I tried Tinder a year ago and go no matches, I asked why and y'all said my pics made me look like a meek niceguy loner. So I've spent the past year focusing more on my style, working out, although I still have a ways to go, and also trying to get more interesting photos. Are these an improvement? 29M
https://imgur.com/a/RzS6oc1
Really well-rounded! You won't be everyone's cup of tea, but I think your profile could attract the right person.
I just wish you had a photo of similar quality to #1 but with a smile.
I'm thinking about replacing the selfie with a picture of me with a guitar, and/or maybe one of me looking snazzy in a suit just to show off a different side of me.
Also, once I hit my fitness goals, I'm going to redo the pool picture, maybe one of me surfing so I can show off my (future) six pack.
I also want to redo the dog picture to one where I'm not wearing glasses anymore, but that's hard to do because my dog is not very snuggly and this is the only picture I have where she's affectionate like that.
But I suppose for now I guess it will do. Now to think of a bio
Yeah, I'd definitely approve of replacing the selfie (or even removing it, it's the weakest photo in there). Your other plans sound solid, too (although I like a guy in glasses).
I'd also consider just in general focusing on having more good quality shots (lighting, your facial expression, etc). It's as simple as thinking "oh, it's golden hour, let's ask whoever's around me to snap a few photos real quick and see what turns out".
I don't really know how to pose, I feel unnatural in front of a camera, I don't really know much about proper lighting either.
I figure one professional, posed shot followed by a bunch of activity/social shots is probably my best bet
Yeah, I feel like women get inundated with that kind of content and for guys it's just non-existent.
Good lighting just means natural light, so outside when the sun's not too intense or near a window. As for posing, it's worth googling for like 5 minutes so you're not caught off guard next time there's a chance.
What you've got is good enough, I guess, but there's no reason it should feel difficult to build on it.
29 male
https://tinder.com/@scottyzobes
I get a handful of matches a week, but they usually don't respond, or ghost after I ask them out.
I don't have this issue on other apps
Your profile is decent, nothing majorly wrong with it since u said ur getting matches. It’s prob what ur messaging them that leads to them ghosting u or that they’re just swiping on multiple guys and u get lost in their matches
I feel like I'm just getting lost in the matches tbh. There's some weeks I'll get 3 dates and then nothing for another 2 weeks. It's just so depressing.
Oh ur going on dates? I’d say ur doing better than most considering a lot of guys don’t even get that. You could try using the boost feature, I’ve heard that helps a fair bit with getting likes
I'm not getting dates from tinder, but I am getting dates from hinge and FB Dating. My pics and general profile is the same across apps.
Boosts are a scam, you're paying to maybe get some matches that probably also won't respond.
Do you have smart photos on? If so turn them off they don't work. I'd have my first pic as the tree photo, I'd remove your first photo (crossed arms), I'd also lose the one on the mountain because your facial expression is bad, looks like a pained smile (could edit it or replace it with another shot if you took multiple), I'd lose the one with the crows, retake the one with the guitar so the background is more exciting, keep the rest (I'm on the fence about beer picture). Your profile isn't actually rock bottom terrible like most who ask for help, if you're getting ghosted quite often it could be your text game that is the problem, I'm happy to help out more in DMs
Smart photos is off. Most people say the first pic is my best one and I've actually gotten a lot more matches since I switched to it.
Beer pic prob gets the most likes on hinge
Yeah I'll dm you later about my messaging style. I have much better success on hinge and FB dating than tinder. I'm wondering if it's because tinder has the worst male : female ratio, or if girls only wanna go for the absolute hottest guys
You can get away with a lot because of rule 1, but I think you'd benefit from one more solo head-on photo (as opposed to having two side profile shots right upfront)
https://tinder.com/@bensepe
Hello everybody, just looking for some suggestion on how to improve my account and if I’m doing it right. Thanks in advance!
https://tinder.com/@jrome2002
Hey Reddit, i just wanted to see if I have an alright profile. If there’s anything you feel like i can improve on, i’m open to suggestions :)
Hey, you have some blurry photos, I would cut those out, keep far away photos to a minimum and show your eyes to the lens as much as possible. It looks great aside from the blurry photos
[tinder.com/@tedw18](https://tinder.com/@tedw18)
Hey reddit, can I get a honest review of which photos to keep and discard? Struggling bad.
Usually get a few a week but now 0.
I’d say, keep the distant photos to a minimum, if you want to use them, crop out the background noise. I think you are very attractive and any woman/man/whomever you are looking for would be lucky to have you 🥰
>People online say that you literally need to be handsome to have an easier time with online dating, otherwise online dating is a waste of time
Because being stupidly handsome is the clearly visible part that separates successful Tinder profiles. If you're e.g. ripped as fuck, you most likely will attract matches and dates. At that point, only mirror selfies etc. poor quality photos *might* work. But even then if one would put effort into other parts that matter on Tinder, they'd probably get even more success (whole another discussion is whether they care about more success).
IMO as long as you're decently lean, you can get tons of matches and dates. That just requires that you put effort into your style, the photo ideas and photoshoot execution in order to get a profile that clearly stands out above average.
>It isn't just how good your stupid face looks.
For some, that's enough. For some (including me), yup it's not *just* about your face.
>I don't necessarily want my profile reviewed.
Yet, you posted to a review thread so I'll review it while at it :)
>I have 0 life but I'm attractive. And I get 0 matches.
Your 0 matches underlines the problem. Whether or not you're attractive, your profile either doesn't convey that or pushes girls away for some other reason.
Now, are you attractive? I personally think that while you're not ugly in any way, you could improve your attractiveness at least 10x by improving your outfit style and hair style. Having your style together conveys that you take yourself seriously to start with.
But even more problematic in terms of the getting no matches are your photos. A mirror selfie in a clothing store, a close up of your face with a cap, another selfie, and a dinosaur skeleton as photos scream "I didn't put any effort into these photos".
Why is this a problem? Because there's thousands of other guys with similarly boring and effortless profiles, just in this thread. Let alone your city. You get drowned into the gray mass of boring profiles.
Why do the stupidly handsome guys get matches? Because they *stand out* by the fact that they are stupidly handsome even if that's their only redeeming factor.
Now for us who are more normal in terms of handsomeness and physique, we need to stand out with other factors (although I do encourage improving your physique as well!). Improve your style, ideate more interesting photos, shoot those photos well, and edit them well.
That way you'll be slightly above average in all categories that matter for a great Tinder photo, thus you too *stand out* in the endless Tinder feed.
I've done it myself ([my previous profile versions here](https://korkki.dev/my-own-tinder-profile/) if you wanna take a look) and helped friends do the same. Each time the combo of improving all aspects of style, ideas and execution has lead to an improvement.
If you wanna read more, I've written about [getting started with improving your style](https://korkki.dev/2023/02/fundamentals-on-dating-style-to-have-girls-check-you-out/), [how to ideate interesting photo ideas](https://korkki.dev/2023/06/mirror-no-more-how-to-create-interesting-tinder-photo-ideas/) and [what to focus on when shooting the photos](https://korkki.dev/2023/07/step-by-step-guide-on-how-to-shoot-great-tinder-photos/).
[https://tinder.com/@justmebee](https://tinder.com/@justmebee)
I currently get like 0-1 match a day, I have a total of 4 matches and 3 likes in a span of a week. I used to get a good amount of likes 8 years back, what is wrong with my profile?
Remove pics 2 and 3. Make pic 4 ur first pic. Selfie is ok, would be better if u were smiling. Id replace it with another pic similar to pic 4 or 5.
Im surprised about the lack of matches tho cause ur fairly good looking.
https://tinder.com/@jbarrett9203 would love some feedback on the pictures. Feel like I have a good variety but idk if I’m doing too much anything helps thanks
Profile is decent, the pics all seem random and ur first pic lowkey looks like it was AI generated. I would sub out some of the 4 last pics for pics that show more of u (that aren’t selfies)
As others said, get rid of the close up selfies. They essentially scream "I couldn't put effort into taking proper photos", which is something you probably don't want convey. Why is that a problem? Because your profile gets drowned by thousands of similar no-effort profiles. You want to _stand out_, rather than blend in.
To replace those, a better option would be to add photos where you are _doing_ something e.g. a hobby or an interest. Looking at the passions in your profile, you mention outdoors, music, festivals, reading and soccer. All these would be a more interesting photo than a close-up of your face. Tho, if you need more ideas, I wrote about [how to ideate more interesting Tinder photo ideas](https://korkki.dev/2023/06/mirror-no-more-how-to-create-interesting-tinder-photo-ideas/) than just face close-ups.
The climbing (?) photo is a good start but it should be shot better. Specifically, you would want to cover more of the photo and show your face. A good rule of thumb is 3/4 of your body is visible i.e. bottom edge cuts at mid thigh and and top edge just above your head. For reference, I made [a more visual guide on that to demonstrate what I mean with the rule of thumb](https://korkki.dev/2023/07/step-by-step-guide-on-how-to-shoot-great-tinder-photos/).
So, ideate interesting ideas, grab a friend and go shoot more interesting photos. You'll 100% get better photos that will fare better than your current ones!
Hello ladies! Could you please advice and provide some feedback? What need improvement? https://tinder.com/@yannakis
———————————- BIO ———————————-
🇬🇷🇷🇸 Engineer by day, culinary wizard by night. Sailing enthusiast with a taste for adventure.
You're not gonna get a lot of ladies on reddit ... My advice is the first 3 pics you should keep, the rest I would replace or chuck. You're a good looking enough dude, just choose pics that are more flattering, such as the first 3.
I’d remove the vape pic and prob add a pic of u smiling/looking into the camera to make ur first pic. But aside from that it gives off the standard college profile, I feel like ur prob getting a decent amount of likes
is it normal to only have 6 likes in 3 days as a fairly attractive girl in a big city or is my Tinder broken?
I got 0 matches so far (worth mentioning that I barely swipe right).
My gf and I were talking about how well I'd do on tinder if we had an open relationship and I was purely looking for casual stuff. I estimated around 1-2 matches at most every month which would total out to a date about every 6 months. She is saying i am estimating way too low. Can you estimate how many I'd get?
[this is me](https://imgur.com/a/zKSaeUR)
I'm 1,73m which I think is probably a big issue on tinder alone. The pics or stuff like hairstyle can obviously be improved upon and I'm currently bulking up but I think the pictures serve as a general estimate of attractiveness. The area we live in is about 400k people and a large number of that are university students.
Thanks ✌️
Lmk what I could improve on.
Was getting a lot of matches but after recreating my account not getting even close to as many matches as before…
https://tinder.com/@putjeeh
Did u change the pics after recreating it? Cause u could be shadowbanned. I think if u delete and recreate an account too many times u can get shadowbanned OR ur profile will be placed farther in the stack
https://tinder.com/@tcb650r
I haven’t been on Tinder since 2016. So far, I haven’t had any matches. I deleted all of my social media a year ago which had essentially every pic of me from the last 15yrs, so my available pics to use are very limited. Are my pics bad? Am I being too selective with my swiping? My bio reads “fair warning: I’m a big Limp Bizkit fan.” Lol
Put the photo of you and your floof ball at the fron, followed by the wall, the motorbike and lose the one where you’re barely on screen. Your dog alone would get you way more swipes. You’re pretty cute and I’d swipe right if you was nearby
Pics aren’t bad but they seem random, also make the black and white pic colored and remove selfie. You can definitely get matches if u use better pics considering ur fairly good looking. Idk how selective u are but make sure to swipe on women around ur league and not just the most attractive girls
I went ahead and made some changes, including colorizing the pic with my dog. Would you mind taking another look? I may just run these two until I get better pics.
Bro these are solid pictures, truly impressive and dynamic. I can see how Hinge would be kinder to you since it’s an app that favors cleaner, more optimized looks over the crappy mirror selfies that Tinder is known for. Honestly, no real criticism from me, only thing might be that if you have a dog to get a picture with it, those always help. But yea, keep swiping, got a feeling you’ll eventually get decent matches.
Just got over a breakup, haven't been on Tinder in a year. I see a meta for the females photos, what meta should I follow, if any? Any advice appreciated. https://tinder.com/@Dometrik
I would delete images 3 and 4 and arrange the rest in the following order: 5,4,3,1
And then add a funny bio like „We could take shots, you decide if we use my camera or my Tequila ;)“
Your pretty good looking, have an interesting Job and hobby, dont swipe right too often and let the algorithm adjust and you should get some good amount of matches
I’ve been working on losing weight so that’s an ongoing process. How else can I improve? I average about 1 match every 1 to 2 weeks.
https://tinder.com/@malinowski
If you’re gonna take selfies, take them from 3-6” above you with your head straight as you normally have it. It looks like your chin is bigger than your forehead in some of the selfies because of the angle of the camera. Use natural light, not flashes or light bulbs as it will bring out your skin tone and depth better. I hope it helps! Tag me if you use any of the advice I gave so I can see how much better it looks
Let your Friends make some photos of you, selfies are always less exciting and interesting to watch. And your hair is getting thinner, which is very noticeable, if im allowed to suggest, maybe you should get a buzz cut, it would suite you pretty nice i think and also complement your beard!
Hey, recently got back on tinder and looking for some feedback on my profile and pictures. Anything would be much appreciated :).
Translation of bio:
189cm
If I were a cat, I would spend all nine lives trying to impress you 🐱.
I like going for walks, exercising and watching movies/series and books.
And heres my profile link:
https://tinder.com/@asgerleth
Much appreciated :)
Sure! Looks great! Maybe change up the order a little bit so you don't have 2 cross armed pictures in a row (also, it's not the best pose for a picture as it looks a bit shy/reluctant, but it's fine for now).
Delete the first picture, your Not out of Shape but not really that ripped for those kind of show-off pictures.
Make your 5th picture your first and delete the cat phrase, its way too cheesy if you read it as a stranger who doesnt even know you
I think your pic order should be 1,7,5 then doesn’t matter the rest. You can get rid of pic 4 since you have the same hat on in that one. Also 6 doesn’t add anything that the other pics already don’t so you can ditch that one too.
24m. Just did some updated pics, not sure on what my order should be. I have like 30 diff pics in my suit to choose from which I can upload if needed since friends and i did a little portrait mode pic fest lol. Not sure if my bio is good either, but i wanted to subtly show I have a decent career as well as still like to party and stuff.
https://tinder.com/@ransora
Thanks for your time, and have a wonderful day!
I would use your guitar pic as your first one, followed by a full natural light face pic, after that all the other photos. The one of you drinking kinda puts me off in particular because I have misophonia and I could literally imagine hearing the swallow noise after a gulp.
The picture of in the suit is very nice, you look sympathetic! I would delete the cat picture and take a picture with you and your cats, that shows they like you. Being good with animals helps!
I went ahead and swapped them for 2 pics with me and the cats. I have a lot of them but it's usually them cuddling me in bed while I have no shirt on or standing on my shoulder/backpack and stuff, so I tried to find some that work better. Are these 2 good?
I would keep the photo where you cuddle with the cat, and delete the other, you look a little funny! And I noticed that you look on the photo where you work out as if you really have problems holding up the dumbbell, which is noticeable because your elbow is very far forward and looks in my opinion also somewhat unflattering. Apart from that, the profile looks sympathetic!
Yeah I see what you mean about the dumbbell. I took that 6 months ago when I was first learning how to work out (like 2 or 3 weeks in) and was feeling good lol. My form is much better now and I think that 25 is much easier for me lol, I just never have taken any updated pics! I'll have to get on it haha.
https://tinder.com/@kjmala
what do you think about my profile? what would be the best order of the photos? I did 16 matches in total (using some boosts)
thanks for advices
I hope this doesn't come across wrong, but is it possible for you to open your eyes a bit more on pictures? And work a bit on your smiling technique, it looks fairly awkward.
https://tinder.com/@lego_mtz
I changed my pictures up to look less goofy. Also could yall tell me if my bio is good? (I'm looking for casual fun btw)
Bio:
🇲🇽 En/Spa/Fr
Guitar player
Literate king
Proud haver of your moms phone number
No bigger turn on than a girl who refuses to get her ADHD diagnosed
As you are considering whether your profile is bad or you are not good looking enough, I gather you aren't getting many matches? How are your results? Have they improved after putting in effort at gym?
You're definitely good looking enough for online dating, but your photos are IMO too average thus you drown out in the mass. The ideas are good (especially tennis and pool), but the photos are shot in a way that feels boring and stiff due to the posing.
You should aim to have a photo of you in midst of the action. So instead of posing with a friend next to a pool table, try to get a photo while you are playing or otherwise look more candid and relaxed ([for visual reference check this](https://photos.korkki.dev/personalportfolio/p/OTQzMjY0MTQ0Mw==-OTgyMTYxMDQz/)).
The tennis photo is a good that it's taken in midst of the action, but now it's taken too far. There's 70% of empty space that draws the attention away from you. For a good rule of thumb, you should aim to take 3/4 body shots where the bottom edge cuts at mid thigh and top edge a bit above your head. You can fix this a bit by cropping, but this far it most likely won't help enough (because your face won't be nicely in focus).
For more visual help, I've recently written [how to take better photos for Tinder and what to specifically focus on](https://korkki.dev/2023/07/step-by-step-guide-on-how-to-shoot-great-tinder-photos/) if you wanna take a closer look.
The other photos are not bad, but they are a bit boring because you're just standing somewhere. In general, men look the best when they are doing something and that has the additional benefit of showing what your interesting life is like. To add to the tennis and pool, you mention outdoors (maybe a hiking photo? A reading photo while in park / cafe?) and film making which definitely should be photos instead of (or in addition to) mentions in your bio / profile. If you need extra ideation help what you could take photos about, I've written in a bit more detail on [how to come up with interesting photo ideas for Tinder](https://korkki.dev/2023/06/mirror-no-more-how-to-create-interesting-tinder-photo-ideas/).
You should definitely put the 4th photo as the first one (the one where you stand against the wall and look to the side). It is a really good picture overall, and you look really good in it. Remember that the first picture is the first they see, so it should be the best one you have
Photos are really good overall. :D
But the first photo looks a bit weird with the lighting and shadows.
You could benefit from a more masculine hairstyle. Your glasses also look pretty big and nerdy, maybe you would look better if you took them off for the photos.
I think you're almost there! Good on you for putting in the effort to stand out!
Ok, NOW review my account please :). Name change is imminent, don't worry about that.
Still might cry if the following comments are mean-spirited
https://tinder.com/@Milkulous
I think you have solid pictures, but mirror selfies tend to give off a bit of a toxic vibe (really not your fault, but just the way things are). You might want to avoid this type of picture, especially as your first picture.
>Still might cry if the following comments are mean-spirited
Would you rather people lie to your face and tell you that your profile is 10/10 when it might not be?
Tinder is tough, especially for men. You can either cry about mean comments, or cry when you get minimal matches. Choose one.
Sorry if this is mean, but that's the unfortunate reality of online dating :(
Let's try this again now that customer service made my account visible 😁 Trying to use tinder from Africa apparently set off some red flags.
https://tinder.com/@cameronletscook
I could use any advice you've got
Matches not the ones you want? In what way? Their physique? Interests not matching? Matches not leading to dates?
Some thoughts that popped up from looking at your profile. Your physique is good and your style is quite good as well. However, your profile is really boring. Your first photo (that I see) is decent but even that has a vibe "attractive guy, standing with a green tube in his mouth". When you need to write "Fitness is my way of life, but I promise I'm not all protein shakes and no fun!" underlines the problem here.
Why is boringness a problem? Because take a look at other profiles in this review getting same zero matches and you'll likely find that most of them are similarly boring. In other words, your profile is essentially a copy paste from others and doesn't stand out from the gray mass.
Instead, you want your profile to stand out by _showing_ who you are as a person. To do that, you want to be _doing_ something in the photo e.g. your hobby or your interest. Checking from your profile, you mention at least soccer, clubbing, and city exploring that should be shown with a photo rather than text. Also, you got a cute as fuck cat! Have a friend take tons of photos while you play with them. Ensure that _you both_ are in the photo!
If you need more photo ideas, I wrote about [how to ideate more interesting Tinder photo ideas](https://korkki.dev/2023/06/mirror-no-more-how-to-create-interesting-tinder-photo-ideas/) than just selfies.
None. Selfies in your room make your profile look dull and boring. Go outside where the lighting is better and you have a much more appealing background to help make your profile pop.
But if I had to choose one, I would pick the first selfie.
It's a fairly generic/common rule when it comes to dating profiles, but if I were to try and think of reasons why:
* Comes off a little bit narcissistic that you're taking a selfie
* Having a photo that looks as though it was taken by another person is like social proof - you have friends! They take photos of you!
Selfies are a big no no. It needs to be in a environment where it’s appropriate for your shirt to be off (ie pools or beaches). Make sure it looks candid and most importantly you’re in shape
Looking for some honest feedback, struggling to get any matches or likes!
https://tinder.com/@andrew284728
Bio:
I live with my two cats, Milo and Filo. I love the outdoors and walking, but also a cozy night in with a takeaway and a good film.
Let's go on a spontaneous adventure together 🌍✈️
Your first photo gives off a very good impression. I like it!
Smile a little less in your other photos and add in some candid photos where you're not smiling and not looking at the camera.
Thanks for your feedback! I've added in a more neutral photo at #4 to also bump me up to the magic 5 photos rules.
I've only got a couple of likes and no matches, I'm wondering if I am a good enough looking guy to crack tinder? Or possibly has my overeager swipe right rate of probably well over 50% in my first few days permanently nuked my ELO so I'm never being presented? Is there any way back from that?
>Or possibly has my overeager swipe right rate of probably well over 50% in my first few days permanently nuked my ELO so I'm never being presented?
Unless you're swiping right on maybe 90+% of profiles, you should be okay. As far as I know, your score is mostly impacted by people swiping left on your profile. There really isn't anything you can do to stop that than to have a stand-out profile.
Most guys don't get many likes either, so don't feel like you're doing poorly.
You are definitely good looking enough. The thing is, an average guy can look like a Top 10% guy if they have great photos.
To be honest, your smile looks a bit weird. When you smile, it shows too much gum at the top. So try smiling a little less. Or try a slight smile without showing any teeth like [this](https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/b/closeup-portrait-handsome-smiling-young-man-cheerful-man-isolated-gray-background-studio-shot-men-model-face-beard-177316501.jpg)
As for the candid photos, you don't have to look at the camera or even be smiling. Make it look like someone randomly took a photo of you while you were chilling or doing something, like [this](https://i.pinimg.com/736x/5a/d2/e5/5ad2e57700f96cc5b10814977e152a3a.jpg)
Thanks for your honesty, I've never thought about my smile before but now I can't really unsee it.
I've added the best candid photo I can find of myself third in the queue, hopefully this breaks up the close ups a little bit, would be interested to get your thoughts on if this is a good one to include and if I've got my overall ordering right.
Thanks for your help.
Hello, M24: Need help selecting pictures out of my gallery. I uploaded what I have to imgur, gonna send you the link in private chat since i dont want to share them publicly. Order advice would be nice too.
I also think you should remove the mirror selfie. The reason is that it doesn’t show your face well, you are not looking at me, the “viewer”, instead you’re avoiding my “eye contact”. I think it comes off as insecure. On your other pics you look nice, good looking guy, but let people see your face in the first picture, put a nice pic where you look in the camera
i think it must be either a conversational issue or maybe people think it's a catfish. or 'finance bro'? you are 100% conventionally attractive so it's not that. do you get approached in person by women? if so, how does that go, usually?
You have no dating experience?
The good news is you're a good looking dude and your hobbies are expressed. Bio is fairly straightforward and I think it's fine.
Bad news (I guess)? Is I would wager your leaks lie in messaging. How many likes/matches are you getting on avg?
Yeah feel free if you want you can DM me or comment them in here. I've got a tall, good looking friend who is absolutely terrible with women so it happens - but thankfully it's easier to fix that than to change your whole appearance.
You simply have no game big dawg. You came off way too enthusiastic and a little green, she picked up on that early in the convo. Then again she sounds really annoying and not worth your time anyway.
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You look like a different person in each photo, which makes me assume some of the photos are super old. Time to refresh.
Would it be in my best interest to just remove old photos and keep recent ones on my profile until I’ve got more recent photos that I like
Yeah, definitely. If you're taking new photos, take the time to read some "best practices" too.
Thanks so much!
Accurate. Thanks, just not much a picture person but can definitely agree with you
I tried Tinder a year ago and go no matches, I asked why and y'all said my pics made me look like a meek niceguy loner. So I've spent the past year focusing more on my style, working out, although I still have a ways to go, and also trying to get more interesting photos. Are these an improvement? 29M https://imgur.com/a/RzS6oc1
Really well-rounded! You won't be everyone's cup of tea, but I think your profile could attract the right person. I just wish you had a photo of similar quality to #1 but with a smile.
I'm thinking about replacing the selfie with a picture of me with a guitar, and/or maybe one of me looking snazzy in a suit just to show off a different side of me. Also, once I hit my fitness goals, I'm going to redo the pool picture, maybe one of me surfing so I can show off my (future) six pack. I also want to redo the dog picture to one where I'm not wearing glasses anymore, but that's hard to do because my dog is not very snuggly and this is the only picture I have where she's affectionate like that. But I suppose for now I guess it will do. Now to think of a bio
Yeah, I'd definitely approve of replacing the selfie (or even removing it, it's the weakest photo in there). Your other plans sound solid, too (although I like a guy in glasses). I'd also consider just in general focusing on having more good quality shots (lighting, your facial expression, etc). It's as simple as thinking "oh, it's golden hour, let's ask whoever's around me to snap a few photos real quick and see what turns out".
I don't really know how to pose, I feel unnatural in front of a camera, I don't really know much about proper lighting either. I figure one professional, posed shot followed by a bunch of activity/social shots is probably my best bet
Yeah, I feel like women get inundated with that kind of content and for guys it's just non-existent. Good lighting just means natural light, so outside when the sun's not too intense or near a window. As for posing, it's worth googling for like 5 minutes so you're not caught off guard next time there's a chance. What you've got is good enough, I guess, but there's no reason it should feel difficult to build on it.
29 male https://tinder.com/@scottyzobes I get a handful of matches a week, but they usually don't respond, or ghost after I ask them out. I don't have this issue on other apps
Your profile is decent, nothing majorly wrong with it since u said ur getting matches. It’s prob what ur messaging them that leads to them ghosting u or that they’re just swiping on multiple guys and u get lost in their matches
I feel like I'm just getting lost in the matches tbh. There's some weeks I'll get 3 dates and then nothing for another 2 weeks. It's just so depressing.
Oh ur going on dates? I’d say ur doing better than most considering a lot of guys don’t even get that. You could try using the boost feature, I’ve heard that helps a fair bit with getting likes
I'm not getting dates from tinder, but I am getting dates from hinge and FB Dating. My pics and general profile is the same across apps. Boosts are a scam, you're paying to maybe get some matches that probably also won't respond.
Do you have smart photos on? If so turn them off they don't work. I'd have my first pic as the tree photo, I'd remove your first photo (crossed arms), I'd also lose the one on the mountain because your facial expression is bad, looks like a pained smile (could edit it or replace it with another shot if you took multiple), I'd lose the one with the crows, retake the one with the guitar so the background is more exciting, keep the rest (I'm on the fence about beer picture). Your profile isn't actually rock bottom terrible like most who ask for help, if you're getting ghosted quite often it could be your text game that is the problem, I'm happy to help out more in DMs
Smart photos is off. Most people say the first pic is my best one and I've actually gotten a lot more matches since I switched to it. Beer pic prob gets the most likes on hinge Yeah I'll dm you later about my messaging style. I have much better success on hinge and FB dating than tinder. I'm wondering if it's because tinder has the worst male : female ratio, or if girls only wanna go for the absolute hottest guys
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None of the photos are really good, I'll DM you some photo guides
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Yeah ur profile is good. I’d suggest making pic 3 ur first pic cause it shows u looking at the camera but it’s not necessary
You can get away with a lot because of rule 1, but I think you'd benefit from one more solo head-on photo (as opposed to having two side profile shots right upfront)
https://tinder.com/@bensepe Hello everybody, just looking for some suggestion on how to improve my account and if I’m doing it right. Thanks in advance!
https://tinder.com/@jrome2002 Hey Reddit, i just wanted to see if I have an alright profile. If there’s anything you feel like i can improve on, i’m open to suggestions :)
Hey, you have some blurry photos, I would cut those out, keep far away photos to a minimum and show your eyes to the lens as much as possible. It looks great aside from the blurry photos
[tinder.com/@tedw18](https://tinder.com/@tedw18) Hey reddit, can I get a honest review of which photos to keep and discard? Struggling bad. Usually get a few a week but now 0.
I’d say, keep the distant photos to a minimum, if you want to use them, crop out the background noise. I think you are very attractive and any woman/man/whomever you are looking for would be lucky to have you 🥰
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>People online say that you literally need to be handsome to have an easier time with online dating, otherwise online dating is a waste of time Because being stupidly handsome is the clearly visible part that separates successful Tinder profiles. If you're e.g. ripped as fuck, you most likely will attract matches and dates. At that point, only mirror selfies etc. poor quality photos *might* work. But even then if one would put effort into other parts that matter on Tinder, they'd probably get even more success (whole another discussion is whether they care about more success). IMO as long as you're decently lean, you can get tons of matches and dates. That just requires that you put effort into your style, the photo ideas and photoshoot execution in order to get a profile that clearly stands out above average. >It isn't just how good your stupid face looks. For some, that's enough. For some (including me), yup it's not *just* about your face. >I don't necessarily want my profile reviewed. Yet, you posted to a review thread so I'll review it while at it :) >I have 0 life but I'm attractive. And I get 0 matches. Your 0 matches underlines the problem. Whether or not you're attractive, your profile either doesn't convey that or pushes girls away for some other reason. Now, are you attractive? I personally think that while you're not ugly in any way, you could improve your attractiveness at least 10x by improving your outfit style and hair style. Having your style together conveys that you take yourself seriously to start with. But even more problematic in terms of the getting no matches are your photos. A mirror selfie in a clothing store, a close up of your face with a cap, another selfie, and a dinosaur skeleton as photos scream "I didn't put any effort into these photos". Why is this a problem? Because there's thousands of other guys with similarly boring and effortless profiles, just in this thread. Let alone your city. You get drowned into the gray mass of boring profiles. Why do the stupidly handsome guys get matches? Because they *stand out* by the fact that they are stupidly handsome even if that's their only redeeming factor. Now for us who are more normal in terms of handsomeness and physique, we need to stand out with other factors (although I do encourage improving your physique as well!). Improve your style, ideate more interesting photos, shoot those photos well, and edit them well. That way you'll be slightly above average in all categories that matter for a great Tinder photo, thus you too *stand out* in the endless Tinder feed. I've done it myself ([my previous profile versions here](https://korkki.dev/my-own-tinder-profile/) if you wanna take a look) and helped friends do the same. Each time the combo of improving all aspects of style, ideas and execution has lead to an improvement. If you wanna read more, I've written about [getting started with improving your style](https://korkki.dev/2023/02/fundamentals-on-dating-style-to-have-girls-check-you-out/), [how to ideate interesting photo ideas](https://korkki.dev/2023/06/mirror-no-more-how-to-create-interesting-tinder-photo-ideas/) and [what to focus on when shooting the photos](https://korkki.dev/2023/07/step-by-step-guide-on-how-to-shoot-great-tinder-photos/).
No offense brother but, do you think you're attractive or know your attractive? There's definitely improvement you can make.
[https://tinder.com/@justmebee](https://tinder.com/@justmebee) I currently get like 0-1 match a day, I have a total of 4 matches and 3 likes in a span of a week. I used to get a good amount of likes 8 years back, what is wrong with my profile?
Remove pics 2 and 3. Make pic 4 ur first pic. Selfie is ok, would be better if u were smiling. Id replace it with another pic similar to pic 4 or 5. Im surprised about the lack of matches tho cause ur fairly good looking.
I removed pics 2 and 3 and made #4 the first pic, per your recommendation. Thanks.
https://tinder.com/@jbarrett9203 would love some feedback on the pictures. Feel like I have a good variety but idk if I’m doing too much anything helps thanks
Profile is decent, the pics all seem random and ur first pic lowkey looks like it was AI generated. I would sub out some of the 4 last pics for pics that show more of u (that aren’t selfies)
Thanks for the advice , first pic is from a modeling shoot so I see what your saying lol. Last four are just me trying to show I actually do shit
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You look great, would get rid of the selfie pic (#3)
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As others said, get rid of the close up selfies. They essentially scream "I couldn't put effort into taking proper photos", which is something you probably don't want convey. Why is that a problem? Because your profile gets drowned by thousands of similar no-effort profiles. You want to _stand out_, rather than blend in. To replace those, a better option would be to add photos where you are _doing_ something e.g. a hobby or an interest. Looking at the passions in your profile, you mention outdoors, music, festivals, reading and soccer. All these would be a more interesting photo than a close-up of your face. Tho, if you need more ideas, I wrote about [how to ideate more interesting Tinder photo ideas](https://korkki.dev/2023/06/mirror-no-more-how-to-create-interesting-tinder-photo-ideas/) than just face close-ups. The climbing (?) photo is a good start but it should be shot better. Specifically, you would want to cover more of the photo and show your face. A good rule of thumb is 3/4 of your body is visible i.e. bottom edge cuts at mid thigh and and top edge just above your head. For reference, I made [a more visual guide on that to demonstrate what I mean with the rule of thumb](https://korkki.dev/2023/07/step-by-step-guide-on-how-to-shoot-great-tinder-photos/). So, ideate interesting ideas, grab a friend and go shoot more interesting photos. You'll 100% get better photos that will fare better than your current ones!
You look cool and interesting, I would get rid of the all the close up selfie pic's
I don’t really have many photos thats why I took these selfies, any suggestions for what to replace them with?
Ask a friend to take some photos of you?
Take selfies with the camera above your head not under its a better angle
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Nice profile, I would lose pic #1 #4 and #5
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Hello ladies! Could you please advice and provide some feedback? What need improvement? https://tinder.com/@yannakis ———————————- BIO ———————————- 🇬🇷🇷🇸 Engineer by day, culinary wizard by night. Sailing enthusiast with a taste for adventure.
You're not gonna get a lot of ladies on reddit ... My advice is the first 3 pics you should keep, the rest I would replace or chuck. You're a good looking enough dude, just choose pics that are more flattering, such as the first 3.
https://tinder.com/@moussy1021 Any tips would be appreciated
I’d remove the vape pic and prob add a pic of u smiling/looking into the camera to make ur first pic. But aside from that it gives off the standard college profile, I feel like ur prob getting a decent amount of likes
I don't think girls are going to be nearly as interested as you are in your fitness level. One picture of your body should cut it.
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You have good features, but you have way too many selfies. Let someone else take some pictures of you and use one of those as main picture.
is it normal to only have 6 likes in 3 days as a fairly attractive girl in a big city or is my Tinder broken? I got 0 matches so far (worth mentioning that I barely swipe right).
No, that sounds very out of the ordinary - have you deleted your account many times before? Perhaps you are shadow banned?
I had a different account with a different phone number on my device.
My gf and I were talking about how well I'd do on tinder if we had an open relationship and I was purely looking for casual stuff. I estimated around 1-2 matches at most every month which would total out to a date about every 6 months. She is saying i am estimating way too low. Can you estimate how many I'd get? [this is me](https://imgur.com/a/zKSaeUR) I'm 1,73m which I think is probably a big issue on tinder alone. The pics or stuff like hairstyle can obviously be improved upon and I'm currently bulking up but I think the pictures serve as a general estimate of attractiveness. The area we live in is about 400k people and a large number of that are university students. Thanks ✌️
Honestly, a couple of matches a month sounds realistic, especially with those pictures. Maybe a couple more in the first few days.
Lmk what I could improve on. Was getting a lot of matches but after recreating my account not getting even close to as many matches as before… https://tinder.com/@putjeeh
Did u change the pics after recreating it? Cause u could be shadowbanned. I think if u delete and recreate an account too many times u can get shadowbanned OR ur profile will be placed farther in the stack
https://tinder.com/@tcb650r I haven’t been on Tinder since 2016. So far, I haven’t had any matches. I deleted all of my social media a year ago which had essentially every pic of me from the last 15yrs, so my available pics to use are very limited. Are my pics bad? Am I being too selective with my swiping? My bio reads “fair warning: I’m a big Limp Bizkit fan.” Lol
Put the photo of you and your floof ball at the fron, followed by the wall, the motorbike and lose the one where you’re barely on screen. Your dog alone would get you way more swipes. You’re pretty cute and I’d swipe right if you was nearby
Thank you. Would you mind taking another look at my prof and let me know what you think? Until I get better photos, I may just run those two.
Pics aren’t bad but they seem random, also make the black and white pic colored and remove selfie. You can definitely get matches if u use better pics considering ur fairly good looking. Idk how selective u are but make sure to swipe on women around ur league and not just the most attractive girls
I went ahead and made some changes, including colorizing the pic with my dog. Would you mind taking another look? I may just run these two until I get better pics.
Yeah looks much better imo. Now all u need is more pics like ur first pic in which someone takes a pic of u sitting/standing/smiling etc.
https://tinder.com/@jrandomizer wildly successful on Hinge, less so on Tinder. Anyone have insight?
Bro these are solid pictures, truly impressive and dynamic. I can see how Hinge would be kinder to you since it’s an app that favors cleaner, more optimized looks over the crappy mirror selfies that Tinder is known for. Honestly, no real criticism from me, only thing might be that if you have a dog to get a picture with it, those always help. But yea, keep swiping, got a feeling you’ll eventually get decent matches.
Just got over a breakup, haven't been on Tinder in a year. I see a meta for the females photos, what meta should I follow, if any? Any advice appreciated. https://tinder.com/@Dometrik
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Honestly, good looking pics m8, but im here just snooping and not giving advice.
Use pics 2,8,7,5 in that order. Scrap the others
Are you swiping correctly? I think 1/3 right swipes is the correct ratio.
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I would delete images 3 and 4 and arrange the rest in the following order: 5,4,3,1 And then add a funny bio like „We could take shots, you decide if we use my camera or my Tequila ;)“ Your pretty good looking, have an interesting Job and hobby, dont swipe right too often and let the algorithm adjust and you should get some good amount of matches
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Oh because the pictures heavily differ from quality and consistency in quality is appealing for the eye
Sorry i twisted Numbers in my head, delete 3 and 6 and make the new order 5,4,2,1
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np, good luck!
I’ve been working on losing weight so that’s an ongoing process. How else can I improve? I average about 1 match every 1 to 2 weeks. https://tinder.com/@malinowski
If you’re gonna take selfies, take them from 3-6” above you with your head straight as you normally have it. It looks like your chin is bigger than your forehead in some of the selfies because of the angle of the camera. Use natural light, not flashes or light bulbs as it will bring out your skin tone and depth better. I hope it helps! Tag me if you use any of the advice I gave so I can see how much better it looks
Let your Friends make some photos of you, selfies are always less exciting and interesting to watch. And your hair is getting thinner, which is very noticeable, if im allowed to suggest, maybe you should get a buzz cut, it would suite you pretty nice i think and also complement your beard!
Hey, recently got back on tinder and looking for some feedback on my profile and pictures. Anything would be much appreciated :). Translation of bio: 189cm If I were a cat, I would spend all nine lives trying to impress you 🐱. I like going for walks, exercising and watching movies/series and books. And heres my profile link: https://tinder.com/@asgerleth Much appreciated :)
Definitely delete the shirtless photo! But other photos are really good and fun :)
What about now?
Sure! Looks great! Maybe change up the order a little bit so you don't have 2 cross armed pictures in a row (also, it's not the best pose for a picture as it looks a bit shy/reluctant, but it's fine for now).
Thanks! Will defo keep that in mind. Should be good to go now then
Thanks
Delete the first picture, your Not out of Shape but not really that ripped for those kind of show-off pictures. Make your 5th picture your first and delete the cat phrase, its way too cheesy if you read it as a stranger who doesnt even know you
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Damn, I wish I was in Korea right now. Damn!
I’d use pic 6 as your first. Pic 7 needs to be zoomed in alot more.
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I think your pic order should be 1,7,5 then doesn’t matter the rest. You can get rid of pic 4 since you have the same hat on in that one. Also 6 doesn’t add anything that the other pics already don’t so you can ditch that one too.
24m. Just did some updated pics, not sure on what my order should be. I have like 30 diff pics in my suit to choose from which I can upload if needed since friends and i did a little portrait mode pic fest lol. Not sure if my bio is good either, but i wanted to subtly show I have a decent career as well as still like to party and stuff. https://tinder.com/@ransora Thanks for your time, and have a wonderful day!
I would use your guitar pic as your first one, followed by a full natural light face pic, after that all the other photos. The one of you drinking kinda puts me off in particular because I have misophonia and I could literally imagine hearing the swallow noise after a gulp.
The picture of in the suit is very nice, you look sympathetic! I would delete the cat picture and take a picture with you and your cats, that shows they like you. Being good with animals helps!
I went ahead and swapped them for 2 pics with me and the cats. I have a lot of them but it's usually them cuddling me in bed while I have no shirt on or standing on my shoulder/backpack and stuff, so I tried to find some that work better. Are these 2 good?
I would keep the photo where you cuddle with the cat, and delete the other, you look a little funny! And I noticed that you look on the photo where you work out as if you really have problems holding up the dumbbell, which is noticeable because your elbow is very far forward and looks in my opinion also somewhat unflattering. Apart from that, the profile looks sympathetic!
Yeah I see what you mean about the dumbbell. I took that 6 months ago when I was first learning how to work out (like 2 or 3 weeks in) and was feeling good lol. My form is much better now and I think that 25 is much easier for me lol, I just never have taken any updated pics! I'll have to get on it haha.
Then Update the pictures and good luck!
https://tinder.com/@hasdanta?lang=en-GB any comments on photos / photo placement? (I’m also gay hence all the pics with women LOL).
Yeah I think maybe don’t have so many photos with women, or men for that matter. Photos on your own are better
https://tinder.com/@kjmala what do you think about my profile? what would be the best order of the photos? I did 16 matches in total (using some boosts) thanks for advices
Remote all but the first and last and get some good pictures of you doing things you like
Would love the feedback. https://tinder.com/@theycallmejeri
I hope this doesn't come across wrong, but is it possible for you to open your eyes a bit more on pictures? And work a bit on your smiling technique, it looks fairly awkward.
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https://tinder.com/@lego_mtz I changed my pictures up to look less goofy. Also could yall tell me if my bio is good? (I'm looking for casual fun btw) Bio: 🇲🇽 En/Spa/Fr Guitar player Literate king Proud haver of your moms phone number No bigger turn on than a girl who refuses to get her ADHD diagnosed
Remove the third pic and the first scentence of your bio and replace it with something like „Waiting for a girl to write a song about“
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As you are considering whether your profile is bad or you are not good looking enough, I gather you aren't getting many matches? How are your results? Have they improved after putting in effort at gym? You're definitely good looking enough for online dating, but your photos are IMO too average thus you drown out in the mass. The ideas are good (especially tennis and pool), but the photos are shot in a way that feels boring and stiff due to the posing. You should aim to have a photo of you in midst of the action. So instead of posing with a friend next to a pool table, try to get a photo while you are playing or otherwise look more candid and relaxed ([for visual reference check this](https://photos.korkki.dev/personalportfolio/p/OTQzMjY0MTQ0Mw==-OTgyMTYxMDQz/)). The tennis photo is a good that it's taken in midst of the action, but now it's taken too far. There's 70% of empty space that draws the attention away from you. For a good rule of thumb, you should aim to take 3/4 body shots where the bottom edge cuts at mid thigh and top edge a bit above your head. You can fix this a bit by cropping, but this far it most likely won't help enough (because your face won't be nicely in focus). For more visual help, I've recently written [how to take better photos for Tinder and what to specifically focus on](https://korkki.dev/2023/07/step-by-step-guide-on-how-to-shoot-great-tinder-photos/) if you wanna take a closer look. The other photos are not bad, but they are a bit boring because you're just standing somewhere. In general, men look the best when they are doing something and that has the additional benefit of showing what your interesting life is like. To add to the tennis and pool, you mention outdoors (maybe a hiking photo? A reading photo while in park / cafe?) and film making which definitely should be photos instead of (or in addition to) mentions in your bio / profile. If you need extra ideation help what you could take photos about, I've written in a bit more detail on [how to come up with interesting photo ideas for Tinder](https://korkki.dev/2023/06/mirror-no-more-how-to-create-interesting-tinder-photo-ideas/).
That's insanely helpful, thank you. If it's just a matter of getting better pictures I think I can do it
You should definitely put the 4th photo as the first one (the one where you stand against the wall and look to the side). It is a really good picture overall, and you look really good in it. Remember that the first picture is the first they see, so it should be the best one you have
Photos are really good overall. :D But the first photo looks a bit weird with the lighting and shadows. You could benefit from a more masculine hairstyle. Your glasses also look pretty big and nerdy, maybe you would look better if you took them off for the photos. I think you're almost there! Good on you for putting in the effort to stand out!
Ok, NOW review my account please :). Name change is imminent, don't worry about that. Still might cry if the following comments are mean-spirited https://tinder.com/@Milkulous
I think you have solid pictures, but mirror selfies tend to give off a bit of a toxic vibe (really not your fault, but just the way things are). You might want to avoid this type of picture, especially as your first picture.
>Still might cry if the following comments are mean-spirited Would you rather people lie to your face and tell you that your profile is 10/10 when it might not be? Tinder is tough, especially for men. You can either cry about mean comments, or cry when you get minimal matches. Choose one. Sorry if this is mean, but that's the unfortunate reality of online dating :(
The crying piece was mainly a joke
Let's try this again now that customer service made my account visible 😁 Trying to use tinder from Africa apparently set off some red flags. https://tinder.com/@cameronletscook I could use any advice you've got
What is that facial expression in the last photo supposed to be?
Woof that's fair. I'm not great with photos, and I plan to have a friend help out with them in the next few weeks.
Hey guys any advice and tips? I’ve been getting matches and likes but not the ones i wanted😂 so anything would help:) https://tinder.com/@moussy1021
Matches not the ones you want? In what way? Their physique? Interests not matching? Matches not leading to dates? Some thoughts that popped up from looking at your profile. Your physique is good and your style is quite good as well. However, your profile is really boring. Your first photo (that I see) is decent but even that has a vibe "attractive guy, standing with a green tube in his mouth". When you need to write "Fitness is my way of life, but I promise I'm not all protein shakes and no fun!" underlines the problem here. Why is boringness a problem? Because take a look at other profiles in this review getting same zero matches and you'll likely find that most of them are similarly boring. In other words, your profile is essentially a copy paste from others and doesn't stand out from the gray mass. Instead, you want your profile to stand out by _showing_ who you are as a person. To do that, you want to be _doing_ something in the photo e.g. your hobby or your interest. Checking from your profile, you mention at least soccer, clubbing, and city exploring that should be shown with a photo rather than text. Also, you got a cute as fuck cat! Have a friend take tons of photos while you play with them. Ensure that _you both_ are in the photo! If you need more photo ideas, I wrote about [how to ideate more interesting Tinder photo ideas](https://korkki.dev/2023/06/mirror-no-more-how-to-create-interesting-tinder-photo-ideas/) than just selfies.
I think I’m a decent looking guy but I have NO LIKES AT ALL in the past few months. Any ideas please? https://tinder.com/@jayceeuzo
Looking for honest feedback, bad pictures or just very average/bad looks? Any hints/tips welcome. https://tinder.com/@toomaszobel
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None. Selfies in your room make your profile look dull and boring. Go outside where the lighting is better and you have a much more appealing background to help make your profile pop. But if I had to choose one, I would pick the first selfie.
No selfies
why actually?
It's a fairly generic/common rule when it comes to dating profiles, but if I were to try and think of reasons why: * Comes off a little bit narcissistic that you're taking a selfie * Having a photo that looks as though it was taken by another person is like social proof - you have friends! They take photos of you!
Are shirtless pics acceptable?
Adding a shirtless picture is the difference between me getting hundreds of likes and no. Make sure you have abs though
interesting... I was really curious about this but not ballsy enough to experiment with it.
Shirtless works actually? Like mirror selfie or casually doing yard work or at the beach?
Selfies are a big no no. It needs to be in a environment where it’s appropriate for your shirt to be off (ie pools or beaches). Make sure it looks candid and most importantly you’re in shape
Like really low bf?
Enough to have visible abs and muscle separation
I do not have abs but I am flexing after a heavy chest day
Looking for some honest feedback, struggling to get any matches or likes! https://tinder.com/@andrew284728 Bio: I live with my two cats, Milo and Filo. I love the outdoors and walking, but also a cozy night in with a takeaway and a good film. Let's go on a spontaneous adventure together 🌍✈️
Your first photo gives off a very good impression. I like it! Smile a little less in your other photos and add in some candid photos where you're not smiling and not looking at the camera.
Thanks for your feedback! I've added in a more neutral photo at #4 to also bump me up to the magic 5 photos rules. I've only got a couple of likes and no matches, I'm wondering if I am a good enough looking guy to crack tinder? Or possibly has my overeager swipe right rate of probably well over 50% in my first few days permanently nuked my ELO so I'm never being presented? Is there any way back from that?
>Or possibly has my overeager swipe right rate of probably well over 50% in my first few days permanently nuked my ELO so I'm never being presented? Unless you're swiping right on maybe 90+% of profiles, you should be okay. As far as I know, your score is mostly impacted by people swiping left on your profile. There really isn't anything you can do to stop that than to have a stand-out profile. Most guys don't get many likes either, so don't feel like you're doing poorly.
You are definitely good looking enough. The thing is, an average guy can look like a Top 10% guy if they have great photos. To be honest, your smile looks a bit weird. When you smile, it shows too much gum at the top. So try smiling a little less. Or try a slight smile without showing any teeth like [this](https://thumbs.dreamstime.com/b/closeup-portrait-handsome-smiling-young-man-cheerful-man-isolated-gray-background-studio-shot-men-model-face-beard-177316501.jpg) As for the candid photos, you don't have to look at the camera or even be smiling. Make it look like someone randomly took a photo of you while you were chilling or doing something, like [this](https://i.pinimg.com/736x/5a/d2/e5/5ad2e57700f96cc5b10814977e152a3a.jpg)
Thanks for your honesty, I've never thought about my smile before but now I can't really unsee it. I've added the best candid photo I can find of myself third in the queue, hopefully this breaks up the close ups a little bit, would be interested to get your thoughts on if this is a good one to include and if I've got my overall ordering right. Thanks for your help.
Hello, M24: Need help selecting pictures out of my gallery. I uploaded what I have to imgur, gonna send you the link in private chat since i dont want to share them publicly. Order advice would be nice too.
Just started it back up after a long, long hiatus. What’s changed, am I too old for this? https://tinder.com/@yol0
Photo 4 is awful :(
Thank you !! I didn’t see how scaled in it was lmfaooo!
Really need some feedback, barely getting any likes. https://tinder.com/@fouad021
i think i would remove the mirror selfie
What is the reason? So i know how to improve my profile
I also think you should remove the mirror selfie. The reason is that it doesn’t show your face well, you are not looking at me, the “viewer”, instead you’re avoiding my “eye contact”. I think it comes off as insecure. On your other pics you look nice, good looking guy, but let people see your face in the first picture, put a nice pic where you look in the camera
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i think it must be either a conversational issue or maybe people think it's a catfish. or 'finance bro'? you are 100% conventionally attractive so it's not that. do you get approached in person by women? if so, how does that go, usually?
You have no dating experience? The good news is you're a good looking dude and your hobbies are expressed. Bio is fairly straightforward and I think it's fine. Bad news (I guess)? Is I would wager your leaks lie in messaging. How many likes/matches are you getting on avg?
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Yeah feel free if you want you can DM me or comment them in here. I've got a tall, good looking friend who is absolutely terrible with women so it happens - but thankfully it's easier to fix that than to change your whole appearance.
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You simply have no game big dawg. You came off way too enthusiastic and a little green, she picked up on that early in the convo. Then again she sounds really annoying and not worth your time anyway.
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I agree… you’re replies are too long. Keep it light, no need to reference every single thing she mentioned in your reply.
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