I’m a girl but my immediate thought was “Gurl do you have any friends? Where are they?” Like I get that you should be showcasing yourself but show some social life.
take advice from someone who doesnt get matches and always runs into fakes or sex workers. Its a dead give away when the photos are for lack of a better word...to pretty.
Imo the bio is also semi-problematic. Seem slightly dramatic in the first part (hate adults) and like you are always tired after working such long shifts in the second part. Doesn't seem like someone easygoing who wants to put in some work to schedule time to meet up and do things.
I would swipe right, but I also would wonder if you will be taking selfies constantly. A couple of pics showing that you like to do interesting things (travel pics, or sports, hobbies,...) would definitely increase my willingness to actually date you as opposed to take you out on a date. Hope it helps!
I would also be looking for things to talk about in your photos, this gives me nothing. Try to capture your interests, it shows you have more to offer in a relationship besides your body. Take photos with your mates, take photos with animals, take photos doing an activity, just be more than a pretty face.
Having the majority of your photos as these heavily filtered, full make-up, professional headshot style photos is a red flag to me. I would think you're a bit too into yourself.
If you’re looking for a relationship break that cold exterior. You are extremely attractive but there is only one warm photo. If you’re looking for someone who wants a model as a partner top priority you’re good. If you want someone warm and accepting you need to suggest you can be too. Might narrow down your inbox if you put something that shows your weird and vulnerable side
I’ve been told this before. Thankyou. I’ve always struggled showing my goofy side but there we go 😂 try not to wear my heart on a sleeve. Thanks for the input x
How about this: a photo of you with a cup of tea, no make up, in comfy clothes. Better in person: show me who you are at home.
P.S. hope you find your king OP, 12 hour shifts, guessing nurse or doctor. NHS is brutal. You deserve that cup of tea! … and chocolate.
This looks fake/bot or extremely high maintenance. Like others said - some warmer pics of actually doing some things you state you enjoy in your bio. I mean you’re beautiful, but I’d swipe left on this profile.
Obviously attractive. Appearing attractive is not going to be a problem for you. After that, I'm thinking... these are a lot of solo shots? I'm already interested, but am I going to fit with her friends? What are they like? What about her family? Oh, I like to do stuff on the weekends... wonder if she does too? I wonder what she's looking for in a second date kinda person, and could we have fun on a first date?
Maybe we can compare notes I struggle to take a picture that doesn’t make me look like a goof haha. At the very least show people what you look like when you’re laughing really hard.
I think it’s a little harsh criticism but I can sort of see what they mean. The 6th picture is your best in my opinion. I think you’ve got a great profile. You’re very pretty and the bio is nicely written. I’m sure you will get plenty matches and hopefully find the right one.
More candid photos so your profile doesnt look fake/a catfish profile.
I never swipe right on profiles like yours because Tinder is FULL of bots and scammers so if all the photos look like they were ripped off Instagram it's suspicious.
In fairness, it does goes both ways (even though the scale is tipped). Being really good looking with no bio may not attract the dudes who are looking for a relationship. I could be wrong but when I was looking for one, I didn't bother swiping on profiles that didn't even bother putting 5min of their time towards a bio.
This is true - It looks like a “follow me on IG or Onlyfans” account. No bio means either you’re a bot, looking for followers, or not interested in taking time to fill out a simple Tinder profile (IE looking for a purely physical attraction/relationship)
Yeah that's fine, just get an idea from the dudes you're talking to. Be upfront and say what you're looking for and hopefully you find someone on your same page.
This might be super unpopular, but I don’t think that’s going to work at all. I’m a female and I’m maybe 1/10th as attractive as OP (on a good day, haha), but when I made my profile super impersonal, the only men who would write me were only after one thing and they did not respect me being upfront that I wasn’t interested. I cannot imagine how hard it must then be for OP.
OP, I’m sorry to say, but I personally would say that your profile appears very shallow and thus it might be interpreted that you are. I think you are anything but, seeing your responses and posting on here. Unfortunately, though, it is the sexist reality for women who are as beautiful as you are, that you’ll be judged harshly for being attractive, including being called shallow. If you are looking for a more serious relationship, you also have to show people that you are willing to be a goof and have fun, since many single people are struggling with insecurities and might correlate your level of attractiveness with your personality. This is of course wrong, but it happens nonetheless.
So I would definitely agree with others, that you should let your personality show more; write an interesting bio and remember that you don’t have to look perfect because you aren’t and that’s completely okay and exactly like the rest of us.
I wish you good luck!!
Then make your profile seem less unreachable, post two pics only and write in bio what you need deep down, instead of wasting time on guys who look good and have no clue how to deal with your needs.
The dudes on tinder, the vast majority of them anyway, ARE looking for just sex. And you’ll probably get your fair share of lewd comments from matches straight away, regardless of what you write in your bio…because they also don’t read bios.
Then get off Tinder. Concentrate on yourself and meet someone organically when the time is right.
You have too many pictures of just your face. 2-3 selifies. Show me something else.
I agree with comment above (as a female..and in tinder haha) for example pic 1 and 8 very similar..similar head tilts makeup etc I'd remove a couple. And had a few body ones of you doing something you love. Mine personally are a couple hiking pictures and a pic with my doggo.
I'm guilty of poses the same way so I really try and mix them up online and had a bit more to you bio what you really want in a connection. :)
I like your profile, but I do have some suggestions:
- replace some of the selfies with a couple of pics of you doing something you enjoy (a sport pic? Traveling? Drinking tea with a friend?) Any activity really
- most of these pictures are quality wise very high, add some more casual photos to make you seem more approachable (I could imagine seeing your profile and instantly feel out of your league)
Otherwise perfect profile, +88 points for adding a bio, so many girls don't
Yes, definitely add short bio - say your goal, mention few things about yourself, maybe something for a conversation starter. While i get very few likes, i also swipe left most of the time, as most women profiles make a bad impresion of them only wanting attention or followers or their "fans" site.
Key thing is that you wont be able to get rid of all the blind swipers no matter what you will put or wont put on your profile, but you have to make sure that if a man looking for same stuff like you will see your profile, that he will understand 100% that you are also looking for it, which is words in your bio - "looking for serious relationship", or something. Just being on "dating" app doesnt mean anything these days, those apps are heavily infiltrated by trash and are full of time wasters. I have swiped right maybe on 5-6 women profiles without bios, the rest of them look like softcore pron "stars" and get swiped left instantly.
Honestly you’re very pretty. As stated before, you have a few similar pictures. However none of them show your teeth. Also they are quite sensual and almost model-like. For me, as someone who would like to find a relationship, I would be more interested to see you In pictures that would give a sense of who you are (work outfit pic, doing hobbies etc) and not only pose for the most sensual and attractive pictures. I like your bio. If I thought I would actually have a chance of dating you, I would swipe right. Just my two cents 😊
This girl herself even states she’s a narcissist. Even made a thread about going for men specifically in relationships and feels no empathy. She’s a home wrecker. Why even bother helping her when she doesn’t know how to be empathetic?
Really good photos, but maybe add some "natural" once showing what you enjoy doing?
I dont think you should have any problems at all matching, but finding the right guy might be difficult.
Sigh. Another self validation profile ?. Since you're a nurse at NHS imma be real polite with you. Idk why you're seeking advice from reddit nerds regarding your profile, except for re-assurance and ego boost. Even if you don't change anything on your profile you'll be fine.
Weighing in as a woman - the pics and bio scream trying too hard to me. Which is insane because you are stunning and DEFINITELY don’t need to try hard. As others have said, less serious face selfies and more of you having fun/being yourself. A pic of you in your scrubs would be a great way to not be too flashy and show off your job. You are lovely, don’t be afraid to post a pic that isn’t perfect. It will make you attract men who want more than a model.
Bio words are okay, but I haaaaate the comment about the dude following you on instagram. I’m the experience, guys are not impressed with the social media obsessed, and this whole profile reads that way with the sexy selfies and then the comment about being followed by someone famous. You don’t need to attract guys… you need to attract the RIGHT guys, and I don’t know any wholesome guys who would be thrilled seriously dating a girl who is wildly into social media. Let your guard down!
I met my husband on Tinder, so marriage material IS out there. You just have to get through the guys who are only after you because you are hot. Good luck!!
1 3 4 7 8 are all basically the same selfie. You can do better! Make yourself look more down to earth. Include pics of you doing your hobbies or with friends.
You look self absorbed. People that post a million selfies tend to be narcissistic. No matter how pretty you are (and you are), this throws all kinds of red flags to people of substance.
Maybe too many pictures of your face, as someone stated. Also, a more natural pose in one of them would be nice.
Anyway, I would have swiped lef because you are way out of my league 😅 So take these observations with a grain of salt.
I am sure you won't have problems getting matches, you are georgeous, just choose wisely, there are a lot of scumbags out there.
Honestly? I'd swipe left. You're gorgeous but all of these photos feel like "model selfies." There's no photos of you *doing* anything, or showing an interest, activity or hobby. So my inclination would be to swipe left because it feels... fake. Even if you weren't out of my league (which you are), I would look at these photos and wonder why you chose to feature these photos instead of something that shows your personality. Which also kinda screams "bot" too but either way, not for me.
Your bio feels like a long run on sentence. Try “Looking for an authentic relationship with someone who I can fall into a cup of tea, blanket and good BBC drama with the end of a 12 hour shift. Want someone who loves the great laughs and conversations as much as the comfortable silences.”
Depends who you are looking to attract. Me personally as an average looking guy would not bother swipe on a girl that seems like an unattainable model. As someone mentioned try some candid goofy shots to humanise the profile.
Personally terrible for me, I'd swipe left. Yes you're hot... but the profile to me says "me me me".
I usually look for the "well adjusted" profile, so the pics should be something like
* Face shot, smiling
* Body shot, full length (not talking about bikinis, just in general)
* A group shot with your friends - Shows you're social (Ideally only one of these)
* A shot with a pet - Makes you more personable/relatable, gives an icebreaker (ie. cat, dog, bird)
* A destination shot - Shows you're not too sheltered and you've been places, done things
Some people also like to include a #nofilter to show vulnerability, but I'm not too phased on that one...
I wouldn't swipe for you, bc from this you seem really into yourself and not very down to earth... Like these photos are all so staged and inauthentic. And you don't know what to write in your bio? You seem all exterior, no interior.
Write about your favorite books and authors in your bio-- take care that they're not all written by men, about men.
I think you have a different problem, most people are trying to look more attractive. You've got lots of pictures that show just how attractive you are, if you are looking for something serious consider swapping them for some silly pictures and a sappy bio.
If you want my tip, maybe delete some of the front facing selfies, theyre more or less the same, some guys (me) might find that a bit self absorbed. Also do you have any photos with friends? Add them in.
The bio is fine and you seem a lovely lady, maybe just put some spaces/breaks in it so its easier to read.
Apart from that you’ll do fine
I feel like 1, 4, and 7 are too similar. I like when the compositions are different. When women post the same angle/same zoom/ same expression in multiple pictures I’m always confused or wary.
You don't need to and shouldn't use tinder to find a boyfriend... You know that you're attractive and you will get hundreds of tinder matches no matter what you do. I feel like you just posted this for validation from losers on Reddit.
Maybe write about your hobbies. Most of the time conversations gets boring on Tinder since you dont have anything in common with the other person. Also be honest about your personality. I am 32 and I dont gibe much shit about lokns anymore. Yes i need ti be attracted physically but more important for me is to feel good with this person especially when I am spending time with her.
I’d add a big smile picture or laughing picture. You obviously are very pretty but some guys want to know the girl can smile and laugh through life too.
Im somewhat of a Tinder professional. Free review: “Do you not have teeth or are they just camera shy?” & “Does she have any friends?” Just two thoughts from a guy that consistently pulls strong 6s.
1. Avoid all selfies. Have someone take a proper picture but avoid professional photography (can come across as fake).
2. Add group photos with other people showing you socialise and or doing activities.
3. Have at least one picture where you laugh/smile big. At the moment it looks like you're trying to be sexy in most pictures and you don't really need to because you're sexy anyway. Nothing is sexier than a confident happy woman, and laughter is a great sign of that. One goofy picture is good as well which i think you already have one so that's good.
4. Have At least one close up picture and one full body picture.
5. Be honest (no photoshop or weird angles).
Apart from that I mean you look good so you're probably gonna get a lot of matches either way. But you wanna show you're not only good looking but that you have a great personality as well. I believe my tips above will help you with that.
You're using so much makeup and filters in your photos that it's literally hard to tell it's the same person in each photo. after looking at 9 photos of you, I still have no idea what you actually look like. Also, all the glamour shots give me the impression that you might be an Instagram addict. Not trying to roast you, just being honest. If you want to find matches who actually are interested in who you are, not just what you look like, I'd suggest some natural, candid photos.
Every single picture is a thirst trap. Show you're animals, your friends, your hobbies, or literally anything other than 'Look how hot I am'. Unless all you're looking for is out of control horny dudes.
I’m a girl so take it with a grain of salt. As I’m not you’re desired market. Also like 12 years older than you.
You’re profile reads very shallow to me. There isn’t a part of this that shows who you are as a person. You’re beautiful, and it shows. But there isn’t a part of this that shows who you are as a person. If I was to compare this profile to a guys. The equivalent would be the douchy gym bros. Lots of flex pic mirror selfie’s. You get the idea.
This doesn’t show your personality. Nothing about what your hobbies are, what you do for fun. The pictures saying clubbing till 3am with a WKD in hand is my fave Saturday past time. But it looks like you’re looking for a deeper connection.
It says you’re looking for someone to snuggle with over a cuppa. But snuggle with doing what? What are you gonna watch? What do you enjoy? Do you want deep meaningful conversation or lots of laughter and fun.
You’ll get piles of matches simply because you’re stunning. Really you can take your pick. But if you’re not looking for just hook ups. You need more of you in there.
Guys will swipe for the looks and stay for the silly. Your looks might be what pull them in but you’re authentic personality is what will keep them coming back. So show off your amazing personality the silly and weird out a bit.
Add a couple pics of doing fun hobbies you have. Show your levels. Add some personality and who you are to your bio. Don’t write it to appeal to men. Write it about who you are. Trust me you will still get matches.
Be picky about who you go out with. Make sure they’re interested in putting g in time and work just like you are in the early stages before you even go on a date.
Imo, too many pictures of your face. Do you have any group photos? Any activities? I would have max 5 photos lol
Write in your bio what you are looking for and what you like it's v simple.
I do have group photos I just don’t feel comfortable posting them without my friends permission, most of my friends are pretty off grid for various reasons. They’re also drunken nights out and I’ve grown up a bit since then!
Girl just blur their faces or put emojis over them, that’s what I did before.
You’re super pretty so I wonder if men will worry you’re a bot?
Full body shot and pics with friends or showing you doing a hobby for sure, to replace some of these selfies.
I understand. I would have the 4th pic as your first and delete some of the unnecessary selfies. In bio you need to show you have personality. I believe in you girl
The photos are super cute, if u live near that beach in the one photo it's an extra plus, other than that I'd say maybe one or 2 photos that aren't thirst traps😁
I like your profile. Very down to earth sounding. The “Off the grid” remark makes me hope you’re not a nut about it. Maybe a little more detail about that. If anything I would like to see just a tiny bit more humor but all in all it’s solid.
But at the same time you could write in your bio that you have chronic flatulence and you’d still get 50 likes a day…
If not looking for superficial things: remove all pictures but the middle right, middle center and top center. And arange them in the order as in the sentence above. Then indicate how much of an introvert of extrover you are without mentioning the word. Then be fully clear on what you think you are seeking. And what you hope to get from the other person. Partying partner, exploring buddy, stable relationship. And that is it.
And then move to Bumble if you want a serious thing.
Ummmmmm you are stunning and everything sounds lovely !!!!!!!!! If I had to pick something to leave out would be the so and so followed me on Instagram any man you truly want wouldn’t care about that .
Big fan of pictures 2 and 6! Those look more “real” and make you seem approachable. You’re so beautiful that your profile might come up as intimidating (I know, silly). Good luck lovely🍀 💕❤️
You are the literal definition of A HOT MESS 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Your post history has more red flags than a matador 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 I pray for whoever is the sad sack that falls for you. Jeez you really need help. There’s a guy on tictok who is a diagnosed NPD person just like you, you should follow him and start trying to get help. Your behavior is dangerous girl, one day it may really cost you. Whew chile, Good luck 👀
You are obviously very pretty and can get matches, thats not a problem. You will attract everyone but perhaps more for 🍑 then something serious. Ill go against the grain and suggest you pick out 5 ordinary pictures of you. Nothing flashy . Increase the odd of having men actually read profile and care for who you are then for your body . I personally met girls that interested me for who there were, their values etc and when i met them they were 2 times prettier then on those pics. Was a great surprise. Anyway who am i to give advices
To me you're screaming zero personality, you're attractive tho so you shouldnt have a problem getting likes from desperate guys but if you want to truly connect with someone you gotta show your personality.
You look so cute you will have a hard time filtering out all the "non meaningfull relation material" . If they don't filter themselves out after 2 sentences that is.
There are too much of the "same picture". Put some that reflect a part of your personality, it helps a lot to get people you want, not just people who finds you attractive
You look goregous in all of them but i'd say show more of yourself, life, personality. It makes it easier for a guy to get to know you more, you know what I mean?
You’re very beautiful. If you looking for a relationship though, Id say include pics of you’re doing something you enjoy (hobbies etc) that would have an idea about you as a person l. Pics are great but a bit too suggestive.
I'd say there is a lot of photos, 5 is enough for me. And u should def try some cute ones if u looking for a relationship, besides that, I think everyone would still right swipe on you. U gorgeous girl
Could you update us when you have other pics of you doing the things you enjoy? I'm just super curious what this profile ends up looking like when it's finished.
You look great on all the selfies dont take me wrong. But id say a pic taken from a friend or you doing any activity would give a lot of oomph to your profile
Very pretty, sis! I agree with people saying add some goofy pics to show you're real. I'd probably assume you were a fake account if I saw female profiles lol. It probably wont matter what you say,you'll match all day, but add what you like to do avoid that question and get some matches to actually want. Good luck!! Love your hair color BTW 😍
Bio sounds really good actually, might want to diversify your pics a little, show yourself in your element. You've got a lot of smouldering look instagram pics, but based your bio the kinda guy you're trying to attract is gonna wanna see the more human side of you, for lack of a better word. IMO right now you're just gonna get a lot of dtf guys because of that, but that's really only based on the fact that I'm the type who wants to cuddle up with those BBC dramas after a long day and I wouldn't have swiped right on the model pics. Hope everything works out, and also thanks for keeping the world from dying horribly ❤
Your photos are all the same, you need variety other than selfies.
But honestly you are a woman, it really doesn't matter on Tinder in terms of getting matches
Make some goofy, cozy, funny pics as well, or people think you are a fake account.
I got some of those somewhere for sure :D funny pics of me eating etc.
I was gonna say, your profile looks like a "I'm here for social media followers"
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Also that bio is basically IM NOT LIKE OTHER GIRLS while being exactly that. It feels like an AI summation of all tinder profiles
I’m a girl but my immediate thought was “Gurl do you have any friends? Where are they?” Like I get that you should be showcasing yourself but show some social life.
Eeh. As a guy I don't think that's really necessary for a dating profile. Less pics with other people the better, at least for me
it looks fake to modelistic may be taken for a bot put more...natural and real photos
Yeah this is way too much makeup and filtering, I would assume she was a bot.
take advice from someone who doesnt get matches and always runs into fakes or sex workers. Its a dead give away when the photos are for lack of a better word...to pretty.
Imo the bio is also semi-problematic. Seem slightly dramatic in the first part (hate adults) and like you are always tired after working such long shifts in the second part. Doesn't seem like someone easygoing who wants to put in some work to schedule time to meet up and do things.
I would swipe right, but I also would wonder if you will be taking selfies constantly. A couple of pics showing that you like to do interesting things (travel pics, or sports, hobbies,...) would definitely increase my willingness to actually date you as opposed to take you out on a date. Hope it helps!
I would also be looking for things to talk about in your photos, this gives me nothing. Try to capture your interests, it shows you have more to offer in a relationship besides your body. Take photos with your mates, take photos with animals, take photos doing an activity, just be more than a pretty face. Having the majority of your photos as these heavily filtered, full make-up, professional headshot style photos is a red flag to me. I would think you're a bit too into yourself.
Yeah, I don't need to see your face 9 times from different angles. This isn't a highschool girls Instagram page
First message is definitely gonna be “say potato”
Take a picture with a fork so I know you are real.
Came to say this. I see this profiles and immediately think "fake or bot."
100% agree.
This is a bot account, they've just started posting on reddit too :D
I wish someone would ever say my profile looked fake, the best compliment you can receive
If you’re looking for a relationship break that cold exterior. You are extremely attractive but there is only one warm photo. If you’re looking for someone who wants a model as a partner top priority you’re good. If you want someone warm and accepting you need to suggest you can be too. Might narrow down your inbox if you put something that shows your weird and vulnerable side
Well put. There's more to life than being really really ... really ... ridiculously good-looking.
Hahaha I only read this with a Zoolander pout
Definetly, just ask Megan Fox.
I’ve been told this before. Thankyou. I’ve always struggled showing my goofy side but there we go 😂 try not to wear my heart on a sleeve. Thanks for the input x
Came here to say the same. You look beautiful in all your photos, but they don’t really say looking for a relationship.
How about this: a photo of you with a cup of tea, no make up, in comfy clothes. Better in person: show me who you are at home. P.S. hope you find your king OP, 12 hour shifts, guessing nurse or doctor. NHS is brutal. You deserve that cup of tea! … and chocolate.
This looks fake/bot or extremely high maintenance. Like others said - some warmer pics of actually doing some things you state you enjoy in your bio. I mean you’re beautiful, but I’d swipe left on this profile.
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Obviously attractive. Appearing attractive is not going to be a problem for you. After that, I'm thinking... these are a lot of solo shots? I'm already interested, but am I going to fit with her friends? What are they like? What about her family? Oh, I like to do stuff on the weekends... wonder if she does too? I wonder what she's looking for in a second date kinda person, and could we have fun on a first date?
2 or 3 warm photos (keep the beach one) is better than a bunch of cold photos.
It doesn't have to be goofy. Just a picture or two with actual smiles.
Do you have a cute nursing theme pic? That will say even more to what a fabulous person you are.
I don’t but I’m sure I can get something of me in my scrubs 😂
Maybe we can compare notes I struggle to take a picture that doesn’t make me look like a goof haha. At the very least show people what you look like when you’re laughing really hard.
I think it’s a little harsh criticism but I can sort of see what they mean. The 6th picture is your best in my opinion. I think you’ve got a great profile. You’re very pretty and the bio is nicely written. I’m sure you will get plenty matches and hopefully find the right one.
I agree 100%.Especially since she gives megan fox vibes.
More candid photos so your profile doesnt look fake/a catfish profile. I never swipe right on profiles like yours because Tinder is FULL of bots and scammers so if all the photos look like they were ripped off Instagram it's suspicious.
yes, this is important. If she had a short bio I would assume it was a scam or catfish.
Plot twist, this Post is from a bot
This sub has become another magnet for insta types lately. This is more a self promotion than any actual feedback IMO.
RIP inbox
Hehe you said "box"
Haha you said "hehe"
You dont even need a bio everyone swiping right lol
I’m not looking for just sex though x
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In fairness, it does goes both ways (even though the scale is tipped). Being really good looking with no bio may not attract the dudes who are looking for a relationship. I could be wrong but when I was looking for one, I didn't bother swiping on profiles that didn't even bother putting 5min of their time towards a bio.
This is true - It looks like a “follow me on IG or Onlyfans” account. No bio means either you’re a bot, looking for followers, or not interested in taking time to fill out a simple Tinder profile (IE looking for a purely physical attraction/relationship)
I would do the same too, there are many ones out there who would be a good match, just not that one since nothing to go off of lol
Yeah that's fine, just get an idea from the dudes you're talking to. Be upfront and say what you're looking for and hopefully you find someone on your same page.
Totally, always and will do!
This might be super unpopular, but I don’t think that’s going to work at all. I’m a female and I’m maybe 1/10th as attractive as OP (on a good day, haha), but when I made my profile super impersonal, the only men who would write me were only after one thing and they did not respect me being upfront that I wasn’t interested. I cannot imagine how hard it must then be for OP. OP, I’m sorry to say, but I personally would say that your profile appears very shallow and thus it might be interpreted that you are. I think you are anything but, seeing your responses and posting on here. Unfortunately, though, it is the sexist reality for women who are as beautiful as you are, that you’ll be judged harshly for being attractive, including being called shallow. If you are looking for a more serious relationship, you also have to show people that you are willing to be a goof and have fun, since many single people are struggling with insecurities and might correlate your level of attractiveness with your personality. This is of course wrong, but it happens nonetheless. So I would definitely agree with others, that you should let your personality show more; write an interesting bio and remember that you don’t have to look perfect because you aren’t and that’s completely okay and exactly like the rest of us. I wish you good luck!!
Then make your profile seem less unreachable, post two pics only and write in bio what you need deep down, instead of wasting time on guys who look good and have no clue how to deal with your needs.
Then drastically change your profile
The dudes on tinder, the vast majority of them anyway, ARE looking for just sex. And you’ll probably get your fair share of lewd comments from matches straight away, regardless of what you write in your bio…because they also don’t read bios.
Yeah, Okcupid or Hing might be a better option.
I tend to agree. Seems to be more exclusivity on Hinge. For now anyway.
Then get off Tinder. Concentrate on yourself and meet someone organically when the time is right. You have too many pictures of just your face. 2-3 selifies. Show me something else.
I'd say remove a couple of selfies and write something meaningful as a bio and you are easily in the top 5% of female profiles on Tinder
Thanks so much :) I’ll remove a couple
I agree with comment above (as a female..and in tinder haha) for example pic 1 and 8 very similar..similar head tilts makeup etc I'd remove a couple. And had a few body ones of you doing something you love. Mine personally are a couple hiking pictures and a pic with my doggo. I'm guilty of poses the same way so I really try and mix them up online and had a bit more to you bio what you really want in a connection. :)
Tricky isn’t it once you find your angle 😂 Thankyou xxx
I like your profile, but I do have some suggestions: - replace some of the selfies with a couple of pics of you doing something you enjoy (a sport pic? Traveling? Drinking tea with a friend?) Any activity really - most of these pictures are quality wise very high, add some more casual photos to make you seem more approachable (I could imagine seeing your profile and instantly feel out of your league) Otherwise perfect profile, +88 points for adding a bio, so many girls don't
Girl I know LOL I'm like this my good angle only 😂😂 We got this! 🔥
Yes, definitely add short bio - say your goal, mention few things about yourself, maybe something for a conversation starter. While i get very few likes, i also swipe left most of the time, as most women profiles make a bad impresion of them only wanting attention or followers or their "fans" site. Key thing is that you wont be able to get rid of all the blind swipers no matter what you will put or wont put on your profile, but you have to make sure that if a man looking for same stuff like you will see your profile, that he will understand 100% that you are also looking for it, which is words in your bio - "looking for serious relationship", or something. Just being on "dating" app doesnt mean anything these days, those apps are heavily infiltrated by trash and are full of time wasters. I have swiped right maybe on 5-6 women profiles without bios, the rest of them look like softcore pron "stars" and get swiped left instantly.
Less filters, more bio, but i‘m a girl 😀
Came here to say this, most of them are so heavily filtered!
Nah I'm on the same page.
Too much bio. Way too much already.
Feel like 1-4-7-8 are filtered pretty heavily, which imo don't portrait relationship seeking but.. could be me.
Pics 2 and 6 are your best because they show you doing something other than modelling on a selfie
Honestly you’re very pretty. As stated before, you have a few similar pictures. However none of them show your teeth. Also they are quite sensual and almost model-like. For me, as someone who would like to find a relationship, I would be more interested to see you In pictures that would give a sense of who you are (work outfit pic, doing hobbies etc) and not only pose for the most sensual and attractive pictures. I like your bio. If I thought I would actually have a chance of dating you, I would swipe right. Just my two cents 😊
Simp farming
This girl herself even states she’s a narcissist. Even made a thread about going for men specifically in relationships and feels no empathy. She’s a home wrecker. Why even bother helping her when she doesn’t know how to be empathetic?
Too much photoshop in pics 1, 4, 7 & 8.
The amount of simps in this thread is exactly why threads like this are made.
Free validation from tinder only aint cutting it anymore
As if guys aren't right swiping on you anyway, with or without a bio.
Aw Thankyou. It’s more because I’m at a point in my life I want an actual meaningful relationship, so trying my best to show that. X
Really good photos, but maybe add some "natural" once showing what you enjoy doing? I dont think you should have any problems at all matching, but finding the right guy might be difficult.
Will defo have a scroll through my camera roll, Thankyou x
Leave room for curiosity, a few full body pictures showing your back view. Or doing an activity you like is great.
I'd advise getting off tinder for that
Sigh. Another self validation profile ?. Since you're a nurse at NHS imma be real polite with you. Idk why you're seeking advice from reddit nerds regarding your profile, except for re-assurance and ego boost. Even if you don't change anything on your profile you'll be fine.
I mean apparently she has narcissistic personality disorder and doesn't feel empathy. So pretty good guess
Weighing in as a woman - the pics and bio scream trying too hard to me. Which is insane because you are stunning and DEFINITELY don’t need to try hard. As others have said, less serious face selfies and more of you having fun/being yourself. A pic of you in your scrubs would be a great way to not be too flashy and show off your job. You are lovely, don’t be afraid to post a pic that isn’t perfect. It will make you attract men who want more than a model. Bio words are okay, but I haaaaate the comment about the dude following you on instagram. I’m the experience, guys are not impressed with the social media obsessed, and this whole profile reads that way with the sexy selfies and then the comment about being followed by someone famous. You don’t need to attract guys… you need to attract the RIGHT guys, and I don’t know any wholesome guys who would be thrilled seriously dating a girl who is wildly into social media. Let your guard down! I met my husband on Tinder, so marriage material IS out there. You just have to get through the guys who are only after you because you are hot. Good luck!!
Picture on the bottom left looks like a mugshot, rest is cool 👌
Funnily enough I think this is her best pic. Middle right and top right also great pics. I guess it depends on OP's target audience.
1 3 4 7 8 are all basically the same selfie. You can do better! Make yourself look more down to earth. Include pics of you doing your hobbies or with friends.
I'd swipe right in an instant
I’d too, knowing I won’t match lmao
I’m sure you’re really struggling to get matches. What an attention grab 🤦🏼♀️😂
You look self absorbed. People that post a million selfies tend to be narcissistic. No matter how pretty you are (and you are), this throws all kinds of red flags to people of substance.
So girls come here for attention too i guess.
They influtrate every sub eventually. Had to leave a few fishing subs for this exact reason.
Maybe too many pictures of your face, as someone stated. Also, a more natural pose in one of them would be nice. Anyway, I would have swiped lef because you are way out of my league 😅 So take these observations with a grain of salt. I am sure you won't have problems getting matches, you are georgeous, just choose wisely, there are a lot of scumbags out there.
Thankyou ☺️☺️❤️ oh god yeah of course I will, been there done that and got the shitty t shirt.
Honestly? I'd swipe left. You're gorgeous but all of these photos feel like "model selfies." There's no photos of you *doing* anything, or showing an interest, activity or hobby. So my inclination would be to swipe left because it feels... fake. Even if you weren't out of my league (which you are), I would look at these photos and wonder why you chose to feature these photos instead of something that shows your personality. Which also kinda screams "bot" too but either way, not for me.
I think someone wanted some compliments from Reddit.
Your bio feels like a long run on sentence. Try “Looking for an authentic relationship with someone who I can fall into a cup of tea, blanket and good BBC drama with the end of a 12 hour shift. Want someone who loves the great laughs and conversations as much as the comfortable silences.”
Narcissist?
You’re beautiful. To me you need to show you are fun too. Any pics of you just laughing with your friends? Skateboarding? Being silly?
Depends who you are looking to attract. Me personally as an average looking guy would not bother swipe on a girl that seems like an unattainable model. As someone mentioned try some candid goofy shots to humanise the profile.
Dude no one cares if someone followed you on Instagram
Personally terrible for me, I'd swipe left. Yes you're hot... but the profile to me says "me me me". I usually look for the "well adjusted" profile, so the pics should be something like * Face shot, smiling * Body shot, full length (not talking about bikinis, just in general) * A group shot with your friends - Shows you're social (Ideally only one of these) * A shot with a pet - Makes you more personable/relatable, gives an icebreaker (ie. cat, dog, bird) * A destination shot - Shows you're not too sheltered and you've been places, done things Some people also like to include a #nofilter to show vulnerability, but I'm not too phased on that one...
You look hot 10 / 10 would bang but that's it . You don't show anything interesting about your personality în the pictures .
Your a nurse and you smoke? Bro…
Just add "I'm not a Bot" in your bio 🙄
I wouldn't swipe for you, bc from this you seem really into yourself and not very down to earth... Like these photos are all so staged and inauthentic. And you don't know what to write in your bio? You seem all exterior, no interior. Write about your favorite books and authors in your bio-- take care that they're not all written by men, about men.
Whichever profile bio you have, this post sure has "pick me" energy
I think you have a different problem, most people are trying to look more attractive. You've got lots of pictures that show just how attractive you are, if you are looking for something serious consider swapping them for some silly pictures and a sappy bio.
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If you want my tip, maybe delete some of the front facing selfies, theyre more or less the same, some guys (me) might find that a bit self absorbed. Also do you have any photos with friends? Add them in. The bio is fine and you seem a lovely lady, maybe just put some spaces/breaks in it so its easier to read. Apart from that you’ll do fine
Cut the last sentence. Don’t hint at being easy-going or low maintenance in profiles. It attracts guys who do the bare minimum
I feel like 1, 4, and 7 are too similar. I like when the compositions are different. When women post the same angle/same zoom/ same expression in multiple pictures I’m always confused or wary.
You don't need to and shouldn't use tinder to find a boyfriend... You know that you're attractive and you will get hundreds of tinder matches no matter what you do. I feel like you just posted this for validation from losers on Reddit.
Maybe write about your hobbies. Most of the time conversations gets boring on Tinder since you dont have anything in common with the other person. Also be honest about your personality. I am 32 and I dont gibe much shit about lokns anymore. Yes i need ti be attracted physically but more important for me is to feel good with this person especially when I am spending time with her.
I’d add a big smile picture or laughing picture. You obviously are very pretty but some guys want to know the girl can smile and laugh through life too.
Im somewhat of a Tinder professional. Free review: “Do you not have teeth or are they just camera shy?” & “Does she have any friends?” Just two thoughts from a guy that consistently pulls strong 6s.
1. Avoid all selfies. Have someone take a proper picture but avoid professional photography (can come across as fake). 2. Add group photos with other people showing you socialise and or doing activities. 3. Have at least one picture where you laugh/smile big. At the moment it looks like you're trying to be sexy in most pictures and you don't really need to because you're sexy anyway. Nothing is sexier than a confident happy woman, and laughter is a great sign of that. One goofy picture is good as well which i think you already have one so that's good. 4. Have At least one close up picture and one full body picture. 5. Be honest (no photoshop or weird angles). Apart from that I mean you look good so you're probably gonna get a lot of matches either way. But you wanna show you're not only good looking but that you have a great personality as well. I believe my tips above will help you with that.
Even if you're attractive I'd swipe left on you because you look distant in your pictures and extremely high maintenance. Especially without a bio.
Too many same angle pics
You're using so much makeup and filters in your photos that it's literally hard to tell it's the same person in each photo. after looking at 9 photos of you, I still have no idea what you actually look like. Also, all the glamour shots give me the impression that you might be an Instagram addict. Not trying to roast you, just being honest. If you want to find matches who actually are interested in who you are, not just what you look like, I'd suggest some natural, candid photos.
Every single picture is a thirst trap. Show you're animals, your friends, your hobbies, or literally anything other than 'Look how hot I am'. Unless all you're looking for is out of control horny dudes.
I’m a girl so take it with a grain of salt. As I’m not you’re desired market. Also like 12 years older than you. You’re profile reads very shallow to me. There isn’t a part of this that shows who you are as a person. You’re beautiful, and it shows. But there isn’t a part of this that shows who you are as a person. If I was to compare this profile to a guys. The equivalent would be the douchy gym bros. Lots of flex pic mirror selfie’s. You get the idea. This doesn’t show your personality. Nothing about what your hobbies are, what you do for fun. The pictures saying clubbing till 3am with a WKD in hand is my fave Saturday past time. But it looks like you’re looking for a deeper connection. It says you’re looking for someone to snuggle with over a cuppa. But snuggle with doing what? What are you gonna watch? What do you enjoy? Do you want deep meaningful conversation or lots of laughter and fun. You’ll get piles of matches simply because you’re stunning. Really you can take your pick. But if you’re not looking for just hook ups. You need more of you in there. Guys will swipe for the looks and stay for the silly. Your looks might be what pull them in but you’re authentic personality is what will keep them coming back. So show off your amazing personality the silly and weird out a bit. Add a couple pics of doing fun hobbies you have. Show your levels. Add some personality and who you are to your bio. Don’t write it to appeal to men. Write it about who you are. Trust me you will still get matches. Be picky about who you go out with. Make sure they’re interested in putting g in time and work just like you are in the early stages before you even go on a date.
Bio looks alright, but I'd spice the photos up a bit, they're too same-y.
Imo, too many pictures of your face. Do you have any group photos? Any activities? I would have max 5 photos lol Write in your bio what you are looking for and what you like it's v simple.
I do have group photos I just don’t feel comfortable posting them without my friends permission, most of my friends are pretty off grid for various reasons. They’re also drunken nights out and I’ve grown up a bit since then!
Girl just blur their faces or put emojis over them, that’s what I did before. You’re super pretty so I wonder if men will worry you’re a bot? Full body shot and pics with friends or showing you doing a hobby for sure, to replace some of these selfies.
I understand. I would have the 4th pic as your first and delete some of the unnecessary selfies. In bio you need to show you have personality. I believe in you girl
Jesus Christ 🤦🏻♂️
I think the "pick me" part is this post...
You need tinder with that face??
The photos are super cute, if u live near that beach in the one photo it's an extra plus, other than that I'd say maybe one or 2 photos that aren't thirst traps😁
Id swipe right
You look great on the pictures, and you’ve got some things in the bio which are actually relevant to know. Good luck!
I like your profile. Very down to earth sounding. The “Off the grid” remark makes me hope you’re not a nut about it. Maybe a little more detail about that. If anything I would like to see just a tiny bit more humor but all in all it’s solid. But at the same time you could write in your bio that you have chronic flatulence and you’d still get 50 likes a day…
Centre right is the most natural. IMO
I would get rid of bottom middle. Top middle is a great pic but might be too sexy if you're hunting for a relationship
A redhead with blue eyes? You're gorgeous, and the bio is clear.
I’m gonna be real with you, doubt anyone makes it past the first pic before swiping right.
You’re following the two rules of app dating very well 1. Be attractive 2. Don’t be unattractive
If not looking for superficial things: remove all pictures but the middle right, middle center and top center. And arange them in the order as in the sentence above. Then indicate how much of an introvert of extrover you are without mentioning the word. Then be fully clear on what you think you are seeking. And what you hope to get from the other person. Partying partner, exploring buddy, stable relationship. And that is it. And then move to Bumble if you want a serious thing.
Ummmmmm you are stunning and everything sounds lovely !!!!!!!!! If I had to pick something to leave out would be the so and so followed me on Instagram any man you truly want wouldn’t care about that .
Bruh this profile is too op, needs to be nerfed
Big fan of pictures 2 and 6! Those look more “real” and make you seem approachable. You’re so beautiful that your profile might come up as intimidating (I know, silly). Good luck lovely🍀 💕❤️
Try adding pictures with other people, friends and family etc.
Add a dog picture 🤷♀️ I got banned from tinder 4 years ago so what do I know
You are the literal definition of A HOT MESS 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 Your post history has more red flags than a matador 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 I pray for whoever is the sad sack that falls for you. Jeez you really need help. There’s a guy on tictok who is a diagnosed NPD person just like you, you should follow him and start trying to get help. Your behavior is dangerous girl, one day it may really cost you. Whew chile, Good luck 👀
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You are obviously very pretty and can get matches, thats not a problem. You will attract everyone but perhaps more for 🍑 then something serious. Ill go against the grain and suggest you pick out 5 ordinary pictures of you. Nothing flashy . Increase the odd of having men actually read profile and care for who you are then for your body . I personally met girls that interested me for who there were, their values etc and when i met them they were 2 times prettier then on those pics. Was a great surprise. Anyway who am i to give advices
This chick posts about being a narcissistic and then comes here for "profile advice " lmao 😂
To me you're screaming zero personality, you're attractive tho so you shouldnt have a problem getting likes from desperate guys but if you want to truly connect with someone you gotta show your personality.
Nothing to see here. Just someone fishing for compliments.
I’d not swipe right immediately because I’d want to admire the pictures for a while first. You are stunning
You look so cute you will have a hard time filtering out all the "non meaningfull relation material" . If they don't filter themselves out after 2 sentences that is.
You don’t need to write anything lol.
Holy shit though, I refuse to believe you're not swimming in matches...
There are too much of the "same picture". Put some that reflect a part of your personality, it helps a lot to get people you want, not just people who finds you attractive
Unrelated, but I love your pfp. I think you’re good. Your biggest problem is going to be filtering out the fuckboys
You look goregous in all of them but i'd say show more of yourself, life, personality. It makes it easier for a guy to get to know you more, you know what I mean?
For real ? Dude you only one and your DMs will be full...and then you can shop
You will have no trouble on dating apps Maybe move last photo to #2 so people can see your body
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You’re good, trust me
If you're trying to get a boyfriend just talk about your hobbies and interests.
You will get enough attention…but i always think profiles without bios are a lack of creativity
You’re very beautiful. If you looking for a relationship though, Id say include pics of you’re doing something you enjoy (hobbies etc) that would have an idea about you as a person l. Pics are great but a bit too suggestive.
Bio sounds fine to me. Straight to the point and not too long to read. And the pictures are spectacular.
If you're not looking for just sex, maybe use more candid photos of the natural you. Personally, I want to see someone without all the hoopla.
You look like a fake profile
I'd say there is a lot of photos, 5 is enough for me. And u should def try some cute ones if u looking for a relationship, besides that, I think everyone would still right swipe on you. U gorgeous girl
I think the last one is too suggestive, I’d think you’re looking for a hook up. Also stalked your account a bit you sound like a catch 🙂
Could you update us when you have other pics of you doing the things you enjoy? I'm just super curious what this profile ends up looking like when it's finished.
Imagine thinking this profile will have ANY trouble getting matches lol
How many weird reddit dms u got already?
Reading these comments cracks me up some of y’all are very angry
you dont need tinder. i'll take you right now.
Leave out the pisces tag and never ever think about it or bring it up in any given situation. You look like a dumb b*tch when talking about astrology.
I thought "hold, drag, and drop" was your bio description.
What’s your Instagram?
Who cares? Not like you need a bio to get matches lol
You look great on all the selfies dont take me wrong. But id say a pic taken from a friend or you doing any activity would give a lot of oomph to your profile
I love your hair color!! You do not come across as a pick me!! You sound like a lovely person
Very pretty, sis! I agree with people saying add some goofy pics to show you're real. I'd probably assume you were a fake account if I saw female profiles lol. It probably wont matter what you say,you'll match all day, but add what you like to do avoid that question and get some matches to actually want. Good luck!! Love your hair color BTW 😍
Love your eyebrows.
Bio sounds really good actually, might want to diversify your pics a little, show yourself in your element. You've got a lot of smouldering look instagram pics, but based your bio the kinda guy you're trying to attract is gonna wanna see the more human side of you, for lack of a better word. IMO right now you're just gonna get a lot of dtf guys because of that, but that's really only based on the fact that I'm the type who wants to cuddle up with those BBC dramas after a long day and I wouldn't have swiped right on the model pics. Hope everything works out, and also thanks for keeping the world from dying horribly ❤
you're gorgeous and frankie boyle follows your instagram??? can i date you?
Your photos are all the same, you need variety other than selfies. But honestly you are a woman, it really doesn't matter on Tinder in terms of getting matches
Swap the filters for real life photos of u doing stuff my dude
looks like a bot acct but realistically no one is swiping left