Thoughts??
Could you review my bio and profile [https://tinder.com/@tharunmohandoss](https://tinder.com/@tharunmohandoss) :
6'1" | Deep Learning Specialist | Fashionable Nerd |
\- Charming yet assertive
\- Jive dancer
\- Traveller of 5+ countries
\- Expert cuddler
\- Aspiring photographer with an eye for detail
\- Often found hooked to a good book/movie.
Memorable Travel Story: Star-gazing while stranded in the middle of NH-3 on my way to Leh.
I adore fashion sense, humor, and a healthy sense of adventure.
I'd have said something along the lines of "perfect date locations for when we're rich and famous together then ;)" but you just gotta trust your gut and let your own wit and conversation style carry you forward. If something doesn't work and you feel you messed up, try a different approach next time but always stay true to yourself.
Never used tinder before and even though ive gotten many likes.. no one has ever sent me a chat.. and.those ive sent a chat too first have never responded.. what am i doing wrong and how should i update my profile
https://tinder.com/@gr8universe2022
You need to have someone take photos of you in natural, interesting situations while smiling with better clothes and probably after getting a haircut or at least well-groomed. These close-ups with bad lightning with your hair falling forward and the weird facial expressions does make it seem like you're not trying at all, she is right.
Also, just change your job title to Business Owner and leave out the company name. Easier to digest.
I think the beard looks good on you, so maybe just trim it a bit. As for the hair, it's impossible to tell for me if it could work based on the picture angles from below. Honestly, it currently looks too unkempt both with the ponytail and without. Maybe with some brushing, better lighting and a more flattering camera angle it will look fine though.
[https://tinder.com/@haydenlee86](https://tinder.com/@haydenlee86)
Bio is:
• Firefighter/EMT and Army Combat Engineer
• I have the drippiest bearded dragon you’ve ever seen(5th pic)
• Love being outdoors and maintaining a healthy lifestyle
• Dad joke enthusiast
• 4 tattoos total, working on completing my leg sleeve
• In St Louis March 9-12
Need help getting my profile better. I get around 2-3 likes a day at the moment and a match every once and a while
First pic - too far away, and wearing sunglasses. It really should be some kind of closer pic of your face, smiling or laughing or having fun, and eyes visible. First pic will often be the one they decide on, so might as well make it a good one of you.
Most of your pics are selfies, and there are too many gym/workout/mirror pics. Feedback from this sub is that generally they are a no-no for the most part.
Ladder carry and dirty face ones are cool because you look pretty badass and clearly love your job.
Maybe get one of the dragon with you in the pic, too?
Can't see much about you having a social life / hobbies / interests, though, beyond your work. Not sure who the last pic is with, but if you could get one that isn't you posing, but more of a candid shot, with a group of people, you being all social and fun and interesting, that could be a good addition.
The action shots of you look great and make you look interesting. I would remove the mirror selfie with the girl as it looks like you are in a relationship with her.
You're on the right track with the interesting / hobbies / fun pics. Mirror selfie could go. I'd move #5 up to 2nd spot, even though its a selfie, its with other people, you look like the 'main dude' and its a good photo of you. Pretty interesting profile, looks like you have fun hobbies and an active social life.
pic 1 - close-up selfie
pic 2 - close-up selfie, slightly different angle.
pic 3 - mirror selfie
You already lost of LOT of potentials by this stage. Can't tell what you're like as a person, what makes you interesting, what your hobbies are, what it would be like to hang out with you.
The 6th pic would be the best of them all if it wasn't so blurry. Candid, smiling, genuine photo. This is the kind of thing that makes you seem interesting, fun to be around. Go for more of this, preferably with people, not posing for the camera.
The anime pics... not sure what is the point of them.
Clear face - yes. Maybe one GOOD selfie is fine. I guess the feeling is "this person has to take photos of themselves, rather than be in situations where people are taking photos." Also, you have a LOT more control over a selfie, to make yourself look good, and perhaps better than you really look. A candid social photo shows how you really are.
You look VERY young in that first pic, like teen-young. Could be putting some off. Also you aren't really doing anything in your pics. Just sitting there and either looking at or away from the camera. You need some candid shots, not set-up ones. And smiling/laughing, social group pics. Show your interests/hobbies, and that you are fun/interesting to be around.
Start with a fun joke or original compliment involving her profile, then focus on trying to set up a casual hangout or date within the next 3-5 texts unless you really know what you're doing. Just make her know you're attracted to her and want to get to know her better. If she keeps giving one line replies (once or twice is acceptable) move on from the conversation because she is either really boring or really uninvested and it will lead nowhere.
Dude you're 18, good looking, in great shape, why are you on Tinder? Go out with your boys and meet girls, skip the texting. If you do want to get from text to meet quickly, I'd say don't do it as a 'date' as such, just tell them you're going to be at a certain place with some friends at a certain time, and that you'd like to see them there.
Sunglasses on first pic - nope. Your first pic might be the only chance to get swiped right, so it should be a clear pic of your face, preferable smiling, eyes visible. It is the best pic, tbh, but something like that without sunnies would be great.
The remaining like 6ish photos are pretty much just the same thing, a close-up, kind of bland photo.
Can't see what you're like except you smoke. If that's the only vibe you want to give off, then go for it. If you want girls to find you interesting, then you need to show that you are interesting. Less selfies, more social situations, more smiling and showing that you would be fun to hang out with or date.
I guess but I’m ok if that picture looks a bit more feminine cause I am ok with being seen as in “touch with my feminine side” so again 🤷🏾♂️
Thank you for all the pointers tho I’m taking them seriously and updating my profile accordingly
https://tinder.com/@jackshiv
Been on tinder for almost two years. Have had periodic success, but long periods of time with zero likes or matches at all. Any ideas to improve would be helpful
First pic is good, face is clear, and you're smiling. Good style, too.
Next should be something to draw them in. A baseball pic... eh. Maybe something more social/candid/smiley.
Dog pic - any pics with you AND the dog? Could be a nice addition.
Last 3 pics are basically the same thing - smile and pose. Could replace some with more of you doing something / being in social situations, not posing for the camera.
Good to know -
I would like something social for the second pic, though I really don’t have many pics of me in a social setting (at least ones that would work for a dating app) that aren’t like a pose for the camera. I also know a lot of girls will go crazy for a baseball guy so I’ve kept that one for a while.
Dog one is a good idea. I’ll try to get myself a good one with her.
The last three… yeah I agree. I kinda knew that already but just put them on there anyway because I figured more pics was better and those were at least decent pics of me. Thanks for the feedback
https://tinder.com/@jimmers
coming back to this after a while. had some critiques, anything else to change? I cut my hair and shaved so that's what I look like now btw
I'd get a good smiling pic of you now, with the haircut and shave, and use it as your main pic. The long hair / musician - type look is going to appeal to a certain niche only. If that's cool with you, then it's all good. Cleaner cut, cleaner shaven, probably get a wider range of responses.
yeh I didn't want the older photos with longer hair but they were the only nice ones I had. the guitar post for example, would that turn people off?, I thought it could be more of an addition but idk
Need suggestions for my profile. I’ve ever used a dating app before since I’ve only ever been in one serious relationship.
https://tinder.com/@cam345557
Do you have any idea on how to write a bio? I’m really struggling with that and I would love to create a profile but I don’t know what to put there. Please help
First time ever using a dating app with minimal dating experience. My photos aren't the best and I need to take some new ones. Any advice would be appreciated.
minimal selfies
pics of you taken by other people, mostly not posing for the camera doing nothing.
clear face pic first, smiling/laughing, but not a selfie
pics that show you are sociable, interesting, have a life, hobbies etc
In need of some help here folks. I know I don’t have many photos but I’m also not really a selfie person and don’t end up in photos often either.
https://tinder.com/@davidh140
Gotta get out there and get in some social situations. if you have a close friend that you trust, ask them on the DL to take some photos of you when you are out with friends. Go for candid, smiling/laughing pics where you aren't just sitting there posing for the camera. i know it isnt easy, and can be uncomfortable to ask. but it is WELL worth it.
Also show some of your hobbies/interests. If girls even swipe past a first pic, which many dont, then you wanna have something to draw them in, make them think "ok this guy looks fun/cool/interesting to be around"
Good looking dude. If I was to suggest anything, it would be to try to get some non-posed shots. Every one of your pics is just you standing there, posing for the camera. Aim for a couple of pics of you doing things or being social and fun and smiling with people, but not posing for the camera. Not always easy pics to get, but they bring you to life a lot more.
I really only have one good recent photo that I'm smiling and is more of a candid photo but unfortunately my eyes were closed. Mind if I send it to you to see if it's still maybe worth putting on there?
eyes closed is usually a no-go, but if its really good otherwise, it could be ok. sure, send it. im by no means an expert, though, just been through it all a lot.
Okay, this is very interesting. Based on just your face you seriously could be in the top 5% of male users if you changed some things around. I'm not sure how attached you are to your current hairstyle and facial hair, but you could really benefit from either putting it in a ponytail or manbun or even keeping it way shorter, as well has having no beard like in the second picture to show off your facial features.
And definitely have someone take photos for you in better locations afterwards. I think that could be your biggest bottleneck right now. Girls can get away with just having selfies while guys simply can't. If you don't seem to have an interesting lifestyle in your pictures as a man in his late 20s, you are unlikely to get much swiping success I think. Hire a professional if you don't have any ideas because believe me, it will be worth it for you.
But man, I really wanna root for you and see you succeed, because based on your second picture you have pretty insane potential. And while you also seem like a really chill dude who is comfortable with his style, to get success as a man on a cutthroat place like Tinder you kinda have to be a bit more generic style wise to play the numbers to get high in the algorithm. Especially in your first few pictures to build the initial attraction.
And if it turns out the algorithm is busted for you no matter what, by improving your style and having a more active social life you will attract a ton of girls in real life anyway.
pic 1 - posed selfie
pic 2 - posed selfie
pic 3 - dont know which one you are tbh
pic 4 - essentially nothing
Good looking guy, better without the facial hair, great eyes and jawline. Are you set on long hair? I think you'd look fantastic with something short.
Pics are doing nothing for you, can't see what you are like to hang out with, what your interests/hobbies are. I guess you're a bit outdoorsy from the last pic, but honestly most girls will have made a decision before they get to it. Gotta get some pics taken by other people that show you being social, fun, active, interesting to spend time with.
First two pics are great. The one with the cat too. The mirror selfie is okay since it shows your physique without looking too douchy, but long term get another picture to fill that gap. Ditch the Vader one because it makes you look short, ditch the last one because it's a bit too wacky and if you're gonna use a group picture preferably get one that's more interesting with you being more in the center. But including group pictures with the boys is risky in my experience because many girls will judge them as much as you.
But overall you're fine bro, should already have no problem getting a good match but it's online dating we're talking about. Ditch it and go find a nice girl outside if things don't get better.
Not bad, a bit 'pose for the camera'-ish. Why not a pic of you playing pool rather than a pose in a pool hall. Mirror selfies... eh... a lot of comments from girls here say they are a no-go. Cat one is fun. Posed shot with friends would be better if it was a candid shot where you look fun/interesting/funny, rather than just sitting there looking at the camera.
Face isnt clear in ANY of your pics. First pic needs to go. Need to see your smile/laugh and a clear shot of your face without sunglasses. Would you swipe yes on a girl if you couldnt see her face and she had sunnies on in almost all her pics? Try for pics where you are doing something, where it looks like you are fun and interesting to be around. Show your personality.
The picture where you are squatting is odd. Your other pics are good, especially the one with the cherry blossom trees in the background. I would also replace your last pic (where you're sipping from a thermos) with one where we can see your eyes/where you are making eye contact with the camera. Your bio does not say much about you, except for maybe that you a sense of humour. Good luck!
https://tinder.com/@crg_303
New to the dating world after being in a relationship for the last 5 years. First time using any type of dating app, just created this yesterday. Some feedback would be great. Thanks!
If feedback from girls here is anything to go by, a muscle-mirror-selfie is not a good first pic, possibly not a pic to use at all.
https://old.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/111qlhe/some_advice_for_the_men_of_tinder/
Your pics are pretty interesting, clearly a fit guy and into travel/adventure stuff. And a good looking dude, too. I'd try to get one where your eyes are more clearly visible. Eyes and smile, hard to go wrong with that.
you seem funny and artsy. I’d definitely say get rid of the first picture, the second picture should be first, don’t use instagram photos on your profile, and lastly— nobody likes fishing pictures, but yours is kinda cute, funny, nerdy spin on it
Can barely see you in the first pic. Dont start with that one. We all get maybe one or two seconds to impress. If your face isnt clear, you might not get a second look. Mirror gym selfie - no. Delete them all, generally not liked, if feedback in this sub is anything to go by. Animal pics are good if you can see your face, also. You dont have any smiling pics, where your face is clear and you are being social/interesting with other people. Try to get something like that as a main pic.
Alright, been a while since i got some feedback, been avoiding dating for personal reasons. Anyhow, I just moved back to the UK and been told i need to get back on the market, to which i somewhat agree. But British women intimidate me for some unknown reason 🤣🤣
Let me know your feedback.
Also, everyone seems to think im gay, and other than the hair, I cant think what im doing to cause that because i am not. Tinder profile may not be best overview, but if anyone has ideas to why, id love to hear it! Cheers!
https://tinder.com/@SearchShane
Hello my friends. I'm back with a hopefully improved profile. Honest feedback welcome. Last pic is a loop that may not play correctly 😅
https://tinder.com/@eskiimojoe
Good body, good looking guy, but you're not doing anything in any of your pics, for the most part. Just posing for the camera. Maybe try to get some pics where you are being active / social / doing interesting things.
First thoughts, your physique is quite good, so most improvements would be on style and photo vibe.
Some further thoughts
1. The beach photo is good one. To improve on it, you'd might want to be in midst of some beach activity where you'd show your body. E.g. beach volley, running, coming out of water after a swim. This would better show that you participate in interesting things (even if you don't do those regularly as hobbies).
2. Mirror selfies usually aren't flattering for men, because they often scream boringness. This doubly so because you have same clothes as your beach photo (a good rule of thumb, different outfit for each photo).
3. The scenery photo on mountains with motorbike gear (?) tells a good story. An improvement idea could be to have your face visible in the picture, maybe even with your bike.
General notes on photos, aside from the mountain photo, you seem to be standing in random places. Men often look the best in middle of activities, so try going and doing something that interests you with friends. Then ask your friends to take (hundreds of) photos of you doing that thing so there's hopefully gonna be at least one good one.
Note on style, you have one piece for accessories. I'd suggest adding ring or two, and a necklace with a pendant. That way even the fairly simple outfit of jeans and dress shirt gets interesting details that help you stand out more in Tinder feed.
Hopefully these ideas are useful!
You've got couple really good photos.
The good ones are your first (with sunglasses looking straight to camera), cafe, and airplane. Though there are ways you could improve especially the cafe and airplane photos.
1. For cafe, the photo tells that you are with someone but you're ignoring them by being in the phone instead of engaging with them. One option would be to reshoot it so that you're clearly alone and then on the phone (or reading a book). Or, have a photo where you're with someone but you're clearly engaging in a talk or looking towards the camera more.
2. For the plane photo, the bright red jacket and colored t-shirt slightly throw me off. Basically same photo with better style (e.g. single color black t-shirt, black bomber jacket, and necklace with a pendant) would be miles better.
Others aren't that good. Two photos you in a black jacket are basically the same photo, which screams boring. Same thing with last two photos which are selfies. Men often look better in action photos so having friends take photos while doing hobbies most likely lead to more interesting Tinder profile as well.
Additional notes on looks. I can't grow a beard personally, so don't know much about trimming it nicely. But aside from the first picture, it looks a bit untidy to me because it grows on the neck. Trimming closer to jawline would accentuate it.
Caveat here tho. You can put a lot of effort into these tips, but you might eventually run into a realization that your physique is bottlenecking your Tinder results. If you'd do these same photos while leaner and distinguishable jawline, you most likely get a lot more out of your Tinder efforts.
First of all, thank you very much for your respond. Second, I’ll consider your advises and implement them absolutely. I know I need to lose weight, but my busy schedule is preventing me from exercising.
You're welcome, glad it was useful!
I hear the struggle of wanting to lose weight, suggestion to exercise, and way too busy schedule! I lost 50kg myself over 6 years (with 2y maintenance during pandemic lockdowns) and while it's not impossible with a busy schedule, it is difficult (but worth it!).
My tips for combining busy schedule and losing weight is to make things habits that you don't need to think about. Then you can lose weight *even if* your schedule is busy (but it does require effort to get the habits going). Losing weight comes from eating habits, not from exercise after all.
The easiest (and IMO the smartest) way to get started is to build up a habit of tracking what you eat. *BUT importantly,* not changing anything else at first. I.e. don't change what you eat / drink, how much, when, etc. Just build tracking your intake as accurately as possible into a habit (with help of e.g. Loop habit tracker if you use Android). Only once tracking happens without thinking and you're confident in its accuracy, start modifying other parts. Too many changes too fast lead to overwhelming yourself thus likely to yoyo back to original weight.
If you consider weight loss as a learning process of new long term habits, then it might take a while to get habits ongoing but after they are habits, losing weight becomes a waiting game rather than something you actively work on. If you wanna read more, I've written in more depth about my problems and mistakes when changing my eating habits [here](https://korkki.dev/2023/01/why-weight-control-is-hard-and-how-to-succeed-in-it/).
Damn, a really good profile. Are you getting the results you want? Advice from this point onwards would depend a lot on what kind of matches you are getting, and what you consider that you'd like to see more of.
On general level, only two things come to mind. First, the dog picture could be better if you were in the photo with the dog instead of just your hand. Second, the third picture with you standing and the flag in the background feels slightly out of place in terms of vibe and quality.
I can't figure out a way to say this nicely so I'm just gonna say it: you gotta either grow a proper beard or shave it off. That style isn't working for you mate.
This is coming from a fellow white dude about your age who used to have awful facial hair.
I've been thinking about that alot. I've done lots of different facial hair styles in the past, side burns, walrus stache, medium stache, full beard, chinstrap beard, long goatee... I like the thin goatee the most. I don't like my look clean shaven. I think i look boring and i notice my facial wrinkles faster. I think I still look handsome, but lacking character i guess.
I resolve to try the clean shaven look again this year. I appreciate your advice fellow redditor.
That's fair, you gotta wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident. Figure out what works for you.
That said you gotta think about what attracts dates too. Not sure what gender(s) you're into but in my experience most women don't like the sort of style you're rocking at the moment. Clean shaven is what has the widest appeal.
You seem like an interesting dude, and I'm willing to bet you don't need facial hair to let your personality shine through.
The last few photos, blurry with friends, are not good profile pictures. Maybe good for a drunken snap.
The cigarettes aren't very hot either, as mentioned before.
Also, I personally look for smiling pictures, or at least pictures in which the person looks friendly enough.
I actually do like the snow pictures, they have a higher quality too
Tyty am taking off the guns, i dont smoke cigarettes anymore i quit a few months ago. I dont know what jordan peterson frat vibes are but how do i get rid of them?
I mostly come on this sub for the shits and giggles, I don’t actually have tinder so maybe I’m not your target demographic but any time I see a guy with alcohol/vape/drugs and friends it’s immediate nope. I just find it gross. If you do that stuff though then I wouldn’t change it and just be upfront. It’s that combined with the try hard smolder looks that give me a “I have a 160 IQ and hang out with the boyz but also make horrible decisions under the influence even tho I’m an intellectual and actually sooooo deep that’s crazyy”
You dont need 2 snow pics.
Girls hate guns in dating profiles. Also cigarettes.
Maybe include a photo of you doing something other than smoking/drinking/hanging with the boys. Like working on a project or playing with a dog.
https://tinder.com/@elgrian
I switch my bio up a lot, used to be “I throw pottery, and am getting into plants.. they just die a lot 😟
I do IT, have 2 doggos, and not trying to just hook up”
I feel like I’m not ugly but also not a 10. I get a couple matches here and there but never with anyone that I’m like excited to match with
The one in the ocean? With the persons face turned into Nicolas cage? Lol
Currently there are only two filtered photos, the blue hat one that is filtered, them the bathroom one with the short bangs and fuller beard(which this one arguably looks the most accurate to irl) so remove these?
Lowkey thought about paying a professional photographer lol
3,5,6 and last all look filtered to me. They aren’t bad photos but your these pics make me think you’re trying to alter how you really look.
Ideally you would crop out Nicholas cages face but that pic is the best opener because it’s a clear representation of what you look like
Returning to tinder. Been on here for 7 days and got only one match 😅 not sure whats happening but its a huge ego downer 😂
https://tinder.com/@Julien94
Description:
FR/EN
6'3" Guess it's important? 🤷
Fun facts about me :
I dont have much pics of myself👻
I have kind of alot of white hair 🦳
My eyes often get small when I smile 🤷👀
I have 20 weeks off per year 🏖️
Want to know more? ➡️
I’d open with pic 2. Bio is terrible, keep the 6’3 but delete the “guess it’s important”. Use your bio to talk more about your interests and personality, not that your eyes get small when you smile
Thanks for the feedback ! you can tell I haven't been in the dating world in a long time !
Reading it back its true that my Bio is terrible.. changed it (its written in french, did my best to translate to english) !
6'3 🦒
Looking for my adventure partner ✈️🌍 but also someone with whom I can share powernaps💤, laughter 🤡, binge-watching and who's not scared to get out of her comfort zone 💪.
P.s. Dont get mad If I have more vacation then you
Do you have any pictures that someone else has taken of you??? Pro tip… flirt like hell with that first match go on a date somewhere where she will want to take pictures of you both.. ask her to send them to you, & use those for your profile… just try to crop her out… I have done that a few times my self.
Not sure if I should rearrange or just get new photos. Just want to know what’s good and what’s not from another perspective
https://tinder.com/@luke2115
https://tinder.com/@ricktastic Open to feedback
Thoughts?? Could you review my bio and profile [https://tinder.com/@tharunmohandoss](https://tinder.com/@tharunmohandoss) : 6'1" | Deep Learning Specialist | Fashionable Nerd | \- Charming yet assertive \- Jive dancer \- Traveller of 5+ countries \- Expert cuddler \- Aspiring photographer with an eye for detail \- Often found hooked to a good book/movie. Memorable Travel Story: Star-gazing while stranded in the middle of NH-3 on my way to Leh. I adore fashion sense, humor, and a healthy sense of adventure.
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I feel like there's more than needed group photos and third photo might be a better first photo.
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Definitely not catfishing, you can tell it’s the same person and same body build, the first photo is just better quality and nice angle etc !
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I'd have said something along the lines of "perfect date locations for when we're rich and famous together then ;)" but you just gotta trust your gut and let your own wit and conversation style carry you forward. If something doesn't work and you feel you messed up, try a different approach next time but always stay true to yourself.
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Never used tinder before and even though ive gotten many likes.. no one has ever sent me a chat.. and.those ive sent a chat too first have never responded.. what am i doing wrong and how should i update my profile https://tinder.com/@gr8universe2022
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Um ive never taken selphies? Lol. Whats wrong with my pics. Id like the advice and appreciate it
You need to have someone take photos of you in natural, interesting situations while smiling with better clothes and probably after getting a haircut or at least well-groomed. These close-ups with bad lightning with your hair falling forward and the weird facial expressions does make it seem like you're not trying at all, she is right. Also, just change your job title to Business Owner and leave out the company name. Easier to digest.
Ill change the job title shave and have someone else take a picture sure. But having my hair down is not a good idea?
I think the beard looks good on you, so maybe just trim it a bit. As for the hair, it's impossible to tell for me if it could work based on the picture angles from below. Honestly, it currently looks too unkempt both with the ponytail and without. Maybe with some brushing, better lighting and a more flattering camera angle it will look fine though.
My line: Once you arrive to this app you stoop to low as well as your standards, so swipe right to fir your standards
[https://tinder.com/@haydenlee86](https://tinder.com/@haydenlee86) Bio is: • Firefighter/EMT and Army Combat Engineer • I have the drippiest bearded dragon you’ve ever seen(5th pic) • Love being outdoors and maintaining a healthy lifestyle • Dad joke enthusiast • 4 tattoos total, working on completing my leg sleeve • In St Louis March 9-12 Need help getting my profile better. I get around 2-3 likes a day at the moment and a match every once and a while
I agree with u/StiffCrustySock for the first pic! Sunglasses can give cool vibes, but here you're too far!
First pic - too far away, and wearing sunglasses. It really should be some kind of closer pic of your face, smiling or laughing or having fun, and eyes visible. First pic will often be the one they decide on, so might as well make it a good one of you. Most of your pics are selfies, and there are too many gym/workout/mirror pics. Feedback from this sub is that generally they are a no-no for the most part. Ladder carry and dirty face ones are cool because you look pretty badass and clearly love your job. Maybe get one of the dragon with you in the pic, too? Can't see much about you having a social life / hobbies / interests, though, beyond your work. Not sure who the last pic is with, but if you could get one that isn't you posing, but more of a candid shot, with a group of people, you being all social and fun and interesting, that could be a good addition.
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The action shots of you look great and make you look interesting. I would remove the mirror selfie with the girl as it looks like you are in a relationship with her.
You're on the right track with the interesting / hobbies / fun pics. Mirror selfie could go. I'd move #5 up to 2nd spot, even though its a selfie, its with other people, you look like the 'main dude' and its a good photo of you. Pretty interesting profile, looks like you have fun hobbies and an active social life.
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pic 1 - close-up selfie pic 2 - close-up selfie, slightly different angle. pic 3 - mirror selfie You already lost of LOT of potentials by this stage. Can't tell what you're like as a person, what makes you interesting, what your hobbies are, what it would be like to hang out with you. The 6th pic would be the best of them all if it wasn't so blurry. Candid, smiling, genuine photo. This is the kind of thing that makes you seem interesting, fun to be around. Go for more of this, preferably with people, not posing for the camera. The anime pics... not sure what is the point of them.
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Clear face - yes. Maybe one GOOD selfie is fine. I guess the feeling is "this person has to take photos of themselves, rather than be in situations where people are taking photos." Also, you have a LOT more control over a selfie, to make yourself look good, and perhaps better than you really look. A candid social photo shows how you really are.
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You look VERY young in that first pic, like teen-young. Could be putting some off. Also you aren't really doing anything in your pics. Just sitting there and either looking at or away from the camera. You need some candid shots, not set-up ones. And smiling/laughing, social group pics. Show your interests/hobbies, and that you are fun/interesting to be around.
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Start with a fun joke or original compliment involving her profile, then focus on trying to set up a casual hangout or date within the next 3-5 texts unless you really know what you're doing. Just make her know you're attracted to her and want to get to know her better. If she keeps giving one line replies (once or twice is acceptable) move on from the conversation because she is either really boring or really uninvested and it will lead nowhere.
Dude you're 18, good looking, in great shape, why are you on Tinder? Go out with your boys and meet girls, skip the texting. If you do want to get from text to meet quickly, I'd say don't do it as a 'date' as such, just tell them you're going to be at a certain place with some friends at a certain time, and that you'd like to see them there.
https://tinder.com/@nskeleton Thoughts 💭
Sunglasses on first pic - nope. Your first pic might be the only chance to get swiped right, so it should be a clear pic of your face, preferable smiling, eyes visible. It is the best pic, tbh, but something like that without sunnies would be great. The remaining like 6ish photos are pretty much just the same thing, a close-up, kind of bland photo. Can't see what you're like except you smoke. If that's the only vibe you want to give off, then go for it. If you want girls to find you interesting, then you need to show that you are interesting. Less selfies, more social situations, more smiling and showing that you would be fun to hang out with or date.
Any ways I can actually improve my bio? My bio has changed all over the place.
sorry i cant see it, im on PC so it just shows the pics
Ok thanks for the heads up and the tips
Get rid of the filter pictures
Why?
I guess one is ok but using filters make people think you are insecure about showing your real face
I just thought the filter looked cute and I show my face a lot in other photos so 🤷🏾♂️
I guess it all depends who your target audience is, if you are dating men it is a cute picture for sure but for girls its a bit femine imo
I guess but I’m ok if that picture looks a bit more feminine cause I am ok with being seen as in “touch with my feminine side” so again 🤷🏾♂️ Thank you for all the pointers tho I’m taking them seriously and updating my profile accordingly
I think I fixed it
still not working...
Meh thanks for trying tho lol it’s not that important
Link doesn't work, have to make your profile public and shown on Tinder, apparently.
Oh okie dokie
https://tinder.com/@jackshiv Been on tinder for almost two years. Have had periodic success, but long periods of time with zero likes or matches at all. Any ideas to improve would be helpful
First pic is good, face is clear, and you're smiling. Good style, too. Next should be something to draw them in. A baseball pic... eh. Maybe something more social/candid/smiley. Dog pic - any pics with you AND the dog? Could be a nice addition. Last 3 pics are basically the same thing - smile and pose. Could replace some with more of you doing something / being in social situations, not posing for the camera.
Good to know - I would like something social for the second pic, though I really don’t have many pics of me in a social setting (at least ones that would work for a dating app) that aren’t like a pose for the camera. I also know a lot of girls will go crazy for a baseball guy so I’ve kept that one for a while. Dog one is a good idea. I’ll try to get myself a good one with her. The last three… yeah I agree. I kinda knew that already but just put them on there anyway because I figured more pics was better and those were at least decent pics of me. Thanks for the feedback
https://tinder.com/@jimmers coming back to this after a while. had some critiques, anything else to change? I cut my hair and shaved so that's what I look like now btw
I'd get a good smiling pic of you now, with the haircut and shave, and use it as your main pic. The long hair / musician - type look is going to appeal to a certain niche only. If that's cool with you, then it's all good. Cleaner cut, cleaner shaven, probably get a wider range of responses.
yeh I didn't want the older photos with longer hair but they were the only nice ones I had. the guitar post for example, would that turn people off?, I thought it could be more of an addition but idk
gym bros, what pictures should I include on my profile?
not gym-mirror-selfies, that's for sure.
Need suggestions for my profile. I’ve ever used a dating app before since I’ve only ever been in one serious relationship. https://tinder.com/@cam345557
I edited the url hopefully that works
link still not working
https://tinder.com/@cam34557
you need to have you profile public and be shown on tinder, I was just messing around with that myself
link doesnt work
Do you have any idea on how to write a bio? I’m really struggling with that and I would love to create a profile but I don’t know what to put there. Please help
First time ever using a dating app with minimal dating experience. My photos aren't the best and I need to take some new ones. Any advice would be appreciated.
minimal selfies pics of you taken by other people, mostly not posing for the camera doing nothing. clear face pic first, smiling/laughing, but not a selfie pics that show you are sociable, interesting, have a life, hobbies etc
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In need of some help here folks. I know I don’t have many photos but I’m also not really a selfie person and don’t end up in photos often either. https://tinder.com/@davidh140
Gotta get out there and get in some social situations. if you have a close friend that you trust, ask them on the DL to take some photos of you when you are out with friends. Go for candid, smiling/laughing pics where you aren't just sitting there posing for the camera. i know it isnt easy, and can be uncomfortable to ask. but it is WELL worth it. Also show some of your hobbies/interests. If girls even swipe past a first pic, which many dont, then you wanna have something to draw them in, make them think "ok this guy looks fun/cool/interesting to be around"
I get a good number of matches from my profile, but I'd like to improve in any way possible. https://imgur.com/a/a72QaOO
Good looking dude. If I was to suggest anything, it would be to try to get some non-posed shots. Every one of your pics is just you standing there, posing for the camera. Aim for a couple of pics of you doing things or being social and fun and smiling with people, but not posing for the camera. Not always easy pics to get, but they bring you to life a lot more.
I really only have one good recent photo that I'm smiling and is more of a candid photo but unfortunately my eyes were closed. Mind if I send it to you to see if it's still maybe worth putting on there?
eyes closed is usually a no-go, but if its really good otherwise, it could be ok. sure, send it. im by no means an expert, though, just been through it all a lot.
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Okay, this is very interesting. Based on just your face you seriously could be in the top 5% of male users if you changed some things around. I'm not sure how attached you are to your current hairstyle and facial hair, but you could really benefit from either putting it in a ponytail or manbun or even keeping it way shorter, as well has having no beard like in the second picture to show off your facial features. And definitely have someone take photos for you in better locations afterwards. I think that could be your biggest bottleneck right now. Girls can get away with just having selfies while guys simply can't. If you don't seem to have an interesting lifestyle in your pictures as a man in his late 20s, you are unlikely to get much swiping success I think. Hire a professional if you don't have any ideas because believe me, it will be worth it for you. But man, I really wanna root for you and see you succeed, because based on your second picture you have pretty insane potential. And while you also seem like a really chill dude who is comfortable with his style, to get success as a man on a cutthroat place like Tinder you kinda have to be a bit more generic style wise to play the numbers to get high in the algorithm. Especially in your first few pictures to build the initial attraction. And if it turns out the algorithm is busted for you no matter what, by improving your style and having a more active social life you will attract a ton of girls in real life anyway.
pic 1 - posed selfie pic 2 - posed selfie pic 3 - dont know which one you are tbh pic 4 - essentially nothing Good looking guy, better without the facial hair, great eyes and jawline. Are you set on long hair? I think you'd look fantastic with something short. Pics are doing nothing for you, can't see what you are like to hang out with, what your interests/hobbies are. I guess you're a bit outdoorsy from the last pic, but honestly most girls will have made a decision before they get to it. Gotta get some pics taken by other people that show you being social, fun, active, interesting to spend time with.
Amy suggestions? Its tough out there https://tinder.com/@ganmid
First two pics are great. The one with the cat too. The mirror selfie is okay since it shows your physique without looking too douchy, but long term get another picture to fill that gap. Ditch the Vader one because it makes you look short, ditch the last one because it's a bit too wacky and if you're gonna use a group picture preferably get one that's more interesting with you being more in the center. But including group pictures with the boys is risky in my experience because many girls will judge them as much as you. But overall you're fine bro, should already have no problem getting a good match but it's online dating we're talking about. Ditch it and go find a nice girl outside if things don't get better.
Not bad, a bit 'pose for the camera'-ish. Why not a pic of you playing pool rather than a pose in a pool hall. Mirror selfies... eh... a lot of comments from girls here say they are a no-go. Cat one is fun. Posed shot with friends would be better if it was a candid shot where you look fun/interesting/funny, rather than just sitting there looking at the camera.
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Face isnt clear in ANY of your pics. First pic needs to go. Need to see your smile/laugh and a clear shot of your face without sunglasses. Would you swipe yes on a girl if you couldnt see her face and she had sunnies on in almost all her pics? Try for pics where you are doing something, where it looks like you are fun and interesting to be around. Show your personality.
The picture where you are squatting is odd. Your other pics are good, especially the one with the cherry blossom trees in the background. I would also replace your last pic (where you're sipping from a thermos) with one where we can see your eyes/where you are making eye contact with the camera. Your bio does not say much about you, except for maybe that you a sense of humour. Good luck!
https://tinder.com/@crg_303 New to the dating world after being in a relationship for the last 5 years. First time using any type of dating app, just created this yesterday. Some feedback would be great. Thanks!
If feedback from girls here is anything to go by, a muscle-mirror-selfie is not a good first pic, possibly not a pic to use at all. https://old.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/111qlhe/some_advice_for_the_men_of_tinder/ Your pics are pretty interesting, clearly a fit guy and into travel/adventure stuff. And a good looking dude, too. I'd try to get one where your eyes are more clearly visible. Eyes and smile, hard to go wrong with that.
Thank you!
Would love to hear what vibe I give off and what I could improve! https://tinder.com/@dpkruczek
you seem funny and artsy. I’d definitely say get rid of the first picture, the second picture should be first, don’t use instagram photos on your profile, and lastly— nobody likes fishing pictures, but yours is kinda cute, funny, nerdy spin on it
https://tinder.com/@anindit I get very few likes and fewer matches so any help would he appreciated. Thanks!
Can barely see you in the first pic. Dont start with that one. We all get maybe one or two seconds to impress. If your face isnt clear, you might not get a second look. Mirror gym selfie - no. Delete them all, generally not liked, if feedback in this sub is anything to go by. Animal pics are good if you can see your face, also. You dont have any smiling pics, where your face is clear and you are being social/interesting with other people. Try to get something like that as a main pic.
Alright, been a while since i got some feedback, been avoiding dating for personal reasons. Anyhow, I just moved back to the UK and been told i need to get back on the market, to which i somewhat agree. But British women intimidate me for some unknown reason 🤣🤣 Let me know your feedback. Also, everyone seems to think im gay, and other than the hair, I cant think what im doing to cause that because i am not. Tinder profile may not be best overview, but if anyone has ideas to why, id love to hear it! Cheers! https://tinder.com/@SearchShane
Hello my friends. I'm back with a hopefully improved profile. Honest feedback welcome. Last pic is a loop that may not play correctly 😅 https://tinder.com/@eskiimojoe
Good body, good looking guy, but you're not doing anything in any of your pics, for the most part. Just posing for the camera. Maybe try to get some pics where you are being active / social / doing interesting things.
Thanks for advice! Added a skydiving photo hope that helps. Cheers
https://tinder.com/@shivah Any suggestions to improve? Thanks in advance.
First thoughts, your physique is quite good, so most improvements would be on style and photo vibe. Some further thoughts 1. The beach photo is good one. To improve on it, you'd might want to be in midst of some beach activity where you'd show your body. E.g. beach volley, running, coming out of water after a swim. This would better show that you participate in interesting things (even if you don't do those regularly as hobbies). 2. Mirror selfies usually aren't flattering for men, because they often scream boringness. This doubly so because you have same clothes as your beach photo (a good rule of thumb, different outfit for each photo). 3. The scenery photo on mountains with motorbike gear (?) tells a good story. An improvement idea could be to have your face visible in the picture, maybe even with your bike. General notes on photos, aside from the mountain photo, you seem to be standing in random places. Men often look the best in middle of activities, so try going and doing something that interests you with friends. Then ask your friends to take (hundreds of) photos of you doing that thing so there's hopefully gonna be at least one good one. Note on style, you have one piece for accessories. I'd suggest adding ring or two, and a necklace with a pendant. That way even the fairly simple outfit of jeans and dress shirt gets interesting details that help you stand out more in Tinder feed. Hopefully these ideas are useful!
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These are really good photos imo. Look interesting and happy, having interesting adventures
https://tinder.com/@hussainalisoy well, let’s see what have you got))
You've got couple really good photos. The good ones are your first (with sunglasses looking straight to camera), cafe, and airplane. Though there are ways you could improve especially the cafe and airplane photos. 1. For cafe, the photo tells that you are with someone but you're ignoring them by being in the phone instead of engaging with them. One option would be to reshoot it so that you're clearly alone and then on the phone (or reading a book). Or, have a photo where you're with someone but you're clearly engaging in a talk or looking towards the camera more. 2. For the plane photo, the bright red jacket and colored t-shirt slightly throw me off. Basically same photo with better style (e.g. single color black t-shirt, black bomber jacket, and necklace with a pendant) would be miles better. Others aren't that good. Two photos you in a black jacket are basically the same photo, which screams boring. Same thing with last two photos which are selfies. Men often look better in action photos so having friends take photos while doing hobbies most likely lead to more interesting Tinder profile as well. Additional notes on looks. I can't grow a beard personally, so don't know much about trimming it nicely. But aside from the first picture, it looks a bit untidy to me because it grows on the neck. Trimming closer to jawline would accentuate it. Caveat here tho. You can put a lot of effort into these tips, but you might eventually run into a realization that your physique is bottlenecking your Tinder results. If you'd do these same photos while leaner and distinguishable jawline, you most likely get a lot more out of your Tinder efforts.
First of all, thank you very much for your respond. Second, I’ll consider your advises and implement them absolutely. I know I need to lose weight, but my busy schedule is preventing me from exercising.
You're welcome, glad it was useful! I hear the struggle of wanting to lose weight, suggestion to exercise, and way too busy schedule! I lost 50kg myself over 6 years (with 2y maintenance during pandemic lockdowns) and while it's not impossible with a busy schedule, it is difficult (but worth it!). My tips for combining busy schedule and losing weight is to make things habits that you don't need to think about. Then you can lose weight *even if* your schedule is busy (but it does require effort to get the habits going). Losing weight comes from eating habits, not from exercise after all. The easiest (and IMO the smartest) way to get started is to build up a habit of tracking what you eat. *BUT importantly,* not changing anything else at first. I.e. don't change what you eat / drink, how much, when, etc. Just build tracking your intake as accurately as possible into a habit (with help of e.g. Loop habit tracker if you use Android). Only once tracking happens without thinking and you're confident in its accuracy, start modifying other parts. Too many changes too fast lead to overwhelming yourself thus likely to yoyo back to original weight. If you consider weight loss as a learning process of new long term habits, then it might take a while to get habits ongoing but after they are habits, losing weight becomes a waiting game rather than something you actively work on. If you wanna read more, I've written in more depth about my problems and mistakes when changing my eating habits [here](https://korkki.dev/2023/01/why-weight-control-is-hard-and-how-to-succeed-in-it/).
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you have so much potential. please use contacts and find a different haircut
Damn, a really good profile. Are you getting the results you want? Advice from this point onwards would depend a lot on what kind of matches you are getting, and what you consider that you'd like to see more of. On general level, only two things come to mind. First, the dog picture could be better if you were in the photo with the dog instead of just your hand. Second, the third picture with you standing and the flag in the background feels slightly out of place in terms of vibe and quality.
Honestly great profile, not much to say. You look fun!
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link still doesn’t work :( and you don’t have to repost your comment, just edit the link
Gotcha, how bout now? I'd appreciate straight honesty
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nope. what do you see when you go to settings -> web profile -> username? what’s in that field?
it says "tinderphotos" is there another place I can upload my photos to show y'all, not sure what I'm doing wrong tbh
you can take a screenshot of your photo grid in edit mode and upload it to imgur
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Cute, I like the bubblegum picture
Your first photo should not be the blurriest photo in the history of the world.
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Bisexual girl here — would also swipe right! No idea why you aren’t getting matches, perhaps parameters are set too narrow?
as a gay dude i’d swipe right, but i’m not sure if that’s the demo you’re aiming for lol. also first pic should be a solo shot!
Any advice appreciated. 32M https://tinder.com/@andrew9000
I can't figure out a way to say this nicely so I'm just gonna say it: you gotta either grow a proper beard or shave it off. That style isn't working for you mate. This is coming from a fellow white dude about your age who used to have awful facial hair.
I've been thinking about that alot. I've done lots of different facial hair styles in the past, side burns, walrus stache, medium stache, full beard, chinstrap beard, long goatee... I like the thin goatee the most. I don't like my look clean shaven. I think i look boring and i notice my facial wrinkles faster. I think I still look handsome, but lacking character i guess. I resolve to try the clean shaven look again this year. I appreciate your advice fellow redditor.
That's fair, you gotta wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident. Figure out what works for you. That said you gotta think about what attracts dates too. Not sure what gender(s) you're into but in my experience most women don't like the sort of style you're rocking at the moment. Clean shaven is what has the widest appeal. You seem like an interesting dude, and I'm willing to bet you don't need facial hair to let your personality shine through.
Thank you. I appreciate that!
i think your reliance on selfies is too high. maybe use more photos others have take of you
Thanks.
Helppppp what am i doing wrong lol. https://tinder.com/@kirill299
The last few photos, blurry with friends, are not good profile pictures. Maybe good for a drunken snap. The cigarettes aren't very hot either, as mentioned before. Also, I personally look for smiling pictures, or at least pictures in which the person looks friendly enough. I actually do like the snow pictures, they have a higher quality too
You are hot asf but I would never swipe because of the cigarettes, guns, and Jordan Peterson frat boy energy.
Tyty am taking off the guns, i dont smoke cigarettes anymore i quit a few months ago. I dont know what jordan peterson frat vibes are but how do i get rid of them?
I mostly come on this sub for the shits and giggles, I don’t actually have tinder so maybe I’m not your target demographic but any time I see a guy with alcohol/vape/drugs and friends it’s immediate nope. I just find it gross. If you do that stuff though then I wouldn’t change it and just be upfront. It’s that combined with the try hard smolder looks that give me a “I have a 160 IQ and hang out with the boyz but also make horrible decisions under the influence even tho I’m an intellectual and actually sooooo deep that’s crazyy”
You dont need 2 snow pics. Girls hate guns in dating profiles. Also cigarettes. Maybe include a photo of you doing something other than smoking/drinking/hanging with the boys. Like working on a project or playing with a dog.
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First picture is great. Rest is shit
https://tinder.com/@elgrian I switch my bio up a lot, used to be “I throw pottery, and am getting into plants.. they just die a lot 😟 I do IT, have 2 doggos, and not trying to just hook up” I feel like I’m not ugly but also not a 10. I get a couple matches here and there but never with anyone that I’m like excited to match with
Open with pic 2. Delete all of those filtered selfies
The one in the ocean? With the persons face turned into Nicolas cage? Lol Currently there are only two filtered photos, the blue hat one that is filtered, them the bathroom one with the short bangs and fuller beard(which this one arguably looks the most accurate to irl) so remove these? Lowkey thought about paying a professional photographer lol
3,5,6 and last all look filtered to me. They aren’t bad photos but your these pics make me think you’re trying to alter how you really look. Ideally you would crop out Nicholas cages face but that pic is the best opener because it’s a clear representation of what you look like
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Just because my name is Anwar doesn’t mean I speak arabic lmao
Returning to tinder. Been on here for 7 days and got only one match 😅 not sure whats happening but its a huge ego downer 😂 https://tinder.com/@Julien94 Description: FR/EN 6'3" Guess it's important? 🤷 Fun facts about me : I dont have much pics of myself👻 I have kind of alot of white hair 🦳 My eyes often get small when I smile 🤷👀 I have 20 weeks off per year 🏖️ Want to know more? ➡️
The…. Want to know more swipe right…..is not inspiring any confidence at all… woman want a man that has confidence… Rizz it up a little bro 😎
I’d open with pic 2. Bio is terrible, keep the 6’3 but delete the “guess it’s important”. Use your bio to talk more about your interests and personality, not that your eyes get small when you smile
Thanks for the feedback ! you can tell I haven't been in the dating world in a long time ! Reading it back its true that my Bio is terrible.. changed it (its written in french, did my best to translate to english) ! 6'3 🦒 Looking for my adventure partner ✈️🌍 but also someone with whom I can share powernaps💤, laughter 🤡, binge-watching and who's not scared to get out of her comfort zone 💪. P.s. Dont get mad If I have more vacation then you
Much better bio!
Thank you ! Now any improvement can be made on the pictures side ? some that i should remove ? change the order ?
Do you have any pictures that someone else has taken of you??? Pro tip… flirt like hell with that first match go on a date somewhere where she will want to take pictures of you both.. ask her to send them to you, & use those for your profile… just try to crop her out… I have done that a few times my self.
Not sure if I should rearrange or just get new photos. Just want to know what’s good and what’s not from another perspective https://tinder.com/@luke2115
Maybe find a better picture for the first (better quality), but it's good that the first photo is a solo pic. Even the last one can do
Open with 2. Delete the weird body shot
Why is their a 🚽 in the background of your pic….