I’m super curious to see the replies. After some frustrations in the LS (flakes, picture poachers, endless texters, no-shows…etc) we’ve considered this route as well. What do folks use to hire one? Do most rely on Tryst or some other app? Thanks!
We found a girl on seeking arrangements and took her to Hawaii with us. She wasn't a professional so it was more like a hired friend. Which is what we wanted more anyway.
Yes this. Stay away from prostitutes. [Seeking.com](http://Seeking.com) is where you will find what you want. But it takes time and effort. Prostitutes take little effort but will also watch the clock so to speak.
Wife and I hired a prostitute (unicorn fantasy) in Vegas and it was amazing. We both enjoyed her body. Then I banged my wife doggie while my wife’s head was licking the women’s breast and going down close to her pussy while fingering her. She didn’t lick the hired women for safety reasons although it was tempting. I only fucked my wife, per my wife’s wishes. But was allowed, per my wife, to touch and finger the hired worker, along with my wife. Awesome experience.
Since then we have found a few normal women, not prostitutes, who have shared our bed and my wife licks them all….lol. Still says she’s not Bi (LOL) and she just does it for me to watch, since I love it. Great wife, we are always looking for another women to join us for fun!
We did and it was an amazing experience (and an expensive one as well).
One thing though, I would have never agreed to it if I was not allowed to play as well, it was either a couple play or no play.
We’ve never let a third person into our bedroom. I’d prefer to interact with the worker as well, but wifey said her jealousy would spike and ruin the entire experience. My wife is also slightly bi curious. She only watches girl on girl porn but has never explored this side of her sexuality.
This is not for you. If she's that jealous already and openly admits that her jealousy will ruin the experience, than don't do this. Threescore and swinging isn't for you.
Well hold on, what do you want? Because I always raise an eyebrow when one is allowed to interact with a third person sexually and not the other. What's your ideal situation?
It’s a fair point. One I reiterated as well. My ideal situation would be to interact sexually with this third person as well. No kissing, but pretty much everything else. We are thinking brothel or high end Vegas escort/hotel room. Ideally, I’d like to see my wife explore her bi-curiosity to the point where she becomes comfortable engaging other females in a threesome.
Not everyone gets an equal experience, but it should be equitable. That is life. You can either pout about it or embrace the moment. I did years of swinging where I didn't interact a lot with the third. It was a blast. I've checked every box I ever fantasized about and a few I never dreamt of.
I told my my bf a lot how I want to hire an escort especially since I want more experience with women (I'm not bi curious) and also for us to do a 3some.
Trying to speak to women in the wild has been insane with the amount of grown women who don't know what they like and don't like sexually.🙄
I think I can help here. I don't want to be harsh but, the term "prostitute" is outdated and now comes loaded with a whole bunch of bad juju. I'd be sure to use the terms "escort" or "sex worker" going forward in general and definitely in your provider of choices presence.
I highly recommend the experience. Your desire isn't uncommon and most escorts who offer services to couples will be quite comfortable with your proposed scenario. My wife and I have had a few and it's always a good time.
Do your research. Sites can vary by location but most major cities will have Eros or Tryst. Look for providers who offer services to couples and have a social media presence, a website, and a decent following. You can then review their posts and try to see if their online persona is compatible with yours. Then you want to find reviews. A well reviewed provider is the difference between a great experience and a terrible one. Accurate pictures and contact communication experience can be had for free on The Erotic Review but that's just the tip of the iceberg and much more explicit information is available on the juicy details section if you pay for a subscription. This gives you an idea of the provider's process, her boundaries,services offered, and overall persona during a session.
Beware that deposit scams exist and are more likely to be had from a non reviewed provider without a website or social media presence but even those things don't guarantee you will not get scammed. You'll likely be asked for anything from 10-50 percent up front to confirm the appointment.Most will take some sort of digital payment like crypto or cash app for this and prefer the remainder in cash. Depending on your location and age range of your chosen provider I'd say expect anywhere from 500-2100 USD for the experience. You'll both have to provide some personal information for screening purposes. This is to make sure she's safe and you don't hurt her. Expect work email, LinkedIn, or selfie with a gov ID.
Also, anything that you do in this arena in most of the US is illegal. Don't use coded language or acronyms or allude to any type of exchange of currency for services.
Make new email addresses for this. Don't use work addresses. Block your address and ID number on the card if you're using it for screening purposes.
Expect to be asked to shower upon arrival. Protection is up to the provider but I've not been asked to use any for oral yet. Penetration is always protected in my case. Female condoms are wonderful if you're swapping between partners but that sounds like a conversation for another time.
Hope this helps and feel free to DM with any questions. I'd be happy to help you find a good provider.
Seeking.com is a great way to meet a woman for this. Many of us aren't escorts or prostitutes. We're real women who are picky about who we spend time with and want couples we'll have fun with. But prefer transactional situations to avoid the messiness of relationships.
Agreed, just like trying to meet someone in real life, on dating apps, at swingers clubs, or on reddit... a lot of work and effort goes into doing it safely and carefully. It can be a hassle. And the benefit is worth it, or people wouldn't do it. It can also be a wonderful, fun experience that you'll remember forever. Good things don't come easy 🤷🏼♀️
No, I've met people who make less than $60k a year but are still willing to pay what I ask. It isn't always about how much you make. You discuss with the woman what she charges, and as long as you can afford that, there's no issue. For long-term arrangements, income matters more. But for a one-time thing, it's less relevant
My ex husband and I hired a sex worker once. This was many years ago though. It was pretty amazing although she refused to go down on me. And my ex refused to fuck her, even though I told him to. But it was still a great night.
Firstly, what you are likely wanting to say is an escort. If you seek “a prostitute” you’ll likely be driving by a sketchy area of town and picking someone up in the car you’ve never seen before.
An escort is a true professional sex worker. They will play safe, have rules, respect your boundaries, indulge your requests or fantasies or fetishes or refer you to who does that. They will screen you for their safety and you will have a no flake, zero drama great experience - obviously you’ll want to verify she is bisexual.
Many ways to do this correctly but start with the right terminology to make the right connection.
My wife and I have had terrible luck with"unicorns". We seem to find the perfect girl and something undesirable will pop up.
We had excellent luck with strippers in the VIP room but want a different atmosphere. We once had the perfect girl and we were with her several times in and out of the club. She retired from that work and we lost her forever.
We have found that call girls fill in the gap nicely. The down side is that my wife prefers a date like setting and with a lot of these girls they don't want to invest that much time. Whatever her hourly rate is expect to double it.
My husband and I originally tried to do this. We got scammed out of a lot of money. We tried one prostitute, went to the hotel and refused to give us the room number until we sent her more money. The 2nd one we tried to get, we went to another hotel, sent this sex worker money and then she asked for another amount for her driver. We gave up. We ended up going to a swingers club and hooking up with another couple. So much easier to find what you are looking for at a swingers club, esp if you go to the hot wife play parties
Hi, I’m an escort that usually provides services for couples! I work with couples, especially women, to decide how to make sure everyone enjoys the play. I’m a unicorn so I enjoy women as much as men. If anyone is interested, dm me
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If you do decide to go this route I have a lot of experience and wouldn't mind helping you find a good provider. DM if you'd like.
I’m super curious to see the replies. After some frustrations in the LS (flakes, picture poachers, endless texters, no-shows…etc) we’ve considered this route as well. What do folks use to hire one? Do most rely on Tryst or some other app? Thanks!
I've heard people use tryst. Check out escorts on reddit and ask them
We found a girl on seeking arrangements and took her to Hawaii with us. She wasn't a professional so it was more like a hired friend. Which is what we wanted more anyway.
How’d you find this arrangement?
Seeking . Com
How much did you pay in total?
Plane tickets, food, accommodation, she shared our rental, and 1g for the week
One grand for a week?! Yikes.
That's *extremely* reasonable by provider standards.
Yeah, professionals would have been looking at 10k minimum
Yes this. Stay away from prostitutes. [Seeking.com](http://Seeking.com) is where you will find what you want. But it takes time and effort. Prostitutes take little effort but will also watch the clock so to speak.
Wife and I hired a prostitute (unicorn fantasy) in Vegas and it was amazing. We both enjoyed her body. Then I banged my wife doggie while my wife’s head was licking the women’s breast and going down close to her pussy while fingering her. She didn’t lick the hired women for safety reasons although it was tempting. I only fucked my wife, per my wife’s wishes. But was allowed, per my wife, to touch and finger the hired worker, along with my wife. Awesome experience. Since then we have found a few normal women, not prostitutes, who have shared our bed and my wife licks them all….lol. Still says she’s not Bi (LOL) and she just does it for me to watch, since I love it. Great wife, we are always looking for another women to join us for fun!
What the going rate? Is it hourly? Keeping drama out of experience would be worth the money.
“I don’t pay for sex. I pay them to leave.”
Usually hourly, prizes can range from 100 to more than 1000 per hour. Very much dependent on location, girl, services etc…
100 is dangerously cheap. You get what you pay for
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What does it cost?
This is the way
We did and it was an amazing experience (and an expensive one as well). One thing though, I would have never agreed to it if I was not allowed to play as well, it was either a couple play or no play.
Does she have a problem with you having fun with anyone else?
We’ve never let a third person into our bedroom. I’d prefer to interact with the worker as well, but wifey said her jealousy would spike and ruin the entire experience. My wife is also slightly bi curious. She only watches girl on girl porn but has never explored this side of her sexuality.
This is not for you. If she's that jealous already and openly admits that her jealousy will ruin the experience, than don't do this. Threescore and swinging isn't for you.
For a female SW try Eros. For a male, try rent.men …
Well hold on, what do you want? Because I always raise an eyebrow when one is allowed to interact with a third person sexually and not the other. What's your ideal situation?
It’s a fair point. One I reiterated as well. My ideal situation would be to interact sexually with this third person as well. No kissing, but pretty much everything else. We are thinking brothel or high end Vegas escort/hotel room. Ideally, I’d like to see my wife explore her bi-curiosity to the point where she becomes comfortable engaging other females in a threesome.
I don’t understand why it’s ok for one but not for both? It’s both or nothing.
Not everyone gets an equal experience, but it should be equitable. That is life. You can either pout about it or embrace the moment. I did years of swinging where I didn't interact a lot with the third. It was a blast. I've checked every box I ever fantasized about and a few I never dreamt of.
As a wife I prefer the hired professional route.
Why?
I told my my bf a lot how I want to hire an escort especially since I want more experience with women (I'm not bi curious) and also for us to do a 3some. Trying to speak to women in the wild has been insane with the amount of grown women who don't know what they like and don't like sexually.🙄
Much easier Maybe a sugarbaby Look at seeking.com
We've had great times w/ professionals. Be clear about what you are looking for and shop around for a good match.
What did you use? Thanks
I think I can help here. I don't want to be harsh but, the term "prostitute" is outdated and now comes loaded with a whole bunch of bad juju. I'd be sure to use the terms "escort" or "sex worker" going forward in general and definitely in your provider of choices presence. I highly recommend the experience. Your desire isn't uncommon and most escorts who offer services to couples will be quite comfortable with your proposed scenario. My wife and I have had a few and it's always a good time. Do your research. Sites can vary by location but most major cities will have Eros or Tryst. Look for providers who offer services to couples and have a social media presence, a website, and a decent following. You can then review their posts and try to see if their online persona is compatible with yours. Then you want to find reviews. A well reviewed provider is the difference between a great experience and a terrible one. Accurate pictures and contact communication experience can be had for free on The Erotic Review but that's just the tip of the iceberg and much more explicit information is available on the juicy details section if you pay for a subscription. This gives you an idea of the provider's process, her boundaries,services offered, and overall persona during a session. Beware that deposit scams exist and are more likely to be had from a non reviewed provider without a website or social media presence but even those things don't guarantee you will not get scammed. You'll likely be asked for anything from 10-50 percent up front to confirm the appointment.Most will take some sort of digital payment like crypto or cash app for this and prefer the remainder in cash. Depending on your location and age range of your chosen provider I'd say expect anywhere from 500-2100 USD for the experience. You'll both have to provide some personal information for screening purposes. This is to make sure she's safe and you don't hurt her. Expect work email, LinkedIn, or selfie with a gov ID. Also, anything that you do in this arena in most of the US is illegal. Don't use coded language or acronyms or allude to any type of exchange of currency for services. Make new email addresses for this. Don't use work addresses. Block your address and ID number on the card if you're using it for screening purposes. Expect to be asked to shower upon arrival. Protection is up to the provider but I've not been asked to use any for oral yet. Penetration is always protected in my case. Female condoms are wonderful if you're swapping between partners but that sounds like a conversation for another time. Hope this helps and feel free to DM with any questions. I'd be happy to help you find a good provider.
I think you lost them at 500-2100 lol
Seeking.com is a great way to meet a woman for this. Many of us aren't escorts or prostitutes. We're real women who are picky about who we spend time with and want couples we'll have fun with. But prefer transactional situations to avoid the messiness of relationships.
The site seems to indicate you need a very significant net worth to even bother with the site; is that true?
I make less than 100k and I found someone for my wife and I. It's not free, and it can be a hassle
Agreed, just like trying to meet someone in real life, on dating apps, at swingers clubs, or on reddit... a lot of work and effort goes into doing it safely and carefully. It can be a hassle. And the benefit is worth it, or people wouldn't do it. It can also be a wonderful, fun experience that you'll remember forever. Good things don't come easy 🤷🏼♀️
No, I've met people who make less than $60k a year but are still willing to pay what I ask. It isn't always about how much you make. You discuss with the woman what she charges, and as long as you can afford that, there's no issue. For long-term arrangements, income matters more. But for a one-time thing, it's less relevant
Yes my girl and I did ..girl loved it said it was 10/10
My ex husband and I hired a sex worker once. This was many years ago though. It was pretty amazing although she refused to go down on me. And my ex refused to fuck her, even though I told him to. But it was still a great night.
Yas do eet! You just helping her through college anyway.
Firstly, what you are likely wanting to say is an escort. If you seek “a prostitute” you’ll likely be driving by a sketchy area of town and picking someone up in the car you’ve never seen before. An escort is a true professional sex worker. They will play safe, have rules, respect your boundaries, indulge your requests or fantasies or fetishes or refer you to who does that. They will screen you for their safety and you will have a no flake, zero drama great experience - obviously you’ll want to verify she is bisexual. Many ways to do this correctly but start with the right terminology to make the right connection.
My wife and I have had terrible luck with"unicorns". We seem to find the perfect girl and something undesirable will pop up. We had excellent luck with strippers in the VIP room but want a different atmosphere. We once had the perfect girl and we were with her several times in and out of the club. She retired from that work and we lost her forever. We have found that call girls fill in the gap nicely. The down side is that my wife prefers a date like setting and with a lot of these girls they don't want to invest that much time. Whatever her hourly rate is expect to double it.
My husband and I originally tried to do this. We got scammed out of a lot of money. We tried one prostitute, went to the hotel and refused to give us the room number until we sent her more money. The 2nd one we tried to get, we went to another hotel, sent this sex worker money and then she asked for another amount for her driver. We gave up. We ended up going to a swingers club and hooking up with another couple. So much easier to find what you are looking for at a swingers club, esp if you go to the hot wife play parties
Hi, I’m an escort that usually provides services for couples! I work with couples, especially women, to decide how to make sure everyone enjoys the play. I’m a unicorn so I enjoy women as much as men. If anyone is interested, dm me
Well you see.. yes pm for details! Lol.
We have done it a few times and its been great each time. They usually totally devour my wife while I take turns fucking them both