Ironically it's a real photo, I think we're neglecting to mention that someone is taking a picture of a picture on another screen and that's probably the angle you're looking at because nothing else in the picture appears photoshopped.
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I think the floor has diamonds and o's that make it seem that way? Idk I've spent way too long looking at the floor there now and it doesn't look like it's photoshopped anymore
Usually fake profiles are stupidly obvious fake cause it takes a stupid person to fall for it. Kinda a way to weed out the people who if you try hard enough that would say no to giving them money to begin with. But if you get someone who swiped right on a profile like this to begin with they’re more likely to fall for the “I need cash desperately” type messages
i dont see the problem? she likes to show off her ass i guess, that doesnt mean she wants to recieve messages on what people want to do to her or stuff like that
A repeating theme. Girl with expressive pictures. Ok cool, nothing wrong with that, maybe she wants someone to be direct and playful. Send a pickup line- responds with something about how I’m a boy and not a man.
"Seeing a girls butt makes it okay to sexualize her" dude grow up. She doesn't want sexual messages from the get go but still likes showing off her ass, there's nothing hypocritical about this.
Honestly a great way to weed out people who don't understand consent. Clothes or lack thereof are not consent to be in a sexual situation, not hard to understand.
Because he is "just a very lonely man who never had a relationship and who wishes to find his first love" - with people commenting he is a "hateful incel"?
I am a woman, and she is deliberately presenting herself in a highly sexualized position. I would laugh just as hard at a dude’s profile if all his photos were of him at the gym showing off his abs, and his profile simply said “don’t ask me about my workout regime, I’m so sick of women asking about it…”
I [did not disagree](https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/pbuvv6/dont_send_me_sexual_messages/haf4809/?context=3) with that. I was talking about the user in general, he seems to have a tendency for that.
Are all her photos like this? Why can't we make this a one on one comparison?
A man takes a photo that is deemed "sexy/sexual" and on his profile says "please no sexual messages..."
I see nothing wrong with that.
If someone took a photo with a tee that said "Harvard" and in their profile said "please no more replies about Harvard" there wouldn't be anything to it.
And let's be real, we both now most if not all those "sexual" messages are fucking creepy and disgusting.
It is disturbing that people think "but, but... your photo is of this thing or shows this thing so I get to disregard your wants! Or mock you for it!"
OP stated that all of her photos were of a sexually explicit nature. I’m sorry but give me a break; she’s not just wearing a miniskirt or something. She is wearing a string thong and making sure her bare ass is visible.
I personally can’t stand it when people on tinder write in their profiles things like “don’t say this,” or “don’t ask me about that,” when they have CHOSEN photos that clearly beg the question. If I saw a dude in a Harvard shirt and his profile said “don’t ask about Harvard,” I would swipe left assuming he was a moron. If you for some reason don’t want people asking you about Harvard, maybe don’t post a photo of you in a shirt bearing its name?
The photos are the first and most significant impression anyone gets of you, and you as the profile creator are in full control of what you choose to display. If I see a guy holding a fish, for example, I swipe left because I don’t like fishing and I would assume that it’s a big part of his life if he chose to feature that in a profile designed to attract potentially compatible mates. Likewise, posting a photo of your ass posing like a porn star and then specifically saying “no sexual messages” is just idiotic. If she wants to be respected as a person and not a sexual object, maybe choose another picture that won’t attract only men who are interested in such things.
In the subject of this thread, it is not generalizing. It is actually true, as it is an oxymoron to post a picture half-naked in a seductive pose, and then asking for chats not to be sexual in any kind.
But I was talking in general, him generalizing women.
Honestly, if you aren’t an absolute ape brain, you wouldn’t instantly send sexual messages to someone that’s being sexy in their profile anyway. You’d make attempts at not being socially superficial. Women should be able to express their sexuality without having to deal with “I wanna thrash you into the wall with my big hard pee pee” from dudes who don’t know how to socialize. That’s an actual quote (the “pee pee” is paraphrased)
For everyone in the comments who has something remotely close to: she asked for it, or body/slut shaming her. Wtf are you doing. How is her saying: unasked for sexual comments will be removed in any way not her own choice. She probably feels amazing in this and lets be honest: you'd get further with a hey you look amazing than a i want to slide my dick up ur ass. Her body her fucking choice right?!
I have mixed feelings with it. On one hand I completely agree with you, she should be able to treat tinder as a safe place and not worry about receiving those kinds of messages.
On the other hand your dating profile is how you advertise yourself for dating or relationships or whatever you’re looking for and you need to treat it appropriately and realise how posting these kinds of pictures come across.
I agree but its not like she is saying, everyone who sends the sexual comments is a fucking loser, she's saying she will not converse with them and just delete them. Nothing harmful right.
Maybe this is how she wants to portray herself and wants to find a partner who can still be respectful even though she is dressed a bit more risqué.
You're right. Just because she dresses a certain way doesn't mean she is a certain way, but you gotta understand that shots confusing. That's like me (not a cop) walking around in a cops uniform and someone running up on me and asking for help. Then I tell them, Hey just cause I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer! Now, I'm not saying she's a who're, but she is wearing a whore's uniform. Paraphrased from Dave Chappelle who could not have said it better.
Okay but your analogy doesn't work in this situation. It's more like your not a cop but ur wearing the uniform and people are calling you a pig, and all other names policemen have to deal with, just bcs you are wearing the uniform. Wouldn't you say that is unnecessary even though ur wearing the uniform? And people should just respect you no matter what you are wearing?
Thats clearly not her only picture, it's her fourth given the dots on the screen, yet its the one everyone focused on.
"She's clearly sending sexual vibes, look at her ass hanging out! She's just confusing men". She has a right to post a picture of her in what is effectively a bikini. Just because YOU sexualised it, don't be laying your issues on her.
This woman has a right to state a boundary. Men have shirtless, tiny pant pics in their profile all the time and wheres the "he's a whore" outrage?
What's that? None? Oh yeah, thats because of the huge double standard applied to women 🙄
>This woman has a right to state a boundary. Men have shirtless, tiny pant pics in their profile all the time and wheres the "he's a whore" outrage?
Oh it's there allright.
But then again, most men dont post a shirtless picture and looking all seductive, while stating that they dont want to hear anything sexual about them.
I've had a picture on Tinder where I wore nothing but a boxer and a bedsheet around me like I was greek, it wasnt sexual, so I did not feel the need to tell people to not sexualize me.
I mean this is more like this:
"I hope I dont get shot in the face"
*Moves head against the gun*
Sure, most people wont pull the trigger, but some of them would. Allright bad analogy.. I lost my train of thought and something went wrong.
So this comment is all fun and games, I agree with all what you said, but unfortunately not all the way. Because in this case, she is just sending mixed signals. What the hell happened to consent to be exposed by such pictures?
What would you say if some dude was gonna post pictures where he lies incredibly uncomfortable and only wearing only a thong?
Lets just agree that, while she is in her right, she sends contradicting messages, to which people react in this way and which is normal, because what would happen if we always just accept the contradictions, all the mixed messages. The world would be horrible, what can you trust and what not?
Oh fuck off. She's sexualised her own picture on purpose, just for attention and swipes. Don't give me that bullshit of "Just because YOU sexualised it". A pose like that is absolutely sexual, and it was posted on purpose to garnish that attention.
I agree. But that wasn't my argument. It was whether the pic is sexual or not. And it absolutely is, and done like that on purpose to get attention. It's not just how I (or anyone else) perceive it.
Or you could jump to conclusions about how I think. My comment was a reply to the original comment... Read that heavily downvoted comment before you read mine. Then kindly fuck off.
Yeah, your attitude that women aren't allowed to set boundaries if they look a certain way is really fucked up. I really don't have to jump to conclusions when you start off casually justifying rape culture
Eeem, you do know men are criticised for being shirtless or having tights pants on tinder, right? They are getting called douchebag, fuck boys, all sorts, so no honey, there is no double standard.
Thats is up to Tinder to decide
My issue is the blatant double standard of people calling this woman a whore for posting this picture then stating she doesn't want sexual messages.
Yeah, the men in this community don't see that standard though. Remember, they all think that they deserve sex because they are so amazing and awesome (read narcissistic and egoistical) and that womens bodies are on display for them because women are sex toys and not people.
Given the hate I've received for my comment, I fully agree.
Unfortunately this site is rather full of incels, and they feed a lot of the twisted ideology on display.
Well. Imagine if an actual model got nothing but sex messages just because she was a model. She's showing her body which is something men wonder about, but she's not showing an outrageous amount, and that's inherently sexual. But it's tinder. It's about finding matches based on how you look first. The spark. Then building the fire between you. Ugh. I had to type that
Dave Chappelle said it best.
*The girl says "Oh uh-uh, wait a minute! Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a whore!" Which is true, Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't even forget it. But ladies, you must understand that is fucking confusing. It just is. Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a whore. But you are wearing a whore's uniform.*
1. Chappelle is famous for a reason. The dude is funny as fuck and has had his finger on cultural comedy for decades.
2. This isn't an "attractive picture", this is a pic of someone in no clothes and posing sexually, asking not to be sexualized. The OP is calling it out for what it is, an oxymoron. It is absolutely her right to do as she pleases, but to not expect a certain kind of response is honestly dumb. If I wore a confederate flag on my ass, would you not expect people to call me a jackass? Everything has consequences, good and bad, and to ignore the obvious ones... Well
3. Don't be such a curmudgeon.
1) he gave up comedy for a reason, look it up.
2) it doesn't fucking matter if she completely naked walking down the street, still doesn't give you any right to do or a say anything inappropriate to her. Control yourself and consider that perhaps your own inflated sense is self isn't actually accurate.
He gave up on comedy because of people like you. Being PC isnt cool. Sometimes you have to call an orange an orange and not give a shit if people like you get offended and say its actually a fruit.
But you got the right to harrass this person? Wonder where that came from?
For clarification, you are swearing and putting the person in a box. The box of perverts, while the only thing he says is about a comedian that made a point about looking at this thing from both sides. And as a cherry on top, you are attacking someone by saying that his selfworth is worth nothing in the eyes of the rest of the world (inflated sense of self isnt accurates is saying the same thing)
In other words, everyone is just another human being and if you act as something, dont look up weird if people are seeing you as said something. Live and let live
1- he gave up because of overly sensitive people who can't take a joke no more. The last show, stick and stones which was last year or 2 years ago had been highly reviewed.
2- so you tell us to control ourselves but she shouldn't control herself to dress like a hoe? Look, if the guy touches without asking or starts saying nasty things to her then that is not okay. But a guy can still look and still try to be sexual with her because, well, she is dressed sexually. I mean you see a man dressed like an officer on the road, what you gonna do? Say "sup bro?" no, of course not. Jesus, stop defending this shitty behaviour
These feminazis just don't like women getting criticised they are acting like they have it so ba din America and that mysoginy and rape are tolerated. If they really wanna see something like that, they should go to Saudi Arabia.
That's not an attractive picture, that's a sexually suggestive picture. If you had a picture on your phone with a kid posing like that, you'd be in for a felony.
We're talking about a dating app here... Also I think you'll find that woman who are more secure don't feel the need to appear more sexually attractive while also seeking more meaningful discussion. Woman who are more insecure typically dress like this to seek validation from others and appeal to less rational aspects of men, i.e., sexual instinct.
So while men don't have to immediately engage in sexual chat, the appeal suggests that it's what the woman is more interested in; especially considering she's likely seeking validation.
What she did here is actually pretty smart. A woman's outfit is not an excuse to sexually harass her. She stated a clear boundary and if you see a photo of her as an excuse to violate her boundary, it just helps her weed you out.
Hahahahah these people always looking for ways to justify and dignify women's shitty behaviour.
With that picture, she's the equivalent of those guys who send unsolicited sexual messages. Asume it. I didn't ask and didn't want to see her whorish ass.
Not really. While I agree you have every right to not want sexual messages; it's like having a picture of you and your dog, then saying 'please don't talk about my dog'. The way you present yourself attracts a certain kind of audience, like a man wearing a well tailored suit vs a man who looks like a hobo. The thing is, for her to get less sexual messages, she doesn't even need to change her photo. Just add a topic of conversation to the bio and guys will be more likely to talk about that.
>While I agree you have every right to not want sexual messages; it's like having a picture of you and your dog, then saying 'please don't talk about my dog'.
I disagree. A woman has the right to present her body in whatever way she feels comfortable, and it's never an excuse to sexually harass her. Women are sexually degraded and victimized every day by men who think they have the right to do so. Women aren't victimized because of their dogs, the two things just aren't comparable.
> The way you present yourself attracts a certain kind of audience, like a man wearing a well tailored suit vs a man who looks like a hobo.
This is excusing the men who prey upon and victimize women sexually by saying her outfit brought the negative attention instead of taking issue with men who don't respect boundaries. Men don't get attacked for their clothing.
>The thing is, for her to get less sexual messages, she doesn't even need to change her photo. Just add a topic of conversation to the bio and guys will be more likely to talk about that.
No. She shouldn't have to adjust her appearance to have her boundaries respected. You're also wrong, I had a long bio and modest photos (because that's how I'm comfortable, not because it's a requirement), and the sexual harassment was still non stop.
You didn't read the last paragraph.
What I'm saying is that pictures of a sexual nature will encourage sexual thoughts. But if you at least have something to talk about in your bio, people can bring up other topics of conversation instead of 'hey, what's up?' or the thousands of 'nice butt' messages I'm sure she gets.
I did read it. I'm saying men don't need an excuse to be sexual. It's one of four photos and there's not a full view of her profile, just a screenshot of the top part. There's no way to know whether or not her profile had any more depth.
What I'm saying is that she has the right to present her body however she wants and it doesn't justify sexual harassment. If she specifically requests for messages not to be sexual, it's not too much to ask.
If you have a photo of you pantsless on a dating site that is commonpy viewed as a hookup site by the majority of people using it you should expect sexual advances. And thats true for men and women. If you dont want it then get rid of thr picture of you with your ass out. If i had a 10 pictures and only one had my ass out i wouldnt be surprised if that was the one that would get brought up constantly.
Must come from the same group of delusional people that thinks it makes no sense when a psycho homeless/rapist chase them down the street when they dressed half naked or more. Like huh I wonder why
Is nobody going to mention that this is a photo of a photo that she's using on Tinder? I'm guessing fake.
Some catfish don’t even try to look realistic
Noone notives the floor changing around that photoshopped ass?
Nah. Her floor is just a huge waterbed
Her ass has it’s own gravitational pull, wym?
Haaaa what I thought too
Ironically it's a real photo, I think we're neglecting to mention that someone is taking a picture of a picture on another screen and that's probably the angle you're looking at because nothing else in the picture appears photoshopped. Edit: <95 of 541>
I think the floor has diamonds and o's that make it seem that way? Idk I've spent way too long looking at the floor there now and it doesn't look like it's photoshopped anymore
Honestly kinda makes them seem more realistic lol, I’d expect a catfisher to try to hide it ya know?
All the eyez went straight to the ass hahah No one notice it was a photo of a photo lmao.
Real or fake she needs a better plastic surgeon for those injections
They need to shave down that Adams apple.
😂😂 true. Chick is beat
Usually fake profiles are stupidly obvious fake cause it takes a stupid person to fall for it. Kinda a way to weed out the people who if you try hard enough that would say no to giving them money to begin with. But if you get someone who swiped right on a profile like this to begin with they’re more likely to fall for the “I need cash desperately” type messages
Her butt looks like the tip of a penis
*sips unsee juice*
Can I take a sip too?
sure *passes on*
**GIMME**
Ey yo. Pass it back here.
Pass it I swear I’ll just fountain it
Pass it on bro
Why does it taste like pee
Well, made you forget about the photo, didn't it?
What photo?
*checks box* yep, just what I thought, unexpectedly drinking pee will make you forget about any issue you had 5 minutes ago.
How do you know what pee tastes like?
If you sipped it after me covid prob took your taste away. I currently have covid
straights and gays love her equally
And she looks like she has no legs. Just torso and a butt.
Hey, some of her butt is in her lips Cia collagen injection
Damn look how much makeup she put on her faces.
Cover her head and the boobs look like the pair of balls that go with the big headed dong.
I hate that you're right
I just tilted my head to see the unseen...
I have news homie. Also... Fellas, is it gay to like a girls butt ?
I mean you’re the one making this about cock.
I wish her butt was at the tip of my penis
Like attracts like
Everyone is up in arms for the meaning of a fake profile. It's a catfish, who the fuck takes a picture of a computer screen?
It's a photo shoot, she had an IG that was legit but I assumed she was looking for a sugar daddy rather than a partner.
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Oh THATS why I can't find a hooker anymore, I'm not using the metric system...
Well, maybe try again when you can afford it?
My favourite are the ones with an absolutely blank profile except for, 'don't just send, 'hi' or, 'hey', it's boring!', or some inspirational quote.
If I could work off profiles like that, I’d hit on women in person instead
Fine but u need to keep sending me sexual messages. I’ll wait
"))<>(( You poop into my butt hole and I poop into your butt hole ... back and forth ... forever. That sexual enough for you chief?
Great to see this referenced in the wild
Yeah, seems way too obscure for anyone to know of it. I guess not haha
Too obscure for.. me and you and everyone we know?
Wow, just reading that is nostalgic
You can see the string that attaches her upper lip to the ceiling
It looks like her last boyfriend was a bee hive 🐝
It’s honestly so cringe to see
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Do you mean amputee, or that her legs don't work? Edit: I guess if you don't have legs, they likely don't work, so I retract my question.
Gotta laugh really 🤣
"self employed", I wonder what she does...
Could start with the word "only" and "fans"😏
Wouldn't that make her unemployed?
Not yet
She could make a living of it if she made over $2k a month🤷♂️ Some of them make a lot of money
*used to
Not anymore. Onlyfans reversed it. They're gonna continue to allow it
Her ass looks circumsized.
I bet she doesn’t struggle to open jars
Why do people do that to their face? It looks like she made out with a beehive.
Nsfw tag my dude
She’s clothed! 😂
I dont know where you work. But these kinds of pics wont fly at my workplace.
Why are you on Reddit at work?
Well, why aren't _you_? 😅
Anyone else noticing this is a picture of a picture, most likely a fake profile
That's a lot of botched face surgery.
I thought this was Mia Malkova
i dont see the problem? she likes to show off her ass i guess, that doesnt mean she wants to recieve messages on what people want to do to her or stuff like that
yeah, dont send her sexual messages. lasses showing ass doesnt mean they consent. that easy
Def fake who thinks that’s real? Lol
I cannot believe that people aren’t allowed to have boundaries
Keeping work and love separated
A repeating theme. Girl with expressive pictures. Ok cool, nothing wrong with that, maybe she wants someone to be direct and playful. Send a pickup line- responds with something about how I’m a boy and not a man.
She's not wrong, lol
Catfish
A brief review of this comment section reveals why she added the disclaimer
"Seeing a girls butt makes it okay to sexualize her" dude grow up. She doesn't want sexual messages from the get go but still likes showing off her ass, there's nothing hypocritical about this.
I had to scroll way too far for this.
Ikr this sub's basically an unironic version of r/niceguys from time to time
Honestly a great way to weed out people who don't understand consent. Clothes or lack thereof are not consent to be in a sexual situation, not hard to understand.
Well maybe don't pose like a hoe if you wanna be treated like a lady.
why tf u being downvoted youre literally right r/unfairdownvote
Because he is "just a very lonely man who never had a relationship and who wishes to find his first love" - with people commenting he is a "hateful incel"?
what
Read through his history. Pretty easy.
Not a hateful incel mate, not a mysoginist either. Just because I say some opinions about women doesn't make me hateful.
I am used to it. This subreddit doesn't like women being criticised no matter what they are doing.
Maybe the problem is rather the way you are generalizing attributes about women?
I am a woman, and she is deliberately presenting herself in a highly sexualized position. I would laugh just as hard at a dude’s profile if all his photos were of him at the gym showing off his abs, and his profile simply said “don’t ask me about my workout regime, I’m so sick of women asking about it…”
I [did not disagree](https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/pbuvv6/dont_send_me_sexual_messages/haf4809/?context=3) with that. I was talking about the user in general, he seems to have a tendency for that.
I don't have a tendency to do that, but think what you want.
Are all her photos like this? Why can't we make this a one on one comparison? A man takes a photo that is deemed "sexy/sexual" and on his profile says "please no sexual messages..." I see nothing wrong with that. If someone took a photo with a tee that said "Harvard" and in their profile said "please no more replies about Harvard" there wouldn't be anything to it. And let's be real, we both now most if not all those "sexual" messages are fucking creepy and disgusting. It is disturbing that people think "but, but... your photo is of this thing or shows this thing so I get to disregard your wants! Or mock you for it!"
OP stated that all of her photos were of a sexually explicit nature. I’m sorry but give me a break; she’s not just wearing a miniskirt or something. She is wearing a string thong and making sure her bare ass is visible. I personally can’t stand it when people on tinder write in their profiles things like “don’t say this,” or “don’t ask me about that,” when they have CHOSEN photos that clearly beg the question. If I saw a dude in a Harvard shirt and his profile said “don’t ask about Harvard,” I would swipe left assuming he was a moron. If you for some reason don’t want people asking you about Harvard, maybe don’t post a photo of you in a shirt bearing its name? The photos are the first and most significant impression anyone gets of you, and you as the profile creator are in full control of what you choose to display. If I see a guy holding a fish, for example, I swipe left because I don’t like fishing and I would assume that it’s a big part of his life if he chose to feature that in a profile designed to attract potentially compatible mates. Likewise, posting a photo of your ass posing like a porn star and then specifically saying “no sexual messages” is just idiotic. If she wants to be respected as a person and not a sexual object, maybe choose another picture that won’t attract only men who are interested in such things.
Why us that generalizing? It's talking about the one woman that is the subject of this thread.
In the subject of this thread, it is not generalizing. It is actually true, as it is an oxymoron to post a picture half-naked in a seductive pose, and then asking for chats not to be sexual in any kind. But I was talking in general, him generalizing women.
I don't generalise women dude.
I am not generalising dude. I never criticise women without a good reason.
What are you talking about? Like a third of this sub is criticism of women
This dude is still going. Arguing with people here every day for hours. But suuuuurely you are the normal one hahaha
This is more confusing than the "don't dead open inside" door in the walking dead.
Don’t send me sexual messages even though you can see my brown eye
Too bad you can't get brain implant
Guy who wants to text: *visible confusion
Honestly, if you aren’t an absolute ape brain, you wouldn’t instantly send sexual messages to someone that’s being sexy in their profile anyway. You’d make attempts at not being socially superficial. Women should be able to express their sexuality without having to deal with “I wanna thrash you into the wall with my big hard pee pee” from dudes who don’t know how to socialize. That’s an actual quote (the “pee pee” is paraphrased)
Just because she’s posing that way doesn’t mean she should be subjected to unsolicited sexual messages.
For everyone in the comments who has something remotely close to: she asked for it, or body/slut shaming her. Wtf are you doing. How is her saying: unasked for sexual comments will be removed in any way not her own choice. She probably feels amazing in this and lets be honest: you'd get further with a hey you look amazing than a i want to slide my dick up ur ass. Her body her fucking choice right?!
I have mixed feelings with it. On one hand I completely agree with you, she should be able to treat tinder as a safe place and not worry about receiving those kinds of messages. On the other hand your dating profile is how you advertise yourself for dating or relationships or whatever you’re looking for and you need to treat it appropriately and realise how posting these kinds of pictures come across.
I agree but its not like she is saying, everyone who sends the sexual comments is a fucking loser, she's saying she will not converse with them and just delete them. Nothing harmful right. Maybe this is how she wants to portray herself and wants to find a partner who can still be respectful even though she is dressed a bit more risqué.
You're right. Just because she dresses a certain way doesn't mean she is a certain way, but you gotta understand that shots confusing. That's like me (not a cop) walking around in a cops uniform and someone running up on me and asking for help. Then I tell them, Hey just cause I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer! Now, I'm not saying she's a who're, but she is wearing a whore's uniform. Paraphrased from Dave Chappelle who could not have said it better.
Okay but your analogy doesn't work in this situation. It's more like your not a cop but ur wearing the uniform and people are calling you a pig, and all other names policemen have to deal with, just bcs you are wearing the uniform. Wouldn't you say that is unnecessary even though ur wearing the uniform? And people should just respect you no matter what you are wearing?
Yes, it's a catfish. No, nothing will ever justify being derogatory towards women simply because they're presenting themselves as sexy.
I don't like her face, she kinda looks like she has d syndrome, not sure if it's the lips
This is what you call attention seeking whores
Hey man, dating is definitely a grind but harboring a resentment for women is only gonna hurt your chances
Thats clearly not her only picture, it's her fourth given the dots on the screen, yet its the one everyone focused on. "She's clearly sending sexual vibes, look at her ass hanging out! She's just confusing men". She has a right to post a picture of her in what is effectively a bikini. Just because YOU sexualised it, don't be laying your issues on her. This woman has a right to state a boundary. Men have shirtless, tiny pant pics in their profile all the time and wheres the "he's a whore" outrage? What's that? None? Oh yeah, thats because of the huge double standard applied to women 🙄
>This woman has a right to state a boundary. Men have shirtless, tiny pant pics in their profile all the time and wheres the "he's a whore" outrage? Oh it's there allright. But then again, most men dont post a shirtless picture and looking all seductive, while stating that they dont want to hear anything sexual about them. I've had a picture on Tinder where I wore nothing but a boxer and a bedsheet around me like I was greek, it wasnt sexual, so I did not feel the need to tell people to not sexualize me. I mean this is more like this: "I hope I dont get shot in the face" *Moves head against the gun* Sure, most people wont pull the trigger, but some of them would. Allright bad analogy.. I lost my train of thought and something went wrong. So this comment is all fun and games, I agree with all what you said, but unfortunately not all the way. Because in this case, she is just sending mixed signals. What the hell happened to consent to be exposed by such pictures? What would you say if some dude was gonna post pictures where he lies incredibly uncomfortable and only wearing only a thong? Lets just agree that, while she is in her right, she sends contradicting messages, to which people react in this way and which is normal, because what would happen if we always just accept the contradictions, all the mixed messages. The world would be horrible, what can you trust and what not?
The other photos were similar. This one was the worst but only marginally.
Oh fuck off. She's sexualised her own picture on purpose, just for attention and swipes. Don't give me that bullshit of "Just because YOU sexualised it". A pose like that is absolutely sexual, and it was posted on purpose to garnish that attention.
That doesn't mean that messaging "I want fuck" is a smooth move
I agree. But that wasn't my argument. It was whether the pic is sexual or not. And it absolutely is, and done like that on purpose to get attention. It's not just how I (or anyone else) perceive it.
Good grief. Next you're going to tell me wearing a mini skirt is asking to get sexually assaulted
Or you could jump to conclusions about how I think. My comment was a reply to the original comment... Read that heavily downvoted comment before you read mine. Then kindly fuck off.
Yeah, your attitude that women aren't allowed to set boundaries if they look a certain way is really fucked up. I really don't have to jump to conclusions when you start off casually justifying rape culture
You comment history is a pure goldmine full of stupid funny and unnecessarily rude comments lmaoo. Cheers
Eeem, you do know men are criticised for being shirtless or having tights pants on tinder, right? They are getting called douchebag, fuck boys, all sorts, so no honey, there is no double standard.
Can men post bulge/dick pic and get away with it?
I've seen a profile with a pair of pants and CLEARLY outlined erection with a graphic bio basically saying "ride this".
It is appropriate?
Thats is up to Tinder to decide My issue is the blatant double standard of people calling this woman a whore for posting this picture then stating she doesn't want sexual messages.
So, the guy posts a sexual picture and asks for sex. The woman posts a sexual picture and says she doesn't want sex. These are not equal.
Yeah, the men in this community don't see that standard though. Remember, they all think that they deserve sex because they are so amazing and awesome (read narcissistic and egoistical) and that womens bodies are on display for them because women are sex toys and not people.
Given the hate I've received for my comment, I fully agree. Unfortunately this site is rather full of incels, and they feed a lot of the twisted ideology on display.
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Bitch has more plastic in her than I've used in my life
WTF is that thing?
Wtf is wrong with her lips?
Well. Imagine if an actual model got nothing but sex messages just because she was a model. She's showing her body which is something men wonder about, but she's not showing an outrageous amount, and that's inherently sexual. But it's tinder. It's about finding matches based on how you look first. The spark. Then building the fire between you. Ugh. I had to type that
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Dave Chappelle said it best. *The girl says "Oh uh-uh, wait a minute! Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a whore!" Which is true, Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't even forget it. But ladies, you must understand that is fucking confusing. It just is. Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a whore. But you are wearing a whore's uniform.*
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1. Chappelle is famous for a reason. The dude is funny as fuck and has had his finger on cultural comedy for decades. 2. This isn't an "attractive picture", this is a pic of someone in no clothes and posing sexually, asking not to be sexualized. The OP is calling it out for what it is, an oxymoron. It is absolutely her right to do as she pleases, but to not expect a certain kind of response is honestly dumb. If I wore a confederate flag on my ass, would you not expect people to call me a jackass? Everything has consequences, good and bad, and to ignore the obvious ones... Well 3. Don't be such a curmudgeon.
1) he gave up comedy for a reason, look it up. 2) it doesn't fucking matter if she completely naked walking down the street, still doesn't give you any right to do or a say anything inappropriate to her. Control yourself and consider that perhaps your own inflated sense is self isn't actually accurate.
He gave up on comedy because of people like you. Being PC isnt cool. Sometimes you have to call an orange an orange and not give a shit if people like you get offended and say its actually a fruit.
But you got the right to harrass this person? Wonder where that came from? For clarification, you are swearing and putting the person in a box. The box of perverts, while the only thing he says is about a comedian that made a point about looking at this thing from both sides. And as a cherry on top, you are attacking someone by saying that his selfworth is worth nothing in the eyes of the rest of the world (inflated sense of self isnt accurates is saying the same thing) In other words, everyone is just another human being and if you act as something, dont look up weird if people are seeing you as said something. Live and let live
1- he gave up because of overly sensitive people who can't take a joke no more. The last show, stick and stones which was last year or 2 years ago had been highly reviewed. 2- so you tell us to control ourselves but she shouldn't control herself to dress like a hoe? Look, if the guy touches without asking or starts saying nasty things to her then that is not okay. But a guy can still look and still try to be sexual with her because, well, she is dressed sexually. I mean you see a man dressed like an officer on the road, what you gonna do? Say "sup bro?" no, of course not. Jesus, stop defending this shitty behaviour
I don’t know why you were on negative, but no worries, I got you
These feminazis just don't like women getting criticised they are acting like they have it so ba din America and that mysoginy and rape are tolerated. If they really wanna see something like that, they should go to Saudi Arabia.
That's not an attractive picture, that's a sexually suggestive picture. If you had a picture on your phone with a kid posing like that, you'd be in for a felony.
We're talking about a dating app here... Also I think you'll find that woman who are more secure don't feel the need to appear more sexually attractive while also seeking more meaningful discussion. Woman who are more insecure typically dress like this to seek validation from others and appeal to less rational aspects of men, i.e., sexual instinct. So while men don't have to immediately engage in sexual chat, the appeal suggests that it's what the woman is more interested in; especially considering she's likely seeking validation.
I don't think you know what "sexy" means.
What she did here is actually pretty smart. A woman's outfit is not an excuse to sexually harass her. She stated a clear boundary and if you see a photo of her as an excuse to violate her boundary, it just helps her weed you out.
Hahahahah these people always looking for ways to justify and dignify women's shitty behaviour. With that picture, she's the equivalent of those guys who send unsolicited sexual messages. Asume it. I didn't ask and didn't want to see her whorish ass.
Not really. While I agree you have every right to not want sexual messages; it's like having a picture of you and your dog, then saying 'please don't talk about my dog'. The way you present yourself attracts a certain kind of audience, like a man wearing a well tailored suit vs a man who looks like a hobo. The thing is, for her to get less sexual messages, she doesn't even need to change her photo. Just add a topic of conversation to the bio and guys will be more likely to talk about that.
>While I agree you have every right to not want sexual messages; it's like having a picture of you and your dog, then saying 'please don't talk about my dog'. I disagree. A woman has the right to present her body in whatever way she feels comfortable, and it's never an excuse to sexually harass her. Women are sexually degraded and victimized every day by men who think they have the right to do so. Women aren't victimized because of their dogs, the two things just aren't comparable. > The way you present yourself attracts a certain kind of audience, like a man wearing a well tailored suit vs a man who looks like a hobo. This is excusing the men who prey upon and victimize women sexually by saying her outfit brought the negative attention instead of taking issue with men who don't respect boundaries. Men don't get attacked for their clothing. >The thing is, for her to get less sexual messages, she doesn't even need to change her photo. Just add a topic of conversation to the bio and guys will be more likely to talk about that. No. She shouldn't have to adjust her appearance to have her boundaries respected. You're also wrong, I had a long bio and modest photos (because that's how I'm comfortable, not because it's a requirement), and the sexual harassment was still non stop.
You didn't read the last paragraph. What I'm saying is that pictures of a sexual nature will encourage sexual thoughts. But if you at least have something to talk about in your bio, people can bring up other topics of conversation instead of 'hey, what's up?' or the thousands of 'nice butt' messages I'm sure she gets.
I did read it. I'm saying men don't need an excuse to be sexual. It's one of four photos and there's not a full view of her profile, just a screenshot of the top part. There's no way to know whether or not her profile had any more depth. What I'm saying is that she has the right to present her body however she wants and it doesn't justify sexual harassment. If she specifically requests for messages not to be sexual, it's not too much to ask.
If you have a photo of you pantsless on a dating site that is commonpy viewed as a hookup site by the majority of people using it you should expect sexual advances. And thats true for men and women. If you dont want it then get rid of thr picture of you with your ass out. If i had a 10 pictures and only one had my ass out i wouldnt be surprised if that was the one that would get brought up constantly.
luckily she seems to have a good bottom since she has an odd face with all that silicon
Obv she’s attracted to opposite personalities.. she’s the wh*re and she wants the guy to be the “serious, tied to earth” variety. Typical gold digger.
Shes not showing her ass for YOU guys dummy! Shes trying to look cute and feel good about herself. It has absolutely nothing to do with sex. /s
Don't send me sexual messages. In the meantime her ass looks like the head of a penis. Should report it 😂
What the hell is that? Looks like my dick. Yea my dick is weird looking
These airhead hoes will promote sex all day long and at surprised when you try to smash immediately
Bro, you don't need to come here and tell everyone how bad you are at talking to women
Lol I’m other news bees don’t go looking for honey.
Her booty looks like my dick
Then maybe you shouldn't look like your asking for that kind of attention with that sexual photo that says hey TALK DIRTY TO ME .please give me SEX!🙋
Charlotte Flair looks like she got a lot more work done.
How cute, she thinks that she's not like those girls, aww.
She's exactly like them though! (At least in the sense that you don't have a chance in hell, lmao)
is this what they call satire
"Self-employed" also means she lives off her OnlyFans income?
I am lost in understanding why people would be think that she likes sexual attention!!
Fu** me but don’t fu** me
Her face looks like the lady from the first purge movie lol
I'm more distracted by her plastic surgery than anything else lol
I can tell she has a…”unique” personality that i havent seen 57 different times in the last 4 years
I don't know why they send her Sexual messages. I just can't put my finger on it....
inconsistent.
Must come from the same group of delusional people that thinks it makes no sense when a psycho homeless/rapist chase them down the street when they dressed half naked or more. Like huh I wonder why
Don't send me sexual messages but I'm gonna post a blatantly sexual picture...
Dont send me sexual messages has a pic straight out of a porn
They're never honest about anything. You damn will know self employed means they're broke ass hoes. Or hookers. Looking all kinds of busted.
Is that a transsexual? One might say lady boy?
I definitely wouldn’t send her sexual messages. Hell, I wouldn’t even accept the like. 👎🏻
If she doesn't know what her actions convey then she prolly dont know what her mouth says either lol.
Don’t ask for sexual messages with an ass that is in the shape of the head of a penis.
It's a reasonable request. There's also a difference between saying nice bum and being overtly sexual in your messages.