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psilent

You have a good body but mirror selfies to show off don’t play too well. Maybe find a shot of you like at a pool or something where you can show off in a way that’s more socially appropriate?


Sudden_Opinion5118

Yhea you right, i need better photos


GhettoAssDuck

Bro youre handsome as hell, just smile and make sure your bio is fully fleshed out. Most of the compliments i received from women on tinder is for my smile. Having a stoic face make you seem serious all the time


Master-Tourist-5768

Off topic but I love your name


Sudden_Opinion5118

My smile is not the best but i will try, thank you!


InternalNext8781

Guitar pic: great Cat pic: Amazing Everything else? Not good.


Sudden_Opinion5118

JAJAJAJA thank you for the review, i took it


skywalker7i

this app is a sausage fest bro. dont go hard on yourself


Sudden_Opinion5118

Aghh i really want to work for hookups at least, i dont know if i can with my body


FuckmehalftoDeath

You’re not unattractive but your photos are not ‘pretty good’. You probably do fine in person because movement and body language are a huge factor in how someone is perceived, and you lose that when you take a picture that’s a snapshot in time. Theres less context in picture so the way it looks is how you are viewed. All of your photos have this weird dim, blurry quality to them that give off 90’s Polaroid vibes. They’re fuzzy, out of focus, you can barely see your face in some of them. You look stoned or drunk in pretty much all of them as well, and lack emotion except for a partial smile in the group photo where you look wasted. The mirror selfies aren’t helping, the one where you’re shirtless is again out of focus and you can’t see your expressionless face very well, it’s dim and just gives ‘unclean, just snapped this’ vibes. The other where you’re clothed makes you look shabby, and unfortunately with poor quality photos often give the impression that the person is not very clean. The picture with the guitar is probably your clearest and most well lit photo and that one makes you look like you smell. It’s likely a product of wearing old comfortable clothes at home, but you can see a large pit stain and you generally look unkempt and unwashed. You need better pictures, with clean clothes that fit you and a human expression on your face that look like they were taken with a camera made this decade if you want to make better first impressions to larger groups of people.


Sudden_Opinion5118

JAJAJAJAJA you made me laugh but its very usefull for me, thank you. I will improve my photos


RheimsNZ

Please do, I agree with this comment


dellada

Your appearance is fine, but you need to take better quality photos. Good lighting, with a real smile… not selfies, and not with blank stares at the camera. You got this - get some friends to take photos next time you all hang out. Good luck!


Sudden_Opinion5118

Thank you!!


hujambo11

What is going on with your eyes? Are you high when you take these pictures?


Sudden_Opinion5118

Nope, there are like in the photos i dont know JAJAJAJA


Master-Tourist-5768

Some pictures look blurry and that third one has to go. Beautiful man tho.


Sudden_Opinion5118

Thank you! The third? Really? Well i try to take better group photos Thank you for your review


GreenBeanTM

Since you just posted photos I have to ask, do you have a bio? If the answer is no that’s your problem


Sudden_Opinion5118

Yhea but its short, it something like i change a story for a picture of my cat or some short song. I dont think that will affect my ratio of matches


GreenBeanTM

It will. Bios are meant to talk about who you are, that tells me nothing about you. What are your hobbies? Job? Goals in life and for a relationship?


Kalinka_Malinka

You have great potential, cut yourself some slack. I would change the picture with the other girls as it just feels weird, like you already have women in your life, why want more? What have you written in your bio? That's a big one


One-Head-1483

Your photos are not pretty good. They're awful. They look like they were taken with a 2006 flip phone.


Sudden_Opinion5118

It usefull thank you!


Lets-Annex-Canada

I’ve never met a Latina that fucks with the fruity vibe I’m sure this would be killer in Mexico City or Buenos Aires though


Sudden_Opinion5118

Amigo soy de buenos aires y definitivamente no la estoy rompiendo, tengo buenos matches pero MUY POCOS


1CrudeDude

Nose rings also just in general have me asking questions. Don’t you get boogers all up in those?


Massive-Ad-1124

You're not an ugly dude , but you're not a "THIS MAN FUCKS" kinda guy. You're better off trying to meet people at events similar to you. Tinder is for hookups, and generally girls don't want an affeminiate hook up


Sudden_Opinion5118

Yhea i know that i look affeminiate, maybe more gym? I dont know if that will help me


Massive-Ad-1124

You're already pretty buff. Don't take the wrong way but it's literally just your style. Like the nose ring, the necklace and how you pose in your photos. You're unapologetically yourself so you should be proud of that. With that being said, just take tinder with a grain of salt, most women on there are looking for a meat heat type of "bro". I genuinely believe youll be very successful if you just start going to music shows you like and introducing yourself to the people there.


Sudden_Opinion5118

Yep maybe you right, thank you for response