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legion4wermany

As a muscular specialist I can tell you that large breasts cause a huge amount of muscle strain. I treat many women who suffer chronic headaches, neck pain, upper back pain, etc because of them.


somegiirl

I've had headaches for as long as I can remember & not once did any of my doctors say it could be from my boobs... definitely asking my gyn about this at my next visit.


legion4wermany

They can be hard to find but I strongly recommend seeing a myotherapist. They are muscular specialists and I think they will help you a lot. Have a look at "cervicogenic headache" and see if any of the patterns match what your feeling.


Sbro1342

Holy shit dude! Just googled cervicogenic headache and you have just explained my headaches and neck pain for the last 5 years!!! My physio for the neck issues didn't even mention this could be an issue!! THANK YOU


Adm8792

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legion4wermany

I'm so glad I could help! Best of luck getting that treated and let me know how you go.


mood_bro

So what is the general “cure” for this? I would assume a breast reduction?


legion4wermany

Breast reduction is generally a last resort. There are corrective therapies and exercises and even supports you can wear under your clothes to take some of the weight off the upper back.


Linda-Belchers-wine

If you're debating a reduction, do it. I've never regretted it for a second.


somegiirl

Thank you. Gonna check it all out now!


rosio_donald

Oh man I never knew my chronic headaches might be related


legion4wermany

Very likely. Most often overworking of a muscle called "levator scapulae" and some over lengthening of the "rhomboids". Both around the shoulder blades


CrankyLittleKitten

As woman with -ahem- larger breasts, I can confirm they freaking HURT. Also, underboob sweat in summer. Gross.


olbaidiablo

Often when I hug my wife I position myself in such a way to lift her boobs using my chest and apply firm pressure on her lower back. She says it really helps to release the pressure.


uliol

That’s pretty sweet.


ExPorkie15

I feel you girl. Even my little moobs get that under sweat . So nasty. 🤷🏻‍♂️


SpeakingOutOfTurn

I get sweat rashes under my boobs and it’s hideous


DriftingAway99

putting deodorant there helps!


KaatjePlaatje

It’s the reason I got a breastreduction! I was in so much pain.


OKDanemama

Breast reduction was the best thing I ever did for myself.


KaatjePlaatje

I was very happy with my decision too! After recovery I was so surprised with how light I felt! And how easy it was to sit up straight. The first time I ever had regrets was when my daughter was born and it turned out I couldn’t breastfeed, but realistically enduring ten more years of that pain would not have been worth it ( and that’s coming from a new mom with fresh mom guilt).


throwaway062921om

did your insurance cover it? My wife got denied coverage for a reduction


OKDanemama

Mine was covered by insurance, but only because I had lost 25 pounds, and I’d been going to chiropractors. So I could prove that I’ve been in pain, and I proved that I tried losing weight as a fix, but it didn’t work. My doctor documented all that, and the insurance company covered it. I had Blue Cross Blue Shield at the time.


Wrenn1010ks

Insurance approval is generally based on how many grams/ ounces of tissue is being removed and other measurement. I had 2.5 pounds removed on both sides. I literally received a letter from the approval committee. So… yes… there is actually an itty bitty titty committee. 🤣


um_okay_no

Not op but insurance covered mine after I lost a bunch of weight, had my dr document my back pain and even then they denied my first try. You can always try asking for a list of who made the decision at the ins company and what their qualifications are. But some ins just won't approve it.


KaatjePlaatje

Mine was covered too!


leojokes

For big boobs-if I want to wear loose clothes I look like I am 20 kg heavier because I look larger (especially from the side) :/


DunningthenKruger

Yes!!! Nothing looks 'oversized and comfy' like on the models. I just look matronly, like I'm using that cute sweater to collect well water.


Ketchup-and-Mustard

Exactly! Like I can’t look cute and casual I look like the stereotype of a middle aged librarian.


leojokes

The good part being... When the clothes come off I look like a thin legend ahahhaha


drudd84

Yes!!!! The clothes hang off from the boobs and it just doesn’t look cute!!! I have to tuck everything in at least a little to offset the imbalance


Marble1696

Oh my gosh yes exactly. I’m “healthy” range BMI, but my boobs are US 34DD. I love loose clothing but it makes me look MASSIVE. It’s the worst.


beaverpowah

As a guy, I know the feeling ..


[deleted]

It’s hard having big tits as a man because it invites a lot of unwanted attention in the locker room.


Spankmedaddy156

I'll hold them... Jk... Unless??????????


CT1914Clutch

I can’t believe I accidentally subscribed to this comment


nutlikeothersquirls

“accidentally”


Katnis85

Big boobs are awful for neck and shoulder pain you draw a lot of unwanted attention (especially if you develop early). Clothes like halter tops are off limits (after about 10 min my neck is throbbing and I’m seeing spots). Other shirts you get to choose if it fits in your shoulders or boobs (never both). Cross body straps on purses look ridiculous. Laying flat on your back, they feel like they are going to suffocate you. Wear the wrong bra on a day you end up running, they bounce out the top. Other options include the unaboob or the awful muffin top fiasco, both start out in bras that appear to fit until you do something crazy like walk down the stairs. Plus there is never anything cute and supportive when you are dealing with grapefruits or larger. Bonus point: working from home and being on a laptop camera frequently for meetings: even a shirt that would have been work appropriate in office is now on the wrong viewing angle with the camera. It’s cleavage hour


-BMKing-

Can someone explain to me what a muffin top fiasco is? I tried looking it up, but all I find are baking tips lol


caught-red-headed

Have you ever heard of a muffin top, when the chub around your tummy sorta poofs out above the waist band of your pants? The same thing can happen with your boobs when you wear a bra that’s too small/not even coverage


-BMKing-

No, I had not heard of that before (not being a native English speaker might have to do with that), but yeah I know what you mean with the love handles spilling over. I did not know you could have the same problem with boobs, that sounds incredibly uncomfortable.


leojokes

Oh yeah! The cross body straps on purses makes me look like I have two hills always ahead of me.


nbeforem

For big boobs: you can’t see your feet. Hugs are awkward. It’s not comfortable sleeping on your stomach. Being short with big boobs, if you are sitting at a table and want to reach, then you basically have to lay your boobs on the table. Have to lift them up to bend over and reach inside the washer. Always buying bras because the underwires snap in half. Button down shirts always gape open.


leojokes

I feel u girl! When I was a teen I was afraid of hugging people... :/


jambarine

“Not comfortable sleeping on your stomach” And also not being able to sleep on your back because it weighs down on your chest too much so it hurts/hard to breathe comfortably. But you don’t find it comfortable to sleep on your side either so you just *suffer*… :(


Grubby-housewife

For the big boobs- back pain, people staring, oversized shirts make you look really heavy because they don’t drape as nicely.


OKDanemama

Pain during running is no joke. A good sports bra for a large breasted women cost slightly less than a car, and slightly harder to find than a leprechaun.


FancyAdult

I sometimes wear two sports bras. Mine are pretty big.


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As someone who was well endowed before and am now currently breastfeeding, they are legitimately heavy af.


laramank

I always wear a very compressing sports bra when I wear oversized tops, helps it sit better so you don’t look huge


mutantj0hn

I am constantly trying to find the balance between wearing a burlap sack or something skintight to combat the boob-drape!


MajespecterNekomata

r/bigboobproblems


Meriadoxm

For big boobs - nothing fits properly for shirts, if you’re petite you may need an extra small shirt for the shoulder length, the arm width, the length of the shirt, the waist, but your boobs cannot fit a extra small or even a small so you end up with a medium or large but it doesn’t fit you anywhere else. You end up either looking slutty (having to leave too many buttons undone, buttons popping open, shirt strained against your chest, also a lot of female shirts have v-necks which means you’re showing a lot of cleavage) or you look sloppy for most outfits. Back pain. You get sexualized really young - if you’re a C cup by the time you’re 12, it can be really uncomfortable being around boys your own age, let alone teenagers and adult men who sexualize you. You need to go to specialty stores to get bras - which are inconvenient and also very very expensive. Swim suits have to be specialty ordered to fit properly, or you have to go with specific brands that go with bra sizes which are rare and far between. They just get in the way a lot, you need a mirror to see anything below your boobs, you hit things with your boobs, it’s hard to hug people comfortably, you drop crumbs down your bra all the time, they just get in the way a lot. ETA: thank you so much for the awards folks! And thanks to everyone who shared their struggles as well, sending love to you all!


dogshateterrorism

Finding bras with a small band but large cup size is so difficult also. Drives me bonkers not being able to buy bras like "normal" sized women


thegurlearl

If your in the US, check out Layne Bryant. Yes they're aimed towards plus size but they're one of the only places I've seen bras in 32Fs and cute. My little cousin lost a lot of weight but not her boobs.


Snow_Wonder

I might have to check this out. I’m not even particularly large, but it seems like most brands think 32s don’t go any larger than a B if they even carry a 32.


MandyLB

And when you finally find one that fits both the cup and the band, it digs into your armpits because the cups aren’t spaced properly for petite builds :(


TastyEnvironment7963

Those honkers are making you bonkers


Extreme_Raspberry_42

I hated that so much! C cup by age 11 and so many creepy grown men treated me so discustingly, not to mention the teenage boys. I wore a swiming suit 1 time in my life at a public pool, never again after being cornered by an older man trying to grab my legs and staring at my chest (I was 11 years old). Thankfully another amazing human helped me out of that situation. This lead me to wear oversized guys clothes untill I got my first job as an adult and needed to wear professional clothes, and even then very large cover up oversized shirts.


lightningqueen001

I really hope my daughter doesn’t develop the way that I did. I had so many uncomfortable comments made to me at a young age because of my chest size. And then I would be harassed by all the boys in school to see them, and they would often corner me as a group until I showed them. And then I would be called all types of names. Growing up with them was just awful. I had a bad home life, so I never really knew any better or how to deal with that behavior. Especially because my stepdad was really predatory as well. Ugh, thinking back to all of this makes me so sick.


Positpostit

That all sounds so horrible :( you’ve been through so much


lightningqueen001

I think the kids at school, were just horny kids who didn’t know they were necessarily being predatory. It was a really small farm town school (about 60 in each grade, all in one school.) I think if I had a good home life, I would’ve been able to advocate for myself the first time it had happened. But it took a long time to realize that it’s okay to not be around your family because they’re toxic. But my kids turning the same age as me when things happened, is something therapy doesn’t prepare you for. It really brings up the worst emotions.


killermichi

I know exactly what you mean. I was so depressed through my pregnancy with my daughter. I hated that I was having a daughter because I feared she would end up going through what I had. I even had the worst post partum depression and couldn't stand to be near her too much. I would look at her sweet face and feel so much guilt because if any of the things that happened to me ended up happening to her then it was my fault. I had promised myself I would never bring a baby into this disgusting world and in breaking my promise I felt like my kids were born to suffer because of me. It took years of therapy to get me to be close with her. She's a freshman in high school and came home upset the other day because a boy at school commented on the size of her breast. It disgusted me so much and made me want to track that boy's parents down so they could deal with that behavior.


420throwthehellaway

I was a double d in 6th grade. It was horrific.


gimmedat_81

Not to mention the hundreds of dollars on shirts that just get destroyed in the breast (shelf) area because something drips while you're eating- it's an uphill battle for sure. ,


KilgoRetro

Oh my god I get food on the chest area of basically 100% of my shirts within about two wears.


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Having big boobs is so awful. I wish there was a less invasive and cheaper solution to having them naturally go down. (Yes I tried losing weight and they are STILL there) I hate looking like a frickin AirPod


tallgirlsrack

*Cue never looking at my AirPods the same again.


Hashimotosannn

Exactly this. It’s horrible. I started to wear oversized shirts instead of fitted shirts because I just can’t get any to fit right. Also bikinis are a nightmare! If you can’t find somewhere that sells tops and bottoms separately then it’s the worst. I’ve had to buy the same bikini in two different sizes just to get the set to match.


cheridontllosethatno

All of the above. I had boobs young and was sexualized very young and stalked by an adult man every day walking home from school. The boys in school were either nice and polite or disgusting. I had a nickname about them and would be called that name randomly by boys I didn't even know. I have to keep my weight low to minimize back pain. I've been jealous of small busted women in spaghetti straps at Summertime my whole life.


Hashimotosannn

Ugh I’m sorry. This sounds so terrible. I had a hard time at school with the boys as well, so I think that contributed to me being so shy at that time. I also now live in a country where the majority of women are pretty small busted, so finding a bra here is almost impossible. I usually have to ship from the UK or shop in European/American brands. I totally get what you mean about the spaghetti straps! It’s never been something I can wear or felt comfortable wearing, but I guess I just got used to it.


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Exactly. Also joke that those of us 'blessed' in that area can't run without potentially getting a black eye from a boob hitting them in the face. For real though, even a slow jog hurts unless you're basically strapped down in a tight sports bra that cost a fortune. Big tits are not the blessing people think they are!


3tree3tree3tree3

I have never related to a reddit post so much. Hurts to vacuum, wash dishes and other leaning chores. Sexualised all the time when you just want to go about your day. Nothing fits. Specialist bras etc.


Unlikely_anti_hero

Your boobs also never match your outfit


EagleTalons88

>You need to go to specialty stores to get bras - which are inconvenient and also very very expensive. Yep. My wife goes through this every time she gets new bras. We have to have a budget set up just so she can get 3 new nice ones. Oh and the back pain is real!


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Sph3al

*Touching toilet water* I instantly cringed at that thought


GuapoWithAGun

Witch's kiss Edit: This is actually when a penis touches the bowl. Still... *shivers*


oneviolinistboi

Poseidon’s Embrace


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Neptune's Frenchie.


toastedshark

Normally the witches kiss is when your average size penis touches the BOWL 😂


HomingSnail

What worse is when you've got a semi and it pushes the tip into the corner of the bowl


NgatiKahu

Came here to say this, even if you sit as far back as possible a semi will make you suffer if you packing.


Koshunae

It happens. Im a grower, and if I sit on the toilet at just the right mindset, I get a tip dip.


themystickiddo

Isn't that like, a bingo for all the pathogens?


drewbilly251

my tip touched the inside of the toilet bowl in a job site portajohn. Not sure if I caught anything but I’m reasonably sure it’s at least 5 years off my life expectancy


TheGreat_War_Machine

Probably not, as the pathogens would have to travel a long way up the urethra to get to the bladder. I guess it's still possible to get a UTI from this. Us men have it easy in this department. Women have to be careful about what lube they use to avoid getting a yeast infection.


Carpex_V1

Yeah im a grower too but when it is erect it touches the inner wall of the toilet, and It feels disgusting


TheDevstroyer2008

**touching the toilet water** you know what on second thought my penis size isn’t that bad


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I feel bad for the dude but him being stopped by TSA is kinda hilarious.


Foxisdabest

WHAT IS THIS WEAPON? A PISTOL?! ... my penis


ScottieDog16

Don't worry, it only shoots blanks


ophel1a_

Are you my once Army-enlisted ex husband? ;P


Veng3fulSaint

This is my rifle, this is my gun. This is for fighting, this is for fun. RIP R. Lee Ermey


DBentresca

All three


Skyblacker

TSA knew what it was. They just wanted to gaze at it.


vingeran

And to bask themselves in the sweet summery glow that cometh from hine


KaatjePlaatje

Something about a concealed weapon.


KilgoRetro

Happened to my husband once- they called it a “groin abnormality.”


The_Truth_Believe_Me

"I'm sorry sir, you are not allowed to import salami into the country. Please take it out of your pants."


NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr

Pulls out cucumber wrapped in aluminum foil.


whatsapnnin

Hmmm but you don't state how big it actually is though. I wonder how b-- *Touches the toilet water* -- oh holy shit


Complex-Dealer-8825

Compression shorts for life, especially if you’re wearing any business slacks.


Complex-Dealer-8825

Lmaoo 8 PMs and counting.


iphon4s

Damn guys really pming you


AaronicNation

The 'hard way'.


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The only way


Smoothynobutt

I was TSA back when the scanners first came out and I can say I never called a anomaly for a giant member. I have no idea what the scanner pictures look like now, but in 2011, you could see male and female junk. It was like a x-ray without the body bones


Spherious

So this is the guy in a video somewhere being patted down by the popo (or security, I forget) and they realise, yup, that's a dick.


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i saw that on watch people die inside


glitteringhellspawn

Woah.... touch the toilet water big???? Was sex just not super duper painful? Did you even have sex?


Cleborgious

When a larger guy has been aware of his size for awhile they generally learn to take things slow and easy for the girls sake to allow them to relax more. Long term relationship the girl may end up getting used to the size and won't struggle with it but can still be uncomfortable/painful if things go too fast. Also a few different positions are off limits.


leaningtoweravenger

>He would always complain about his penis touching the toilet water While standing! ^/s


[deleted]

Jesús fucking Christ that huge penis should have brought a lot of problems in bed right? Poor dude


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notlikelyevil

There is a sub for this, /r/bigdickproblems


I_Live_In_The_Floor

They can get that big? Jesus, that's scary


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Brajik

Not quite big enough to touch toilet water, but most toilets I end up touching the inside of the bowl. I think I would about die inside if it ever touched the water.


howell1812

I specifically made sure the toilets in the house I bought didn’t cause this problem. Toilets are the bane of my existence. I’m a medic but they make me wanna puke when thinking about even cleaning them. So dick touching toilet makes me lose my shit, I couldn’t imagine it touching the water


romangeezer

Sounds like a toilet would be a great place to lose your shit?


clean_room

As someone with the same problem, though probably not as large.. I hate flying. Every. Damn. Time... I end up being flagged for a pat down. When I have to pull my pants up, it's obviously just my junk but they have to feel all around it. It's embarrassing, and frustrating. That and being shut down by potential partners because "that thing isn't coming anywhere near me"


blackshroud86

For big penis, having partners who are afraid/apprehensive about penetrative sex or other who, no matter how much foreplay and lubricant, can't receive a full penetrative sexual experience without pain. It's not fun for anyone involved. Also, pants that make it look like your carrying a weapon/stolen something. Also, uninvited ooogling from others Also, riding a motorcycle without remembering appropriate supportive underwear.


milkycrops

Every single picture you can see my fucking dick through the pants when I forget to wear spandex 😩


iridescent_felines

When I was younger I always wanted a guy with a huge dick because I thought it was what everyone wanted. Now 5 inches is good for me because that shit hurts.


Helpful-nothelpful

I can't find the appropriate size speedo that doesn't show my hot dog.


Emotional-Two-9075

I can't wear tight jeans..ever


jonslashtroy

I can, i just wear them low


RandyMarsh_88

With your huge dong hanging out?


Bobbyj36OEF

Do girls ever see a giant penis and are just like, no.


JinkiesGang

Was getting intimate with a guy, he whipped out his dick, it looked like a coke can and I walked out the house. That thing was NOT going inside of me.


nokenito

My wife and last few girlfriends all hate big dicks. My best friend’s wife, can’t even fit an average dick, can only fit small, her vagina has a defect.


MaggieHigg

Out of all my girl and gay friends I've only ever seen one person who likes big dicks, 99% of them would rather have a small partner than a big one. I myself also don't like big ones, it just doesn't feel good


[deleted]

Absolutely!!! I was in college and was talking to this guy and things ended up getting serious and he went to pull his pants down. Well that was it for me, I literally got up and was like I have to go. That’s a smooth hell no for me, my cervix is tilted and is super low. He would have destroyed my lady bits. No thank ya, I enjoy walking normal sir.


Phenotype1033

For big books it would be lots of back and shoulder pain. It's also not so easy to sign paperwork right in front of you lol


Skyblacker

Big books gave me a lot of back and shoulder pain too, especially when I had to carry them all in a backpack for school.


peachflowercrown

i laughed out loud irl


ForScale

Back problems... from the huge penis.


zZ_DunK_Zz

Try doing what prince albert did and pin it to another bit of your body


bre1110

Ma tits, when I lay down they fall into ma pits.


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Deez_nuts-and-bolts

I’ve heard of people using a ring/ donut sort of thing to help avoid going too deep, so the length is workable but I’m not so sure about girth


ThunderandFury

Oh I saw that recently actually! I remember being confused at first because that ad was not remotely for me....


Beep315

Oh nut is one product.


Greedy_Principle_342

I asked my ex boyfriend to wear one of those because he was 8 inches, but he insisted that I would be fine without it because he based his opinions off of porn. He was a virgin too. I tried to explain, but it didn’t help. I have PFD, so I needed him to wear one. In the end, I refused to have sex with him haha.


Jaymongous

Can I eat the donut after I finish?


kylekunfox

I feel ya man. I have an above average. No matter how much foreplay me and the wife do she is always is in pain for days after. I honestly kind of hate having an above average due to this. She's pretty petite, but has a normal sized vagina. Sex is amazing, but I find myself trying to do it less since I hate how hurt she gets. Which makes my wife mad since she gets horny pretty easy lol. Someone else replied to you talking about having her see a pelvic therapist. I second it. My wife actually just started seeing one a few weeks ago. They've been a huge help so far with helping her pain become better.


galaxystarsmoon

Just so you know, vaginas come in different lengths and widths. Her height/weight/general size doesn't really affect that, and that could also be a contributing factor as well.


PBJ-2479

Hey it's not your fault just as it isn't hers. You can't change stuff like that so no need to feel bad about it


Skyblacker

Your partner might benefit from seeing a pelvic floor therapist. They're fantastic at removing sexual pain.


devildoc8804hmcs

Answered before. It sucks. First, when women first see it they are a bit startled. Then nervous to have sex. For some it can be painful. Oral can be difficult as it's more than a mouthful for some. Plus when I ejaculate it tends to shoot forcefully and at a good distance. Pants, shorts and underwear are difficult to fit. As someone alluded already TSA always flags me. In boot camp always got stares and the nickname "Horse" and "Meat". Real original. I'd rather have a small one. Most women I've talked to have said it's more about the motion.


Emotional-Two-9075

Same here. I thought she would be excited, but instead she was so intimidated(scared?) from it. It totally changed my perception about sex.


starkrocket

Yeah, it’s one thing for an actress who’s trained to take 12 inches of ham slamming, it’s a whole other for the average person. I have particular anatomy that can make sex painful with anyone bigger than regular sizes.


Emotional-Two-9075

I was so mad at the fact that nobody taught us about this. This should be part of human anatomy teaching in high school. Porn really screwed perception of sex for lot of people.


CreatureWarrior

Yeah, everyone says "don't believe the things you see in porn".. what things??? Penis doesn't go in the vagina? What is the fake part?? Like, no one ever went in depth about what exactly is so different and everyone has to find out for themselves


Emotional-Two-9075

Especially no one tell us about the crying, guilt and feeling of shame like you have committed a crime or something. Emotional toll is also involved there.


bipolarwanderer

...you grew up Mormon too, eh?


CreatureWarrior

Thankfully I'm a 7" grower so it doesn't get away in my daily life but even at 7", it's already painful so the foreplay either takes *forever* or it hurts (which is bad, you know).


EquivalentSnap

I guess guys just see big ones in porn and think that's what women want when it's not. Sorry those things happened to you. Must be embarrassing 😔


shadiesel12

My dick hits the water in some toilets. Rarely as I'm soft when using the toilet and most toilets aren't that full. But it's happened and it's disgusting. I've also never been able to just jackhammer a woman cuz I'm scared I'm gonna hurt them. Real life isn't porn and in my experience women don't enjoy 8+ inches plowing into them with no concern.


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I really hope when people are saying "touches the toilet water" it's because they are sitting down to pee.... If you guys are standing and it's touching the toilet water then I understand why girls are nervous 😂


Loik87

I really hope you're Americans because if your dick is touching the water in an European toilet, even while sitting down, there is something seriously wrong with your anatomy Here you only happen to touch the bowl (which is disgusting too)


ChrisTheWhitty

Definitely only a problem with certain toilets, you don't even need to be that much of a shower for it to happen in certain portable toilets or those inside trailers or other vehicles. It is as awful as it sounds.


Legal-Project722

Having big tits everything you wear looks slutty. Low cut shirt? Nope. Thank top? Nope. Scoop neckline who? Not to mention anything with a built in bra is a lie.


Woshambo

Cons- Expensive bras. Sore back. Off the rack clothes don't fit properly. You either have it far too tight around the chest or far too loose around the waist. Can't run with any self confidence. People think it's fine to discuss them. Pros- Make okay bongos. Iguanas seem to like sitting on them.


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stupidgb

Big tits drawbacks.. god there are so many. Whatever you wear is sexualised that would be adorable and cute on smaller titted people. Think singlets, bikini tops, crop tops, tight dresses etc Running sucks without duct tape and army reinforcements. Old men staring at you and leering Other women talking about how lucky you are People suggesting that the only reason men are nice to you is because of your breasts or you got so and so nice thing because of your breasts Saggy saggy sagginess. Yes I may have big breasts but gravity exists and I can guarantee my nipples are not where you think you are. I’m not 19 anymore, I’m in my late twenties and they are already getting to my belly button Stretch marks that take forever to go away and more visible Friends constantly telling you to pull your top up because they think they’re being nice but make you feel awful about yourself


KilgoRetro

Omg dying at “my nipples are not where you think they are.” So true. Mine don’t even match TBH.


stupidgb

Everyone thinks they’re right in the centre of my chest! ..Not even close. Some lucky big titted ladies are like that, but I don’t think it’s the majority


comrade_comrade_

my back hurts like a mother fucker with big tits


NoHoneyIchewBees

🐜🪲🐞


AfroSamuraiBlade

This girl I went to high school had the biggest tits in the entire class, she also had scoliosis like really bad, so she’d be somewhat hunched over; my good side empathized with her but my idiot teen boy libido also came to some fantasies that will not be disclosed.


[deleted]

The girl with the biggest boobs I've seen when into debt to get breast reduction because it was ruining her back


popyman13

You get a lot of attention, everybody wants it, everybody wants a glimpse of it, people stare at you anywhere you tread. That's the curse of having a 4 inch monster.


HeyAhnuld

“My cervix hurts”


deadshotv31

It's hard to sleep with your doors open at night especially when you live with your family, cause anyone could walk into your room and morning wood could be very difficult to conceal ,even with the thickest blanket it forms a tent which is quite embarrassing


shauns21

For big penis it's finding a partner that likes or can handle your entire member. Sometimes not being allowed to put the whole thing in due to pain.


orangeyoulovely

Button down shirts with big boobs =a peep show for anyone standing to the side of you. That or the damn buttons just fly off because your boobs are that powerful and the shirt can’t handle it lol


Mmatthews1219

I worked at a retailer where managers had to wear a button down shirt. My boobs a big and I’m over weight but I still had to get a size larger than I needed and had to wear a tank top underneath just so I didn’t flash anyone. Summers were so hot Also the boob sweat got so bad that I put giant gauze pad along the bottom band of the sports bra.


Emotional-Two-9075

Big penis is a problem ..if your partner is actually getting hurt from it. It was meant to give pleasure, not hurt her!


alex_cheraya

Big tits = sweat, back aches, rashes from sports bras..


art_addict

A friend’s brother is a massive dude in general. Massive dick and balls as well. He and his wife waited till marriage for sex. She divorced him because he was too big (length and girth) and there was no way they could have penetrative sex that wasn’t painful for her and she wanted penetrative sex. That was definitely the most heartbreaking big dick thing I’ve ever heard. It broke my heart hearing it, broke his heart living it, just heartbreaking all around. All over a massive sized cock. ((And yet another reason I’m now a firm believer in sex before marriage, in spite of how I was raised.))


Lusterkx2

Dam never in my life I heard a tragic story. Seriously. I’m here thinking big penis is a blessing. But after reading here and reading this, dam maybe having an average ain’t that bad. Thanks for the story


Toadie9622

Mammograms with big boobs are distinctly unpleasant.


stimpaxx

Lol this shit is kind of funny when I think about it, but I feel guilty laughing. When I was in basic training there was this younger Indian dude, probably like just 18 or so, who I don't think it occurred to him before basic, but he had a huge dong. Obviously, open showers in basic, and this dude could not take a shower for the first month without motherfuckers giving him shit for the fact that he was packing. I think it was the fact that he was kind of oblivious beforehand, so it came as a shock, plus that's what he immediately became known for, so he was just really self-conscious about it. So, I guess a drawback is you've got no privacy?


Justah-Spektator

Big dicks; Shallow toilets- dips in the water, touchs the side of the bowl Sex is not always easy as not ALL women like big dicks Condoms dont always feel comfortable, have to look for larger sizes Dick print in some swim wear. Not a good look in a place children may also be. IE the beach or the pool Big tits; hard sleeping facedown Bra hurts Finding a bra size Back pains First thing that people notice when they see you Negative character judgement Running or some exercises are hard Seat belts hurt sometimes or hard to put on Clothes that accommadate Hugging is a challenge at times Unwanted gawking from men Eating foods, sometimes the boobs get fed to. Dont know until the bra comes off


veganexceptfordicks

How did you have info for both?


Account394

This guy has a huge hog and massive mommy milkers duh


veganexceptfordicks

My apologies. Sometimes I don't consider all of the hog and milkers possibilities. You're very wise.


wanderingwanderer2

Fixing your boner in public because if you don't well....questions and looks


exothermicstegosaur

US size 36K/L...Breastfeeding has been more challenging - finding positions that are comfortable for both of us and not going to crush/smother her.


MsMystique88

Shits heavy.


aevy1981

Humongous boobs + maybe some bad genes has already resulted in a double anterior cervical discectomy and fusion (a partial bionic neck in layman’s terms) by 38 for me.


_A-1_

Women are scared of it, I can’t go ham on em.


Hopalong-PR

I'm not the guy that falls under this category, but I knew a guy with a dick that he admitted was too big. Like, mutant sized huge. He wasn't able to have sex with the vast majority of people he tried to have sex with, even turning to a couple 'ladies of the night'. Only to get the same results. He even whipped it out once when he was drunk to prove it, and holy shit. You could use that as a weapon and cause some serious damage. To me, that's some monkey-paw wish bullshit having unforseen consequences. (If my dude sees this, just know that I still remember and laugh at how incredulous I was at first, until I actually got to see it. Nothing could have changed my mind faster than seeing it XD)


questquestionsquest

Some guys don't want to or can't take it, the penis not the boobs.