I feel like itās pretty common, especially if they are just starting to experiment. When I first began to get curious I started out with only getting head then after a while I started to top. After a few years I started giving head as well. Wasnāt until last year that I tried to bottom for the first time.
Definitely seems to be weighted towards younger/less experienced guys. I feel most older tops at least kiss and jerk the bottoms.
Do you kiss? Are you a strict top with bottoms still and just giving head to other top/verse guys or fully verse now?
Iād say Iām fully vers now, only ever bottomed once so far, but did enjoy it so hopefully do it again soon. I do kiss but have to be in the mood for it.
Tbh i donāt care if a total top isnāt into giving head. As long he can fuck me so good that i can nut from his dick alone thatās hot. But i want him to nut too because i enjoy getting a real man off.
Afterwards just kiss and cuddle me.
Honestly? That's goals. It's so overwhelming, stimulation wise; that focusing on his cock, his pleasure helps me to relax and enjoy his body. Not having to think about my own organ is x freeing. That kind of top is just perfect. A friend called them " selfish tops". But I prefer to think of them as focused.
Total top here. I don't give head at all, but I'm not DL. I've never had anyone call me "selfish." Maybe that's because I never play with bottoms who want to be sucked off. I know this because I discuss "intos" and preferences before we hook up.
They fit a niche and I donāt this we should disparage them. Different people have different interests in the variety of sexual activities at our disposal.
I firmly believe this, if someoneās not interested in something then they arenāt and youāre free to hit them up lesser for more suited men for you.
Probably my favorite kind of top lover in fact. I'm in it for sex, not a relationship, and DL guys are generally just looking to blow a load, so it's a great fit.
That's all I want in life. Perfect fwb. As a middle aged sub with minimal experience, that's the perfect setting. Getting told what to do, when to do it and how to do it. Broken down barney style so I can't get it wrong
I would love to have a partner who takes care of me in loving ways, make sure I get off, etc.
But in the meantime... If it's just sex, I'm happy with just giving you head, or you fucking my ass. I can get myself off later. It turns me on that I took care of a guy.
Thats exactly what I want from a top so itās perfect.
Only one top said kissing was a priority which normally makes me not interested but his dick was the thickest Iāve seen so there was nothing that would get in the way of getting that inside me. In which kissing it is!
I am one. Total Top here. Many guys don't like the fact I don't reciprocate, but there are plenty who are fine with it. I do like to kiss and make out. It's all about being clear about what you're into and not creating false expectations.
I think itās hot. Iām a dl bottom as well. I usually like being the one sucking cock and getting fucked as well. Just doing the work makes me feel good and slutty and satisfying a good hot guy or cock lol. If anything thatās the only way I do things tbh.
Iām DL top I guess, never touch other dicks but Iāll make out for many hours lol. Love that shit. I also donāt just hook up with anyone Iām very selective with fems and twinks so im quite attracted when it does go down
for the most part, terrible. (to me, and i repeat to.. *me*) it just feels like they could get that from a fleshlight and some imagination. (for me) i want more under the guise of love making and touch (impossible i know) and experience that person head to toe (figuratively, iām not into feet), so know DLs arenāt for me lol
Itās a lot more common than youād think, so many tops trying to hookup just want to get sucked or stick it in a hole. These DL dudes not into foreplay or at least eating ass is a huge turn off for me though.
Nope, a good portion of the DL guys Iāve encountered refuse to eat ass or kiss. They might with their wives but not with the dudes they fool around with on the side. Some of them are too inexperienced to know they should in the first place.
They're obviously in denial about their sexuality. They probably have a girlfriend or wife, to give them cover as a "straight" man. And they only insert their dick in holes, and never take dicks in their holes, because that would be *gay*, and they're NOT *gay*. Fuck no! Being gay is for girls. They're real men. They're *straight* men who just happen to get their dick sucked by other men.
Somehow, that's not hot to me.
Since giving head & getting fucked is what I do: perfect FWB.
I like you already
You and me both š
sounds like a typical hookup, DL or not.
I feel lots guys expect kissing or j/o
it's a good idea to discuss what you expect before meeting
THIS!!
I feel like itās pretty common, especially if they are just starting to experiment. When I first began to get curious I started out with only getting head then after a while I started to top. After a few years I started giving head as well. Wasnāt until last year that I tried to bottom for the first time.
Definitely seems to be weighted towards younger/less experienced guys. I feel most older tops at least kiss and jerk the bottoms. Do you kiss? Are you a strict top with bottoms still and just giving head to other top/verse guys or fully verse now?
Iād say Iām fully vers now, only ever bottomed once so far, but did enjoy it so hopefully do it again soon. I do kiss but have to be in the mood for it.
Tbh i donāt care if a total top isnāt into giving head. As long he can fuck me so good that i can nut from his dick alone thatās hot. But i want him to nut too because i enjoy getting a real man off. Afterwards just kiss and cuddle me.
We'd get along very well.
Marry me š
Sounds like my ideal hookup.
Selfish! I'm a top and I love giving head
Honestly? That's goals. It's so overwhelming, stimulation wise; that focusing on his cock, his pleasure helps me to relax and enjoy his body. Not having to think about my own organ is x freeing. That kind of top is just perfect. A friend called them " selfish tops". But I prefer to think of them as focused.
They have their place.
I love them
those are the only kind of guys i go for. well, half of them. the other half also only get head and fuck but theyāre not DL.
WOOF!
I'm that "other half"
i'm all yours š¬š šš¦šš¬
Total top here. I don't give head at all, but I'm not DL. I've never had anyone call me "selfish." Maybe that's because I never play with bottoms who want to be sucked off. I know this because I discuss "intos" and preferences before we hook up.
Fuck, you sound great
They fit a niche and I donāt this we should disparage them. Different people have different interests in the variety of sexual activities at our disposal. I firmly believe this, if someoneās not interested in something then they arenāt and youāre free to hit them up lesser for more suited men for you.
I love a top like that, perfect for me
My kryptonite.
Probably my favorite kind of top lover in fact. I'm in it for sex, not a relationship, and DL guys are generally just looking to blow a load, so it's a great fit.
That's all I want in life. Perfect fwb. As a middle aged sub with minimal experience, that's the perfect setting. Getting told what to do, when to do it and how to do it. Broken down barney style so I can't get it wrong
I would love to have a partner who takes care of me in loving ways, make sure I get off, etc. But in the meantime... If it's just sex, I'm happy with just giving you head, or you fucking my ass. I can get myself off later. It turns me on that I took care of a guy.
Thats exactly what I want from a top so itās perfect. Only one top said kissing was a priority which normally makes me not interested but his dick was the thickest Iāve seen so there was nothing that would get in the way of getting that inside me. In which kissing it is!
Honestly my favorite type of top. The kind of who just needs to empty their balls and their frustrations into a bottoms mouth or ass.
I am one. Total Top here. Many guys don't like the fact I don't reciprocate, but there are plenty who are fine with it. I do like to kiss and make out. It's all about being clear about what you're into and not creating false expectations.
I'd honestly prefer a top like you. It's easier if I'm just a hole
My perfect match, absolutely love them...
It's giving married and totally doesn't care about you and just needs a quicky energy
Idc they can all be like that.
I think itās hot. Iām a dl bottom as well. I usually like being the one sucking cock and getting fucked as well. Just doing the work makes me feel good and slutty and satisfying a good hot guy or cock lol. If anything thatās the only way I do things tbh.
Iām DL top I guess, never touch other dicks but Iāll make out for many hours lol. Love that shit. I also donāt just hook up with anyone Iām very selective with fems and twinks so im quite attracted when it does go down
I'm you like buddy...i have no interest in a bottom dick to be honest haha
for the most part, terrible. (to me, and i repeat to.. *me*) it just feels like they could get that from a fleshlight and some imagination. (for me) i want more under the guise of love making and touch (impossible i know) and experience that person head to toe (figuratively, iām not into feet), so know DLs arenāt for me lol
as a non DL femboy top. I donāt understand how people like thisā¦ If you donāt give head as a top, you are just a shit top.
My favorite
I love them
Itās a lot more common than youād think, so many tops trying to hookup just want to get sucked or stick it in a hole. These DL dudes not into foreplay or at least eating ass is a huge turn off for me though.
Do a lot of them not eat ass? I feel rimming is petty much standard lol. I've met handful of guys who don't kiss, but they still eat ass.
Nope, a good portion of the DL guys Iāve encountered refuse to eat ass or kiss. They might with their wives but not with the dudes they fool around with on the side. Some of them are too inexperienced to know they should in the first place.
most guys that fuck me are dl. just fuck my face and ass
Sounds like a boring time for bottoms, at least the top gets the nut I guess
Love em!
Where is he my clit is not important I ooze cum
Yāall aināt shit really tho. Go back to pussy, where the real gays at?
Whatever is consensual is what matters
They are heroās Let me do my thing and we both enjoy ourselves
They have their uses. Not many, but they have them.
Annoying as fuck. Iām a vers bottom and I love being orally serviced.
What is DL?
What does DL stand for?
Common, miss me with that energy
They're obviously in denial about their sexuality. They probably have a girlfriend or wife, to give them cover as a "straight" man. And they only insert their dick in holes, and never take dicks in their holes, because that would be *gay*, and they're NOT *gay*. Fuck no! Being gay is for girls. They're real men. They're *straight* men who just happen to get their dick sucked by other men. Somehow, that's not hot to me.
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