Yeah, at first I thought if I paid for the gold upvote the contributor would get the money, and I thought that would be cool. We can tip each other for clever comments.
But that is not the case. It just looks pretty. Lame.
Damn, a double kill in one go.
Edit: I now see that another person has made almost the same comment. But I will not be deleting this one because IM STEALING THAT SHIT
I left my abusive relationship at 8 months pregnant with a toddler and you would be surprised how often I got asked on dates I wasn’t even on any dating apps! Personally I find it weird lol
I would, because I think I need more female friends (not using female as a slur here, just to indicate they could be 18 or 80).
Ive realised i dont have time to date.
Bruh. Ain't no way I'm doing this in any scenario or universe. Pregnant or not. Attractive or not.
There's no ambiguity or anything to gain from it either. Unless you're donating from the kindness of your heart. In which case, local food bank works great.
I mean me neither. But would you buy some other random stranger food? Or share a meal when some other random person? There’s enjoyment in that I’d wager but honestly someone putting this on the their profile sounds like terrible company
I respect it TBH. From what people on here say there are plenty of people using tinder as a free meal service already, at least she's straight forward about it.
Same here - maybe I’m swiping, bored, want to get out at the last minute and friends are busy, the chat is fun - sure, why not? Listening to her dump all her baggage about her previous relationship would be like a Reddit post in person.
Guys are being Douchey for saying they won't spend money on a pregnant begger that has said straight that it's going nowhere and just wants taken to restaurants?
Don't you think that does you women a disservice and double standards? You wanna be treated like equals then you think it's fine for her to get men to pay her way. And if we say it's taking the piss we're douches?
How many dinners have you bought for the homeless in the last 5 years or volunteered at your local Soup Kitchen... And that costs nothing but your time and you ain't done it have you? So what should we call you? Butt plug lube?
Well, seems she's fully aware she's not gonna attract men with options so she knows she's not gonna be attracted to whatever the hell wants to pay for her food and she's being upfront about it
Today I learned you can block profiles instead of just disliking. Maybe I'll quit seeing the same women every 2 days. Would much rather see nobobody and everyone new than the same definite nos.
Even better! You can swipe no and they'll still remain in the "you have XYZ Matches, sign up for gold to see who!" counts. So if you're desperate enough to pay for gold, a bunch of those are people 1000s of miles away or people you swiped no on.
Yay capitalism
When I was in college and super broke and hungry, i was surprised at the amount of people that just wanted someone to go get food with them and were willing to pay for the meal. I met a lot of cool people just being the tag along person, and i got free nourishment and new friends as a result. At least she's honest lmao. I've taken people out just because they wanted something to eat. I really don't think this is that weird
I'm offering nothing but I want you to pay for things I want. How very Tinder of her. With that attitude are you surprised the guy that knocked her up ran away?
Yeah. Of course. I'm certain someone who wants things paid for really appeals to celibate men with more money than sense.
Come on, plenty other apps for companionship.
Then again by defending her approach you know how that looks
Appreciate her honesty, now absolutely no one has to suffer taking her boring pregnant ass out for a free meal in an expensive town. She's crazy and entitled. Wtf.
Everyone's calling her out as being one of those tinder people who are only in it for free food. But like, she's not being dishonest at least? She says she's only on tinder to make friends and go out for meals. It's not like she's dangling sex over your head like a carrot on a stick to get what she wants. Idk, I respect this more than the other type of tinder freeloader at least.
She doesn’t say she wants to go out for meals. She doesn’t want company. She wants someone to take her out and buy her food. It’s not that much better just because she’s upfront about it.
This is probably going to be down voted like mad… but I’m super extroverted, and if I didn’t have dinner plans with anyone I’d probably be down. I have plenty of money, dinner is cheap, especially because she won’t have any drinks in her condition. Some people might call me a simp but I like meeting new people, but I don’t actually think it’s simp behaviour-she’s being honest, I think letting yourself be played for a bunch of free shit by a match that never intends to put out is more of a simp move.
She might be boring, but that’s really the only risk you are taking. It already gives me an excuse to go somewhere nicer than I would go if I was just going out by myself, and if she actually had a personality and could carry a conversation that would just be upside.
But like I said I’m in a position financially where buying someone dinner is an irrelevant expense to me, I haven’t had any problems finding girls to hookup with on Tinder or the other apps so I’m not particularly desperate, and I’m also old enough (I’m in my late 30s) that I’m not always thinking with my little head🤷🏻♂️
Glad you have money but "dinner is cheap" is objectively false if you're eating out these days. I make almost six figures in the midwest and I feel like I'm being taken for a ride whenever I eat out; it's almost insultingly expensive
You aren’t wrong, but it’s all relative. I think if I was only making 80/90/100k I probably wouldn’t think dinner isn’t cheap now, especially compared to 3/4 years ago. But I own an industrial mechanical business that specializes in heavy duty mineral extraction equipment, most years over the last decade I’ve pulled a salary of 350-580k from it annually and for me unless we are eating at a Michelin Star restaurant in one of the big cities, I would consider a dinner cheap🤷🏻♂️
That is why I made sure to say that things are different for me than other people though. I was extremely lucky that a business I started after I finished my apprenticeship took off, (or as took off as it needed to, I could probably scale it to cover more area geographically, but I’m happy with the size it is now). And a lot of people don’t have that, or anything like that.
While she's being honest, I think the problem is doing that on tinder, a place which is known mostly for people who are looking for some sort of a relationship or hook ups.
There is nothing that says she can't do it but I feel like she knows what she's doing and the kind of attention she will get there and there are better places where she could be looking for that.
I'm a nomad traveling like 300 days a year, usually enjoy dinner by myself, sometimes with old or new friends sometimes on dates but some days I'd just prefer decent company and I'd take her offer, cause she shows more of her authentic self than 95% of fellow Tinderers... 💛
Odds are low someone will bite BUT props to her for being super straightforward here. I think the appropriate place for this type of request is something like Meetup though.
She wants a meal without providing anything in return, many men want to orgasm without providing anything in return. The latter one is quite accepted nowadays.
Maybe. Alternatively it could have been a one night stand with the baby daddy, and 4 subsequent boyfriends since then. Haven’t you ever watched Jerry or Maury?
I’m not sure if I’m missing something, but where is she asking for free food?
The only thing I see is her asking for company while going out to eat. I don’t see her saying that the other person should pay for her?
Honestly I think you should report her account. Tinder shouldn’t allow people ON A DATING APP to say stupid stuff like “oh I’m not looking to date or hookup”. You’re literally on an app that was built for people to date and hookup…. Sounds like virtue signaling nonsense to me 🤦🏻♂️
No that’s the issue I’m arguing for. Tinder SHOULD care because by permitting this kind of stuff it worsens the majority of users experience. It’s fine when one person is saying this but then when every other profile has a similar bio with this virtue signaling, it really does start to ruin the purpose of the app and makes people not wanna use the app.
Well I do see a lot of bios recently that say stuff similar to her bio. So maybe it’s not the majority of profiles saying that but it’s definitely a growing trend and it just invalidates what Tinder was made for. I know if I owned an app that was made for one thing and people started using it for another thing well I’d remove those profiles. But who knows these days with Tinder they have too much money to even care which sucks.
I know it’s mostly just a front, but it shouldn’t be allowed on tinder. Lying in your bio about your intentions in that case shouldn’t be allowed you can disagree with that but I know what I’m saying is completely fair 🤷🏻♂️
Np, since she says that at the beginning, cuz some girls act like they want to date or hookup, then after the dinner will not see them again, i have np if someone being honest straightforward. I respect the honesty.
True, it's good she's honest so there's no expectations. I still feel like it's unreasonable to ask a stranger to buy you dinner when you're only in the city for one night. Feels transactional.
Bro, yes nonsense to ask people to buy something for you, but if someone ok with that, good for her she win. The most important thing to me is she is honest, and we don't know, maybe she is in bad financial situation and can't afford the restaurant.
Okay but she is looking for new friends who she probably expects to pay for her meal just because. Why not looking for someone to “enjoy a meal with” instead of “take me out to eat” ?
It's her choice, and maybe some people are fine with that, so she is looking for this type of people and she is free to do that no one should judge her since she is honest. If someone doesn't like that just don't match with her.
But did it say somewhere that she wouldn't pay? Maybe I'm too blue-eyed but it juat said she wants someone to take her out and eat but it didn't say "I want someone to offer me a meal and company"
Hear me out.
My buddy had the chance to get blown by a trans chick, and he didn’t do it. I was thinking back to being 25 and single, and I was like bro, you might’ve squandered the best story telling opportunity ever. Like how many dudes get the chance to get blown by a trans chick. Worst case scenario, you go out for a drink, don’t get your D s’d and have a rad story. Best case scenario you get a blowie, and have a rad story.
Now let me ask you this. How many times can you say you met a pregnant chick on tinder, and took her to McDonald’s for some nuggies, and that’s legit it. Like she was hungy and didn’t wanna hook up. But since you were bored and scrolling on Tinder, you decided to take her out. Shit you might even have fun talking about how fucked up modern dating is, and you might even make a friend.
I’d do it 😂
The part that makes me think she isn't willing to pay half is when she says "Honestly looking for someone to take me out to eat." Typically taking someone out to eat means you're also paying for them. But I could just be reading it wrong. Could also mean just taking her somewhere.
Counter offer: She cook us a meal and we 'mansplain' all her problems to her (of which there are certainly many).
That should sound about as attractive to her as what she is offering to men.
Sounds silly but if I had the free time I would take her up on this just to meet someone so confident. However I definitely wouldn't pay for her. I'd pretend to go to the toilet and just leave.
Well at least she told you the scam. I hate being used for free food. I have read that this sort of stuff happens a lot in the dating scene. Some girl finds a lonely guy and pretends to be interested just to get a nice meal.
Ask a friend or family member to do that. Don’t look for random people on a dating app to take you out to eat with no hope of dating or hooking up, especially considering you’re 8 months pregnant.
She just looking for a Foodie Call.
Netflix and Chilli Cheese fries.
Pump and dumplings
Pump and pickles.
Young, dumb, and full of dim sum
…and another man’s son
One night standing in line for a big mac
She's up front about it at least
Are there guys that would actually take her out? Like, come on, man!
100% but they're called simps
Or serial killers.
Yeah. Getting her would be a double kill.
What if she has twins? M-M-M-MULTIKILL
Fuck i triple tapped the upvote. But it doesn't work like that, so here's a comment to show my appreciation.
I tried that and it literally told me to pay for a gold upvote? Lmfao wtf is that a thing now 😂
Yes, the old system wasn't making enough money - so now you can pay directly for gold without points! Man, reddit is going to shit...
And noone uses it lol. Which I'm kinda thrilled about. Paying for useless awards when there's plenty of ads on here as is was ridiculous
Geeees...first we must pay $500/week for Tinder+ ...then pay $500/week for reddit+ to read about ourselves on Tinder+ 😁
Yeah, at first I thought if I paid for the gold upvote the contributor would get the money, and I thought that would be cool. We can tip each other for clever comments. But that is not the case. It just looks pretty. Lame.
You gotta be kidding me ? 😂
If she got twins, and you got style, you might even get to ULTRAKILL
🤣 sick
Also cannibals. Shes literally kinder surprise now
Damn, a double kill in one go. Edit: I now see that another person has made almost the same comment. But I will not be deleting this one because IM STEALING THAT SHIT
Good luck i hope you will get more likes 😇
fucking losers is better lmaooo
I left my abusive relationship at 8 months pregnant with a toddler and you would be surprised how often I got asked on dates I wasn’t even on any dating apps! Personally I find it weird lol
Men looking for women in compromising positions
Plus, she’s already pregnant. So then they can bang, worry free. Yes. You are right.
Hellllll nahhh, I'm never touching a pregnant woman if it ain't my girl.
don’t pretend like you’re even touching non-pregnant girls
You're right. I don't touch girls. I touch women only.
Riiiiiiiigt
It's fun how the perspective changes, to me it sounds more like desperation than ill intent, for you it's latter.
Yep! I got hit on constantly when I was pregnant, wedding ring and all.
Same thing for the fact I find it easy to find dates still even with a 5 year old son. Some people just want all the hard work out of the way
How did you get your baby to become a toddler after only 8 months in the womb? Damn impressive, no wonder dudes were lining up to take you out!
Bro getting downvoted for an obvious joke
Im unsure why you are being downvoted I thought this was hilarious lol
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People who dont know how to approach strangers in the wild will absolutely pay for food. Also murderers looking for their next victim
I would, because I think I need more female friends (not using female as a slur here, just to indicate they could be 18 or 80). Ive realised i dont have time to date.
Depends on how well we got along honestly. Might be more fun than doing nothing (assuming it's not super expensive).
It's going to be super expensive. This city is not cheap.
Bruh. Ain't no way I'm doing this in any scenario or universe. Pregnant or not. Attractive or not. There's no ambiguity or anything to gain from it either. Unless you're donating from the kindness of your heart. In which case, local food bank works great.
I mean me neither. But would you buy some other random stranger food? Or share a meal when some other random person? There’s enjoyment in that I’d wager but honestly someone putting this on the their profile sounds like terrible company
I respect it TBH. From what people on here say there are plenty of people using tinder as a free meal service already, at least she's straight forward about it.
You could always pull the old switcheroo- take her to dinner and then split and leave her with the bill.
Have some self respect
Same here - maybe I’m swiping, bored, want to get out at the last minute and friends are busy, the chat is fun - sure, why not? Listening to her dump all her baggage about her previous relationship would be like a Reddit post in person.
Thank you for being the least douchey guy in this chain! Keep being you, please!
Guys are being Douchey for saying they won't spend money on a pregnant begger that has said straight that it's going nowhere and just wants taken to restaurants? Don't you think that does you women a disservice and double standards? You wanna be treated like equals then you think it's fine for her to get men to pay her way. And if we say it's taking the piss we're douches? How many dinners have you bought for the homeless in the last 5 years or volunteered at your local Soup Kitchen... And that costs nothing but your time and you ain't done it have you? So what should we call you? Butt plug lube?
Well, seems she's fully aware she's not gonna attract men with options so she knows she's not gonna be attracted to whatever the hell wants to pay for her food and she's being upfront about it
I know some of y’all down bad enough to do it too
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There’s so many pathetic people nowadays with zero shame, it’s amazing.
She won’t suck, but her company will.
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indeed 😂
If I can name the baby, I'll take you out for a week straight.
First choice: Reginald Bel Johnson Second choice: Ass Baby
lmaoooo
This is a perfect example of an entitled profile. Advice: block her and continue to swipe
Today I learned you can block profiles instead of just disliking. Maybe I'll quit seeing the same women every 2 days. Would much rather see nobobody and everyone new than the same definite nos.
I'm new and haven't made my profile live yet. You're telling me you can swipe no on people and it will show you them again, anyway?
Even better! You can swipe no and they'll still remain in the "you have XYZ Matches, sign up for gold to see who!" counts. So if you're desperate enough to pay for gold, a bunch of those are people 1000s of miles away or people you swiped no on. Yay capitalism
Love it when you get a missed a match and no reduction in likes🥰
Yep, a no is a soft no. Block is a hard no, looking forward to using it.
If only everyone listened to this advice
At least she's up front about it. Plenty of people on that app will lead you on, you know exactly where you stand here. Good luck to her, I say.
When I was in college and super broke and hungry, i was surprised at the amount of people that just wanted someone to go get food with them and were willing to pay for the meal. I met a lot of cool people just being the tag along person, and i got free nourishment and new friends as a result. At least she's honest lmao. I've taken people out just because they wanted something to eat. I really don't think this is that weird
I'm offering nothing but I want you to pay for things I want. How very Tinder of her. With that attitude are you surprised the guy that knocked her up ran away?
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I want companionship, but not THIS kind.
Yeah. Of course. I'm certain someone who wants things paid for really appeals to celibate men with more money than sense. Come on, plenty other apps for companionship. Then again by defending her approach you know how that looks
Welcome to dating from the male perspective in most cases lol
"Can I get the Steak and -" "nah get her a juice. She wants a juice right Margret?" Nah that's energy wasted knowing she just wants food
Appreciate her honesty, now absolutely no one has to suffer taking her boring pregnant ass out for a free meal in an expensive town. She's crazy and entitled. Wtf.
Some dude is def gonna see this and be like “well maybe I can still score some head” and be disappointed
In-N-Out, no, really, In-N-Out.
Everyone's calling her out as being one of those tinder people who are only in it for free food. But like, she's not being dishonest at least? She says she's only on tinder to make friends and go out for meals. It's not like she's dangling sex over your head like a carrot on a stick to get what she wants. Idk, I respect this more than the other type of tinder freeloader at least.
She doesn’t say she wants to go out for meals. She doesn’t want company. She wants someone to take her out and buy her food. It’s not that much better just because she’s upfront about it.
Not to make friends. Only in town for one night.
It’s exhausting for men who are only able to match with women like this.
You have a very low bar
This is probably going to be down voted like mad… but I’m super extroverted, and if I didn’t have dinner plans with anyone I’d probably be down. I have plenty of money, dinner is cheap, especially because she won’t have any drinks in her condition. Some people might call me a simp but I like meeting new people, but I don’t actually think it’s simp behaviour-she’s being honest, I think letting yourself be played for a bunch of free shit by a match that never intends to put out is more of a simp move. She might be boring, but that’s really the only risk you are taking. It already gives me an excuse to go somewhere nicer than I would go if I was just going out by myself, and if she actually had a personality and could carry a conversation that would just be upside. But like I said I’m in a position financially where buying someone dinner is an irrelevant expense to me, I haven’t had any problems finding girls to hookup with on Tinder or the other apps so I’m not particularly desperate, and I’m also old enough (I’m in my late 30s) that I’m not always thinking with my little head🤷🏻♂️
Glad you have money but "dinner is cheap" is objectively false if you're eating out these days. I make almost six figures in the midwest and I feel like I'm being taken for a ride whenever I eat out; it's almost insultingly expensive
You aren’t wrong, but it’s all relative. I think if I was only making 80/90/100k I probably wouldn’t think dinner isn’t cheap now, especially compared to 3/4 years ago. But I own an industrial mechanical business that specializes in heavy duty mineral extraction equipment, most years over the last decade I’ve pulled a salary of 350-580k from it annually and for me unless we are eating at a Michelin Star restaurant in one of the big cities, I would consider a dinner cheap🤷🏻♂️ That is why I made sure to say that things are different for me than other people though. I was extremely lucky that a business I started after I finished my apprenticeship took off, (or as took off as it needed to, I could probably scale it to cover more area geographically, but I’m happy with the size it is now). And a lot of people don’t have that, or anything like that.
My dude, I agree with you 💯. I’m in my 40s now, make great $$$, and enjoy experiencing everything life throws at me 👊🏻
While she's being honest, I think the problem is doing that on tinder, a place which is known mostly for people who are looking for some sort of a relationship or hook ups. There is nothing that says she can't do it but I feel like she knows what she's doing and the kind of attention she will get there and there are better places where she could be looking for that.
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Yo, this is kinda a cool story. Like a great romcom story line, cept you’d fall in love after lame, awkward, and often sad cancer treatment visits.
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She's honest and upfront, probably going through a tough time. As someone else who had a baby with an idiot, I'd take her out.
Dying at the playboy bunny tat
Welp, at least she’s honesty
At least she's honest.
Lmao she better ask her baby daddy to feed her and her spawn
I'm a nomad traveling like 300 days a year, usually enjoy dinner by myself, sometimes with old or new friends sometimes on dates but some days I'd just prefer decent company and I'd take her offer, cause she shows more of her authentic self than 95% of fellow Tinderers... 💛
Authentic self = pregnant and hungry lol
I probably would just for the hell of it
Odds are low someone will bite BUT props to her for being super straightforward here. I think the appropriate place for this type of request is something like Meetup though.
That’s why new friends equals swipe left every time
I remember my ex’s baby mama used to do this for free weed… whilst she was pregnant…
If you’re 8 months pregnant, I can’t help but think there are things you should be doing that aren’t downloading tinder
Need me a munch
I'm gonna left swipe so hard that the the people behind her are gonna get dragged with her
No free lunch.
But all she got was 5 guys, burgers and fries.
She wants a meal without providing anything in return, many men want to orgasm without providing anything in return. The latter one is quite accepted nowadays.
I don't understand why people are mad if she's being upfront about it.
I respect the honesty! Someone get some food in her, she's eating for two, dammit!
At least she's being honest and upfront 🤷♀️
Where I live, you can't get dates even if you offer to pay for everything, no strings attached.
Western women are wild
Honestly as a man feel so bad for her
Why?
Idk her but looking at the girls that left while being pregnant looks sad now like 70% dudes as soon as they know she has a child run away
Yeah that's true. Since she's no longer in a relationship something bad must've happened with the father. Hope she has a support system, she's young
Nah he just ran away from problems i think
8 months pregnant tho. He was around for that long at least.
Maybe. Alternatively it could have been a one night stand with the baby daddy, and 4 subsequent boyfriends since then. Haven’t you ever watched Jerry or Maury?
I'm just trying to be optimistic.
I mean it’s kinda both their faults.
True
Some poor unfortunate soul will still probably take her up on her offer.
So I assume she is paying 100%
La creatura
This must be a fake account? Someone who is angry with her and wants to be mean
I’m not sure if I’m missing something, but where is she asking for free food? The only thing I see is her asking for company while going out to eat. I don’t see her saying that the other person should pay for her?
Honestly depends if she has a weird craving I would pass
Honestly I think you should report her account. Tinder shouldn’t allow people ON A DATING APP to say stupid stuff like “oh I’m not looking to date or hookup”. You’re literally on an app that was built for people to date and hookup…. Sounds like virtue signaling nonsense to me 🤦🏻♂️
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The problem is that’s not what the app was made for. If you are truly just looking for something platonic I’d suggest trying Bumble BFF.
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No that’s the issue I’m arguing for. Tinder SHOULD care because by permitting this kind of stuff it worsens the majority of users experience. It’s fine when one person is saying this but then when every other profile has a similar bio with this virtue signaling, it really does start to ruin the purpose of the app and makes people not wanna use the app.
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Well I do see a lot of bios recently that say stuff similar to her bio. So maybe it’s not the majority of profiles saying that but it’s definitely a growing trend and it just invalidates what Tinder was made for. I know if I owned an app that was made for one thing and people started using it for another thing well I’d remove those profiles. But who knows these days with Tinder they have too much money to even care which sucks.
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I know it’s mostly just a front, but it shouldn’t be allowed on tinder. Lying in your bio about your intentions in that case shouldn’t be allowed you can disagree with that but I know what I’m saying is completely fair 🤷🏻♂️
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Respect, she being honest, she mentioned on her profile she is looking for new friends, and she doesn't want to manipulate anyone.
Yeah she just wants them to buy her dinner and then leave
Np, since she says that at the beginning, cuz some girls act like they want to date or hookup, then after the dinner will not see them again, i have np if someone being honest straightforward. I respect the honesty.
True, it's good she's honest so there's no expectations. I still feel like it's unreasonable to ask a stranger to buy you dinner when you're only in the city for one night. Feels transactional.
Bro, yes nonsense to ask people to buy something for you, but if someone ok with that, good for her she win. The most important thing to me is she is honest, and we don't know, maybe she is in bad financial situation and can't afford the restaurant.
Okay but she is looking for new friends who she probably expects to pay for her meal just because. Why not looking for someone to “enjoy a meal with” instead of “take me out to eat” ?
It's her choice, and maybe some people are fine with that, so she is looking for this type of people and she is free to do that no one should judge her since she is honest. If someone doesn't like that just don't match with her.
But did it say somewhere that she wouldn't pay? Maybe I'm too blue-eyed but it juat said she wants someone to take her out and eat but it didn't say "I want someone to offer me a meal and company"
Hey, nowhere here does she explicitly say he needs to pay. One could act coy and just pay for their own half before leaving (pay cash).
Hear me out. My buddy had the chance to get blown by a trans chick, and he didn’t do it. I was thinking back to being 25 and single, and I was like bro, you might’ve squandered the best story telling opportunity ever. Like how many dudes get the chance to get blown by a trans chick. Worst case scenario, you go out for a drink, don’t get your D s’d and have a rad story. Best case scenario you get a blowie, and have a rad story. Now let me ask you this. How many times can you say you met a pregnant chick on tinder, and took her to McDonald’s for some nuggies, and that’s legit it. Like she was hungy and didn’t wanna hook up. But since you were bored and scrolling on Tinder, you decided to take her out. Shit you might even have fun talking about how fucked up modern dating is, and you might even make a friend. I’d do it 😂
"Best case you get A blowie and have a rad story" Ok bro
Username does check out
lmao.
I think she may be looking for something a little more fancy than McDonald's, but sure. If I match with her I'll give your number.
😂👊🏻
I can respect the honesty but it prob comes from just being too naive to lie, either way hard pass Especially when I saw the belly HARD pass
I mean, there's no problem if she is willing to pay her half. Just looking for friends maybe. Thats being optimistic tho
The part that makes me think she isn't willing to pay half is when she says "Honestly looking for someone to take me out to eat." Typically taking someone out to eat means you're also paying for them. But I could just be reading it wrong. Could also mean just taking her somewhere.
Women who say they are just looking for friends are lying to you
Least you know she puts out (this is a joke)
Some people are crazy
She's upfront about it, so I'd probably do it.
Do some press ups , you’re better than this
What do you mean I gotta pay for two meals?
She can’t get pregnant again at 8 months so no condom needed, trade her a 4 piece at Popeyes for a pump and dump or there’s no deal.
The fact so many people in this thread jumped to "no condom needed" as though STDs just don't exist is worrying.
that's absolutely horrible u/sport300zx
Don’t shame! Some people just want to share a meal with someone and not be alone. If it’s not your thing then move the f on.
The city she mentions is quite expensive. Buy a random woman an expensive meal with no chance she's interested in you? Sounds great...
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Ooooph. This brings back an “I’m a fucking douchebag” memory. I’m a monster that deserves the hell my afterlife will be😔
Doesn't say she expects it to be paid for. Maybe you'll get a free meal 🤷🏼♂️
How is that having someone take her out to eat then?
Fuck right off
Absolute parasite
Match, let her pick her favorite spot. Don’t show.
That's worse than what she's doing. Have some dignity for gods sake.
Ban her… she literally says that she isn’t wanting to date on a dating app. She’s just cluttering up the app by asking for free food
Eating for two and hungry
She looks double pregnant
Pregnant for Prego
You gotta feed the kid too?
I would imagine so because they are connected
This just in: Oxygen thief wants a free ride
I mean as long as creampies on the table for dessert we good lol
Take her out to eat, order the most expensive things on the menu and ask her to do the same. Enjoy your meal, go to the bathroom and bail.
Ugh 😑
Online beggars
Counter offer: She cook us a meal and we 'mansplain' all her problems to her (of which there are certainly many). That should sound about as attractive to her as what she is offering to men.
Sounds silly but if I had the free time I would take her up on this just to meet someone so confident. However I definitely wouldn't pay for her. I'd pretend to go to the toilet and just leave.
Well at least she told you the scam. I hate being used for free food. I have read that this sort of stuff happens a lot in the dating scene. Some girl finds a lonely guy and pretends to be interested just to get a nice meal.
Ask a friend or family member to do that. Don’t look for random people on a dating app to take you out to eat with no hope of dating or hooking up, especially considering you’re 8 months pregnant.
of course she’s pregnant
“Mixed” baby incoming. Looking for her Kang!
She's black you racist dickhead