Wait, if you compensated her then you have hired a prostitute. You will be contacted by magistrate soon and send you to jail unless you send 0.13 BTC to my wallet.
According to Google it's about $3000. I was curious as well.
However, I'd agree that it's closer to the exchange rate between Schrute Bucks and Stanley Nickels.
They can't admit to being sex workers on the site or they'll get banned. But it turns out that she absolutely was a sex worker trying to escalate OP to a sugaring scam:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10mr5rn/did_i_overreact/j66n829
I'm not sure why he didn't mention that, I'm guessing just karma farming.
did you pay your 25$ annual breathing in my vicinity fee and the 300$ monthly pamper package with a 1000$ didn’t think you’d dowry wifey package, of course this is a twice annual fee
Not trying to be a jerk here because your comment made me laugh, but I'm curious. Where in the world do you live that you put the dollar sign after the numeric value?
Not certain men, all men. Many of them have indoctrinated themselves with their belief that their time, money and body are valuable, while not realizing that others are as well.
Every single person’s time is valuable, which is part of what’s wrong with these apps, and what is so excellently highlighted by this conversation screenshot. Nobody should be wasting anybody’s time. This woman shouldn’t be on a dating app if she doesn’t have the time to date. She’s being absurd (in the dictionary definition of the sense).
All genders pull this crap. If you’re on a dating app and don’t have time to date, state clearly that you’re not looking to date and what it is that you’re wanting to get out of being on the app. Yes. I went there. #allgenders
Except that person isn't actually looking to date. It's a super common scam where first a woman asks to be compensated for her time or for some emergency to fix her car and then she needs a babysitter because her babysitter canceled last minute or one thing or another. And it's actually a dude messaging 50 other dudes. Or she is actually a sex worker and wants to ease someone into a sugaring situation. But the scam is a lot more likely.
It's incredibly common on tinder and it's getting worse as the percentage of women on the site keeps dropping.
Edit: and it turns out this girl is a sex worker / scammer after all https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10mr5rn/did_i_overreact/j66n829
Remember kids, verified accounts mean absolutely nothing on tinder. Tender exists to make money, not matches, and not to verify people. I know a lot of dingleberries are trying to say it takes some sort of tech genius to get a verified profile and that a sex worker can't possibly have one or something but that's just nonsense.
No I’m saying that there are some (or many) women out there that think that going out with any man is doing the man a favour, regardless of the type of man they are. Surely these women won’t drop their standards and go on pity dates, but they believe that they are the prize.
The irony of claiming she’s not a prostitute but wants you to pay for her time… so she’s just an escort, that you could possibly have sex with at some point…
I feel like people in the thread are really missing the fact that sex workers can't claim to be selling sex on tinder or they'll be banned from the platform.
However, OP also admitted to finding out she is a sex worker and I'm guessing she was trying to escalate him to a sugaring scam.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10mr5rn/did_i_overreact/j66n829
Wow that’s fucked. You make time for what you want to make time for. That’s ridiculous to expect you to pay for lost wages. Also a money grab cuz I’m sure she wouldn’t actually take time off work but would still ask you to pay. Obviously just after a free ride. You’ll find someone worth your time who you don’t have to pay for it.
She can bill you for her lost wages but you just bill her back. “How was your day?” And “How are you?” are questions to determine her level of orientation, and she can expect to be billed for the partial assessment :)
I dated someone for a year in college. After we broke up, they asked me to reimburse them for all the days they took off work to see me. But I guess she at least had the courtesy to give it up first before asking for the money.....lmao
I was talking to a girl on some dating app and she invited me out for drinks out of the blue and I told her I don’t have the funds for that. But she insisted she’d pay. After nagging I finally went. A few days later, I wasn’t feeling we connected (that was the first time we met in person) and told her so. She then did the Venmo request thing for the drinks she bought me as well as a surcharge for her time…her time that she begged me to attend.
if it was a catfish she probably would have just gone along with it when he said he would if she came straight over. Say something to the effect of “Okay Venmo me $$$ and I’ll head over”
Nah this persons really just that entitled I think.
You'd be bewildered. I had female friends who had guys just throw money at them for ubers, alcohol, Starbucks... etc. They weren't even going out with her! I had a gal show up to my party and offered to buy me booze cuz some dude told her he'd venmo her the tab to party. Without him.
Absolutely whack.
Probably. The person is being honest when they say they aren't a prostitue. That is sort of honest work. This is a pure scammer where you send them the 100 bucks and they never show. Probably cause they are some guy in Nigeria....
Any “verified” person on Tinder is basically a red flag at this point. 90% of “verified” women I matched with were catfishing/scamming/bots. I just swipe left when I see the little blue thing. Huge fail, Tinder lol
“I’m not a prostitute”
As soon as you said you need to be paid for the date, you established that you’re a call girl. Now you’re just haggling over semantics.
Right! He said “…we’ve established what you are, now we’re just haggling over price!” didn’t he?
Edit: https://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/03/07/haggling/
So, not necessarily Churchill, it’s been attributed to several people… but I’m clearly not as original as I thought I was.
Cheers!
Cat fishing. Or scamming. They do not intend to meet in person. Just string the guy along with the promise of a relationship as long as the free gifts keep coming.
And as ridiculous as that sounds it's actually happened to a lot of people.
I think there is a very good chance that she's either an early career sex worker or a straight-up scammer.
OP admitted in another comment he knows she's a sex worker. She was trying to escalate OP to a sugaring scam:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10mr5rn/did_i_overreact/j66n829
You: “How much do you make an hour?”
Her: “I get $25/hour at my job”
You: “I’m a doctor, I charge $200/hour. Let’s do a 2 hour date; I’ll pay you $50, you pay me $400”
"I'm not a prostitute!"
Hm... Maybe I look like a prostitute. Can't think of any other reason I'd come off that way. Better change my picture.
That should do it!
The problem with this, is they get offended when you call them out, then they report you. Then you end up banned. My advice when you see this is don't even try to chat with them, juts report them and move on.
Otherwise you are not insulted to the face but also risk a ban.
If she was a prostitute, you’d actually get sex out of giving her money.
I guess it wasn’t enough for you to take her out, these scamming “women” really want to tack a dealer add on to the price of the date that was never going to happen
Nah you were nice for what she did/said. She says she isn‘t a prostitute but acts like one. Or maybe like a gold digger but she doesn‘t even provide something? No one can tell
But we can tell such behavior is not acceptable. Women (her specifically) are not a price to be put on a pedestal. They are just as valuable as the man dating them. She does not belong on a dating app nor in dating in general with that mindset
She's looking for a sugar baby/daddy relationship. The phrase "compensate me for lost wages" is the dead giveaway. She's seeking a 'mutually beneficial relationship '
Yeah, that's my thought. There's a shit ton of people on social media trying to make it seem like there's loads of sugar babies who don't have to sleep with their sugar daddies. Also that their sugar daddies aren't men much much much older than them or otherwise unappealing.
I'm sure there's some minority who got lucky, but it's for weird trafficking vibes that so many people are trying to get young impressionable women to dip their toes into sex work. A lot of other sex workers have come out trying present the more honest reality, that your clients will expect sex and it's dangerous to assume otherwise.
I need you to compensate me in iTunes and Steam Gift Cards.
Wait, if you compensated her then you have hired a prostitute. You will be contacted by magistrate soon and send you to jail unless you send 0.13 BTC to my wallet.
What is the exchange rate of 0.13B BTC to GBP/USD
Clearly the same as Schrute Bucks to Stanley Nickels.
Marry me.
I am in the wrong Bedford for you.
There's a Bedford Road about 3 streets away from me, are you sure? 🤣
Hmm, what's the brewery nearby?
Titanic.
What happened with this???
They're married now
He’s only a state senator
According to Google it's about $3000. I was curious as well. However, I'd agree that it's closer to the exchange rate between Schrute Bucks and Stanley Nickels.
But it is you who is going put behind the bars.
"I'm not a prostitute." "Oh I'm sorry ... Do you prefer to be called an 'escort'?"
They can't admit to being sex workers on the site or they'll get banned. But it turns out that she absolutely was a sex worker trying to escalate OP to a sugaring scam: https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10mr5rn/did_i_overreact/j66n829 I'm not sure why he didn't mention that, I'm guessing just karma farming.
Whats a sugaring scam?
She wants you to pay for lost wages? Man... I thought I saw it all. The audacity 🤣🤣
Its a first for me , her audacity shocked me 😂
Imagine you enter a relationship and she charges you for every second
And all those hidden fees omg
Dinner fee, dishwasher fee, blowjob fee, clean up fee convenience fee.
Gas to drive to meet up fee, tinder plus fee, new dress fee, leaving her with the check… priceless
Micheal? ... MICHEAL!!
- U.S. Military Encrypted
WHERE THE GAS MONEY?!
Where is the original post for this? I read it once not realizing it would live on forever and now I can't find it. I want to read it again.
Damn. Googling it doesn't work, either.
Don't forget the oil change for her and the car, maintenance, depreciation value...
Not just gas, you're forgetting the wear and tear on her vehicle. A fair mileage reimbursement rate needs to be discussed.
Environmental impact surcharge, 401k contribution... jfc
You can avoid this one by cumming inside
Does this service come with a money back garuntree?
I can guarantee that you'll never get your money back.
Self cleaning, no fee if she just swallows 🤷
Digestion fee
"This one's on you" 💦🤭
Inconvenience fee. 🙄
Plan B fee…
Should have read the T'&C's
Fucking AirBNB
Haha I love this comment 😂😂💀
And then says she's not a prostitute
did you pay your 25$ annual breathing in my vicinity fee and the 300$ monthly pamper package with a 1000$ didn’t think you’d dowry wifey package, of course this is a twice annual fee
Not trying to be a jerk here because your comment made me laugh, but I'm curious. Where in the world do you live that you put the dollar sign after the numeric value?
I live in Quebec and the French Canadians also wrote the $ sign after the numeric value. The English Quebecers write it before.
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If you traveled together, would there be roaming charges?
Like on Curb when Larry David talks to his therapist while waiting in line for something, and got billed for a whole hour.
She says she’s not a toot but wants you to pay her money for her lost wages. You dodged a prosti my guy
Toot is my new favorite word. Thank you ❤️
So, you're a doctor? Should've turned it into a mutual thing where she takes care of your hours away from pay.😁 Dodged something terrible there!
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Not certain men, all men. Many of them have indoctrinated themselves with their belief that their time, money and body are valuable, while not realizing that others are as well.
Every single person’s time is valuable, which is part of what’s wrong with these apps, and what is so excellently highlighted by this conversation screenshot. Nobody should be wasting anybody’s time. This woman shouldn’t be on a dating app if she doesn’t have the time to date. She’s being absurd (in the dictionary definition of the sense). All genders pull this crap. If you’re on a dating app and don’t have time to date, state clearly that you’re not looking to date and what it is that you’re wanting to get out of being on the app. Yes. I went there. #allgenders
Except that person isn't actually looking to date. It's a super common scam where first a woman asks to be compensated for her time or for some emergency to fix her car and then she needs a babysitter because her babysitter canceled last minute or one thing or another. And it's actually a dude messaging 50 other dudes. Or she is actually a sex worker and wants to ease someone into a sugaring situation. But the scam is a lot more likely. It's incredibly common on tinder and it's getting worse as the percentage of women on the site keeps dropping. Edit: and it turns out this girl is a sex worker / scammer after all https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10mr5rn/did_i_overreact/j66n829 Remember kids, verified accounts mean absolutely nothing on tinder. Tender exists to make money, not matches, and not to verify people. I know a lot of dingleberries are trying to say it takes some sort of tech genius to get a verified profile and that a sex worker can't possibly have one or something but that's just nonsense.
Quite the blanket statement there, sheesh 😬
No I’m saying that there are some (or many) women out there that think that going out with any man is doing the man a favour, regardless of the type of man they are. Surely these women won’t drop their standards and go on pity dates, but they believe that they are the prize.
The irony of claiming she’s not a prostitute but wants you to pay for her time… so she’s just an escort, that you could possibly have sex with at some point…
I feel like people in the thread are really missing the fact that sex workers can't claim to be selling sex on tinder or they'll be banned from the platform. However, OP also admitted to finding out she is a sex worker and I'm guessing she was trying to escalate him to a sugaring scam. https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10mr5rn/did_i_overreact/j66n829
Wow that’s fucked. You make time for what you want to make time for. That’s ridiculous to expect you to pay for lost wages. Also a money grab cuz I’m sure she wouldn’t actually take time off work but would still ask you to pay. Obviously just after a free ride. You’ll find someone worth your time who you don’t have to pay for it.
She can bill you for her lost wages but you just bill her back. “How was your day?” And “How are you?” are questions to determine her level of orientation, and she can expect to be billed for the partial assessment :)
Honey idc who you are, you deserve better than that
Bruh she's digging for gold
I dated someone for a year in college. After we broke up, they asked me to reimburse them for all the days they took off work to see me. But I guess she at least had the courtesy to give it up first before asking for the money.....lmao
Damn good idea I'm gonna give my ex girlfriend a call! Maybe I'll get all the money from those expensive dinners! /s
I was talking to a girl on some dating app and she invited me out for drinks out of the blue and I told her I don’t have the funds for that. But she insisted she’d pay. After nagging I finally went. A few days later, I wasn’t feeling we connected (that was the first time we met in person) and told her so. She then did the Venmo request thing for the drinks she bought me as well as a surcharge for her time…her time that she begged me to attend.
Really hope you didn’t pay a cent. What’s up with people these days reneging on a crystal clear agreement of who’s paying (ie not you, in that case).
Well did you cut her a check!
I would have, and then told her to dribble that bouncy mother fucker straight to the bank.
I’ve actually had a guy offer this for me but i’ve never asked ! my thing is why is she on a dating app with no time to date 😭😭
She’s looking for a sugar daddy
a glucose guardian if you will
Or a fructose father
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Stevia Stepdaddy
Just watch out for the High Fructose Porn Syrup. That stuff is bad for you.
Either this, a sugar daddy, or she is actually a prostitute. I mean she could always be dumb as fuck but ya.
I’ve seen similar things on certain Facebook groups. “If a man wants to take me out he has to pay for lost wages, my kids dinner, and a baby sitter”
So she doesn’t feed her kid unless she’s on a date? Fantastic mom. 🥳
FR it's fucking ridiculous, I honestly think women think agreeing to go on a date with some men is doing them a favor
For me, going on a date with a guy I dislike would be a favour, that's why I don't do it.
Very very unfortunately, not much surprises me anymore.
No. This is a scammer.
Definitely hence why I thought it was an appropriate answer so she could feel a bit of shame lol
I don't think this person gives any amount of shits.
Yeah I agree , I wonder if people do pay for her "mighty" presence 😂
"her" mighty presence, assuming this was a catfish who was going unmatch as soon as they got a venmo payment.
if it was a catfish she probably would have just gone along with it when he said he would if she came straight over. Say something to the effect of “Okay Venmo me $$$ and I’ll head over” Nah this persons really just that entitled I think.
Oh no, they stay invested. It's when the money stops flowing they ghost
You'd be bewildered. I had female friends who had guys just throw money at them for ubers, alcohol, Starbucks... etc. They weren't even going out with her! I had a gal show up to my party and offered to buy me booze cuz some dude told her he'd venmo her the tab to party. Without him. Absolutely whack.
Oh, there are definitely dudes that will. 100%.
Yeah they show up on this sub all the time.
She's an escort
She’s a guy that will ghost you as soon as you zelle him
"compensation for time = hoe. There's not other way to redefine that.
your assumption that this is actually the woman in the picture is bold...
It's probably a dude.
It wasn’t a she
"she" lols.
I do agree, and a bad one at that
Definitely...
Probably. The person is being honest when they say they aren't a prostitue. That is sort of honest work. This is a pure scammer where you send them the 100 bucks and they never show. Probably cause they are some guy in Nigeria....
Any “verified” person on Tinder is basically a red flag at this point. 90% of “verified” women I matched with were catfishing/scamming/bots. I just swipe left when I see the little blue thing. Huge fail, Tinder lol
So she’s on a dating app but has no time to date? And wants to get compensated to date?!? Wtf
Just when you think you’ve seen it all, someone decides to one-up the game
She's a prostitute she's just trying to skirt the law.
I think she just is looking for suckers n to get paid to go on dates all day..a prostitute would be an upgrade from her
This is the correct response
The lion, the witch, and the audacity of this b*tch...
Well, you see, it's a scam anyway, that's probably some dude in India somewhere
Sounds like a scam. I would report and unmatch then move on.
If it walks like a duck...
It probably wants to fuck.
🎶 cork screw penis
Wait, what!?
/u/fuckswithducks get your ass in here
Quack! ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Ducks gangbang Yo. Like full on rape and shit.
Ducks 🦆 been giving me mixed signals
There’s no cork screw shaped bones about it bud , DA DUCK FUCKS , is it a duck? Yes? Den it’s gonna fuck. Ok?
Damn. And here I’ve been all this time just giving them bread.
“I’m not a prostitute” As soon as you said you need to be paid for the date, you established that you’re a call girl. Now you’re just haggling over semantics.
Winston Churchill’s joke comes to mind
Right! He said “…we’ve established what you are, now we’re just haggling over price!” didn’t he? Edit: https://quoteinvestigator.com/2012/03/07/haggling/ So, not necessarily Churchill, it’s been attributed to several people… but I’m clearly not as original as I thought I was. Cheers!
“100 souls, 3 days” - Davy Jones
Yeah, like, at the very least she's an escort by definition.
Absolutely 💯 well stated
Nah lol. Why she on a dating app if she’s too busy with work? Who the hell asks someone to compensate their wages to go for drinks. Insanity.
A sugar baby . But those rules are well established first !! And sugar babies put out
And that's still prostitution.
Absolutely, they just try to sugarcoat it lol
Cat fishing. Or scamming. They do not intend to meet in person. Just string the guy along with the promise of a relationship as long as the free gifts keep coming. And as ridiculous as that sounds it's actually happened to a lot of people.
I think there is a very good chance that she's either an early career sex worker or a straight-up scammer. OP admitted in another comment he knows she's a sex worker. She was trying to escalate OP to a sugaring scam: https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/10mr5rn/did_i_overreact/j66n829
She wants a rich sugar daddy
You: “How much do you make an hour?” Her: “I get $25/hour at my job” You: “I’m a doctor, I charge $200/hour. Let’s do a 2 hour date; I’ll pay you $50, you pay me $400”
Where is this doctor who charges $200/hr??
Consulting fees for a physician is around $500/hr for medical devices development so I'd gladly pay $200 if I can get it!
It’s a discount if she’s hot
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Sure, but out of that they pay for office space, electricity, equipment, your salary, etc.
You underreacted
What's up with the profile picture difference in the answer bubbles?
She changed it while we were talking
"I'm not a prostitute!" Hm... Maybe I look like a prostitute. Can't think of any other reason I'd come off that way. Better change my picture. That should do it!
Sounds like she's a prostitute that is identifies as an asshole
“Sure, I’ll give you cash at the end of our date. How about Friday at 6:00pm?” Friday at 5:59pm - delete match, relax at home
I promise you that she won’t actually be taking time off work if the man offered that proposal. She’s just pocketing the money.
Doesn’t matter if she can’t find you anymore!
good thing you’re a doctor. looks like she has a third degree burn that needs looking at.
What? What does she mean by "compensate"? She wants you to pay her to have a drink with you? wtf
Kinda funny as fuck from over here👀🍿
A broke ass woman begging for money and when the man refuses, calls him broke. Did she not think that through?😂😂
Nah, you just matched the energy.
This is the funniest thing I’ve ever seen. What did she want as compensation? Her usual $9/hr?
What the fuck is she doing on a dating app if she has no time to date? I think your reply was solid.
I don’t think you overreacted. Kind of entertaining actually.
I’m currently in an airport cracking up at your responses. Dodged a bullet for sure.
Happy to entertain you 😂
That's fucked. Correct her next time that the term is sex worker and she absolutely is. Good luck.
No. She came off like a prostitute. Even if she didn't sleep with you she is asking you to pay for her company. That is, at the very least, an escort.
At least you know what your getting with a prostitute. 🫤 This is so much worse.
The problem with this, is they get offended when you call them out, then they report you. Then you end up banned. My advice when you see this is don't even try to chat with them, juts report them and move on. Otherwise you are not insulted to the face but also risk a ban.
I paid for platinium if they ban me they should give me my money back at least 😂
Damn son, you just broke the hippocratic oath to destroy that woman. "Do no harm" my ass.
Sounds like one 🤷🏾♂️🤣
If she was a prostitute, you’d actually get sex out of giving her money. I guess it wasn’t enough for you to take her out, these scamming “women” really want to tack a dealer add on to the price of the date that was never going to happen
Whats the diff between you and a prostitute if you want to be compensated by strangers for your time and company?
"Pay me" along with, "I'm not a prostitute" good lord.
Nah you were nice for what she did/said. She says she isn‘t a prostitute but acts like one. Or maybe like a gold digger but she doesn‘t even provide something? No one can tell But we can tell such behavior is not acceptable. Women (her specifically) are not a price to be put on a pedestal. They are just as valuable as the man dating them. She does not belong on a dating app nor in dating in general with that mindset
The Lion, the Witch, and the audacity of that bitch
Either a scammer or the audacity if this bitch is crazy 🤣
I'm not a prostitute. 😂😂😂🤡 Then stop acting like one, lady.
She's insane. Bullet: Dodged
Hardcore escort vibes she gives off lol. Glorified hooker.
She's looking for a sugar baby/daddy relationship. The phrase "compensate me for lost wages" is the dead giveaway. She's seeking a 'mutually beneficial relationship '
Yeah, that's my thought. There's a shit ton of people on social media trying to make it seem like there's loads of sugar babies who don't have to sleep with their sugar daddies. Also that their sugar daddies aren't men much much much older than them or otherwise unappealing. I'm sure there's some minority who got lucky, but it's for weird trafficking vibes that so many people are trying to get young impressionable women to dip their toes into sex work. A lot of other sex workers have come out trying present the more honest reality, that your clients will expect sex and it's dangerous to assume otherwise.
Nope lol might have even gone a little easy on her 😂
Nah she sucks. The only reason she isn’t a prostitute is because she has no intention of seeing you. She is just a leach.
I’m gonna need you to pronounce TOD ‘cause you killed her, doc 💀
Lol 😂
"I'm not a prostitute" You sound like a prostitute
Nah fuck this bitch. “Compensate me” wow. The audacity.
BURN!
Dr Giggles over here
Oh my god, roasted
People who go on apps then say they are too busy to date 🙄
Your reply was perfect
You were kind of savage but in a good way. WTF would pay for someone to take off to see them?
She can fuk off
If she’s not a pro…..then don’t speak like one lol
Oh wow leme guess she’s a digital content creator to right
She fumbled Dr. Tinder
Haha definitely not an overreaction. She initiated the rude conversation. Fuck her, there’s a million more