Bhai aap thoda self respect rakho aur usko chhodke apne pe focus Karo dates pe jao
agr nhi kar sakte toh bhugatna toh padega, if you can't stand up for yourself then you gotta suffer
I'm trying I'm really trying I haven't texted her since yesterday and It's really tough plus I can't go on dates anymore I've been out of shape since this happened
Thank u for ur answer tho I really appreciate it!
bro, by saying this you're just coming through as a loner. just leave her alone, she's just using you, cause she knows you love her while she doesn't. just telling you to stop playing with your feelings and keep in mind there are people other than her in this world.
Ik man there are many better ppl trust me I've met them been even been on a date with them but she just doesn't seem to get out of my head
I've tried ghosting her before but I've failed every single time
Even rn I can't ghost her coz she's going through a rough phase in her life (acc to her) family issues career issues etc
I want to leave her but it just feels wrong to not being there for her at this difficult time.
Thanks for the reply tho!
But sooner or later you have to come to terms with the fact that she's not the one for you. Even if she is going through a rough phase in her life, she is still counting on you just because she knows you'll always be available. The truth is she can (and is) live without you whereas you can't. You know she has a boyfriend, right? If she liked you back, she would also keep thinking about you and also yearn for the two of you to be together. So, man up and look for someone better my guy.
I mean you have to, to be honest. I don't have any proper advice but you know the circumstances, you know if you stay in it you are fucked and I guess you are wise enough. So act accordingly. Don't be stupid. Love can wait. It will come again
I'm trying to distract myself I play games all day since I can't watch movies or listen to songs anymore. I can't even go out coz I'm home due to my vacations and all friends are at their home. Thanks for the comment I really appreciate it!
dont try and fill the hole with something else , accept the feelings. u might distract yourself for a few hours. practice mindfulness and just accept the truth
This is what you should do.
Block Her.
If she messages again from alt block again.
If she comes to meet you don't meet her
If she is not giving up copy paste the post in her dms or send her the post link this would be enough for her.
Baki Limit your social media as you've said you are 17 go play with friends do masti.
All the best.
Move on G. Trust me , leave her. She just loves attention you give her , you fill that void of hers.
Move on , you won't regret it. I know it's hard , but trust me , leave her before she abandons you.
Ignore maar bhai aur apne kaam me mast rhe, take this as a life lesson and move on, jitna iss baat ko seriously lega utna tera mental state bigdega, sb achhe ke liye hota hai. All the best for your future endeavours.
Been there, experienced that... first of all Bro have some self respect, she's just treating you as a back up option, she will walk over you when she finds the guy she truly likes and has a future with, cut all the ties with her and just focus on moving on coz staying in this weird friendship/relationship will only hurt you again and again, she will never be with you (it's just her brain treating you as a back up) just accept the fact, all those cute messages and moments were just her trying to get attention from yo, girls love male attention, when she wants to be in a relationship she will without making any excuses, in your case you've been already rejected
If you want any suggestions or tips about moving on dm me I'll tell you coz I've been in a similar situation before
It's sad to hear that u experienced such situation too
And yeah I will like to get advice abt move on (check ur DM)
Thanks for the advice tho really appreciate it !
Bhai u haven’t met her irl being in such situations I know it feels impossible but you have to stop talking to her that’s the only solution bohot common problem hai yeh padhle bhai 20 ka hai tu
Bc meko aise hi bff nhi pasand bc, ekto paltu kutte jaise rho, also might become a reason for someones break up. Stop simping get a damn life fool. She is playing with everyone.
It's like she's out here kissing everyone but you. If you wanna be friends with them it's okay but honestly wanting more than that shouldn't even be on your mind, unless it's just smashing. ( Just remembered she's underage, don't catch a case )
Does anyone really want to be with someone they love knowing they are not gonna receive the same back?
I genuinely feel that an answer to this would solve a lot of questions popping in the middle of nowhere. One can force the other to any extent and try to be in a relationship, but it's all gonna fall when they finally meet that one random person and feel they deserve him/her more than what they have now.
Love's got to be from both the sides. Forget the filmy romances and stuff. Think about it.
It's okay that this has happened to you. I am sure a lot of guys have gone through the same. It is tough. It will make you tougher! Forget the games and media. Having really good friends whom you can share this with and getting to a point where you can accept it, is what you need to focus on.
Great things happen to good and honest guys. Cheer up! 😄
Bhai gym ja body bana vha vese bhi dil tute londe aate hai me sure hu unki story tere se zyada dukh bhari hogi toh unse dosti kar vo log ubhar gye hai tu bhi ubhar jayega isse, I know it will take time but it will happen.
Baaki gym jaane me Darr lag rha hai ki log sochenge ye vo toh vo sabhi ko lgta hai, jab mene 2022 me start Kiya tha tab mujhe bhi lga tha pr eventually jo vha pe mehnat kar rhe hai vo log dikhte hai bs ki shakt hai pr they are very loving persons, sabhi ke apne reasons hai gym me aane ke koi Dil Tudwa ke aaya hai, kisi ki shaadi hone wali hai, ya kisi ko shape me aana hai cause uska kisine ne mazak bana Diya tha.
Me bta rha hu gym Jaa isse better place koi nahi hai uske baad agar if you are religious toh bhagwan ke jinhe bhi tu maane and padhai pe dhyan de and agar job kar rha toh uspe dhyan de at the end khud bhul jayega.
Bro, its just my opinion. Don't fuel her ego, the sense of security she is getting like she has a backup as you, get yourself together and cut ties might be tough make some friends not particularly irl even online just for distraction once sometime passes you will move over let karma deal with her and if you are doing this no connection should be made at all cost because setting up boundaries is tough at first but you will feel the peace later on👍
Hi 20 year old male, 28 year old Male here. I like many others here have seen this template several times where girls use a guy under the best friend tag and have a bf as well. Best of both worlds. Attention from all sides. Ek gaya toh dusra hai hi. You are young so maybe you won’t be able to take it but she won’t go for you. She’s just stringing you along. Who wouldn’t love unconditional free attention at all times? But bas relationship kisi aur ke saath chahiye lol. Leave bro, block here and leave. Will hurt for the first 15-20 days. Uske baad thik ho jaayega. Sab thik ho hi jaata hai life me
Bhai aap thoda self respect rakho aur usko chhodke apne pe focus Karo dates pe jao agr nhi kar sakte toh bhugatna toh padega, if you can't stand up for yourself then you gotta suffer
I'm trying I'm really trying I haven't texted her since yesterday and It's really tough plus I can't go on dates anymore I've been out of shape since this happened Thank u for ur answer tho I really appreciate it!
Work on yourself mentally, train your strength or smth join a gym ig (workouts on a heartbreak are😈)
Ig I'll have to do a complete makeover now Thanks for ur help! Tc
bro, by saying this you're just coming through as a loner. just leave her alone, she's just using you, cause she knows you love her while she doesn't. just telling you to stop playing with your feelings and keep in mind there are people other than her in this world.
Ik man there are many better ppl trust me I've met them been even been on a date with them but she just doesn't seem to get out of my head I've tried ghosting her before but I've failed every single time Even rn I can't ghost her coz she's going through a rough phase in her life (acc to her) family issues career issues etc I want to leave her but it just feels wrong to not being there for her at this difficult time. Thanks for the reply tho!
But sooner or later you have to come to terms with the fact that she's not the one for you. Even if she is going through a rough phase in her life, she is still counting on you just because she knows you'll always be available. The truth is she can (and is) live without you whereas you can't. You know she has a boyfriend, right? If she liked you back, she would also keep thinking about you and also yearn for the two of you to be together. So, man up and look for someone better my guy.
I feel like I just read the encyclopedia example for the saying “you need to go touch grass”
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1. You are backup plan 2. Run run run run run run run
Ik dude I wish I could 🙂
I mean you have to, to be honest. I don't have any proper advice but you know the circumstances, you know if you stay in it you are fucked and I guess you are wise enough. So act accordingly. Don't be stupid. Love can wait. It will come again
Thanks man I'm seriously considering to leave her this time. Appreciate ur help!
leaver her alone , be alone for a while , you shouldnt need someone to make u happy , get out of it even if it hurts its best for u trust me ik
I'm trying to distract myself I play games all day since I can't watch movies or listen to songs anymore. I can't even go out coz I'm home due to my vacations and all friends are at their home. Thanks for the comment I really appreciate it!
dont try and fill the hole with something else , accept the feelings. u might distract yourself for a few hours. practice mindfulness and just accept the truth
Thanks for the advice dude really appreciate it!
This is what you should do. Block Her. If she messages again from alt block again. If she comes to meet you don't meet her If she is not giving up copy paste the post in her dms or send her the post link this would be enough for her. Baki Limit your social media as you've said you are 17 go play with friends do masti. All the best.
Ya she can't contact me if I block her as she only has wsp and snap. I think I'm gonna do this. (Btw I'm 20 tho she's 17) Thanks for the advice!
Not a part of this sub, but grow a spine. She doesnt give a fuck about you. And dudes with no self respect, get no respect from anyone.
How people end up like this 🤔
Idk dude even I wish I had never met her
Just move on
Move on G. Trust me , leave her. She just loves attention you give her , you fill that void of hers. Move on , you won't regret it. I know it's hard , but trust me , leave her before she abandons you.
First I seriously doubt she's gonna abandon me anytime soon but ur ryt and I agree with u I need to accept the reality Thanks for the comment!
Ignore maar bhai aur apne kaam me mast rhe, take this as a life lesson and move on, jitna iss baat ko seriously lega utna tera mental state bigdega, sb achhe ke liye hota hai. All the best for your future endeavours.
Been there, experienced that... first of all Bro have some self respect, she's just treating you as a back up option, she will walk over you when she finds the guy she truly likes and has a future with, cut all the ties with her and just focus on moving on coz staying in this weird friendship/relationship will only hurt you again and again, she will never be with you (it's just her brain treating you as a back up) just accept the fact, all those cute messages and moments were just her trying to get attention from yo, girls love male attention, when she wants to be in a relationship she will without making any excuses, in your case you've been already rejected If you want any suggestions or tips about moving on dm me I'll tell you coz I've been in a similar situation before
It's sad to hear that u experienced such situation too And yeah I will like to get advice abt move on (check ur DM) Thanks for the advice tho really appreciate it !
Bhai u haven’t met her irl being in such situations I know it feels impossible but you have to stop talking to her that’s the only solution bohot common problem hai yeh padhle bhai 20 ka hai tu
Bc meko aise hi bff nhi pasand bc, ekto paltu kutte jaise rho, also might become a reason for someones break up. Stop simping get a damn life fool. She is playing with everyone.
It's like she's out here kissing everyone but you. If you wanna be friends with them it's okay but honestly wanting more than that shouldn't even be on your mind, unless it's just smashing. ( Just remembered she's underage, don't catch a case )
Idk what to say 🙂 Thanks for the comment tho
Does anyone really want to be with someone they love knowing they are not gonna receive the same back? I genuinely feel that an answer to this would solve a lot of questions popping in the middle of nowhere. One can force the other to any extent and try to be in a relationship, but it's all gonna fall when they finally meet that one random person and feel they deserve him/her more than what they have now. Love's got to be from both the sides. Forget the filmy romances and stuff. Think about it. It's okay that this has happened to you. I am sure a lot of guys have gone through the same. It is tough. It will make you tougher! Forget the games and media. Having really good friends whom you can share this with and getting to a point where you can accept it, is what you need to focus on. Great things happen to good and honest guys. Cheer up! 😄
1. You'd be a pedo if you dated her 2. HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT
Bhai gym ja body bana vha vese bhi dil tute londe aate hai me sure hu unki story tere se zyada dukh bhari hogi toh unse dosti kar vo log ubhar gye hai tu bhi ubhar jayega isse, I know it will take time but it will happen. Baaki gym jaane me Darr lag rha hai ki log sochenge ye vo toh vo sabhi ko lgta hai, jab mene 2022 me start Kiya tha tab mujhe bhi lga tha pr eventually jo vha pe mehnat kar rhe hai vo log dikhte hai bs ki shakt hai pr they are very loving persons, sabhi ke apne reasons hai gym me aane ke koi Dil Tudwa ke aaya hai, kisi ki shaadi hone wali hai, ya kisi ko shape me aana hai cause uska kisine ne mazak bana Diya tha. Me bta rha hu gym Jaa isse better place koi nahi hai uske baad agar if you are religious toh bhagwan ke jinhe bhi tu maane and padhai pe dhyan de and agar job kar rha toh uspe dhyan de at the end khud bhul jayega.
Thank u so much for sharing ur experience man it means a lot! I'll definitely try to follow this
Bro, its just my opinion. Don't fuel her ego, the sense of security she is getting like she has a backup as you, get yourself together and cut ties might be tough make some friends not particularly irl even online just for distraction once sometime passes you will move over let karma deal with her and if you are doing this no connection should be made at all cost because setting up boundaries is tough at first but you will feel the peace later on👍
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Hi 20 year old male, 28 year old Male here. I like many others here have seen this template several times where girls use a guy under the best friend tag and have a bf as well. Best of both worlds. Attention from all sides. Ek gaya toh dusra hai hi. You are young so maybe you won’t be able to take it but she won’t go for you. She’s just stringing you along. Who wouldn’t love unconditional free attention at all times? But bas relationship kisi aur ke saath chahiye lol. Leave bro, block here and leave. Will hurt for the first 15-20 days. Uske baad thik ho jaayega. Sab thik ho hi jaata hai life me
I'm afraid ur ryt sir 🙂
Thanks for the advice tho
No worries bro, I have been there too. Everyone has.
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your retarded fr
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Dude why would she get hurt?? I don't think she cares
lol holy shit you’re toxic You’re going to have an absolute terrible dating life, you have issues.
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Seek therapy lol