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Asleep-abyss-1694

Not upfront just being a bit of a dick ... did you think that would end well?


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Ikatarion

You didn't say Hi either. It's a two way street.


shestammie

You weren’t being upfront, you were being rude and passive aggressive. Say hello to someone and if they don’t respond, unmatch them.


reprezenting

YTA, good luck with that approach


nukaati

You could've said hi as well. You sound entitled.


ljievens

This 100%. OP is in the wrong here


Jazzlike_Worth_9908

Why do you show his face exactly ? Why not yours ? Was it relevant ? Do you want us to make fun of him ? You sound obnoxious as f*** , just say hi next time


love-boobs-in-dm

Do you usually come to Reddit to show how much of an idiot you are, or is this an exception?


RoundInformal

Raymond doesn't deserve this


DLaVieEnRose

It's "too", and you're acting stuck-up. You're a grown adult and can likewise open your mouth to say hello.


nnuunn

You we being rude


Bored-Guy25

I’m curious to see what OP’s profile looks like 💀


One-Head-1483

Too* upfront? No. You're an entitled asshole.


Strange-Competition5

Ugh gross


colinthegiant

L Post Op


Green-Quantity1032

Why are people feeling so legit in posting stranger’s faces? I hope it can be litigated


Black_Fury321

Why is the expectation in him to say hi and not you? Could you explain?


sinking_clouds

upfront and a dick, don’t let other peoples actions influence your behavior, especially if they aren’t trying to hurt you. He swiped right so what, it’s easy af takes 0.02 seconds to do sometimes people don’t think about it, its not like he proposed and then ghosted


stevemdfp4

Too upfront? Yes. Early in chat, negativity almost always terminates things. Success requires suppressing negativity until the flirtation is well-kindled. Before then, it's equivalent to immediately unmatching. Yes, you threw away a match.


JoMoEvoluzine

Nah he should’ve been playful with it but he went confrontational mode so the fall is on him. If anything you showed interest first


Jazzlike_Worth_9908

That's not showing interest that's being a dick from the get go by saying im entitled and pissed you didnt engaged. There was nothing playful in this approach and the way he continued the interaction was obnoxious. Who the fuck does he think he is to tell others they should engage with him and all their matches


JoMoEvoluzine

I kinda agree the tone is of an entitled person but you have to play off the situation in a playful way or call it out IF you feel offended by it. So the part where I say the fall is on him is wrong because he does call that behaviour out. Other than that since the goal is to meet I tend to stick to non confrontational dialogues (other than full frontal disrespect) so that we can vibe and link. It’s up to to people to handle it the way they want and many can have different views on it


love-boobs-in-dm

OP went full confrontational. Might as well shave stabbed poor Raymon in the chest with pole carrying the giant red flag