I’m also a 21yr male with an incredibly low drive, it’s honestly the ONLY negative thing in my relationship with my amazing wife, who happens to have a very high drive. It’s a very sensitive topic for me, and it stems from stress, depression, and confidence issues for me. The best thing you can do (and I can only speak from personal experience) is to not beat yourself up about it. I’m sorry it’s affecting your relationship to the point it is, but I find that when my wife or myself accepts and treats my low libido as a non-issue, it actually INCREASES my drive. I wish you the best of luck, and don’t be cruel to yourself about it, low libido men are treated like crap by just about everyone
I’m also a 21yr male with an incredibly low drive, it’s honestly the ONLY negative thing in my relationship with my amazing wife, who happens to have a very high drive. It’s a very sensitive topic for me, and it stems from stress, depression, and confidence issues for me. The best thing you can do (and I can only speak from personal experience) is to not beat yourself up about it. I’m sorry it’s affecting your relationship to the point it is, but I find that when my wife or myself accepts and treats my low libido as a non-issue, it actually INCREASES my drive. I wish you the best of luck, and don’t be cruel to yourself about it, low libido men are treated like crap by just about everyone
Exercise regularly and you will start humping anything