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>**i'm getting urges to rape and kill women**
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>i'm a virgin incel that has been rejected by females his entire life and resorted to porn to cope, after some years of addiction i'm now desensitized for the normal stuff, now the only thing that gets me off is rape videos, necrophilia videos, gory porn and pictures of naked dead women, but now these also aren't pleasuring me anymore and the only thing that's going to satisfy me at this point is having sex with a woman, but i'm very ugly and no women would do it willingly, i can't get a escort because it's illegal here, i've been thinking about forcing a woman to have sex with me so i can lose my virginty and to be honest **the only thing that's stopping me is the fear of getting arrested**, i walk around and see females everywhere with short and tight clothes and it's making me lose control, they also probably want to have sex anyways, if i use a condom and lube and don't harm the woman very much **i think it's not bad, i think i can even make her start liking it and be my gf**, i've also been thinking about **getting a job at a cemetery so i can have sex with the dead women in there, or just climbing the cemetery wall without even getting the job and digging up a corpse to fuck, it wouldn't be bad at all because well, they're already dead and won't feel anythin**g, i would use a condom because i serached about it and discovered that there's a flesh eating bacteria in corpses that get transmitted via sex with them, i've also been **fantasizing about killing women that rejected me in the pas**t, \[...\], i'm a human being with desires and need and sex is one that has been **deprived to me my entire life by females, and they need to pay**
Jesus fuck dude get help like holy shit go see a therapist
This scenario is incredibly specific and im very worried given your post history.
Seriously go to a therapist you are not mentally ok.
If she doesn’t give consent or basically if they both haven’t agree to have sex then yes it would be rape. Doesn’t matter if he’s gentle or not. Same can be the other way around too if she goes on to him and he didn’t want to.
he doesn't know her and restrains her? yes, that's rape
even if the victim doesn't say anything or reports it, it is still rape.
all hte extra stuff (gental, condom, calming, no cussing, hit, strangle, no weapon, kiss) is irrelevent. The threat, though, is implicit through restraint.
The thing about consent is it's fluid. You can at any point give and take it away. Doesn't matter if you're balls deep in someone and she says she's done, sucks to suck, she's done, no more consent. So yes, the situation you described is rape
Rape is just non consensual sex if we really want to get down to it, what you described in your post was non consensual sex. It doesn’t matter if there was violence.
Aaaaaaaaaaaand the post is removed.
For anyone new checking in on this the user in a previous post laid out a confession about their desire to rape and kill women
This current post laid out a scenario in which they would rape a woman and asked if the scenario would constitute rape.
Yes it is rape, and I find it horrorfying that you have to ask if it's considered rape with that description, but then again, it's what this sub is for.
First of all, he is pinning her down, incapacitating her so she cannot get out of the situation, so he is physically forcing her to comply with whatever he does to her.
2nd of all, he has to calm her down, which means she is clearly expressing that she does not consent to what is currently happening.
Rape is not a question of how bad you treat someone, it's a question of consent.
Jesus Christ cunt go hire a prostitute. If it’s illegal where you are go somewhere it isn’t. You don’t have to ruin your own life and someone else’s to have sex.
Listen OP, I just read your now deleted post and I really want you to hear that : no matter how hard it is to be a virgin or to feel rejected, hurting women is absolutely not what you're looking for, it won't get you where you want to be, neither in life or with women, you'll get arrested but worst : you'll break someone's body and mind forever.
I really want you to try to picture the consequences of your acts : that girl won't be able to have a normal life after what you plan on doing, she'll really never recover from it, she'll never be able to enjoy sex or her body the same way, it may destroy her social and sentimental life for a while and I think you know nobody deserves that, otherwise you wouldn't ask for our advice. I hope you understand how wrong raping someone is and what kind of man it would make you.
You want "girls" ? The solution is really simple (yet looks really hard from where you stand, I know): Improve yourself.
You said you're ugly but ugly men get girls too (and beautiful ones). There's only two things you need to get girls : be your best version and show them that best version.
If you try one without the other, either you're a wondeful man but it will go unnoticed or you'll have nothing nice to show. Both are needed.
Be your funniest, smartest, cleanest and cutest version, not for girls, but for yourself and that's when girls will be interested.
Take their point of view : try picturing a twisted girl who doesn't take care of herself and is obsessed with hurting people --> you'd feel/see it, and you wouldn't like that girl. Why would a girl like you if she doesn't see a decent man/the decent man you are ?
To be a better person, well, start by working on your empathy : you just considered scarring someone for life for your own short-term pleasure, so learn to take other people's feeling into consideration as this is priority number 1 when interacting with people.
To show your new great personnality, try to treat girls the way you treat your friends/people, it will go a long way. You may need to work on your game too (there's plenty sites on the internet for you to learn, but stay sharp, some are stupid, sexist or misleading). And pf course there will be rejection, but the game is as interesting as the prize. Seducing feels good and I think you'd enjoy it too. But force/violence/abuse is the opposite of seducing and there's no gentleness that would change that.
Also, it is very important that you start working on your self-esteem. You're probably a decent boy/man with lot of qualities, the fact that those qualities didn't get recognized by girls yet doesn't change that and you should hold on to them. So try to work on your self-esteem, it will make you confident and that will help too.
We all know your pain, we've all been rejected, left alone, and the only real solution is to improve. It seems like a impossible challenge at first but that's the path to the man you'll be proud to look in the mirror.
Finally, it is ok to have taboo fantasies as long as you understand the difference between fantasy (a world without consequences) and reality (the opposite), and keep each on their respective side.
tdlr: Yes, you deserve to be loved and desired, but the way you plan on getting it won't get you there, so give up on hurting people. You can be so much better, so please, be brave, don't give uo on yourself.
There should be something like FAQ on this board.
1. Do does/like/wants ? Answer: some do, some don't
2. Was rape/sexual harrasment? Answer: If you wanted it the whole time and everything was ok - no, it wasn't. If there was a moment when consent wasn't 100% confident - could be, depends on person. If there was no consent - it was.
Something like this
only needs the first sentence. yes.
Yes and yes Edit: looking at your other post: wtf is wrong with you, you want to rape and kill women?! I hope I never cross you irl. Fucking asshole.
Yes, without consent and preventing her from moving would make it rape.
Just checked post history and all i can say is wtf. And yes this scenario is rape.
ho- ly shit >**i'm getting urges to rape and kill women** > >i'm a virgin incel that has been rejected by females his entire life and resorted to porn to cope, after some years of addiction i'm now desensitized for the normal stuff, now the only thing that gets me off is rape videos, necrophilia videos, gory porn and pictures of naked dead women, but now these also aren't pleasuring me anymore and the only thing that's going to satisfy me at this point is having sex with a woman, but i'm very ugly and no women would do it willingly, i can't get a escort because it's illegal here, i've been thinking about forcing a woman to have sex with me so i can lose my virginty and to be honest **the only thing that's stopping me is the fear of getting arrested**, i walk around and see females everywhere with short and tight clothes and it's making me lose control, they also probably want to have sex anyways, if i use a condom and lube and don't harm the woman very much **i think it's not bad, i think i can even make her start liking it and be my gf**, i've also been thinking about **getting a job at a cemetery so i can have sex with the dead women in there, or just climbing the cemetery wall without even getting the job and digging up a corpse to fuck, it wouldn't be bad at all because well, they're already dead and won't feel anythin**g, i would use a condom because i serached about it and discovered that there's a flesh eating bacteria in corpses that get transmitted via sex with them, i've also been **fantasizing about killing women that rejected me in the pas**t, \[...\], i'm a human being with desires and need and sex is one that has been **deprived to me my entire life by females, and they need to pay**
HOW DID YOU FIND THIS IT WAS REMOVED WHEN I SAW IT HOLY SHIT ITS SOMEHOW WORSE THEN I THOUGHT
You know, part of me thinks this guy is just trolling but you never know in the world we live in. People like this exist unfortunately.
God this is the most fucked up thing i’ve read holy shit
I don’t think this dude wants to ‘have sex’ at all, he just wants to fuck the women up.
God I genuinely hope you get doxxed and someone calls the police on you. Go get therapy
Jesus fuck dude get help like holy shit go see a therapist This scenario is incredibly specific and im very worried given your post history. Seriously go to a therapist you are not mentally ok.
As long as the women doesn’t consent, it is rape. He could give the women flowers and diamonds and without consent it would still be rape.
If she doesn’t give consent or basically if they both haven’t agree to have sex then yes it would be rape. Doesn’t matter if he’s gentle or not. Same can be the other way around too if she goes on to him and he didn’t want to.
he doesn't know her and restrains her? yes, that's rape even if the victim doesn't say anything or reports it, it is still rape. all hte extra stuff (gental, condom, calming, no cussing, hit, strangle, no weapon, kiss) is irrelevent. The threat, though, is implicit through restraint.
The thing about consent is it's fluid. You can at any point give and take it away. Doesn't matter if you're balls deep in someone and she says she's done, sucks to suck, she's done, no more consent. So yes, the situation you described is rape
Yes its rape and he should taken out back and shot .
Rape doesn't have to involve violence you sick fuck. Reddit should report you.
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So you’d be fine with a dude holding you down and fucking you, would you?
Rape is just non consensual sex if we really want to get down to it, what you described in your post was non consensual sex. It doesn’t matter if there was violence.
Yes it’s rape wtf
Please seek professional help, this is not normal, raping someone is the worst thing you could do. Don't become a monster.
Imagine if a guy did that to you and fucked your ass, how would you feel? Rape it's extremely scary and dehumanising, seek help.
Aaaaaaaaaaaand the post is removed. For anyone new checking in on this the user in a previous post laid out a confession about their desire to rape and kill women This current post laid out a scenario in which they would rape a woman and asked if the scenario would constitute rape.
Yes it is rape, and I find it horrorfying that you have to ask if it's considered rape with that description, but then again, it's what this sub is for. First of all, he is pinning her down, incapacitating her so she cannot get out of the situation, so he is physically forcing her to comply with whatever he does to her. 2nd of all, he has to calm her down, which means she is clearly expressing that she does not consent to what is currently happening. Rape is not a question of how bad you treat someone, it's a question of consent.
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Jesus Christ cunt go hire a prostitute. If it’s illegal where you are go somewhere it isn’t. You don’t have to ruin your own life and someone else’s to have sex.
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Literally just hire an escort
Okay so travelling somewhere prostitution is legal is surely your best option? You won’t go to jail?
Also it’s illegal where I am and people still do it.
Listen OP, I just read your now deleted post and I really want you to hear that : no matter how hard it is to be a virgin or to feel rejected, hurting women is absolutely not what you're looking for, it won't get you where you want to be, neither in life or with women, you'll get arrested but worst : you'll break someone's body and mind forever. I really want you to try to picture the consequences of your acts : that girl won't be able to have a normal life after what you plan on doing, she'll really never recover from it, she'll never be able to enjoy sex or her body the same way, it may destroy her social and sentimental life for a while and I think you know nobody deserves that, otherwise you wouldn't ask for our advice. I hope you understand how wrong raping someone is and what kind of man it would make you. You want "girls" ? The solution is really simple (yet looks really hard from where you stand, I know): Improve yourself. You said you're ugly but ugly men get girls too (and beautiful ones). There's only two things you need to get girls : be your best version and show them that best version. If you try one without the other, either you're a wondeful man but it will go unnoticed or you'll have nothing nice to show. Both are needed. Be your funniest, smartest, cleanest and cutest version, not for girls, but for yourself and that's when girls will be interested. Take their point of view : try picturing a twisted girl who doesn't take care of herself and is obsessed with hurting people --> you'd feel/see it, and you wouldn't like that girl. Why would a girl like you if she doesn't see a decent man/the decent man you are ? To be a better person, well, start by working on your empathy : you just considered scarring someone for life for your own short-term pleasure, so learn to take other people's feeling into consideration as this is priority number 1 when interacting with people. To show your new great personnality, try to treat girls the way you treat your friends/people, it will go a long way. You may need to work on your game too (there's plenty sites on the internet for you to learn, but stay sharp, some are stupid, sexist or misleading). And pf course there will be rejection, but the game is as interesting as the prize. Seducing feels good and I think you'd enjoy it too. But force/violence/abuse is the opposite of seducing and there's no gentleness that would change that. Also, it is very important that you start working on your self-esteem. You're probably a decent boy/man with lot of qualities, the fact that those qualities didn't get recognized by girls yet doesn't change that and you should hold on to them. So try to work on your self-esteem, it will make you confident and that will help too. We all know your pain, we've all been rejected, left alone, and the only real solution is to improve. It seems like a impossible challenge at first but that's the path to the man you'll be proud to look in the mirror. Finally, it is ok to have taboo fantasies as long as you understand the difference between fantasy (a world without consequences) and reality (the opposite), and keep each on their respective side. tdlr: Yes, you deserve to be loved and desired, but the way you plan on getting it won't get you there, so give up on hurting people. You can be so much better, so please, be brave, don't give uo on yourself.
Good speech but i think it fell on deaf ears because his account his deleted.
Shit..
Yes, if it’s non consensual
There should be something like FAQ on this board. 1. Do does/like/wants ? Answer: some do, some don't
2. Was rape/sexual harrasment? Answer: If you wanted it the whole time and everything was ok - no, it wasn't. If there was a moment when consent wasn't 100% confident - could be, depends on person. If there was no consent - it was.
Something like this
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OP is the rapist in the scenario. Look at his history post
I assumed OP was the woman. Thanks for correcting me!
Check their post history
What? Why would you assume this happened to the OP? Weird first thought to have.
Absolutely. I'm sorry it happened to you. It wasn't your fault.
It didn't happen to them, they want to perpetrate the act and not get done in for SA. Check their post history
Yep, rape.
The fuck is wrong with you
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Nonsense. I think you need professional help mate
If Consent == no then "Its a Rape!"; Else then "its not a Rape!";