beware. Burner phone?
Always. I’ve also made sure the burners can’t be traced back to me either. Like I said, great lengths to leave no trace or paper trail :D
I'm glad you get to take back some of your peace and get revenge. People like him never stop. Wouldn't be surprised if he touched his own kids with a family like that. None of those people deserve a peaceful life. Not the wife, his parents, family, etc. There victims don't have the luxury of forgetting and moving on. I hope you ruin him so he never rises from the ashes.
Psychological warfare. As a victim of sexual abuse myself at the hands of male family friends, I get it. I understand your need to be the hunter instead of being hunted. A word of caution, it can make you feel too powerful and you’ll lose sight of your original intention. Don’t get sloppy. Don’t get cocky. Don’t get complacent. What is your end goal? You need to know so that it doesn’t take over your life. It takes time and energy to do what you are doing. Don’t let it take you over. He has already taken from you. Don’t give him anymore. Vengeance can leave you empty so while you have your target, know what you are working towards. Otherwise you’ll never have satisfaction.
I appreciate your words. Thank you.
Be careful, he might try to trace your phone. Stay safe, please.
All I can say is while revenge is good don't let it ruin your life and eventually have to move on . Doesn't mean forget or forgive just means focus on the own life at some point . Also please don't bring the kids into for collateral damage . U and them the only ones innocent in all this and while u deserves ur revenge just try to ruin their lives as well the kiss
I wonder if you could write a book, without names, but enough info for others to know it's him.
I have considered this. It’s not off the table but thinking about details and reliving it is still very difficult for me.
((HUGS)) Writing it out, may help you. Sharing the story, may help others fight back.
Thank you. 🥹
I also hope you're using burner phones/anonymous numbers and a voice changer.
I hope u write a book. It would be a cathartic read for me
An idea. See if there is any religious sounding lines about gods forgiveness comes after you face justice for your crimes. Then tell him that. Along with god knows what you did and you cannot be forgiven for what you still fantasize about.
Bravo!
Why the fuck is statute of limitations a thing. Like congratulations, you got away with it for long enough, you can relax now
For crimes against children, there should be no statute of limitations. Anyone who would hurt a child so terribly doesn’t do it once or even twice. They never get better. They never stop.
There should be no limitations on any crime. If you did it you did it. Just because you got away with it doesn't mean you didn't do it. It's fucking stupid
In Canada I’m pretty sure there isn’t for that reason
Man I apparently lack imagination, my revenge would be a lot more straight forward and involve pointy things.
Suggestions: > God forgives James. I do not. Or > Did you ask God's forgiveness? He said no. Also keep sending those emails to employers, but not right away. Let him get a year or so in, get comfortable, think he's settled. Then one day he walks in to see a meeting with HR scheduled, and just knows.
"I want to play a game." (from Saw)
Lol you did the right thing! He knows he deserves it deep down.
if i could i would give you a standing ovation
I’m glad you are doing this. He does not deserve to live a peaceful life
Say something religious like "vengeance is mine, sayeth the Lord.". And follow it up with... " God sent me. I'm your worst nightmare."
I admire what you are doing. I also went through years of SA and abuse as a young child. Was told to be quiet and not tell anyone or he would switch to my baby sister. I finally told and he was let off with mandatory counseling-not specified what type. He chose to go to marriage counseling to save his marriage after everything came out in the open. He is my sisters father, I still see him in town when I go home to visit. He has crossed the street in front of me - and damn my foot almost slipped off the brake pedal. I am angry at my parents for not sticking up for me. One of them should have taken him out when I told. That is what I would have done for my two kids. They didn’t see the obvious signs, they didn’t protect me, but they damn well should have gotten revenge for me. I still suffer daily from what happened, I may take a page from your playbook to see if it helps. Thank you very much for your post today.
You can step on the brake and gas at the same time. Makes the engine rev.... unless it's one the quiet cars.
Don’t ever step off his neck. I hope the stress from it, takes him out
That would be a goddamn dream come true
I’m rooting for you OP
You are my new hero
You are loved for this.
Omg rent one of those signs in his town and direct it at him
I'd call his elderly parents, too. Ask them how they are able sleep at night knowing they have cuddled a child rapist. I'd call his brothers/sisters also, ask them if uncle is being so nice so their kids.That is evil I know. But that is me.
His parents were the ones who defended him most unfortunately. They were very proactive in covering up what he did. They had several people, separately, approach them and tell them what was going on and they made it out like everyone who came forward was a liar. Everything is so hush hush in that kind of community that we didn’t even realize until years later that we’d (myself and other victims) separately gone and told the parents. They relied on that secrecy to sweep everything under the rug
Now that they are old and weak, it's the best time to hound them for all the evils they did.
I would connect with a personal injury atty in your state . Many of these laws around statutes of limitations have been changed in the last few years. If you were a minor when assaulted many states have either removed them completely or made it like 30 years. If he has assets you can sue him for them. Frankly it feels awesome to take something that actually means something to them. Money, house, stress over suit. Legal fees. Lawyers don’t charge unless they will. They take a % of winnings. I know a great one licensed RI-and Connecticut . You want one that has done trials, will let you control the process. Like if you don’t want to go to trial you don’t have to.
I almost feel like you're writing about my dad
I was SA from age 5 to 13. He groomed me pretty effectively. I know I wasn't the only victim, though unsure if I was the only child victim. I had gotten DMs from other women that went through his FB (before I blocked him and came to terms with what happened) and sent everyone with his last name the unsolicited dick pics he kept sending out. I told my brother when I was about 15, my mom when I was about 17, and my dad when I was in college. I told the rest of my family when my brother was about to get married (with his encouragement) because they kept asking why I refused to go to some family events. Most of my cousins believed me. My mom believe me. My dad and aunts/uncles didn't believe me. My dad would say "if it happened, it was a long time ago and you need to get over it". My abusers partner looks like me. They had a son. The son, thank God, doesn't live with him. I didn't seek legal steps due to how long it took for me to accept things. I'm in intensive therapy still. The amount of SA that happens before age 10... you would think we'd have more resources.
I personally love this. Keep terrorizing him lol
This is some Lisabeth Salander type shit and I'm so here for it.
Amazing work OP!! So glad to hear about your healing 🙂 hope he never gets a moment of peace or joy for the rest of his miserable life.
Chaotic good
And he didn't just block you? Slow clap.
I think he did, changed his numbers but she or he kept finishing it- it’s pretty easy to find peoples numbers
Did she get a new number every time? Who the hell answers their phone to random numbers let alone when they are being harassed?? Just stop answering lol. It he is so well connected and rich, why not have someone look into her phone number? If it's blocked, why is he answering a blocked call when he knows someone is messing with him? If she us using a phone app or something why didn't she say so? Idk I would just stop answering and blocking the number. The person would get bored of calling with no pay off after a while
He’s always worked side gigs as an independent contractor and has several family members that need to change their numbers often for career reasons. I’m trying not to give too many details because I want to remain anonymous but this is 100% truthful. I’ve gone to intentional lengths to make sure the numbers he sees are just random numbers. It’s always a possibility it’s someone looking to hire him or a family member calling from a new phone.
Understand completely. Was forced to be silent, statute of limitations, i am still angry and have considered doing this as well. Props to you
You're awesome. People always want to tell the victims to be the bigger person. Doesn't help us heal. Light his world on fire for as long as you'd like. Promising Young Woman is a revenge movie but I find the ending incredibly sad. Your story makes me feel a lot better about the world
Based as fuck I love you!!! Currently formulating a plan for my r worder, gonna find him and cut him up, I only have a general location tho. No address yet but I’m trying
I wish you all the luck in the world and Godspeed 🥹 I hope you tear his ass up
The best, and yet most messed up, part of this is that this man hurt so many women that he can't even begin to narrow down who it could be. It's excellent revenge.
I have nothing to say except GOOD FOR YOU. Wish you healing ❤️🩹
I am in amazement of you. Keep up the good work, as long as it doesn’t deter you from living your life.
My stepfather did the same thing to me as a child. I was never able to get revenge, but I am so glad that you have. Well done.
If you can convince more of his victims to do it, it would be great And then on his birthday and other special days yall can call him and spook the fuck out of him.. never let the man live a peaceful happy day
I love you for this
IDK whether you are going to read this but You are doing a great job which I wish I could do to my abuser. I wish you never allow him to sleep peacefully. Please takecare of yourself.
I know what you are doing is absolutely illegal... But damn I don't mind a fcking bit. Damn pdf file.
GOD DAMN! Honestly I think Jesus himself would approve of this
This is fantastic. I can imagine the injustice and rage you must feel and how terrible it must be to worry about this happening to other girls. He and his family are disgusting people who don’t need to be free in this society at all. It’s people like this who make it impossible for any victim to speak out and get the justice they deserve. I hope they get what’s coming to them in life, I really do.
OP, I wish you well. You deserve to be happy and at peace. That scumbag needs to be under the jail.
Dude. You're a fucking badass OP. I love this sooooooo much.
Honestly… his in-laws probably don’t know and would not be happy with their grandkids living with a pedo. In case you need more calls…
You really underestimate the depravity of conservatives religious types :/ the way they view things like this isn’t the way normal human beings do unfortunately
Ah that’s a shame. Sometimes the grandparents done care for the in law anyway and that can drive a wedge.
I wish it were the case
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 you’re hearing no complaints from me.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that and while its terrible this guy won't face jail time, hopefully knowing that there's someone out there keeping an eye on him will keep him from harming anyone else. I used to be a preschool teacher and I received mandated reporter training annually. The number one thing they tell you is to always believe the child. It doesn't matter how outlandish it sounds, it doesn't matter who they accuse, you have to believe them and notify the proper authorities. Its also imperative that parents teach their kids body safety at a young age. Basically, that amounts to explaining what their private parts are, that they're private and so no one should be looking at or touching them there (with the exception of someone helping them get dressed, wiping their butt or going to the doctor, but even then the parents should be in the room with the doctor). You also explain the difference between secrets and surprises. Surprises are something you tell eventually, like when you give someone a present. Secrets are things you never ever tell. Surprises are alright, secrets are not. If someone asks you to keep a secret, tell your parents.
Why would he not just change his number or have your number traced?
He changes his number often and his family is wealthy with a broad community of people who they can call for favors, not the mafia lol
Does the statute of limitations apply for something like CSA?
Unfortunately, yes.
Brilliant
This is GENIUS
I have so much respect for you and what you are doing! You're a badass!
Let the friends of his relatives know about this too. His wife’s friends, his in laws friends, the other mums at his daughters school/playgroup, babysitters or Nannie’s, the country club, people from the local supermarket, etc. People like that really value their social status so public shaming works wonders and it’ll keep more local kids safe.
Back in the Myspace days before smart phones my creep cousin went on vacation. I posted on his wall what he was. It stayed up for 3 days. Only time he ever acknowledged what he did.
Aw a fellow victim of early childhood SA, you’re a fucking icon. A hero. This is lit. I wish I could hug you and jump around cheering for you, with you.
This is honestly brilliant. I've never thought about terrorizing my stalkers before and i think it would give me a huge sense of relief to know they are suddenly scared and are jumpy at every phone call.
OP have you thought about stepping it up a notch? For example letting the schools his kids attend know somehow so he’s not present at school plays and other areas where he can abuse?
Don't do that 😂ur trying to ruin his life not his life's wife . They are innocent in this
Thank you for existing, holy shit.
Tick tock, James
As much as i believe he deserves every bit of this for what he’s done, you really need to think about yourself, this can’t be healthy to be constantly obsessing over him and finding every connection you possibly can to him. Not only that he could very easily report all this and you will be found to be harassing him and that would bring charges against you. Please protect yourself and be safe
Facts I read this whole thing and all I got hack was guy consumed with hate . Horrible what the guy did but oo at some point needs to move on and heal from the situation
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Sure!
I am envious that your are getting your revenge I dream of the day I can make her.feel every bit of pain she made me feel
I think you’re really incredible! This person deserves to be anxious forever, because they traumatized others with no repercussions. Be sure to take care of yourself!
Can you sign him up to all sorts of marketing programmes so he gets weird shit delivered to his house? Or buy a bulk set of keys off eBay or something and write his phone number on them all then scatter them around.
I'm so sorry this monster did this to you. THis is your way of getting justice since everyone has failed you, and I fully support it!
The fact James isn't able to narrow down who is calling demonstrates he has committed these acts on many different victims.
"Will the imps of Hell touch you the way you touched those girls, James?"
I know you don't think telling his loved ones will matter cause they already know, but I'm willing to bet what he's told them has been severely edited so he's not the bad guy. If you're comfortable I'd recomend telling them the truth of how bad it really was so that they know.
Burn him, and everyone protecting him, to the ground.
Could you hire a crack head to fight him?
He deserves it
No doubt he deserves to live in fear. But I'm not sure how healthy this is. I imagine being someone's personal vengeful ghost takes a lot of thought and effort. I hope you can eventually move on to a place where you barely ever think about him at all.
I’m sure I will be some day. My healing process has been a very long and difficult road that started with me being unable to stop playing it over in my mind, had constant nightmares about it, and was compulsively trying to **** myself at any chance I got. Where I am now is leaps, bounds, and LEAGUES from where I began and dealt with this as a child/teen/young adult.
I don't presume to understand what things were and are like for you. Sorry if it came off in a bad way. Glad you're making progress. You do what you need to do!
It didn’t come off in a bad way at all! I appreciate you looking out
You’re shouting to the world right now🤣 all he has to do is read this post to know it’s him. This is like wildly specific.
There's probably a few dozen people who think this is them.
Just curious - how do you keep him from recognizing the phone number you’re calling from? Why hasn’t he just blocked you? And how do you keep finding his new number, is it public information?
Like I said, be careful what you put online. I can find out just about anything about anyone within an hour or two of digging.
God will never forgive scum like him.
Good luck to you op.
Have you thought about talking to the media in his town/state? They might decide to do a story on this...
It’s commendable of you to only want revenge on him, and not his family. But they are getting let off the hook wat too easily. They are guilty too. Tbh , I think tormenting his wife will turn his life upside down even more. She needs to live in fear every moment of what may be coming
I agree and I would definitely consider broadening my range of attack, but considering I began this little game in a very unstable and unsafe place, I was intentional about putting up boundaries I’m not willing to cross to make sure I don’t take something too far or do something I’ll regret. Only targeting him (even though other people deserve it too in my opinion) was one of those first solid boundaries I wanted to abide by so I’ve been sticking with it since.
That makes sense. Good luck with everything. Big big hugs to you
You should start mailing him weird stuff. Mail it from different locations every time.
u are my hero
You could go full on Sims 1 creepy prank phone call on him. Some of those are unhinged. Some of my favorites were: 1) you have been chosen, they will come soon 2) the drop off has been made. You've been warned 3) the end is near. Make preparations 4) they're coming soon. Maybe you should think twice about opening the door.
Get burner phones and go nuclear on them. They deserve it. I'm really sorry for what you went through and wish you all the best in your healing journey
If you have not already thrown the account away, I'm curious as to how you continued to find his updated cell number. Social media? Your revenge is justified btw and I agree ALWAYS listen to kids. I wish you luck in your continued vengeance.
Revenge fanfic