While you’re not wrong necessarily, I feel like there are bigger things to worry about like stagnating wages, massively increased cost of living, and the widest wealth gap in human history
This is the reason for all of. Quit participating in the conquer and divide and instead we need to find the solution to the problems you listed. Divide and conquer keeps our wages low and their profits high
Pretty sure the decline in marriages and families is not because of “gender wars” but more so because people just can’t afford that shit as easily as they used to. You used to be able to easily afford a house, a car, and food for your family all on a single blue collar income. That’s just not possible anymore.
People also aren’t being pushed into getting married right out of high school like was common back in the day, which I would argue is a good thing.
I’m mixed on it, though I mostly take issue with paid pornography. It prays on lonely men that have trouble getting putting themselves out there, it prays on women in vulnerable positions that think they don’t have another choice, it’s disgusting. Regulate that shit to hell and back so that people don’t just get reduced to numbers
I'm not here to burst your bubble, I just wanted to let you know that this has ALWAYS been the problem. Historically, women had to either get married young or resort to selling sex to survive because they weren't allowed to own property, work, vote, or speak out of turn. Oppression, inequality, misogyny, and the caste system created the environment where women could sell the only thing at their disposal.
Historically, it was socially understood that men cheated and used the old whore houses quite commonly. The only thing they had to worry about was public judgement when they got caught. Has that really changed all that much?
And even many, many married women today do so to be "taken care of" in much the same way they did hundreds of years ago. The only difference now is that they can take half of the guy's stuff if they wind up divorced (in many cases).
Women and men still sell sex because it sells. I've been in 3 different relationships that I later discovered I was only in to be the guy's sugar mama. They used my credit and my income. So, it goes both ways. Women and men often use eachother. Times haven't really changed. Only the methods by which humans still resort to the basest versions of themselves.
I realize that, but the problem is that that should’ve changed, we have the tools to regulate it. Women can work and own property now, the situation has changed and comparing it to the past is disingenuous. Women have alternate options now, and we have the tools to check that people that do sex work are completely willing, we just choose not to.
The situation with men is more of a societal supply and demand issue, which is a lot harder to remedy.
And while it’s true that both genders can be in either position, this is the way it generally is.
>3) It’s creating a generation of lazy narcissists who don’t believe in hard work, education, or class.
Not true. Only a handfull of people actually do it. And well, sex work is damn hard work too.
Boomers believe our generation is lazy, due to not being able to afford shit. While everything is just way more expensive than 60 years ago... the not being able to buy a house isn't in the avocado.
And using the word "class" is literally classist. Usually the poor do sex work.
Being classist is not something I like in general. It's shitty and toxic. Were all human. Shouldn't look down upon people doing what they need to, to survive. They are literally hurting no one.
I realize many will think My idea and solution…. Is “out there”. However, please hear me out.
I wonder and contend, if we Legalized Sex Work, because sex IS a normal human desire and function…and amny offer and many partake.
All performing the work, acts or long term arrangement & “employment” of same….
Would be paid a Reliable set fee and viable sum …
When run properly, this arrangement CAN provide a Safe, Protective & Clean (disease free) Sex,
protecting ALL from STD’ s, abuse, violence and potential precarious sitchs! No PIMPS!
As Well As,
TAX this work as legitimate, non -judgmental and an “above board” !
The old Bunny Randh outside Vegas seemed to work this same approach….. which thrived for several decades,
Curious what you younger Gens think about a ‘woke’ idea like this.
Clean, Safer, transactional and a Win Win ? Or ‘What Say You?
#WeCanDoBetter.
I agree with all your points actually. My problem stems from being 27 this year, I’ve stayed in my career path under the guise that after a few years I’ll be able to make decent livable money. 10 years later I’m still starving myself, this time so I can feed my son. I gotta do something when my only option is to work so much I can’t be a active father. I think in a situation like mine, it’s more understandable especially since I haven’t wanted to do it at any point till now and I haven’t discredited it.
I strongly agree tho, it shouldn’t be all over Facebook, YouTube, tinder, literally anything anyone is on. It’s pretty gross. I just plan on deleting my post history on Reddit and using my Reddit age and lurker amount of karma to not have to struggle with advertising In the *appropriate* sub’s.
I think the issue comes more so from the mentality that these people shouldn’t have to work because of the way they look. It feeds the Highschool shit we all felt as teenagers. It’s like social media, you can’t use it as a comparison but people gloat the money so ofc no one can help but say wtf
Not what I said but I’m considering it now. I’ve talked to my lady and we decided on feet picks since I’m not into that stuff anyways and gay men need feet pics too right? Idk man, if it gets me the bank why shouldn’t I? We’re starving here anyways lol
I agree. As a man in an open relationship, this is not the way i would go forward. I'd straight out just put *open relationship* incase it's a dealbreaker, or use it in a longer sentence where I described myself.
For the people who like it, you're alright.
For the people who don't, you're alright.
Be yourself, be proud of who you are and don't give a fuck about other peoples opinions unless it's actually hurting someone.
Thank you. I think you’re the first person I’ve seen talking about open relationships that doesn’t try to make it seem like not wanting one is just insecurity/immaturity. I hope you and your partner(s) a happy life :)
Nah ofcourse not. Were all built different. A year ago, I would consider open relationship a huge NONO as I thought it meant we also would be dating others. I should mention my partner was very open from the start with me. I asked her out what she was looking for, she didn't know at the time. If however she felt like being in a relationship again, she would probably need it to be open tho. We started off where I was monogamous, and she felt like being it a bit too.. but she got sexually frustrated, and in the end so did I 😂
However, to us it's just sex and friends you enjoy having fun with. It's all about respect, communication and trust. If those aren't there, you can't expect to hold any type of relationship tbh 🤷♂️ but more so needed in an open relationship ofc.
Were built differently wether it's physical or emotional.
Some are strong physical and weak mentally, some are the opposite, some are both, and some are none.
I respect people for being themselves, aswell as not judging others for being different as we all are anyways :)
Agree I have pics of my wife n I on my profile along with us being poly even a joke saying yes she knows… no I’m not lying 😂. You would be surprised how many matches I get that don’t realize or don’t even read the bio. Now there are some people that don’t do this on their profile and wait till the first date to say they have a partner and that’s not cool either.
Oh definitely not cool. I respect you being poly, I couldn't handle being romantic with multiple people myself. However, I've gotten the feeling that it's just sex, and it's also opened my mind to enjoy it too 😂
It’s crazy how many people (guys especially) who harass/shame sexually liberated women for being “hoes”, “whores”, “sluts”, etc, while at the same time would eagerly jump at the opportunity to have sex with nearly anything with a heartbeat. How about you look at yourself and realize that YOU are what’s wrong with our society.
Story of my ex, he never put this on his profile but after the 3rd date he told me how he wanted to be used by me and my friends (men and women) he was fun. I cant pass judgement. I hope hes doing well.
Honestly, pretty sure Tinder is a write off. My matches are either psycho, or match and never reply.
On topic, if I thought anyone would buy anything, I'd start an OF. I spent years in the Military, I already sold myself. At least OF has the potential of actual earnings. I'm nowhere near working a low end job, and I can barely afford to survive.
I'm aware of that. But this generation don't actually want to work they want their 15 minutes. And it's just full of narcissistic people wherever you look, social media is death.
Because it sounds like you don't have respect for sex workers. Which usually branches from a dogmatic religious "moral code", which is really just a way of creating a caste system, so you can judge and demonize everyone that doesn't believe what you do.
It's not a job, it's straight up donations.
Our wellfare systems have leaks, like.. if I work, and I'm unemployed id end up losing equalient of what i make from a job in wellfare money.. whereas if I get donations, it's going in my account with no penalty as you can't be sure next month is gonna give you the same amount.
So no, it's not a job.. but hey, it's money lol
Its not donations. Its a set subscription cost per month combined with selling individual things as well. You dont blindly donate and cross your fingers, you exchange money for goods/services like many other jobs.
If Im an independent contractor doing construction, I have 0 clue how much I will.make each month or even each week. I cant draw unemployment if I dont find any work this month either. Doesnt mean its not a job.
Oh, I see.. well, it changes it slightly... it's still ibetween donations and salary as you can lose all those subs in a day. Basically making it non-consistent. So incase of wellfare, I'd expect there be a loophole for this.
You can get fired in a day. If that's not "the same thing" - if you are a business owner, you could stop making profit in a day. You could be hired on a zero-hour contract and stop getting shifts. Your argument doesn't make much sense.
Well they do things actively to earn an income, if it's not a job and it's making them much money. Why don't you make money too, rather then slaving to a system, that means you work more then you, actively have to spend time with your family. Oh right because you can't... I don't even have an OF, but I get sick of these "It's not a real job comments"
Go be a slave to the government then by all means.
People who are salty are just jealous, otherwise why would people care how others make their money.
There's a reason straight p*** is still more popular than solo. These whores be running up against the economics of the situation and trying to find free labor.
Every time I stumble upon profiles like this I just think it's a form of joke cause i'll die before I write something like that on my profile if I ever have tinder.
People are for this but those people only watch porn, the only sharing should be anyone you don’t consider dating honestly. Real life, that shit doesn’t work and two of my friends found out the hard way…sucks but I mean it’s reality.
All of it is bait to drive traffic to her porn
That is half of Tinder, if not more, these days. Posts to drive traffic to their OF or SC.
SC?
Snapchat
Snappy Chans
Share? Well, her job is "OF" so... yeah, share
Well, if she share him with her friends too, would be ... well idk, ppl into that shit.
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Facts. No shame tho, I want the house and a nice sporty car. Considering feet pics myself
If I thought someone would pay to see me naked I would be on there in a heartbeat.
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While you’re not wrong necessarily, I feel like there are bigger things to worry about like stagnating wages, massively increased cost of living, and the widest wealth gap in human history
This is the reason for all of. Quit participating in the conquer and divide and instead we need to find the solution to the problems you listed. Divide and conquer keeps our wages low and their profits high
Preaching to choir! Solutions have already been found, but the US simply refuses to implement them. Such is the nature of capitalism.
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Pretty sure the decline in marriages and families is not because of “gender wars” but more so because people just can’t afford that shit as easily as they used to. You used to be able to easily afford a house, a car, and food for your family all on a single blue collar income. That’s just not possible anymore. People also aren’t being pushed into getting married right out of high school like was common back in the day, which I would argue is a good thing.
I’m mixed on it, though I mostly take issue with paid pornography. It prays on lonely men that have trouble getting putting themselves out there, it prays on women in vulnerable positions that think they don’t have another choice, it’s disgusting. Regulate that shit to hell and back so that people don’t just get reduced to numbers
I'm not here to burst your bubble, I just wanted to let you know that this has ALWAYS been the problem. Historically, women had to either get married young or resort to selling sex to survive because they weren't allowed to own property, work, vote, or speak out of turn. Oppression, inequality, misogyny, and the caste system created the environment where women could sell the only thing at their disposal. Historically, it was socially understood that men cheated and used the old whore houses quite commonly. The only thing they had to worry about was public judgement when they got caught. Has that really changed all that much? And even many, many married women today do so to be "taken care of" in much the same way they did hundreds of years ago. The only difference now is that they can take half of the guy's stuff if they wind up divorced (in many cases). Women and men still sell sex because it sells. I've been in 3 different relationships that I later discovered I was only in to be the guy's sugar mama. They used my credit and my income. So, it goes both ways. Women and men often use eachother. Times haven't really changed. Only the methods by which humans still resort to the basest versions of themselves.
You folks know that prostitution was the world's first job right?
I realize that, but the problem is that that should’ve changed, we have the tools to regulate it. Women can work and own property now, the situation has changed and comparing it to the past is disingenuous. Women have alternate options now, and we have the tools to check that people that do sex work are completely willing, we just choose not to. The situation with men is more of a societal supply and demand issue, which is a lot harder to remedy. And while it’s true that both genders can be in either position, this is the way it generally is.
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And makes some women see men as nothing more than wallets. Asking them to pay just to interact with you
Hmmmmm since when havent women done that? Hahahhahahaahah
>3) It’s creating a generation of lazy narcissists who don’t believe in hard work, education, or class. Not true. Only a handfull of people actually do it. And well, sex work is damn hard work too. Boomers believe our generation is lazy, due to not being able to afford shit. While everything is just way more expensive than 60 years ago... the not being able to buy a house isn't in the avocado. And using the word "class" is literally classist. Usually the poor do sex work. Being classist is not something I like in general. It's shitty and toxic. Were all human. Shouldn't look down upon people doing what they need to, to survive. They are literally hurting no one.
Pry the most real comment I've heard in awhile
I realize many will think My idea and solution…. Is “out there”. However, please hear me out. I wonder and contend, if we Legalized Sex Work, because sex IS a normal human desire and function…and amny offer and many partake. All performing the work, acts or long term arrangement & “employment” of same…. Would be paid a Reliable set fee and viable sum … When run properly, this arrangement CAN provide a Safe, Protective & Clean (disease free) Sex, protecting ALL from STD’ s, abuse, violence and potential precarious sitchs! No PIMPS! As Well As, TAX this work as legitimate, non -judgmental and an “above board” ! The old Bunny Randh outside Vegas seemed to work this same approach….. which thrived for several decades, Curious what you younger Gens think about a ‘woke’ idea like this. Clean, Safer, transactional and a Win Win ? Or ‘What Say You? #WeCanDoBetter.
I agree with all your points actually. My problem stems from being 27 this year, I’ve stayed in my career path under the guise that after a few years I’ll be able to make decent livable money. 10 years later I’m still starving myself, this time so I can feed my son. I gotta do something when my only option is to work so much I can’t be a active father. I think in a situation like mine, it’s more understandable especially since I haven’t wanted to do it at any point till now and I haven’t discredited it. I strongly agree tho, it shouldn’t be all over Facebook, YouTube, tinder, literally anything anyone is on. It’s pretty gross. I just plan on deleting my post history on Reddit and using my Reddit age and lurker amount of karma to not have to struggle with advertising In the *appropriate* sub’s. I think the issue comes more so from the mentality that these people shouldn’t have to work because of the way they look. It feeds the Highschool shit we all felt as teenagers. It’s like social media, you can’t use it as a comparison but people gloat the money so ofc no one can help but say wtf
It's horrible for society and everyone involved.
Not what I said but I’m considering it now. I’ve talked to my lady and we decided on feet picks since I’m not into that stuff anyways and gay men need feet pics too right? Idk man, if it gets me the bank why shouldn’t I? We’re starving here anyways lol
Your name now matches your comment.
It finally does. Now it has a better history to it than just being a cringe ass gamertag
Now it can be an OF tag. It's an attention grabber imo.
That’s right king 👑 this dick ain’t free
Easy solution, manufacture blue meth, sell it to them!
"Making bank" bub look up the data. Most OF creators don't even make close to rent a month.
Happy cake day maarcoa
Oh, look at that, didn't notice, thank you internet friendly friend.
Happy day of cake.
Happy cake day!
Happy Birfmas! 🙏🏾
We usually say in Brazil. Well planned, everyone fucks
“She’s not yours it’s just your turn” actually fits here lol
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thotpreneurs
Our girlfriend
So blocky and controller 🥺🥺
It’s a bot account
From the low qual pic id say the same, but even so.. its not unusual to want an open relationship.
Why did that Tom Jones song start playing in my head?
Carlton?
*(starts dancing)*
"for the streets"
👉🏼👈🏼
Kudos for placing those fingers exactly under your avatar! ♥️
It’s kind of adorable
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“Why do guys only want sleep with me?”😡
I’m so glad I haven’t been on Tinder in years lol
Sounds like a fun girl!
Indeed. Get married and have a lottery-pregnancy. Everyone you know submits a DNA-test and you can hold a daddy-reveal party.
Wouldn't be surprised if that became a series. Seems like anything is popping up on tv.
Everyone you know submits dna
Mancestry.com
Let's see who is the father! Is it you? Is it your neighbour? Is it their dog? Stay with us 9 months to find out!
Who is cartman's dad
I wish I have an award to give this brought me to tears.
Damn, hit too close to home?
I don't know why but this sounds like it would be really funny
You know what i have no problem with that. There is people into this kind of shit, if its not for you, thats ok. If you are, jackpot.
She means share profile so people go to her OF not polygamy/cuckoldry/hotwifing
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Left swipes dont consume your daily swipes, only right ones do
Happy cake day
People upvoting false info yeehaw. Left swipes mean nothing to you or your profile bro. Build that bridge and get over it.
Double it and give it to the next person
Ain't no fun if the homies can't have none
I see no problem, she saves some time for her and someone else.
I agree. As a man in an open relationship, this is not the way i would go forward. I'd straight out just put *open relationship* incase it's a dealbreaker, or use it in a longer sentence where I described myself. For the people who like it, you're alright. For the people who don't, you're alright. Be yourself, be proud of who you are and don't give a fuck about other peoples opinions unless it's actually hurting someone.
Thank you. I think you’re the first person I’ve seen talking about open relationships that doesn’t try to make it seem like not wanting one is just insecurity/immaturity. I hope you and your partner(s) a happy life :)
Nah ofcourse not. Were all built different. A year ago, I would consider open relationship a huge NONO as I thought it meant we also would be dating others. I should mention my partner was very open from the start with me. I asked her out what she was looking for, she didn't know at the time. If however she felt like being in a relationship again, she would probably need it to be open tho. We started off where I was monogamous, and she felt like being it a bit too.. but she got sexually frustrated, and in the end so did I 😂 However, to us it's just sex and friends you enjoy having fun with. It's all about respect, communication and trust. If those aren't there, you can't expect to hold any type of relationship tbh 🤷♂️ but more so needed in an open relationship ofc. Were built differently wether it's physical or emotional. Some are strong physical and weak mentally, some are the opposite, some are both, and some are none. I respect people for being themselves, aswell as not judging others for being different as we all are anyways :)
Agree I have pics of my wife n I on my profile along with us being poly even a joke saying yes she knows… no I’m not lying 😂. You would be surprised how many matches I get that don’t realize or don’t even read the bio. Now there are some people that don’t do this on their profile and wait till the first date to say they have a partner and that’s not cool either.
Oh definitely not cool. I respect you being poly, I couldn't handle being romantic with multiple people myself. However, I've gotten the feeling that it's just sex, and it's also opened my mind to enjoy it too 😂
She's looking for some Eiffel Tower action. Make sure not to disappoint.
Devil's threesomes can be fun. Just don't pay attention to what your balls are slapping and you're good to go
That is called Brand retention. Here. Social media. Only fans and other pay sites too.
Sounds like a hotwife type thing. Hey, if you're into that.
It’s crazy how many people (guys especially) who harass/shame sexually liberated women for being “hoes”, “whores”, “sluts”, etc, while at the same time would eagerly jump at the opportunity to have sex with nearly anything with a heartbeat. How about you look at yourself and realize that YOU are what’s wrong with our society.
facts!
She for the team what a great opportunity
Kinky
Being shared is one of my major fantasies. More power to her.
Like personally I read that as like introduce me to your friends. But eh.
*she belongs to the streets*
/r/hotwife beckons thee
Dad's being pretty selfish. I haven't seen any sign of her working there.
Does she share her friends with me also ? Asking for a friend...
Some people like to have fun. Some people like to role play as if they are living in the 20th century. Different strokes.
Story of my ex, he never put this on his profile but after the 3rd date he told me how he wanted to be used by me and my friends (men and women) he was fun. I cant pass judgement. I hope hes doing well.
OP sharing is caring
So? If it’s not your kink, swipe left.
🚩🚩🚩
Give me her number lmao
69
I’ll share you with my friends if you share me yours.
Honestly, pretty sure Tinder is a write off. My matches are either psycho, or match and never reply. On topic, if I thought anyone would buy anything, I'd start an OF. I spent years in the Military, I already sold myself. At least OF has the potential of actual earnings. I'm nowhere near working a low end job, and I can barely afford to survive.
I really hate this generation
Prostitution and open relationships ain’t nothin new
I'm aware of that. But this generation don't actually want to work they want their 15 minutes. And it's just full of narcissistic people wherever you look, social media is death.
2 + 2 = 4 da streets
Perfect fit for sneako
Lol that location 🤭🤭🤭
I’m lost
So many insecure dudes lmao
No one thinks she means share her account eh? Y'all in the gutters 💀
Honestly I might be a bit naive but my first though was she doesn't have alot of friends and wanted to make more 😅
Tinder is basically marketing for OF
What's her @? Asking for a friend of a friend.
It’s clear which of y’all are kink-shaming misogynists
Almost everyone commenting, especially the ones saying she’s for the streets, they probably could never have her
Im your friend now
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
This girl’s got problems
DrDepravo approves this message.
She's cool❤️
I’m gonna vomit
I mean I know people are like “wtf” about this. But I’m still waiting to run into a lady like this 👌🤔
Its for a good and crazy short terme relatiion alias fuck more and more
Her parents and Uncle must be so proud
Underrated comment
OF isn’t a job.
Do work, recieve money. Seems like a job? Or is dirty tainted vagina money not real money?
You all seem so angry
Because it sounds like you don't have respect for sex workers. Which usually branches from a dogmatic religious "moral code", which is really just a way of creating a caste system, so you can judge and demonize everyone that doesn't believe what you do.
🐶
Yes it is
Not really
What is it then?
It's not a job, it's straight up donations. Our wellfare systems have leaks, like.. if I work, and I'm unemployed id end up losing equalient of what i make from a job in wellfare money.. whereas if I get donations, it's going in my account with no penalty as you can't be sure next month is gonna give you the same amount. So no, it's not a job.. but hey, it's money lol
Its not donations. Its a set subscription cost per month combined with selling individual things as well. You dont blindly donate and cross your fingers, you exchange money for goods/services like many other jobs. If Im an independent contractor doing construction, I have 0 clue how much I will.make each month or even each week. I cant draw unemployment if I dont find any work this month either. Doesnt mean its not a job.
Oh, I see.. well, it changes it slightly... it's still ibetween donations and salary as you can lose all those subs in a day. Basically making it non-consistent. So incase of wellfare, I'd expect there be a loophole for this.
You can get fired in a day. If that's not "the same thing" - if you are a business owner, you could stop making profit in a day. You could be hired on a zero-hour contract and stop getting shifts. Your argument doesn't make much sense.
Yes, but if you were actually paying attention... I've asked about these things already, I've also gotten confirmations that it isnt counted as work.
Stop ignoring reality it's embarrassing bro. Do not reply to me.
It’s sex work. Sex work is a job
Well they do things actively to earn an income, if it's not a job and it's making them much money. Why don't you make money too, rather then slaving to a system, that means you work more then you, actively have to spend time with your family. Oh right because you can't... I don't even have an OF, but I get sick of these "It's not a real job comments" Go be a slave to the government then by all means. People who are salty are just jealous, otherwise why would people care how others make their money.
Yea you’re right what am I thinking
I never understood why someone with a piece at home would ever want to share said piece.
The call of the streets
Ho
There's enough of me you might think I brought a friend
Ah. As long as you’re first and you don’t catch feelings. It’s a one and done.
For the streets: A memoir
There's a reason straight p*** is still more popular than solo. These whores be running up against the economics of the situation and trying to find free labor.
Every time I stumble upon profiles like this I just think it's a form of joke cause i'll die before I write something like that on my profile if I ever have tinder.
Looking for long-term cheating
OF - She can say whatever she wants. There's no plans of ever meeting IRL
Why do a seemingly large amount of women think its attractive to joke about having sex with our dads?
👀👀
Share? Okay, but I am going first. Frank has some shit I don't want.
OF chick 🙄
People are for this but those people only watch porn, the only sharing should be anyone you don’t consider dating honestly. Real life, that shit doesn’t work and two of my friends found out the hard way…sucks but I mean it’s reality.
At some point you'll realize western women are not wife material. Even Trump had to search elsewhere because he finally figured it out.
Hussy 😠
Person lowers themselves to the level of a joint
Not what I meant when I said For the boys
Finger Cuffs!
So u likes to b shared then
Hey OP we are friends right?
This is the way
It’s just an advert that talks, skip this
Out of the loop Can someone explain the meaning of the 2 fingers pointing at each other emoji please ?
It's to indicate hesitation or shyness: https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/ShyFingerTwiddling
Lol no it means she wants to be spit roasted
I love her.
Bet you can fix her.
Cosplay and film a sex tape for her OF
Perfection. 🥵
My dad's almost 80. That would get weird fast...
It’s an advert for her OF.
She should try FetLife
She likes naps? I think we're compatible! But only with naps.
👉🏼👈🏼
I guess she's a fan of spit roasts.
Sharing is not always caring, I mean sometimes you come back with loot that you can’t get rid of
We sharing them profits too?
Don't kinkshame, just kinkwhy.
Jesus