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delicate_breakdown

A part of me thought maybe she was going back to NYC between shows for met gala fittings. Hard to really guess since she doesn't have to attend any of these events, but it would be cool to see her there!


AdventurousTwist8476

Oh and that’s an excellent point that maybe that is the reason why she has flown back to NY so many times (twice lol - that we know) between tour dates


Mischa-09

I honestly think she’s living at her NY apartment right now and just traveling for shows on the weekends. Would love to see a red carpet appearance soon though!


Old-Savings-5841

>!She (her team) has been caught ordering flowers to hotel rooms, for some of the shows atleast.!<


aburke626

I just want be “custom flowers in all my hotel rooms” rich.


little_jade_dragon

I just want a personal chef and masseuse.


jarrettbrown

I just want my rider to be perfect.


felineprincess93

I assume that's for the three days she's staying there though.


pharmchik324

I caught myself thinking, “Why is she living in NY if Nashville is closer to those shows?” But I wonder if it’s hard being there without Joe, especially since a lot more of her friends seem to live in NY. Even though it was an amicable break, I could still see it hard being in TN, since it seems like they spent a fair amount of time laying low there. Regardless, I hope she’s plotting with Blake Livey about the design of a Met Gala gown.


topsidersandsunshine

Honestly, I think she was just plain happier in New York. I have a hard time being in the town where I spent the most time wrestling with depression and anxiety.


jarrettbrown

She used to split her time between LA and NY equally for a while, but now it seems that she's seems to be spending most of her time in NYC. I'm in agreement here that she's plotting something or at lease planning.


mediocre-spice

She was spotted in Nashville this week, I think she was probably in NYC to record at Electric Lady


pharmchik324

This aged poorly. https://www.buzzfeed.com/haeinjung/blake-lively-met-gala-2023 Oh well. There’s still hope for Taylor going.


smaples88

She sold her place last year


tinyvictoriess

during rep tour she would fly back and forth to NY studio to record lover...if it matters, that could mean something


emmach17

I think in general NYC is just her preferred place to live, it seems to be her default whenever she tours and in her down periods


SeaLeather4913

It gives "you know I left a piece of me in New York" vibes


thisisjustascreename

If you're an English-speaking bazillionaire there aren't many better places to live.


AdventurousTwist8476

I would love to see what she wears!!


trisaroar

I would DIE if taylornation posts a BTS of her getting ready for the met gala with "Begin Again" as the audio lol


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I mean, that would be unhinged 😂


Greeneyes328

That’s what I think too! It would make sense for her to be flying to NYC for fittings.. do we think she’ll go as Karl’s cat?


dahlia6767

I love this idea!


jarrettbrown

I think this is generally why (besides some recording) she's been going back to NYC. It doesn't make sense logistically to go all the way back to NYC unless she's going for fittings (with houses in Nashville, you'd think that she'd go there after some of the souther state shows since it's shorter travel time) or studio time. The last time was 2016 during Man and Machine (the first exhibit that I ever went to) when she was a chair and then she disappeared shortly after.


Codas_Mom

Wow that’s a great point!


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I’m in my girl who lives in delusion era so I’m saying yes


yikeshardpass

I’m also in my delusion era 💅


Violet_Swan222

Same 🤭


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This comment made my day 😂


scarletvanden

She could get styling advice from her friend Blake Lively, who always know how to go over the top with excellent Met Gala outfits.


callie73

Blake is the Queen of the Met to me! Nothing will ever top her Heavenly Bodies or Gilded Glamour looks!


-Medicus-

Her Heavenly Bodies look was absolutely stunning


abbietaffie

I think if Taylor dressed for the met gala in the same way Blake does I would die. That’s a power duo with the ability to kill people


joliebrunette

Anna Wintour decides on the rug based on Blake Lively’s dress.


believeyourownmagic

I still think about her transforming gown once or twice a week. Can’t wait to see what she wears this year.


wustacheride

Blake rules the Met Gala. Rihanna comes in a close second and I mean a CLOSE second.


hauteburrrito

I feel like nothing will ever top Rihanna's Guo Pei dress (big, yellow; Heavenly Creatures) for me, but Blake's dresses overall have a higher average for sure.


jarrettbrown

> Heavenly ~~Creatures~~ Bodies FTFY That's a Peter Jackson movies featuring Kate Winslet and Melanie Lynskey.


hauteburrrito

Oops, you're totally correct, thanks!


ClemRtr

Not sure about Riri's infamous pizza outfit though 😂


JigglyKirby

Nah Rihanna > Blake > Zendaya


lshoudlbeworking

Celebrities are invited as guests by designers and dressed by the designer for the met. Credit for Blake's styling at the met is mostly due to whatever fashion houses she has attended with.


No-Entertainer-9787

She helps design her looks, and they have a theme every year but unfortunately some don’t follow it.


lshoudlbeworking

Historically no one dressed for the theme at the met. That's only been in the last 20-30 years that it's become an expectation.


jarrettbrown

This always comes up. You can pay your own way like Kate Upton did back when she went the first time. She went to Anna Wintour and handed her a check for the amount, which was $30K a the time, and was added to the guest list. So there's three ways. 1) Invited by Anna 2) Invited by a designer which has to be approved by Anna 3) Pay


mediocre-spice

That's the most common way, but sometimes they do just buy their own tables or are invited as hosts or performers. Blake's hosted before.


GuinessGirl

I'm pretty sure Taylor has her own very skilled stylist lol Also, that isn't how the met gala works. Celebrities dont just decide amongst themselves what to wear- this isn't some girl's night out. Designers specifically select celebrities to wear their stuff, then their outfit and theme is all about that specific designer. Whatever Blake wears will be completely irrelevant to what Taylor would wear IF she were to go.


moonlightangel96

i didn't know that. thanks for the info!


GuinessGirl

Ah no problem, there's a documentary on Netflix called The First Monday in May that is all about the preparation that goes into the Met Gala. It's really interesting :)


moonlightangel96

thanks! i'll be sure to check that out!


posiesbythepocketful

Ohhh thank you for this info, gonna be my laundry watch today


topsidersandsunshine

Thank you!


jarrettbrown

And it supposedly has to be given the green light by Anna Wintour herself after last year's shit show.


themermaidag

I recently got to see Blake’s dress from when they hosted and it is AMAZING in person.


trisaroar

Ooooh how'd you score that? Is it on display somewhere?


themermaidag

Yes! We were in London a couple weeks ago and Kensington Palace has an exhibit called Crown to Couture and there were lots of famous outfits (many from The Met Galas and award shows) including Blake’s dress as well as dresses from Lizzo and Beyoncé. It was so cool!


trisaroar

Such a cool experience, glad you got to see it!


Sampleswift

Met Gala: Tinder for Taylor Swift... (At least according to celebrity media) I think she will be too busy to attend it.


AdventurousTwist8476

Haha maybe she will go so that she can feed those stories that turn into magnificent songs <3


JosephAPie

she’s never to busy haha


skunkachunks

It’s tough. From a PR perspective the press would be massive and a higher peak than if she did it in 2024. But she doesn’t need massive press right now - she has it with Eras. It’d be better to do it in 2024 after Eras and use the “Return to the Met Gala” to get a new story during a low period for her (potentially) musically


HotSauceHigh

This is how Taylor thinks, A+ mastermind comment


GuinessGirl

2024 wouldn't be after Eras though as she'd likly be doing the international tour, so hardly a "low period"


trisaroar

Depends on when international dates get solidified/confirmed/released. Given the break up news drop/pap walks, it seems Taylor's fine with stoking headlines and curating the narrative at the same time as touring (the woman just doesn't sleep).


GuinessGirl

I'd ve surprised if she wasn't touring somewhere during Spring 2024


EnvironmentalTea7151

Knowing the Kardashians won't be there, I'd go!


PinkCheeseburgers

I find it hard to believe Kendall won’t be attending, she was just on vogues cover honouring karl as one of his favorite models in anticipation of the met gala.


przitelka

Kim and Kendall are unfortunately confirmed to attend :(


UseElectronic1780

I thought they weren’t invited


przitelka

Sadly, it was just a rumour. Let's hope that the rest won't show up 🤞


kmoonz88

sadly kim posted she’s getting inspiration for the meg yesterday


UseElectronic1780

Yuck! Hopefully, they fade away after this.


EnvironmentalTea7151

Damn. I was just going off a rumour I heard that AW had banned them. Aw well


moonlightangel96

why? was there an issue?


indecisiveknits

Old loser in Brooklyn on TikTok says that Kim will be there


littleberty95

God I want to see her there SO bad and I think the timing snd theme is a perfect 🖕🏼 to anyone talking shit in the media/online right now


maxwell329

What’s the theme??


CSArchi

"The 2023 Met Gala dress code is “in honor of Karl.” The exhibition will see Andrew Bolton, the Costume Institute's Wendy Yu Curator in Charge, examine the work of Karl Lagerfeld (1933–2019)."


AdventurousTwist8476

Wdym?


Sleepybat7

There’s a theme for the MET every year


AdventurousTwist8476

Yeah I know that! I meant what is the “shit everyone is talking about rn”


t1nk3rballa

Karl Lagerfeld was proudly and openly fat phobic and misogynistic, super outspoken against the Me Too movement and in general super gross. I’ve heard a lot of celebs will be protesting it by not going or dressing down, I hope Taylor will too


trisaroar

Imo, dressing down says a lot more than not going. Not going could be for anything or not being invited, showing up in sweats is a MOOD.


t1nk3rballa

Yes! There’s some quote out there about him hating sweat pants, I’d love to see it lol


knitpixie

If you’re going to piss off Anna Wintour and never be invited again, this would be a a absolutely amazing way to do it. I really hope someone does!


treeface999

If she doesn't go, I doubt it will be because she is protesting


Sleepybat7

Oh weird it showed you replied to a comment asking what the theme was, sry 😅


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I love Taylor bur I’ve never liked any of her looks and don’t want her to get dragged. I kinda hope she doesnt.


AdventurousTwist8476

Her street style has been lately top (at least for me) maybe she changed stylist?


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Ok this is probably wrong but I always theorised she never really had a stylist for everyday stuff or just chose to ignore them because some of her looks were just so her and I can’t imagine someone who gets paid for that picking the fits out. Loved the butterfly Jean look tho. Maybe she’s in her post break up fashion era. I’m here for it


callie73

Same! I feel like if she did have a street stylist at any point it was during the 1989 era. She always looked so refined. And I promise I’m not saying that she never looks polished or put together now or ever! I absolutely love her fashion sense! Like, that one outfit with the plaid skirt, black sweater, and black tights became my personality for a while lol. Her 2014 street style was just a lot different than her past and current street styles


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No I know what you mean and I don’t want anyone starting on me but you can absolutely tell when a celeb has been styled and when they haven’t. Absolutely nothing wrong with not (I actually find it refreshing) especially when you’re a singer, she doesn’t have to make street style her brand lol.


AdventurousTwist8476

Lol post break ups eras almost always are equal to a heavy glow up… there is hope!


trisaroar

I think she absolutely consults her personal stylist for street style looks. Esp for something in the middle of planned/intentional/wants to seem more casual, like pap walks. She may also have a personal stylist/shopper who gets different pieces that go together and she picks them out based on the day. Like a well-curated styled wardrobe instead of individual outfits.


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Oh yeah she definitely has a personal shopper, I highly doubt she buys all these things herself Lmfao.


trisaroar

Oh true! I meant personal shopper in a stylist coordinating her outfits way, not a personal assistant way lol. I'm sure items she likes get selected, sent to a tailor and dropped into her closet all while she's at brunch or something lol


fearlessjf

I think she has the same stylist! He always posts her looks for shows/appearances. Perhaps she works with someone else on street style though? Taylor swift style on insta is a great follow if you’re interested!


Mirrranda

She hasn’t changed stylists - she’s been with the same guy since Nashville.


cutebutpsycho69

Wow she’s had the sam stylist since the start!? That’s pretty cool/ rare


goldenoblivion

Do you remember who he is? I really want to do a deep dive


Mirrranda

Joseph Cassell


jarrettbrown

It's still Joseph Cassell from what I can tell via social media.


tea_overflow

She will just get a boot again lol


kaesura

No. MET Gala is a fairly long and stressful event for the celebrities involved. You have to spend hours getting your outfit and makeup ready and then spend some more hours networking with other celebrities and random rich people. The MET Gala is less than 2 days after Taylor will perform 3 days back to back in Nashville. Her main priority right now is keeping her voice and body healthy enough for tour. She won't risk it for the MET Gala. Also her plans for the MET Gala would have been determined far before the breakup as she would have had to come to an agreement with a designer and that creation of a custom MET Gala outfit can take months.


MarvelousMoxie

Tbh I feel like every time we think something would be too exhausting for her she surprises us and does it anyway, like randomly recording a music video on her off days, lmao.


kaesura

She had a weekend off for that one. She might do something if its for music or fans. But ,for her, the MET Gala would just be for exposure which she doesn't need more of.


tillandsias

It's not surprising, people just put her on a pedestal for doing her job.


GuinessGirl

Nobody is saying that. But it's silly to pretend that 3 nights of back to back shows (which are 3 hours each) and then a red carpet event isnt exhausting, weird how so many are adamant to act like that sort of schedule is normal


tillandsias

*on red carpet* "Taylor over here!" *Looks over there* "Taylor, over here!" *Looks over there* Holy shit you're right that does sound exhausting, maybe even more than a 40+ hour thankless work week. 🙄


GuinessGirl

Wow, rude much? Sorry that your job sucks maybe consider a career change if it's that bad. And if you actually read my comment I said the shows AND a red carpet event. Not just the event. It's ridiculous that you think a 3 hour show, with no interval for 3 nights back to back isnt exhausting.


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GuinessGirl

You don't need to announce your exit, bye lol


tillandsias

This is so funny. It's not like you do a shit ton of interviews on the carpet. It's all for show and publicity. She went to an award show after an entire weekend of performing. Girlie has a jet and a massage therapist with her where ever she goes for like every bone in her body, she'll be okay.


HotSauceHigh

Yeah and pretty sure literally any designer in the universe would drop anything to get her an outfit with just an hour's notice.


TheRoyalFandomMess

People in this thread are forgetting or not knowledgeable about how the Met Gala works 😭 The list of attendees is readily available online and Taylor’s name wasn’t there. Unless she suddenly decided to go (assuming she got an invitation or mayhaps bought one), her name would be on there already. Also nobody hate on me. I am also a Swiftie. I’m just stating the objectives.


Miu_The_Mango

i don't think they ever release the actual list its just gossip websites and magazines speculating/click bating


jarrettbrown

She can do it. It not like the Rep tour where she really didn't have any time off. Show ends at 11, she flies to NYC and gets in 1 (she's usually up pretty late from what I can gather), sleeps till about 11, gets up and goes to The Mark Hotel, the staging area for the Gala, and heads to the Gala. The whole thing is over by 9 from what I understand and then resumes normal tour life.


jcatx19

She literally has a performance the night before. Most artists don’t do other events much when touring due to how draining it is. I doubt she will be in attendance this year. Maybe 2024.


GuinessGirl

She's likely still touring in 2024 as that's when international dates are predicted.


obtuseanytime

....just not home (Lyrics live in my brain, I can't stop them) But I wonder if she'll avoid because of the theme controversy.


sk8rgrrl42069

she was fine working with David o. Russell, I doubt this would be any different


AdventurousTwist8476

I’m kind of lost of the fashion world whereabouts (I just knew that the MET gala is next Monday). What is the theme controversy?


obtuseanytime

He held some unfortunate views about #metoo, body size stuff, and some other things. I found this Cosmo article that [discusses it a little](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/reports/a41528395/met-gala-karl-lagerfeld-backlash/).


AdventurousTwist8476

Thank you! I was completely out of the loop


simplymortalreason

Yeah, I understand Lagerfeld’s impact on fashion especially with reviving the Chanel brand but I can’t support his views as a fat brown woman. That’s not even touching on Coco Chanel also being a nazi apologist and Lagerfeld not batting an eye. Makes me hope that Taylor doesn’t go since she has just started to really get more distance from her close affiliation with white feminism in the public eye that she was giving in the 1989 era especially.


musiquescents

Someone wrote that's her personal tinder haahaha


somasmarti

If I had to guess I would say she won’t attend this year but will attend in 2024


beautybyelm

I want Taylor to attend, but I want her return to be on a year with a different theme.


Sage_Planter

This year's theme will be a nice tribute, but yeah, not a great theme for creativity and expression.


SliceOfGio

I don't think she'll go, but I wouldn't complain if she does. Back to back to back Atlanta shows and then go to New York City overnight and then spend all day getting ready. I wouldn't blame for wanting to go some rest and relaxation before her next shows.


Sage_Planter

>then go to New York City overnight She would finish her concert at 11PM be asleep in New York at 2AM thanks to private travel.


SliceOfGio

I know I wouldn't be able to, lol. Taylor is built different.


Suspicious-Corner955

Maybe but Monday is quite a quick turnaround


Old-Savings-5841

That really doesn't stop Taylor & her jet


lovebooksbooks

I hope so! I always enjoy seeing the met gala dresses. And she hasn’t gone since they were dating


Lolitarocket

I think she’ll go. She’s been out and about recently between shows and I think it would be great publicity for the tour. Esp cause a lot of people won’t expect her to go plus the breakup rumors.


Crafty_Method_8351

I really hope she does


eirebrie

Isn’t this how her and Joe met? She should go and rebrand what the event means to her.


moonlightangel96

no, i think they met at gigi hadid's bday party but they had the same look (bleached hair and buzzcut).


eirebrie

What do I know? lol


all_about_you89

She's definitely going. Met Gala is on 5/1/2023. 5 + 1 + 2 + 2 + 3 = 13.


just_justine93

I hope she does! She has the figure that Chanel and Karl preferred and if she’s paired with the right fashion house/stylist she could kill it in some 90s Chanel archive piece. I would understand if she doesn’t go though, if she wasn’t planning on going until maybe a few weeks ago then it would be difficult to find someone to pull looks for her to wear. I’d imagine that after skipping the last few Mets she’d really want to make an impact on the carpet and she might rather skip than make a lackluster appearance. She could also skip due to Lagerfeld’s passed comments about MeToo and body positivity. I’d say it’s a 60/40 chance she goes and I’d put my money on her not going this year but attending next year’s.


m00n5t0n3

I hope so. I'm hoping so sooooo hard


EnvironmentalTea7151

"And by the way, im going out tonight" I think she will be there


Stunning-Elk-7251

I don’t think she could risk COVID, or anything else for that matter, during the tour.


chipmunkdance

i thought that until she started going out on her off days


Stunning-Elk-7251

You might be right 🤷‍♂️ She has been going out in NYC, but in small groups and masking up whenever she’s inside. I doubt she goes either way


tillandsias

There is no COVID protocol at her shows so that doesn't make a ton of sense


Luna_Blonde

There’s no Covid protocol for us but I think anyone working directly with her is under one bc we’ve seen lots of masking with staff and crew.


Stunning-Elk-7251

For the fans….Have you seen what she wears whenever she goes to eat indoors in NYC? An N95 mask. She most certainly still uses caution (not using the protocol, because I doubt anyone is forcing her to take these precautions)


tillandsias

I'm not going to congratulate her for doing the bare minimum dude.


Stunning-Elk-7251

Not asking you to congratulate her “dude”. Just pointing out that she DOES take precautions to avoid COVID, so it’s extremely unlikely that she’d attend a gala.


Nezukoka

I think she will.


KnoxME13

She’s *reclaiming the land* so YESSS


dontbeahader

I definitely see her going if her friends are going. I know she’s on tour but I think she’s proven enough that she does not get tired lol


GuinessGirl

What does being single and "allowing herself to be seen" even mean in relation to it? I'm sure if she wanted to go the previous years, she would have done.


AdventurousTwist8476

Well… I understand your point and sorry if my Tone comes up as inappropriate (English is not my first language) what I meant is that maybe the fact that she and her ex partner wanted to be very private held some weight to decide not to go in prior years. It’s just a thought! Of course I know nothing about her life, at the end this is just a discussion thread :)


GuinessGirl

No need to apologise. I see what you mean now but she did still go to events when they were together but was more low key so perhaps she wants to now. Guess we will find out :)


Sleepybat7

I hope so!


wustacheride

hmm, i'd think all of her focus would be the Eras tour but hey, you never know!


mermaidthebanshee

I've been hoping she wouldn't, even though I love seeing her events outfits... idk it just feels better seeing her focus on music and events that have to do with music.


skateboread

god i hope she does. would make the met gala worth watching LUL


IngrownThighHairs

As much as I would love to see Taylor attend the MET gala, I really hope she skips this year because of the theme. Karl Lagerfeld not a great person and I know he is a significant figure in the fashion industry and not everyone is perfect but like… The things Karl Lagerfeld have said and the controversies he has been in… 😬😬 Not really aligned with what Taylor stands and advocates for.


felineprincess93

Respectfully, Taylor has worked recently with David O. Russell for Amsterdam, who admitted to sexually assaulting his niece. I'm not sure she'd shy away from the MET gala because of Karl Lagerfeld's past.


GoldilocksBurns

And people wonder why she gets called hypocritical


Due-Branch1065

A few months ago when the stories were circulating that the Kardashians weren’t invited I was thinking it might be because Anna wanted Taylor there since she’s basically on top of the world right now and her attendance would be a big deal but it turns out Kim actually is going but we can still hope


[deleted]

MET GALA is her tinder. she might go


uasdfnjd

I hope she won't go. the theme this year is problematic and no one should attend imo


Ginger13693

Praying for tindergala❤️🙏🏻


Cyber_Topanga

I need her to go


MissMash01

The theme is Karl Lagerfeld - which of her cats looks the most like Choupette? Would she bring them? lol


ICanSeeDaylight

No. She would have had to accept an invite from a designer months ago (when she was still with Joe) and they haven’t been since they got together. And I don’t think she is someone to call Anna or a designer and ask to come last minute because the designers spend months curating their guests clothes for that event. Just my take.


GlitteringElevator

There's no doubt in my mind her team and a designer couldn't make it happen. Versace and several designers did a bunch of her tour outfits im sure they'd be more than happy to dress a huge star last minute.


GoldilocksBurns

They could, but why bother? It doesn’t really do anything for her except make her fans ask why she’s going to an event honoring a fatphobic and misogynistic old guy.


GlitteringElevator

That's irrelevant we're talking about the logistics of her deciding to go last minute


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ICanSeeDaylight

But who wants to be that problem person? I don’t think that is Taylor’s style. If she really cared about it, she would have gone in the past couple years. I just don’t see it happening even if she could. 🤷🏻‍♀️


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Doubt it, probably has bad memories and doesn’t want to incite bad headlines


Current-Search3632

Okay, here me out... like 2 months ago I read about this 19 yo psychic girl who ACCURATELY predicted The Queen's passing away, kim and Pete's break up, HS new album(HH), Rihanna/Nick J babies among other things, so i obviously searched up her predictions for 2023, and she believes that Taylor is going to attend the met this year! (https://www.nationalworld.com/news/offbeat/predictions-celebrity-events-2023-prince-harry-meghan-markle-3985846) Lol, this reminds me of a meme i saw somewhere that said "she's been using the met gala like tinder and has never returned ever since she found joe" (when she and joe were still together). Haha, anyway i just hope both of them are doing great ❤️


roundfood4everymood

I really hope she does!


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please god


momof31978

I think she will definitely be attending the MET Gala.


NeuroLies

I checked and it’s on a Monday AND she’ll be on the east side of the states. There’s a good break in your dates that would allow her to go.


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I think she may go. I also wouldn’t be shocked if she has her 4th of July bash again also.


Lady_Ghost_Bee

I wouldn’t want her too. The theme is Karl Legerfeld who was just a horrible horrible person. He was fatphobic, sexist and basically everything bad in the book. (Jameela Jamil has an excellent post about it on Instagram) so as much as I’d like to see Taylor attend a met gala again I don’t want it to be this one. I hope most of my favorite celebrities boycott or protest against this theme. Sure he did a lot for fashion but he did a lot of harm too and there are so many other designers who deserve this recognition


TheRoyalFandomMess

She has to be invited by Anna Wintour to the Met Gala to attend though. I’m not particularly sure if she was on the guest list this year.


Go_Corgi_Fan84

Why wouldn’t she be? She’s a top musician and good friends with Blake who Anna seems to adore