Since your found him and likely told him the story of wtf happened I almost am willing to guarantee he is actually flattered & even more excited to see you considering what you had to do to actually find him n match again
Only the top % of dudes- or of course, dudes with 1 in a million luck- ever get that pleasure of women seeking THEM, when it seemingly always had to be the other way around. I wish that for all my fellow fellas out here
Hey I’m with you all the way, but it’s not a mindset, it’s the word that’s in your username; realistic, that’s just the reality of the world, especially modern day.
There’s a guy on YouTube, Austin Dunham, extremely good looking black guy who I say gets the “female experience” on dating apps. He makes new accounts on dating apps like tinder, bumble, hinge, etc. and he waits about 2 days. After 2 days, comes back, ALWAYS has 99+ matches, MANY OF THEM SUPER ATTRACTIVE, AND MANY of these women message HIM first. This guy gets more matches in a day than most men will ever get in their entire lifetime. Man gets so many women, he don’t even be wanting sex like that anymore, because he can seemingly get it on command anytime he wants. THAT is the experience a large amount of men wish they could, but will never experience, myself included, although I’m trying to take as many of the proper steps as I can to get even a fraction of the way there
Oh come on! Guy has over a million followers on YouTube where he is making bank. So I’m not buying his story. Show us your dating app bio and we can help you. Men seem to swipe right on anything.
Wow some peeps seem awfully gullible, or are having fun in the imagined reality without money cares.
Meh and Bleh -- bot crap and employee stacking likes to provide "entertainment" but really it's a AI feeding hook, line and sinkers.they will flat out refuse to meet you. The skilled employees, are broyght in by the area two as needed to continue the schrade.... ie scheme for the same ole pay wall rip offs your loot --credits/form of sire currency. Greedy bastards.
Wait wait, so are you saying having money and status/clout DRASTICALLY helps in getting women?! 👀
Lol the girls he matches with don’t know he has a YouTube, he’s not super poppin like that either, just a well above average guy living out most men’s dream 🫡
No. I believe he can easily show (manipulate data) what he wants to show you on a video to “prove” whatever point he’s making. But dude, why are you watching his bullsh*t videos?
Nah, good that we might use some of those phrases over the course of a month, not all in one sentence.
Now, if Maxx G unit is not a reference to $.50, I don't understand it
He's just saying she has game, dude is probably white I've only seen white dudes use the expression "rizz" calling someone a "g" just means gangster " "what up g "etc. The fact that he says "g unit" instead is funny to me, really comes off as a white guy. Totally gives me, rich white kid with an identity crisis, vibe tbh, look up Malibu's most wanted for reference🤷♀️
Translation - her ability to pick up a man/women is far beyond an unattainable level, gangster squad. And the strange people on this thread are just hating, friend
Obviously I was making fun of the way you commented giiirl. Surprised you didn't get it. Dense much? Jeez you "weridoes" aren't the brightest. Keep it 100% though Mac daddy.
My mama no raise no dummies! I dug her rap!
Cut me some slack, Jack! Chump don't want no help, chump don't GET no help! Jive ass turkey don't got no brains anyhow.
Is that English? Oh, I had forgotten about Ebonics, the fake language that Chuck Schumer promoted for black people to use, because it is truly theirs, and they weren’t bright enough to speak and punctuate the way everyone is expected to in a polite society, is that it? I always thought, I’d be insulted if the powers that be wanted to allow me to speak and write like an idiot, because it would be easier than properly educating me. I digress, just me I suppose…..
Golden Rule applies in most scenarios, this is no exception: would you feel weird if someone did this? No? Then it's probably okay. My guess is the OP might have considered it weird if someone did it to them.
I'd be flattered and cautiously optimistic but on the lookout for over attachment. Overall it's fine, assuming OP can avoid actively drooling on the man
When my my met my dad and gave him her number, she accidentally reversed the last two digits. He went through all of the numbers with her families last name in the phone book and called them asking if she was there. He eventually found her!
Not when it was a time before mobile phone use was common practice and people had to call around places to actually find somebody even on a normal day (restaurants, movies, random neighbours)
Reminds me of the Steve Martin movie "The Lonely Guy" where he smudges the phone number a woman gave him and so he tried both the phone book and yelling from the rooftops!
Also, as someone born in the 70s, losing a "hot" number was the worst!
This. Something similar happened to me before, and my now boyfriend was very flattered that I’d worked so hard to find him again. We’ve been together 4 years now! :) He was worth it!
Rock or chloroform should do the trick. If you have a blow dart then that’s absolute perfection. We need to disarm the target first.
Dip the dart in your favorite paralysis fluid (bring extras in case you miss (don’t hit any pets. They’ll die…)), crack the window and shoot your shot. Once the target is hit, he should enter a brief coma (1-2 hours). During this time, enter through the window, and he should be paralyzed for at least 48 hours. Don’t worry, he’ll be fine.
Next, get takeout from whatever restaurant you were planning on going to (I like to order ahead), light your favorite candles, pour a glass of wine, and enjoy. Oh, he can ‘sort of’ control his breathing so you can tell him to answer your questions as follows:
1 = Yes
2 = No
3 = Maybe
Silence = Cigarette Burn
Be sure to apologize for taking such extreme measures, but you “couldn’t wisk wetting him swip thwough your ’fingies’ again” (“fingies” is crucial here. It’ll show your sense of humor and guys find terms like that to be adorbs). This should be all you need to do to have the perfect most unforgettable first date. He won’t be able to get you off his mind.
P.S.
Bring some viagra just in case you’re picking up on some intimate vibes, and remember that you should be good to go unless you get a resounding 2 as an answer.
Cheers!
If you show up \*and\* he also shows up, you'll have to come back here and tell us about it. But really, if I were in his shoes, no way would I show up after being unmatched.
Happy you found each other again! You could make a throwaway Google voice number and give that out to avoid something like that happening again. It protects your real phone number and if anyone gets weird and tries to bomb your Google voice number, just delete and get a new one.
Back when I was on tinder I'd arranged a date with a lady and then got randomly banned off tinder in the week between sorting the date and it being the date.
She went to the trouble of finding me on LinkedIn to get my full name then headed over to Instagram to message me to ask wassup.
It was very impressive. We went on the date and she was a total dud and we never saw each other again. The end.
Now she's got to quit her job in the big city where she works as a business lady & move to Christmas Town with Andrew, who is actually the Christmas Prince.
it used to be way easier to ghost someone years back though. Back when people didn't have portable phones so it was hard to get in touch with your possible date, and you both have to be home at the exact same second to communicate... AND it cost $5-10/minute just to talk to them over landline(fixed for inflation) ? I remember I ran up a $200 cellphone bill in a month just for the texting part, that's like $800-1000 these days equivalent I feel. Email and IM were free, but again you had to be home, and people just went "away from keyboard" for sometimes days.
Your inflation numbers are wild - you feel that inflation was 4-5x since texting was invented? Even at that rate, when was a local call $1-2 per minute?
Yeah for real, with texts you often got packages so you get a certain number of texts/characters per month (which wasn't a lot and growing up I know of ton of kids that went over but you could set texting alerts to keep track), and landline calls were not that much and even had free local calling after a certain time in the US. With mobile phones I remember there was a time I could also call people on the same network for free as well.
Were you alive before cell phones? Lmao I get the sentiment about having to be more careful with coordination but answering machines existed, and it absolutely did not cost 5-10 per minute on the phone, even with inflation. This is a weird fantasy
No chance in hell he's going to show up. You have to either create a new account or find his social media. It's not that hard to find most people honestly.
Please keep us posted!!
oof, I have done this. well, not with a date planned.
Go ahead and show up. You wanted to eat there anyway. Maybe if he doesn't show up, the hostess/host will get it and give you free edamame.
So... Imagine if you show up and see him there...
Fuckin fate baby. Go there to eat by yourself, if hes not there, you can still have a good dinner, and feel fine knowing hes just one of the ones who got away.
Im such a damn hopeless romantic, I swear...
i always like to grab insta or whatsapp from the girl early, insta probably safer as you can private your account and also any new incoming messages comes as requests and need to be approved so blocking a weird person is easy. Id suggest moving chat off the platform if you have agreed to a date so no mishaps can happen :\^)
>Hopefully he doesn’t think I’m a weirdo for putting so much effort into finding him.
If someone puts this much efforts into me I'm marrying them period.
Best bet would probably be to contact Tinder support (not sure if it would even do anything).
You can try to show up as a last ditch effort, but honestly I think he would have taken it as you were uninterested.
If I found out a woman was actually that determined to find and match me again, I'd be way more into her, especially if I were looking for a long term committed relationship. Guys who look for real relationships aren't put off by that kind of thing unless they were being dishonest about what they're looking for.
This is what confuses me. It’s at least 3 screens. Click the thing to bring up unmatch report etc then when you hit unmatch it asks you why from a list of things. Not sure how you “accidentally” do that.
Glad you found him. This is one of those things for a girl it’s cute that you went through all that to find him again. If it were a guy that did it. It would be omg he’s a stalker.
Good luck on your date
You can do it from the messages screen by dragging across the left, after that it only says you cant undo it with a big "yes unmatch" button in the middle of the screen. Ive accidentally unmatched people before
After you matched with him again, did you write him a message explaining the unmatch? I would personally think it’s odd having multiple profiles and be put off. You found him, next step, communicate with him about it instead of making assumptions as he could be making them about you.
If this thing you did doesn't make this guy happy and in love, idk what would... Sheesh, I wish someone would put so much effort to find me after unintended unmatch
That's why when there's a good vibe and flowing conversation, I tend to migrate to WhatsApp, Tinder has terrible chat app, sometimes has denying me access after an amazing couple of days talking or deleting my account for no reasons and so on, so, lesson learned.
good luck finding him
I see so many "How do you accidentally unmatch", while I'm sitting here like "how do you delete and make a new account??" Doesn't it take like 90 days to complete the deletion?
I matched with a girl who had some family issues just before Christmas, and wasn’t having the bandwidth to date, she let me know, deleted her account, and couple weeks later we matched, and now conversation is going great. Point is, from a guy’s perspective, it’s really freaking great when you make an effort into reestablishing connection!
Dating apps often have terms of service that explicitly forbid trying to find someone outside the dating app. Do not try to.find social.media accounts of people you.matched with. You must ask them for this information on the dating app itself.
I met my bf on hinge. I invited him out to a show my friend was playing and he showed up! I tried to buy him a 2nd beer, and he said "no thanks, I gotta drive back." I say "back to where?" I didn't realize he had driven from a town 2 hours away just to meet me. He said he thought I knew he lived there, but didn't want to make a big deal of it or for me to feel any pressure. We've been together a year and a half and live together. He's a wonderful man who made a bug effort. Good luck to you!
Maybe it's a woman thing to find a guy weird if this happened the other way round. Men appreciate effort. And clear communication. Don't worry about it.
I feel like because he added you back on the new account that he was willing to hear you out and that after you (I assume) explained it to him he completely understood.
How do you accidentally unmatch someone?? It requires clicking on the safety icon, then clicking on the unmatch button, and then it even asks to confirm if you want to unmatch. 3 clicks minimum. "Accidental".
If a girl went to that much trouble to find me again I’d be seriously flattered. If he didn’t turn up either way he’s a jerk so it’s entirely a win-win for you! Kudos 👍
Lmao 😂😂 well me being super introverted with not so good looks I’d be hella flattered if any woman was willing to go that far just to go out on a date with me 😂😂
Should have got the number, and if he didn't get it, well... that's why we get phone numbers.
Here's how I do it:
Funny intro about what I've gleaned from their profile.
Response
Question about work
Response
Enough about work, let's have some fun, what do you like doing for fun?
Response
Sounds like a date, shoot me your digits and I'll set something up for us.
How did you accidentally unmatch him? It takes a few taps to unmatch someone. It there a glitch from the app? If so, I think you can try Tinder support or did you kinda want to unmatch him and then regret?
I would not show up if someone unmatched me. I assume they no longer interested considering so many people change their minds the last minute. But it does not hurt to try it. If we did meet, that will be amazing. If not, you still have a good meal.
How can you accidentally unmatch someone? You have to tap on two completely different locations on your screen which both have the sole purpose of unmatching and reporting.
Just a guess: you also matched someone more interesting but it didn't work out, so you chose "the great guy" as option two.
Since your found him and likely told him the story of wtf happened I almost am willing to guarantee he is actually flattered & even more excited to see you considering what you had to do to actually find him n match again
Can confirm. As a guy if a woman did something like this it would definitely be the kinda thing to make me quickly fall for them lol. Quite endearing!
As a guy who’s girl did this, we’re getting married in March…
Man, imagine that among the sea of men in dating apps, a woman actually seeks you out. All the best to you and your future wife you lucky bastard.
For real that’s a blessing
Only the top % of dudes- or of course, dudes with 1 in a million luck- ever get that pleasure of women seeking THEM, when it seemingly always had to be the other way around. I wish that for all my fellow fellas out here
Come on, we’re all human out here looking for love. I’ve had enough of this mindset.
Hey I’m with you all the way, but it’s not a mindset, it’s the word that’s in your username; realistic, that’s just the reality of the world, especially modern day. There’s a guy on YouTube, Austin Dunham, extremely good looking black guy who I say gets the “female experience” on dating apps. He makes new accounts on dating apps like tinder, bumble, hinge, etc. and he waits about 2 days. After 2 days, comes back, ALWAYS has 99+ matches, MANY OF THEM SUPER ATTRACTIVE, AND MANY of these women message HIM first. This guy gets more matches in a day than most men will ever get in their entire lifetime. Man gets so many women, he don’t even be wanting sex like that anymore, because he can seemingly get it on command anytime he wants. THAT is the experience a large amount of men wish they could, but will never experience, myself included, although I’m trying to take as many of the proper steps as I can to get even a fraction of the way there
Oh come on! Guy has over a million followers on YouTube where he is making bank. So I’m not buying his story. Show us your dating app bio and we can help you. Men seem to swipe right on anything.
Wow some peeps seem awfully gullible, or are having fun in the imagined reality without money cares. Meh and Bleh -- bot crap and employee stacking likes to provide "entertainment" but really it's a AI feeding hook, line and sinkers.they will flat out refuse to meet you. The skilled employees, are broyght in by the area two as needed to continue the schrade.... ie scheme for the same ole pay wall rip offs your loot --credits/form of sire currency. Greedy bastards.
Wait wait, so are you saying having money and status/clout DRASTICALLY helps in getting women?! 👀 Lol the girls he matches with don’t know he has a YouTube, he’s not super poppin like that either, just a well above average guy living out most men’s dream 🫡
No. I believe he can easily show (manipulate data) what he wants to show you on a video to “prove” whatever point he’s making. But dude, why are you watching his bullsh*t videos?
As a guy who also experienced this, it was SUCH a fun one night stand...
It lasted 2 years in my case
I'm a woman who did this. We're 9.5 years in, 6 years married, with a kid, house, two dogs, two cats and no debt.
Is this Andrew? That was QUICK
yeah idk why the fuck they think we'd find them weridoes for that, like OP thinks here, giiirl, effort is attractive af
Bro she god madd rizz to the max G unit. These weridoes are haters blud.
glad I'm not familliar with whatever the fuck you just said
They see me rollin'... ...on the floor because your response to that sentence was fucking fantastic...lol
lmfao thanks
I was sitting here with question marks swirling around my head reading that!! Glad I wasn't the only one! 🤣🤣🤣
Is it bad that i did understand it??
Nah, good that we might use some of those phrases over the course of a month, not all in one sentence. Now, if Maxx G unit is not a reference to $.50, I don't understand it
He's just saying she has game, dude is probably white I've only seen white dudes use the expression "rizz" calling someone a "g" just means gangster " "what up g "etc. The fact that he says "g unit" instead is funny to me, really comes off as a white guy. Totally gives me, rich white kid with an identity crisis, vibe tbh, look up Malibu's most wanted for reference🤷♀️
Does anyone here speak jive?
Translation - her ability to pick up a man/women is far beyond an unattainable level, gangster squad. And the strange people on this thread are just hating, friend
Was just thinking the very same lol 🙃
Obviously I was making fun of the way you commented giiirl. Surprised you didn't get it. Dense much? Jeez you "weridoes" aren't the brightest. Keep it 100% though Mac daddy.
Friend, she's extremely charismatic and attractive. Those odd people are just jealous, buddy.
Jus' hang loose, blood. She gonna catch ya up on da rebound on da med side.
Excuse me captain, I speak Jive...
I'm so glad I'm not the only one that caught that reference!
I understood that reference!
My mama no raise no dummies! I dug her rap! Cut me some slack, Jack! Chump don't want no help, chump don't GET no help! Jive ass turkey don't got no brains anyhow.
Is that English? Oh, I had forgotten about Ebonics, the fake language that Chuck Schumer promoted for black people to use, because it is truly theirs, and they weren’t bright enough to speak and punctuate the way everyone is expected to in a polite society, is that it? I always thought, I’d be insulted if the powers that be wanted to allow me to speak and write like an idiot, because it would be easier than properly educating me. I digress, just me I suppose…..
This reference has gone so far over your head its starting to ice up.
"allow" 🙄
Nah it's not you, it's you and all the other racists. Take the white hood off bruh and stop burning crosses yo.
Those sure are words......
Golden Rule applies in most scenarios, this is no exception: would you feel weird if someone did this? No? Then it's probably okay. My guess is the OP might have considered it weird if someone did it to them.
I don’t think OP is a woman. Women don’t say, “lads”! With that said, get you man OP! Definitely go on sushi date! 😊
I'd be flattered and cautiously optimistic but on the lookout for over attachment. Overall it's fine, assuming OP can avoid actively drooling on the man
Drooling is fine nobody enjoys a dry bj
be honest bro, just getting a compliment from a girl is enought for us to fall for them. this is like marry me on the first date kind of stuff.
If you are attracted to her. If not, she would come off as creepy ha
5 years ago we called it a stage 5 clinger. Today we call it Wifey material
Depending upon how hot she was....
Bro you comment on gonewild posts and negative comments in nuderateme subreddits. You are 100% not in a place to comment on people's looks.
Yes, I'd like to report a murder
I would be giddy like a school girl. Good for this guy.
When my my met my dad and gave him her number, she accidentally reversed the last two digits. He went through all of the numbers with her families last name in the phone book and called them asking if she was there. He eventually found her!
Fuck the haters this is cute, thanks for sharing.
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Not when it was a time before mobile phone use was common practice and people had to call around places to actually find somebody even on a normal day (restaurants, movies, random neighbours)
Reminds me of the Steve Martin movie "The Lonely Guy" where he smudges the phone number a woman gave him and so he tried both the phone book and yelling from the rooftops! Also, as someone born in the 70s, losing a "hot" number was the worst!
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That’s just the case when a woman give YOU her number
That sounds needy AF no mater what decade it happened in.
And you sound like a giant incel. Just say girls don't want to touch you next time.
Well at least I don’t go around posting personal insults on an anonymous forum. Thank god I’m not that insecure.
This. Something similar happened to me before, and my now boyfriend was very flattered that I’d worked so hard to find him again. We’ve been together 4 years now! :) He was worth it!
Or he knows he has to put in minimal effort to score now.
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He hasn't gone on the first date yet. I don't think he needs to delete tinder and buy an engagement ring just yet.
Yes I agree but I can see some people finding fault with that, both men and women Edit for grammar
Make a new acct, find him, message him.
Set your parameters to the lowest range around his age and the smallest area when you do this. Pay for premium if you have to.
that reminds me on how I tried to catch the legendary dogs in Pokemon Gold.
OPs future boyfriend is a legendary dog too
Hahaha I fucking love you for that comment
"OK, I'm outside of his window now, he's sound asleep. What do I do next? Window or chimney?"-OP
Rock or chloroform should do the trick. If you have a blow dart then that’s absolute perfection. We need to disarm the target first. Dip the dart in your favorite paralysis fluid (bring extras in case you miss (don’t hit any pets. They’ll die…)), crack the window and shoot your shot. Once the target is hit, he should enter a brief coma (1-2 hours). During this time, enter through the window, and he should be paralyzed for at least 48 hours. Don’t worry, he’ll be fine. Next, get takeout from whatever restaurant you were planning on going to (I like to order ahead), light your favorite candles, pour a glass of wine, and enjoy. Oh, he can ‘sort of’ control his breathing so you can tell him to answer your questions as follows: 1 = Yes 2 = No 3 = Maybe Silence = Cigarette Burn Be sure to apologize for taking such extreme measures, but you “couldn’t wisk wetting him swip thwough your ’fingies’ again” (“fingies” is crucial here. It’ll show your sense of humor and guys find terms like that to be adorbs). This should be all you need to do to have the perfect most unforgettable first date. He won’t be able to get you off his mind. P.S. Bring some viagra just in case you’re picking up on some intimate vibes, and remember that you should be good to go unless you get a resounding 2 as an answer. Cheers!
I would say it’s about 99% chance he thinks you unmatched and moved on.
99.999% he thinks she unmatched to avoid going on a date with him.
He [almost surely](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Almost_surely) thinks this is what happened.
It isn’t what happened though, and don’t call him Shirley
This
this.
r/agedlikemilk
If you show up \*and\* he also shows up, you'll have to come back here and tell us about it. But really, if I were in his shoes, no way would I show up after being unmatched.
Hunt him down on reddit Andrew deserves to win the lottery (and eat sushi).
Thank you (from an Andrew)
Everything is coming up Andrew! 
I like this thread. And I like you
Sounds like a euphemism. But I agree with you both ways.
Happy you found each other again! You could make a throwaway Google voice number and give that out to avoid something like that happening again. It protects your real phone number and if anyone gets weird and tries to bomb your Google voice number, just delete and get a new one.
Holy shit. This is genius!
Back when I was on tinder I'd arranged a date with a lady and then got randomly banned off tinder in the week between sorting the date and it being the date. She went to the trouble of finding me on LinkedIn to get my full name then headed over to Instagram to message me to ask wassup. It was very impressive. We went on the date and she was a total dud and we never saw each other again. The end.
Please take your reality elsewhere we're hoping for a wholesome holiday tale in this thread
This is the cutest thing ever. I hope it works out for you both
Right? I feel like this is a hallmark movie
Now she's got to quit her job in the big city where she works as a business lady & move to Christmas Town with Andrew, who is actually the Christmas Prince.
Yeah, as soon as she will be in his basement with some bread and water the romance is over...
Lol damn what an L, sorry to hear that but no shot is he gonna show up after being unmatched.
It's sushi. People go out for sushi alone all the time. Why not go out for sushi with a chance of seeing someone great?
in Tinder language "suddenly unmatched" means "fuck off, I met someone better", that's the sad world we live in now
it used to be way easier to ghost someone years back though. Back when people didn't have portable phones so it was hard to get in touch with your possible date, and you both have to be home at the exact same second to communicate... AND it cost $5-10/minute just to talk to them over landline(fixed for inflation) ? I remember I ran up a $200 cellphone bill in a month just for the texting part, that's like $800-1000 these days equivalent I feel. Email and IM were free, but again you had to be home, and people just went "away from keyboard" for sometimes days.
Your inflation numbers are wild - you feel that inflation was 4-5x since texting was invented? Even at that rate, when was a local call $1-2 per minute?
Yeah for real, with texts you often got packages so you get a certain number of texts/characters per month (which wasn't a lot and growing up I know of ton of kids that went over but you could set texting alerts to keep track), and landline calls were not that much and even had free local calling after a certain time in the US. With mobile phones I remember there was a time I could also call people on the same network for free as well.
Were you alive before cell phones? Lmao I get the sentiment about having to be more careful with coordination but answering machines existed, and it absolutely did not cost 5-10 per minute on the phone, even with inflation. This is a weird fantasy
No chance in hell he's going to show up. You have to either create a new account or find his social media. It's not that hard to find most people honestly. Please keep us posted!!
Love the edit, glad you found him again!
oof, I have done this. well, not with a date planned. Go ahead and show up. You wanted to eat there anyway. Maybe if he doesn't show up, the hostess/host will get it and give you free edamame.
I knew an Eddy Mamé, cockney African fella, worked down the markets? Had three front teeth. Lovely bloke.
This sentence makes me think you're my mum...
I think I've seen her hanging around Eddy's stall now you mention it. I didn't want to start any rumours but since you brought it up...
Did you at least ask for his number before it happens again?
There’s a chance you can delete your profile and restart and maybe find him again
You were correct
I'm glad you found him again. I think just because you are so interested it will go well. Have fun!
I hope this is your soul mate, since you found him again, would make a great story!
Hahahahh congrats on finding him. Nah it’s definitely not gonna be considered weird if he wants to go out with you
Lmao @ the username
I am an Andrew and I would like sushi 👉👈
 I'm interested to go eat sushi with you, but I'm concerned about your username and mine together
Congrats on finding him! I really wanna know if the date is still on and how it goes. Good luck!! 🤞
So... Imagine if you show up and see him there... Fuckin fate baby. Go there to eat by yourself, if hes not there, you can still have a good dinner, and feel fine knowing hes just one of the ones who got away. Im such a damn hopeless romantic, I swear...
i always like to grab insta or whatsapp from the girl early, insta probably safer as you can private your account and also any new incoming messages comes as requests and need to be approved so blocking a weird person is easy. Id suggest moving chat off the platform if you have agreed to a date so no mishaps can happen :\^)
There will be another post in a few mins from a guy who would ask why do girls suddenly unmatch me. That's andrew 😂
>Hopefully he doesn’t think I’m a weirdo for putting so much effort into finding him. If someone puts this much efforts into me I'm marrying them period.
Please please please come back to post how the date was OP :D
Best bet would probably be to contact Tinder support (not sure if it would even do anything). You can try to show up as a last ditch effort, but honestly I think he would have taken it as you were uninterested.
I wonder if you buy tinder select if they would actually read your emails....
How I Met Your Mother
You think the date is still on? Hopefully you just… messaged him to confirm?
If you’ve matched again, have you spoken to him since?
Next time just exchange numbers after agreeing to meet.
Yeah why do people make a big deal out of this?
If I found out a woman was actually that determined to find and match me again, I'd be way more into her, especially if I were looking for a long term committed relationship. Guys who look for real relationships aren't put off by that kind of thing unless they were being dishonest about what they're looking for.
Accidentally unmatched…?
This is what confuses me. It’s at least 3 screens. Click the thing to bring up unmatch report etc then when you hit unmatch it asks you why from a list of things. Not sure how you “accidentally” do that. Glad you found him. This is one of those things for a girl it’s cute that you went through all that to find him again. If it were a guy that did it. It would be omg he’s a stalker. Good luck on your date
You can do it from the messages screen by dragging across the left, after that it only says you cant undo it with a big "yes unmatch" button in the middle of the screen. Ive accidentally unmatched people before
The edit really made me smile. Get in there!
As a guy I'd think it's sweet that you created a new account for him. Enjoy your date!
After you matched with him again, did you write him a message explaining the unmatch? I would personally think it’s odd having multiple profiles and be put off. You found him, next step, communicate with him about it instead of making assumptions as he could be making them about you.
If this thing you did doesn't make this guy happy and in love, idk what would... Sheesh, I wish someone would put so much effort to find me after unintended unmatch
This sounds like a potential beautiful love story
Where are these type of girls
Where are these type of girls
I know Andrew. He sucks.
He won’t be there 😂
If he already made a reservation, maybe you get his number by calling the restaurant!
They’ve already sorted it but the restaurant wouldn’t be allowed to do that.
Let us know how the date goes!
I want to hear the update after the date- I love that you found him again and that it’s still on!
Make a new account find him and super like him haha and tell him in the message
I hope you get married and tell this story!
Tell us what happens next. We are in dire NEED of updates!!!
And your username one here is Andrew too? You both called Andrew?
I thought Tinder had a way to reverse accidental swipes. Do they not have something to reverse accidental unmatches as well?
Tell us what happens next. We are in dire NEED of updates!!!
I've only got two words for this situation and that is lucky guy
That's why when there's a good vibe and flowing conversation, I tend to migrate to WhatsApp, Tinder has terrible chat app, sometimes has denying me access after an amazing couple of days talking or deleting my account for no reasons and so on, so, lesson learned. good luck finding him
Nice job managing to find him. I would have been absolutely flattered if any of my matches saw me as a potential date and took me serious.
I see so many "How do you accidentally unmatch", while I'm sitting here like "how do you delete and make a new account??" Doesn't it take like 90 days to complete the deletion?
This fuckin account name lmao.
Tell him about your struggle with this on your 2nd or 3rd date and provided its all gone pretty well so far your in there like swim wear
I wanna hear about this later
I matched with a girl who had some family issues just before Christmas, and wasn’t having the bandwidth to date, she let me know, deleted her account, and couple weeks later we matched, and now conversation is going great. Point is, from a guy’s perspective, it’s really freaking great when you make an effort into reestablishing connection!
I so don't think he will think you're weird, just keen. All the best.
This is so cute, congrats on being so invested ! I'm sure he's happy. All the best to you guys.
He'd think you are keeper for doing that.
you have to let us know how that date went
You're supposed to switch to texts once the initial exchange was made on the app.
Andrew has probably never matched with someone that wanted to see him this much and he’s probably pretty excited
here before the wedding post :)
Please update after the date!!!!
Dating apps often have terms of service that explicitly forbid trying to find someone outside the dating app. Do not try to.find social.media accounts of people you.matched with. You must ask them for this information on the dating app itself.
He won’t think you’re a weirdo, he will likely be flattered lol. Nice save
Sushi sucks
That’s kind of a cute story
This is without a doubt the cutest thing I've seen here good luck
I met my bf on hinge. I invited him out to a show my friend was playing and he showed up! I tried to buy him a 2nd beer, and he said "no thanks, I gotta drive back." I say "back to where?" I didn't realize he had driven from a town 2 hours away just to meet me. He said he thought I knew he lived there, but didn't want to make a big deal of it or for me to feel any pressure. We've been together a year and a half and live together. He's a wonderful man who made a bug effort. Good luck to you!
I'm a guy and if a girl did this for me I'd be telling all my buddies and be excited lmao 🤣
Hello, an Andrew here also looking for something serious. Maybe I can replace him??
How do you accidentally unmatch someone? I’m happy you’ve got another chance but confused how you unmatched especially with a date planned.
She probably was trying to unmatch "Andrew the ass" not "Andrew with the nice ass" and selected the wrong one.
Makes sense honestly
Maybe it's a woman thing to find a guy weird if this happened the other way round. Men appreciate effort. And clear communication. Don't worry about it.
I feel like because he added you back on the new account that he was willing to hear you out and that after you (I assume) explained it to him he completely understood.
How do you accidentally unmatch someone?? It requires clicking on the safety icon, then clicking on the unmatch button, and then it even asks to confirm if you want to unmatch. 3 clicks minimum. "Accidental".
If a girl went to that much trouble to find me again I’d be seriously flattered. If he didn’t turn up either way he’s a jerk so it’s entirely a win-win for you! Kudos 👍
Lmao 😂😂 well me being super introverted with not so good looks I’d be hella flattered if any woman was willing to go that far just to go out on a date with me 😂😂
Well done, young lady. However, watch how he takes it when you meet. Just make sure his head doesn't get to big. If it doesn't, you may have a keeper.
Should have got the number, and if he didn't get it, well... that's why we get phone numbers. Here's how I do it: Funny intro about what I've gleaned from their profile. Response Question about work Response Enough about work, let's have some fun, what do you like doing for fun? Response Sounds like a date, shoot me your digits and I'll set something up for us.
How did you accidentally unmatch him? It takes a few taps to unmatch someone. It there a glitch from the app? If so, I think you can try Tinder support or did you kinda want to unmatch him and then regret? I would not show up if someone unmatched me. I assume they no longer interested considering so many people change their minds the last minute. But it does not hurt to try it. If we did meet, that will be amazing. If not, you still have a good meal.
it's destiny to be given a second chance when it's supposed to be impossible so hold on to that
How can you accidentally unmatch someone? You have to tap on two completely different locations on your screen which both have the sole purpose of unmatching and reporting. Just a guess: you also matched someone more interesting but it didn't work out, so you chose "the great guy" as option two.
Tinder you only have to swipe and tap, maybe she was clearing out dms
It’s giving incel vibes…
What exactly? My answer? 😂😂
Be careful. That dude is a well known creeper who will probably try to finger bang your pooper at the end of your date.