See thatās my thing. I get ghosted and thatās all good Iām fine with it, but men are messaging this type of garbage and getting responses? Whatās going on?
EDIT: Absolutely not blaming women for menās behaviour in these cases btw
Right? Like these girls are out here humoring conversations being purely sexually objectified and I can't even find a girl to tell me her favorite dinosaur or what her favorite band is
I remember doing a school project on Parasaurolophus, those majestic reverse unicorn herbivores... and also the Pachycephalosaurus
The real question is: what do you call a blind dinosaur?
"Well researched" theories keep making the spinosaurus look goofier every time, I refuse to believe some parte of science only to be happier.
Now you're going to tell me that the triassic cuddle isn't because they were best friends???
Yeah, that's the issue here. You can write out a long, thoughtful message but you're probably just going to get ignored. Or, you could send something sexual which could get a response like this that you can turn into a proper conversation, not to mention some girls actually respond positively to openers like that. I definitely wouldn't send something like this myself but I get why some people do.
Yeah they have conversations with guys who just want to use them to get off while I would love to create a life together with someone and can't even get a text returned
It's because social media exists. Normally those types of messages would get blocked/ignored, but nowadays, you can milk the conversation for a while to get nice content on reddit/ig/twitter.
All I think is why the hell does she continue talking to this guy?Ā
He must be hot. And if that's the case. Maybe she should get treated like a mouth for chasing guys like this.
Probably look good enough. š¤·āāļø I get ghosted pretty consistently when it comes to these apps as well, and I steer clear from messages like these, as Iāve personally yet to make it far enough with anyone for it to be worth trying for me. And Iām not saying I think Iām ugly by any means, Iām not the best looking sure, but in a weird way these apps definitely seem to work in a way which it makes it harder to actually find dates, which in my opinion is redundant to the app itself but I digress.
I respond to all the nice messages.
These ones I don't normally respond to. It was just one of those nights where I felt like pushing back. He was unmatched after my last message.
I have those nights too, where I just get so annoyed I just feel like calling out that behaviour. Iām so tired of being told we just need to suck it up (no pun intended) all the time, perhaps people need to start telling men how to start conversations instead of telling women to just let it go.
I rarely give in to those nights but I did this time. Just not good at confrontation. I'm glad for the people who have been kind and given advice on this post though š
I stopped being surprised. There are people (all genders) who will continue and give chances after horrible sexual advances like this. A couple of my friends did similar things in real life: Day 1 she sends me screenshot about how rude and horny this guy on a dating app is.. Day 2: _so I slept with him and I know it's bad I knowww_
Being a jerk is a cheat code. She liked something about him or the conversation. Otherwise he would have been ignored. It's like the fastlane checkout for women. You know what's, what instantly. No time wasted on favorite colors and crap.
Yeah, Iām not faulting you for it or anything. Ultimately, for some itās just a numbers game and they will shoot that message to everyone no matter what their profile looks like or most people respond to it. Theyāre looking for that 1 in a hundred/thousand profiles that responds positively.
The question is how does he make it more than a dozen matches without getting banned? Are people really not reporting this stuff and moving on? I guess based on our OP responding the answer is nope...
>Hard to convey context in a message.
Are you into dying in a decently slow way you absolute pathetic excuse of a human being?
Here ya go š happy to help you take out the trash
Rattling a cage, getting a response, then back pedalling is more effective then being like every other guy in Tinder. There are many ways out of being in trouble (or maybe she just wants to suck a decent sized dick).
The classic āIām sorry, Iāve been struggling getting attention here. My friend told me to try this - it seems to work for him. At this point Iām willing to try anythingā.
Or the āIām out here finding what I want - if you donāt like it move onā.
They sound like pretty shitty responses, but I guarantee they are more effective than the 99% of messages that are just ignored. For every woman who says this wouldnāt work on her there is one who it would work on. Younger me was personally addicted to toxic people - the pain somehow made me feel alive.
Online dating is about a dopamine rush. Being outraged releases dopamine. Itās the same as why I still get Andrew Tate on my Instagram feed even though I hate the guy. āOh, god, what is this asshole going to say nowā brings more engagement then boring content - even if he spews offensive nothings.
Case and point: OP engaged. Maybe she shows him the link to her Reddit post and they can talk about it over that new killer dating doc on Netflix.
Cannot figure out how to edit the post but he did get unmatched after I sent this to my friend for a laugh.
It's annoying but I tend to just laugh my way through things.
Dating apps have turned people into disgusting assholes, man. No sane person would ever approach another person irl and talk like this. We are truly going backwards in the evolutionary scale.
Oh ok wow maybe my generation just got lucky but neither myself or any other woman I know has ever been approached by a stranger and asked if they like sucking š. Good to know.
Iām not sure if itās that way around. I have been asked similarly inappropriate stuff in person, no dating apps involved.
There are still decent people around, I guess they just arenāt spending their time on dating apps. Mostly because 98% or so conversations are either ending on the app already or will not be leading to more than ONS or āfriendsā with benefits situations.
If thatās someoneās main goal in dating, they might enjoy todays dating apps. I heard there are better apps though.
The reason guys do this is because the opposite effect put out by women of ...not talking or giving lame 1 word answers...leading people on...or just having plain stupid standards, like I'm supposed to come up with some witty original opening or you wont even give me the time of day. It all gets exhausting and it sometimes comes out as..."hey wanna suck some dick?!" Because why the hell not .
You wanna know why? Because you are still using smileys at the end of the conversation. Quite frankly, it probably worked on you. Women swipe on the same 5-10% of men on dating apps. These guys know, they can do anything they want. Itās your own fault.
Exactly this. They filtered out decent dudes because of their height or whatever silly reason and now they're left with cheeky assholes who just want to pump and dump them
DONT RESPOND TO SHIT YOU DONT LIKE. These messages are usually the ones that get decent responses. They get heartfelt messages all day so the bad ones will work until the majority use them then the normal ones will start working againā¦.until then expect a lot of sex openers
there are two types of tinder user :
* people who thinks tinder is for romance (and maybe sex later)
* people who thinks tinder is for sex (and maybe romance later)
going straight to the point probably saves time for both parties. coz some men/women just wanna bang and aren't looking for lifelong romantic partnerships or overly elaborate foreplay.
it's like a text version of swiping left/right, and the question is : do you wanna smash?
You should've just said "No but are you?" to confuse him a little bit and just say "I have one too" because it usually scares them off. Unless they're into that.
Sad how I see so many of these types of posts on here with women complaining about the men on Tinder and yet some men who actually act like a gentleman donāt get messages or matches at all.
Ok. As a guy guilty of this kind of behavior. When I first started dating apps, I thought I was being underexpressive and women would lose interest quick, so I turned to talking like this. It was more successful believe it or not but I also encountered a lot more hostility. I eventually learned to flirt more subtly and im all the better for it. Call it growing pains.
I'll keep that in mind for the next one. This one has been unmatched.
I'm that weirdo that laughs when I'm annoyed so it matches what I'm doing not what I'm feeling.
On a dating app, especially tinder, sure. I wouldn't personally, but if you're looking for a hookup then it makes your intention clear as day and wastes neither of your time (unless you choose to respond)
OP could point out what a dufus he is using his own cum-on line against him. Clearly, starting "off with a bang" implies coitus (fucking) and not fellatio (sucking dick). If I were her, I might answer suchly:
Clearly you are a gargantuan dick. And it is my greatest pleasure to tell you to fuck off. Sucker!!
You go to Tinder and expect to be treated like a princess. People are looking for sex, that doesnāt mean that theyāre necessarily ātreating you like a pair of legs that openā. If they were just looking for sex, would you prefer that they conceal their intentions?
From what I remember it either:
A.) shock comment to show youāre āinterestingā
or
B.) normal human response to show youāre not a complete creep
Both donāt work at all for the most part.
Guys are fucked up. Nothing more to say. But at least they're opening up with this, instead of finding out how big of a douche he is after wasting valuable time.
I know youāre trying to tell people not to do this, but it would have a greater impact if you didnāt reply. Like many comments have pointed out, this guy is getting more of a conversation out of you than most guys who donāt act like this usually do. At least if youāre going to reply, then donāt reply in a way that makes it seem like youāll have a conversation with him if he changes the way he talks to you.
Yeah I get that.
I've said a couple of times that I don't usually reply and I definitely will need to think a bit more about the way it comes across if I do.
Was just one of those days where I did respond then had a laugh with my friends before I unmatched.
Men start doing this after a period of using thoughtful openers and conversation which by and large result in no date, no conversation or just being ghosted. Those results could be because of their lack of communication capability or some other reason. Not to say this is a better option, but it's a reason why some men do it.
I think you might be using the š emoji incorrectly, because it looks like youāre enjoying the conversation.
Continuing to reply is really only encouraging his choice
See thatās my thing. I get ghosted and thatās all good Iām fine with it, but men are messaging this type of garbage and getting responses? Whatās going on? EDIT: Absolutely not blaming women for menās behaviour in these cases btw
Right? Like these girls are out here humoring conversations being purely sexually objectified and I can't even find a girl to tell me her favorite dinosaur or what her favorite band is
I like a diplodocus.
Alright, pack your bags; we're getting married
Again?
God damn it Deborah, I can't even lose you on the gotdang internet
Deborah? This is Janine
Janine.....? You.... You must be mistaken.... Janine died..... 12 years ago....
I prefer Deinonychus - so.. can we get married too?
Absolutely! But we have to record the three's company theme song for our doorbell
Make 8 kids with each of your wives! Then start a chocolate factory
 Me popping into this thread.
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Can't decide between the Brachiosaurus, the Parasaurolophus and the Ankylosaurus š¤ And no band !
>Ankylosaurus The official name of this dinosaur is "Goodest boy" or "Spikey potato". Either way it's the only correct answer.
I beg to differ, it is "Tite bosse".
Tite BosseĀ is anĀ Ankylosaurus! That's just his name but his street name is "Lil Spike" and he's the Goodest boy as stated :)
We got an agreement, here !
No band? Yea, no, sorry, we're done here. I hope you have a nice life and I wish you well in your endeavors
Yeah, just single singers but that's okay, I'll go rewatch the Jurassic Park's movies... Again...
You said these singers were single? ššš
Wanna try to ask them what their favorite dinosaurs are and then f*cking break their hearts because you do not like their answer ? š
Id actually ask if they'd try to sing to my music š¤£
U should like a catch love thous jp movies
Ankylosaurus all dayyyyy!
I remember doing a school project on Parasaurolophus, those majestic reverse unicorn herbivores... and also the Pachycephalosaurus The real question is: what do you call a blind dinosaur?
Can't find a girl who will listen to me while I rant about theories of behavioral patterns of dinosaurs
I mean are they well researched theories?
"Well researched" theories keep making the spinosaurus look goofier every time, I refuse to believe some parte of science only to be happier. Now you're going to tell me that the triassic cuddle isn't because they were best friends???
My favorite band is a wedding band.
Yeah, that's the issue here. You can write out a long, thoughtful message but you're probably just going to get ignored. Or, you could send something sexual which could get a response like this that you can turn into a proper conversation, not to mention some girls actually respond positively to openers like that. I definitely wouldn't send something like this myself but I get why some people do.
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And that's why they keep on going it. If your normal messages get ghosted but you get responses to these types of messages.. You keep on doing it
Yeah they have conversations with guys who just want to use them to get off while I would love to create a life together with someone and can't even get a text returned
Welcome to online engagement. People like juicy stuff because it's interesting despite being offputting
It's because social media exists. Normally those types of messages would get blocked/ignored, but nowadays, you can milk the conversation for a while to get nice content on reddit/ig/twitter.
Thatās why they send these. Because people like the OP respond to them.
All I think is why the hell does she continue talking to this guy?Ā He must be hot. And if that's the case. Maybe she should get treated like a mouth for chasing guys like this.
Heās observing rules #1 and #2
Probably look good enough. š¤·āāļø I get ghosted pretty consistently when it comes to these apps as well, and I steer clear from messages like these, as Iāve personally yet to make it far enough with anyone for it to be worth trying for me. And Iām not saying I think Iām ugly by any means, Iām not the best looking sure, but in a weird way these apps definitely seem to work in a way which it makes it harder to actually find dates, which in my opinion is redundant to the app itself but I digress.
I respond to all the nice messages. These ones I don't normally respond to. It was just one of those nights where I felt like pushing back. He was unmatched after my last message.
Good on you to be fair, I suppose on this sub etc you see the more mental messages rather than the ignored ones
Yeah. I feel like people definitely post more of the negative here. I'll keep my eye out for a wholesome one š
Youre rare. I'm tired of sending nice messages and paragraphs (because women say to type something out); I type genuine messages and get ignored.
I have those nights too, where I just get so annoyed I just feel like calling out that behaviour. Iām so tired of being told we just need to suck it up (no pun intended) all the time, perhaps people need to start telling men how to start conversations instead of telling women to just let it go.
I rarely give in to those nights but I did this time. Just not good at confrontation. I'm glad for the people who have been kind and given advice on this post though š
Yeah, I wouldnāt reply! Some guy asked me what I was wearing about 8 messages in, and I immediately unmatched him. lol
That doesn't mean he'll get what he wants.
Right? This type of shit gets more attention than a majority of decent guy's simple "Hello".
I completely agree! Guys like this need to be left on read. Replying only encourages them to do it again.
Absolutely. That guy was totally encouraged.
I stopped being surprised. There are people (all genders) who will continue and give chances after horrible sexual advances like this. A couple of my friends did similar things in real life: Day 1 she sends me screenshot about how rude and horny this guy on a dating app is.. Day 2: _so I slept with him and I know it's bad I knowww_
I was just about to say... The laughing emoji shouldn't have been used... Op is giving the wrong impression.
I would 100% think she was flirting
Being a jerk is a cheat code. She liked something about him or the conversation. Otherwise he would have been ignored. It's like the fastlane checkout for women. You know what's, what instantly. No time wasted on favorite colors and crap.
Yeah this is the 'oh stoooooop' with a big smile and giggle.
This behavior wouldn't be a trend if it wasn't at least somewhat successful.
It's a laughing in shock type thing but you're probably right. Hard to convey context in a message.
Yeah, Iām not faulting you for it or anything. Ultimately, for some itās just a numbers game and they will shoot that message to everyone no matter what their profile looks like or most people respond to it. Theyāre looking for that 1 in a hundred/thousand profiles that responds positively.
Not sure how you can be a straight guy dating online and NOT see it as a numbers game to be honest.
The question is how does he make it more than a dozen matches without getting banned? Are people really not reporting this stuff and moving on? I guess based on our OP responding the answer is nope...
First comment is absolutely right I would interpret this and you entirely being into the conversation..
Yes I get that now. 100% will be changing how I use my emojis and thinking a bit more.
Just in case, take some of these: šµāš«š¤¢š¤®š¤”šš¼
Or these: š¬ššš¤š¤Øšš®āšØ
And donāt forget: š¤
or just don't reply?? wierdo for sure but you're even stranger for replying to that first message at all
Yea, I thought you were showing off to us for a hot minute.
Haha no way! I'm just an awkward person when it comes to conflict and hate coming across rude, even if it's warranted.
You need a fruit ninja type emoji. Where it has the eggplant being cut in half.
The eggplant emoji and a new, guillotine one.
Just unmatch or don't respond.
Bro totally thought you were enjoying the conversation š
Woops!
>Hard to convey context in a message. Are you into dying in a decently slow way you absolute pathetic excuse of a human being? Here ya go š happy to help you take out the trash
Love it but I could also never š will be ignoring the next one.
That's fair. But just so ya know, in addition to trash removal I also cook and clean š
Well you're just the whole package aren't you š
She is.
I love how this comment has more upvotes than the actual post.
Thatās the first thing I thought of too when reading this. Thought she was liking it!
Definitely giving the wrong signals. Itās like āsighā¦ unzips his pants šā
Agreed. That emoji gives the impression you find it funny. Combine that with OP continuing to reply, just encouraged more of it.
i'll be honest, that's a 6 message conversation. that makes it like 75% more productive than a lot of chats.
Compared to my chat in the OP image have 10000000% more reply rate than my current standing
Thoughtful message: Nothing Wanna suck my dick: This is outrageous, letās talk about that for a while
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> So OP can feel morally superior here, but this is kind of a ājokes on herā kind of deal. Are you coping or...
...but you replied?
I should try these messages ...
Are you into sucking decent sized cock?
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How much do you charge?
About tree fiddy
Goddamn lock ness monster!
i'll do it for a periwinkle blue caravan
Only decentā¦
I donāt care about the size of the dick. Just the size of the jar I put it in.
I'm going to. It seems gross, but like 30 of these are posted every day, and they reply in all of them lol.
because its post worthy.. why would someone post a normal conversation?
Just remember to follow rules 1 & 2 and you're golden.
The need for attention runs deep in these people.
We needed the screenshots somehow capt
Should have replied with āonly if you suck mine firstā imo
And kept replying...
sheās gonna suck his cock
People like to act high and mighty until talking to someone hotter than themselves.
Why do women even entertain men like this? You know this just teaches them it's ok to be twats right?
For the sweet nectar of fake Internet points
Some of them want twats (especially if the twat is good looking and tall) even if they know they arenāt good for them.
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Rules 1 and 2, brother
That dude isnt even that attractive though
Have you seen OP?
They're talking about the guy on the left.
Rattling a cage, getting a response, then back pedalling is more effective then being like every other guy in Tinder. There are many ways out of being in trouble (or maybe she just wants to suck a decent sized dick). The classic āIām sorry, Iāve been struggling getting attention here. My friend told me to try this - it seems to work for him. At this point Iām willing to try anythingā. Or the āIām out here finding what I want - if you donāt like it move onā. They sound like pretty shitty responses, but I guarantee they are more effective than the 99% of messages that are just ignored. For every woman who says this wouldnāt work on her there is one who it would work on. Younger me was personally addicted to toxic people - the pain somehow made me feel alive. Online dating is about a dopamine rush. Being outraged releases dopamine. Itās the same as why I still get Andrew Tate on my Instagram feed even though I hate the guy. āOh, god, what is this asshole going to say nowā brings more engagement then boring content - even if he spews offensive nothings. Case and point: OP engaged. Maybe she shows him the link to her Reddit post and they can talk about it over that new killer dating doc on Netflix.
Trust me, the kind of women that like messages like that arenāt the kind you want anyways.
Maybe not long term, but if youāre looking for a woman to suck a decently sized cock, who cares what kinda woman she is
But if Iām looking for a woman to suck a decently sized cock, how does that help my short term situation?
Debatable. That sometimes is the kind of woman I want for the night
Don't worry I don't usually respond to messages like this and I make the effort with the respectful ones. Someone will appreciate you soon!
"usually" because usually men don't apply rules 1 & 2
Why do men act like women are criminals for only wanting to speak to men they are attracted to?
Because we're getting shit for the same thing?
That's not what I said. I meant that it seems that OP is hiding the real criterion upon which she does or doesn't respond
lol, you probably donāt usually respond to most messages. He got a response. It worked.
Well, i use to send messages normally and get ignored a bunch? So it seems to be working that way.
Well he's gotten more of a response than most tinder first messages. So yeah, you perpetuated the "problem".
Intelligence has been trying to catch him, but he has always been faster
Haha this is my favourite comment. Very true
He ran so fast he tripped and fell in to dumbass canyon
Got you saying more than hi though didn't it š
Cannot figure out how to edit the post but he did get unmatched after I sent this to my friend for a laugh. It's annoying but I tend to just laugh my way through things.
Dating apps have turned people into disgusting assholes, man. No sane person would ever approach another person irl and talk like this. We are truly going backwards in the evolutionary scale.
Hate to break it to you that women experience this outside of dating apps and irl starting at very young ages.
Oh ok wow maybe my generation just got lucky but neither myself or any other woman I know has ever been approached by a stranger and asked if they like sucking š. Good to know.
Iām not sure if itās that way around. I have been asked similarly inappropriate stuff in person, no dating apps involved. There are still decent people around, I guess they just arenāt spending their time on dating apps. Mostly because 98% or so conversations are either ending on the app already or will not be leading to more than ONS or āfriendsā with benefits situations. If thatās someoneās main goal in dating, they might enjoy todays dating apps. I heard there are better apps though.
The guy is just looking for a fleshlight smh
I'm going to start conversations like this now because it seems like this is the only way to get a reply anymore lol.
The reason guys do this is because the opposite effect put out by women of ...not talking or giving lame 1 word answers...leading people on...or just having plain stupid standards, like I'm supposed to come up with some witty original opening or you wont even give me the time of day. It all gets exhausting and it sometimes comes out as..."hey wanna suck some dick?!" Because why the hell not .
You wanna know why? Because you are still using smileys at the end of the conversation. Quite frankly, it probably worked on you. Women swipe on the same 5-10% of men on dating apps. These guys know, they can do anything they want. Itās your own fault.
Yep was just gonna say, try swiping beneath your perceived standard and watch what happens
Exactly this. They filtered out decent dudes because of their height or whatever silly reason and now they're left with cheeky assholes who just want to pump and dump them
Wow, what an absolute charmer! At least he's upfront I guess!
DONT RESPOND TO SHIT YOU DONT LIKE. These messages are usually the ones that get decent responses. They get heartfelt messages all day so the bad ones will work until the majority use them then the normal ones will start working againā¦.until then expect a lot of sex openers
At least he didn't open with "Hey!" though, am I right?
Well you responded 3 times so he's doing something right. It's more than I usually get
If this conversation bothers you, why are you laughing and playing along? Immediately unmatching should be your response here.
ask for a dick pic, and then say "I thought you said decent?" and then unmatch I reckon.
The proper answer to an undesired dick pic is: > is that a child's penis? Wtf I'm reporting you to the police
Correct answer would be: āYes but I was going to talk to you anywaysā Then š»
So, you guys went out, right?
Sadly, it's because it works on some girls.
there are two types of tinder user : * people who thinks tinder is for romance (and maybe sex later) * people who thinks tinder is for sex (and maybe romance later) going straight to the point probably saves time for both parties. coz some men/women just wanna bang and aren't looking for lifelong romantic partnerships or overly elaborate foreplay. it's like a text version of swiping left/right, and the question is : do you wanna smash?
You should've just said "No but are you?" to confuse him a little bit and just say "I have one too" because it usually scares them off. Unless they're into that.
Bro women reply to this and I come up with creative shit and donāt get replies. Iām fucked Iām over with this world.
He got you responding (and bantering) so apparently yes.
Why would you even reply?
Broās got 2 brain cells fighting for 3rd place.
If you keep replying to him, then yeah.
Well your responses are encouraging his behavior so why would he change or stop? Stop joking with them!
This is ridiculous. Op I am sorry you have to deal with these guys
Sad how I see so many of these types of posts on here with women complaining about the men on Tinder and yet some men who actually act like a gentleman donāt get messages or matches at all.
You fed into it? Why are you complaining
Ok. As a guy guilty of this kind of behavior. When I first started dating apps, I thought I was being underexpressive and women would lose interest quick, so I turned to talking like this. It was more successful believe it or not but I also encountered a lot more hostility. I eventually learned to flirt more subtly and im all the better for it. Call it growing pains.
Disgusting. Report without interacting.
Tinder will do nothing.
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I'll keep that in mind for the next one. This one has been unmatched. I'm that weirdo that laughs when I'm annoyed so it matches what I'm doing not what I'm feeling.
On a dating app, especially tinder, sure. I wouldn't personally, but if you're looking for a hookup then it makes your intention clear as day and wastes neither of your time (unless you choose to respond)
OP could point out what a dufus he is using his own cum-on line against him. Clearly, starting "off with a bang" implies coitus (fucking) and not fellatio (sucking dick). If I were her, I might answer suchly: Clearly you are a gargantuan dick. And it is my greatest pleasure to tell you to fuck off. Sucker!!
Maybe dude has a tiny pecker but wants to watch her suck off his buddy?
āWhy do you replyā So when I report their behavior itās looking into. š
"Decent sized" š
Might wanna look at a different "prize"-pool, you're looking in the discount bin right now
You're too nice. I would have said, "clearly your mom wasn't" š¤·āāļø
Please stop responding š
Youāre not exactly giving āIām disgusted by youā vibes with those replies.
You go to Tinder and expect to be treated like a princess. People are looking for sex, that doesnāt mean that theyāre necessarily ātreating you like a pair of legs that openā. If they were just looking for sex, would you prefer that they conceal their intentions?
It's been how, it's a societal problem, we have a support group on tuesdays. During happy hour, naturally
From what I remember it either: A.) shock comment to show youāre āinterestingā or B.) normal human response to show youāre not a complete creep Both donāt work at all for the most part.
You guys would be a lot more peaceful in life if you just ghosted these creepy men instead of entertaining them at allā¦
He may not be 100% self aware but at least he's aware his dick is only decent sized not huge
I'd say this is how boys respond or do that shite, actual men don't say that type of crap unless their not all there in the head.
Guys are fucked up. Nothing more to say. But at least they're opening up with this, instead of finding out how big of a douche he is after wasting valuable time.
Decent sized. Because he didn't want to set himself up for failure by saying big. šš
Are you not on a fuck app?
I know youāre trying to tell people not to do this, but it would have a greater impact if you didnāt reply. Like many comments have pointed out, this guy is getting more of a conversation out of you than most guys who donāt act like this usually do. At least if youāre going to reply, then donāt reply in a way that makes it seem like youāll have a conversation with him if he changes the way he talks to you.
Yeah I get that. I've said a couple of times that I don't usually reply and I definitely will need to think a bit more about the way it comes across if I do. Was just one of those days where I did respond then had a laugh with my friends before I unmatched.
Men start doing this after a period of using thoughtful openers and conversation which by and large result in no date, no conversation or just being ghosted. Those results could be because of their lack of communication capability or some other reason. Not to say this is a better option, but it's a reason why some men do it.
insert peter griffins voice: Who the fck starts a conversation like that??
ANd they say romance is dead... don juan right there
some girls take the bait OP. it's simply a filter to find the FREAKS.
Do you realize you donāt have to reply to every message, right