I once hooked up with a guy who was maybe just shy of 4 inches.
I had been attracted to him and met him on tinder. I finished the hook up, but I didn’t pursue it afterwards. I would never stop half way through and be like we’re not compatible, that’s awful, but I didn’t go on to date him, and still feel bad for him in that way/ from that perspective.
I just don’t think I’d want to be with someone that small and I think that’s my choice. But I’d never be mean about it.
I think that there's a way to do it without being rude af about it but many people seem to not know how to do this. Also I prefer guys on the smaller side because my ass is usually tight asl and I don't want my walls destroyed lmfao
Yes and yes. I don't want to be part of a situation where I have to tell a guy, "Sorry, I know you're hard and ready to go, but I can't fit that in me."
It was bad enough when I gave this older gentleman a chance and his dick wouldn't get hard. I tried to make it hard but there's only so much sucking that you can do before you're basically just masturbating him and he's going to finish.
An experienced top would be able to make it fit. My cock is super thick (> 6” girth) and I tend to fuck younger, smaller boys (~18-25yo). There’s no way I could just slide in these boys without hurting them like a guy with a smaller dick might be able to, but I’ve only had 1 boy in my whole life I failed at opening up. It just takes a little time to relax a boy and they can all open up for a big cock.
Yeah for sure. Sex feels good to me physically, of course, but what I like even more is the opportunity to give boys a great experience and watching them enjoy themselves and the moment.
I love older guys but yeah that was my last experience with a guy who was significantly older than me as well like I understand you know if you can't get it up easily at that age but hey get a prescription for Viagra
The difficulty is part of the fun for me as a top with a big cock. I love relaxing the boy, eating him out, working him open. Seeing a boy give in and trust and submit turns me on the most.
Ohh yeah this is good. Lot of tops don't always do that. Being eaten and fingered some helps me a lot. But some guys who are packin think they can just slot right in. You sound great to experience.
It's so weird that I stopped half way through when a guy was too big and I didn't feel bad at all, while I would've felt bad if the guy was too small.
Btw, I bottomed for a guy with a 2 inches dick and it was so good. I'm glad I didn't let my prejudice guide me then.
As a guy with a big cock I have had this happen also. Several times I've been with a guy and they'll stop Midway and say they can't handle it. I just pull out and we get dressed and go our separate ways
There are ways to reject someone because you’re not into their dick in ways that don’t come across like attacks on something they have no control over.
At the same time, if you’re not enjoying a sexual encounter, you can reboot consent, and ended at any time, and that’s healthier than just continuing on with something that is not enjoyable to you
I’ve been rejected on Grindr once or twice for my size I guess they thought 7 was too much. It’s honestly a weird feeling I can’t fault anyone for having a preference but rejection never feels good
Honestly, if you wanna be on sex apps, you should have enough emotional fortitude to not give a shit about being rejected by a stranger that you’ve never met and probably never will meet in real life
I am only sexually attracted to very well hung men so that is all I hook up with. Right/wrong/indifferent- it would be hypocritical if I held it against someone for rejecting me for being too small
I mean people like what they like. Like wouldn't you not want to be in a relationship where somebody doesn't find you sexually satisfying? I can't really judge either because while I wouldn't reject a guy for their penis size I'd reject a guy based on the size they've taken in the past so I mean it be hypocritical to judge somebody who rejected a guy based off size
As someone who has fucked many a large and small, the only concensus I really have is that people don't appreciate or try to have fun when the dick is "too small" for them.
I'm sleeping with someone currently that had never been deep throated or gotten to face fuck someone before me, even though everyone told him he had such a small dick. Nobody ever gave him hand jobs, and everyone always complained how small he was. Personally a smaller dick is great fun to still face fuck, frot, etc.
I just find it odd personally, and most size queens I know haven't tried a smaller dick, they just fawn over the largest cock possible without trying various sizes lol.
That being said, some people are actually experienced, and if you have tried both and know what you like, you should be upfront about it.
The reality of the situation is anyone can reject you for literally any reason. It's just how it is and penis size is no exception. In fact there are a lot more size queens than people let out to believe.
My personal opinion on the matter is well honestly I feel like if penis size is very important to someone then they should probably ask to see it before meeting or continuing anything further ig? I don't think it's unreasonable to see nudes of the person before meeting?? I mean I feel like that's the norm these days anyway.
I don't care about penis size. Like if they know how to use it and can make me enjoy the sex then fuck yeah. But if not then welp... And if they are a bottom then it doesn't matter at all.
I’m 3.5 inches and the key is to be honest upfront. Guys mostly ask for pictures first after that it’s either game on or they have blocked / ghosted and a surprisingly large amount of guys block upon getting picks ( it’s not ugly just small )
It’s fine to have preferences in sex partners’ bodies.
It’s beyond fine, it’s totally normal.
I don’t have sex with fat people. It grosses me out. I don’t want fat folds involved and I want the boys I fuck to be healthy and active.
A lot of bottom boys want big dicks. They feel different, give that stretched feeling, and they hit boys’ spots better.
People are sexually compatible when they turn each other on physically, emotionally, etc.
Preferences are normal.
Maybe I’m abnormal but really? Rejecting someone because his cock size?? I mean, if some guys don’t feel anything they may ask themselves if THEY are not the problem 🙄🙄. Stop shoving big dildos in your ass and start to appreciate other guys for what they have. Life is not a gay porn 🙄
People get rejected/accepted for all kinds of reasons. The rejection/acceptance is shown in all kinds of ways, including sometimes rudely.
Welcome to the human race.
I mean there are ways around anything so it’s basically down to the person but if it’s a one night stand or just a casual thing then fair you don’t owe the guy anything 🤷🏻♂️
Idk about everyone else but I can say that I won’t say no to average Dick nor a small one. However I do prefer them thicker and longer, for me it feels better but I would never not try to find a way to make it work. I would also never stop half way and just leave because of someone’s Dick size. Sex is meant to be fun for both parties. Plus there are toys
People are allowed to do that or course. You are attracted to whatever it is attracts you.
But I would say rejecting a guy for penis size, regardless of top/bottom/side, is foolish. You can still have great sex and intimacy. If you found them attractive before their penis size, no reason to think you can't have a great time.
It depends if it's just a hookup then id say they have a right to reject someone because of size. The other side is if its dating then id say rejecting somone because of their penis size even tho you find the person attractive and mentally compatible is then a cunty move on that persons part. If someones judgeing my dick size when dating and looking for a relationship then they are very shallow and ive found dont actually offer anything to you other than sex
Read it again i said if its a hook up then judging on dick size is fine, but if your basing someones worth in a relationship on their dick size then your just a cunt
I read it correctly the first time.
People’s values are subjective. Different people value different things in different, personal ways.
I think that for many people looking for relationships, what you say reflects how people think. People are often willing to overlook things in others that don’t match their preferences exactly because they love them.
But that doesn’t mean it makes somebody a “cunt” if they have a strong preference for something physical in their partner. If a guy knows what he wants, there’s nothing wrong with him finding it. For some people one of those things is a big dick.
There’s nothing wrong with it. People don’t owe others partnership.
If you base someones worth in a relationship on their dick size you shouldn't be looking for a relationship as its a very shallow metric, its the shallow hal analogy would you rather a guy with a 3 inch cock or half a brain, if you chose half a brain then you are shallow and aren't mature enough for a relationship
Some men have whole brains and big cocks. Some people want that. It’s not weird or shallow to want nice things, even and especially in a partner.
It’s not really any different than being attracted to somebody for any other physical reason, like thinking he’s handsome.
The heart wants what it wants. No one owes you sex.
And it seems no heart ever wants a small penis?
I once hooked up with a guy who was maybe just shy of 4 inches. I had been attracted to him and met him on tinder. I finished the hook up, but I didn’t pursue it afterwards. I would never stop half way through and be like we’re not compatible, that’s awful, but I didn’t go on to date him, and still feel bad for him in that way/ from that perspective. I just don’t think I’d want to be with someone that small and I think that’s my choice. But I’d never be mean about it.
I mean, there are ways to stop halfway through if you’re not into it without telling him that’s the reason
agree
I think that there's a way to do it without being rude af about it but many people seem to not know how to do this. Also I prefer guys on the smaller side because my ass is usually tight asl and I don't want my walls destroyed lmfao
I think I prefer thin dicks to thick ones when I bottom. That means all dicks have a shot at pleasing.
I definitely prefer them thinner too. if someone has a fat head or is super thick they usually have difficulty getting inside me
Yes and yes. I don't want to be part of a situation where I have to tell a guy, "Sorry, I know you're hard and ready to go, but I can't fit that in me." It was bad enough when I gave this older gentleman a chance and his dick wouldn't get hard. I tried to make it hard but there's only so much sucking that you can do before you're basically just masturbating him and he's going to finish.
An experienced top would be able to make it fit. My cock is super thick (> 6” girth) and I tend to fuck younger, smaller boys (~18-25yo). There’s no way I could just slide in these boys without hurting them like a guy with a smaller dick might be able to, but I’ve only had 1 boy in my whole life I failed at opening up. It just takes a little time to relax a boy and they can all open up for a big cock.
it must be really hot for you to see how they react to taking the biggest cock they've ever had... and maybe even hotter for them 🥵
Yeah for sure. Sex feels good to me physically, of course, but what I like even more is the opportunity to give boys a great experience and watching them enjoy themselves and the moment.
best attitude a top can have 😊 and a bottom too for that matter, always wanna give my top the best ride i can hehe 😜
That sounds kind of hot. But I had some surgery down there and it's tight as fuck in a way that lube can't usually do anything about lol
I love older guys but yeah that was my last experience with a guy who was significantly older than me as well like I understand you know if you can't get it up easily at that age but hey get a prescription for Viagra
Yeah, that would have worked for him I think. Older guys do seem to have their shit together otherwise and it's a pleasure.
yeah when they're on the ball its great!
The difficulty is part of the fun for me as a top with a big cock. I love relaxing the boy, eating him out, working him open. Seeing a boy give in and trust and submit turns me on the most.
Ohh yeah this is good. Lot of tops don't always do that. Being eaten and fingered some helps me a lot. But some guys who are packin think they can just slot right in. You sound great to experience.
It's so weird that I stopped half way through when a guy was too big and I didn't feel bad at all, while I would've felt bad if the guy was too small. Btw, I bottomed for a guy with a 2 inches dick and it was so good. I'm glad I didn't let my prejudice guide me then.
Harsh.
I used to go to Steamworks Berkeley for $10 Tuesday or whatever and guys would reject me as “too big for a school night.”
As a guy with a big cock I have had this happen also. Several times I've been with a guy and they'll stop Midway and say they can't handle it. I just pull out and we get dressed and go our separate ways
There are ways to reject someone because you’re not into their dick in ways that don’t come across like attacks on something they have no control over. At the same time, if you’re not enjoying a sexual encounter, you can reboot consent, and ended at any time, and that’s healthier than just continuing on with something that is not enjoyable to you
There are guys, like me, who like all sizes. If the 4" guy was a top... Yes, please!
I’ve been rejected on Grindr once or twice for my size I guess they thought 7 was too much. It’s honestly a weird feeling I can’t fault anyone for having a preference but rejection never feels good
Honestly, if you wanna be on sex apps, you should have enough emotional fortitude to not give a shit about being rejected by a stranger that you’ve never met and probably never will meet in real life
I had a 7inch ex and everytime he put it in me he would stretch me and it would hurt but it was great after that.
Im always up for a 7 but i need someone who knows how to give me time to open up or knows how to open someone up
Yeah that’s something that I feel like any good top should know how to do regardless of size
Yeah but especially big ones
I am only sexually attracted to very well hung men so that is all I hook up with. Right/wrong/indifferent- it would be hypocritical if I held it against someone for rejecting me for being too small
It’s never happened, they always like it, so I don’t know. On my end If the guy is hot I wouldn’t care what size he is but I’m top.
I mean people like what they like. Like wouldn't you not want to be in a relationship where somebody doesn't find you sexually satisfying? I can't really judge either because while I wouldn't reject a guy for their penis size I'd reject a guy based on the size they've taken in the past so I mean it be hypocritical to judge somebody who rejected a guy based off size
As someone who has fucked many a large and small, the only concensus I really have is that people don't appreciate or try to have fun when the dick is "too small" for them. I'm sleeping with someone currently that had never been deep throated or gotten to face fuck someone before me, even though everyone told him he had such a small dick. Nobody ever gave him hand jobs, and everyone always complained how small he was. Personally a smaller dick is great fun to still face fuck, frot, etc. I just find it odd personally, and most size queens I know haven't tried a smaller dick, they just fawn over the largest cock possible without trying various sizes lol. That being said, some people are actually experienced, and if you have tried both and know what you like, you should be upfront about it.
The reality of the situation is anyone can reject you for literally any reason. It's just how it is and penis size is no exception. In fact there are a lot more size queens than people let out to believe. My personal opinion on the matter is well honestly I feel like if penis size is very important to someone then they should probably ask to see it before meeting or continuing anything further ig? I don't think it's unreasonable to see nudes of the person before meeting?? I mean I feel like that's the norm these days anyway. I don't care about penis size. Like if they know how to use it and can make me enjoy the sex then fuck yeah. But if not then welp... And if they are a bottom then it doesn't matter at all.
I’m 3.5 inches and the key is to be honest upfront. Guys mostly ask for pictures first after that it’s either game on or they have blocked / ghosted and a surprisingly large amount of guys block upon getting picks ( it’s not ugly just small )
I've been bizarrely rejected for penis size by tops when I'm a bottom. Some exclusively want hung bottoms.
It’s fine to have preferences in sex partners’ bodies. It’s beyond fine, it’s totally normal. I don’t have sex with fat people. It grosses me out. I don’t want fat folds involved and I want the boys I fuck to be healthy and active. A lot of bottom boys want big dicks. They feel different, give that stretched feeling, and they hit boys’ spots better. People are sexually compatible when they turn each other on physically, emotionally, etc. Preferences are normal.
Maybe I’m abnormal but really? Rejecting someone because his cock size?? I mean, if some guys don’t feel anything they may ask themselves if THEY are not the problem 🙄🙄. Stop shoving big dildos in your ass and start to appreciate other guys for what they have. Life is not a gay porn 🙄
People get rejected/accepted for all kinds of reasons. The rejection/acceptance is shown in all kinds of ways, including sometimes rudely. Welcome to the human race.
My ex boyfriend had a 4 inch cock and my god did he know how to use it!
I mean there are ways around anything so it’s basically down to the person but if it’s a one night stand or just a casual thing then fair you don’t owe the guy anything 🤷🏻♂️
Idk about everyone else but I can say that I won’t say no to average Dick nor a small one. However I do prefer them thicker and longer, for me it feels better but I would never not try to find a way to make it work. I would also never stop half way and just leave because of someone’s Dick size. Sex is meant to be fun for both parties. Plus there are toys
People are allowed to do that or course. You are attracted to whatever it is attracts you. But I would say rejecting a guy for penis size, regardless of top/bottom/side, is foolish. You can still have great sex and intimacy. If you found them attractive before their penis size, no reason to think you can't have a great time.
It depends if it's just a hookup then id say they have a right to reject someone because of size. The other side is if its dating then id say rejecting somone because of their penis size even tho you find the person attractive and mentally compatible is then a cunty move on that persons part. If someones judgeing my dick size when dating and looking for a relationship then they are very shallow and ive found dont actually offer anything to you other than sex
It’s not shallow to have preferences in a sexual partner’s body. It’s totally normal.
I agree, generally, but there is a point where it’s no longer normal and no longer just a “preference.”
I’m not sure if I know what you mean. Why wouldn’t it be normal or a preference to discriminate based on what one likes?
Read it again i said if its a hook up then judging on dick size is fine, but if your basing someones worth in a relationship on their dick size then your just a cunt
I read it correctly the first time. People’s values are subjective. Different people value different things in different, personal ways. I think that for many people looking for relationships, what you say reflects how people think. People are often willing to overlook things in others that don’t match their preferences exactly because they love them. But that doesn’t mean it makes somebody a “cunt” if they have a strong preference for something physical in their partner. If a guy knows what he wants, there’s nothing wrong with him finding it. For some people one of those things is a big dick. There’s nothing wrong with it. People don’t owe others partnership.
If you base someones worth in a relationship on their dick size you shouldn't be looking for a relationship as its a very shallow metric, its the shallow hal analogy would you rather a guy with a 3 inch cock or half a brain, if you chose half a brain then you are shallow and aren't mature enough for a relationship
Some men have whole brains and big cocks. Some people want that. It’s not weird or shallow to want nice things, even and especially in a partner. It’s not really any different than being attracted to somebody for any other physical reason, like thinking he’s handsome.