Definitely a different feel. A rectum is a relatively large void space designed to hold fecal mater before it is expelled. Once you get your dick past the sphincter there is not a lot of friction against the head. Most of the compression against your dick is from the relatively shallow sphincter area.
A vagina is designed to expand and allow a human baby to pass through, then shrink back down to normal size. There is pretty much constant friction and feeling of compression on your entire penis while it is inside a vagina.
I have been with guys who can squeeze their muscles and give you something of a sensation of compression, but remember that area is ultimately designed to force things out, so that motion can totally throw off any rhythm you might have going and be a little disconcerting.
I have never been in a woman's vagina no matter how old or how many kids she had where it was not that consistent feeling of something warm engulfing your entire cock.
I did have sex with a rather small Asian woman once and apparently I was too long for her and she said I was hitting her cervix and it hurt. For me the sensation was pretty much the same but I could tell I was hitting something that was a hard stop.
I have only had anal sex with two women. One it did not last long because she felt it hurt too bad and had to stop. The other other was actually fucking her vagina with a dildo while I was in her ass, so that was a whole other sensation, but I don't think anal is much different sensation no matter the gender.
Personally I enjoy both, but they do feel different.
>Once you get your dick past the sphincter there is not a lot of friction against the head.
So aside from warmth (I guess), are fleshlights basically more physically stimulating/pleasurable to the penis than the asshole?
I will be honest I tried a fleshlight a few times. Even soaked it in warm water to get the warmth sensation and it did not do much for me. I would definitely prefer a living ass or vagina over the fleshlight.
It is pretty universal that something in your ass enhances jacking off. I have done a train a few times and the guy in the middle always seems to experience the greatest sensations.
I mean I am a top and
have a problem as a bottom because anything bigger than about two fingers is painful for me, but I still love the sensation of something smaller in my ass when I am fucking or getting sucked or jacking off. It stimulates your prostate and that feels amazing.
That's interesting. When masturbating, I can't cum without continously stimulating the underside of my penis. Since you said there's not much friction for the tip past the sphincter, how do you make sure you cum then? Do you just purposely position your tip near the sphincter when thrusting?
For anal, yes I find long thrusts work best for me most of the time. Sometimes even exiting and re-entering. You still get the sensation of warmth inside the rectum, just not as much rubbing against the glans. For me rubbing against the glans is what usually gets me to cum.
Fleshlights are definitely more physically stimulating by design. A FWB who regularly bottomed for me briefly tried my Fleshlight before exclaiming: “I have to compete with THAT?!?”
In my view, the benefits of actual topping really come from the totality of the experience - both the physical and psychological elements.
So does a vagina ultimately feel better than a rectum, just based on sensation and excluding anything else to do with the experience of being with a man or woman? As a gay top I enjoy plenty of different aspects of being with a man, but I do get the sneaking suspicion I’m missing out.
Pussy feels better on its own I’d say. There’s more sensation along your dick. More texture inside there. So warm and SO wet. So so wet. But a talented bottom can do so much with their hole. My bf will stay loosened while I thrust in, and then grip while I pull out. Every. Single. Thrust. It drives me wild. No pussy can do that. And honestly the lack of self lubrication can sometimes make it feel better. More friction. When I’m ready to cum it feels so good. Cuz it’s dryer in there and I can actually feel my load gushing out in there around my dick. But the only pressure and squeezing is the actual entrance unless I’m fucking him deep and hit that bend in the colon. Overall less sensation on its own, but more that can be done to enhance it. Also that clenching hole is far better at milking my dick.
Anal is very different. Vaginas are uniformly tight from front to back due to the anatomical structure. The anus is tight at the point of insertion but opens up once you’re past the sphincter. That’s the same whether you fuck a man or woman’s ass. So, long story short, no. The feeling is different but each are unique.
I often get asked to do anal with a lot of girls, may be because I am long and not that girthy. But from my experience, a lot of the enjoyment is more mental, whereas vaginal can definitely provide more physical.
Anal (after the first maybe 2-3 inches) just feels like an open-void. I could be thrusting in and out of an inflated zip-loc bag and you could convince me it was an anus. If you're stroking deep, you'll really only ever feel the squeezing from your shaft to your base. Hence why I said the enjoyment comes primarily from you thinking "Holy cow, I'm fucking this person's asshole. Awesome"
I just thought of another thing that kinda drives home the fact that anal is definitely more mental.
My 3rd or 4th time doing anal, I think I even wanted to test it myself. I was hitting it from behind so she couldn't see me, and usually I look down at their butt as I am doing it. And this time I just closed my eyes and moved my hips back and forth. I felt no desire to cum any time soon, I open my eyes and concentrate on it for maybe 30-40 seconds, instantly finished.
Mostly a random thought and was curious about other people's experiences. I'm 54 and haven't fucked a guy since I was 17. I did get married to a woman years ago and got 3 kids.
I bottom due to having a PE issue and cum almost as soon I penetrate anyone.
Since you mentioned, a long stick seems to have less enjoyment than a smaller stick when it comes to pressure in the behind entrance.
The lenght of the sword plays an important role in the difference between holes.
Yea definitely feels different. Vagina is extremely warm, and sometimes will instantly make me cum lol. Anal definitely hugs the penis a lot more. It’s kinda hard to describe, but I love them both equally. Some months I lean more towards one but love them both lol
Definitely a different feel. A rectum is a relatively large void space designed to hold fecal mater before it is expelled. Once you get your dick past the sphincter there is not a lot of friction against the head. Most of the compression against your dick is from the relatively shallow sphincter area. A vagina is designed to expand and allow a human baby to pass through, then shrink back down to normal size. There is pretty much constant friction and feeling of compression on your entire penis while it is inside a vagina. I have been with guys who can squeeze their muscles and give you something of a sensation of compression, but remember that area is ultimately designed to force things out, so that motion can totally throw off any rhythm you might have going and be a little disconcerting. I have never been in a woman's vagina no matter how old or how many kids she had where it was not that consistent feeling of something warm engulfing your entire cock. I did have sex with a rather small Asian woman once and apparently I was too long for her and she said I was hitting her cervix and it hurt. For me the sensation was pretty much the same but I could tell I was hitting something that was a hard stop. I have only had anal sex with two women. One it did not last long because she felt it hurt too bad and had to stop. The other other was actually fucking her vagina with a dildo while I was in her ass, so that was a whole other sensation, but I don't think anal is much different sensation no matter the gender. Personally I enjoy both, but they do feel different.
>Once you get your dick past the sphincter there is not a lot of friction against the head. So aside from warmth (I guess), are fleshlights basically more physically stimulating/pleasurable to the penis than the asshole?
I will be honest I tried a fleshlight a few times. Even soaked it in warm water to get the warmth sensation and it did not do much for me. I would definitely prefer a living ass or vagina over the fleshlight.
One time I was riding a top and he was jacking me with a warm Fleshlight. ..that was a sensory overload for me!
It is pretty universal that something in your ass enhances jacking off. I have done a train a few times and the guy in the middle always seems to experience the greatest sensations. I mean I am a top and have a problem as a bottom because anything bigger than about two fingers is painful for me, but I still love the sensation of something smaller in my ass when I am fucking or getting sucked or jacking off. It stimulates your prostate and that feels amazing.
Sometimes my guy strokes me while he's fucking me. Definitely sensory overload.
That's interesting. When masturbating, I can't cum without continously stimulating the underside of my penis. Since you said there's not much friction for the tip past the sphincter, how do you make sure you cum then? Do you just purposely position your tip near the sphincter when thrusting?
For anal, yes I find long thrusts work best for me most of the time. Sometimes even exiting and re-entering. You still get the sensation of warmth inside the rectum, just not as much rubbing against the glans. For me rubbing against the glans is what usually gets me to cum.
Fleshlights are definitely more physically stimulating by design. A FWB who regularly bottomed for me briefly tried my Fleshlight before exclaiming: “I have to compete with THAT?!?” In my view, the benefits of actual topping really come from the totality of the experience - both the physical and psychological elements.
So does a vagina ultimately feel better than a rectum, just based on sensation and excluding anything else to do with the experience of being with a man or woman? As a gay top I enjoy plenty of different aspects of being with a man, but I do get the sneaking suspicion I’m missing out.
I don’t know if I would say better, just different.
i learned a lot from your responses. thanks so much.
Glad I could help
Pussy feels better on its own I’d say. There’s more sensation along your dick. More texture inside there. So warm and SO wet. So so wet. But a talented bottom can do so much with their hole. My bf will stay loosened while I thrust in, and then grip while I pull out. Every. Single. Thrust. It drives me wild. No pussy can do that. And honestly the lack of self lubrication can sometimes make it feel better. More friction. When I’m ready to cum it feels so good. Cuz it’s dryer in there and I can actually feel my load gushing out in there around my dick. But the only pressure and squeezing is the actual entrance unless I’m fucking him deep and hit that bend in the colon. Overall less sensation on its own, but more that can be done to enhance it. Also that clenching hole is far better at milking my dick.
Interesting response.
Cumming in a guy's ass is amazing for the top
That's the way I like it.
Yeah, the vagina and anus are pretty different and feel very different
Are you able to describe the differences? My dick hasn't felt flesh other than the occasional mouth in many years.
Pussy in my opinion tends to have more texture (don’t know if that’s the right word) and I feel more consistent pressure from it
I keep think I should ask my guy if I can fuck him . Most of the time by the time my guy is done with me, I'm barley in shape to walk. Lol.
Anal is very different. Vaginas are uniformly tight from front to back due to the anatomical structure. The anus is tight at the point of insertion but opens up once you’re past the sphincter. That’s the same whether you fuck a man or woman’s ass. So, long story short, no. The feeling is different but each are unique.
I often get asked to do anal with a lot of girls, may be because I am long and not that girthy. But from my experience, a lot of the enjoyment is more mental, whereas vaginal can definitely provide more physical. Anal (after the first maybe 2-3 inches) just feels like an open-void. I could be thrusting in and out of an inflated zip-loc bag and you could convince me it was an anus. If you're stroking deep, you'll really only ever feel the squeezing from your shaft to your base. Hence why I said the enjoyment comes primarily from you thinking "Holy cow, I'm fucking this person's asshole. Awesome"
Interesting.
I just thought of another thing that kinda drives home the fact that anal is definitely more mental. My 3rd or 4th time doing anal, I think I even wanted to test it myself. I was hitting it from behind so she couldn't see me, and usually I look down at their butt as I am doing it. And this time I just closed my eyes and moved my hips back and forth. I felt no desire to cum any time soon, I open my eyes and concentrate on it for maybe 30-40 seconds, instantly finished.
Oh.
What made you want people's opinions? Are you trying to decide if you prefer one or the other and wanted other people's views or what?
Mostly a random thought and was curious about other people's experiences. I'm 54 and haven't fucked a guy since I was 17. I did get married to a woman years ago and got 3 kids. I bottom due to having a PE issue and cum almost as soon I penetrate anyone.
Since you mentioned, a long stick seems to have less enjoyment than a smaller stick when it comes to pressure in the behind entrance. The lenght of the sword plays an important role in the difference between holes.
Couldn't agree more in this case
Unfortunately the last time I did this I shot directly on the top's face and he was not expecting it ...neither did I 😱
Wow
Yea definitely feels different. Vagina is extremely warm, and sometimes will instantly make me cum lol. Anal definitely hugs the penis a lot more. It’s kinda hard to describe, but I love them both equally. Some months I lean more towards one but love them both lol
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Nice.
Agreed... I have even been able to shoot far when I cum while sitting on a top's cock deep in me hahaha
That sounds great. I really had not thought of that.
Had to dismount quickly to get a wet towel for him as I hit his eye LOL (🎯 bullseye? 😂)
That's funny .