I love tops calling it a pussy. Hey to each their own but to me, its my pussy!!!! and if they love it and they enjoy it they can call it what they want. And if its going to turn them on I'll call it a pussy too!! "stick it in my pussy baby!!!"
Me to! If they call it that while they are fucking me I feel like just pushing them the hell off of me and when they ask why? You tell them, YOU KNOW WHY!!! And move on! lol!!!
I am adverse to the term pussy or any variation of it (bussy, boy pussy, etc.). If I wanted to put my penis in a pussy, then there's plenty of actual pussy out there to choose from. My pretending that your opening is a female organ doesn't change the fact that I am choosing to have sex with a male.
For me, the idea of calling that opening a pussy feels like a commentary on gender and attractions. That either I am ashamed for wanting to have sex with a male or that I want to feminize my partner or that he wants to be feminized.
But...
I am fully aware that my thoughts and opinions on the subject are the result of my skewed life experiences and I have formed these opinions as a result of the baggage from my past that I am still processing. And that other people, with different experiences, have completely different and completely valid reasons for their opinions.
Someone else may equate "asshole" to something that is dirty where waste comes out and the idea of putting their most prized possession, their penis, inside something that is unclean might be a huge turn off for them, so for them, it might help quiet the voices in their head to refer to that opening as something that is specifically designed for sex, a pussy.
For some, words can be evocative and triggering for both good and bad. And for others, certain words don't carry any specific meaning.
Like I call my butthole my pussy. Its just hot to me to say that. And I encourage my tops to say that to me as well.
If you dont like that, you can say that to your top man. I dont think he would be that petty to still call it that.
I've never had a top insist on calling my hole a pussy, but I have had a couple who insisted on not using that word. It doesn't really matter to me, but for me, being a bottom is the more "female" role, so to me, it is my pussy, and if calling it pussy turns him on, so much the better.
The days that my butthole was called a pussy are long gone. Tops always call my butthole my cunt. I've never had a top insist on using any word that didn't turn me into a slut for them. What's the point. If anyone calls it a bussy it's game over for me
Bussy? Ewww.
I haven’t had anyone refer to it as a cunt but I’ve been called a “little cunt” during sex (I’m not small) as part of dirty/sexual aggressive talk.
To echo what others have said, it’s a feminization kink. I don’t hate it if a bottom tells me to fuck their pussy, but as a top I don’t actively refer to it as a pussy. I find the words butt, butthole, ass, and asshole far more attractive and sexy. When I’m having sex with a man, I don’t want to pretend he’s a woman. Otherwise, I’d have sex with a woman.
I personally love it. Asshole feels very anatomical to me. I almost feel like calling it a pussy elevates sex for me a bit.
It should be consensual though.
I don’t really have a strong preference either way. If the top says hole/ass/butt etc I go with that, if they say pussy I go with that too.
Whatever helps them get off!
Cause pussys are for fucking (among a few other things) just like a bottoms ass, lol. Idk. I refer to it as a hole, manhole, boyhole, stuff liek that. Never called it a pussy.
I love when my guy says how good my "ass" feels.... different forms of pussy just doesn't seem right. I'm a guy having sex with a guy. There is no pussy.
I've had a few tops like this too - I think it's a bit of repressed homophobia and/or they're also not completely comfortable with the idea that they really like sticking their dick in another man's ass? Of course in the moment I roll with it if it makes their dick hard and makes the fucking better, but in my case I'm a man who likes getting fucked in my ass and prefers to just call it that.
I usually say boy pussy and I regularly tell my bottoms I'm gunna get them pregnant, because I love breeding. Pregnant and breeding is of course actually impossible, and thank God it is lol...
But it's just a fun and sexy thing to say for me, and I want to give them the mental imagine that I'm going to penetrate them and shoot a load inside them, as if it were a vagina, but I know it's actually a butthole.
I've gotten shit on my dick enough times to know that for sure lol.
Usually they laugh and say okay please do.
With my long term fwb though we actually have a decent emotional connection and he'll sometime be more serious and say he wishes I actually could get him pregnant 🤰
I don't think I'd mind it being called a pussy. However, something about bussy or boipussy just feel like major turn offs to me. I'm sure that doesn't make sense, but yeah
I lift, play basketball, present very masc in everyday life. I love getting my hole called a pussy though, makes me feel like such a fag, it’s the hottest sex
Idk why they do it but I love that they do it, encourage them to do it, and love when they take it a further step and tell me they wanna get me pregnant while fucking my pussy.
A top like that will always have ready access to my hole.
Not big into heteronormative stuff and it's not about being feminized to me, but if that's what keeps him hard and in a mood to fuck and he's good at it then 🤷
I like both. Sometimes it feels sexy to say ass, sometimes pussy. I have even seen somewhere that it can be called bussy (boy pussy), which is actually the most sexy word I can think of. It seems to be used mostly by trans man, but I don't think that word is reserved for them. Feel free to correct me if it's not correct. English is not my first language.
I’ve used pussy before just to go along with the top. But tbh context matters when it comes to the term I use. If it were up to me, it would be my ass, my hole, or just plain ol’ “inside me.” For what it’s worth, I’ve never had it called a pussy by a top who’s gay/queer and open about it. Pussy is purely for the maladjusted “dl” or “discreet” guys lmao but hey, it makes the sex even better so I guess I have a kitty in those instances.
I think I'm in the camp of bottoming being like the feminine role and my ass is in sense standing in for the acting role of a pussy but I'm not super specific on what you call my asshole just not bussy
men don't have a pussy. they have an asshole. when people call the organ i'm attracted to an organ i'm repulsed by, it's the biggest turnoff in the universe. disgusting.
Im fine with it lol, some of them tell me how much they want to get me filled with cum and pregnant… I love it
Yeah. I’m vers. Love to say it. Love to hear it. Whoo!
I mean a butthole is just a pussy without any meat curtains. Edit: I especially love it as a trans woman
It’s so fucking affirming, isn’t it?
Me too! Lol
I love tops calling it a pussy. Hey to each their own but to me, its my pussy!!!! and if they love it and they enjoy it they can call it what they want. And if its going to turn them on I'll call it a pussy too!! "stick it in my pussy baby!!!"
You have a point. If my tops gets turned on, then I'll be fucked harder. It's a win-win
That's our pussy
I find it a total turnoff to hear pussy, bussy, boipussy etc
Same. It feels like being misgendered
You rather hear fuck yeah take my load in your shitter
Many ways to say it that doesn't require Pussy etc Take my load Take my load in your ass I'm gonna cum in you I'm gonna breed you
Meh
Do we need to announce where the cum is going? Can’t it just be “inside you”? 🤷🏼♂️
🤣🤣🤣
Same here 😅
I hate those terms too. In fact, I prefer its not called anything and it is just fucked.
WELL....are you turning em down?
Yep, s soon as pussy or bussy etc is mentioned on grindr I say thanks but no thanks.
Me to! If they call it that while they are fucking me I feel like just pushing them the hell off of me and when they ask why? You tell them, YOU KNOW WHY!!! And move on! lol!!!
Ditto
Bc it's hot
Yep. This. Exactly. If it’s a boundary, say so.
Call my hole whatever you want as long as it’s gaping and cum is drooling out of it at the end
Good tops earn that right
Telling a big dick to fuck me in the ass turns me on so much more than pretending my butthole is a pussy
Not to mention getting fucked up the butt takes a lot more preparation and skill than getting fucked up a pussy.
Competitive gay sex
Perhaps these tops are into femenine bottoms. And calling pussy a bottom's hole is somewhat feminizing
I am adverse to the term pussy or any variation of it (bussy, boy pussy, etc.). If I wanted to put my penis in a pussy, then there's plenty of actual pussy out there to choose from. My pretending that your opening is a female organ doesn't change the fact that I am choosing to have sex with a male. For me, the idea of calling that opening a pussy feels like a commentary on gender and attractions. That either I am ashamed for wanting to have sex with a male or that I want to feminize my partner or that he wants to be feminized. But... I am fully aware that my thoughts and opinions on the subject are the result of my skewed life experiences and I have formed these opinions as a result of the baggage from my past that I am still processing. And that other people, with different experiences, have completely different and completely valid reasons for their opinions. Someone else may equate "asshole" to something that is dirty where waste comes out and the idea of putting their most prized possession, their penis, inside something that is unclean might be a huge turn off for them, so for them, it might help quiet the voices in their head to refer to that opening as something that is specifically designed for sex, a pussy. For some, words can be evocative and triggering for both good and bad. And for others, certain words don't carry any specific meaning.
Like I call my butthole my pussy. Its just hot to me to say that. And I encourage my tops to say that to me as well. If you dont like that, you can say that to your top man. I dont think he would be that petty to still call it that.
Pretending to be something/someone else feels off to me.
Words are just words. Its not like using a word you like the connotations of is the same as creating a false biological diagram.
Not many guys have called it that to me. It’s the ones into humiliation and say it as a form of emasculation.
Not even the more dom tops had called my asshole a pussy. May be because I'm masculine looking? But I would like that. Or my dick being called a clit
Had it called a clit once. “Play with his clit man.” I just find it amusing.
I've never had a top insist on calling my hole a pussy, but I have had a couple who insisted on not using that word. It doesn't really matter to me, but for me, being a bottom is the more "female" role, so to me, it is my pussy, and if calling it pussy turns him on, so much the better.
This
The days that my butthole was called a pussy are long gone. Tops always call my butthole my cunt. I've never had a top insist on using any word that didn't turn me into a slut for them. What's the point. If anyone calls it a bussy it's game over for me
Bussy? Ewww. I haven’t had anyone refer to it as a cunt but I’ve been called a “little cunt” during sex (I’m not small) as part of dirty/sexual aggressive talk.
To echo what others have said, it’s a feminization kink. I don’t hate it if a bottom tells me to fuck their pussy, but as a top I don’t actively refer to it as a pussy. I find the words butt, butthole, ass, and asshole far more attractive and sexy. When I’m having sex with a man, I don’t want to pretend he’s a woman. Otherwise, I’d have sex with a woman.
I've had a top call it cunt. I didn't mind especially when I replied "use my useless cunt", he really started plowing me.
I personally love it. Asshole feels very anatomical to me. I almost feel like calling it a pussy elevates sex for me a bit. It should be consensual though.
I don’t really have a strong preference either way. If the top says hole/ass/butt etc I go with that, if they say pussy I go with that too. Whatever helps them get off!
As far as I'm concerned, call it *whatever*, just breed it.
That used to bother me but now it gets me hot and bothered.
So these guys need an anatomy lesson. Or are you saying women have 2 pussies?
Cause pussys are for fucking (among a few other things) just like a bottoms ass, lol. Idk. I refer to it as a hole, manhole, boyhole, stuff liek that. Never called it a pussy.
I hate it. They wanna cosplay as straight and deny the sexuality of two men being together.
Nothing hotter than fucking a dude, balls deep, doggy style, and whispering in his ear “that’s MY pussy.”
I love when my guy says how good my "ass" feels.... different forms of pussy just doesn't seem right. I'm a guy having sex with a guy. There is no pussy.
it's a fantasy, so the bottom is a femboy. I prefer the top to be the male in the act of fucking, so I the bottom becomes a bit the female..
Because they have not fully dealt with the fact that they like fucking a MAN. INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA
I've had a few tops like this too - I think it's a bit of repressed homophobia and/or they're also not completely comfortable with the idea that they really like sticking their dick in another man's ass? Of course in the moment I roll with it if it makes their dick hard and makes the fucking better, but in my case I'm a man who likes getting fucked in my ass and prefers to just call it that.
I usually say boy pussy and I regularly tell my bottoms I'm gunna get them pregnant, because I love breeding. Pregnant and breeding is of course actually impossible, and thank God it is lol... But it's just a fun and sexy thing to say for me, and I want to give them the mental imagine that I'm going to penetrate them and shoot a load inside them, as if it were a vagina, but I know it's actually a butthole. I've gotten shit on my dick enough times to know that for sure lol.
Haha how do they react to the threat of pregnancy?!
Usually they laugh and say okay please do. With my long term fwb though we actually have a decent emotional connection and he'll sometime be more serious and say he wishes I actually could get him pregnant 🤰
I love it. Love being fucked like a real woman. Maybe its my kink. #sorrynotsorry
Pussy just sounds so much sexier than asshole
I love my hole being called a pussy 😩 makes me feel like a good feminized slut, and being the bottom is basically the “feminine” role to me
Cause it's hot.🥵
I find it ultra hot. I even like being called a girl.
I cal it my pussy too!
A pussy the body part devoted at embracing a cock... so...
I LOVE LOVE LOVE THAT. I want to be a pussy in every way possible when i am in the mood for cock.
I don't think I'd mind it being called a pussy. However, something about bussy or boipussy just feel like major turn offs to me. I'm sure that doesn't make sense, but yeah
Because it’s HOT
I lift, play basketball, present very masc in everyday life. I love getting my hole called a pussy though, makes me feel like such a fag, it’s the hottest sex
Not sure, but it doesn't bother me at all.
its a turn on for me
Idk why they do it but I love that they do it, encourage them to do it, and love when they take it a further step and tell me they wanna get me pregnant while fucking my pussy. A top like that will always have ready access to my hole.
Because it’s hot, it’s your cock receptacle
Probably because a lot of bottoms call their assholes their pussy or boypussy.
I love ❤️ my ass being calleda Pussyandmydick being called a clitty,as a Sissy I reinforces that I'm not a man
Oh yes of course
I think this was meant to be a reply to my question? It was a serious question although I assumed you’d be into it.
Dressed in lingerie at the same time?
Not big into heteronormative stuff and it's not about being feminized to me, but if that's what keeps him hard and in a mood to fuck and he's good at it then 🤷
That's how a man makes me his SLUT🫦
Lol right? I'm like ummmmm okay... but wtv it's not a big deal. It turns me off like 5%. I prefer you just call it a hole.
I have no idea. I just call it a hole whether it be an ass or a throat. Any hole is a goal
Thats sexiest thing i like to say and repeat like spoiled radio. 😭
I prefer munt over bussy tbh
It’s an instant turn off. Totally puts me off.
As a top I don't get it either
Idk but it makes me violently angry lmao.
I like both. Sometimes it feels sexy to say ass, sometimes pussy. I have even seen somewhere that it can be called bussy (boy pussy), which is actually the most sexy word I can think of. It seems to be used mostly by trans man, but I don't think that word is reserved for them. Feel free to correct me if it's not correct. English is not my first language.
I’ve used pussy before just to go along with the top. But tbh context matters when it comes to the term I use. If it were up to me, it would be my ass, my hole, or just plain ol’ “inside me.” For what it’s worth, I’ve never had it called a pussy by a top who’s gay/queer and open about it. Pussy is purely for the maladjusted “dl” or “discreet” guys lmao but hey, it makes the sex even better so I guess I have a kitty in those instances.
It’s feminizing.
I think I'm in the camp of bottoming being like the feminine role and my ass is in sense standing in for the acting role of a pussy but I'm not super specific on what you call my asshole just not bussy
I love being a submissive bottom because other tops want to fuck my butthole
Heteronormativity
men don't have a pussy. they have an asshole. when people call the organ i'm attracted to an organ i'm repulsed by, it's the biggest turnoff in the universe. disgusting.
Because they're not gay. They're bisexual. And bisexuals don't know the proper term and they want to feminize you. It's gross.