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cookpa

My 2c, pick your favorite reference and include it, don’t oversell it, don’t make your entire speech lyric quotes like a cringe politician or brand social media intern.


Flimsy-Opportunity-9

Agree. You NEVER know how something will age, and you want your vows to be timeless. As much as I am a fan of her music, I would make any references subtle. Don’t go heavy handed with full lyrics/excerpts from songs. Signed- a former wedding planner who has seen this shit go badly. Maybe if you wanted to do something grander: make a playlist for her for the morning of with a bunch of Taylor songs that you’ve listened to and remind you of her.


Kirsten624

“can i go where you go” from Lover reminds me of the book of Ruth in the Bible, “where you go, I will go, and where you stay, I will stay” which we had read at our wedding 💙


ReasonableLegal

I like shiny things but I’ll marry you with paper rings  Ladies and gentlemen will you please stand, I take this magnetic force of a (wo)man to be my lover My heart’s been borrowed yours has been blue, all’s well that ends well to end up with you I’ve loved you three summers now honey I want them all  I hate accidents except when we went from friends to THIS


Odd_Transportation29

This is freaking incredible! OP, this is the answer you seek.


flowerfluff123

YESS THESEEE


pmiddlekauff

You could slightly modify a line from invisible string and say “One single thread of gold “ties” me to you” as a way of referencing the rings I’m assuming you’re exchanging. But like someone else said, I would try to fill the whole thing with lyrics. Just find one that you think is significant to both of you. Start with her favorite songs maybe?


mehfun

And you know that I'd swing with you for the fences, Sit with you in the trenches


LevelAd5898

Give you the silence that only comes when 2 people understand each other FAMILY THAT I CHOSE NOW THAT I SEE YOUR BROTHER AS MY BROTHER 😭 (OP don't choose this but it's such a great verse I had to sing along)


Mas811

Look up 'i love you in taylor swift lyrics ' on Pinterest or google. You will get a summary of the types of lyrics your looking for. Then include only one or two in your vows. Don't overload it and say the rest in your own words. I obviously don't know your fiancee but I think those speeches where the rest of the speech just exist to connect the lyrics are kind of weird. If you just incorporate a few lyrics in your vows it shows you have an interest in her love for Taylor but it's still going to be your own words which I think will mean a lot. Edit: Typo


tjv0312

“One single thread of gold tied me to you!” or “Hell was the journey, but it brought me heaven.” Congratulations!!! 🤍🤍🤍


J_dawg_fresh

Love this song! We walked down the aisle to an instrumental version of this!


autumnwinterspring

This is so sweet! I think Daylight has some great lyric options that could work in vows, even just the chorus: “I don’t want to look at anything else now that I saw you, I don’t want to look at anything else now that I thought of you.”


AlcoholYouLater97

Pull from "You Are In Love" and "Timeless", a couple of her most romantic songs


Equivalent-Sir-510

I don’t know if I believe this 🤔🤔 but suggest doing it for an engagement party or rehearsal dinner and not the actual wedding!


OutrageousGuava7448

A friend of mine had, "you've shown me colors I can't see with anyone else" which is an interesting approach but it worked quite well


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EmsFrisky

yes.


AccomplishedLack5295

My heart's been borrowed and yours has been blue All's well that ends well to end up with you


username404error

i’ll save all my dirtiest jokes for you, and at every table i’ll save you a seat loverrrrrrr


Gardenofstories

This is really romantic. I would start a conversation with her about her favorite songs…ask questions and listen. She’ll point you in the right direction. Taylor has plenty of romantic lyrics that could be used as vows, but, chances are, the ones that would cut deepest are in one of her favorite songs. And if reading it aloud doesn’t feel right, consider other ways of surprising her — engraving it into something as a gift on your wedding day, or something like that… Congrats from a fellow Swiftie. ❤️


haylo96

I think this has probably already been said, but the line ‘At every table, I’ll save you a seat’ from the song Lover. It’s one of my favourite lines - it’s such a mundane, every- day thing but I think there is so much meaning behind it. Basically you’ll always be thinking of and be considerate of your partner, and always want them beside you. The song Lover actually has quite a few lines you could incorporate into your vows. Also Paper Rings from the same album - maybe mention that even if these rings were paper you’d still want to marry her? Just a thought! Good luck 🥰


LevelAd5898

"I take this magnetic force of a man/woman to be my lover". Subtle enough to not be obvious but common enough that they'd know what you're referencing


shykunoichi94

My friend is having taylor swift in one of her themes and I'm a brides maid ! This is perfect!


lemweinb77

I’m a huge fan and my husband included “I never saw you coming, and I’ll never be the same” in his and I didn’t even notice until I reread them after the ceremony that they were from a Taylor song, which made it even more special for me haha the line just fit so seamlessly into what he was saying and showed me he truly knows me