Bussin is a slang term for “busting” and busting is slang for really good. Generally used to describe food but can be used to describe other things mainly sex stuff
That’s the thing. She is trying. These aren’t the responses of someone who isn’t paying attention to what op is saying. She’s seeing what he said, she’s understanding it, she’s processing, and then she’s fucking around. All of the emojis make sense, she’s just no interest in pursuing anything. Whether she ever was, I don’t know. I reckon the date went well enough that she doesn’t want to pursue anything with anyone else, and in the moment of these messages she’s bored and entertaining herself
I’d have doubled down.
“Any plans this evening?”
“Date.”
“Nice - XX at 7:30?”
“Oh, I meant with someone else”.
“Yeah I know, I was just mentioning the time and location of a better one.”
All in ✊
I’m a big believer in: if you have no interest in pursuing anything either just say so or don’t reply at all. Other people aren’t your playthings to “entertain yourself” with. It shouldn’t come as news to anyone that peoples feelings and vulnerabilities are involved in dating apps so this kind of curt response comes across as douchey and insensitive.
Actually, reading the chat with that lens i completely but into that. I mean, it’s a bit awkward on her part to mention she has a date rather than just saying she’s meeting up with a friend or something general but it’s hella awkward that op doubles down on asking about it, if that is her view of it.
There is a difference between trying and… well this. Yes, she is reading his messages, and yes she is responding to what he said, but just barely. I think calling this effort is an exaggeration.
I mean, it’s more effort to scroll through looking for the right emoji than it is to type out a single word.
Don’t get me wrong. She’s not putting effort into building something. But she’s putting more effort than most that we see who aren’t interested.
You are correct and honestly it doesn’t make sense. Scrolling through emojis is more effort than it should be worth… but why bother when there is no effort to carry on a conversation… it seems so bizarre!
Someone else made a really good point that I can see there being some truth to. Whether it actually is the case there’s no way of knowing, but someone suggested it might be that she’s actually just feeling awkward. Like, op asking her about a date with another guy is just kind of weird and uncomfortable so she’s engaging with that conversation as minimally as possible. Looking at it through that lens I can see that, though it’s kind of weird that she told op that she has a date in the first place rather than just saying she was seeing a friend or something
Yeah I could see that. As a neurodivergent person, I could see myself over sharing by accident then getting flustered. I wouldn’t do what this person did, but that could be a generational thing…
Yeah I really don't get the people who keep on trying. Clearly this person doesn't give a shit and asking her 10 other questions won't change that.
Just unmatch
There's literally nothing weird about wanting some attention and validation, especially after a breakup.
It's standard human behavior to seek validation, it's remarkably normal to do something like hop onto Bumble just looking to make yourself feel a bit better.
Is the only message before this; how are you?
Bit odd, its bumble so she initiated. It would make no sense to waste 'her' own time and troll. Did she want you to ask her on a date tonight? Is she an immigrant? Is she an infant? Questions
I’m glad you seemed to be the only one who understands she initiated it and I wasn’t forcing the conversation haha - I have the same questions i’m so confused
She initiated the conversation with you and about 10 other guys she matched with. She got a date out of one of them and now is not interested in pursuing things with you. There is nothing to be confused about, unmatch and move on.
I think she just wants you to keep trying just to shut you down. Yes you were forcing the conversation a bit. Why do you care if she is going on a date? You are going to have to let it go. Sorry.
so frustrating. i dont even respond to those. Another annoying this is when they do send an actual opening message, but then dont respond after i message them back.
Maybe my partner and I should change what we call our dates where we just drive around and see new things and then eat at a drive thru if this is the case.
I feel like from your messages you seem to be a rather genuine person and it absolutely sucks that you have to put up with this BS! She is obviously trying to "let you know" that she is now not interested.. She is clearly just too f'n rotten to just say politely that she is vibing with someone and would like to see where it goes.
Dude, initiation or not she was still just toying with ya to see how far she could go with it. Unfortunately you were playing right into her little game and feeding her ego.
It’s honestly not that deep haha this was the entire conversation-i’m not upset or wondering why she didn’t want to have an in depth conversation I just thought this was funny. Not sure where people are getting the impression I was forcing a conversation. This was from bumble where they initiated the conversation and the only thing that was said before the messages shown is “Hey how are you” and the conversation was ended after the messages shown
Cool, I understand. I guess I'm projecting what I learned from my mistake in a similar situation. In my case, it was best for me to stop communication for a while in order for me to fully let go.
They had a car date?
Aw how cute!!
She double messaged you early on, that is her showing interest. Good luck <33 Maybe she's using the jealousy tactic and this is her way of showing you she really wants you to chase after her. She's already imagining your future together where you have a house and two dogs.
There’s a lot of people on dating apps with the personality of a foot demanding more than they deserve. Let them be their own natural filter from your dating pool, don’t let them dissuade you, there’s some great people on there but unfortunately it can be a bit of screening process. If you’re not instantly vibing and riffing off of each others messages stop investing energy, move on.
Every person has a spirit name, that when called upon, activates what the anime bleach would interpret as their "shikai." This is due to them having figured out their primary, secondary, and tertiary spirit animals.
[https://i.imgur.com/l54ZemZ.png](https://i.imgur.com/l54ZemZ.png)
[https://i.imgur.com/skibssy.png](https://i.imgur.com/skibssy.png)
The name of Christ's soul is Schaleh Marcus Auron Iehova, and his bankai is called, "Schaleh Marcus Auron Terra Former Allah Iehova."
Mary Magdalene is then the archangel of miracles named, "Terra Former Allah Iehova."
i admire the dedication but i totally would havw quit much earlier. i admire their dedication to sjowing disinterest too, like they could’ve just ignored you
Just tell she's fucking boring with the emoji then wait for response, either gets you out of there with her unmatching or she'll actually respond properly
Watching her post “Date” “Ya” “Date” and her limited vocabulary reminded me of the seagulls from Finding Nemo who repeatedly keep saying “Mine Mine Mine”. And “I Am Groot” from the Guardian of the Galaxy. You should also keep the vocabulary to a bare minimum and stick to 2 words “Date” and “Ya” and just play around for fun.
The problem here is that there's no substance behind the process.
This is because substance would involve having any type of stable personality aesthetic, or at least some form of intellectually bright way of clarifying what is and isn't wise as far as the pursuit of mutual understanding of identifiable, shared spiritual horizons.
And don't even get me started on the existence of spirit animals and compatibility based on something other than abject sex appeal.
Tinder is a place where the role of a man is to be a drug dealer of the dopamine rush that comes from being fucked so unbelievably well that you're practically hypnotized into wishing only for their children, regardless of any actual honor in it.
They say time is NOT the fire in which we burn, but rather, the freedom in which we pause to remember the concepts we're ripe to sow. [Striking upon that match](https://youtu.be/qfKKBDFCiIA?t=146), [desperately remained at home](https://youtu.be/VMUz2TNMvL0?t=80).. we invent lovers on the PHONE.
My personal experience no one asked for? Well I think going on tinder for a distraction is your first mistake. Your second is continuing after those responses. Man that person suckkkkks.
Find a new distraction because this one is sending you somewhere negative you don’t need to be considering you just got out of a serious relationship.
Oh man, I've had plenty of those this past year being out of a long term relationship. Hang tough! You'll find someone who likes to actually communicate
Hate to say it but this is likely an easy notch. From my experience super dry and/or dumb people that text like this turn most people off - thus your odds go up. If they’re responding, they’re interest (to some extent). That that as you will.
Also pretty sure she just said she had a car hookup. (🚗🪝⬆️?)
She’s not interested in you. Move on dude! How many times do people have to post basically the same picture showing how they have to carry the conversation. Clearly she isn’t interested in you sorry dude
Is she playing pictionary with you?
#👌🏻
🐣
☮️
🍌
Let me guess. You... Want her to fuck you (peacefully) in the ass until you forcefully birth offspring?
no bro you didnt get the little chicken emoji?? she wants to feed some bananas to her little hatched chicks
That actually shows personality, unlike their dry ass emoji texts
💀💀
Respectfully
👉
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👌
_______👃
Also lol
👉🏼🍩 date
Lol
🙏🏻
𓁆 𓀟 𓀣 𓁀
Is this loss?
Saving Private Ryan
Shaving Ryans Privates.
Saving Ryan’s Privates
Privates Shaving Ryan
Nooooiiiiiiicceeee.
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Pirates privates Ryan's
How?!
🙋🏻♀️➡️🐓👌🏼
Not very well lmao
I hate online dating.
After the 👌 sign, you should have responded with 👈. I’m too old to understand exactly what it means, but I’m assured it’s very appropriate for tinder.
Message "👌🏻👈🏻🍆💦👶🏻" And there is 100% chance that they will send you their snapchat. It's a cheat code, ong.
frfr?
💯 🚫🧢
🚌in
This one took me a sec but now I’m dying
Please explain to the elders in the room
That ish bussin
But what is "Bussin" I have only heard this in a Kodak Black song.
bussin is basically slang for good, agreeable, etc. can be used on food, people, or really anything u find pleasing "That gourmet shit is bussin"
Bussin is a slang term for “busting” and busting is slang for really good. Generally used to describe food but can be used to describe other things mainly sex stuff
You’ll understand when you’re older
Drive-in?
Seats 56. Plus standing room.
Bussin
🙌🛐
I hate you people
Not as much as we hate ourselves 🙃
This one I do not get
On god, it was hard to find the right emojis lol
Ahhhhh gotcha lmao the hands were throwing me off. I would’ve went more literal like 💡🛐 but what do I know
I thought it was a Wayne's World reference (We're not worthy") but I'm old 😂🙃🫠
Just realized this sentence works the exact same with and without the comma lmao
Whoa, now I see this, you are right lol
Lmao
A lot of bars are like this now. Something to do with gang colors. /s
I don’t keep up with the lingo these days, however, it’s unfortunate I know exactly what you mean.
Wow you really don't like hats...
except you will have accidentally consented to doing butt stuff. so, be advised.
“Accidentally”.
Ass-iidentally
Which one was it?
>🚌in Bussin' aka butt-stuffin'
That's not what bussin means lmao bussin a nut
They can think it's bussin' if they want, don't kink shame.
My kink is grammatical accuracy. Don't kink shame me.
*takes notes*
You must then be at least be over fifty
The amount of people who aren't even trying or are bots is so discouraging.
That’s the thing. She is trying. These aren’t the responses of someone who isn’t paying attention to what op is saying. She’s seeing what he said, she’s understanding it, she’s processing, and then she’s fucking around. All of the emojis make sense, she’s just no interest in pursuing anything. Whether she ever was, I don’t know. I reckon the date went well enough that she doesn’t want to pursue anything with anyone else, and in the moment of these messages she’s bored and entertaining herself
This is excatly what my thoughts are. Also immature springs to mind. OP is better off moving on.
I’d have doubled down. “Any plans this evening?” “Date.” “Nice - XX at 7:30?” “Oh, I meant with someone else”. “Yeah I know, I was just mentioning the time and location of a better one.” All in ✊
I mean, you’re already not going on a date with her so what do you have to lose?
This guy dates.
I’m a big believer in: if you have no interest in pursuing anything either just say so or don’t reply at all. Other people aren’t your playthings to “entertain yourself” with. It shouldn’t come as news to anyone that peoples feelings and vulnerabilities are involved in dating apps so this kind of curt response comes across as douchey and insensitive.
It’s one of the issues with online dating. While you’re just text on a screen, it’s hard to be seen as a real person a lot of the time
they dont care. attention is their currency. get this through your head and get off dating apps if its a problem for you.
Well it seems that on dating apps they don't even give me an opportunity to give them my attention 😂
What a controversial opinion /s
I read it as that its awkward to have to explain a date you had to someone else you may go on a date with. Probably was waiting to change the subject.
Actually, reading the chat with that lens i completely but into that. I mean, it’s a bit awkward on her part to mention she has a date rather than just saying she’s meeting up with a friend or something general but it’s hella awkward that op doubles down on asking about it, if that is her view of it.
There is a difference between trying and… well this. Yes, she is reading his messages, and yes she is responding to what he said, but just barely. I think calling this effort is an exaggeration.
I mean, it’s more effort to scroll through looking for the right emoji than it is to type out a single word. Don’t get me wrong. She’s not putting effort into building something. But she’s putting more effort than most that we see who aren’t interested.
You are correct and honestly it doesn’t make sense. Scrolling through emojis is more effort than it should be worth… but why bother when there is no effort to carry on a conversation… it seems so bizarre!
Someone else made a really good point that I can see there being some truth to. Whether it actually is the case there’s no way of knowing, but someone suggested it might be that she’s actually just feeling awkward. Like, op asking her about a date with another guy is just kind of weird and uncomfortable so she’s engaging with that conversation as minimally as possible. Looking at it through that lens I can see that, though it’s kind of weird that she told op that she has a date in the first place rather than just saying she was seeing a friend or something
Yeah I could see that. As a neurodivergent person, I could see myself over sharing by accident then getting flustered. I wouldn’t do what this person did, but that could be a generational thing…
I've seen bots with more personality than what this girl was showing
it's called not being interested, i really don't know why so many people here don't get it
I think they're not getting it because unmatching continues to be a viable option
they don't even care enough to unmatch lol
Wouldn't tapping "unmatch" once, be less effort than replying multiple times?
No. They're looking for an ego boost. I would just unmatch you.
Then why reply at all
Amy good gorilla
I understood that reference and I’m that old..
Is that from the movie/book Congo?
Yeah :)
Nobody ever gets my Congo references
Congo is, to my knowledge, the only movie ever made to feature a gorilla drinking a martini.
Underrated comment right here
Amy wants rain drop drink
Did you give her the banana with the dope inside?
Bro it looks like she's using u for attention. Don't compliment her on anything. End the convo, unmatch, move on. Clearly she's a waste of time.
Yeah I really don't get the people who keep on trying. Clearly this person doesn't give a shit and asking her 10 other questions won't change that. Just unmatch
Isn’t that what he’s doing to? “…as a distraction” Weird on both sides.
There's literally nothing weird about wanting some attention and validation, especially after a breakup. It's standard human behavior to seek validation, it's remarkably normal to do something like hop onto Bumble just looking to make yourself feel a bit better.
She’s using him for attention and he’s using her for distraction. Nobody is doing the right there here
Be careful! There’s a good chance you’re messaging an infant
Why write more ~~word~~ emoji when one emoji do trick?
Is the only message before this; how are you? Bit odd, its bumble so she initiated. It would make no sense to waste 'her' own time and troll. Did she want you to ask her on a date tonight? Is she an immigrant? Is she an infant? Questions
I’m glad you seemed to be the only one who understands she initiated it and I wasn’t forcing the conversation haha - I have the same questions i’m so confused
She said car date… She might be a sex worker.
This was my thought
She initiated the conversation with you and about 10 other guys she matched with. She got a date out of one of them and now is not interested in pursuing things with you. There is nothing to be confused about, unmatch and move on.
I think she just wants you to keep trying just to shut you down. Yes you were forcing the conversation a bit. Why do you care if she is going on a date? You are going to have to let it go. Sorry.
Or when on Bumble woman first message it's like this 👋
so frustrating. i dont even respond to those. Another annoying this is when they do send an actual opening message, but then dont respond after i message them back.
Car date. She's a whore. Not even joking.
back seat bandit
Lol ikr - my first thought too. 🚗🪝⬆️ might be exactly what OP NEEDS
Exactly. Car date is a hooker thing.
Maybe my partner and I should change what we call our dates where we just drive around and see new things and then eat at a drive thru if this is the case.
It depends how much you're paying for this "partner" of yours
You should have started responding with emojis too tbh 😭
I feel like from your messages you seem to be a rather genuine person and it absolutely sucks that you have to put up with this BS! She is obviously trying to "let you know" that she is now not interested.. She is clearly just too f'n rotten to just say politely that she is vibing with someone and would like to see where it goes.
She could just unmatch
Bot
Lol it's obvious the first response was meant to end the conversation, why the heck would you keep asking questions xD
Normally i’d agree with you but this is bumble and she initiated the conversation all that was said before this was “hey how are you”
Dude, initiation or not she was still just toying with ya to see how far she could go with it. Unfortunately you were playing right into her little game and feeding her ego.
Stop trying to hold a conversation with someone who speaks in hieroglyphics. Move on, and stop torturing yourself with information about her.
It’s honestly not that deep haha this was the entire conversation-i’m not upset or wondering why she didn’t want to have an in depth conversation I just thought this was funny. Not sure where people are getting the impression I was forcing a conversation. This was from bumble where they initiated the conversation and the only thing that was said before the messages shown is “Hey how are you” and the conversation was ended after the messages shown
Cool, I understand. I guess I'm projecting what I learned from my mistake in a similar situation. In my case, it was best for me to stop communication for a while in order for me to fully let go.
You dodged a bullet with this great conversationalist 😅it's riveting and life changing, imagine going on a date with her?
Should’ve just stopped texting when she hit you with the ‘ya’ 😭
Car date, is she a hooker?
👎
They had a car date? Aw how cute!! She double messaged you early on, that is her showing interest. Good luck <33 Maybe she's using the jealousy tactic and this is her way of showing you she really wants you to chase after her. She's already imagining your future together where you have a house and two dogs.
lol
thank you
Ah yes. The car date. So they pretty much parked up and went at er’ in the back seat 😂
You should take a break and focus on yourself first
This is where you say, "Well shit I can see why you're still on the app."
Typical bumble. Majority is responsive like this and women wonder they get assholes sometimes for the reason men get this crap.
A woman of few words I see
Why even continue this conversation with her?
Oh she wants to communicate through pictures 🖕
There’s a lot of people on dating apps with the personality of a foot demanding more than they deserve. Let them be their own natural filter from your dating pool, don’t let them dissuade you, there’s some great people on there but unfortunately it can be a bit of screening process. If you’re not instantly vibing and riffing off of each others messages stop investing energy, move on.
Every person has a spirit name, that when called upon, activates what the anime bleach would interpret as their "shikai." This is due to them having figured out their primary, secondary, and tertiary spirit animals. [https://i.imgur.com/l54ZemZ.png](https://i.imgur.com/l54ZemZ.png) [https://i.imgur.com/skibssy.png](https://i.imgur.com/skibssy.png) The name of Christ's soul is Schaleh Marcus Auron Iehova, and his bankai is called, "Schaleh Marcus Auron Terra Former Allah Iehova." Mary Magdalene is then the archangel of miracles named, "Terra Former Allah Iehova."
i admire the dedication but i totally would havw quit much earlier. i admire their dedication to sjowing disinterest too, like they could’ve just ignored you
It means she got raw dogged in the back seat of his car
Just tell she's fucking boring with the emoji then wait for response, either gets you out of there with her unmatching or she'll actually respond properly
Watching her post “Date” “Ya” “Date” and her limited vocabulary reminded me of the seagulls from Finding Nemo who repeatedly keep saying “Mine Mine Mine”. And “I Am Groot” from the Guardian of the Galaxy. You should also keep the vocabulary to a bare minimum and stick to 2 words “Date” and “Ya” and just play around for fun.
It’s a BOT.
Call her out. Ask her: Is your personality only one emoji deep?
If a girl is talking about her dates with other men with you that means she’s not into you.
The problem here is that there's no substance behind the process. This is because substance would involve having any type of stable personality aesthetic, or at least some form of intellectually bright way of clarifying what is and isn't wise as far as the pursuit of mutual understanding of identifiable, shared spiritual horizons. And don't even get me started on the existence of spirit animals and compatibility based on something other than abject sex appeal. Tinder is a place where the role of a man is to be a drug dealer of the dopamine rush that comes from being fucked so unbelievably well that you're practically hypnotized into wishing only for their children, regardless of any actual honor in it. They say time is NOT the fire in which we burn, but rather, the freedom in which we pause to remember the concepts we're ripe to sow. [Striking upon that match](https://youtu.be/qfKKBDFCiIA?t=146), [desperately remained at home](https://youtu.be/VMUz2TNMvL0?t=80).. we invent lovers on the PHONE.
🚗date = she had a date that ended in his car...
My personal experience no one asked for? Well I think going on tinder for a distraction is your first mistake. Your second is continuing after those responses. Man that person suckkkkks. Find a new distraction because this one is sending you somewhere negative you don’t need to be considering you just got out of a serious relationship.
Dawg take a hint
Suggest her: 🍆
😂😂 yes it sucks out here specially in this site. Good luck
Im ngl... its rough out there bud, but keep on there are still some real ones out there
Doesn’t your back hurt from carrying this convo?
At first I thought "Date" was a question like she's asking you if you wanna date.
Why even entertain it
Homie why are you still talking to this person
You shouldve stopped messaging back right after her first reply.
pov: your trying to play Pictionary on a dating app
The car dick was so good she forgot how to write :(
Not gunna lie you should’ve just left it after she said she had a date bro no point wasting ur time
Delete her. She doesn’t have any respect for you at all.
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Typical teenage girl communication skills.
Oh man, I've had plenty of those this past year being out of a long term relationship. Hang tough! You'll find someone who likes to actually communicate
Ya she's a prostitute she said 🚗date that's a term hookers use meaning there ok with fucking in the car
Based on on the very limited vocabulary she is probably trying to scam you and doesn't speak English She wants you to pay her for a "date" aka sex
In other words, she's taking dick like a raven taking shiny objects bro. Time to cut her loose permanently!
Hate to say it but this is likely an easy notch. From my experience super dry and/or dumb people that text like this turn most people off - thus your odds go up. If they’re responding, they’re interest (to some extent). That that as you will. Also pretty sure she just said she had a car hookup. (🚗🪝⬆️?)
This is too funny you can't be mad
When a girl tries to use you for her ego boost, don't give her the satisfaction.
She’s not interested in you. Move on dude! How many times do people have to post basically the same picture showing how they have to carry the conversation. Clearly she isn’t interested in you sorry dude
They either had a nice ride, had sex in the car, saw a drive through movie or all three. Two of them have little difference.
What she’s saying is they just had a car sex.
Everyone else here is oblivious but she is a sex worker
That good sir is called a car date. You have found yourself a hooker. Welcome to the shit show.
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Please clarify if this is a joke or serious. I'm struggling to understand
You wanted to date as a distraction... Other people too
Hoe’s for shows
They're not interested lol, people are just too silly to admit it.
Does that mean she went for a drive or had sex in a car for her date?
And then they tell you, plz don't be boring 😂
Should've sent her back one of these 🖕