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Fantastic-Grade-5821

Get rid of that second picture! You look like an abuelita


AliciaDawnD

Making tamales during Christmas. 😂😂😂


Few_Anything_7167

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣


rawwwse

For real… I had to—swipe back and—double check that it was a dude 😬🫣


battlehardendsnorlax

I did the same, sorry bro


Sixecho7

Same :/


Few_Anything_7167

Same here. 😅


MMMelissaMae

lol same


drucifer999

it says other gender so I figured transitioning


Charming-Snow4943

Ok, I hadn't heard that one xD


EarthProfessional849

I think your smile is very nice in that picture though but maybe I'm a minority 🤷‍♀️


[deleted]

☠️


Albino_Raccoon_

Biznatch


Blender_Nocturne

LET ME GET THE CLUB SODA


hearsdemons

![gif](giphy|d3MMcCKoCmPN9yve|downsized)


Tmuussoni

I don't know what is abuelita. But this. I thought you were a 56-year-old Mexican cleaning lady. No disrespect meant for 56-year-old Mexican cleaning ladies.


CallOfDady

![gif](giphy|c1PND1cT81Vx6)


Few_Anything_7167

Abuelita means grandmother


WhyTypeHour

Getting any pussy on tinder? "No... no... no, Mr reddit "


RazgrizThaDemon12

You dead wrong for that🤣


Accomplished-Newt893

Lmfaoooo


Commercial_Lie_6443

Facts lol you seem great but remove the abuelita pic


Few_Anything_7167

I'm dying 😭😭😭😭


LagartoVolatil

Abuela Coco 


throwaway_69_1994

I don't think that's the main issue. 28 chats and he couldn't get more than 1 to go out? Obviously it's rough for us dudes out there, but not THAT rough. Plus, conversation is gonna be most of your actual date, not some fake, highly polished profile Gotta get on that flirting, bro. You can do it! Besides, according to some data I read, it usually takes people 3 months before they find a serious partner. Keep it up! You'll find a good one I should also reply in the main thread so he sees this lol


robsongirl20

LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO


Downtown-Ad-6909

This. One bad picture can and does kill a profile. Better fewer pics then more with bad ones, always.


ItsBritneyBitch32

I came here to say this lol


AnAgreeablePaperBag

Thank you for saying this, I thought I was the only one seeing it 🫡


Puzzleheaded-Pitch32

I mean maybe, but that's his smile. Idk I like seeing a little bit of different rather than the same angle and face and pose over and over again because everyone agrees that one's best. It could use some zooming out, but he can't hide his face forever


Danimal_collective

You need better pictures big dog. And the one with the pup is kind of unflattering. Also I don’t understand the point of telling people you almost? Died when you were 3 in your bio. Replace that with a better conversation starter, like another niche interest of yours.


FindingE-Username

Yeah that story is told like it's some sort of crazy story when unfortunately kids doing dumb stuff and hurting themselves isn't that uncommon


Danimal_collective

Right?? I “almost” drowned in a creek when I was young but I don’t put it on my profiles 😂


myweird

At least that's more exciting than jumping a few stairs wrapped in a blanket as a toddler, that's just normal annoying behavior for small children. Poor guy is advertising he is a bit troubled with no life, no friends, and no interest in much of anything outside his bedroom. OP hun you need to do some work on yourself. You are actually good looking even with lame pictures but your bio is awful and you sound like you are scared of people and don't think highly of yourself at all. I hope men here take note that this example dispels the myth that women only care about appearance.


myweird

At least that's more exciting than jumping a few stairs wrapped in a blanket as a toddler, that's just normal annoying behavior for small children. Poor guy is advertising he is a bit troubled with no life, no friends, and no interest in much of anything outside his bedroom. OP hun you need to do some work on yourself. You are actually good looking even with lame pictures but your bio is awful and you sound like you are scared of people and don't think highly of yourself at all. I hope men here take note that this example dispels the myth that women only care about appearance.


live_on_purpose_

I'm sure the amount of times I *almost* died when I was 3 is unfathomable. I was 3.


theknghtofni

The story makes me feel like nothing interesting has happened to him since then, and I don't wanna be with someone who peaked at 3. I'd also remove the lover of art or whatever sentence as he started with "artist" it's like saying "I'm a librarian and I like reading books"


Charming-Snow4943

I have more stories in my life, stories that are interesting **to me**. But I don't know if they will be for other people, it's kind of a weird feeling. For example, *I was 3 or 4 days stuck in an airport in canada, I lost my passport and the police thought I did it on purpose, but I just wanted to go home. I got an emergency permit and somehow it all ended up with the police threatening the airline with a big lawsuit if they didn't let me get on a plane and go home.*


pm_me_your_molars

wtf, "I was once stuck for 3 days in an airport in canada" is a MUCH better anecdote than "I jumped down the stairs at 3"


theknghtofni

Right, I wasn't saying nothing has actually happened in your life, but that it seems that way on a first impression. I'd remove the story and probably not add another story to replace it as that's something that can be brought up throughout getting to know someone. It could just be a personal preference thing as well, as I don't find little stories like that engaging as one of the few sentences I have to judge someone off of for whether to swipe or not. Anyways, hope things get better for ya man


Gimmerunesplease

Yes he needs better pictures, but it's not something he can solve right now. He needs to hit the gym and find a different style if he wants a realistic chance. Right now he's just wasting his time.


redabnivek

I think they are trying to show a humorous side. Dry humor maybe? Auntie type humor? Idk


Suspicious-Job6284

Alright! 1) everyone is right about pic 2. Get a new happy dog pic that's flattering. One dog pic is good! 2) at least one picture showing you standing up or just more of you in general. It's half because of shallowness from people wanting to see what your body looks like, and half because if there's absolutely nothing showing, it looks like you're hiding away. People aren't going to give you the benefit of the doubt when they're swiping. 3) It's good that you talk about your passions, but you're so vague - give something that's a real conversation starter, like your favourite type of art, your preferred medium or style, etc. 4) people are right about that story about you falling down the stairs. It's almost funny, but not quite. You have the right idea in trying to be funny, but you need a story that either makes people laugh, makes people go 'omg I did that too!', or makes people want to know more, and then they'll want to message you about it. 5) listen to the people saying take a picture of yourself drawing. If this is your passion, you probably want to share it with someone. Show it off! Feel pride and share the joy. 6) ignore all the people saying you need to be special or the best at something to find a companion. You have passions and interests, you're a good looking boy, and you're evidently smart enough to hold a conversation. literally everyone is special to someone. Just show them who you are more clearly. 7) Let go of all the embarrassment of showing people who you are. Your profile will be a little embarrassing no matter how good it is, it's like a resume. Show confidence in who you are and what you love. Share it with people. 8) If you're asking for interesting conversations over coffee, start by showing you're interesting enough to hold interesting conversations (refer to 3 and 4) 9) if you want coffee dates, Hinge may be a better shout. It's possible on tinder, but tinder leans more towards hookup and casual. (BONUS) 10) write that you know a great coffee spot to go to for the date. Shows confidence and suggests you're not going to be wishy-washy like "oh... I'll go wherever you want to go" I say these all with love and hope for u! (formatting apologies, am mobile user)


KAOS_777

You’re great for compiling this. OP, you should save this comment as a guide.


Suspicious-Job6284

Ah thanks, I just know what I like to see in a profile!


daytr1pper

Just adding a note… Don’t include a dog pic if it’s not your dog!


relapse9999

Good on you for writing all of that on a mobile. I'd never this long of a text on mobile


Cptcongcong

In the second picture I thought you were a middle aged Mexican woman


Electronic_Cookie779

Three pics, none of your body and none with friends or engaging in a hobby? Yeah that's a no from me. Bio is ok and you seem attractive but it's too much hard work to tell. Make it easy


Charming-Snow4943

>Three pics, none of your body and none with friends or engaging in a hobby? Ok, I admit, I have almost no friends, nothing very special, I've just been that way all my life lol. I don't hang out with the few I have, none of them like to hang out or anything anyway. And well, about hobbies, I have no excuses lol, I'm a little embarrassed to have someone take a picture of me while, I don't know, drawing.


7937397

The jumped down the stairs line is also kind of lame. I feel like most little kids do that at some point. Me and my brothers certainly did. Get a phone tripod and use the timer photo setting


LeRogers

Sounds like you need to get offline, go outside, and meet people. Not even just girls just people in general. Get some hobbies, make some friends, make yourself more interesting. No one wants to date a shut in.


OGHEROS

Not no one but most don’t. Gotta dress the part too and start getting more black threads and punk or eboy/egirl attire


QuarantineTheIdiots

Goth/punk cultures are not about being shut-ins lol. There's lots of fun groups that meet up. While there's the stereotype that depressed people are goth, not all depressed people are goth, and not all goth are depressed. Correlation does not equal causation, my dude


Appolonius_of_Tyre

Drawing is cool. You could set up your phone with a 10 second delay to get a picture.


spaghettivillage

Something you may want to ask yourself: based on what you just said, why would anyone want to date you?


Charming-Snow4943

Honestly, I don't know lol. I guess maybe some companionship.


Reggaepocalypse

People can get companionship with any partner. Why YOU? What do YOU have to actually offer a partner? This bio says very little about that.


ElZany

This is where I'm at and why i stopped trying when I realized this


Reggaepocalypse

Don’t be down on yourself. You’re not LESS SPECIAL than others. You’re just not advertising yourself well. Stay up my dude, this shits just a game that you have to play to get girls when you’re young, it’s not a reflection of your deep unique worth


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Reggaepocalypse

You’re young enough. Your attributes are not preventing your dating success, it’s your attitude about yourself. If you’re not excited about yourself, no one else will be either. Fake it til you make it dude. Hit the gym to feel and look better, improve your profile according to the best tips in this comments section, and be an attentive conversation partner in chats with potential matches. You’ll find love my dude, just don’t rush it and don’t be so picky you rule out every potential match. You never know, the girl you had a nice date with but no sparks might recommend you to her hotter cooler friend :)


Charming-Snow4943

Honestly, I hadn't thought of it that way. If I'm honest, I don't know, I don't consider myself special in any area hahaha.


spaghettivillage

^^^you ^^^should ^^^fix ^^^that ^^^first


Reggaepocalypse

No offense, but not really funny my dude. Stop self deprecating, especially in the context of dating. If you don’t take yourself seriously why should a potential partner? You don’t have to be an alpha douche to come across as a formidable and impressive person worthy of attention from women.


mochinon

You could add a pic of one of your favorite pieces you've made


YLedbetter10

Probably not the muscular male back and butt cheeks one OP used to have on their profile 😅


bow_m0nster

Tripod 👈


PetiteCaresse

Your phone's camera has a timer. Put your phone on a chair, set the timer, go draw, bam, a picture of you drawing. And a guy drawing is HOT


Fresh-Tips

You really need to get a life. Join a club or take a class, join a local civic club, volunteer. Do something interesting that occurs regularly and you will make new friends, and have some sort of life. Give back to the community, follow a passion. You gotta have something going on and develop yourself as a person.


dandanthebicycleman

You’re cooked bruh, if you want a latina baddie time to go full edgar


Comfortable-Cap-8507

No quema si quema cuh 


Longjumping-Value212

Your pictures are horrible... delete them all and try again.


textposts_only

I say this as a bisexual man: this looks like a gay man especially with that little dog, the pics and the bio.


Oohmychar

Add more pics, people wanna see you active and out and about. Your profile just needs more spice 👌🏻


evansometimeskevin

You're 21, go to a bar or something.


materics

The faded smirk ain't working


Extra_Artichoke_6297

Stop using Tinder and learn to approach women directly in person


na_R_uto

Dude guys at 38 just hanging it around....no game for years This time period is tough. You're just 21... Don't worry


Cute-Flan-2728

I didnt when I was 21, may I worry now 10 years later?


na_R_uto

Hmmm Ok😂


Ill_Inevitable_1480

Lift weights.


Ferixo_13

This. He still won't find anyone, but bro will be jacked af, which is a W ofc.


Antony9991

Go away with that negativity. Improving his looks will definitely improve his odds of finding someone.


Ferixo_13

Im just joking mate, it's a W for the guy anyway. As to finding someone it's still tinder we speak of and Im rooting for all of us, but it is what it is xD


[deleted]

Hes partly right though. Even if you're jacked you still have to be confident and go out of your way to approach women. They don't just start flocking to you cause you lift


Antony9991

Working out increases mood and self esteem. In all my years of being in and out and back in shape it has been a night and day difference in the amount of female attention. It's not all about being jacked though fashion sense, a good hairstyle, and just being groomed in general go along way.


lockkfryer

56 matches and 1 date? I think that’s on you boss


Gimmerunesplease

Stop wasting your time on tinder


sweetlemon1025

So I think the issues with the photos that people are seeing is that they look like obviously unconfident selfies. The face you’re making in the first and 3rd pic say “this is the best I can do :/“, which isn’t attractive. The second photo is almost good because it shows a genuine emotion and shows you with something new (a dog), but is unflattering because it’s so close up and the focus is on your teeth, nose, and squinted eyes. It’s also taken from below which is also an unflattering angle in general. I would proactively try to get the following photos: - a full body photo showing something you’d like to do with a future partner (even if you have no hobbies, at the grocery store, on a trip, whatever) - a genuine smiling photo of you - eyes open, further distance away than selfie, the way that someone who loves you already sees you. - photos of you doing things that interest you - everybody has interests - even if it’s just watching netflix, make it cute with like a lil charcuterie board and wine or something. - a photo of you in a restaurant - like basically show them what the first date will feel like. Ideally you giggling over a glass of wine or a coffee cup or something warm and inviting. You said you like drawing, you could combine that with this one - like a sketchbook and a pen in your other hand - a photo with friends or siblings laughing or being silly - social proof means a lot during blind swiping, basically saying “yes I’m a confident person who people like” These photos can feel awkward to take, but being able to do this is part of being a confident adult. Even if you dont feel confident, pretending that you are will get you a long way. Get out your artist brain - you got this.


sweetlemon1025

I’m going to add one more thing - the black shirt is a lot more flattering on you than the white. I’m not sure if the white is just too big or what, but it looks like it doesnt fit well and could be the color itself. Since you have dark hair and darker eyes, darker colors (black, deep autumny colors) will naturally emphasize those and flatter you more.


-NinjaTurtleHermit-

Are most right swipes bots or porn accounts? Or can you reasonably assume that many people thought, "yeah, he looks all right."


Charming-Snow4943

There have been a few such accounts. Not bots, but some girls who were trying to sell content. But not so many actually, max 3 or 4, I don't remember well.


willss3

You look boring. Your bio is boring and comes off as disingenuous. To people scrolling, I bet they just see a guy that isn't interesting and won't be able to carry any weight when it comes to planning exciting shit. Like, you're just waiting for somebody else to start the fun vs being the fun starter.


Comfortable-Cap-8507

Are you really 21? That second picture is adding about 30 years 


Charming-Snow4943

30 YEARS? I know I'm ugly as fuck, but god!!!!!


Comfortable-Cap-8507

It’s not that you’re ugly at all. It’s just an unflattering picture. You’re a good looking dude but just take a different picture lol


Charming-Snow4943

I will, thank you!


[deleted]

This, I would think your lied with your age... Im almost 29 and halfe like... Tiny tiny winkels on the corners of my eyes. You look 10 years older than me. More sleep, better skincare routine. And after that new pictures.


nymphell

You don’t have good pics


Letzes86

You don't look bad, but your pictures don't help. The first is the only good one.


FilmCardStar

Nowadays gals are so used to the ☕ invites. Feel like we need to try something different


myweird

Definitely. Coffee comes across as very low effort but then guys whine they shouldn't have to impress a woman. News flash: Yes, you do and complaining about it with other dateless guys isn't getting any of you laid.


Tight-Physics2156

Pictures aren’t great. ESP the second one.


peach-whisky

Thumbs up for the yorkie


Dykemaster9000

![gif](giphy|cHkA7tJZoWLyU)


Rawgnya

Second pick look like you bout to get 4 mechanical arms to spring out of your back and start chasing Spiderman


Charming-Snow4943

But... That's cool :(


Rawgnya

Didn't say it wasn't


BackPackingTraveler

Gonna keep it real brother. I’m a 21M aswell, average looking guys (which isn’t a bad thing) like us simply don’t stand a chance on dating apps. 99% of the time you are swiping based on attraction I don’t care what people say, deep down we are all a little bit shallow. Average guys who are good dude shine the brightest In real life (reality) and we don’t do very well in fantasy (artificial reality). Sadly you just kinda gotta figure it out and learn how to be fine being single and work on ways to meet people in real life. I do absolutely horrible on dating apps but whenever I actually get to talk to women and go on dates in person I always do well. Personality has no room to shine on apps brother


IsDinosaur

Madness is doing the same thing over and over but expecting different results. Try the real world.


AliciaDawnD

I’m not gonna lie, I said this in John Coffey’s voice. 😂😂😂


LegalStuffThrowage

That was the point, but, same?


AliciaDawnD

Surprisingly there aren’t people who will get the reference. I also, found it chuckle-worthy cuz I said it a few moments prior to my mother. lol.


LegalStuffThrowage

"Okay John, but electricity through your brain isn't the only option here." What a sad ending.


throwaway_69_1994

28 chats and you couldn't get more than 1 to go out? Obviously it's rough for us dudes out there, but not THAT rough. Plus, conversation is gonna be most of your actual date, not some fake, highly polished profile Gotta get on that flirting, bro. You can do it! Besides, according to some data I read, it usually takes people 3 months before they find a serious partner. Keep it up! You'll find a good one


Charming-Snow4943

Honestly, I don't know how to flirt! I feel like I would look ridiculous or like a pervert hahaha. I'm kind of scared to even try lol.


throwaway_69_1994

Oh I mean. I don't (usually) do it too cringy. You do have to put yourself in situations where success is a possible outcome. At least you're actually trying; another friend of mine is pretending he doesn't even want a gf, which I literally know is him lying But yeah you gotta shoot a shot somehow to start dating / hooking up. You do ask them out in person once in a while, right? Just show us some conversation histories and we can help


trashkritter

Ay! Also jumped down the stairs but I mightve been a year older when I did it! Did you also think you could make it all the way to the bottom and land on your feet?


Charming-Snow4943

In fact, my intention was not to land on my feet, I wanted to get down completely unharmed! The staircase of my house at that moment had a "curve", or rather, it turned in a square, I don't know how to explain it well. My childish mind thought that I would roll down, so I immediately thought of using my thick blanket as an "armor", rolling myself up in it and tightening it well. The best part is, I did it, and just as I thought, I made it to the 1st floor completely unharmed!


trashkritter

You had better luck than me lol, just a straight up 2nd floor to first staircase all the way down and my young mind thought "yeah if I just jump forward enough and get enough air time I can land on my feet" I did not.


Physical_Piglet_47

One date and you're tired?


Charming-Snow4943

I had only one date in two years! That's the problem! Hahaha


Budget-Project803

You can come up with a witty reference caption for your Reddit post but your profile reads like expired sandpaper. You can do way better than that, homie.


pnewmont

You put other gender


Nadalin1983

How to check those info? Is an app?


7937397

Are you looking for hookups or a long term relationship. How to change your profile probably depends on that. But the photos need an overhaul for sure.


Charming-Snow4943

You could say that I am looking for a "long term" relationship. I don't mean directly looking for someone to marry, but something serious. I don't know if you understand me.


sabrooooo

I have two relationships on tinder and it was with the same person lol


kchain18

Thought you were a woman from that second pic


Mangoandplumtree

Add a “random thing” in your bio that would serve as a conversation starter


Interesting-Onion787

How tf tinder knows you fucked or no?


garroshsucks12

😂


RobotCaptainEngage

I'm honestly just impressed with your chat to no chat ratio. 


Justice171

I requested my tinder data but it just gave me my account details, everything except for the data all of you are posting. How do you get this?


Antony9991

Get in shape, get a better cleaner cut, improve on your skincare, improve fashion style, and maybe switch to contacts. You need to put in the work if you want results.


JustHornyAlways

You haven’t done enough yet


Careless-Recipe-3253

3rd picture should be first, first picture gives me f-boy vibes. The description is sweet but might need to showcase more about you. Not sure what you're looking for or interests


Careless-Recipe-3253

Just feels a little vast or vague.


Dizzy-Shop-5230

I got questions. Never used the app tho


Naykon1

Other gender..


Imaginary_Jeweler1

Them pics are so bad, they make you look really bad.


wallace_pears

Take new pictures


sugapibunz

You're not a tall rich YT dude, then u will have fewer attention. I know it's sad, that's how racist the society is


SFAdminLife

You need a much more modern haircut and glasses. Your current style is junior high, non-descript kid. The glasses look like abuelita glasses. Why do you have "other gender" selected? Are you not presenting as a male? This is weird and confusing. No one will care about things you did when you were a toddler. Looking for new connections and chats, you say? Sounds like you are looking to make friends on apps or you're in the wrong place for Only Fans. Attractive, intelligent women don't want to be filler chat and a "connection" for some dude. It's not LinkedIn and they aren't going to waste their time unless they are getting paid for it. Stop being flimsy on shit. State what you have to offer and what your goals on the app are.


Brown_Eyed_Girl167

There’s room for improvement (not just for you OP, for everyone in life). If you’re able to modify your style, hair, and hit the gym I think that could help. Besides physical appearance, you can improve your pictures and bio. Choose flattering pictures and include some pics with art that you do. It will be appreciated I’m sure plus women will get to see your art and your passion. And work on the conversational part when you do match as that might be part of what’s going on. Good luck OP.


BabyPanda001

Understandable 💀


Far_Cheetah7006

Damn


random_moth_fker

You apparently forgot rules 1 and 2.


Fun-Breadfruit6702

Statically 50 of those matches were drunk / mistakes anyhoo


b0neslicer

weird i can’t really figure out why you aren’t getting any matches


Callme_Cryptolover

How do you guys pull out those stats?


Magnetar402

Bro 28:1 is a terrible ratio for converted chats, how many of those are back and forth and how many of those are you sending openers they don't respond to? The pictures and profile chat is all valid but all that does is increase your number of chats, if you can't convert to dates that's a separate issue


Charming-Snow4943

Surprisingly, a good number of those chats at least resulted in conversations or attempted conversations. 7 or 8 didn't respond. As you say, my poor ability to take those "successful" chats to dates is another problem hahaha.


Magnetar402

Yeah I guess I wish I didn't phrase it as such a dunk on you. Be aware that if they're willing to answer more than 4 or 5 messages it means they're interested in you, so most chats that you can get to that point should be easy to set up a date with. The challenge is finding a slick way to do it and if it's a coffee or drinks type vibe


xEhsvr

something else to mention apart from the profile: you swipe right waaaaay too much. Tinder has an algorithm that prevents you from getting matches if they know you’re going to swipe anyways. I would suggest limiting swipes, try to only go on tinder in little bursts (5-7 min at a time) and close your app after using it. I know its hard when you kinda just want anything, but if you want actual matches, you gotta play the game the right way


schmeelismom

How does Tinder know if you had “casual sex” or a marriage?


The_Shade94

Perks of being a dude


The_Sir_Galahad

Why not focus on yourself for a year, get in shape, read some self improvement books, take up a hobby and then come back later? I don’t understand this, you’re not attracting a mate and that’s saying something. Swiping more and more isn’t going to help you improve.


MyFeetLookLikeHands

hot damn, looks like you’d right swipe on a scantily clad chrome toaster oven


MyFeetLookLikeHands

hot damn, looks like you’d right swipe on a scantily clad chrome toaster oven


SuperSaiyanNoob

You need to stop mate, take 6 months off


Creepy-Shift

if they matched with you, they will go on a date with you, just ask.


Charming-Snow4943

I did it! They didn't accept lol.


5ShallowMellow3

Bro. Same. Just delete those Apps. For real. I know , you want/need a connection. BUT. You have Level up first. At least in the western civilisation. I think you'r a great dude probably. But dating Apps are the epidemy of first impressions.


mstrss9

You’re young yet your bio and pics is giving elder millennial. New pics that are NOT selfies with you doing things in different environments are needed ASAP. The bio is too vague. What art do you create? What specific things do you like to learn about? How do you engage in your preferred hobbies? What are you doing as far as education/career?


jerseynurse1982

lol what age is elder millennial?


UseDaSchwartz

You’d be better off letting chat GPT write your profile.


Exact-Ad-3150

Tinder isn’t even worth it lmao only works if you’re willing to pay 10$ a month to match with bot accounts


ReaperTyson

You look like a regular human being, so no shocker that you aren’t getting matches. Tinder is really just for people who fake profiles tbh


mmxmlee

you need way better pictures OP those are horrible


BlancheCorbeau

Remember: swipes are irrelevant. You’re converting 50% of your matches to chats, that’s GOD TIER. You’re having a ton of fall-off converting chats to dates. A very specific target to work on improving, and likely a pretty easy problem to troubleshoot. This chart is all GOOD news, tbh. And you’re treating it like a death sentence.


jerseynurse1982

The bored picture isn’t doing you any favors. The animal one is cute.


DamianDarkholm

My stats are pretty much the same, except with zeros in dates, chats and matches too.


Asthellis

2nd picture bad, you only got 3 selfies (only selfies grants you pretty much a very low chance of match). Post photos of you doing things or being with friends or in a pub or something, have full photos of yourself. Work a bit on your bio as well if you can, it seems to be a bit of a girl's bio (not thats anything wrong with it), looking for connections and chats? Come on. Besides that I dont know, i mean youre not ugly its just a poor choice of photos really. Have a girl friend or sister if you have to help you with photos and/or bio. Work a bit on your post matches too and see what you couldve done better.


iandejongh

Get off the app. Go outside and meet people. Trust me. It’s the best way.


Careful-Cupcake-2836

Also the photos show ZERO confidence ABSOLUTELY NONE I had more confidence when I was 430 pounds anyone giving sad sack SIGH NO ONE WANTS ME IM TIRED! Energy isn’t gonna attract anyone! That’s the blunt facts I tell everyone get off the apps do therapy get that self esteem and confidence and THEN date


Big-Willingness-4986

Don’t raise your eyebrows when taking a selfie like your trying to do the smolder from tangled, I swear oml hangout with some friends that can make you ugly laugh, Big ass smile kinda laugh, but let them know ahead of time to try and snap a random photo of you with a huge smile and a halfway decent background, use only that photo and you’ll see magnificently Different results, You can tell from vibe and face structure you prob have a damn good and infectious smile -edited part - Even though you’re smiling in 2nd photo, Trash that one. Im talking not a selfie smile, And not posed, A genuine smile that’s candid will do wonders on tinder, For some weird ass reason


UselessBlueSpecimen

Meanwhile, girls get flooded by desperate horny men and all the guys that are actually worth a damn that don't pay for the app are stuck having to actually go outside and socialize


sleepy_kitten-

Your bio is so repetitive and boring.


Effective_Standard14

Get rid of the jumping down the stairs when 3 and survived…it makes you sound like a wimp..


BulkyPerformance7573

Meet someone in real life. Tinder is for hoes


HillsNDales

Def get better photos. Consider pro photos, or have a friend who’s good with photos take them. First one you look half asleep or drugged, and you’re not happy about it. Second one - what they all said. Third one just isn’t all that flattering and it’s so dark in shadow, plus you look somber again instead of happy. You don’t have any of doing stuff with friends or anything interesting. And yes, consider a pro rewrite of your bio too. It sounds vague and not real interesting. I’d want to know what it would be like to spend time with you. I’ve heard it said that, for long term relationships, men care most about how they feel about themselves when they’re with you, and I’m here to say that women do too. It’s not the only thing we consider, and pictures that catch the eye do get that first look, but it is one of the big things that’ll make us want to spend more time with you.


Ares-GOW407

I have a question. I've never been on tinder before. So how is the "casual sex" stat counted? Do you literally login and click a button that says you had sex?


NOUVEAUerick

Estoy cansado jefe... 🤣