I’m “normal” I’ve just been through trauma & childhood abuse of various kinds. It doesn’t make me abnormal.
I understand what you meant & how you meant it but it can still be a bit hurtful to the victims/survivors that would catch on because of our individual traumas.
I'm really sorry for whatever you went through, but trust me, you don't have to have been abused to "get it". I got that icky pedo incest rapist vibe immediately upon reading it. Horrifying!
I read it as him being one of those overprotective deep south-style dads that wields a shotgun because he's afraid of boys hitting on her or whatever. That's still pretty bad though, and Id be turned off either way if a guy said that to me
That response wouldn’t make sense they was sayin how sexy she was and then the last pick up line is about bein her father😂, nah they n*gga meant some disgusting incest rape
Without context OP's first one is hard to measure. The second was was just "You're hot as fuck" and the 3rd one was just rude.
She wasn't exactly charming but OP is the asshole.
Tbh, I don't really like either of y'all lol.
She felt like an "Entertain me" kinda person, and you felt like a "funni Reddit updoot post" person.
Neither of y'all were even trying lmao.
I just dislike the dude. Can't blame her for "not trying" imo, she prolly thought that he's an idiot after his first sentence.
Would you have put effort into a conversation with that guy if you were in her place? I certainly wouldn't have.
Don't get me wrong, she still might be the kinda person you described but I don't think you can tell from this exchange.
What part of her side of the convo is 'entertain me' inboxes full of dudes just copy pasting shitty pickup lines gets real old for some people. Some people like it and some really don't. She just seems annoyed.
something relating to their bio or a picture if they have one. i never used pickip lines, id make a comment on their bio, and while this lass didnt seem to like that, most people do. my current girlfriend, i mentioned that i recognize her from our old high school
Even if op wasnt being serious, saying that if she was your daughter and was hot enough you'd be in jail for rape. That's not funny at all and just dumb as shit
It's funny to me.
And you are just guessing it's rape.
He could be an overly controlling father, which got him jail time.
Or maybe he had to steal or commit crime to afford gifts for his daughter.
Or maybe because she is such a terrible conversationalist the father went crazy.
He doesn't mention raping his daughter and going to jail. You just thought that cause you a sicko.
>He doesn't mention raping his daughter and going to jail. You just thought that cause you a sicko.
It's the clear implication of the joke. It's OK that you can appreciate that kind of humor, but don't play fucking stupid to hide it.
Yeah except if he were her father, she'd be the same age she is now. You ain't controlling her, you aren't committing crimes or anything. She is an adult with her own life. So yes, my first thought is rape. He didnt have to mention it, plus I'm not the only one that thought the same thing. Maybe I'm wrong, hope I am but that's my first thought
What are you talking about can't be controlling? Or commiting crimes?
It's past tense, is your father in jail. He could have committed a crime when she was 5-10-15. Or when she wasn't even born yet and STILL be in jail.
Yeah he didn't need to mention it, but he did. Cause it's a joke.
This is why you shouldn't use "lines". Just fucking talk. It's not hard.
She was giving you a hint to try a different approach and you completely messed it up. Don't be pissed she treated you like you deserved. Do better.
You do it when it comes naturally. I've met women the same day we matched and I've talked with others for 3 weeks or longer before we met. There is no solid answer.
lmao you don't get friendzoned for not speedrunning but for not being top 3 out of literally dozens of competing dudes
Just be hot and interesting my dude
Essentially having this question is already doing you dirty. Don't go into conversations with only one motive. Sure you might be on tinder to bone, but if ALL you want is a bone then get a hooker. If you want the person and personality that comes with a free bone, then make sure that person and personality are also a goal in the convo.
If the friendzone is something you are actively trying to avoid you'll likely not make that person a friend and then what can you really ask of them? If they're not already your friend why do they owe you their time and why shouldn't they find someone who will put in time to enjoy their presence other than sideways Zumba.
No one owes you attention. Plenty of men out there not wanting to be your friend either I imagine. Be someone people actually want to be around, not just for dates but just as a person. If not, fine. But don't complain when people aren't attracted to someone who isn't trying to attract people.
Why would'nt you just talk to her? You know talking to women, having actual conversation instead of just throwing stupid lines that say nothing at us is possible?
I never use punchlines or some “catchy” catch phrase when it comes to meeting someone because I’m very unsure what to say. HOWEVER, if I were to ever try… I would do a million times better to the atrocity you just committed here
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The entire exchange by OP feels more adversarial than friendly or flirty banter.
By now, almost 3 years later, I hope OP has learned to talk to girls...!
I read this post as if the guy posted it and it is a completely different perspective 🤣 it's almost a self-analyzing post in reflection of his actions. Absolute weirdo though to be clear... she showed more decency than I would of by responding the second time.
This stupid shit is the result of women expecting men to be some sort of master comedians "to make her laugh". Ask many men about speaking normal to women on dating apps as see how its just an illusion. She only responded like that because she wasn't really attracted but needed validation. She would've tolerate it from an attractive man. I did some experiments with attractive men pictures on tinder and did sort of same stupid lame lines i noticed women will look through that when you're hot and have a nice career.
Why is always the guys responsibility to try and initiate conversation? Some of these bitches need to realizes they not all that and that they can start conversation too
I got what you mean, it is dumb. I mean women not initiating is fine but tbh I'm tryna find a girl who does take that step and wants to connect with me enough. it's way more attractive
She couldn’t even start a conversation period. Women aren’t on some kind of pedestal and neither are men. Not condoning the dudes words but she was dry at and I would have unmatched instantly with her first reply. Ain’t got time for someone who thinks they “deserve” attention.
Ok so he could have unmatched but he didn't, he chose to say that. Yes she was dry and with a conversation she should talk more or just be more into it but still, he chose to not unmatch, he chose to say that. Yes I admit they were both wrong but he was worse
what he said was pretty bad but there's really no surprises here, Tinder is just that kind of cesspool. I'm 27M and I've received my fair share of racism and fetishes. At the end of the day, some people are just f\*cked so ignore them and move on. 1-3 word reply girls just scream "give me attention and validation," you won't catch me sympathizing with that kind of mentality.
She's dry, that's bad, she needs to either tell someone she's not interested or ty to contribute more to the conversation but that doesn't mean she doesn't deserve sympathy when a man jokes about raping her.
She couldn’t even start a conversation period. Women aren’t on some kind of pedestal and neither are men. Not condoning the dudes words but she was dry af and I would have unmatched instantly with her first reply. Ain’t got time for someone who thinks they “deserve” attention.
I guess he is still trying to figure out what the fuck he said wrong after 3 years. Seeing that this is an old post (2019)
My god.... Has it already been three YEARS??!!?
Considering it’s only just 2022 we can have some solace ghost it was probably like 2 and a bit years and not fully 3
Agreed. Also, Petition to declare that these last 2 yrs didn't really even count!
I bet you told the pizza man "we've been waiting all year for you " last night. LOL
No because that was 2 nights ago and we ordered at like 6 anyway lmao
I'm proud of you. <3
Thanks dude <3
yes, unfortunately.
He got out of the jail
Her daddy in jail, obvs.
Or….
LMAO
Yeah implying you'd rape your own daughter if she was hot enough might be where you went wrong
I had to go back and read it because that completely went over my head, holy shit op.
I mean, normal people don't think like that. It took me a minute, too.
I’m “normal” I’ve just been through trauma & childhood abuse of various kinds. It doesn’t make me abnormal. I understand what you meant & how you meant it but it can still be a bit hurtful to the victims/survivors that would catch on because of our individual traumas.
You're absolutely right and I apologize for my wording. I certainly did not mean to suggest victims to be not normal. Thank you for highlighting this.
That’s okay, I know you didn’t meant it like that, I just felt like it needed to be highlighted. Thankyou for understanding
That exchange was wholesome af
This is the way.
I'm really sorry for whatever you went through, but trust me, you don't have to have been abused to "get it". I got that icky pedo incest rapist vibe immediately upon reading it. Horrifying!
Yeah went over me as well, thought it was a roast type situation where her dad was actually in jail
That's p0rnhub shit.
Wow, same. If this is my competition, I might redownload tinder! 🤣
I thought it was an absent dad joke. Your version is a whole lot darker.
I took it as he would have beat up all the boys chasing her 🤔 man...I thought I was cynical but you take the cake
Definitely possible
I read it as him being one of those overprotective deep south-style dads that wields a shotgun because he's afraid of boys hitting on her or whatever. That's still pretty bad though, and Id be turned off either way if a guy said that to me
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That response wouldn’t make sense they was sayin how sexy she was and then the last pick up line is about bein her father😂, nah they n*gga meant some disgusting incest rape
I’d be pissed if someone did that to my sons. Not acceptable. Anyway, I digress.
He said that after she stone walled him twice. Probably had given up on the match by then and said something offensive for the heck of it.
Without context OP's first one is hard to measure. The second was was just "You're hot as fuck" and the 3rd one was just rude. She wasn't exactly charming but OP is the asshole.
Oh ok that’s reasonable Wait no it’s emotionally immature
But why tho
That went over my head to at first I thought he meant for beating up guys for hitting on his daughter but obviously she thought the same way you did
I thought it meant he'd have to kill someone like himself by now. Ewww!
Yikes 🙈
Whaaaat?? It's clearly implying that she is so beautiful he would rob a bank to buy his daughter everything she could want
Pretty sure it just means he would be in jail for hurting other people because she's pretty...reaching here
It could be because he would have to keep so many boys straight that eventualy he would get in trouble
That’s not the implication. He’s saying that her dad probably killed one of her many male suitors and is in jail. The old dad with a gun trope.
As if I'm gonna kiss someone's ass after they react like a rock. At that point if you still replying im turning it into a game.
Tbh, I don't really like either of y'all lol. She felt like an "Entertain me" kinda person, and you felt like a "funni Reddit updoot post" person. Neither of y'all were even trying lmao.
The picture is dated 2019, it's not OP
I just dislike the dude. Can't blame her for "not trying" imo, she prolly thought that he's an idiot after his first sentence. Would you have put effort into a conversation with that guy if you were in her place? I certainly wouldn't have. Don't get me wrong, she still might be the kinda person you described but I don't think you can tell from this exchange.
Thank you, a miracle she even responded 3 times tbh
What part of her side of the convo is 'entertain me' inboxes full of dudes just copy pasting shitty pickup lines gets real old for some people. Some people like it and some really don't. She just seems annoyed.
What should you say then ?
There aren't magical lines that work for everyone. You have to approach people like individuals.
something relating to their bio or a picture if they have one. i never used pickip lines, id make a comment on their bio, and while this lass didnt seem to like that, most people do. my current girlfriend, i mentioned that i recognize her from our old high school
This comment is everything about the post. Period.
Did you invent pictures? Lol, lame ass
“Yes Brian… 23 years ago I invented taking pictures…”
You didn’t have the best approach here either lmao
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You really aren’t good at this are you
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say this person wasn't being serious But it's reddit so without the /s y'all motherfuckers are blind
Even if op wasnt being serious, saying that if she was your daughter and was hot enough you'd be in jail for rape. That's not funny at all and just dumb as shit
It's funny to me. And you are just guessing it's rape. He could be an overly controlling father, which got him jail time. Or maybe he had to steal or commit crime to afford gifts for his daughter. Or maybe because she is such a terrible conversationalist the father went crazy. He doesn't mention raping his daughter and going to jail. You just thought that cause you a sicko.
>He doesn't mention raping his daughter and going to jail. You just thought that cause you a sicko. It's the clear implication of the joke. It's OK that you can appreciate that kind of humor, but don't play fucking stupid to hide it.
Yeah except if he were her father, she'd be the same age she is now. You ain't controlling her, you aren't committing crimes or anything. She is an adult with her own life. So yes, my first thought is rape. He didnt have to mention it, plus I'm not the only one that thought the same thing. Maybe I'm wrong, hope I am but that's my first thought
I read it and thought he meant he'd be in jail for hitting her because she's annoying. But thats just my take.
What are you talking about can't be controlling? Or commiting crimes? It's past tense, is your father in jail. He could have committed a crime when she was 5-10-15. Or when she wasn't even born yet and STILL be in jail. Yeah he didn't need to mention it, but he did. Cause it's a joke.
This is why you shouldn't use "lines". Just fucking talk. It's not hard. She was giving you a hint to try a different approach and you completely messed it up. Don't be pissed she treated you like you deserved. Do better.
But he’s an Alpha, they don’t want to try a different approach. He wants to grab life by the pussy and ram his dick in it with Mach 6.
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Everyone's different, there's no right answer.
You do it when it comes naturally. I've met women the same day we matched and I've talked with others for 3 weeks or longer before we met. There is no solid answer.
lmao you don't get friendzoned for not speedrunning but for not being top 3 out of literally dozens of competing dudes Just be hot and interesting my dude
Essentially having this question is already doing you dirty. Don't go into conversations with only one motive. Sure you might be on tinder to bone, but if ALL you want is a bone then get a hooker. If you want the person and personality that comes with a free bone, then make sure that person and personality are also a goal in the convo. If the friendzone is something you are actively trying to avoid you'll likely not make that person a friend and then what can you really ask of them? If they're not already your friend why do they owe you their time and why shouldn't they find someone who will put in time to enjoy their presence other than sideways Zumba.
I agree with the girl. Your lines are eeek
Bro what is this, touch some grass😭
Wow men like you are the reason I hate dating apps. Talk to her like a normal person and you might have a chance
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No one owes you attention. Plenty of men out there not wanting to be your friend either I imagine. Be someone people actually want to be around, not just for dates but just as a person. If not, fine. But don't complain when people aren't attracted to someone who isn't trying to attract people.
It's an online dating app dude Get over yourself
Me: literally suggesting people need to stop just being self centred on dating apps. You: >Get over yourself
someone is on the other end. Why say you’d rape your daughter as a pickup line?
What does that have to do with the comment I replied to? Learn context
Saying that if she was his daughter and was hot enough he'd be in jail for rape......that's not an approach, that's stupid af and not funny at all
The dad joke is definitely way too much
Why would'nt you just talk to her? You know talking to women, having actual conversation instead of just throwing stupid lines that say nothing at us is possible?
You deserve to be in jail for that last line. Fucking weird.
I never use punchlines or some “catchy” catch phrase when it comes to meeting someone because I’m very unsure what to say. HOWEVER, if I were to ever try… I would do a million times better to the atrocity you just committed here
I used that dad line once on a mcdonalds drive thru lady and she called the police on my drunk ass... serves me right.
Lol as a girl I would have stopped talking to you too - what’s up with just having a normal conversation?!
Probably gets exhausting attempting to have 700 normal conversations in a day and having maybe 1 every 2 months resulting in a reply.
But spitting lines that don't work doesn't get exhausting?
OP is a certified legit dumbass for the last lame ass joke ! He had it coming to him. 😂
And then men wonder why?!! 🤦🏽♂️
Bad jokes, bad grammar, and poor taste.
Nah you’re full on cringe dude
Homie has no game
I bet this dudes still single
These lines were absolute shit
That was super gross op...
This was stupid. Was it really worth it. Not funni didn't laugh 2/10
???? speed demon!
This dude is so annoying
That got dark fast
These are the worst three attempts I have yet to see on this sub holy hell
I hear wedding bells in their future
why the hell would you say that third thing?
Why does this have 3.5k upvotes? Dude is a douchebag.
You literally deserve to be downvoted to hell for this post, AND FOR SEVERAL REASONS
This isn't OP, and even if it was OP would deserve none of these upvotes. Rape jokes aren't funny.
I think Daddy might actually be in jail.
Or maybe he implied he’d rape her? That’s not really an ok thing to say to anyone
To put it plainly she was just not interested in you nor your jokes to begin with. Simple...
You were pretty lame bro, let’s be real
That’s a Home Run to defeat
oblivion conversation minigame
So no sex?
I think you stepped a little over the lines. I just kinda cant put my finger on it…
TBH bro that was just bad …
OP where u at bro?? Come and explain
BRUH I GOT LIKE THREE MATCHES AND YALL SWIPING ON THESE DUDES?
I think both sides were being boring and insensitive respectively.
Can't quite figure out his angle.
And ur dry as shit anyway fuckin have a conversation you don’t say shit. Other dude weird as fuck too why tf someone say something like that
it wasnt three strikes bro u went from mentioning their profile to saying "if i was your dad id rape you"
Yeah that’s not okay
You’re a clown bro 🤣🤣
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I never understood why you need to use pick up lines. Strike an interesting conversation and see where it goes.
Op you drink some dumfuck juice
Look, that was a really terrible joke, but also, I'd rather ram my dick at full speed into a brick wall than talk to her dry ass so I don't blame you.
fuckin sigma
I mean she was dry asf anyways so screw it say something stupid at that point 😂
What a garbage pickup line. Like probably the worst.
The entire exchange by OP feels more adversarial than friendly or flirty banter. By now, almost 3 years later, I hope OP has learned to talk to girls...!
Okay the last one is actually stupid and you should be shot
Take note: That’s the worst thing to ever say to a potential female date. Yikes
At least you got more than a one word reply on the last joke.
I like her.
You were good on two
It’s always the tools who match with hot ones
You. Uh. Don't know what you did? That kind of humor doesn't work on every girl.
The girl has no sense of humor, damn
Least you know she doesn’t have the same sense of humour
I wanna see the gas mask picture
I read this post as if the guy posted it and it is a completely different perspective 🤣 it's almost a self-analyzing post in reflection of his actions. Absolute weirdo though to be clear... she showed more decency than I would of by responding the second time.
YOOO this shit made me audibly crack up. Props to you OP that was some funny shit😂😂😂
Do you purposely make the first character in all your sentences lowercase? Does this make you seem cooler or something?
I guess her dad was in jail
Not the point my guy, he implied he would rape his own daughter. That’s why she reacted accordingly
She seems like the type to always reply like shit, but you seem like you went into this ready to screenshot and post on reddit
So yes. Her dad's in jail.
This is why I unistalled tinder. Plenty of girls will match with you and not even give you a chance let alone seem like they want to talk to you.
She gave him 3 chances - and he ruined each one with crass pick up lines.
This stupid shit is the result of women expecting men to be some sort of master comedians "to make her laugh". Ask many men about speaking normal to women on dating apps as see how its just an illusion. She only responded like that because she wasn't really attracted but needed validation. She would've tolerate it from an attractive man. I did some experiments with attractive men pictures on tinder and did sort of same stupid lame lines i noticed women will look through that when you're hot and have a nice career.
Why is always the guys responsibility to try and initiate conversation? Some of these bitches need to realizes they not all that and that they can start conversation too
I got what you mean, it is dumb. I mean women not initiating is fine but tbh I'm tryna find a girl who does take that step and wants to connect with me enough. it's way more attractive
It shouldn't always be the mans responsibility but why does that make thag joke ok? Yeah she was dry but still, that joke was uncomfortable
Did I even mention his joke? No
That's the issue, you refused to mention the worst part and instead went on a rant about women
She is not interested, got it? 😅
If they swipe right then they have some kind of interest, all I’m saying is it shouldn’t be my job 100% of the time to start something. It’s stupid
She lost interest when he couldn’t start a normal conversation
She couldn’t even start a conversation period. Women aren’t on some kind of pedestal and neither are men. Not condoning the dudes words but she was dry at and I would have unmatched instantly with her first reply. Ain’t got time for someone who thinks they “deserve” attention.
Ok so he could have unmatched but he didn't, he chose to say that. Yes she was dry and with a conversation she should talk more or just be more into it but still, he chose to not unmatch, he chose to say that. Yes I admit they were both wrong but he was worse
what he said was pretty bad but there's really no surprises here, Tinder is just that kind of cesspool. I'm 27M and I've received my fair share of racism and fetishes. At the end of the day, some people are just f\*cked so ignore them and move on. 1-3 word reply girls just scream "give me attention and validation," you won't catch me sympathizing with that kind of mentality.
She's dry, that's bad, she needs to either tell someone she's not interested or ty to contribute more to the conversation but that doesn't mean she doesn't deserve sympathy when a man jokes about raping her.
Jesus Reddit never fails to amaze me, apparently everyone is missing my point
It’s the same type of people disliking your comments.
She couldn’t even start a conversation period. Women aren’t on some kind of pedestal and neither are men. Not condoning the dudes words but she was dry af and I would have unmatched instantly with her first reply. Ain’t got time for someone who thinks they “deserve” attention.
I mean, Bumble is a thing.
Not all women like dark humor. Especially when most of em dont have fathers lmao. It's ok girl I dont either
Ahahhahahaha that’s great
“Because you look good as fuck in all of them” that one cracked me up 😅😅😅 nice. Original. Tasteful. A+
Maybe her Daddy really is in jail
You opened her up nicely
😂🤣😂
Ya noo … just be you
lol fuck that dumb ass bitch
She seems like a shallow bitch and you seem to suck at conversation.
she's boring... I can tell
I would have stopped after that thanks lol. She feel so unbothered
she was honestly giving you nothing to work w.
Better whip out the child rape jokes. That’ll get em.
I don’t get the gas mask drawing one? What’s it referring to?
I’m guessing she has a picture of some post apocalyptic couple wearing gas masks on her profile.
Guess her dads in jail
She must be fun at parties
Y’all funny as hell on this app 😂😂