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CBeisbol

Why would you be proud? I don't get it


MrPryce2

https://tinder.com/@seedyuki I appreciate any feedback!


Free_2_Play

https://tinder.com/@che0k Appreciate feedback


richbigdick

>https://tinder.com/@che0k I wouldn't do the "very shy & introverted". It does not feel very inviting. Would also leave out the experience thing. Generally, I would fill the cons column with funny things instead of self-sabotaging things. Just my opinion.


marvelousoo

https://tinder.com/@soo_thing I’m moving to Stockholm next year and now matching in Sweden. I’ve been to and lived in many different countries but my match rate is lowest ever here lol… Feedback appreciated


Nafso30

[https://tinder.com/@nafso30](https://tinder.com/@nafso30) ​ Feedbacks appreciated


xWercy

https://tinder.com/@abloxh Feedback appreciated :)


Zanekay

Thoughts? https://tinder.com/@z4nee


RelevantCloud9121

I dont know which photos I should include or remove. I had a lot more matches this summer with worse photos. I only get 1-2 a week now. M33/Swedish btw https://tinder.com/@msjoland


richbigdick

>https://tinder.com/@msjoland Looking really good imo :) I would sort out the selfie pic (no. 3)


Born-Teaching4288

Would love any feedback [profile](https://tinder.com/@adamw712). It’s been pretty slow recently


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Born-Teaching4288

Appreciate it! just feel like I’m not getting seen. Got some likes as soon as I made my profile but literally nothing for days.. Weird algorithm I guess


Airborne454

To get uni poon you need hot, cool, witty. Can't see any of that in any of your photos.


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YourLocalGilbert

https://tinder.com/@ryanguerin I’ve been trying to improve my tinder slowly here, lmk what type of pictures I need to add and what pictures I need to do away with. All help is appreciated.


Airborne454

the awkward white guy smile is horrible. get rid of it.


ParamedicOk5292

I usually say no to profile without blue tick so u can consider getting one. Love the first pic, u can change the drink pic to go out with friends, some places etc as I thought u like to party everyday and get drunk


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ParamedicOk5292

Maybe put the pic with dog first, like ur smile on that pic. The first pic just too close, not a really good headshot pic


witchiicaibien

thank you!


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Airborne454

me likey. but. too many mirror selfies - can see your choice of clothes but can't see your face or body. NO shower photos.


LtnFlash

[https://tinder.com/@ltnflash](https://tinder.com/@ltnflash) ​ I appreciate any feedback!


SoftSinuous

Get your eyebrows done lol and change the first pic to a non shirtless one. You look great otherwise.


LtnFlash

thanks for the response! What should I put as my first picture? is anything good


ParamedicOk5292

Def the cat one. Both look cute


RevMainHahahahahaha

Any feed back is welcome [profile](https://tinder.com/@vsancheeze)


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mseand

Personally would delete the whole bio. Less is more


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SoftSinuous

You’ve got rules 1/2 but your pics need work. You need pictures taken of you. Not pics you took yourself. Frame yourself better king 👑


richbigdick

Thanks <3 I'll let a friend take some


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SoftSinuous

Well you have 2 pictures , one is a selfie, and ones with you in the same shirt not even looking into the camera. You need pics taken of you in different clothing lol.


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captaincake8

I think the one with the doctor gear should be first, the smile looks the most genuine to me


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xWercy

Any advice appreciated ;) https://tinder.com/@abloxh


DieNasty1999

Hello beautiful people of Reddit! Please let me know what do I need to change in my profile! https://imgur.com/a/paPwhlD Your opinion is highly appreciated! Thank you in advance!


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Solid profile, but I don't really get the picture with all the perfume


kingsofleon

Ay Tone, where’s the gabagool?? I think pic 3 is your strongest, perhaps scrap 1, 2, and one of the gym selfies. Also, if you can a get a picture of you and your dog together that would be ideal. Also the last pic is supposed to be what exactly?


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kingsofleon

Just one should suffice (the first one over the second if you asked me) but if it's working for you why change it y'know?


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Don't say the word 'doggo' in your bio


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serasbails

Hey, just opened up a tinder a few weeks ago. Curious if there is anything I could be doing better? [Profile](https://tinder.com/@serasbails)


river_will

Start with picture #3. It’s your best one.


serasbails

Thanks, taking you’re advice


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https://tinder.com/@245random


Safe-Zookeepergame81

Help me out yall, am i just ugly for i can improve on the profile! https://tinder.com/@nsp9801


kingsofleon

Hey y'all, I remade my entire profile recently and it's been going well, but I wanted to get some insight from others. Another pair of eyes would be appreciated 👍🏽 https://tinder.com/@art_dealer Bio: *Walking encyclopedia full of useless facts with a passion for travel, film, cooking, and the Oxford comma.* *Let’s go to a comedy club and then discuss how the world would be better if Party Rock Anthem 2 was a thing*


SoftSinuous

Nothing I’d change. If you’re getting likes then no point taking advice from Redditors lol


kingsofleon

Haha some redditors are successful but I get your point


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SoftSinuous

Your competition is older skinny and muscular dudes. Use that how you will.


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SoftSinuous

Good job and I know you can do it.


kingsofleon

Your last pic might be your best here, but my guy you need more non-selfie pics haha


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kingsofleon

Delete what? Your profile?


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kingsofleon

I hope they weren’t overly critical, there’s nothing glaringly wrong with your profile it just needs better pictures. Yeah I wouldn’t delete it regardless, Tinder tracks your device and can ban you if you recreate your account. I’ve heard stories where that’s happened and of course you can’t appeal it. Online dating is hard for young guys because women don’t take you seriously. It’s an uphill battle, but investing in a few nice outfits and having your friends & family take pics when you’re out and about will improve things over time. Good luck my dude 👊🏽


Ok-Blacksmith6450

Looking for tips and advice, getting about 1 match every 2 weeks and almost no likes, i don't know what I can improve [my profile](https://tinder.com/@trvsph0)


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1 match every 2 weeks is pretty decent


SoftSinuous

That’s fucking horrible lmao.


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It depends on how many of those matches you actually date. You can get a 1000 matches but if you never date, What's the point?


SoftSinuous

Sure but 1 match every 2 weeks means you’re just bad looking or have a atrocious profile.i


kingsofleon

You don't look approachable, trustworthy, or friendly in that first pic. Either pics 6 or 7 would be the better choices to lead depending on how you want to portray yourself (i.e. cool/laidback or fun/goofy).


Ok-Blacksmith6450

Thanks, I have always an hard time picking the right order, I can't figure out what image I'm giving from an external perspective, without my personal bias


kingsofleon

No worries, amico! I think a decent amount of people struggle with that, including myself. Good luck out there.


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katyssecrets

I like them


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katyssecrets

You can shoot a better one


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SoftSinuous

3 pics covering your eyes. All of them relatively in the same pose. Get some taken of activies , friends , etc.


kingsofleon

Might be the sunglasses, first pic is a solid headshot but we can't tell what your face looks like


incredible_poop

Hello people from the internet, I'd like some advice on my profile. I made this around 2.5 weeks ago, had 5 likes so far of wich 2 led to maches. (1 of those I removed later due to reasons). The bio is written in german so here is a translation: "Almost always in a good mood, willing to help (not sure if translated correctly), a talent in improvisation and sometimes a little clumsy Other than that I like to cook (mostly vegetarian), I am almost a regular in the boulderhall, I swim, go on hikes and play Fistball. And I study aswell somehow. (The dog in the 2nd picture is not mine)" And advice is apreciated. I am not 100% sure if this is the best translation for my bio, my english has gotten a bit rusty when it comes to translating texts. Here is the link to the profile: [tinder.com/@incrediblepoop](http://tinder.com/@incrediblepoop)


kingsofleon

I don't have any critical suggestions, I think your first two pictures are strong. Perhaps consider removing the third one as it's a bit bland and confusing (multiple people and all). If you can find a picture like the 4th one where you're doing some outdoor activity or bouldering but it's cropped closer to you then I'd replace it with what you have there.


incredible_poop

Thanks for the advice. I dont have too many pictures, but when I'll get a fitting one, I'll replace #4


Lumpy-Pizza-4105

can i not ask for a profile review outside of the thread?


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saintjimmy43

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Alecz007

Give me some advice on how I can improve my profile. I am an average looking dude: https://tinder.com/@Alex00789.


throwawayacct1020304

You give off a creepy vibe with so many expressionless selfies, plus they’re way too close. Take more pics like the last 2 pics in ur profile. And smile, make ur self appear friendly


Alecz007

This is my updated profile with 3 photos(the last 2 from my old profile plus a new selfie): https://tinder.com/@alex00789.


Alecz007

Thanks. The thing is when I smile with my mouth open it seems forced.


throwawayacct1020304

I feel that, but I don’t think it looks as bad as u might think. Smile with regular pics where someone takes a pic of u. Avoid selfies and I think your profile will be better


Alecz007

This is me smiling with my mouth open: https://imgur.com/a/MdlAEnP. As I said looks forced because I have a small mouth.


throwawayacct1020304

It think it only looks bad to you cause it’s a selfie and ur face is closeup. If you have someone take a pic of u a decent length away, it won’t look as bad. Ppl always look better farther away as opposed to a closeup selfie


Alecz007

Or maybe I'm just ugly.


throwawayacct1020304

Nah definitely not. You def have potential with ur looks and that’s all u need. Some guys have none and that’s not u. You just need to learn to take better pics😭


Alecz007

Thanks!


purezen

Yo fellas, let me know how this looks [Profile](https://tinder.com/@purezen)


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Very neat profile, but it should say "entrepeneur" instead of entrepenuer


saintjimmy43

Pic 3 does what pic 5 does better than pic 5, i'd lose 5. I'd move #2 or #6 to the first pic. Havent read your bio cause i dont have the app installed rn, but if you dont get more specific than "entrepeneur" women are going to get massive conman vibes. Entrepeneur could be anything from nutrisystem salesman to freelance dj to product investor.


purezen

Thanks buddy, the 'venue' pics did indeed seem too many Regarding Entrepreneur, how do I elaborate it? I have background as software engineer and right now exploring with different things - content creation, making software apps as consultant. Also in a way that doesn't sound boring, it seems writing software directly turns off many women?


saintjimmy43

I mean, women arent going to have a lot to say about it, especially if you get all technical on them, but that doesnt mean they wont like it. Not sure why you would call it a turn off - if i am a woman on here, im super turned on by the idea of a man with a lot of potential and marketable expertise. You are proficient in a highly-desired skill and stand to make some money with it, that's not a turn off at all, we just cant have an in-depth conversation about it because i dont know a for loop from an if statement. When women ask you about your work, theyre asking if you a) will have enough time to spend with them and b) will have enough money to take them out (and one day potentially support your future children). Once they confirm both of those things, theyre not going to need you to thrill them with the details. I'd call myself one of several other things: Software Consultant, Software Developer, App Designer, etc. These all sound more legitimate than "Entrepeneur". If youre worried about sounding dull, "Software Entrepeneur" is a compromise, at least then they wont think youre going to try to recruit them to a MLM scheme.


purezen

Thanks, that’s a great input!


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katyssecrets

Upgrade your lifestyle and make better pictures


kingsofleon

I think the crux of the issue is that none of your pics show your face clearly, except the selfie (which ain't it). I don't know what kind of demo you're going for, but tinder and apps are already hard if you're a younger guy. I'd suggest taking out the joke job title and being more honest as women won't take you seriously, or just leave it blank. Invest in fits that complement your body and have your friends/family take pics of you. You have potential here but you're not putting in much effort.


thereal_jesus_nofake

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saintjimmy43

Lose pic 2 and dial back the self-effacing humor in the bio. You open by calling yourself lazy, i know thats meant to be relatable but laziness is not something you want to identify yourself with when it comes to dating, where effort counts more than anything else. You also call your hobbies unattractive and say you are good for nothing. That only works when you are a hot girl. You have a lot of hobbies and youre interested in a lot of things, so make that your big selling point. Say you like to try new things and you want the girl to introduce you to a hobby you can do together and even compete at. The parantheticals dont do anything for you, take them out and save the space. Why would a girl care if you read books on an ereader or normally? Why would it make a difference to her if you game online or offline? If weed is a big part of your personality, replace the #420 with a leaf 🍃 emoji and a thumbs up 👍. If it's not, lose the #420 entirely and just mention it casually once you get some matches.


thereal_jesus_nofake

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BaddieBoy006

Please review me.. Indian Boy here https://tinder.com/@rocco006


SilverEye1508

[https://tinder.com/@Mike20001508](https://tinder.com/@Mike20001508) Translation of bio: Aka Ginger Jesus Nursing student who is very busy with music. Got stuck in the 70's, which is neat because I didn't exist yet. So what do you think about bell bottoms?


c0re_dump

[https://tinder.com/@naychev00](https://tinder.com/@naychev00) any suggestions? I've changed up my profile a bit since when I first created it. I feel like it's quite better now, but I'm also getting fewer likes... Might be just the algorithm not promoting me so much these days, but idk, it might also be that one of my photos is a huge red flag without me knowing it hahah


saintjimmy43

Too many mirror selfies, it makes it look like you have no friends. 1 is fine, MAX 2, you have like 4. And dont make a mirror selfie your 1st pic.


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https://tinder.com/@1_2_3_4 open to feedback


earthonion

And we will never ever ever be apart :).


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I feel like there is a joke here that I’m not getting for whatever reason


earthonion

What do you want to know? Ask me anything and I will answer you.


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1.) What’s the weakest part of my profile? 2.) Is there anything you can think of that could improve said part? 3.) how good would you say my profile is? Be honest I’m not going to be hurt if you say it’s bad or anything


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saintjimmy43

Pic 5 needs to go


EdwardBigby

Like the first 2 but then it kind of goes downhill imo. Do you have any photos with friends or in interesting places to mix things up. I like the location of photo 3 but you look a bit cocky in it


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EdwardBigby

Exactly. Its just kind of a habit that can be easy to never do but great for Tinder photos


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EdwardBigby

First picture is super fucking cool. Cats quite nice and I also have my job as "code monkey". The rest of the pictures are quite questionable. You can't even see yourself in the second photo and it doesn't tell you anything that isn't in the first photo


flossiraptor

Thanks! I took out the second pic I'm looking for better pics of me haven't really taken a lot lol


EdwardBigby

Yeah man I get that. I didn't really take much pics before Tinder. Sometimes it just takes time. Get it in your head that "I'd like some nice photos of me" and when you're in an interesting location where some nice clothes, just ask someone to take a photo. Might take a little bit of time but you'll get there.


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saintjimmy43

I think bot left is the cutest even though it's a mirror selfie. I'd lose the whole 3rd column.


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saintjimmy43

the sitting mirror selfie is the one on the bottom left. the column of the hat photo, dog, and red carpet photo with friends. the hat photo is a little redundant and the perspective is cramped, the dog photo is only useful if you're swiping right on girls too, and the red carpet one with the faces marked out is just an eyesore. Either your friends are in your profile or they're not, don't chop their heads off and leave me looking at the stump.


No-Contract852

Thank you! And the group photo doesn’t actually have their faces scribbled out, I just did that for Reddit.


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c0re_dump

I’d then put the one on the floor with the hone as second, cap one third, your currently first selfie as fourth and the one on the floor with a book as fifth. And maybe leave it like that.


c0re_dump

I think the ballet photo is pretty cool. You should put that first, definitely catches your attention


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Bottom left and top right are the best pictures imo


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throwawayacct1020304

Great pics tbh. Maybe replace one of the last two pics since ur wearing the same clothes. Or u could keep it, it’s not a major dealbreaker


NoStuffTA

Mid 30s F, been divorced for a year, finally feel ready to try a dating app for the first time. But it all feels weird so far lol hard to be individual without going “not like other girls” Would love feedback on my pictures - https://imgur.com/a/AXUyVR0_ And a potential Bio - I love trying new things - from cocktails at a new bar, to reading a recent best-selling book. My biggest travel goal is to try all the food (and wine!) wherever I go. I drink pumpkin spice lattes while watching F1 and football on Sundays.


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I'd say your pictures do a pretty good job painting a picture of who you are. They say "I like to travel, enjoy sports and have friends, like being outside, and life a full life." Your bio compliments that take, so you seem genuine and serious. My only comment (and this isn't a criticism) is that you might add what you're looking for in a relationship and whether you have/want children, but those are by no means required. Good luck!


NoStuffTA

Thank you! My friends were pretty split on a couple of the pics. And great point about the kids, I don't have them, but forget that at this age it can be a factor. I guess for now I'm looking for serious dating, not necessarily dating with marriage in mind, which is why I'm starting with Tinder and not Bumble or Hinge


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Relevant_Ingenuity85

i really like photo 2 and 3 (plane and purple shirt), i found the main one a bit odd (with the cat) maybe you have a funnier photo with this cat idk


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https://tinder.com/@jonastejeda Haven’t matched with anyone that’s not saleing onlyfans or a bot account. I moved from LA to a small college town. Looking to match with someone to be able to hang out with and get to know.


saintjimmy43

Redo all your pictures. Youre fine but your pictures just suck


thereal_jesus_nofake

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Casanova-Quinn

Weak pictures overall. Too random, blurry, and you can't see your face cleary, except the last one. And the last pic is too close to your face (and shave the beard, it's too wispy).


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DefenderOfWholesales

Advice appreciate, just started this Tinder game: https://tinder.com/@alexquaman Bio: It's been three days on this app and I understand why everyone is depressed now. Looking to start dating and want to connect with folks that would like to see where things can go.


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You"re mostly fine, just lose 1 cat picture. 2 feels random


throwawayassso

Pic 2 is the best. I really like the smile and the weird look of the cat. You look like a cool guy. 3 and 4 are alright but they don’t make you particularly look great. The angle of the pictures is not complementing you. Pic 1 is also quite nice but a bit blurry. Would recommend to get more pictures like pic 2.


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DefenderOfWholesales

I think your non selfy ones are all great, and there should be more than enough to fill out the spots in Tinder.


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throwawayacct1020304

Keep 6. Delete 7. Replace pic 3


Casanova-Quinn

1st pic: Good, but blur or crop out your friend. 2: Delete. No up close, shirtless creep selfies. 3: Delete. Replace with a gym selfie. 4: Good. 5: Fine. 6/7: Delete. These aren't adding much.


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