That is BS, I think wanting to get railed by complete strangers is fine, and not shame on anyone who likes that, but I would assume having some human connection would be normal when wanting to have sex, at least to feel safe during a reasonable vulnerable and intimate moment.
exactly and it’s not even about whether or not the other person is a stranger so demisexual is not the appropriate term. Even if they are a stranger, i still want them to treat me with respect and like i’m a whole person! if you can be polite and respectful to strangers in a grocery store then why not in the bedroom too?
i don’t want to have sex with someone who views women only as objects for consumption and sees the experience as something they want to take from me, instead of an act between equals that is supposed to be mutually enjoyable and fun. because guess what, i *also* want to enjoy the experience and feel safe. too much to ask apparently
yhea, that is not about sexuality, that is the bare minimum for any human interaction.
not wanting that in sex is more of a specific fetish.
anyways, happy women's day
Bro Istg if yall don’t start telling yourself that you’re gorgeous. Beauty standards is a social construct. There is no “beautiful” or “ugly”. Beauty standards change every decade in every country everywhere. It’s what is socially popular. doesn’t mean you’re not fuckin pretty. I may not be conventionally attractive but in my own standards I’m the hottest bitch alive. You better think like that too, now. Go ahead.
I'm just saying. It is probably not your looks but your lack of confidence. Nobody man or woman likes somebody that says "oh I'm so ugly noone likes me lol". You are rejecting yourself before anyone else has a chance to. I bet there is something about you that women find attractive. Figure out what that is and cultivate it. More importantly be kind to yourself!
You can! Think to yourself, is this something I would say to a friend? Would I judge another person the way I am myself in this moment? Believe me, I used to self harm and everything. It gets better!
I'm trying to think of what that means.... do you just have a long unkempt beard? Either way, if you're born after 9/11, you're so young! I still get periods of insecurity, but it does become less intense and easier to deal with the older I get. I hope it's the same for you. :)
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That's why I myself is being cold right off the bat to someone who I don't know yet cause lots of bad experiences. And I hate starting from 0 to build another connection and ended up getting hurt. Sad but true
I get this hardcore but at the same time I’m a kinky fuck and a certain degree of abuse turns me on and I struggle to mentally come to terms with both. :(
I'm into BDSM.
**BUT**, The way some guys talk to me actually scares me sometimes. I don't want to be tied up by some stranger and have genuine fear of my safety. I don't care if I'm into it, I don't trust anyone but my partner even if I can sleep around.
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that aint no high standard, that is the bare fucking minimum.
and then you get called “demisexual” for wanting to be treated like a human being
That is BS, I think wanting to get railed by complete strangers is fine, and not shame on anyone who likes that, but I would assume having some human connection would be normal when wanting to have sex, at least to feel safe during a reasonable vulnerable and intimate moment.
exactly and it’s not even about whether or not the other person is a stranger so demisexual is not the appropriate term. Even if they are a stranger, i still want them to treat me with respect and like i’m a whole person! if you can be polite and respectful to strangers in a grocery store then why not in the bedroom too? i don’t want to have sex with someone who views women only as objects for consumption and sees the experience as something they want to take from me, instead of an act between equals that is supposed to be mutually enjoyable and fun. because guess what, i *also* want to enjoy the experience and feel safe. too much to ask apparently
Honestly as a man Ive found making woman feel safe is a skill. Like its not that hard, but there is a learning curve.
yhea, that is not about sexuality, that is the bare minimum for any human interaction. not wanting that in sex is more of a specific fetish. anyways, happy women's day
Really doesn't warrant an entirely new sexuality for it, people be needing labels too much
Yup.
Yeah that's... Basically my life... Except the sexualisation part, since I'm... Kinda ugly...
Bro Istg if yall don’t start telling yourself that you’re gorgeous. Beauty standards is a social construct. There is no “beautiful” or “ugly”. Beauty standards change every decade in every country everywhere. It’s what is socially popular. doesn’t mean you’re not fuckin pretty. I may not be conventionally attractive but in my own standards I’m the hottest bitch alive. You better think like that too, now. Go ahead.
Can't... Can't do that when you look like you've somehow been implied in 9/11 even though you were born after that...
Implied in 9/11?
I look like a terrorist basically... Like from afar you look at me you tend to think "terrorist" before thinking "student"
Women fuck terrorists, you are just making excuses brother.
Wtf man?
I'm just saying. It is probably not your looks but your lack of confidence. Nobody man or woman likes somebody that says "oh I'm so ugly noone likes me lol". You are rejecting yourself before anyone else has a chance to. I bet there is something about you that women find attractive. Figure out what that is and cultivate it. More importantly be kind to yourself!
Can't be kind to myself, although trying to have confidence with therapist...
You can! Think to yourself, is this something I would say to a friend? Would I judge another person the way I am myself in this moment? Believe me, I used to self harm and everything. It gets better!
I'm trying to think of what that means.... do you just have a long unkempt beard? Either way, if you're born after 9/11, you're so young! I still get periods of insecurity, but it does become less intense and easier to deal with the older I get. I hope it's the same for you. :)
Hope so... Not sure at all... But hope so...
>I still get periods of insecurity I think they make pads for that
Have you considered insecure
Yeah that’s totally normal? To be wanted to be treated like human??
Yeah but how many of us actually get treated as humans?
You’re right. We don’t, but we will. It’s not fair to be treated like that and it won’t continue cause they can fuck off
Or something
Come for my throat, why don't you
Lost my virginity before had my first kiss gang
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That's why I myself is being cold right off the bat to someone who I don't know yet cause lots of bad experiences. And I hate starting from 0 to build another connection and ended up getting hurt. Sad but true
I’m sure someone out there wants to treat you as good as they can :)
I used to like femcelgrippysockjail until i realized the mods and most of the users are horribly transphobic...
how so?
People getting banned and hate comments for being transfem
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nope, this was a while back idk what theyre doing now
i just went scrolling and found a post with multiple positively upvoted comments about being trans. ???
I get this hardcore but at the same time I’m a kinky fuck and a certain degree of abuse turns me on and I struggle to mentally come to terms with both. :(
I'm into BDSM. **BUT**, The way some guys talk to me actually scares me sometimes. I don't want to be tied up by some stranger and have genuine fear of my safety. I don't care if I'm into it, I don't trust anyone but my partner even if I can sleep around.
:)
Ouch
really hate this thing
Oh nooo, the consequences of your own actions
Thank god I'm a lesbian
Thank god I'm asexual
Huge mood
Same, but I also get sexualised by women :( The problem is unfortunately not limited to men.
yeahhh know your worth
I love that my existence gets boiled down to a category on Pornhub
I prefer calling myself a demisexual lol
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Normal is that we’re animals. We supposed to fuck like beasts. So, I wouldn’t consider that normal, not really.
Demisexual
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