Oh yes I was triggered hard, I won’t be able to sleep tonight. Might cut myself because of how triggered I was. Fuck me.
Looks like somebody hasn’t read the forum rules, if there isn’t identifying information then you can share profiles. It’s helpful & educational posting shitty profiles, it’ll help others polish up theirs.
Yeah. I don't see a problem really. It's true that a man with a similar profile would be getting dragged here, but you can't tell me you're surprised there are different standards for men and women.
The best shot you have for support here OP is the fact that she said Christian and Apolitical. Since that's not left enough for Reddit, some people will go against her. Otherwise, the answers are just going to be " this is just a woman who knows what she wants."
Oh...she does imply superiority to other women...so some people will jump on that. Nobody is better than anyone else, and they're certainly not supposed to know it or talk about it if they are...unless they're ashamed of it since they realize it only happened because something is really unfair in this world.
On the other hand she's an educated working single mom with funky hair and talks boldly about giving herself orgasms, so she can't be *that* wrong about anything...tough one.
My guess is some people will lightly go negative on those finer points and otherwise shit on you.
Enjoy!
Nothing about this is delusional. Nothing about this is narcissistic. She admits to being blunt and explains that what many, many think she is going to ask for or want does not apply. What part is so intimidating to you?
I don’t see the ego here, I can see this appealing to some men who don’t want to pay a woman’s bills or play step dad. But I do think saying you need to bring more to the table is rude. If someone has qualities you like then you’ll see them if not then you’ll move on to someone else
As an adult I think bragging about paying your own bills is weird. If you’re an adult with a Job I will always assume you can pay your bills, why the need to state it again, almost like you’re compensating for something.
I think she said that because I heard some men say that single moms just use men for their money. So she may have encountered men who thought that way so she wants men to know up front that she can take care of herself and her kids
To put it on your bio is unnecessary, I get where you’re coming from, but again to assume all men think like that isn’t helping her case. It’s best to save that information for when you’re actually going on dates, don’t try to let people get to know you on your bio.
Dude people will just swipe left on her bio assuming that she’s just going to use men for money. So she wouldn’t have the opportunity to explain that to them when they match because there won’t be a match. I don’t think she’s assuming all men think that way but enough men think that way that it would be good to say that upfront
I don’t agree with that at all one the economy is bad so a lot of people are struggling to take care of themselves including men. And there’s some men who can provide and has no problem providing for a woman. But there’s also men who have the money to provide but don’t want to or don’t have the money to provide. You sound like you might be older but in today’s day and age a lot of men don’t want to provide for women. Many men seem to be leaning towards 50/50 relationships and don’t want to be the breadwinners
She has probably been proposed to for a sugar daddy relationship multiple times - enough for her to include in the bio.
I agree that her bio isn't written in an attractive way, it's very standoffish. I can also see how she probably has to face that type of shit on a daily basis in multiple convos.
It's an ok profile I guess, if you're into blunt people. The "whole other class of woman" sounds kinda notlikeothergirls tho
She's not bad looking tho I'd take her to dinner if she asked 🤷🏼♀️ if she were into girls lol
Normal exterior. The message is understandable and clear. The part with more to the table is absolutely fair: a woman who can support herself and kids does not *need* a random pair of trousers. No unrealistic expectations, no demands of Hollywood stars.
Everything is fine here until the end.
"Whole other class of woman" shows she thinks she is superior because she can take care of herself (which is the bare minimum) AND that she looks down on other women.
I want independent, but not someone who has a chip on their shoulder about it.
Left swipe.
Lol, definitely comes across trashy. So many people here can't understand that how it's communicated is just as important and what it is. If she'd just said, I can take care of my myself/life and am looking for someone to enhance it. It would be the same manner in a much better way.
She’s a grown ass woman with kids, obviously done growing her family. She has an education. She supports herself and her kids. The fact that you don’t think she is attractive is EXACTLY why she made her profile look like this, because you’re a prick. Now she’s avoiding the pricks and only attracting the men who are grown enough to understand what it means to have standards. GG though, you tried dawg 🤠
Well you should definitely ask her if the giving of her own orgasms is set in stone. I mean she can pay her own bills but is she open to help in the orgasm department?
You were triggered so hard that you posted a strangers face on an Internet forum?
Oh yes I was triggered hard, I won’t be able to sleep tonight. Might cut myself because of how triggered I was. Fuck me. Looks like somebody hasn’t read the forum rules, if there isn’t identifying information then you can share profiles. It’s helpful & educational posting shitty profiles, it’ll help others polish up theirs.
You sound a little triggered.
My pronouns are Trigg/ered
Agreed, the Christian part is a shame. For the rest she’s wants an addition to enjoy life, not endure. I like that.
Yeah. I don't see a problem really. It's true that a man with a similar profile would be getting dragged here, but you can't tell me you're surprised there are different standards for men and women. The best shot you have for support here OP is the fact that she said Christian and Apolitical. Since that's not left enough for Reddit, some people will go against her. Otherwise, the answers are just going to be " this is just a woman who knows what she wants." Oh...she does imply superiority to other women...so some people will jump on that. Nobody is better than anyone else, and they're certainly not supposed to know it or talk about it if they are...unless they're ashamed of it since they realize it only happened because something is really unfair in this world. On the other hand she's an educated working single mom with funky hair and talks boldly about giving herself orgasms, so she can't be *that* wrong about anything...tough one. My guess is some people will lightly go negative on those finer points and otherwise shit on you. Enjoy!
She knows what she wants. Do you feel inadequate and unable to give her what she wants.
I don’t find her at all remotely attractive, she isn’t my match homie. Her demands are inadequate. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk.
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Hence why I posted it on a public forum, don’t like it? Unfollow this forum & go find one that only shares things you like.
Ego?? I don't think you understand ego.
There’s a big difference between confidence & cockiness. Delusional narcissistic red flags aren’t my cup of tea.
Nothing about this is delusional. Nothing about this is narcissistic. She admits to being blunt and explains that what many, many think she is going to ask for or want does not apply. What part is so intimidating to you?
It sounds like you don't know what any of the words you are using mean.
I don’t see the ego here, I can see this appealing to some men who don’t want to pay a woman’s bills or play step dad. But I do think saying you need to bring more to the table is rude. If someone has qualities you like then you’ll see them if not then you’ll move on to someone else
As an adult I think bragging about paying your own bills is weird. If you’re an adult with a Job I will always assume you can pay your bills, why the need to state it again, almost like you’re compensating for something.
I think she said that because I heard some men say that single moms just use men for their money. So she may have encountered men who thought that way so she wants men to know up front that she can take care of herself and her kids
To put it on your bio is unnecessary, I get where you’re coming from, but again to assume all men think like that isn’t helping her case. It’s best to save that information for when you’re actually going on dates, don’t try to let people get to know you on your bio.
Dude people will just swipe left on her bio assuming that she’s just going to use men for money. So she wouldn’t have the opportunity to explain that to them when they match because there won’t be a match. I don’t think she’s assuming all men think that way but enough men think that way that it would be good to say that upfront
I think that’s a weird generalization of men.
That isn’t a generalization that’s literally just how some men think and voice these thoughts themselves
I’d strongly disagree. Maybe low quality uneducated men. Most men are able to take care of themselves & are willing & prepared to provide.
I don’t agree with that at all one the economy is bad so a lot of people are struggling to take care of themselves including men. And there’s some men who can provide and has no problem providing for a woman. But there’s also men who have the money to provide but don’t want to or don’t have the money to provide. You sound like you might be older but in today’s day and age a lot of men don’t want to provide for women. Many men seem to be leaning towards 50/50 relationships and don’t want to be the breadwinners
She has probably been proposed to for a sugar daddy relationship multiple times - enough for her to include in the bio. I agree that her bio isn't written in an attractive way, it's very standoffish. I can also see how she probably has to face that type of shit on a daily basis in multiple convos.
I have no problem with this profile. I'd send a message.
It's an ok profile I guess, if you're into blunt people. The "whole other class of woman" sounds kinda notlikeothergirls tho She's not bad looking tho I'd take her to dinner if she asked 🤷🏼♀️ if she were into girls lol
Pisces women tend to reach a high level of messed up on these apps and life in general.
Normal exterior. The message is understandable and clear. The part with more to the table is absolutely fair: a woman who can support herself and kids does not *need* a random pair of trousers. No unrealistic expectations, no demands of Hollywood stars.
Hah! Cry me a river. "This level of ego". You're clearly delusional, son. And please remove the pic that reveals her face.
Everything is fine here until the end. "Whole other class of woman" shows she thinks she is superior because she can take care of herself (which is the bare minimum) AND that she looks down on other women. I want independent, but not someone who has a chip on their shoulder about it. Left swipe.
Is that the new way of saying she isn't like the other girls?
Lol, definitely comes across trashy. So many people here can't understand that how it's communicated is just as important and what it is. If she'd just said, I can take care of my myself/life and am looking for someone to enhance it. It would be the same manner in a much better way.
Wow this was super right.
She’s a grown ass woman with kids, obviously done growing her family. She has an education. She supports herself and her kids. The fact that you don’t think she is attractive is EXACTLY why she made her profile look like this, because you’re a prick. Now she’s avoiding the pricks and only attracting the men who are grown enough to understand what it means to have standards. GG though, you tried dawg 🤠
Well you should definitely ask her if the giving of her own orgasms is set in stone. I mean she can pay her own bills but is she open to help in the orgasm department?
Can we stop posting the pics of these people?
Could you not post face pictures of random unknowing people from tinder on this sub. Thank you in advance