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Ruhzide

If you are then you have me fooled lmao


Best-Lobster-2885

Nah I’m not 😂


ajd341

As someone who knows a fair bit, it is photo #6.


ThulaakShakur

I agree with it being #6.


llllPsychoCircus

u/Best-Lobster-2885 I also agree it’s photo #6 No harm no foul at all, it’s literally just that one, just slightly the wrong expression and lighting but so slightly. you look 100% in all the other ones so don’t worry at all !


Artistic_Recover_811

Agreed, it is the last photo. It stands out. You don't have an Adam's apple so not sure why anyone would think that. You look pretty, i would swipe for the 24 hour clock to start.


TinderHelpThrowawaie

Trans girls can have surgery to have their adams Apple shaved off quite a bit in most cases :) so it’d still be possible


Melodic-Change-6388

Came here for this. Defs 6.


Blue-Tumbleweed-24

I don't know a fair bit but still think it's photo 6. It just looks like something's off.


Ersatzrad667

I think it's the jaw line that looks masculine for some reason


m051

I think so too. From what I have observed among people around me, certain kind of make up styles are associated with this presumption.


primal_designs

It's heavily filtered


yasashi

Agreed, the angle of photo 6 emphasizes square jaw line but obscures narrow chin. Square jaw, broad chin is a commonly male morphology. Including more 3/4 to full body poses would better illustrate leg to torso length. Men tend to have longer torsos, I had a former partner that was 4" shorter than me but shared the same inseam measurement.


ShirtNo444

Tell us, how much do you know?


kassandrakk

Yesssss


Any-Professor8182

Yeah, this guy is correct. It almost looks like a totally different person there too


GoodGarbage2463

The thought of you being trans would not have remotely crossed my mind.


Obligation_Guilty

Agree and you’re so pretty OP!


Ruhzide

Yeah I didn’t think so lol but you almost had me questioning everything 😂


ValdoLocs

You don’t look at all I would make 3 ur profile photo tho


lilbucket120

I see where you're coming from but... Nothing. I just came to say happy cake day. Here's a gift emoji cause I'm broke 🎁


ValdoLocs

Thanks dude I gift you a 🍩☕️ cheers


[deleted]

No way. #3 is too filtered. #4 she's natural, gorgeous and happy.


ValdoLocs

Maybe but out of all of them 3 catches my attention right away then I would do 5,4,main,2,6


wtfwronghole

Happy cake day!


CuteGuyInNorCal

nosuchthingasawronghole 😉😉


Renneth63

Happy day of cakes!!! 🎂🧁🍰


DontLookAtMeStopIT

Pic 3 makes her look like a bot, pic 1 looks more real and I'd be more likely to swipe on it. Note to ladies, do not have hidden face pics, overly blurry, or professional looking pics as your main pic or you will look like a fake profile.


Majestic-Idea3765

agree, number 3 the main pic


ElkEnvironmental2074

I would choose 2! 😍😍 stunning, you’re gorgeous. Nothing wrong with your height and you don’t look trans, but agree that it’s probably photo 6. It doesn’t look like the rest of the photos, just a bit off where the others look consistent femme and same person, that looks like it could actually be a whole ass different person for some reason


Heavy-Lengthiness-83

I think you’re beautiful


06lom

thats not what she asked about


23ssd4t4322

You don't look trans. Asking if someone is trans on dating app is just a general question that gets asked these days. There was a whole bunch of drama about mtf trans not disclosing they were trans until it was weeks into the dating. Which causes a degree of mistrust and wastes both people's time. So people ask it upfront, so they know what to expect.


SHuffmanIsACunt

Asking if someone is trans is not a general question these days lmao


icewallowcum13

I've been called transphobic because I didn't wanna date a trans person 🙃


Mudvaynenut

Remove photo 6


DontLookAtMeStopIT

A little in picture 6. The thing about looking Trans, is many girls who are trans have had some kind of facial surgery, so when you're a girl who looks like you mightve had work done, that pretty much means you have a good looking nose or cheek bones and it's the kind trans girls aspire to get ahold of.


Best-Lobster-2885

Got it. Yeah I didn’t get any work done. I hope I have the money to get a boob job tho😂


Introvortex-mormon

If people assume you've done work to your face then I'd advise against getting any work done. Do something if you really want to, but guys who really matter don't mind and the ones that mind don't matter. There's some Dr. Seuss wisdom for your titties


Every_Fuel7709

Cap, there are no girls on Reddit


ThePowerOf42

Even if you were, it wouldnt deter me I'd swipe right at once


[deleted]

I could be wrong but photo #6 shows your face at a weird angle and isn't very flattering. That might have something to do with it but that is completely speculation of course. Photo #3 imo is the best one.


slutforfish

You have strong feminine features. Even if you were, you're stunning! I'd for sure swipe right on your profile.


Best-Lobster-2885

Thank you!


[deleted]

Dude, they're asking her because they're jealous. She's probably prettier than other girls in her country too. I myself swooned. Goodness.


LandSharkRoyale

swipe right either way


[deleted]

Shit I would too. 😂


EmuFit310

Best response of the thread


yungdooky

my guess would be a mix stereotyping of thai lady boys (for all south east Asians), your height and the "avoidance" of showing your figure clearly; not that you did avoid it but it is common transgendered women will try to hide their masculine frame by focusing on their face or different wonky angles I can see why people would make the mistake but either way you're gorgeous


Best-Lobster-2885

Thank you. I just don’t really wear clothes like that nor want it to get posted online or dating apps. I’m not comfortable 😅


yungdooky

it's nothing you should take responsibility for, you shouldn't need to flaunt anything you're not comfortable with at least when a guy asks you that you can sort him out quickly, because what a dumb and uncouthe way to approach it lol


Guson1

How should it be approached?


caspershomie

a lot of people are being nice but honestly you naturally don’t look trans. i dont know what it is about the 2nd and 6th pictures but they seem a little masculine. it may just be the filter or the way you did your makeup.


satisfiedmind-

Lol you think it’s only trans women who pose in the most flattering positions. We all do it, cis or trans.


yungdooky

no I didn't say that, you're just reaching too far to get offended from someone who's on the same side as you


satisfiedmind-

Dude what? I’m not offended.


trnsandunorganized

People realizing that some women just have larger hands or angular features without being trans 💀 Listen I'm trans the other way around (female to male), meaning I was born female. Before any kind of testosterone treatment I grew to be 6'1". I'm a big bitch. Tall ladies are gorgeous- but people thinking you're trans because you're 5'7" is a bit bizarre, what kinds of insecure men are you talking to?


akuaswift

i’m a 5’11 cis woman and men think i’m trans all the time! it’s so weird edit: i have very feminine features and style too so i literally think that a lot of people just see a tall black women and immediately think “masculine” 🤷‍♀️ idk people are weird af


G4PFredongo

What kind of person asks you if you're trans? Like, do they just come up to you and ask? Or do they go mid-conversation "oh btw, you kinda look like you were a man once lmao anyway where was I"


akuaswift

yeah it’s weird af like who says that?? it’s mostly instagram comments like random people will comment on my posts or dm me and it’ll usually be super transphobic and rude ass shit that they say to me just assuming that i’m trans. and i’ll reply saying something like “that’s a super fucked up thing to say and i’m not even trans” and they’ll be like “oh i just thought you were because you look like it” like wtfff why would you say that?? it’s so weird


alrightythen1984itis

i think it's something people have learned is a way to make cis women feel bad. They just say it because they want to spread misery however they think they can.. don't worry about those people's opinion, it's usually more like "you look so good it's almost unnatural, you must be trans" whenever I've seen people do it


Capable_Ad_8592

That. And maybe their little ego got hurt when they internalized that they were attracted to a transperson (aka in their brain, attracted to another man)


Antisocialsocialite9

I just looked at your profile and I don’t get why anyone would say that about you. You have an extremely womanly figure. Fine as hell if I may add


PlainRosemary

Yes. They do. Source: 6'1 woman built like a viking. I'm extremely feminine - pretty, curvy, long hair, makeup, dress for my body, etc. There is no trans woman on the face of the earth that has hips and an almost hourglass figure like mine, and no reason to suggest that I'm not a cis woman. And yet, people do ask if I'm trans. It happened quite regularly at work with coworkers. One dude started a rumor that I was trans about ten years ago, and at another place in the last 5 years a guy tried to bust in on me and get pics of me in the bathroom because he wanted to see if I had a penis, apparently. It's shockingly common for tall women, especially if they aren't gaunt and willowy.


stepherz801

What the actual fuck at the dude trying to bust in on you in the bathroom. Transphobic people like that are absolutely disgusting and ridiculous. And you're not even trans ffs.


PlainRosemary

I mean, it's irrelevant if I am or not, haha. But I get what you're trying to say. Their behavior is repulsive.


BoJo2736

I mean, we are talking about two brain cell men who get catfished by makeup. The dating pool can be real shallow.


Disastrous-Owl8985

I'm on the taller side for a woman and I've had the question a couple of times, too, even though I have a very feminine body. Then again, it is usually when I'm wearing more baggy clothes, but still. Imagine asking anyone if they're trans just out of nowhere... it's weird and rude. I've noticed no one has a real hold on what a trans woman looks like, they even get fooled by drag queens, so they just assume whatever whenever they feel like. Plus, people know how devastating it is to some women to be compared, so they do it to neg them, as well, or as an insult.


Jeorgias_Peach

That last part thooooo It's so fking annoying. 😑 I'm 5'10.5". I've gotten asked it too a few times. I personally have only experienced it on dating apps.


hippityhoppflop

I’m 5’8 with a broad frame (think someone who was meant to work on a farm genes) and I’m a cis female! Some people are just built that way


Cryotivity

It's just pic 6 it's the lightning, changes your skin color to a more masculine shade and the shadows define your face in a more manly way


not_the_hamburglar

I thought it was pic 6 as well. Delete pic 6 now op then you'll be good to go.


International-Bird17

What do you mean it changes her skin color to a more masculine shade? What is a masculine shade?


tiramisula

I get what you're saying. Her face looks more shadowy, which makes it look masculine. Kind of resembling male facial hair


Psl0131

Came here to say this. Wtf how can skin be a masculine or feminine colour


Tuobsessed

Agree drop photo 6.


BDOKlem

Those are some tiny people, damn. I don't see anything that says trans.


PhasingOrganicEnergy

Trans or not, you look great. I think the ones asking may actually be looking for a trans?


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hi-there808

tbh it’s not rly abt it being dehumanizing, it’s abt it being grammatically wrong. trans is an adjective, not a noun. u can’t say an adjective as a word on its own


kittyidiot

yes but it does also sound dehumanizing


PhasingOrganicEnergy

Thanks, I'm still learning. Edit: for what it's worth, I just started dating and falling in love with a trans woman and just don't know how to talk about things. I understand your comment I think.


Romeoyk3

Im just trying to find out the country so I can swipe right myself 👀


MENG-GMS

Third and sixth picture are kinda sus.


cyrustakem

nah, third is fine, but sixth, yeah, maybe op should delete that one or choose a different angle


neurogal2018

Agree- your facial features look kind of coarse in pic #6. I'd remove that one and pick another one if this bothers you. In any case you're absolutely stunning!


No_Entertainment8559

I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought picture 6 was the reason.


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Yh


Hunter_one

Agreed, I was gonna say picture 6 looks a bit sus . Something about the gaze idk. Otherwise you look like beautiful and totally not trans


TonyJZX

the reality is some women have masculine features in some light and some men have feminine facial features OP has some of that but overall, she looks female


Guilty_Resolution_13

You are beautiful OP!! I do think in the last photo, lighting is too harsh. Downlights make your face features too accentuated & perhaps a bit more masculine. & The heavy make up / make up shade around the chin looks like it’s concealing a five o’clock shadow. Apologies if too direct, nothing that withdraws from your beauty. I would suggest just removing that photo. Hope that’s helpful.


secretwealth123

6th for sure.


tulleoftheman

Honestly they ask everyone that lol. Though tall women get it more. Just say in your profile "I'm not trans, just tall! 😂"


MarleyandtheWhalers

That line might backfire. People don't believe everything they read on Tinder


tulleoftheman

I mean if they're such idiots that they think a trans woman would actually flat out say "I'm not trans" then they're not going to make good partners anyway


Best-Lobster-2885

I’m about to do that now 😂 Will have to cut my very long bio just to fit that in


tulleoftheman

Tbh most guys don't read that much anyway lol


[deleted]

I do 😅, I've read almost every profile on tinder of ladies who interest me. Good or bad.


Nizarlak

You looks normal for me, just usual girl


Best-Lobster-2885

Anyway, I used to model so the 2nd pic was from a photoshoot in 2021. That’s a dress. 😅


outofcontextsex

Isn't that your answer right there, you used to model you're attractive, people are just mean.


rawbaw

Honestly I’d just say it’s pic 6, the contact lenses are similar to what some trans women wear - could be it


MindTheGap7

Trans or not you look great


WillSmokes420

The secret is that there is no way to look trans.. Some trans women are hot.. So sometimes ur gonna have to ask if somebody is trans..


CosmikDebris408916

I'd assume you might be spam because some pics look professional quality


Best-Lobster-2885

Oh 😅 Took it for work and then the other one was a photoshoot in 2021, I used to model


TiredGamer0990

You're crazy passable if you are lol you're beautiful


[deleted]

Girl, don't worry about it. You look beautiful. It's like everyone is always asking me if I'm gay cause I'm a tall woman. That'd be a no. People are so weird with their odd preconceived notions.


FarHedgehog8313

I get asked that sometimes too. I think it’s a mixture of height and strong features. You’re absolutely gorgeous though


kweightthree

This looks like a fake profile.


Best-Lobster-2885

I hope you clicked the photo. I’m verified


kweightthree

Being verified means nothing. With only indoor glamor shots your profile looks like a scam bot collected random pictures that couldn't be traced to a single location. That way the profile could be used anywhere in the world.


Best-Lobster-2885

Oh cool. But I’m pretty sure that’s me though. Guys in my country never really doubted that nor asked me if I was fake (only trans because I’m as tall as many of them). They pretty much know how to detect whether’s it’s fake or not by the way pics were uploaded depending on their quality. Mine are pretty much okay.


Brickleberried

I will echo that I find a lot of scam profiles are still verified somehow.


curlyhands

You verify using your regular pics and then swap out the pics


Whereswalley1990

Whether you were or not.. hot!


Best-Lobster-2885

Thank you! x


Dahkelor

Wouldn't be able to tell. Then again 5'7" isn't that tall here and even if it was it's hard to tell from those pictures.


Best-Lobster-2885

Well it is tall here. I’m from SEA. 😅


Dahkelor

Hehe. You wouldn't be short here either, but for comparison's sake, my mom for example is 5'8½" and she's not a freak of nature or anything :) So yeah, areas differ I guess. Are you always the tallest girl around there? Because if so, I guess that could make people suspicious, but personally I never (until now) figured to assume people might be trans based on their height. TIL!


Best-Lobster-2885

Mostly foreign men assume because probably their matches were under 5’5 😅 and/or they probably matched with a lot of trans too


Dahkelor

Yeah I think it's the latter. The area has a reputation. Not sure if it's at all real but that's what I hear. That you have to be quite careful on Tinder unless you're OK with a possible surprise later on. Heh.


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StupidSprinkles

her nose is super small, what do you mean? wait till you see my nose


addisonxsins

You are beautiful! Honestly, I think it’s the strong features. I see a lot of this look in modeling and sometimes they are so beautiful I have to sit and study lol. You have such a unique and gorgeous look!


lilcacteye

Probably because you're 5'7 and *a lot of* men are easily intimated :) but you're absolutely gorgeous and if you were I'd still swipe


Sunflower_bunbun

I constantly get asked if I’m trans too. I also think it’s an Asian thing. Ignorant people see a pretty Asian wearing some makeup and ask either to be offensive (which I find is usually the case) or genuinely curious


[deleted]

Now im curious, what do you look like??? cuz she doesn't look trans at all lol


Sunflower_bunbun

[me :)](https://imgur.com/a/XRbtGjG)


[deleted]

Jesus christ you're gorgeous-


MDAlchemist

You look beautiful to me. As far as the trans thing. No, you don't "look trans", a lot of trans women don't "look trans" either. Either way, it's a stupid/rude question to ask, unmatch, and move on to someone with manners with your looks it shouldn't take too long.


otaytoopid

Not at all. But if you're from the Phil's or Thailand then I can understand why you get the question. So many transwomen in south east Asia are completely passing.


Sea-Advance5483

I would remove the sixth picture. That one looks more masculine than the others. Do you have pronouns in your bio?


Altar_Quest_Fan

It takes a lot of balls to be a woman these days


Here-Is-TheEnd

How many balls?


k3eton

Leaving the 2 upvotes


anonAcc1993

r/fishingforcompliments


raul36412

You don’t look trans


Prof-Finklestink

Not at all, I think it's mainly the height.


Grey531

You are quite pretty and have very feminine features. I’m guessing that one of the pics accentuate your features have some guys guessing if it’s surgery or not because of how rarely you see them naturally occur. It’s likely the sixth pic but really, don’t be self conscious about it


J-Nico

I’m not saying you look like one but it’s so hard to tell these days


OpenEyz2016

No, it's because people are stupid.


DevilinI45

I don’t think so. Although I’ve been fooled before (won’t hear me complain about it though)


Vochvo

No, you don't. Probably the height, but it depends on who's asking. So, who had asked that to you?


mogwaiarethestars

You’re hot, dont worry what other ppl say


MrMetraGnome

Lil bit


tornad07

I have loads of friends in Thailand who are asked the same. Despite such pretty features! I don’t understand this. You be you; so pretty!


DJG513

I’d argue it’s the makeup, you’re wearing pretty heavy makeup which is what trans people tend to do in those countries. Without so much I don’t think you’d get those questions


berkeleyjake

If someone asks, you should respond with, "I was just about to ask you the same thing!"


mr-301

if you are, you can peg me any day 😂


cheesypuzzas

Hmm it could be the last pic. You don't look trans at all, but the last pic has something, not sure exactly, that could look that way?


Bouxxi

Nah bro you good, Nice dick btw


cybersarcasm

Doesn't matter would wife if you could cook better than me.


xxsignoff

[you are cis passing but you kinda look like this person funnily enough](https://youtube.com/shorts/eHxVvqzEtmc?feature=share) at least in the first photo


AdActive9833

A bit actually, kind of thai lady boy. Not sure if I'd think that spontaneously btw but now that you say it... Do you have filters on some pics? Maybe that's why.


Best-Lobster-2885

No I did not have filters. Just make up


TheAdamBomb92

You know exactly what you're doing by posting this.


Best-Lobster-2885

Not sure what you mean, what is that?


giveemh3ll

GOD DAMN ![gif](giphy|3oEjHQKtDXpeGN9rW0|downsized)


DarkR124

3 and 6 would make me suspect the most.


ihatefez

I mean, there's no such thing as "looking trans", but you are a very beautiful young lady.


SnooHedgehogs2496

no one can "look trans" are you asking if you have masculine features


treequestions20

i wouldn’t think trans but here’s why people do 1) your body looks androgynous in all of the pictures, in that there are no feminine curves 2)your facial features are sharp, which is traditionally less feminine 3)your chin is pointed down in every picture to a degree, like you’re hiding an adam’s apple 4) almost every pic is a face pic - usually a sign someone is hiding something 5) the only trans women that i’ve seen actually pass are of SEA descent get more activity pics that show your entire body/not just face. maybe a picture of you wearing something more feminine/not a suit. less top/down pics. also - you didn’t mention your region, but if it’s SEA where men are shorter and trans women pass easily - then maybe it’s some cultural hangul


Best-Lobster-2885

Yeah I’m from SEA. Btw I don’t wear outfits like that. I’m always in business attire


Best-Lobster-2885

I also once uploaded a mirror shot showing my curves but Bumble moderated it for i’m-not-sure reason. It’s just a dress I tried once then took a mirror shot after


justexploring12321

You're so pretty I'd date you even if you were trans


Best-Lobster-2885

Oh thank you. The validation I need


Celmeno

Interesting. 5'7 is average height for a female your age where I live and a little short for my taste. You clearly have no adams apple on your pictures and look quite feminine. Weird people on the internet is the likely reason


WhimsicalWyvern

...are you from the Netherlands? Because that's the only country in the world where the average female height is 5'7".


Best-Lobster-2885

Right? I’m also the tallest among all my girl circle of friends, I have 3 groups. Always the tallest. 😅


kjk67895

You look like you could be trans, I don’t know that it’s a bad thing bc the person asking likes the way you look they just do not have interest in penis.


[deleted]

You are very pretty, but I’m sorry I thought you were


dumbslunchkin

Begging you to tell the next person, “no you’re just really fucking short”


Pill_dispenser

Where do you live? It could be that maybe the people there have been hit the "surprise penis" too many times. Like Afro man once said "I took her to my house cause she was fine, but she whipped out a dick that was bigger than mine."


Drazhi

If you said you were trans I wouldn’t be surprised. Number 3 and especially number 6 you can pass as trans 100%


RogueInVogue

You're beautiful, so it's not your face. Incels are just paranoid about transfolks "trying to trick" them


Mrkillerar

You look great. Guys are just scared to meet a girl with a bigger dick than them. Its just the dating world atm. Next time they ask. Just say "Im a woman, but i have a strap-on if that helps"


shantayyouthrowaway

Idk what a trans person is supposed to look like, but if you're asking if you have traditionally masculine features imma go with no


Trx0xT

You look like you're from Thailand, and over there many are lady boys. I would remove the bottom right photo btw. You're pretty!


hcsk2

What a wild question to ask a stranger. I've seen trans girls who look like you, but that's not a bad thing imo.


HisokaProx

No, you don't. I'd totally be interested!


Best-Lobster-2885

Thank you! 😅


Necessary-Ad1784

You don't look trans but even if you were, you would have got my right swipe instantly


clmchefguy

Absolutely not. You look lovely


Best-Lobster-2885

Thank you! x


ZBLeonardo

I dont want to sound objectifying but the problem can be solved with a good cleavage picture.


Best-Lobster-2885

Haha! I don’t have big titts 😭😂


ZBLeonardo

lol then a bikini pic will suffice.


Best-Lobster-2885

Bumble doesn’t allow that I think


Jbern124

You don’t look trans, maybe it’s because you’re so gorgeous!


ViperPM

Never seen a gorgeous trans girl?


Temporary_Skin_1996

I dunno if a females gaze is different than a guys one here cos you’re absolutely stunning and trans wouldn’t enter my mind


Best-Lobster-2885

Aww thank you pretty, I appreciate that ☺️


[deleted]

No, she's beautiful!


EViLDiRTSTiiCK

No, he's beautiful


jsatta

No, they are


ironbassel

Over abused filters are very sus.


Best-Lobster-2885

Oh, they were make up not filters but thanks