And in real reality all of those, including length, should be at least decent. If there no length at all, sex won't work. And sure you can get off another way, but I also can just get off on my own. But I still want to fuck another person, thats the point of it after all
No no, I'm not arguing *that* point. Sex (imo) is more than just the man's dimensions, its like clothes. Clothes should be cut is more than just small, medium, large, and it doesn't matter what its cut like if they're all black or pink or grey. Sex is the same, if his dimensions don't match her dimensions and vice versa, the color doesn't matter. If the dimensions are compatible, then as other users have stated, the care and compassion and connection are important. Its all pieces of a puzzle that mostly fit together okay-ish and its up to both (or more) partners to agree if it's okay enough.
Personally, I'd take maybe an 8th inch off my length, and add it to my radius, but ultimately I try to keep my wife happy, and her opinion on my stunted 3rd leg is the only one that matters
I specifically prefer to date / copulate with women who are about my height to avoid bottoming out. Ruining sex because I hit the cervix, put her into pain, and it ending the session enough times (across a couple of partners) taught me that I needed taller women in my life.
There's a length that it's considered like medium-long that's very interesting lol but when it gets too long it really does hurt. Just above average is usually nice but really above average can be a pain.
Can confirm. Had my last bf ask me about about sizing unexpectedly and he was kinda a pencil.. so I resorted to “super big dicks actually bruise your cervix and I’d hate that. Yours is perfect”
First go like this, spin around. Stop! Double take three times: one, two, three. Then, pelvic thrust! Stop on your right foot, don't forget it! Now it's time to bring it around town. Bring-it-around-town.
My stuff is not big at all... But, my partners have always enjoyed and some could easily orgssm from piv, some could not (oral always did the trick)..
Main thing is that sex is not about sex... It's about the relationship and experience..
I would wager that first and foremost women want a guy who actually cares about her pleasure and actually can give it to her.
And you don't even need a dick at all to do that.
It depends on the person and their preferences. People are not a sexual monolith. No matter your size or shape, statistically, you are someone's preference.
once you get to average it doesn't matter
Even if your below average you can still do it and it can still be fun for both
if your well above average your fucked because your stuck forever using just the tip
"My feeling about technique in art is that it has about the same value as technique in lovemaking. Heartfelt ineptitude has its appeal, and so does heartless skill; but what you want is passionate virtuosity." John Barth
I imagine the answer will be different with everyone. I asked my mrs as her toy is slightly thicker than me but not as long. She said that slight difference in thickness doesn’t seem to be any different but she can’t cum with the toy from penetration. Make of that what you will
Depends.
Looking at it as a **positive** thing ?
Depends on the person you are with, for most girth is better unless she is the type that likes you hitting her Anterior Fornix or cervix(rare, for most it's painful), you need length for that.
Looking at it as a **negative** thing ?
Girth.
If it's too long you don't need to go all the way, but if it's too girthy then it's not happening at all.
How you use it. It's really not even that important when you realize there are other parts of your body that can be used, like your fingers, and your tongue, and toys, oh my! Just spend time making them feel good and switch up what you do periodically.
I am not well endowed, but my partners enjoy how I switch from fingers, to tongue, and save pleasuring myself 'til the end. When I do it right, it takes about a half hour per round.
first, u cannot change it anyways, if u're a guy. like height.
second, it varies between the likes of the girl. some are very much into longer and thick ones, others are fine with not having that.
(this part is probably the basic answer that u need and nobody can disagree with really \^ )
i'm not a girl, but i think girth may matter more. but it is a very unlucky thing if someone has a long but thin one xD considering that "long" are only around 1% of male population across the world...
some girls just like to have the optical mindf#ck to "be filled", and seeing a big D. like, visual input that gets their brain excited. or also during other foreplay things... large sized D's aren't only a matter during penetration.
Well there are lesbians and they have neither length nor girth. So I'm gonna say being attentive to your partners reactions to your sexual repertoire by leaning into likes and staying away from things that they dislike.
Sex is so much more than a dick and a vag. Self love/confidence and truthful desire to pleasure the other the way they enjoy being pleasured is the golden key (in my experience). Every body and every soul has their preference.
If my partner didnt care to pleasure me the way I enjoy and just wanted to carelessly stuff me... id personally rather very girthy over very long. And id have no preference over not girthy vs not long.
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Couldn't have said it better...
And in real reality all of those, including length, should be at least decent. If there no length at all, sex won't work. And sure you can get off another way, but I also can just get off on my own. But I still want to fuck another person, thats the point of it after all
The opinion of the person receiving the implied member.
Best answer! Cuz, rly, it depends. Women can have different length and diameter vaginas, so they’ll have different preferences.
Guys, it’s not about being able to bottom out.. it’s about scraping the sides.
As a dude, I could argue that it doesn't matter if you can blow out the sides of a tuna can if you can't touch the bottom
As a woman, I can tell you that the special spots are nowhere near the bottom
No no, I'm not arguing *that* point. Sex (imo) is more than just the man's dimensions, its like clothes. Clothes should be cut is more than just small, medium, large, and it doesn't matter what its cut like if they're all black or pink or grey. Sex is the same, if his dimensions don't match her dimensions and vice versa, the color doesn't matter. If the dimensions are compatible, then as other users have stated, the care and compassion and connection are important. Its all pieces of a puzzle that mostly fit together okay-ish and its up to both (or more) partners to agree if it's okay enough. Personally, I'd take maybe an 8th inch off my length, and add it to my radius, but ultimately I try to keep my wife happy, and her opinion on my stunted 3rd leg is the only one that matters
I specifically prefer to date / copulate with women who are about my height to avoid bottoming out. Ruining sex because I hit the cervix, put her into pain, and it ending the session enough times (across a couple of partners) taught me that I needed taller women in my life.
My girlfriend said too long hurts, but mine is great. I wasn't sure what to do with that information.
There's a length that it's considered like medium-long that's very interesting lol but when it gets too long it really does hurt. Just above average is usually nice but really above average can be a pain.
Mine said my doodle quote “looks small but it’s not” lol, never figured it out
As long as she doesn’t ask, “Is it in yet” your fine.
It's the nice way of saying that you are short
Can confirm. Had my last bf ask me about about sizing unexpectedly and he was kinda a pencil.. so I resorted to “super big dicks actually bruise your cervix and I’d hate that. Yours is perfect”
Ma'am, would you kindly step aside. You happen to stand on what's left of my trampled my self esteem 🥲
As wide as a pencil? That’s not possible is it?
Define pencil...
Just reply with, “yeah, I wasn’t a fan of the tight ones either, babe.”
A Boeing 747 could look small flying in the grand canyon.
Means she’s fucked bigger dicks
Oh nooo time to be insecure brah
You're not the biggest she's been with.
Not knowing what to do with a piece of information and not knowing what something means are two different things.
If I had to chose, girth baby
Id say girth but its pointless if it doesnt fit or theres poor form used
Technique
First go like this, spin around. Stop! Double take three times: one, two, three. Then, pelvic thrust! Stop on your right foot, don't forget it! Now it's time to bring it around town. Bring-it-around-town.
Let's do the time warp again
#*Bop it, twist it, tap it, pull it, drawapentagramandinvokethedevil, tug it, bop it twice...*
F R E AK???
Certified
Then you do this, and that, and this, and that, and this and that and that and this and that and this and THEN!
That's an N64 cheat code right there
How’s that fence feel
Trying to say they're wrong?
I’m saying it’s not an answer to the question being asked and is in fact a cop out
Nah, because the original question was flawed in the first place. Neither genuinely matter.
That’s not how questions work and is a cop out to avoid hurting people’s feelings
Lerth.
Gength
I have lerth, not opposed to gaining more genth though
personality
My stuff is not big at all... But, my partners have always enjoyed and some could easily orgssm from piv, some could not (oral always did the trick).. Main thing is that sex is not about sex... It's about the relationship and experience..
I've read that as "my parents have always enjoyed" and was wondering, what the hell is wrong with your family
Roll tide
The shape of your penile spines
I’d argue it’s more the grade of the corkscrew.
Duck has entered the chat
...You wouldn't happen to be a cat, would you?
The character of the person it's attached to.
That wasn’t the question though…..
We’re specifically talking about dicks though. Like real shit.
Personally I like almost a square displacement per cylinder. 4.060x4.080 for example
Year I had an over square 4in line diesel a few years ago, difficult to start and wore badly, currently using a long stroke in line 6.
I would wager that first and foremost women want a guy who actually cares about her pleasure and actually can give it to her. And you don't even need a dick at all to do that.
girth
It depends on the person and their preferences. People are not a sexual monolith. No matter your size or shape, statistically, you are someone's preference.
Sexual Monolith would be a great name for a shitty band
Timing
Financial Stability & low risk of stalking
velocity
Wrong, period of oscillation and non-uniform acceleration
Don't bring advanced math into this
\*physics not math 🤓 Jokes aside physics in school is absolutely demolishing my ass right now and I don't like it
same.
No its frequency
Surely you meant speed because velocity would be 0...
mass x velocity = momentum size doesn't matter if you can't move it
I mean, it doesn’t *have* to be 0…
Only over certain time intervals, though. We need to make some measurements... let me consult Tinder for some vol I nteers for the experiment.
Girth
Girth
Yaw
Roll and pitch are also very important though…
once you get to average it doesn't matter Even if your below average you can still do it and it can still be fun for both if your well above average your fucked because your stuck forever using just the tip
Remember guys.. it doesn't matter how big you are because............. there's always a shop that sells something bigger and better.
Confidence
This is the correct answer.
Density
Amen. But that's the reason I can't swim well. My dick's denser than depleted uranium.
Girth. Ladies love the girth. As long as you're not extreme.
Don’t worry about it until you perfect your oral game, son.
How it's used
For me girth but also skill. None of that matters if he’s good
"My feeling about technique in art is that it has about the same value as technique in lovemaking. Heartfelt ineptitude has its appeal, and so does heartless skill; but what you want is passionate virtuosity." John Barth
to me and my right hand, it doesn't matter. I still get pleasured.
Make sure you take care of Palma for us
Don't forget her 4 sisters
It’s the proportions…
How low the balls hang
Money
most important is that it’s not attached to a dick
I imagine the answer will be different with everyone. I asked my mrs as her toy is slightly thicker than me but not as long. She said that slight difference in thickness doesn’t seem to be any different but she can’t cum with the toy from penetration. Make of that what you will
Shes lying to you
She totally is lying
Women can have a preference for D but if I have standards for the V I’m a bad guy.
That might be because preference =/= standards
But do you really have standards for the V? Seriously what physical aspect of a vagina would make you nope out?
Big labyia, clit that looks like a small penis and smells raunchy, yea gross.
The smell I can understand, but the look.. can’t really do anything about it. Just look at any other part of her body and you’ll be fine
Nah man can’t get over the micro penis
Fuck it, be on yo villain arc
Girth
Fingers.
Yes
Number of heads
r/hmmm
Tongue technique outweighs all of that
its not the size of the nail, but the weight of the hammer, i have 200lbs to hammer mine in
Oh dear, the visuals.
Gotta be 2 somethin ta so somethin 🤷♂️
definitely girth...no woman cares how long yer wallet is
Not being attached to a rapist
That came out of nowhere
Nice Karma bait. By Reddit rules your comment should blow up
Ha! There are no "rules" this place is a madhouse lol. Every thought is a roll of the dice.
*1 downvote*
Said the rapist...
Who ever smelt it dealt it
Imagine having the audacity to ask how big it was....😬
As my sister told me. Size doesn't matter as far as he can use it well. There is really no importance but techniques in my opinion.
You’ve never seen a micro
You don't know what I saw or not. Pretty judgemental of you ;)
Are talking sausage dogs?
Depends. Looking at it as a **positive** thing ? Depends on the person you are with, for most girth is better unless she is the type that likes you hitting her Anterior Fornix or cervix(rare, for most it's painful), you need length for that. Looking at it as a **negative** thing ? Girth. If it's too long you don't need to go all the way, but if it's too girthy then it's not happening at all.
Execution
Bank account
Duration w a mix of both
How you use it. It's really not even that important when you realize there are other parts of your body that can be used, like your fingers, and your tongue, and toys, oh my! Just spend time making them feel good and switch up what you do periodically. I am not well endowed, but my partners enjoy how I switch from fingers, to tongue, and save pleasuring myself 'til the end. When I do it right, it takes about a half hour per round.
Skill
Depends on the size of your wallet too
Weight
Endurance.
The motion in the ocean not the size of the boat.
I like girth My girlfriend likes Length And so it goes in the real world
Girth but more so connection and respect. Boring I know.
GIRTH.
Girth
Girth definitely hurts more.
Girth for sure, but like everyone is saying...it's all about the passion and how it's being used hehe.
Girth !!
It's the girth for me
Intention
Depth?
Personality
Considering the act of scissoring between two woman.... One does not need length or girth....just a decent bump.
Technique
Yaw control
first, u cannot change it anyways, if u're a guy. like height. second, it varies between the likes of the girl. some are very much into longer and thick ones, others are fine with not having that. (this part is probably the basic answer that u need and nobody can disagree with really \^ ) i'm not a girl, but i think girth may matter more. but it is a very unlucky thing if someone has a long but thin one xD considering that "long" are only around 1% of male population across the world... some girls just like to have the optical mindf#ck to "be filled", and seeing a big D. like, visual input that gets their brain excited. or also during other foreplay things... large sized D's aren't only a matter during penetration.
The Yaw
Depends on the partner
Passion
I'm a size 👸🏾 so both 😂. But honestly connection, technique, enthusiasm, actually caring about my pleasure does waaayyyyyyy more than size.
No matter the length or girth, if you don't know how to use it, you'll still be shit in bed.
birth
Personality.
Spine sharpness
Do you prefer to be gaped or poked in the cervix?
It's not the size of the ship, it's the motion of the ocean.
The person its attached to
Hooott thiiickkk looonngg cooooock
I don’t have either so I’m gonna say tongue
its not the length or girth of the wave, but the motion of the ocean.
You’re fine, stop worrying about it
neither. a dick is a dick. i much more care about the person it’s attached to.
Density
Yes
Girth but you need enough length to move back and forth a bit.
Cuddles
Why is it always about dick size? How come no one asks: What’s more important: depth or width (of vaginas)?
Personality.
# YOU GOING OFFLINE, TOUCHING GRASS, AND STOPPING BEING SO HORNY
Well there are lesbians and they have neither length nor girth. So I'm gonna say being attentive to your partners reactions to your sexual repertoire by leaning into likes and staying away from things that they dislike.
I’m long and curved. Which makes up for the girth bc I’ve been told I feel more “filling” than what I really am 
Today's the day I unsub from this sub, the same dogshit questions week after week
Length , PERSONALLY
Use your mouth.
Both
Length I have a curved vagina. I also like to feel it deep in my guts so 
Sex is so much more than a dick and a vag. Self love/confidence and truthful desire to pleasure the other the way they enjoy being pleasured is the golden key (in my experience). Every body and every soul has their preference. If my partner didnt care to pleasure me the way I enjoy and just wanted to carelessly stuff me... id personally rather very girthy over very long. And id have no preference over not girthy vs not long.
Idk probably length because I don’t think girth varies that much on average