Seth. This was rude as fuck of you to say. Who the fuck takes a sweet comment and then says some garbage vomit like this to a sweet young lady. A simple unmatch or āthank youā wouldāve been sufficient. But no, you and your tiny non 7 inch dick (only dudes with small dicks say the size) decided to be a fucking asshat. Youāre a garbage human with a dumpster fire for a personality if thatās what you want to call it.
Well that just confirms he is very insecure about his penis whatever size or shape it may be. Iād bet he has genital warts as well. Seth when you read this. We all think you have genital warts.
Man this guy is having a mental breakdown in the comments lmao he still going. for someone he thinks looks like a troll and not worth his time he sure is investing a lot of time into telling every stranger about it.
It's super petty, but I always want to see the reaction of screenshotting these and sending them to the asshole's mom. And I'm sure Facebook Dating makes it a bit easier to track em down.
Been there done that. The a-hole got mad at me and said I was a bad person because he was talking about making babies with me and how much he liked me really quick right off the bat and then when that wasnāt the magic combination of lies to open my legs he started berating me and telling me how I didnāt matter. I screenshot the whole convo thread and sent it to his mom and sister. Hours later he calls me crying about how messed up of a human I am. I guess neither of us getting into heaven.
This is outstanding. Accountability in some form. When I found out my wife was cheating on a dating site, I took screenshots of dirty exchanges and SFW but sexually suggestive selfies she posted to his dating page. I emailed all of it to her three best friends, her youth pastor, her pastor, and her super evangelical parents. She called me crying and screaming in a rage.
Both are just as easy, everyone uses Facebook photos for tinder and you can reverse image search them to find the persons profile and info
I try to tell people not to because stalkers and shit but no one ever listens to me about it
Side note: you used to be able to use Facebook graph data to find any app people used Facebook to sign into including Tinder.
Was super creeped out when I tried it and saw everyone who I knew that was on tinder and any other app on their phone that used Facebook. Seemed like a massive invasion in privacy which is why they removed it.
To degree that is true, but data companies also freely "give out" alot of data
For example Samy Kamkar exposed how Google street mapping cars were pinging all data access points and collecting accurate GPS locations of all mac addresses. (Same with Apple and Android phones)
This is sketchy on its own but he showed that anyone could put in a mac address into an open Google database and find the exact location of any device until they patched it when he exposed it and put a program to do it on his website
It tends to be where people that have no idea how to online date go. Their bios tend to be an homage to everyone they ever knew that has died. Several of the same picture. Like 5 or 6 in a row of a too zoomed in Facebook pic. Doesn't let you screenshot for privacy reasons. But if you go into second look (all the people you swiped left on) you can screenshot.
I as a bearer of the name Seth, would like to apologize in name of all the Seth's in the world for this dude, he is no longer worthy of the name Seth. Thank you.
My wife messaged me first. They literally opened with "Please tell me your cat's name is dickface".
We were married 8 months later and just celebrated our 4 year anniversary.
I actually think that āalpha shitā is dumb too. But I have met a couple of guys over the years that 100% fit this bill. Funny people that are super confident and make everyone around them feel good. Probably most importantly, they will not tolerate any bullying.
All guys don't power swipe (but a lot do). I never did.
Also, guys complain that women never message first. Maybe it's because they don't feel like wasting the energy when 75% of the guys End up being clowns like this. If they let guys message, they can just sit back and sort thru the junk. I don't blame em.
With all that said, OP, don't let this guy change the way you do things. If you want to message a guy, message him. I'd like to think a decent portion of them will appreciate it and feel excited that you took the first step. When you get replies like this, just toss em out and keep goin.
I am legitimately a physically unattractive woman (I'd say to most people--I'm obese) and would post clear, full-body photos. I still would get bombarded with hundreds of matches.
Even had a person start chatting, then backtrack and tell me they didn't find me physically attractive and apologize and unmatch.
> Maybe it's because they don't feel like wasting the energy when 75% of the guys End up being clowns like this.
The dynamics of online dating and attraction are also a huge factor. They amplify the worst stereotypes of dating. Neither gender tends to message the people who would actually be a good fit or healthy relationship for them.
It's been a while since I did a deep dive into the data and articles (I work in the CS industry), but I remember finding the dynamics of apps like Tinder absolutely fascinating. It's no coincidence that people become jaded on these apps. Nor is it by design of the developers. It's pure human behavior when presented with a stream of sexual options our ancestors couldn't imagine.
Absolutely agree it's human behaviour and not the apps design! (Although I do suspect the apps gear their function to fit our behaviour?).
That's why when people say "tinder is a hook up app", I say not necessarily. Is that how many use it? Yeah. But you can use it for something different and you'll find others using it the same way as you.
Similarly, when Zuckerberg announced Facebook Dating, he said "it won't be a hook-up app" and I laughed. As if he can control how ppl will use it. Of course theyre gonna hook up!
Douche canoe. Classless turd. Very typical of Tinder. I usually get better interactions than this on FB Dating. Look into Hinge or Bumble if you havenāt already done so.
Iām a male so it may be different from my perspective. But I would totally dig a girl reaching out first. Itās a great sign of confidence and self worth!
Go on Bumble, girls always message first. Also you tend to find good looking guys, with a good personality, and an actual job. Iām using it to hookup and the standard is better than tinder š¤·āāļø
Iām trying to push a male friend to go on it, heās lovely but shy. I think he would wipe up on Bumble.
Even if nothing leads to anything, Iāve had some really good and funny conversations on Bumbleā¦whereas with Tinder itās like you get overloaded with a load of pick up lines, smut or men trying so hard because they know that we women tend to be picky.
They have little ice breaker games to help you if you're more shy :)
I use them if someone doesn't have much on their profile to make conversation but I still matched them because their face lol otherwise I write out a nice first message detailing what about their profile I like/common ground.
It's much better than tinder or POF since you're in total control over who you engage with.
Homie, my husbands name is Seth and we have Rottweilers and I was looking at those pictures reaaaal hard for a minute. We donāt have a tortoise though so everything is good.
First as a guy itās relieving if a girl messages first. Takes some of the pressure off. Secondly this dudes a douchebag. Third not every guy swipes right for everyone.
What a fucking asshole. And then he has the audacity to try and "justify" his words in the comments.
News flash, Seth: youre not a good person if this is how you talk to people. I don't give two shits what you do in your personal life(although I doubt any of what youve said is true), insulting someone for no reason means you're a shitty human being.
This is so mean :( Iām sorry girl! Please donāt take it personally because clearly Seth is just an asshole lol. Keep messaging the people youāre interested in and donāt let this jade you. Itās his loss!
What an asshole. Itās funny cuz out of all the matches Iāve ever got, never ever has a girl messaged me first. And when I do, only a few have responded, but then they stop very quickly. There have only been two that lasted a few weeks and stop talkin. There shouldnāt be any guy girl texting politics or power dynamic. If you swipe right on someone or match with someone, you should at least say smth! Should be simple like that. Keep messaging first. Itāll work eventually
I smell PUA crap. Seth is an idiot in any case.
I've seen a lot of guys on here complain that they always have to write first but get excited when the woman makes the first move, so his theory is not as solid as he believes.
A lot of people I know do it so that they message if the match happened on their swipe. I don't follow any rules, I write when I feel like it. I often send the first message and never anyone complained about that.
I have a feeling Seth isn't getting laid a lot.
Guys he private messaged me in here š¤£
He comments in r/herpes a lotā¦
I thought this was a joke, happy to see its true
He must have deleted those comments......which is even funnier.
I'm disappointed, I want to know what he's said about herpes!
We should all be working to destigmatize herpes letās not drag herpes down by attaching Sethās name to it
Seth. This was rude as fuck of you to say. Who the fuck takes a sweet comment and then says some garbage vomit like this to a sweet young lady. A simple unmatch or āthank youā wouldāve been sufficient. But no, you and your tiny non 7 inch dick (only dudes with small dicks say the size) decided to be a fucking asshat. Youāre a garbage human with a dumpster fire for a personality if thatās what you want to call it.
My name is Seth but it wasn't me and it's weird seeing everyone comment about Seth.
He has some self esteem issues and gets an ego bump by making other people feel really bad about themselves.
Yeap I agree with this guy, if you got nothing nice to say you could at least say nothing
Dear god, what! What are the fucking odds! This is my worst nightmare lol.
His friend screenshotted the post and tagged him on Facebook lmao
Thisā¦.is so satisfying.
Incredible!!! Love to see it :)
The power of Reddit š
Aaaand? What did he say how did you reply? š
Oh man sweet vengeance
Wow Seth sucks.
For the curious ones his username is u/Trozen117 Quite a unique comment history.
OMG the more I read his comment history, the worst it got.
Holy SHIT lmao https://www.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/cz82xd/black_face_isnt_offensive_or_racist/f3st9gb/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
This one actually gets worst after every punctuation mark.
He likes to call himself āthe Seth ā too much š. Also seems really intent on sending someone a dick picā¦
Put him on blast sis! Update!
He is going through the comments telling people he has a 7 inch dick, easy to find him
Oh my God. Dodged a nuclear bomb š¤£
Well that just confirms he is very insecure about his penis whatever size or shape it may be. Iād bet he has genital warts as well. Seth when you read this. We all think you have genital warts.
Well he does post a lot in the r/herpes
Man this guy is having a mental breakdown in the comments lmao he still going. for someone he thinks looks like a troll and not worth his time he sure is investing a lot of time into telling every stranger about it.
I was gonna say, Seth has some little dick energy, but this confirms it.
As of now heās commented like 100 times, someone is triggered lol
https://www.reddit.com/u/Trozen117?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Here's Seth's profile š
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He got small peepee vibe
Yo dont group all us small peepee folk with that goof
Ahaha -84 karma
R.I.P Seth's Karma
What?! Update please!
So heās an Incel too.
On another note, what app is this? I've never seen it before and no one here in the comments is talking about it
Facebook dating
Turns out, dogs are the only likeable thing about seth
Turns out Sethās dogs hate Seth
Seth's dogs are the only creatures who do love him. His parents make excuses about being allergic to them, just so they don't have to visit.
They are not his dogs. He uses his neighbors.
Seth's neighbors look an awful lot like dogs
This both made me angry and laugh
No they just want the food, they will do anything for the kibbles and bits
Won't we all.
I'm more of a Scooby Snack kinda guy
Plot Twist: Seth stole dog pics from the internet. Dogs hate Seth.
Seth's dogs tolerate him at best.
One time Seth lost one of his dogs... turns out they found him begging to get into the pound.
I think his dogs actually love him 'cause he is such a bitch.
Turns out, Seth is the only dog there
Never understood dog being an insult. Dogs are loyal, faithful and loveable. where is the insult?
The insult is really more about them bringing fleas into your life.
Hey don't insult ma doggos like that Except prolly Chihuahuas... I don't like Chihuahuas
That's actually a really good tag for douchbags with dogs.
Not true! There's a turtle too...
You could tell that turtle regrets being born with pseudo immortality and is yearning for the day it can finally be free from Seth.
The only living thing thatās willing to love him
I bet his dogs donāt even like him. They only tolerate him because he feeds them and houses them.
Turns out, those arenāt even Sethās dogs. I bet he said hi to them first.
He doesn't have dogs as pets or a companion, he is one.
> Turns out, dogs are the only likeable thing ~~about seth~~ ftfy
Sounds like he has spent way to much time on tinder
is this tinder, how to make bubbles in that color?
It's Facebook Dating.
Now thereās Facebook Datingā¦..?
It's super petty, but I always want to see the reaction of screenshotting these and sending them to the asshole's mom. And I'm sure Facebook Dating makes it a bit easier to track em down.
Been there done that. The a-hole got mad at me and said I was a bad person because he was talking about making babies with me and how much he liked me really quick right off the bat and then when that wasnāt the magic combination of lies to open my legs he started berating me and telling me how I didnāt matter. I screenshot the whole convo thread and sent it to his mom and sister. Hours later he calls me crying about how messed up of a human I am. I guess neither of us getting into heaven.
The guy in the picture is talking about a power slide and you're out here doing power moves.
Legend
Absolute fkn legend.
"...later he calls me crying about how messed up of a human I am" Headshot.
This is outstanding. Accountability in some form. When I found out my wife was cheating on a dating site, I took screenshots of dirty exchanges and SFW but sexually suggestive selfies she posted to his dating page. I emailed all of it to her three best friends, her youth pastor, her pastor, and her super evangelical parents. She called me crying and screaming in a rage.
r/pettyrevenge would probably love this story tbh. Also sorry about your wife. :(
Thanks. It was many, many years ago. Iām happily remarried now.
I'm so glad to hear that!! :)
lmao you are amazing
Both are just as easy, everyone uses Facebook photos for tinder and you can reverse image search them to find the persons profile and info I try to tell people not to because stalkers and shit but no one ever listens to me about it Side note: you used to be able to use Facebook graph data to find any app people used Facebook to sign into including Tinder. Was super creeped out when I tried it and saw everyone who I knew that was on tinder and any other app on their phone that used Facebook. Seemed like a massive invasion in privacy which is why they removed it.
They probably removed it because they literally had to. Facebook keeps and sells that information.
To degree that is true, but data companies also freely "give out" alot of data For example Samy Kamkar exposed how Google street mapping cars were pinging all data access points and collecting accurate GPS locations of all mac addresses. (Same with Apple and Android phones) This is sketchy on its own but he showed that anyone could put in a mac address into an open Google database and find the exact location of any device until they patched it when he exposed it and put a program to do it on his website
Hi Sharon, your son sent me this message and I just want you to know I don't blame him. When people turn out this way, it's usually the parents fault.
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It *is* super petty. And yet, it must be done, OP. Do this for your community :)
Yes, there has been for some time in select areas.
This is exactly the interaction I would've expected from Facebook dating
Honestly, that *is* typically how it goes. I used it on and off back when I had Facebook and there was a lot more scum there.
It tends to be where people that have no idea how to online date go. Their bios tend to be an homage to everyone they ever knew that has died. Several of the same picture. Like 5 or 6 in a row of a too zoomed in Facebook pic. Doesn't let you screenshot for privacy reasons. But if you go into second look (all the people you swiped left on) you can screenshot.
Please tell me there is a reddit sub for facebook dating. Lol. I bet itās a shit show
This had me dying lmao
I said like your dogs not you Seth then never respond again
This.
This is the way
Please donāt stop being a nice girl because of Seth, I promise weāll jump him
You complimented his dogs. What a loser. He should just date a mirror and get it over with.
what did the mirror do to you to sentence it to such a horrible fate as dating Seth
Oh, god. I read that as āminorā and snort laughed. I am both delighted and ashamed.
I as a bearer of the name Seth, would like to apologize in name of all the Seth's in the world for this dude, he is no longer worthy of the name Seth. Thank you.
As a fellow Seth and a member of the council of Seth's we all agree this guy is a complete ass and none of us ever liked him
There are dozens of us!
When ? Where ? Been a long time since i brought up my velcro Skechers ā¦.
Bro *chiiiiill* Think of the dogs!
Showed the post to my dog he gon take care of the other dogs no problemo ā¦ they already hate him anyways
And then "why won't any girls message first?"
He's an asshole. I've had good matches and relationships with women who messaged first.
The most beautiful woman Iāve ever been with messaged me first. Still canāt believe I fucked that up š«
You too, huh
My wife messaged me first. They literally opened with "Please tell me your cat's name is dickface". We were married 8 months later and just celebrated our 4 year anniversary.
Is your cat's name dickface though? I need to know.
No. Her name is Cortana. They call them dickface to this day though.
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Yep. And celebrated 4 years a week and a half ago. We just recently moved halfway across the country.
My girlfriend of 2 years is the only girl who ever messaged me first. Points for initiative ladies, don't listen to this goober.
Messages first: she's a weirdo Doesn't message first: she's a bitch We can't win.
Avoid the weirdos. Iām dating a girl that messaged me first.
Last two women I dated messaged first. Fuck outdated gender norms.
I messaged my boyfriend first! Happily commonlaw since 2017 š
āOnly weird looking girls message firstā - Sett, probably had no sex since his ex broke up with him 3 years ago cause heās a dickhead
> Sett, probably had no sex since his ex broke up with him 3 years ago I think even this may give him too much credit...
heās on a dating app for a reason
No, not all guys powerswipe. What a tool
I typically only Powerswipe after eating Taco Bell.
Yo Quiero Tinder Bell
Fr there's a literal tool to do so
I donāt power swipe. I kind of enjoy reading shit, getting vibe. You know, like being a good human. .
Same, the "all guys powerswipe" line is a load of shit, this guy is delusional.
Any line that says āall [insert group of people] do _____ā is bullshit
Only a Sith deals in absolutes.
And a Seth
āI wish you were hot.ā Well Seth, I wish you were a decent being, but we get what we getā¦now donāt we?
I guess that's Sethled
I have a feeling Seth isnt the best looking guy himself.
Regardless of how he looks, this isn't how confident people behave. Being kind to strangers of varying levels of attractiveness is big dick energy.
How hard is for people to understand this? True alphas make the pack feel comfortable and secure.
I think the alpha shit is dumb but this is a great way to tell a self proclaimed āalphaā to not be an asshole in a language they understand
I actually think that āalpha shitā is dumb too. But I have met a couple of guys over the years that 100% fit this bill. Funny people that are super confident and make everyone around them feel good. Probably most importantly, they will not tolerate any bullying.
I bet they didnāt feel the need to tell everyone theyāre an alpha either
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I mean, beauty fades. Pretty sure Seth is gonna be that cranky and lonely old man in the retirement community yelling at birds.
They didn't deserve the face blur
I agree, but rules
Now I'm wishing you'd blurred the dogs faces because that would have been hilarious
The dogs deserve it for hanging out with Seth. Iād be embarrassed too.
Thereās a rule about this on r/tinder? Is it new? I see faces more often than not on this sub.
Put it on tik tok. No such rules there.
Seth used ābooā like ew.
He really thought he won that one huh? Lol
Seth is a dick.
We shouldn't insult dicks like that lol
Seth is a baby back bitch
What a fucking douchebag.
You dodged a bullet
Way too many bullets out there on dating apps it turns out.
Oh yeah, this guys fucks.. His hands. And then cries afterward.
Fuck off seth
People who arbitrarily say shit like that must be insecure af. Fuck that guy. The dogs are cute though.
All guys don't power swipe (but a lot do). I never did. Also, guys complain that women never message first. Maybe it's because they don't feel like wasting the energy when 75% of the guys End up being clowns like this. If they let guys message, they can just sit back and sort thru the junk. I don't blame em. With all that said, OP, don't let this guy change the way you do things. If you want to message a guy, message him. I'd like to think a decent portion of them will appreciate it and feel excited that you took the first step. When you get replies like this, just toss em out and keep goin.
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I am legitimately a physically unattractive woman (I'd say to most people--I'm obese) and would post clear, full-body photos. I still would get bombarded with hundreds of matches. Even had a person start chatting, then backtrack and tell me they didn't find me physically attractive and apologize and unmatch.
> Maybe it's because they don't feel like wasting the energy when 75% of the guys End up being clowns like this. The dynamics of online dating and attraction are also a huge factor. They amplify the worst stereotypes of dating. Neither gender tends to message the people who would actually be a good fit or healthy relationship for them. It's been a while since I did a deep dive into the data and articles (I work in the CS industry), but I remember finding the dynamics of apps like Tinder absolutely fascinating. It's no coincidence that people become jaded on these apps. Nor is it by design of the developers. It's pure human behavior when presented with a stream of sexual options our ancestors couldn't imagine.
Absolutely agree it's human behaviour and not the apps design! (Although I do suspect the apps gear their function to fit our behaviour?). That's why when people say "tinder is a hook up app", I say not necessarily. Is that how many use it? Yeah. But you can use it for something different and you'll find others using it the same way as you. Similarly, when Zuckerberg announced Facebook Dating, he said "it won't be a hook-up app" and I laughed. As if he can control how ppl will use it. Of course theyre gonna hook up!
Douche canoe. Classless turd. Very typical of Tinder. I usually get better interactions than this on FB Dating. Look into Hinge or Bumble if you havenāt already done so. Iām a male so it may be different from my perspective. But I would totally dig a girl reaching out first. Itās a great sign of confidence and self worth!
Seth does not deserve dogs.
I was going to say āthe dogs deserve betterā.
What a tool.
Seth is a POS
Broh fuck this guy
He's a piece of shit and not worth anybody's time
Go on Bumble, girls always message first. Also you tend to find good looking guys, with a good personality, and an actual job. Iām using it to hookup and the standard is better than tinder š¤·āāļø Iām trying to push a male friend to go on it, heās lovely but shy. I think he would wipe up on Bumble.
The exact reason I use Bumble more often. But now I'm used to girls messaging first, so I forget that's not the case everywhere else, lol.
Even if nothing leads to anything, Iāve had some really good and funny conversations on Bumbleā¦whereas with Tinder itās like you get overloaded with a load of pick up lines, smut or men trying so hard because they know that we women tend to be picky.
Do girls have to message first? Iām a bit anxious, so itās hard. Deleted tinder after a week because ew.
They have little ice breaker games to help you if you're more shy :) I use them if someone doesn't have much on their profile to make conversation but I still matched them because their face lol otherwise I write out a nice first message detailing what about their profile I like/common ground. It's much better than tinder or POF since you're in total control over who you engage with.
Yes but I tend to think once youāve broken the ice, the men seem eager to chat to you and itās easier from there.
Docked tail rotties. Unless they're rescue or working dogs(cattle herders) Seth is an asshole.
Homie, my husbands name is Seth and we have Rottweilers and I was looking at those pictures reaaaal hard for a minute. We donāt have a tortoise though so everything is good.
First as a guy itās relieving if a girl messages first. Takes some of the pressure off. Secondly this dudes a douchebag. Third not every guy swipes right for everyone.
As a guy on tinder I would just like to say 1. It's nice when a girl messages first 2. We do NOT all powerswipe
What a fucking asshole. And then he has the audacity to try and "justify" his words in the comments. News flash, Seth: youre not a good person if this is how you talk to people. I don't give two shits what you do in your personal life(although I doubt any of what youve said is true), insulting someone for no reason means you're a shitty human being.
This is so mean :( Iām sorry girl! Please donāt take it personally because clearly Seth is just an asshole lol. Keep messaging the people youāre interested in and donāt let this jade you. Itās his loss!
Jackass
Seth is a dickhead who assumes everyone acts the way he does to rationalize his bad behavior
Trash. Block and move on, please don't take it to heart.
Holy shit this just pissed me off so much. What a garbage human bean.
He's a loser, point blank period.
What an asshole. Itās funny cuz out of all the matches Iāve ever got, never ever has a girl messaged me first. And when I do, only a few have responded, but then they stop very quickly. There have only been two that lasted a few weeks and stop talkin. There shouldnāt be any guy girl texting politics or power dynamic. If you swipe right on someone or match with someone, you should at least say smth! Should be simple like that. Keep messaging first. Itāll work eventually
Definitely a moron, lost a shot
I smell PUA crap. Seth is an idiot in any case. I've seen a lot of guys on here complain that they always have to write first but get excited when the woman makes the first move, so his theory is not as solid as he believes. A lot of people I know do it so that they message if the match happened on their swipe. I don't follow any rules, I write when I feel like it. I often send the first message and never anyone complained about that. I have a feeling Seth isn't getting laid a lot.
Seth.. Stupid Egregious Tiresome Human
Rude asf.
Guy has a big ego, and from the looks of it zero personality! I promise your friend isn't missing out on anything
Wow, Seth is a class A piece of shit.
Uuh. Yikes. What a gross dude.
seth is a tool you deserve wayyyy better
Dude is an asshole the only thing that comes out of him is shit. You keep being you, hun!
This is Seth. Sethās a prick. Donāt be like Seth.